This is so raw & beautiful. The complexities of female friendships are rarerly discussed. Reason why Insecure was a hit this season. Wishing you the very best Ivy & Jules
Why does someone start sweating bullets when you wanna get candid with a loved one and wanna get things off your chest for you to be able to move on? This just reminded me of a few months ago when I decided to have a conversation with my Dad about how he dismissed my struggles as a Teen and how that changed the trajectory of my life but then when the moment came I bawled my eyes out and wasn't able to express myself in a comprehensible manner. Don't get me wrong, I love my Dad so much but you know how African Parent(s) are. Once they provide you with Food, Shelter, Clothing, Healthcare and stuff like that, everything else is peripheral. They fail to understand that kids growing up also have their own struggles which shouldn't be trivialized but since they are providing you with everything, unafaa tu ku concentrate on your studies. Anyway, since I couldn't explicitly express myself verbally, I opted to do it in writing and boy oh boy, a heavy load was lifted off my chest. He was genuinely sorry and remorseful but in some instances he was like he did his best as a Parent blah blah you know how African parents are with gaslighting and stuff but so far so good. Anyway, this was so bold of you two and thanks for showing guys it's not always as it seems when it comes to “Friendship Goals” and you two are so beautiful. Wah, sorry for my long a** Insha. Also, one of your best videos. 💓
I relate to you 💯 %. I did the same a few months ago and I was tense & nervous af, but I got through it because nilikuwa nimefika mwisho. For an introvert with severe social anxiety, it felt like walking on pins that were lit on fire
The worst part about messaging is not knowing someone's tone when they typed a specific text. Plus, think before you text. Also, this is so out of topic but Ivy's hair.🥰😍😍
Wah! So similar to my predicament! And for us we are dudes-we blocked each other in all social media and we were great friends. He is white n i'm black, both schooled in Kenya then met at a University abroad....wacha tu! Walahi nitajaribu kumtafuta tusameheane! Thank you guys for this-so inspiring! Sasa si mtu amwelekeze tu hapa awatch hii jamani!
This right here, is the epitome of unlearning friendships. The fact that you beautiful ladies went all the way in and dug deeper to work on yourselves first and come together afterwards, shows the love, honesty and bond that you share with each other and those around you. This is super, super encouraging, if we were all merely as honest, there would be more solid moments in our lives that could have been salvaged by (simply talking) You have taught us so much and for that, we don't deserve you ladies! Keep sharing these bold moments with us, you are super inspiring 🤍 Remember, unlearn yourselves, accepting you are defeated and asking for help (develop stronger coping mechanisms) and affirm yourselves that there will be better days ahead 😊 Sending love and light your way! Keep being the BOLD and BEAUTIFUL ladies that you are x
Oh my gosh i cried when Jules explained that she's been in this kinda 'dark' place for a while feeling like she hasn't found her place because that's how i've felt for a while. Thank you for sharing
Maturity ndio hii sasa, not trying to change another but adapting... this way we naturally humble ourselves..... beautiful souls❣❣❣to better days.. Egooo itatumaliza aki
Every girl needs at least one friendship like this. Deep, raw, real yaani one that exposes your vulnerabilities and then builds you up from there. This Covid season has taught me that for sure. I'm literally looking for new, strong-minded, bold, unapologetically real friendships... And just as is with relationships, settling is not an option. Thank you Jules and Ivy!!!
Agreed.. I'm with you on this and also looking for new friendships because of this. This season has definitely opened my eyes and it's refreshing to have a friendship like Jules and Ivy's that's this candid, raw, real and full of love.
I gravitate a lot towards authenticity and rawness and this just does it for me. Thank you for sharing and reminding us that ego can destroy the most beautiful things. I guess all good things need to be worked on just like having a plant it needs water,sunlight maybe even some fertilizer and friendship is just that. Lots of love and blessings to you and yours!
When you said "i am a chic of the system"...and you have struggled to find your place...wah! i felt that in my chest! The pressure out here for people to know their purpose and be overachievers by a certain age is real...heh!
