+Catriona Moffat it's an inside joke from Game of Thrones!! xD I died laughing when she did that. You should watch the original video. Look up "Cersei walk of shame".
+Victoria Pichon hey, wanna hang out? I am a fun loving guy that has absolutely now interest in committing murder.Let's have a nice evening together(and rest assured that the evening will end up with you back at your house, safe and sound) let's have fun in my magical world of not killing anybody,for any reason. before we meet I am obliged by the law to tell you that I am a 2 times convicted sex offender, but I am cured now. I have another hobby, and it has nothing to do with murder.
Caro Strickland hey, wanna hang out? I am a fun loving guy that has absolutely now interest in committing murder.Let's have a nice evening together(and rest assured that the evening will end up with you back at your house, safe and sound) let's have fun in my magical world of not killing anybody,for any reason. before we meet I am obliged by the law to tell you that I am a 2 times convicted sex offender, but I am cured now. I have another hobby, and it has nothing to do with murder.
@ everyone in the comments shaming her for not mentioning that she's trans: SHE 👏 DOES👏 NOT👏 HAVE 👏TO 👏DISCLOSE 👏THAT! 👏She is under no obligation to tell some random person she's on a date with that she's trans. Get this through your fucking thick skulls. Do cis guys with small penises let women know they have small penises before they go on dates with them? No, because someone else's genitals are none of your goddamn business. Do women with breast implants have to disclose that on a date? No, because their breasts are their own business. I could list a million examples, TBH, but the bottom line is: your body is your business and you share what you want to share about your body, regardless of whether you're trans or cis. It's not "tricking" anyone. Your body is your body and if people can't handle it the way it is, fine, but that's their loss.
No, you are wrong. Plain and simple. It was misleading and you know it. Regardless of if what is going on with your body is someones business or not you know fucking well that the guy thought he was going out on a date with a woman. Comparing breast implants, small penises, or anything of that nature to this situation is idiocy and basically an excuse that doesnt even fall in the same ballpark. The MOMENT there was any physical contact it should have been made clear as its just plain rude, a lie and basically hypocritical to have not informed the person, in this case the guy, as it would also be required if the rolls were reversed etc, that you were physically male. That allows the other person to make the decision whether they want to continue or not. Finding out after the fact makes the person feel lied to, betrayed, and violated. Pull your head out of your ass.
+Bernardo Côrtes woahhh chilllll. No where in my comment did i say anything about trans people being ugly. I just never would have known that she's trans if she hadn't said anything i was just giving a compliment. I'm a true believer in happiness within. Please don't turn my compliment into something ugly & negative. She's beautiful & i'm happy for her. I support & love the LGBT community. I didn't mean to offend anyone.
You seriously have the perfect voice! I love when trans women speak in their natural range, it sounds so much better and I think it's helps a lot with passing. You can just hear the masculine undertone when they speak in their high voice, but you speak in your natural range with just perfect female inflection. You're very blessed!
This has got to be by far the most disgusting comments section i have ever seen on youtube, and that's saying a lot. She has no obligation to tell him until things get serious. Just as a woman has no obligation to tell someone that she is on her period unless it becomes explicitly relevant to the situation. Or how a woman has no obligation to tell the person she is on the date with that her breasts are not 100% real. Or how a balding man has no obligation to tell his date that he is wearing a toupee. Or how a person has NO obligation to tell the person they are on a date with that they are infirtile. The only reason people here find this situation different is because they are disgusting and bigoted. Plain and simple.
+hasani hall Trans women ARE real women. Are you saying that the only reason you take women out on dates and "spend money on them" is because they have a vagina? Are you seriously so shallow and superficial? If you're only pre-requisite for a life long partner is that she has a hole between her legs, then that really says a lot about you and what you value in people. Women don't exist purely for you to fuck them. Vagina =/= woman, penis =/= man. Maya is a beautiful all-round HUMAN and her future partner is a lucky man.
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AngelxAnastasia By the way, you can see that I'm talking about the guy, not myself. I'm actually asexual, meaning I wouldn't give a shit what is between your legs, because I rather not find out. unless it was something completely away from sex. Lgbt wants respect, you have to respect others as well, as their opinions, not the fucked up homophobes, but yeah, know what I mean.
I agree only time you should say is if your getting physical just so theres no surprises, and if you are dating and think its going to be and or is serious because that is a big thing to not tell but yes i agree you dont need to say right up front that your trans
michaela mccoy that's different. biological sex is very important and relevant in the dating world. it's depraved to deceive someone and waste their time if they're straight and you're passing as another sex.
One word: RECIPROCITY. Reciprocity is when someone Leaves You Feeling Obligated to do something because they did something for you. So many of us ladies (and even some guys) have learned this lesson the hard way. Just because he took you to a nice dinner, doesn't give him the right to violate your body of personal space. The fact that he didn't bother to text you back is a sign that he's a fraud. He faked chivalry, manners and boosting your confidence, because he thought he could get in your pants that way. But it was a valuable experience, so long as you learn from this lesson.👍 You're def my new favorite UA-camr! 💙
+Anna May Yep, that's reciprocity. He takes her to a upscale place, insists on a corner table, which makes her feel special and goes through all the chivalrous motions she secretly hoped for, without skipping a beat. When we break it down, all he did was buy her a beer or two, but it's the way in which he did it that made her feel as though she owed him something in return. And he fucking knew that from the very moment he put his number in her phone. Disgusting.
Katie Garber uh no, that's a man. no matter how much makeup HE puts on, or how many times he has his body mutilated by doctors to RESEMBLE a woman, he will always be a man. it's like calling a dog a cat. can you turn a dog into a cat? no, so can we literally turn a man into a woman? no we can't. we can make a man RESEMBLE a woman, but he'll never be a woman
Hey it's almost 2017 and this is America. We are accepting of everything today. Obviously, there are still some pretty ignorant people today, but we can fix that. You're right, putting makeup on a man doesn't make them a woman. You know why? Because makeup is for everyone. Anyone who identifies as a woman is a woman. There you go. It is very sad that some women can't have children because they weren't born with a woman's biology. But does that make them any less of a woman? Same goes for someone who wasn't born with all of the "parts" most people have in that gender. She is what she says she is and fuck you for making her, or any other girl, feel less.
to the people commenting that she should have disclosed the fact that she is trans BEFORE going on a date: no one is obligated to disclose personal information. she isn't lying to anyone. she is being safe. do you need to tell someone before a first date that you're divorced? or that you're parents died when you were young? or that you have herpes or something? NO. because how do you know that they're even interested in you? or that you're even interested in them. most importantly, as a trans women, she has to look out for herself, because there are people out there who can AND will try to hurt her just because she is transgender. (and judging by some of the comments, its clear that there are several of those types of people who would love to do so right here.) back to the "lying and deceiving" thing....even if a guy is attracted to her, that doesn't change their sexual orientation. they find a WOMEN attractive. that makes them straight. you don't fall in love with someones body parts. you fall in love with someone for who they are as a person. not all men have dicks, and not all women have vaginas. period. whether its a birth defect, or a gender issue, or maybe your dick or vagina fell off in an accident? that doesnt make you any more or less of a man or women.
