RELAXED MY 4C NATURAL HAIR 2 YEARS AFTER BIG CHOP! | 10 YEAR NATURAL HAIR JOURNEY IS OVER!!!!

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  • RELAXED MY 4C NATURAL HAIR 2 YEARS AFTER BIG CHOP! | NATURAL HAIR JOURNEY
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  • @checkerbearhair
    @checkerbearhair 2 роки тому +736

    I went back to relaxers 5 years ago, after my 3rd failed (& longest) attempt to remain natural. Haven't looked back since. Sometimes I wear my hair in braid-outs or perm rod sets, but it's the ultimate convenience to be able to just air dry my hair for a few hours and pass a straightener over it 1 time and be done. No overnight drying, no gel, no brushing or even combing. I used to worry that being relaxed was a statement that I took issue with my ethnic identity but eventually learned that it's a matter of preference, for me. I don't see it as being any worse or different from a body modification. If anything, it's not as bad as others because you can just chop the relaxed hair off and start fresh if you want to.

    • @robynabreu3594
      @robynabreu3594 2 роки тому +21

      Very well said! 👏🏽

    • @Cocochantelle
      @Cocochantelle 2 роки тому +174

      I think what people don’t talk about is the fact that natural hair is somehow deemed inconvenient by many ppl that go back relaxed. I think it has a lot to do with ppl not accepting their hair the way it is. For some it’s just simply their hair doesn’t look the way they want it. And natural hair has a mind of its own. It’s very low maintenance if you just let it be itself. You’d comb it once a week if that. It becomes high maintenance when there are expectations for it to be a certain way.

    • @reginagordon4246
      @reginagordon4246 2 роки тому +43

      @@Cocochantelle I agree👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you ma’am spoken perfectly. Facts💯💯💯

    • @Tshego74
      @Tshego74 2 роки тому

      Fftnnbw jjhh j huh no qqnaibabjjuhißi in auninrjueu in ni link snjéiusjhe
      H jjhh ajbqhbßbk on it on j huh huh a Jo ok join us in hh

    • @leegaleaglenombo9430
      @leegaleaglenombo9430 2 роки тому

      👏🏾

  • @teesaharris1222
    @teesaharris1222 2 роки тому +37

    Black women and girls should be able to do whatever they want to, It's their hair and the world says nothing about it but how good it looks.

  • @tiffanyjohnson135
    @tiffanyjohnson135 2 роки тому +99

    I just started back getting relaxers and I don’t regret my decision at all. I don’t miss those long hours washing and detangling my hair.

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +5

      Me neither! 🌸

    • @mkb5984
      @mkb5984 2 роки тому +5

      I love wash day! 👩🏾‍🦱

    • @Sherri916
      @Sherri916 2 роки тому +2

      Been natural 6 years and I think I am going back to relaxed just tired of the natural nothing more or less my personal preference

    • @chericewashington7343
      @chericewashington7343 2 роки тому +2

      I thought it was just me that spent hours detangling. I had been natural for 12 years and it took me about 1-2 hours just to detangle. I tried everything. I decided to get a relaxer because doing my hair started to give me anxiety because it took so long.

  • @prettyb5852
    @prettyb5852 Рік тому +20

    Finally! A South African stylist who understood and executed the assignment perfectly 👌🏽
    I recently relaxed my hair (for the first time in a long time) at a salon only to have the stylist practically pluck all my hair out during the blow dry and have it all over the floor which reminded me why I stopped relaxing in the first place 😭
    I'm gonna have to learn to do it myself.

  • @HairliciousInc
    @HairliciousInc 2 роки тому +190

    Beautiful head of hair sis! Welcome to the Relaxed Hair Community :)

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +15

      Thank you so much!! ♥️

    • @mkb5984
      @mkb5984 2 роки тому +7

      😒Seriously..? Don't put her in a box.

  • @ashleybrown9928
    @ashleybrown9928 2 роки тому +57

    Ill never go back to relaxer I get bored with straight hair fast and miss my curls 🤣 I just get a silk press when I want straight hair. This is just me and my preference, there's nothing wrong with having relaxed hair. It's literally your own personal choice

    • @autumn_b905
      @autumn_b905 Рік тому +17

      Yeah right. So why did you write this comment since you're so happy with your natural hair? You don't even wear your hair "natural". Braid outs, wigs etc are not natural. Your natural hair is not straight so why silk press since you like your natural hair so much

    • @namiro3671
      @namiro3671 Рік тому +3

      Yes but people don’t talk enough of cancer breast because of relaxer (even the good ones) it’s really a things in the black community and people don’t make the link with breast problem and relaxer , i stop a year ago with my twin she had something in the breast a fibroadenoma (not a cancer) and i really hope we will resist 🙏

    • @susanx6782
      @susanx6782 Рік тому +1

      You must have loose curls then, my hair is low-key a huge task but well I will try heat training for now

    • @ashleybrown9928
      @ashleybrown9928 Рік тому

      @@susanx6782 mmm... They're not tight but they're not loose either ? Idk if that makes sense 😂 my hair is very very thick & the roots... Yeah they like that 😂😂 like when I wear my hair curly it's in a big curly pretty fro and poofs out... But like, I can't run my fingers thru it and if I shake my hair it'll get stuck from how thick it is 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I wish I had lose curls. There's probably a product that can help with my issue but yeah. No I got nappy curls lol.