I think most friendships go through misunderstandings. Taking time to calm down and talk things out, you find that it was such a petty issue. Most times people miss out because they cant put their ego aside. Same for relationships. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing realness.
I super love the rawness and how candid this conversation is.... hitting 30, in the next few months and one of the things I am struggling with is friendships 🤔🤔🤔.... trying to remember why I was friends with some people in the first place.... remembering that they are also going through their own issues, being more understanding and empathetic
😂you two just being raw made me actually appreciate female friendships, which I usually avoid since I hate confrontation. But now, I see it is healthy. Expressing emotions.
This just helps and shows every human that is esp female that friendships do actually work even with all these beliefs that women can't work together... Thank you so much for being vulnerable with us.... Thank you for always stepping up and being our online aunties❤❤❤😭😭😭😭
I noticed but I was like haiyaaa . Thanks for this candid convo. Friendships are hard😭😭. People underestimate the work that goes into sustaining a good and healthy friendship. You've got this y'all♥️
Welcome back Ivy. We've really missed you. Like I've posted before, your ENERGY, COMPETITIVENESS, CAN DO attitude and ACTIVE, EMPATHETIC LISTENING skills is something I'm working on every day. God bless you 🙏 I wish you were my sis 😥
I have to say you ladies have taught me a lot about squashing beef in this video; as a man I know the level of depth y'all ladies went into while making-up is not something men generally practice. It was refreshing to hear what Julia feels about work and all I can say is that I relate so much with how she feels about work my first internship really let me figure out where I stand with the contemporary working environment and as a creative it really didn't feel like me. Funny enough I could also deeply relate with Ivy coz how she speaks and communicates in her relationships is how I communicate as well and I was laughing at how awkward she felt while reading her texts to Julia.😂😂😂
Ivy!!...I can imagine the blocking part, I also used to say sorry and block everyyywhere. But nowadays I just take my time until my anger is way down and my words are well planned.
This was so awesome. My boyfriend was in the kitchen with me while I watched this and was so confused like what is happening "si they just go have a beer iishe"???? Meanwhile I'm there taking notes. You girls spoke such truth!!!!! That is how you build friendship. I loved it!!!!! It's work but it's worth it
UA-cam should invent a top fan kind of statistic! I am sure I will be among top 100! This right here though is the epitome of maturity! 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Y'all just amazing people!
This is the most powerful conversation I have ever heard between friends. Never have big conversations on text. Just talk to each other. 🤗🤗🤗hugs girls.
Ey ladies y"all are amazing. Haha Ivy is my twin am an alfa female as well. My ego has been a struggle for me as well, when i realize am pissed i quickly apologize, but i realized not everyone is the same. Some people take time to digest issues, am learning to work with that. My close friends call me queen of blocking. Thanks alot for this, surely reminded me how important it is to communicate. Beefing is normal, that's how we learn from each other. I remember i had beef with my very good friend sometime back we dint talk for 3months,we both are alfa females i had to lower my ego and make amends to our issues. We are so much better and happier now. Friendship is beautiful. Big up ladies.
Khai I got so teary listening to this. Ivy appears to me as this hard core persona but she's such a sweet soul just going by the number of times she bit down tears.
This is true friendship, true maturity. So much love between the two of you and we love it. This video just made my afternoon and I wish you all the best in your friendship and all your future campaigns. May you thrive and thrive
Thanks for this talk.. Personally, am that kind that gets pushed to the wall and never have enough guts to talk about it, so I opt to walk away.. This has costed me way too many friendships, high time I faced my fears
Friendship is about having those difficult conversations and be willing to listen. What you have right there is true friendship. Non of you is willing to give up what you have. After this, I know you will be closer than ever before :)
This is by far the most interesting thing I have watched on your channel lol...you guys are true friends! So were you calling each other babe when arguing on the phone? This is just beautiful!!