Also many trans people may simply wish to remain in stealth mode, until they're confident and ready if at all, to divulge such personal, confidential and sensitive information, that could be used as harmful ammunition against them thereafter such a personal reveal....
A lot of people that are not trans feel insecure in that type of situations as well, so don't worry, you are gonna find someone who loves you from head to toe
OH MY GOD. "ASK A DEEP PHILOSOPHICAL QUESTION" "WHATS YOUR FAVORITE ANIMAL" MAYA I AM DYING. :'DD You're so gorgeous and awesome. I'm so glad I subbed.
I agree trans people shouldn't have to expose that. But if you don't, you put yourself at a lot lf risk. A lot of transgirls are attacked because they don't share.
As much as I hate to say it, I'm glad you had this experience. I mean, it shouldn't have gone that far if you weren't comfortable with it, but I'm just SO glad (for you) that he didn't go... further? Anyway, I hope you continue to get out there and just have some casual dates, cuz you're fun and cute and altogether awesome! Take care, Maya!
i just want to put this out there. no matter how gentlemanly or nice or sweet a guy is, you should never feel like you owe him anything or that you HAVE to do something in return. it's not right.
I, a cis woman, have never gone up to a stranger and told them how my genitals look so of course neither should you have to. If people think you do, then that's just them being absurd.
On my first date with my current boyfriend I ran out of questions and got nervous and I blurted out " so do u like bread " and we kinda began from there lol
***** First off, I changed "bigot" to "moron" a few seconds after posting, because moron obviously fits you better. But YES, melaxxrie, you can be a bigot because of your opinions. In fact, that's what bigotry is: stupid opinions. Like racist idiots who hold the "opinion" that black people are lazy. Is that really too complicated for your infantile mind to comprehend? (You really _are_ a *moron.*) And it's also perfectly clear that you ARE a bigot, *because you act as though calling someone "gay" is an insult.* "Gay" is only an insult to bigots, you feckless moron! Grow up.
My advice to any female not wanting sex on a first date is to make your early dates during the day and without alcohol. For instance, meet at the zoo, for coffee and a bagel, at a book store, take horseback riding lessons together, and so on. The whole sex question really does not come up as soon when you do that.
+boo boo Dude. Like wtf. No one needs this negativity she's just telling a story. Your opinion is irrelevant and hurtful. If you want to shame trans people write it in your diary, not on an innocent girl's youtube video.
Ahhh thank you, I'm from the UK but that lipstick will be mine! Btw, your videos are great, I love watching them and you've really opened my eyes to the transgender community
Maya sweet cakes let big sister give you some advice. Please BEFORE you get into a kissing session with someone, tell them that you are trans. The reason I say that is bec some guys will react aggressively if they kiss, touch, or more and you tell them after the fact. They can injure you. Their reaction may not be appropriate if you don't tell them before hand. I have heard of guys saying things like, wtf I kissed a dude?! Bec they don't get that you are female. Just looking out for you babe. I like your gentle voice and how you tell stories. Hugs!
This is the first time I've been able to listen to someone's story on youtube (completely) without getting annoyed. I think a lot of it had to do with how your voice just sounds so calm and not obnoxious. I enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing :)
honestly you didnt owned him any makeout session lol but you should have told him that you are trans bc thats really a personal thing for anyone, to makeout.. talk.. go on a date etc.., the other person also has the right to know that you know
Mona vakakak um, maybe next not because some men can literally get dangerously violent if you tell them and they are suddenly insecure about their own manhood since they were attracted to the trans person involved. It makes more sense to tell someone only if or when you feel that it's safe! Like, maybe after a first date or three if it's even going to end up going somewhere perhaps more serious! She is essentially protecting her life
Wow this is the first time seeing your channel omg if would not have told me I would not have know you were a transgender person p.s your hair is goals 💁😄😄😄😄
It's just not a good idea to make out with a guy without disclosure first. You have no idea how they'll react, nor what it does to their psyche 2 years down the road.
It is only the decent thing to do. It's fine if you're so non-judgemental and open-minded that you sincerely don't understand a possible problem. The truth is, we are still very far away from a point where a majority of men would not care to find out they have been exchanging bodily fluids (e.g. spit) with a person who was also born male. In a country (USA) where you have to worry about sb pulling a gun on you for cutting them off in traffic, this kind of thing sure seems like an especially bad idea. A very non-subtle gut-level reaction is to be expected, when feeling your manhood/integrity compromised.
the shame-pan made my day and even though the video is quite long I really enjoyed listening to you. You have a pretty voice :) and I'm also glad that things didn't get really serious on your date like the "real shit" happening :)
Extremely nice, intellectual, smart, philosophical, asking deep questions, so eager to touch you, making himself seem like a big hot shot, handsome, nice clothes, nice car, smooth talking, persuasive, too good to be true. This guy was manipulating you left and right. Every time you let him touch you he takes it up a notch. He's seems to be more concerned with sex. He makes you think that you can trust him. MAYA THIS GUY WAS A PSYCHOPATH!!!!!!!!
I THINK, I DONT KNOW, BUT I SUSPECT YOU COULD BECOME A HOLLYWOOD STAR, OR CELEBRITY! I THINK YOUR. PRETTYIER THAN PARIS HILTON. I APPOLOGIZE IF IVE OFFENDED ANYONE. THATS JUST THE WAY I SEE YOU. YOUVE EVEN GOT THE MANNERISMS OF A WOMAN. IM GOB SMACKED, HOW DID YOU DO IT? IM MESMERIZED, AND.YOUR FUNNY TEE, HEE!