    • @ashleybrown9928
      @ashleybrown9928 Рік тому +4

      @@autumn_b905 lol you're judging me off of one profile picture on UA-cam 😂😂😂 if you looked at my IG or fb, I always wear my hair natrul, curly, braids, twists. I do it all bookie. Don't judge a book by its cover. That picture on my UA-cam profile pic is from like 6 months ago. The last time I had a silk press & before that silk press, I think it had been a year-a year & a half.... Wow. Loud and wrong that's embarrassing.

  • @Littlething41
    @Littlething41 2 роки тому +44

    Woooooooow!!! That was a MAN!!!! The most beautiful application technique I've ever seen. Keeps the relaxer away from the scalp for an extended period AND the hair isn't bone straight. Wow so nice!!!

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +6

      You get it!!!!!!! 😮‍💨♥️

    • @Littlething41
      @Littlething41 2 роки тому +1

      @@KaizenTshego Please can you tell me which relaxer he used?

  • @Sisima13
    @Sisima13 2 роки тому +245

    Finally a hairdresser that didn’t mess up the clients hair with the relaxer 😭 She did an amazing job and your hair looks absolutely beautiful ❤️

    • @Ehhmm
      @Ehhmm 2 роки тому +68

      I think it's a male stylist

    • @Littlething41
      @Littlething41 2 роки тому +2

      @@Ehhmm YUP!!!!! I peeped that half way through the application. UHMAZING job!!

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 роки тому +13

      @@Littlething41 Not with all that over manipulation n excessive smoothing on certain stands. That is not good at all.

    • @TeenaDavis101
      @TeenaDavis101 2 роки тому +11

      Starting at the ends of the hair, with a relaxer, that's a no no

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 роки тому +3

      @@TeenaDavis101 right! (social media has messed up many)

  • @TeleahR
    @TeleahR 2 роки тому +154

    Anyone looking to get a virgin relaxer needs to go to him. You can clearly see the experience through the screen he did a lovely job. His technique was everything. Favorite virgin relaxer video :-)

    • @hi-jo5py
      @hi-jo5py 2 роки тому +21

      But who and where is he😩?

    • @Bee0826
      @Bee0826 2 роки тому +1

      What’s the difference between a regular relaxer and a Virgin relaxer?

    • @mistiqr
      @mistiqr 2 роки тому +3

      Who is he and where?

    • @Rochelle_Ballah
      @Rochelle_Ballah 2 роки тому +5

      @@Bee0826 a virgin relaxer is when all the hair on the head is natural, whereas a non-virgin relaxer is where a relaxer has been done a portion of the hair and the new growth has to be relaxed only

    • @sharonh.a2805
      @sharonh.a2805 2 роки тому

      He was so gentle 😍

  • @Lufuno_Ra
    @Lufuno_Ra 2 роки тому +161

    Your hair looks beautiful Tshego, can't wait to see part two 🥰
    I've picked up a relaxer in store so many times only to put it down again, I'm raising a 5 year old natural and she says she likes her hair the way it is, proud mom...she managed to convince me to leave it alone...for now, lol.

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +49

      Thanks so much Lufuno! I am so glad your daughter is enjoying her hair! That's so precious- an experience many of us did not have growing up and a HUGE well done to you for raising her this way! You're doing amazing mommy!!!

    • @porshiaamankwa36
      @porshiaamankwa36 2 роки тому +12

      It’s her hair don’t relax it if she doesn’t want to…just take care of it

    • @luneuforever8790
      @luneuforever8790 2 роки тому +2

      That's my thing as well. I am natural for 4 years now but I have been bully from people close to me just because my hair doesn't behave the way society thinks is appalling, and I still don't know how to manage it, but I want my kids to grow and see the beauty our natural state and break this stereotype that society define as beautiful. On the other hand, I really want to relax it again. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @idoodle4014
      @idoodle4014 Рік тому +1

      @@luneuforever8790 Afro is the way to go

  • @i.mkwanazi8090
    @i.mkwanazi8090 2 роки тому +48

    It’s the health and the length for me chile 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @mrs.browneyes1813
    @mrs.browneyes1813 2 роки тому +34

    A lot of us naturals have turn back to relaxed hair. I most definitely enjoy 😉 being one of those ladies. We have embraced the different textures and I think that was good while it lasted. And have learned how to take care of our hair. Now we can experience with our other texture smooth, sleek, shiny, and most of all HEALTHY!
    Congrats to us All still natural and relaxed!!😌

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @apara2005
      @apara2005 2 роки тому +3

      My stylist has told me the same. A lot of people in the begining of the pandemic went natural, now Two years later has turn back to relaxed. There's nothing wrong with that!!!! It's just hair, nothing wrong with going back and forth or coloring it, or wearing it long or short....do what you wish 🥰.
      I found this experience has taught me It's OK to experiment with my hair and not be stuck. I was always afraid to lose length...now I don't even care anymore!!!! Because it grows back, whoooooo knewwwwww 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I was Always taught if you cut it you would die and it will never grow back ever.