This was so beautiful. Thanks Ivy and Jules for sharing your story. You have inspired many . Donna Roberts once said: “a friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails.”
Thanks Jules and Ivy for sharing this. Reminds me of the month of May this year..we kosanad with my siz for something so petty ..for not washing the Sufuria that had cooked ugali..it was not the 1st tym..but i tried to be so defensive. So we said things to each other and it became so huge..for a month we didnt speak to each other..honestly it was the hardest time for me..coz am the one with ego and so this tym she decided ..gal umenizoea. We are cool now..and i hope i can work on my ego. Imagine if i said sorry and we sorted the issue out..life would have been better
This has taught me a lot cause I have both personalities and it gets the best of me. I'm working on it but this has shown me how to work things through with friends I lost cause of my ego😂🙈
I applaud you for sharing this authentic and uncomfortable experience. It's great for people to see the bumps in friendships and the most important part; how to deal with the issues. You are amazing ladies. ♥ ♥
Watching this after seeing that Issa and Molly fall out on Insecure. And it is a reminder how we need to decipher whether our friendships are for a season. I'm so happy you worked it out and prioritized your friendship.
Julia you're a lovely person, you reminded me of myself afew years ago...think you just need to practice being patient, not taking things too seriously and sleeping over things. But overall I love your personality and ivy's too.
Ok, I teared up watching this and then texted all my besties that I haven''t reached out to in a while. Besties that I've been scared of growing apart with. Thanks, Over25 !!!!!
This was such a great video! I'm sure a lot of friendships have this issue and with the growth of "cancel culture" people would rather let a friendship/relationship die than put aside their ego and try and reconcile. And you are so right! Friendships based on fun times more often than not lack depth and so its rare to see conflict in such relationships. When you are being authentic you will disagree with people because your truth is not someone else's truth. Relationships are complex because people are complex. Thank you for being honest and setting a good example for putting egos aside and reconciliation. Kudos!!
Going forward just learn each other, accept each other, fight and make up. Those fights make your friendship and business stronger because you have the same goals. Be gentle with each other
Shikkey and lornzie now need to tell us how to deal with being inbetween, during the cold war.
Aki
Ego its f***alot of friendship... Love you guys since you have worked out.. Your r differences
Sounds like a great topic
Shikie and Lornzie, over to you
For sure for sure
This is so raw & beautiful. The complexities of female friendships are rarerly discussed. Reason why Insecure was a hit this season. Wishing you the very best Ivy & Jules
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spot on
Unfortunately, I think Molly was in the wrong.😔
@@kijana2030 same,Molly is hella proud
Why does someone start sweating bullets when you wanna get candid with a loved one and wanna get things off your chest for you to be able to move on?
This just reminded me of a few months ago when I decided to have a conversation with my Dad about how he dismissed my struggles as a Teen and how that changed the trajectory of my life but then when the moment came I bawled my eyes out and wasn't able to express myself in a comprehensible manner.
Don't get me wrong, I love my Dad so much but you know how African Parent(s) are. Once they provide you with Food, Shelter, Clothing, Healthcare and stuff like that, everything else is peripheral. They fail to understand that kids growing up also have their own struggles which shouldn't be trivialized but since they are providing you with everything, unafaa tu ku concentrate on your studies.
Anyway, since I couldn't explicitly express myself verbally, I opted to do it in writing and boy oh boy, a heavy load was lifted off my chest. He was genuinely sorry and remorseful but in some instances he was like he did his best as a Parent blah blah you know how African parents are with gaslighting and stuff but so far so good.
Anyway, this was so bold of you two and thanks for showing guys it's not always as it seems when it comes to “Friendship Goals” and you two are so beautiful. Wah, sorry for my long a** Insha. Also, one of your best videos. 💓
Yet to have that discussion with my Dad. I used to tremble at the thought of just speaking to him. Still working on my self-esteem 😪
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@@kijana2030 you can do it, i believe in you
I relate to you 💯 %. I did the same a few months ago and I was tense & nervous af, but I got through it because nilikuwa nimefika mwisho. For an introvert with severe social anxiety, it felt like walking on pins that were lit on fire
awwww
Julia is sensitive and Ivy is blunt....but that's what makes you human!