+MrDpsc It implies that there's a "look" to being trans, and places importance on visuals & appearing to be cis. All are unrealistic & in the case of "passing" as cis, often unattainable for some. "Passing" shouldn't matter. (A trans girl that doesn't look like a cis girl is still a girl & their identity is still valid.) There's a lot that goes into why it's an ignorant thing to say.
+Evelyn V While I agree that the focus should not be on passing (It doesn't matter how feminine you look since a) a trans girl is a girl period and b) not all cis girls look super feminine either ). I would personally want to look as feminine as possible and would be happy if other people thought I did. There shouldn't be a focus on it but every transgender should decide for themselves if they consider it a compliment or not just as some transgender care more about looking according to their gender and others chose not to transition at all. I wouldn't make general statements for a whole group of people who are all individuals with individual opinions. It is still probably not advisable to assume that it's a compliment and there are definitely better ways to compliment beautiful women as her than to say she easily "fools" people.
***** There obvioiusly is a look to being trans, otherwise there wouldn't be any reason to get surgery, plain old hormone suplements should be enough. I'm no trans, but I'd assume they want to look as much like the gender they identify with, don't they? The alternative to "passing as a woman" would be the opposite "not passing as a woman"; Surely that's not a compliment either (and would seriously damage anyone's confidence). So basically, whatever you say about a trans person's look, it's insulting. Some would call this a sign of being oversensitive and not wanting to confront reality ...
MrDpsc I never said "passing as a woman" I said "passing as cis". We should not have to mimic cis people for respect. Some people are visibly trans. Some people are genetically gifted. Some people work really hard to look the way they want. There is no ONE look to being trans, just like there's no ONE look to being cis. If you're ignorant, and anything you say shows this ignorance, then yes everything you say is probably insulting. Better yourself. im1595 You are so close. Are you trans, or are you just criticizing a trans woman on trans politics?
Dear Maya, you look absolutely gorgeous! I can't believe you achieved so much in just a little over a year! You have definitely mastered the art of facially feminizing make-up! Your lips, your eyes, your hair, even your voice and body language! You should be proud of yourself. I'm so happy for you. If I was young and single, I would ask you out in a heartbeat, if I had the nerve to approach someone as lovely as you!
Loved your story, but a little worried about being stuck with no ride if you had to come out to him somehow. I'm glad it went well for you. pretty girl , hugs
I have a 21 year old daughter and that was so hard to watch! I'm glad nothing terrible happened, but that guy gave me a bad feeling. It sounds like you learned a lot. As a mom I can't help myself I recommend meeting friends and potential dates not at bars. Haha
If you're making out with someone... then YES>.. you are obligated to tell them. If you're just talking or hanging out.. then I will give you no... you don't need tell them. But if you're going to be doing anything physical then the person does have a right to know.
I just found this channel and was like wow, she has a unique deep voice. then you said you're trans and i'm like, bish wut?! lol! teach me your ways, make up on POINT!
I think this was an anicdote for every single date/hookup i've ever experienced like really cool and then i forget everything and get absorbed back into the world, but also the other way around frum the guy and girls prespective.
No, if you're trying to date someone of the same sex when you a posed as the opposite sex (you are a male/female, genetically), you need to tell them you are a transgender, or calling yourself a woman/man when in you are really not before the date. I'm not hating, I'm just saying the truth.
Absolutely loved the story! It is understandable why the guy was being forward, I mean how could one resist you: funny, charming, attractive and pure of heart (at least from what I can tell in 20 min.). Lucky fella he was for the evening. Perhaps it was for the best that you pulled the plug, it's like I try to tell my daughter, "Don't give yourself away and don't tell all right of the bat". Will definitely want to hear more stories. Thanks, Bo
when you went like, he was too good to be true and started pointing out his atractive traits, i swear to god i started lookin at myself and went like "then how the hell do i exist, maybe im fake ahahahhahah" god.... im fucking awesome, and so are you, wish ya luck on your life maya!
Just from a personal point of view. You contradicted yourself so many times. And that could be so confusing for younger audiences. "I didn't want to do it", "it was so intense" "it was nice" "he didn't even text me back sort of thing.... Making it sound like he pressured you into things but you enjoyed it? and even if he did why contact him again the next day? :/ just a quick note on how annoyed this made me.
When some guy takes you out to dinner. You are repaying the person with your presence there. You are never obligated to anything more. Not even a kiss. That was my advice when I talk to my daughter about this subject. Also, you have to be careful going out that late at night. There are a lot of dangerous people out there. So, Please be safe. Love your story. However, the shame thingy was a too much. it became annoying after a while) Overall, as a dad. I want you to be safe, so please consider my advice. Take care Maya.
A gentleman never presses his desire on a first date. He was looking for sex, only. Complicated situation, good lesson for you....never compromise yourself. Be yourself...a beautiful, and attractive, intelligent woman.
As a male who likes females and would think that you are a very attractive "female" I wanted to say something.. kind of my 2 cents. I have zero issues with you being who you are. Must take a strong person to go against what most people consider the "norm" and take the steps that you are taking to be who you are. That being said when you state that you do not feel that you need to tell a guy that you are trans on the 1st.. 2nd.. ect ect.. date you are wrong. It is not just like the examples of thing from your past that you wouldnt talk about on a 1st date. Its beyond more serious of a subject then anything you mentioned x's 10000000000. A guy should know who you are from the start because the majority are going to freak out when they find out that they have been making out with a trans. (not saying its right or wrong.. but its how it is) and if you are not careful one of those guys may just freak out beyond what you could control. Being trans should be the top topic when you 1st meet a guy and if you feel its not "important" then you need to sit down and rethink how you look at things. Again... just my 2 cents.
jtman04401 im a trans woman, i am passable in the sense tht people usually cant tell tht im trans right off the bat. While i know where u are coming from, you also should know where maya and us trans women are coming from. First off all, when meeting a guy at a bar, we are under no obligation whatsoever to tell them we are trans, simply because its no ones business unless things going to get physical and sexual. Im not going to tell every tom dick n harry tht im trans or any intimate details about them unless im having sex with them..To say tht we must disclose tht too every guy we met is the epitome of male entitlement. I do however think tht trans women should disclose that if she and the guy are both interested in doing something intimate including kissing..maybe maya just doesnt feel comfortable to tell because things can move so fast in tht dating situation..before she knew it the guy went in for a kiss n they were already making out..give the girl a break..Personally i tell men early on sometimes even before going on a date not because i need to but because i want to save my time in case he isnt interested in trans women.. hope i make sense to you..xoxo Rania
If you are in a sexual encounter, IT SHOULD BE IMPORTANT to talk about these things. Seriously. Any STI/STD is very important. Even if you don't intend to start a relationship, it is still important to discuss sex related information.