    • @mkb5984
      @mkb5984 2 роки тому

      17 natural, and my hair is healthy, as it was when relaxed.

  • @trulyshanell3143
    @trulyshanell3143 2 роки тому +36

    My favorite part is rinsing out the relaxer ☺️. I’m going back relaxed soon. I get so many single strand knots due to having kinky curly hair. & I rarely wear my natural hair out. It’s all about preference ♥️

    • @mkb5984
      @mkb5984 2 роки тому +2

      Hey, natural is not for everyone!

    • @sheassweets-n-thingz5025
      @sheassweets-n-thingz5025 Рік тому

      Yes I just took braids out of my head last weekend and washed it last night now I just have it in two French braids because I have to work this weekend

  • @ImkitaN
    @ImkitaN 2 роки тому +86

    This was sooo satisfying to watch 😍 I can’t believe your growth in just 2 years! Please tell us how to take care of relaxed hair next 😂

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +10

      so glad you enjoyed it! Will defs take everyone along on the journey

  • @dyheshataylor869
    @dyheshataylor869 2 роки тому +44

    To my curly head sisters:
    Your hair can be relaxed & STILL healthy & BEAUTIFUL! Relaxing your tresses does not represent shame of your curls! It’s what you want to do with YOUR tresses. ‼️🤍
    SN: My hair was relaxed for years & soft like a newborn babies hair SERIOUSLY!
    After shampooing with Ions Wellness shampoo from Sally’s
    Step1: Rinse with really Warm water
    Step2: Apply coconut oil (generous amount) to soaking wet hair
    Step3: Apply Ion Wellness Conditioner (generous amount) massage through
    Step4: Rinse with really cold water (no manipulation! Just a brief rinse)
    Step5:Blow Dry (Warm Heat) point dryer down your hair shaft toward ends to help close cuticle!
    Utilize this method with any MOISTURIZING shampoo & conditioner. 🤍

    • @Roxxxycat
      @Roxxxycat Рік тому

      It can't be, relaxers are carcinogenic. They're literally so bad for your body and can cause complications later in life.

  • @TaneshiaNicole
    @TaneshiaNicole 2 роки тому +165

    This was so soothing and relaxing to watch. I've been natural for 14 years and I'm so ready to relax again but fear is holding me back for some reason.

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +16

      I’m so glad that you enjoyed the video. There’s absolutely no rush 😊

    • @jadoresophya
      @jadoresophya 2 роки тому +9

      For me it was fear and judgment. And now I faithfully wear a silk press or braids.

    • @olajumokekay-adade5676
      @olajumokekay-adade5676 2 роки тому +4

      Same with me @Taneshia...
      So for naturalist scared of relaxing their hair such as you and I, I would suggest the use of texturizers.
      It worked for me and still working for me.

    • @topeonileowo2215
      @topeonileowo2215 2 роки тому +1

      This is so beautiful, I watch the video over and over again, that looks so great on you sister.

    • @TinksCoilycurls
      @TinksCoilycurls 2 роки тому

      Going through the same thing been natural 12 years and want to relax but fear is holding me back

  • @michellegrobbelaar7379
    @michellegrobbelaar7379 2 роки тому +41

    Your hair is so beautiful. Personally I won’t go back to relaxers but yoh I had the most beautiful relaxed hair. To the point where some asked me if I wore weave. It was nice long and healthy until grade 12 when it got damaged lol. One thing I like about relaxers is that there is more education on how to relax your hair and take care of it. It won’t be painful like it was growing up.

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +7

      Thank you so much! I absolutely agree!!!! Relaxed hair education has come such a long way; especially the technique.

  • @nwabs
    @nwabs 2 роки тому +38

    Thank you for convincing me to relax my hair, been meaning to do it Seinfeld December I just didn’t have the guts. Also your hair dresser knows what he is doing! Your hair is beautiful 😍

  • @mahlatsanaledwaba5198
    @mahlatsanaledwaba5198 2 роки тому +53

    The way your hairdresser is soo patient with your hair. It's soo amazing

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +8

      I know... childhood hair salon trauma taught us this is not possible!

    • @yupyup7571
      @yupyup7571 2 роки тому +5

      @@KaizenTshego where is the shop and what is the name...hair looks fantastic 👏

    • @tamarkutloello403
      @tamarkutloello403 2 роки тому +4

      @@KaizenTshego please share the salon details

  • @zrtopics2418
    @zrtopics2418 2 роки тому +8

    This technique is everything. As someone who has relaxed her own hair in the past it makes absolutely sense. The scalp is sensitive him relaxing the top first is to avoid burning, the reverse is usually for hair that has previously been relaxed and just requires the new growth to be touched up.

  • @ABIGAIL5282
    @ABIGAIL5282 2 роки тому +39

    Your hair is absolutely stunning Tshego! I also recently relaxed in December after a 5/6 year natural hair journey! No regrets! Can't wait to see your relaxed hair regiment.