I am very sensitive :)
I think we humans are complex beings. You could find she is equally sensitive but knows how to mask it or suck it in. Just thinking 🤔
The worst part about messaging is not knowing someone's tone when they typed a specific text.
Plus, think before you text.
Also, this is so out of topic but Ivy's hair.🥰😍😍
I know right😂Ivy needs to tell us what it's called
That inner voice can sometimes be the devo.😈
Exactly
Really resonated with that part Ivy said "I felt like I'm the one who always apologises...and says sorry first". Story of my life
To be honest I stopped doing that
" ... the biggest marker of growth is when you are able to stop yourself from doing something at the moment of anger..." -Jules-
"......I even had to call a friend of ours who's a doctor....." Jules💕
😂😂😂😂
The most Kenyan thing I've heard!!!
I’ve lost 2 bestfriends coz of ego from both parties it’s been 3 years of not talking i wish i handled it better.This was so mature and sweet ❤️
Me and you both
This is so refreshing to see especially in this era of cutting people off over every little thing.
Friendships need work, I think they need more work than relationships. But this is so real and raw as it happens
When Julia said she's struggled with finding her place I felt that...
Me too
+1
I could totally relate...going through that phase as we speak. She's lucky to have had a strong support system
I feel it deep too
Can we Normalize genuine FRIENDSHIPS LIKE THESE!!!❤️❤️❤️
Finally 1 story that @EdgarObare didn't get ahead of!!
😂😂😂
My thoughts exactly 😂😂
Someone mentioned it in one of the posts he shared
@@ngareann Granted, but it didn't seem important enough for him to warrant an Edgar-type investigation.
He actually knew but alikanyagia
Wah! So similar to my predicament! And for us we are dudes-we blocked each other in all social media and we were great friends. He is white n i'm black, both schooled in Kenya then met at a University abroad....wacha tu! Walahi nitajaribu kumtafuta tusameheane! Thank you guys for this-so inspiring! Sasa si mtu amwelekeze tu hapa awatch hii jamani!
I honestly loved this video.❤️❤️
:*
:)
I was from watching the cyco podcast about friendships and then to this! Thank you guys ❤️
Thank you Wanjiru :)
This right here, is the epitome of unlearning friendships. The fact that you beautiful ladies went all the way in and dug deeper to work on yourselves first and come together afterwards, shows the love, honesty and bond that you share with each other and those around you. This is super, super encouraging, if we were all merely as honest, there would be more solid moments in our lives that could have been salvaged by (simply talking)
You have taught us so much and for that, we don't deserve you ladies! Keep sharing these bold moments with us, you are super inspiring 🤍
Remember, unlearn yourselves, accepting you are defeated and asking for help (develop stronger coping mechanisms) and affirm yourselves that there will be better days ahead 😊
Sending love and light your way! Keep being the BOLD and BEAUTIFUL ladies that you are
x
This was the best over 25 video I’ve ever watched❤️❤️❤️❤️so much growth,love and so much more
Oh my gosh i cried when Jules explained that she's been in this kinda 'dark' place for a while feeling like she hasn't found her place because that's how i've felt for a while. Thank you for sharing
Maturity ndio hii sasa, not trying to change another but adapting... this way we naturally humble ourselves..... beautiful souls❣❣❣to better days.. Egooo itatumaliza aki
Every girl needs at least one friendship like this. Deep, raw, real yaani one that exposes your vulnerabilities and then builds you up from there. This Covid season has taught me that for sure. I'm literally looking for new, strong-minded, bold, unapologetically real friendships... And just as is with relationships, settling is not an option. Thank you Jules and Ivy!!!
Agreed.. I'm with you on this and also looking for new friendships because of this. This season has definitely opened my eyes and it's refreshing to have a friendship like Jules and Ivy's that's this candid, raw, real and full of love.