OMGGGG I'M SO BLUSHING WITH YOUR STORY! That'll be a dream come true for me. And ignore those people who criticize u, you're just a human! U know what I mean
I'm a straight dude, I saw this vid due I couldn't believe how someone transgender can have that face. Your face is gorgeous, beautiful. A huge advice for u is to always disclose that u r a transgender woman before make out, because for a straight man that is a very serious issue.
+Son Gohan No its not...She is a woman, being born XY doesnt change that. Im dating a trans girl who didnt feel she wants to tell me (she doesnt know that i know).
listening to this story I got scared for you Maya... :/ that date was quite risky! because if he found out that you are a trans, he COULD have reacted very very negatively or maybe even violently towards you...sadly as you know,many people are not open minded and accepting towards it... :/ im happy it all went good though!!! please be careful in the future! and stay safe. I'm saying this because I care. ilysm ♡
The vibe i get is that this guy only wants to baaang lol but good job on your part stopping things when you weren't comfertable! Noone should ever feel obligated to things like that
+Joanna Śnieżna I feel like I've made a friend with her catching up with her Vlogs on UA-cam too and we've not even met, not very likely we ever will physically since I'm British she seems like an ideal lady to have as a friend :)
I know what you have been through and it was much more difficult when I started being female full-time back in 1966. But stick with it and learn from your experiences. I am 66 now and have been married to a wonderful man. We adopted 7 children and had a great family. Unfortunately, my hubby died in an auto accident 20 years ago. But I raised my children and they are now all happily married (well, 1 went through a divorce and still isn't married). So, it's been good. I have tried dating again, but I find all the guys, my age, are exceptionally strange and weird. So, I realize I won't remarry now and that's OK.
Girl the anticipation was killing me!!!! I was so scared for you!
same
+Rena G me too ikr
that shame thing is so annoying😂
Shame.
Shame
shame
It's from Game of Thrones. 😉
+Catriona Moffat it's an inside joke from Game of Thrones!! xD I died laughing when she did that. You should watch the original video. Look up "Cersei walk of shame".
I need a gif of that 'shame' clip.
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+Victoria Pichon hey, wanna hang out? I am a fun loving guy that has absolutely now interest in committing murder.Let's have a nice evening together(and rest assured that the evening will end up with you back at your house, safe and sound) let's have fun in my magical world of not killing anybody,for any reason. before we meet I am obliged by the law to tell you that I am a 2 times convicted sex offender, but I am cured now. I have another hobby, and it has nothing to do with murder.
+brokenxbones that was magical
Caro Strickland hey, wanna hang out? I am a fun loving guy that has absolutely now interest in committing murder.Let's have a nice evening together(and rest assured that the evening will end up with you back at your house, safe and sound) let's have fun in my magical world of not killing anybody,for any reason. before we meet I am obliged by the law to tell you that I am a 2 times convicted sex offender, but I am cured now. I have another hobby, and it has nothing to do with murder.
... Gordan can you go away?
girl wtf ur whole colour scheme of hair-cheeks-lips is ridiculously on point??? like a rose gold kinda thing goin on? HOW
@ everyone in the comments shaming her for not mentioning that she's trans: SHE 👏 DOES👏 NOT👏 HAVE 👏TO 👏DISCLOSE 👏THAT! 👏She is under no obligation to tell some random person she's on a date with that she's trans. Get this through your fucking thick skulls. Do cis guys with small penises let women know they have small penises before they go on dates with them? No, because someone else's genitals are none of your goddamn business. Do women with breast implants have to disclose that on a date? No, because their breasts are their own business. I could list a million examples, TBH, but the bottom line is: your body is your business and you share what you want to share about your body, regardless of whether you're trans or cis. It's not "tricking" anyone. Your body is your body and if people can't handle it the way it is, fine, but that's their loss.
Now get back to crushing the patriarchy you pathetic white girl.
You got issues, dude. Get some therapy.
No, you are wrong. Plain and simple. It was misleading and you know it. Regardless of if what is going on with your body is someones business or not you know fucking well that the guy thought he was going out on a date with a woman. Comparing breast implants, small penises, or anything of that nature to this situation is idiocy and basically an excuse that doesnt even fall in the same ballpark. The MOMENT there was any physical contact it should have been made clear as its just plain rude, a lie and basically hypocritical to have not informed the person, in this case the guy, as it would also be required if the rolls were reversed etc, that you were physically male. That allows the other person to make the decision whether they want to continue or not. Finding out after the fact makes the person feel lied to, betrayed, and violated. Pull your head out of your ass.
You can always tell when someone is immature when they use the clapping emoji. Grow up.
she may not be obligated to do so but there are many guys that would not react very well. can easily turn into a dangerous situation.
The shame pot! I died!! It's important for everyone to hear it's okay to say no and that you don't owe your date anything for paying for you. :)
When you said you were transgender i was like whhhattttt?!?!?! You're absolutely gorgeousssss 😍 make-up on point 🙌🏽
+Cindy YG Thank you!! :)
shes not trangender look at the video that says "im not Actually trangender "
not every transgender isn't girly/boyish looking
Trans people can be attractive too..
+Bernardo Côrtes woahhh chilllll. No where in my comment did i say anything about trans people being ugly. I just never would have known that she's trans if she hadn't said anything i was just giving a compliment. I'm a true believer in happiness within. Please don't turn my compliment into something ugly & negative. She's beautiful & i'm happy for her. I support & love the LGBT community. I didn't mean to offend anyone.
serving 90s drew barrymore looks
You seriously have the perfect voice! I love when trans women speak in their natural range, it sounds so much better and I think it's helps a lot with passing. You can just hear the masculine undertone when they speak in their high voice, but you speak in your natural range with just perfect female inflection. You're very blessed!
Seeing you makes me so much more confident as a transgender ^-^
Me too,when I start and finish hormones
That lipstick looks amazing on you!
So true
I think she was referring to the picture she showed of her with her friends. She had the lipstick on in that photo.