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you Dee-Dee! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ oh wow! Congrats!!!! I also have NO regrets hey 😂😂😂 it’s the convenience for me. Will default be sharing this and more 🌸

    • @priscaosuya
      @priscaosuya Рік тому

      I didn’t see him use any comb in the video,
      I would be relaxing my hair next weekend and I want to do it right

  • @endlesschapters9185
    @endlesschapters9185 2 роки тому +18

    I miss the way it feels to have a comb glide through my hair like that. Especially after a wash and condition!

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +5

      The strange thing I didn’t know I missed was feeling the shape of my head 😂😂😂😂

  • @dionnebryan82
    @dionnebryan82 2 роки тому +11

    So so tempted to go back to relaxers myself. I was however always prone to scalp burn and really don’t want to experience that again

    • @reginagordon4246
      @reginagordon4246 2 роки тому +1

      Me either the stylist broke my hair off I was hurt all that hard work I put in to keep my hair healthy. So I went back natural wen Tia new stylist got a silk press and she gave me heat damage 🤦🏽‍♀️. So for now I’ve broken up with stylist and do my own hair lol. The stylist in this video was professional I haven’t had any luck in that department a lot of the stylist in my area are intimidated or get frustrated with thick 4c hair.

  • @lydiadanielle84
    @lydiadanielle84 Рік тому +1

    Get it done. My favorite hair is OURS straightened. It's interesting and unique.

  • @ceceprincess4758
    @ceceprincess4758 2 роки тому +5

    I'm natural and will always stay natural. Perms broke my hair completely off

  • @dothodzomasole7956
    @dothodzomasole7956 2 роки тому +22

    That's massive growth in two years 😍😍
    My hair is also two years and it's 22 cm long.. I'll be relaxing it in a few days

  • @kayla3972
    @kayla3972 2 роки тому +9

    I'm going to use all my natural hair products up first then go back to relaxers, I've been natural(big chopped as well) for a little over 2yrs too and it's too stressful now because my hair is your length. I feel like I'm constantly detangling. Thanks for sharing.

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      Thanks for stopping by and all the best Kayla!

    • @cbeautynblue19
      @cbeautynblue19 2 роки тому

      Ive been natutal for over 7 years and Im tired of it too but I like that I can work out regularly without sweating out my relaxers so I'm on the fence about returning to the creamy crack.

  • @Arielle_C93
    @Arielle_C93 2 роки тому +3

    LOVE this application. He killed it! 👏👏👏 if I ever go back to relaxers, imma have to find him lol

  • @erinlewis8150
    @erinlewis8150 2 роки тому +7

    I relaxed my hair after about 10 years natural and I love it!!

  • @katiadelivrance1703
    @katiadelivrance1703 2 роки тому +35

    It was so relaxing ❤
    I pray that the future generations learn to embrace their natural hair 🙏🏽 Our hair is BEAU-TI-FUL.

    • @rittahsent8121
      @rittahsent8121 2 роки тому +51

      Honestly I find this more of a guilt trip if anything so double standards on your part. There is such a thing as technological advancement and all such things as drugs, chemicals, gadgets are a result of the above. I would like to believe you refrigerate your food, microwave it, use soaps, creams, lotions to simplify your life even though you know of all their adverse effects. The same goes for hair chemicals they are meant to simplify your life. If u are having a hard time that is. If u can manage your hair without any need for chemicals good for you who knows you might even live a thousand years but stop guilt tripping those who opt for it. Let people live, let them catch a break. Better yet it's also a style to wear your hair straight let them be. I have seen naturals coloring their hair(also chemicals) don't see nobody guilt tripping them

    • @whitedogsblackcats
      @whitedogsblackcats 2 роки тому +4

      @@rittahsent8121 Yeah there are technological advancements and stuff. But the main thing is that black women who straighten their hair want to be like white women . If natural hair people dye their hair, they ( for the most part) aren't trying to be like Becky because they just want a different color and there's nothing really white about getting a different color. But black women try everything to get straight white women hair on their head. Most white women nowadays don't try and get an afro, even when they do color their hair.

    • @aesthetictheme5715
      @aesthetictheme5715 2 роки тому +1

      @@whitedogsblackcats Why so many rules for black women? Why people like you can't let them be free? Other women can do whatever they want with their hair, women from different races always change their hair not only color it, but curly people who are not black straighten their hair (flat iron, keratin treatment, japanese straight etc) and people who have straight hair curl their hair (curling iron, perm rods etc), their community don't harass them constantly like you do, they let them be free. No one tell them that they want to be other people.
      Stop acting like we all have to think and act the same way, this is not a cult let other people be free to make their own decisions!

    • @BonBonHassan
      @BonBonHassan 2 роки тому +7

      @whitedogsblackcats you do realize there are black people with naturally straight hair?? Ethiopian and Somalian black women can have straight hair. It's literally just about preference, our hair doesn't have to be a political statement.