@@ka8ana so true!! It's overwhelming doing life alone. It's comforting to have people to lean on 💕
@@Nimzy254 Yes it is. Well if you'd like a new friend feel free to reach out🤗
@@ka8ana I'd like that 😊 you can write me an email on wairimunimz@gmail.com then we can exchange numbers there, yeah?
@@Nimzy254 Perfect.. I'll do that!
I gravitate a lot towards authenticity and rawness and this just does it for me. Thank you for sharing and reminding us that ego can destroy the most beautiful things. I guess all good things need to be worked on just like having a plant it needs water,sunlight maybe even some fertilizer and friendship is just that. Lots of love and blessings to you and yours!
Am like Ivy. Ukinichosha na nikikushiba I block you. I don't need to see you anywhere or hear from you. Am also the blocking queen.😂😂😂😂😂
When you said "i am a chic of the system"...and you have struggled to find your place...wah! i felt that in my chest! The pressure out here for people to know their purpose and be overachievers by a certain age is real...heh!
💯%Truth
This reminds me of the episode where Molly and Issa Rae’s friendship was on the verge of ending on Insecure sn 4. Glad you guys worked things out!
I always wondered how perfect a girl group can be without and misunderstandings. Thanks for being real with us.
I think most friendships go through misunderstandings. Taking time to calm down and talk things out, you find that it was such a petty issue. Most times people miss out because they cant put their ego aside. Same for relationships. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing realness.
I super love the rawness and how candid this conversation is.... hitting 30, in the next few months and one of the things I am struggling with is friendships 🤔🤔🤔.... trying to remember why I was friends with some people in the first place.... remembering that they are also going through their own issues, being more understanding and empathetic
I looove female friendships.
They really help us grow and this is a prime example of one greeeat friendship.
I need to share this with someone.
Not me watching them two years later and they are not following each other😪💔
And the group is no more😢
@@Positivevibes-tq5mg really sad
Am in a hard place with my bestfriend. Right now we ain't talking and its the worst feeling. Maybe one day we will reconcile
It takes a lot of maturity to own mistakes and mend things. This is great!!❤
😂you two just being raw made me actually appreciate female friendships, which I usually avoid since I hate confrontation. But now, I see it is healthy. Expressing emotions.
We need Lornzie and Shikies reactions during these fights.
How do they cope with these fights?
This just helps and shows every human that is esp female that friendships do actually work even with all these beliefs that women can't work together... Thank you so much for being vulnerable with us.... Thank you for always stepping up and being our online aunties❤❤❤😭😭😭😭
Word!
Aunties tena. Hawa ni vifaranga za social media 😅
I noticed but I was like haiyaaa . Thanks for this candid convo. Friendships are hard😭😭. People underestimate the work that goes into sustaining a good and healthy friendship. You've got this y'all♥️
The complexities of female friendships, whew chile! Thanks for the lesson ladies.
I relate to Jules pettiness 😂😂'block me on tiktok, facebook...'
Welcome back Ivy. We've really missed you. Like I've posted before, your ENERGY, COMPETITIVENESS, CAN DO attitude and ACTIVE, EMPATHETIC LISTENING skills is something I'm working on every day. God bless you 🙏
I wish you were my sis 😥
I have to say you ladies have taught me a lot about squashing beef in this video; as a man I know the level of depth y'all ladies went into while making-up is not something men generally practice. It was refreshing to hear what Julia feels about work and all I can say is that I relate so much with how she feels about work my first internship really let me figure out where I stand with the contemporary working environment and as a creative it really didn't feel like me. Funny enough I could also deeply relate with Ivy coz how she speaks and communicates in her relationships is how I communicate as well and I was laughing at how awkward she felt while reading her texts to Julia.😂😂😂
Ugh. I really loved this. The part about "If we had just talked..." Ego management is really vital in all kinds of relationships.
Over 25 reminds me of Carrie Samantha, Charlotte and Miranda from Sex and the City. Ladies who vowed to be friends and worked through everything.