This has got to be by far the most disgusting comments section i have ever seen on youtube, and that's saying a lot. She has no obligation to tell him until things get serious. Just as a woman has no obligation to tell someone that she is on her period unless it becomes explicitly relevant to the situation. Or how a woman has no obligation to tell the person she is on the date with that her breasts are not 100% real. Or how a balding man has no obligation to tell his date that he is wearing a toupee. Or how a person has NO obligation to tell the person they are on a date with that they are infirtile. The only reason people here find this situation different is because they are disgusting and bigoted. Plain and simple.
+hasani hall Trans women ARE real women. Are you saying that the only reason you take women out on dates and "spend money on them" is because they have a vagina? Are you seriously so shallow and superficial? If you're only pre-requisite for a life long partner is that she has a hole between her legs, then that really says a lot about you and what you value in people. Women don't exist purely for you to fuck them. Vagina =/= woman, penis =/= man. Maya is a beautiful all-round HUMAN and her future partner is a lucky man.
AngelxAnastasia By the way, you can see that I'm talking about the guy, not myself.
I'm actually asexual, meaning I wouldn't give a shit what is between your legs, because I rather not find out. unless it was something completely away from sex.
Lgbt wants respect, you have to respect others as well, as their opinions, not the fucked up homophobes, but yeah, know what I mean.
I agree only time you should say is if your getting physical just so theres no surprises, and if you are dating and think its going to be and or is serious because that is a big thing to not tell but yes i agree you dont need to say right up front that your trans
michaela mccoy that's different. biological sex is very important and relevant in the dating world. it's depraved to deceive someone and waste their time if they're straight and you're passing as another sex.
michaela mccoy finally someone with a brain!
One word: RECIPROCITY.
Reciprocity is when someone Leaves You Feeling Obligated to do something because they did something for you. So many of us ladies (and even some guys) have learned this lesson the hard way. Just because he took you to a nice dinner, doesn't give him the right to violate your body of personal space. The fact that he didn't bother to text you back is a sign that he's a fraud. He faked chivalry, manners and boosting your confidence, because he thought he could get in your pants that way. But it was a valuable experience, so long as you learn from this lesson.👍
You're def my new favorite UA-camr! 💙
Quill And Ink the funny thing is she didn't even get food, she felt like she owed him for a beer or 2. Very sad
+Anna May Yep, that's reciprocity. He takes her to a upscale place, insists on a corner table, which makes her feel special and goes through all the chivalrous motions she secretly hoped for, without skipping a beat. When we break it down, all he did was buy her a beer or two, but it's the way in which he did it that made her feel as though she owed him something in return. And he fucking knew that from the very moment he put his number in her phone. Disgusting.
OMG UR SO GORGEOUS!!! DID ANYBODY ELSE NOTICE HOW FREAKING BOMB HER MAKEUP (specially her eyeliner) IS?!??!?? LIKE DANG GIRL SHE FLAWLESS
thatcrazygirl pretty hot for a guy
Joshua Serna *woman
Katie Garber uh no, that's a man. no matter how much makeup HE puts on, or how many times he has his body mutilated by doctors to RESEMBLE a woman, he will always be a man. it's like calling a dog a cat. can you turn a dog into a cat? no, so can we literally turn a man into a woman? no we can't. we can make a man RESEMBLE a woman, but he'll never be a woman
Hey it's almost 2017 and this is America. We are accepting of everything today. Obviously, there are still some pretty ignorant people today, but we can fix that. You're right, putting makeup on a man doesn't make them a woman. You know why? Because makeup is for everyone. Anyone who identifies as a woman is a woman. There you go. It is very sad that some women can't have children because they weren't born with a woman's biology. But does that make them any less of a woman? Same goes for someone who wasn't born with all of the "parts" most people have in that gender. She is what she says she is and fuck you for making her, or any other girl, feel less.
I identify as a fucking billionaire, so I expect to be able to have everything I want... This world has gone soft, in spirit and mental faculties.
to the people commenting that she should have disclosed the fact that she is trans BEFORE going on a date: no one is obligated to disclose personal information. she isn't lying to anyone. she is being safe. do you need to tell someone before a first date that you're divorced? or that you're parents died when you were young? or that you have herpes or something? NO. because how do you know that they're even interested in you? or that you're even interested in them. most importantly, as a trans women, she has to look out for herself, because there are people out there who can AND will try to hurt her just because she is transgender. (and judging by some of the comments, its clear that there are several of those types of people who would love to do so right here.)
back to the "lying and deceiving" thing....even if a guy is attracted to her, that doesn't change their sexual orientation. they find a WOMEN attractive. that makes them straight. you don't fall in love with someones body parts. you fall in love with someone for who they are as a person. not all men have dicks, and not all women have vaginas. period. whether its a birth defect, or a gender issue, or maybe your dick or vagina fell off in an accident? that doesnt make you any more or less of a man or women.
yes i love this comment so much
Levi Gregory the worst comparative I've ever seen. You can't compare divorced people with transgenders!
Also many trans people may simply wish to remain in stealth mode, until they're confident and ready if at all, to divulge such personal, confidential and sensitive information, that could be used as harmful ammunition against them thereafter such a personal reveal....
Everything you just said is wrong.
You are an intelligent person. I agree with you.
A lot of people that are not trans feel insecure in that type of situations as well, so don't worry, you are gonna find someone who loves you from head to toe
I kept laughing at the parts where she would be like "shame. shame. shame"
Me too
S h a m e
Yeah so cute! Wonder why some people tells it's not. Lol
same
Silly Flower
I'm glad your titles are'nt attention seeking like most story times.
OH MY GOD.
"ASK A DEEP PHILOSOPHICAL QUESTION"
"WHATS YOUR FAVORITE ANIMAL"
MAYA I AM DYING. :'DD
You're so gorgeous and awesome. I'm so glad I subbed.
he is an ill man. Are you reaaly glad from this?
Italian resturant....with like an bar.....OMG YALL WENT TO OLIVE GARDEN😂
+Destiny's world LOL! I wish, we don't have Olive Garden in Canada :(
+Maya Aww olive garden is amazing
+Maya I have the same name as you :)
+Maya as a Canadian, we do, I work at one 😂😂
+Maya as a Canadian, we do, I work at one 😂😂
I agree trans people shouldn't have to expose that. But if you don't, you put yourself at a lot lf risk. A lot of transgirls are attacked because they don't share.