    • @charitabonds4442
      @charitabonds4442 2 роки тому +5

      @rittah sent so because people relax their hair that makes them want to be like white women???? 🙄 that is so old a statement. Nobody should make anyone feel bad if this what they want to do. It is a choice not because we want to look like white women

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline 2 роки тому +5

    You have such gorgeous hair dear and l love the result,welcome to the relaxed hair journey

  • @MRRMS116
    @MRRMS116 2 роки тому +20

    I'm looking to do something different with my hair too. I have a 2 year old and a 9 month old and they keep me too busy to be fooling around with my thick, long natural hair🥴 I was thinking of cutting it into a twa but seeing your video I may try the relaxer route. I love the way your stylist put the relaxer on your ends first then went to the roots last. I've never seen this method, but it totally makes sense since there is a limited amount of time the relaxer should be on the scalp. If I go this route I hope I can find someone who is willing and able to do it right like yours. Thank you for sharing! And yes, please share tips on how to care for your relaxed hair💜

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +6

      Thank you so much for stopping by, I really appreciate it!! I agree, his methodology is incredible. I’ve never had such a well managed relaxer experience and I wish this for everyone who has ever experienced relaxer anxiety. Hoping you can find someone near you if you do decide to go the relaxer route. A TWA is also quite easy to manage and you can cut and manage it yourself so both options sound great 🌸 will definitely share whatever I find useful!

    • @justagirl4627
      @justagirl4627 2 роки тому +1

      Hey! Have you tried braids? They can last 3 months and are a good low maintenance protective style.

    • @MRRMS116
      @MRRMS116 2 роки тому

      @@justagirl4627 I know for me, I would love braids! But for some reason braids itch too much and I'll end up taking them out the next day. Also, my hair is almost to my butt and it is thick it'll cost so much🥴

    • @saraismommie8034
      @saraismommie8034 2 роки тому

      Same with my 2 year old and work I was thinking on a short cut but now I want a relaxer I know with my red and peek a boo black it’s gon be fire 😍

    • @ravenbyrdsword3400
      @ravenbyrdsword3400 2 роки тому

      Glad you did what makes you happy! Where are you located? I need his information so I can get a relaxer in this type of environment.

  • @lyannematheta8517
    @lyannematheta8517 2 роки тому +12

    OMG, you really did it! 🔥 looks beautiful.

  • @niceapples00
    @niceapples00 Рік тому +1

    wish i could find a stylist like yours here in NY, the last person that did my hair was thereason i went natural because they over processed my hair so bad! Its about to be 5 years for me natural and huntyyy I AM OVER IT!! I'll prob just take my time and relax my hair myself! your hair came out beautiful!!

  • @taotaostrong
    @taotaostrong Рік тому +1

    You just came up in my recommended videos. Your hair is your business. Do whatever YOU want, but I’m here to tell you that you are one GORGEOUS young lady! ♥️

  • @nwabisabambiso8865
    @nwabisabambiso8865 2 роки тому +6

    You so gorgeous Tshego, your hair is just wow so rich and healthy❤👌

  • @lakeyiadouglas115
    @lakeyiadouglas115 2 роки тому +3

    I would never do a relaxer again to my 4c hair. But they did a good job on yours 👍🏽

  • @joanneclegg939
    @joanneclegg939 Рік тому +1

    This was so relaxing to watch. Loved it.

  • @cushielifestyle
    @cushielifestyle 2 роки тому +8

    goals, for those scared of relaxers try brazillian treatment or keratin treatment as an option. however brazillian works better on 4c hair it will give you the straightness without having to worry about the harshness that comes with relaxers. I do it once a year depending with your hair and how you want it to look it can last 4-6 months I wait 6 months and put my hair in a protective style for the remaining 6 then treat again. It's the best decision I ever made. It can be pricey to do the treatment but definitely worth it. else get your hairdresser to do home visits that way you skip paying the salon prices.

    • @nishas2745
      @nishas2745 2 роки тому

      I agree. By the way, do you have a Brazilian treatment suggestion? Thanks in advance ☺

    • @cushielifestyle
      @cushielifestyle 2 роки тому +2

      @@nishas2745 my hairdresser just calls it Brazilian blowout that's the one mostly suggested for black girl hair the keratin apparent just makes it soft and manageable but doesn't straighten. I go to partners hair design in cape town but hairdresser now comes to my house works put cheaper. Otherwise go to the salon especially the ones that work with white people mostly they're the ones who will specialize in Brazilian but make sure you work with someone who actually knows how to work with our type of hair. You don't want someone experimenting with your beautiful mane. Your hair is stunning 😍

    • @nishas2745
      @nishas2745 2 роки тому

      @@cushielifestyle Thank you 😊

    • @leegaleaglenombo9430
      @leegaleaglenombo9430 2 роки тому

      Thanks for this.

  • @iamjoy3993
    @iamjoy3993 2 роки тому +5

    The person did a great job and your hair is gorgeous♥️.i personally would not not go back to relaxers because they burn too much and i dont know how to care of it so i just grew it out and locd it up.guess you have to jus do what works for you.

  • @meks194
    @meks194 2 роки тому +16

    Her hair looks nice but I personally would never relax my hair again.

  • @ShamyraC
    @ShamyraC 2 роки тому +13

    He did such a good job!! You’re hair looks gorgeous and full 😍😍😍

  • @reitumetsemnguni4911
    @reitumetsemnguni4911 2 роки тому +5

    Your hair 👌🏿👌🏿Thank you for sharing this process with us.