Me watching this with only one friend😂😂but I loved it!🧡
This is one of the realest vlogs I've EVER watched. Can't wait to meet Ivy 👌🏾❤️
Dead at "there was an entanglement"! 😂😂😂😂 Loved this honest, raw episode!
Ivy!!...I can imagine the blocking part, I also used to say sorry and block everyyywhere. But nowadays I just take my time until my anger is way down and my words are well planned.
This is so candid😍
Friendship is so sensitive and reconciliation actually brings y'all closer
I've come to appreciate Ivy more after watching this.
If there is something I appreciate about over 25 is that you are friends. This is your best video yet.
This was so awesome. My boyfriend was in the kitchen with me while I watched this and was so confused like what is happening "si they just go have a beer iishe"???? Meanwhile I'm there taking notes. You girls spoke such truth!!!!! That is how you build friendship. I loved it!!!!! It's work but it's worth it
LOL @ your bf
UA-cam should invent a top fan kind of statistic! I am sure I will be among top 100!
This right here though is the epitome of maturity! 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Y'all just amazing people!
This is the most powerful conversation I have ever heard between friends. Never have big conversations on text. Just talk to each other. 🤗🤗🤗hugs girls.
Best Over 25 upload so far....the authenticity and rawness was well needed....Thanks guys for sharing!!!!
I relate to Julia's situation about trying to find her place in the world. I about ready for a breakthrough.
Jules is so pretty. I love this conversation. Its very refreshing and real
Absolutely love this video! Ivy, your level of pettiness is winning 😂 I’m with you 💯
And your kimonoooooo Ivy is so gorgeous 😉
Haha
This is the most mature thing I have ever experienced. God bless your friendship. Love you guys!
Ey ladies y"all are amazing. Haha Ivy is my twin am an alfa female as well. My ego has been a struggle for me as well, when i realize am pissed i quickly apologize, but i realized not everyone is the same. Some people take time to digest issues, am learning to work with that. My close friends call me queen of blocking. Thanks alot for this, surely reminded me how important it is to communicate.
Beefing is normal, that's how we learn from each other. I remember i had beef with my very good friend sometime back we dint talk for 3months,we both are alfa females i had to lower my ego and make amends to our issues. We are so much better and happier now. Friendship is beautiful. Big up ladies.
Khai I got so teary listening to this. Ivy appears to me as this hard core persona but she's such a sweet soul just going by the number of times she bit down tears.
Lack words 😪😪
Friendships have always been at the centre of my heart how you guys addressed this ☺️☺️ it's just bomb
Thank you ladies for this lesson on friendship!! Such queens....
This is deep. Imenitouch!Had not noticed sijui following each other but I'm glad your friendship is evolving! Also Nacy memories HAHAHAHA
This is so crucial in friendships, understanding each other and working issues out. I really loved this, just 👌👌👌👌👌👌
This is true friendship, true maturity. So much love between the two of you and we love it. This video just made my afternoon and I wish you all the best in your friendship and all your future campaigns. May you thrive and thrive
Friendship is really a sensitive thing, I'm glad you settled on your matter
True friends for life
Thanks for this talk.. Personally, am that kind that gets pushed to the wall and never have enough guts to talk about it, so I opt to walk away.. This has costed me way too many friendships, high time I faced my fears
Friendship is about having those difficult conversations and be willing to listen. What you have right there is true friendship. Non of you is willing to give up what you have.
After this, I know you will be closer than ever before :)
This is by far the most interesting thing I have watched on your channel lol...you guys are true friends! So were you calling each other babe when arguing on the phone? This is just beautiful!!
This was quite informative. I am a Pisces like Julia and when you call me on my shit I get petty, but I am working on my ego.
It's an us thing. I also go off on people my feelings need to be heard first before we get to sorry.
Phew! If this ain’t the truth 😅
This was so beautiful. Thanks Ivy and Jules for sharing your story. You have inspired many .