This was so entertaining! And you're being a really good role model with the things you teach I love that
As much as I hate to say it, I'm glad you had this experience. I mean, it shouldn't have gone that far if you weren't comfortable with it, but I'm just SO glad (for you) that he didn't go... further? Anyway, I hope you continue to get out there and just have some casual dates, cuz you're fun and cute and altogether awesome! Take care, Maya!
hahaha "ask me anything baby" "okay, What's your favorite animal?" LOL
i just want to put this out there. no matter how gentlemanly or nice or sweet a guy is, you should never feel like you owe him anything or that you HAVE to do something in return. it's not right.
mariabear: You have "BITCH" written all over you. Give men a chance and the respect they deserve.
He owed him the truth at least
I, a cis woman, have never gone up to a stranger and told them how my genitals look so of course neither should you have to. If people think you do, then that's just them being absurd.
On my first date with my current boyfriend I ran out of questions and got nervous and I blurted out " so do u like bread " and we kinda began from there lol
I'm as straight as it gets and I think you're gorgeous.
Same
+Keyser Söze Good for you.
I'm straight and I think "Battle of the Network Stars" was a crapy show.
+Melexxrie That makes you a moron, biologically you're still an infant.
*****
First off, I changed "bigot" to "moron" a few seconds after posting, because moron obviously fits you better.
But YES, melaxxrie, you can be a bigot because of your opinions. In fact, that's what bigotry is: stupid opinions. Like racist idiots who hold the "opinion" that black people are lazy. Is that really too complicated for your infantile mind to comprehend? (You really _are_ a *moron.*)
And it's also perfectly clear that you ARE a bigot, *because you act as though calling someone "gay" is an insult.*
"Gay" is only an insult to bigots, you feckless moron! Grow up.
My advice to any female not wanting sex on a first date is to make your early dates during the day and without alcohol. For instance, meet at the zoo, for coffee and a bagel, at a book store, take horseback riding lessons together, and so on. The whole sex question really does not come up as soon when you do that.
+YourAnjl I just say I don't want to have sex and that's It.
"The pizza started disappearing" 😂😂😂 dead
Who forgot that Maya's a transgender? You're beautiful woman!!!!!! ❤️💋
+boo boo Dude. Like wtf. No one needs this negativity she's just telling a story. Your opinion is irrelevant and hurtful. If you want to shame trans people write it in your diary, not on an innocent girl's youtube video.
+boo boo Even without makeup SHE looks like SHE was born a girl. Get out tbw you are just embarrassing yourself.
what's the name of your lipstick please? I loooove it!!
+Alice Phillips Midi by Colourpop
Ahhh thank you, I'm from the UK but that lipstick will be mine! Btw, your videos are great, I love watching them and you've really opened my eyes to the transgender community
+Ally YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON I am glad we have people like you around💙❤️💜
Ally how did you got AIDS ? and how much do you have to live?
+Gordan m'gleb ummm
Maya sweet cakes let big sister give you some advice. Please BEFORE you get into a kissing session with someone, tell them that you are trans. The reason I say that is bec some guys will react aggressively if they kiss, touch, or more and you tell them after the fact. They can injure you. Their reaction may not be appropriate if you don't tell them before hand. I have heard of guys saying things like, wtf I kissed a dude?! Bec they don't get that you are female. Just looking out for you babe. I like your gentle voice and how you tell stories. Hugs!
the 'shame' thing was actually so funny. great story, i was really rooting for you two. too bad it didnt work out!
This is the first time I've been able to listen to someone's story on youtube (completely) without getting annoyed. I think a lot of it had to do with how your voice just sounds so calm and not obnoxious. I enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing :)
Is your hair naturally wavey or do you make it that way ??
Natural
+Bet Ong what's wrong with my profile pic
+Bet Ong I think his profile pic Is perfectly fine
+Aaron Arrieta He has a big forehead.
+youknoowamh it's a girl not a boy
I love the little bits of pink hair. You should do more!
honestly you didnt owned him any makeout session lol but you should have told him that you are trans bc thats really a personal thing for anyone, to makeout.. talk.. go on a date etc.., the other person also has the right to know that you know
Mona vakakak um, maybe next not because some men can literally get dangerously violent if you tell them and they are suddenly insecure about their own manhood since they were attracted to the trans person involved. It makes more sense to tell someone only if or when you feel that it's safe! Like, maybe after a first date or three if it's even going to end up going somewhere perhaps more serious! She is essentially protecting her life
@@Cultivatingjoy07 that's bs.. he's more likely to get his butt kicked lying.
omg the pan shame part killed me!!!
Wow this is the first time seeing your channel omg if would not have told me I would not have know you were a transgender person p.s your hair is goals 💁😄😄😄😄
Also your eyes are goals to 👀👀👀👀
ikr same I didn't know either.
same I couldn't believe she was transjender your hair and makeup is great and you made my cosine more convenient about her transjender
The voice gave it away instantly for me
Yer I thought it was a bit deap but didn't think much of it clover paul
It's just not a good idea to make out with a guy without disclosure first. You have no idea how they'll react, nor what it does to their psyche 2 years down the road.
+Remi Stardust Do you tell people you kiss how your genitals look, because I don't. Actually it would be kind of strange, don't you think?
It is only the decent thing to do. It's fine if you're so non-judgemental and open-minded that you sincerely don't understand a possible problem. The truth is, we are still very far away from a point where a majority of men would not care to find out they have been exchanging bodily fluids (e.g. spit) with a person who was also born male. In a country (USA) where you have to worry about sb pulling a gun on you for cutting them off in traffic, this kind of thing sure seems like an especially bad idea. A very non-subtle gut-level reaction is to be expected, when feeling your manhood/integrity compromised.
Still no reason to be trans phobic.
Your makeup is everything to me right now
who cares if shes trans or not its who she is on the inside that matters
the shame-pan made my day and even though the video is quite long I really enjoyed listening to you. You have a pretty voice :) and I'm also glad that things didn't get really serious on your date like the "real shit" happening :)
Extremely nice, intellectual, smart, philosophical, asking deep questions, so eager to touch you, making himself seem like a big hot shot, handsome, nice clothes, nice car, smooth talking, persuasive, too good to be true. This guy was manipulating you left and right. Every time you let him touch you he takes it up a notch. He's seems to be more concerned with sex. He makes you think that you can trust him. MAYA THIS GUY WAS A PSYCHOPATH!!!!!!!!
you look so good!would have never guessed you were transgender if you havent said! btw im in love with your hair
I THINK, I DONT KNOW, BUT I SUSPECT YOU COULD BECOME A HOLLYWOOD STAR, OR CELEBRITY! I THINK YOUR. PRETTYIER THAN PARIS HILTON. I APPOLOGIZE IF IVE OFFENDED ANYONE. THATS JUST THE WAY I SEE YOU. YOUVE EVEN GOT THE MANNERISMS OF A WOMAN. IM GOB SMACKED, HOW DID YOU DO IT? IM MESMERIZED, AND.YOUR FUNNY TEE, HEE!