  • @emeldanjiki6099
    @emeldanjiki6099 2 роки тому +9

    Do what makes you happy girl 💗

  • @Bronze_Original
    @Bronze_Original 2 роки тому +4

    I somehow knew you were going miss realxed hair, I tried going natural but quickly went back to relaxed hair, it's more manageable

  • @theoneonly-vn6ze
    @theoneonly-vn6ze Рік тому +1

    She's pretty ❤️❤️

  • @khangwelom
    @khangwelom 2 роки тому +10

    I never expected this at all when you said you have an announcement! Your hair still is 100

  • @charjohnson2494
    @charjohnson2494 2 роки тому +22

    Going natural can be tiresome, for some women. Especially, if you have thick hair! So, I understand this lady's decision! Black people run going natural in the ground 😂!

  • @zazilicious
    @zazilicious 2 роки тому +1

    But your hair was the perfect canvas for relaxing, thick, healthy and strong! I’m natural and want to go back to relaxing but my hair is currently damaged and fine so I’m going to make one last effort and nurse it back to health but after that I’m done because I don’t have a life outside this hair 😭😭

  • @JazzmynDesir
    @JazzmynDesir 2 роки тому +20

    Haha I love ur intro 😂 I recently just relaxed my hair after being natural for 5 years. I am currently 15 weeks post relaxer and you have officially tempted me to relax my hair so I can upload my results lol. But guuuurl your hair looks sooo good. Welcome to the relaxed hair club ✨✨✨

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed the video 😃♥️

    • @okpokocynthia7560
      @okpokocynthia7560 Рік тому

      Pls av been meaning to ask this question, once u relaxed ur hair is no longer natural hair rite,I was told there's a relaxer for natural hair itself

  • @sylviajenkins4784
    @sylviajenkins4784 2 роки тому +1

    Chilllllle that fro😍😍😍 i wish i had that density

  • @lindyk42
    @lindyk42 2 роки тому +3

    You have beautiful and healthy hair. Your hairdresser knows how to handle natural hair. I've been natural for 9 years and don't have the guts yet to relax my hair. 💓

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much!!! ♥️

    • @I_love_science
      @I_love_science 2 роки тому

      Try keratin treatment . I also want my hair straight but not permanent as a result am considering doing a keratin treatment it gives you straight hair but after 6months the hair eventually goes back to it's natural state

    • @lindyk42
      @lindyk42 2 роки тому

      @@I_love_science thanks, I'll give it a try as I don't want to put a relaxer yet x

    • @RUMIDZY
      @RUMIDZY Рік тому

      @@I_love_sciencehairdresser here. Keratin is horrible for 4C hair.

    • @RUMIDZY
      @RUMIDZY Рік тому

      @@lindyk42don’t do keratin

  • @Dee-yg5jc
    @Dee-yg5jc 2 роки тому +3

    I don’t think it’s always about not accepting one’s hair. Natural hair can actually be time consuming. Not always easily manageable. For me, natural hair is high maintenance 🤣 and not everybody has the means to have their hair done by a professional every single time hence it becomes very time consuming if you add it to other tasks. I felt bad and went natural since 2019 because of the narrative that I don’t appreciate the 4c hair that God has blessed me with 🤣 but I realized that this couldn’t be further from my truth. The reality is, I just don’t have the luxury of time to dedicate to loving on my natural hair even though I would have loved too. Now I’m going back to the perm 🤷🏽‍♀️☺️ if all fails, I’ll chop it off and restart all over

  • @popcorn7110
    @popcorn7110 2 роки тому

    He’s so good and leave your hair looking full and healthy.

  • @melonie_peppers
    @melonie_peppers 2 роки тому +2

    I say each to their own but I wept for your natural hair. It was genuinely nice

    • @GodsDaughterQ
      @GodsDaughterQ 2 роки тому +2

      You truly cried over her natural hair?

    • @melonie_peppers
      @melonie_peppers 2 роки тому

      @@GodsDaughterQ no. Welcome the internet.

  • @nkosazanandlovu8080
    @nkosazanandlovu8080 2 роки тому +3

    Your hair looks amazing😍 do you mind sharing your hairdressers details, they did such an amazing job

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you! Unfortunately this is a salon I would not recommend :( will address it in the next video.

  • @shardaejoseph6516
    @shardaejoseph6516 2 роки тому +1

    The way he combed your hair made me nervous. Your hair looks beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @tsholofelomofokeng6
    @tsholofelomofokeng6 2 роки тому +5

    Still shocked i had to come see this when i saw your announcement on instagram 😂😂bathong but your hair still so beautiful and healthy 👌😍love it sis!!!!

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +1

      Yeah I know... nobody could have predicted it lol... glad you like the change!

  • @154angel154
    @154angel154 2 роки тому +1

    Your hair, Your Way!!! Beautiful!

  • @samantha_hdez
    @samantha_hdez 2 роки тому +1

    I relaxed for 10 years and struggle with hair growth so I stop relaxing and I have been 9 years natural ( still straight hair cuz I just love it ) however, this person who style did AN AMAAAAZIIIING JOB! And if I was still getting relaxer would of wanted someone like this to do it. Ps. This video was so relaxing ✨

  • @sunshinebill5300
    @sunshinebill5300 2 роки тому

    Beautiful hair , long ,healthy and strong. And your hairdresser was amazing and gentle with your hair 👍

  • @nomms9653
    @nomms9653 2 роки тому +2

    Where did you have your relaxer done? It was done so beautifully 😍

  • @judith4804
    @judith4804 Рік тому

    We were blessed with our hair...we have so many choices with our hair... whether natural or processed, its all beautiful!