Donna Roberts once said: “a friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails.”
COMPLIMENT!! YEEEES
Friendship needs balls too fix, all the time♥
Madem wa nairobi na babe 🤞🏽🤞🏽😂😂😂like wahura's tiktok but i love the realness and genuinely you can see the love ❤️❤️❤️
Why do we become soooo PETTY when we (women) argue 😂😂😂 This has been all the way relatable
Thanks Jules and Ivy for sharing this. Reminds me of the month of May this year..we kosanad with my siz for something so petty ..for not washing the Sufuria that had cooked ugali..it was not the 1st tym..but i tried to be so defensive. So we said things to each other and it became so huge..for a month we didnt speak to each other..honestly it was the hardest time for me..coz am the one with ego and so this tym she decided ..gal umenizoea. We are cool now..and i hope i can work on my ego. Imagine if i said sorry and we sorted the issue out..life would have been better
Good, strong, honest female friendships are such a force to reckon with!
Awwww this was soo niice. Mature conversation from two amazing ladies. Ivy ni comedian wangu Tiktok
Ivy is THE queen of tiktok! Yes, I said it and that yellow top is soooo looking good on her. ❤️💕
Many female friendships should normalize this kind of making up.. Not just cat fights
This has taught me a lot cause I have both personalities and it gets the best of me. I'm working on it but this has shown me how to work things through with friends I lost cause of my ego😂🙈
I applaud you for sharing this authentic and uncomfortable experience. It's great for people to see the bumps in friendships and the most important part; how to deal with the issues. You are amazing ladies. ♥ ♥
Watching this after seeing that Issa and Molly fall out on Insecure. And it is a reminder how we need to decipher whether our friendships are for a season. I'm so happy you worked it out and prioritized your friendship.
Watching this video and I had this one friend in mind all through. I really miss her. I kept crying every 2 minutes because.... 😍
My current situation right now
This was so raw and real and extremely relatable...
Hahahah... those hands on 'I'm the I'm done part' 😂😂so raw
Y'all are so smart, and reasonable my kind of people. Thanks for this, really.
Julia you're a lovely person, you reminded me of myself afew years ago...think you just need to practice being patient, not taking things too seriously and sleeping over things. But overall I love your personality and ivy's too.
The best thing is to communicate through calls rather than txts when having arguments...
The level of maturity on this video is on 💯. Love you guys
Ok, I teared up watching this and then texted all my besties that I haven''t reached out to in a while. Besties that I've been scared of growing apart with. Thanks, Over25 !!!!!
This was such a great video! I'm sure a lot of friendships have this issue and with the growth of "cancel culture" people would rather let a friendship/relationship die than put aside their ego and try and reconcile.
And you are so right! Friendships based on fun times more often than not lack depth and so its rare to see conflict in such relationships. When you are being authentic you will disagree with people because your truth is not someone else's truth. Relationships are complex because people are complex.
Thank you for being honest and setting a good example for putting egos aside and reconciliation. Kudos!!
Among the first ! I'm so proud of you guys ! Takes courage
This was raw, I wish all relationships and friendships especially were like this. Kudos to Ivy and Jules!! Sending love your way ❤❤❤
Guuuys! We know you really almost cried coz we could actually shed a tear in private. Love you ladies.
I absolutely love the realness of this video. Glad you two were able to patch things up. 😊
Yo! Mamis, you have actually given me the guts to seat and address some issues i friend and i have. Thank you.
We are humans no one is perfect. Friendship has ups and downs. Im happy for you guys. :)
Just want to know where Jules buys her tops😩😩
Thank you for the raw conversation!❤️❤️
The way you reconciled Jules
I'm cutting onions over here
:* love right back sis!
Very refreshing raw and honest conversation about real life. Enjoyed it.
Watching this 10 months later. So raw. So pure. I love these girls.
Going forward just learn each other, accept each other, fight and make up. Those fights make your friendship and business stronger because you have the same goals. Be gentle with each other