😆😆u crack me up with the "shame" thing lol
With the tiny voice 😂
Saying, "I couldn't even tell you were trans!" isn't a compliment.
+ashtemsco why not?
+MrDpsc It implies that there's a "look" to being trans, and places importance on visuals & appearing to be cis. All are unrealistic & in the case of "passing" as cis, often unattainable for some. "Passing" shouldn't matter. (A trans girl that doesn't look like a cis girl is still a girl & their identity is still valid.)
There's a lot that goes into why it's an ignorant thing to say.
+Evelyn V While I agree that the focus should not be on passing (It doesn't matter how feminine you look since a) a trans girl is a girl period and b) not all cis girls look super feminine either ).
I would personally want to look as feminine as possible and would be happy if other people thought I did.
There shouldn't be a focus on it but every transgender should decide for themselves if they consider it a compliment or not just as some transgender care more about looking according to their gender and others chose not to transition at all.
I wouldn't make general statements for a whole group of people who are all individuals with individual opinions. It is still probably not advisable to assume that it's a compliment and there are definitely better ways to compliment beautiful women as her than to say she easily "fools" people.
***** There obvioiusly is a look to being trans, otherwise there wouldn't be any reason to get surgery, plain old hormone suplements should be enough. I'm no trans, but I'd assume they want to look as much like the gender they identify with, don't they?
The alternative to "passing as a woman" would be the opposite "not passing as a woman"; Surely that's not a compliment either (and would seriously damage anyone's confidence). So basically, whatever you say about a trans person's look, it's insulting. Some would call this a sign of being oversensitive and not wanting to confront reality ...
MrDpsc I never said "passing as a woman" I said "passing as cis". We should not have to mimic cis people for respect.
Some people are visibly trans. Some people are genetically gifted. Some people work really hard to look the way they want. There is no ONE look to being trans, just like there's no ONE look to being cis.
If you're ignorant, and anything you say shows this ignorance, then yes everything you say is probably insulting. Better yourself.
im1595 You are so close. Are you trans, or are you just criticizing a trans woman on trans politics?
i completely love the 'shame' part. it's just hilarious
Dear Maya, you look absolutely gorgeous! I can't believe you achieved so much in just a little over a year! You have definitely mastered the art of facially feminizing make-up! Your lips, your eyes, your hair, even your voice and body language! You should be proud of yourself. I'm so happy for you. If I was young and single, I would ask you out in a heartbeat, if I had the nerve to approach someone as lovely as you!
Loved your story, but a little worried about being stuck with no ride if you had to come out to him somehow. I'm glad it went well for you. pretty girl , hugs
I have a 21 year old daughter and that was so hard to watch! I'm glad nothing terrible happened, but that guy gave me a bad feeling. It sounds like you learned a lot. As a mom I can't help myself I recommend meeting friends and potential dates not at bars. Haha
If you're making out with someone... then YES>.. you are obligated to tell them. If you're just talking or hanging out.. then I will give you no... you don't need tell them. But if you're going to be doing anything physical then the person does have a right to know.
Only if it is going to get intimate and lead to a long relationship.
The "Shame" thing gets me every time. Interesting story! :o
It seems dangerous not to tell someone. Especially for a woman. Be safe girl!
Patricia O * be safe boy
@Dr_Grünental ow the edge
Safe is not to go out with someone that appears crazy and you don't know.
He doesn't sound like a bad guy but shit that escalated quickly
A good guess would be he is married. Cheating on his wife.
I just found this channel and was like wow, she has a unique deep voice. then you said you're trans and i'm like, bish wut?! lol! teach me your ways, make up on POINT!
About to comment "her voice doesn't seem like it should go with her" then I hear her say "I'm a trans" and I'm like ohhhhhhhh
Same
+Wildchild11 Same here.
Saaame
the voice acutally sounds like you/me/youANDme should go with her....
Sameeeeeeeeee
I think this was an anicdote for every single date/hookup i've ever experienced like really cool and then i forget everything and get absorbed back into the world, but also the other way around frum the guy and girls prespective.
oh my god, you're so pretty! and not just your looks but your personality really just shines through.
No, if you're trying to date someone of the same sex when you a posed as the opposite sex (you are a male/female, genetically), you need to tell them you are a transgender, or calling yourself a woman/man when in you are really not before the date. I'm not hating, I'm just saying the truth.
She's a girl
A girl with the dna and genetic makeup of a man.
YOU'RE SO GORGEOUS I CAN'T
The shame thing was so funny!😁
Absolutely loved the story! It is understandable why the guy was being forward, I mean how could one resist you: funny, charming, attractive and pure of heart (at least from what I can tell in 20 min.). Lucky fella he was for the evening. Perhaps it was for the best that you pulled the plug, it's like I try to tell my daughter, "Don't give yourself away and don't tell all right of the bat".
Will definitely want to hear more stories.
Thanks, Bo
when you went like, he was too good to be true and started pointing out his atractive traits, i swear to god i started lookin at myself and went like "then how the hell do i exist, maybe im fake ahahahhahah" god.... im fucking awesome, and so are you, wish ya luck on your life maya!
You are so beautiful 😍😍😍
Mariah gross
You need to disclose that you're trans before anything happens. Not doing so is the same as taking off your wedding ring before going into a bar.
Just from a personal point of view. You contradicted yourself so many times. And that could be so confusing for younger audiences. "I didn't want to do it", "it was so intense" "it was nice" "he didn't even text me back sort of thing.... Making it sound like he pressured you into things but you enjoyed it? and even if he did why contact him again the next day? :/ just a quick note on how annoyed this made me.
but sometimes that is how people legitimately feel
GOOD FOR YOU, GIRL!! I've never heard of that app (find my friends) now I know! How great! I'm really proud of you for being responsible!