  • @h.peters
    @h.peters 2 роки тому +8

    Relaxing my hair is out of the question for me. My hair grows way too fast for me to be wasting my time and money like that again.

  • @ntsakokhosa6218
    @ntsakokhosa6218 2 роки тому +1

    After seeing the instagram post I came to YT running and for reason could not find the video 😅I love this content! You have beautiful hair ❤️. Isn’t it amazing though that our hair is soo versatile 😍😍

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +1

      Awww Ntsako! Thanks so much for your consistent support and love- you make this worth it!!

  • @kendrabrevard1976
    @kendrabrevard1976 Рік тому

    this is so informative and relaxing to watch

  • @SheReaDelSol
    @SheReaDelSol 2 роки тому +19

    LMAO!! The intro!

  • @boitumelomogapi1598
    @boitumelomogapi1598 2 роки тому +1

    😳 I was never expecting that ey ❤️🥰but you look gorgeous ❤️ saw your reel on instagram

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much and thanks for stopping by :)

  • @shakeragreen6265
    @shakeragreen6265 2 роки тому +2

    He’s definitely a master stylist 🔥

  • @sayshahall2279
    @sayshahall2279 Рік тому

    That’s why perms is so addicting the easy maintenance it helps with

  • @juliana_akello
    @juliana_akello 10 днів тому

    I really love my curls & playing with my 4c texture that everytime I twist out my hair, it pains me in a way because I know I will miss seeing my curls for some time. - Adding relaxer to my hair at this point would not be good for me. It'd make me sad.
    But, I sure support my friends who love their hair relaxed. I guess they feel the same way I do about my 4c hair.

  • @cshell2001
    @cshell2001 2 роки тому +9

    Please don't tempt me! I've been natural for 2 years after years relaxed. While I enjoy learning my natural hair the convenience of relaxed is drawing me in! 😳

  • @celiwemabaso2455
    @celiwemabaso2455 2 роки тому +1

    8 years natural and 2 big chops in I must say I am very tempted to relax my hair

  • @abenaagyeiwaa7220
    @abenaagyeiwaa7220 2 роки тому +4

    The hair dresser did do a really good job. I noticed how she started from the ends working upwards.
    I just relaxed my extremely nappy 4c natural hair with the ends of my hair partially done and the roots to mid length completely relaxed! 😅 I'm wondering what I'm going to do the next time I get it done...

    • @michellemalla4365
      @michellemalla4365 2 роки тому

      This is my fear in relaxing all natural 4c hair. I uduslly have to cut most of thr ends off because its not relaxed properly

    • @mariajones9102
      @mariajones9102 2 роки тому

      @@michellemalla4365 You shouldn’t have to cut the ends off unless they are damaged. Under processed hair can be corrected.

  • @lightningwolf118
    @lightningwolf118 2 роки тому

    I've noticed so many are going back to relaxing or texlax. The natural hair community can be brutal but you just do what is best for you

  • @michaelandrewtalento9068
    @michaelandrewtalento9068 2 роки тому

    For me its easy I'm hairdresser I used Rebonding cream for straightening hair and First we need to sectioning into 4 then apply the Rebonding cream in the down of hair into the top of hair soaked in 1 hour then rinse dont use conditioner or shampoo only water after that Iron the hair, it will nice and look younger hair shiny it will lasting 6months the straightening hair.

  • @Karra__with_a_K
    @Karra__with_a_K 2 роки тому

    I love that she had her own blueprint of where to put the relaxer + how long + which section AND edges at the very last moment🥹
    NEVER SEEN THIS METHOD🫂🫶

  • @yasmimmym1195
    @yasmimmym1195 2 роки тому +5

    Amei o resultado 🌹Isso que é profissional❤

  • @KimberlyNgw
    @KimberlyNgw 2 роки тому +1

    I love how she even took care of your natural hair before relaxing it

  • @PalmeraKhrysti
    @PalmeraKhrysti Рік тому

    That stylist blow dried her hair for its life!!!! Yaaasssss

  • @stsamiko1142
    @stsamiko1142 2 роки тому +1

    omg is this a salon in SA?! where is this😩❤️❤️he did such a wonderful job

  • @mosleenrashaka
    @mosleenrashaka 2 роки тому +6

    You have beautiful healthy hair ❤️ can't wait for part 2.

  • @themarchwolf1485
    @themarchwolf1485 2 роки тому +2

    oh my word! where is this salon. I just loved watching this an imma need the same sis. please let me know lol

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/bxYyRNbA40k/v-deo.html

  • @pauliname3855
    @pauliname3855 2 роки тому +4

    You made me want to relax my hair😍😋

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому +1

      Hahahaha that was not the intention but I am glad you enjoyed the video :)

  • @jackies35
    @jackies35 2 роки тому +1

    Love the texture for sure! Worst comb to use after and before washing your hair. At least part it into smaller section.

  • @stevieann4813
    @stevieann4813 2 роки тому +1

    There shouldn't even be a debate. Some like natural some like textured some like relaxed etc. To each her own. I've been natural relaxed and textured for the last three years I relaxed. It's my hair and my choice however I want it to be. How am I hurting anyone else with my hair choice?

  • @gomolemomoloto4713
    @gomolemomoloto4713 2 роки тому +4

    Your hair is soooooo BEAUTIFUL 😍

  • @Kamoomonslay
    @Kamoomonslay 2 роки тому +3

    3:02 this is such a nice earring 😭😭. The lower one. Where can I buy it? Are there similar styles for nose rings?

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      Which one lol... the tragus or the ear lobe?

    • @Kamoomonslay
      @Kamoomonslay 2 роки тому

      @@KaizenTshego ear lobe

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      @@Kamoomonslay Foschini 😊

    • @Kamoomonslay
      @Kamoomonslay 2 роки тому

      @@KaizenTshego thank you 🙏🏼

  • @sh.4409
    @sh.4409 Рік тому

    So stunning and glossy.

  • @yandab358
    @yandab358 2 роки тому +13

    Your hair still gorgeous ❤️

  • @barbaraossai5993
    @barbaraossai5993 2 роки тому +1

    Thinking of relaxing ny 4c hair because of lice and its the most painful thing because I cried for 1 week straight and just broke down every second when I found out I had lice, I'm literally watching your video and I'm weeping cos it's so beautiful and I've never relaxed my hair and this is just so heartbreaking for me and I just hope i find the courage to walk into a salon without crying or breaking down

    • @beeznhoney4323
      @beeznhoney4323 2 роки тому +4

      It's NOT very common for BPeople to get head lice 🙄 You probably need to check your environment, personal grooming and tools

    • @mariajones9102
      @mariajones9102 2 роки тому +1

      Please Treat your hair first and then your home if you haven’t already. Once every this clear you can proceed to get a consultation from a stylist.

    • @Greyce118
      @Greyce118 Рік тому

      ​@@beeznhoney4323It's not common but It can happen, what is wrong with you🙄🤮

    • @beeznhoney4323
      @beeznhoney4323 Рік тому

      @@Greyce118
      What is wrong with YOU. 1. The thread is over 1 year old.
      2. I already know you are not black because theres FACTS about black hair which you'd have minimal clue about so you wouldn't have written back so hostile. Plus, reREAD slowly, unlike YOU, my comment had zero hostility towards anyone.
      3. I didnt say it can _never_ happen. Clearly it CAN happen to BPeople or OP (with 4c hair) wouldn't have been considering cutting her hair off or using chemicals - assuming they didn't know what to do. Again, anyone who is black KNOWS head lice is NOT as prevalent to African type hair. The various hair products we use and our coily hair type is NOT what the critters EASILY thrive in. Lice is a way more common problem to nonB hair types. NonB parents of young kids are always complaining about the school having critter "outbreaks"🦑😬
      If/WHEN it happens to a black person with (coily hair) the hygiene/environment has to be very "off" for those bugs to like/live/thrive in African type hair. Now that you're informed. Bye!

  • @katlegotshigeng
    @katlegotshigeng 2 роки тому +1

    i had to subscribe,i love the hair j

  • @nondumisomhlongo
    @nondumisomhlongo 2 роки тому +1

    Lol this is such a Tshego day, this morning I was rewatching your blow drying video 🤣

  • @irresponsibleparent3
    @irresponsibleparent3 2 роки тому +1

    The hair stylist was whipping that round brush! 😂😂

  • @ketiahicks7970
    @ketiahicks7970 2 роки тому

    i want to relax my hair soo bad and i think i will soon :D ur hair looks amazing!! love it

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      Thank you so so much and all the best with your decision ♥️♥️

  • @joyokere2613
    @joyokere2613 2 роки тому +2

    Haha I'm 14years relaxed... Now transitioning because I'm tired of the chemicals... Everything has its limits really... Relexed hair is nice to have until your hair starts breaking and thinning out beyond repair... Although I'm among the lucky few blessed by nature with some good hair, still doesn't repel the fact that my hair is damaged after all its been through with relaxers et al.
    Still I wish you all the very best in this journey sister...

  • @Paloma769
    @Paloma769 Рік тому

    Started keeping natural hair in 2012, in 2019 I chopped it all. Now my hair is 4 years old and I'm thinking of relaxing it coz I've an infant and to take care of my baby (hair lol) and infant is a big deal for me. Both need my attention of which definitely my hair is not getting much. I'm done!

  • @sharasimmons
    @sharasimmons 2 роки тому

    Gorgeous either way! Thoroughly enjoyed 😍

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      Thank you beautiful ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @lungiswagcantsana5106
    @lungiswagcantsana5106 2 роки тому

    Great video! What relaxer did you use?

  • @naledilosaba
    @naledilosaba 2 роки тому +4

    Hi sis 🥺, I also want to relax my natural but I don’t know which salon to go to, please any recommendations?❤️❤️

    • @KaizenTshego
      @KaizenTshego  2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/bxYyRNbA40k/v-deo.html