When some guy takes you out to dinner. You are repaying the person with your presence there. You are never obligated to anything more. Not even a kiss. That was my advice when I talk to my daughter about this subject. Also, you have to be careful going out that late at night. There are a lot of dangerous people out there. So, Please be safe. Love your story. However, the shame thingy was a too much. it became annoying after a while) Overall, as a dad. I want you to be safe, so please consider my advice. Take care Maya.
Only 1 date and never texted you back? He missed out on a gorgeous girl like you.
+Ian W I see what you did there
idk i really love the pink spots on your hair!
unexpected and funny GoT reference! Got me well, totally laughing off. :D
A gentleman never presses his desire on a first date. He was looking for sex, only. Complicated situation, good lesson for you....never compromise yourself. Be yourself...a beautiful, and attractive, intelligent woman.
I giggle each time you say shame xD so funny!
you should tell him you are trans before kissing him, it's dishonest if you don't
I agree. It's unfair and dishonest. I agree you shouldn't explain your private life to anyone but kissing is intimate maybe even more so than sex.
What is with all of the rude negative comments on here
Kyndall Bochat I know right? Her videos are so pure like they’re literally not offensive or rude or full of crazy opinions and conspiracy theories.
As a male who likes females and would think that you are a very attractive "female" I wanted to say something.. kind of my 2 cents. I have zero issues with you being who you are. Must take a strong person to go against what most people consider the "norm" and take the steps that you are taking to be who you are. That being said when you state that you do not feel that you need to tell a guy that you are trans on the 1st.. 2nd.. ect ect.. date you are wrong. It is not just like the examples of thing from your past that you wouldnt talk about on a 1st date. Its beyond more serious of a subject then anything you mentioned x's 10000000000. A guy should know who you are from the start because the majority are going to freak out when they find out that they have been making out with a trans. (not saying its right or wrong.. but its how it is) and if you are not careful one of those guys may just freak out beyond what you could control. Being trans should be the top topic when you 1st meet a guy and if you feel its not "important" then you need to sit down and rethink how you look at things. Again... just my 2 cents.
+jtman04401 don't support degeneracy
jtman04401 im a trans woman, i am passable in the sense tht people usually cant tell tht im trans right off the bat. While i know where u are coming from, you also should know where maya and us trans women are coming from. First off all, when meeting a guy at a bar, we are under no obligation whatsoever to tell them we are trans, simply because its no ones business unless things going to get physical and sexual. Im not going to tell every tom dick n harry tht im trans or any intimate details about them unless im having sex with them..To say tht we must disclose tht too every guy we met is the epitome of male entitlement. I do however think tht trans women should disclose that if she and the guy are both interested in doing something intimate including kissing..maybe maya just doesnt feel comfortable to tell because things can move so fast in tht dating situation..before she knew it the guy went in for a kiss n they were already making out..give the girl a break..Personally i tell men early on sometimes even before going on a date not because i need to but because i want to save my time in case he isnt interested in trans women.. hope i make sense to you..xoxo Rania
GIRLLLL YOUR MAKEUP IS LIFE 😭😍😍💘
Omg I clicked on this video and didn't even know she was trans. Like goals all around on makeup, beauty, and just like everything!!! 😍😍
Me too
Your voice is perfect
That shame clip with the pan was kind of a downer for me and overplayed. Not hating just giving my opinion/constructive criticism.
You're transgender? Girl you are GORGEOUS!! What's the name of your lipstick?
Backhanded.
+Wonder Brat Not really.
+MusicFREAK8360 exo-l???
+Dongho Lover yassss
You don't owe that guy ANYTHING!
I absolutely love this haircut.
"Comment, Rate, and Subscribe"
Wow, haven't heard that one for a while...
hahaha😂
HOSHIIIIII
ilovemusic/makeup Hoshel Is Mi Lov
Girl, you are so funny and beautiful! Subscribed!
drink every time she says "like"
If you are in a sexual encounter, IT SHOULD BE IMPORTANT to talk about these things. Seriously. Any STI/STD is very important. Even if you don't intend to start a relationship, it is still important to discuss sex related information.
OMGGGG I'M SO BLUSHING WITH YOUR STORY! That'll be a dream come true for me. And ignore those people who criticize u, you're just a human! U know what I mean
I'm a straight dude, I saw this vid due I couldn't believe how someone transgender can have that face. Your face is gorgeous, beautiful. A huge advice for u is to always disclose that u r a transgender woman before make out, because for a straight man that is a very serious issue.
I'm brand new to your channel, and holy shit, I would have NEVER guessed you were transgender until you said it. Work itttt 💁🏻💅🏻
I think you should have told him you were transgender right from the start. This wasn't fair to him.
+Son Gohan Agreed, that is out of order.
+Son Gohan No its not...She is a woman, being born XY doesnt change that. Im dating a trans girl who didnt feel she wants to tell me (she doesnt know that i know).
DirkAustin I understand where you're coming from, but some guys don't feel the same way that you do (i'm not straight).
Son Gohan I think she has a right to decide when and how to disclose.
Everyone has their own personal choices to make on something like this.
I don't understand your problem.
listening to this story I got scared for you Maya... :/ that date was quite risky! because if he found out that you are a trans, he COULD have reacted very very negatively or maybe even violently towards you...sadly as you know,many people are not open minded and accepting towards it... :/ im happy it all went good though!!! please be careful in the future! and stay safe. I'm saying this because I care. ilysm ♡
Hahaha! Smacking the frying pan! Too cute.
She's beautiful. There, I said it.
It didn't hurt and she is an interesting woman. I agree with you. She is beautiful.
The vibe i get is that this guy only wants to baaang lol but good job on your part stopping things when you weren't comfertable! Noone should ever feel obligated to things like that
When im watching your film i feel like we are friends and just gossip with w cup of coffie 💕
+Joanna Śnieżna I feel like I've made a friend with her catching up with her Vlogs on UA-cam too and we've not even met, not very likely we ever will physically since I'm British she seems like an ideal lady to have as a friend :)
I know what you have been through and it was much more difficult when I started being female full-time back in 1966. But stick with it and learn from your experiences. I am 66 now and have been married to a wonderful man. We adopted 7 children and had a great family. Unfortunately, my hubby died in an auto accident 20 years ago. But I raised my children and they are now all happily married (well, 1 went through a divorce and still isn't married). So, it's been good. I have tried dating again, but I find all the guys, my age, are exceptionally strange and weird. So, I realize I won't remarry now and that's OK.
"It was getting late.....the pizza was disappearing." 👏🏻😅