💯 Toddler tantrum in adult body 😮 My ex narc violently attacked me and the dog 😢, told me all he needs is a cleaner to replace me and there are lots of women happy to take my place. He ordered me out, not to speak to him or the dog 😮 4 days later I was gone, and since then he tells everyone he is the victim, that I stole his things etc…….. but he won’t return my things that mean nothing to him, and so much more. They do not poses the ability to deal with anything in an adult manner….. no one taught them to take accountability for their actions or words…. Sad 😢 His favourite one liners “ money is my best friend” and “I will do what I want when I want ….. let me be me “ 😅. If I could ask the flying monkeys 🙉 one question it would be ….. if he is so wonderful why would I leave the sunny coast and flee to another country ? Stay strong everyone - it is NOT easy. For me I am thankful for the last violent narc rage - made me realise I don’t deserve this type of behaviour. Thank you Lee for putting EVERYTHING in to perspective it is really helping me heal ❤
Don't forget that leaving IS statistically the most dangerous time. It's when most women are killed. Stay safe. My nex totally took his mask off and was the most vile I've ever seen him when I finally said it was over. It was really scary.
I'm so nervous about this. He went and got our youngest son a phone. I noticed he has the location on where only he can turn it off. As if he's trying to track us secretly.
@@NewLifeJourney24 get support wherever you can, reach out to your local DA charity if it's safe, they can help with leaving safely, making a plan, checking phones / vehicles for tracking etc. Be careful with phones because I was faced with "well he pays for the phone so he can track it" 😳
Same. The only difference is, he's a courier at my job and I'm able to avoid him on the days he delivers. My co-workers help with that also. They alert me that he's in the building so I make sure I'm no where in the area. I've been no contact for a year and eventually had to get my number changed because he was calling me from different numbers. Thank God I don't have to see him because my disgust for him is deep! Stay strong my sister and treat him as if he doesn't exist and it will get easier by the day. I had to do that for a while until I figured out a strategy and that was to get a couple of co-workers(that I trust of course)who see him the most to help me out. It has worked beautifully. You can do it girl!🙌
@@vinnell13 I live with mine still. He won't leave (unless he finds someone new I'm guessing) We have kids and they don't want him to go so I can't make him. Separate rooms and walking on eggshells to keep the peace for everyone. I feel quite stuck
Mine discarded me and then started checking up to see what I was doing, made phoney text messages, phoney phone calls I never answered. No contact going on 3 years.
@collectivemindsunique7945 oh God no. You're not alone. Text messages by the flying monkeys. Anyway he can get you to answer and get his foot in the door.
Thank you for these videos. Really helps.. been free since 3/20/24.. Hardest part which i still can't make sense of is he completely gave up when I caught him cheating. Just went emotionally dead and cold. Its like a switch flipped.. so bizarre but as a recovering codependent i really believe he thought I was too weak to leave. He never expected me to leave and divorce him because of my codependency, my own childhood trauma and anxious attachment style. Ive been working diligently in therapy throughout our 6 year marriage and i believe he thought i was this weak little 19 year old he love bombed.. its wild to see. Super grateful for self awareness and growth. Thankful for this channel and therapy in general..true life saver
Not going easy is an understatement….he flipped out, the mask fell off and his dangerous covert abuse turned lethal. I’m lucky to be alive. Never assume you are safe, nor should you trust them. Remember, the will hold a grudge and plan revenge. Stay Safe!
That snap poetry session brought me to tears. It is very deep and it is very true. I didn’t necessarily desire to reach out when I had memories & moments that we shared, however, the fact that we have those memories does arise.
Currently going throu that now & I must admit the peace returning has been phenomenally breathe taking but i do have some lows yet I noticed it was me grieving what wasnt truly there all along. Its very sad but it's also imperative to had let him go so i can regain myself. Thank you for allllllll of your hard work, i appreciate all you do🙏🙏🙏
@@MentalHealness Yes sir, each & everyday. If this helps anyone, I also noticed the times I felt anxiety or grief the most was also during the "same times" I knew he was up to no good or about to try to trigger or provoke a reaction way before he exited.. so I've learned those same feelings rather emotional memory & trauma started during the course of the hardship in which I'm addressing all of it but Im being gentle & patient with myself. I'm no one's victim but that of my own if not dealing with the reality of it all but I refuse! God bless!🙏
Sounds like my soon to be ex-husband when he was served the divorce papers this week! Ask me why did I it get a lawyer and who is in my ear!! No one, I just woke up and got tired of the cheating and disrespect!
The snapping of the fingers almost got me fired here at work 😂lol. In a serious note what you’re saying is so true! My Narc was the lying cheating one in the relationship and now that I left he’s telling people everything is my fault and I broke up the family.
I started having nightmares after the discard, and then I would wake up and not know where I was, and once I realized that it is true, I felt like I was waking to a living nightmare.
Yeah I went through that. Because it was all so weird, when you end it and come back to earth and normalcy, what you experienced feels even weirder 😂 Then you start thinking 'nah it can't have been as bad I thought because WHO does/says those things?' Recording, writing things down helps you to remember exactly how surreal it was and that it wasn't your imagination making it so crazy I have TWO narc parents and then I married one. Only woke up a year ago at 45 years young... and it's been a roller coaster. If i hadn't have been recording everything I'd still be doubting myself. Trust yourself ... it was THAT crazy
Yes I was a little emotional this morning still missing him. I keep saying to myself I deserve heaps better. It's been over 3 months since I haven't heard from him & it's a good thing. I'm keeping strong & moving forward to better days.
You'll miss him for sure but that's the trauma bond, my ex husband would love bomb me after being horrible. I miss the financial security but I replay the bad times in my mind to make sure I never go back. It's been 3 years and it's much better now without him. Grieving takes time❤
Or when he was drunk “If you cheat on me, I’ll kill all three of you” 🤨 I thought it was funny at first until I remembered he’s had restraining orders in the past, false imprisonment, multiple battery charges on his exes…not so fuckin funny. A week later we get into it and he gets wasted, drove, and drove off the road and into the trees. Broke his pelvis, hip, and a couple ribs. More to the story but basically I bought outdoor cameras and they’ll be here Sunday.
YOU ARE RIGHT ON POINT WITH WHAT IM GOING THROUGH it’s been 10 years I am at the let go stage and it’s a lgbt relationship ppl don’t think it’s with everyone but it’s true . NPD has no face or gender it hurts but I am ready to feel it and move on im exhausted and tired of feeling confused or not good enough or unappreciated we’ve broke up been through stages Hoover stage cheating while part blame shifting manipulation I’m just tired I’ll be 30 I feel just ugh
When I was trying to leave and I told that Psycho I am done. He threw a adult toddler temper tantrum on me. He tried to blame me for everything and put his shit all on me. I wasn't having it. I knew I wasn't the problem here. That he was the problem. He didn't want to accept any kind of Accountability at for what he did to me. I am going through the withdrawals still and sometimes I have that urge to reach out. I know how it will go all over again. I don't want to continue the abuse cycle anymore. I know that I deserve so much better, then he was doing to me.
Its hard in the beginning. I hope that he will never reach out ever again. But Nope but its spot on what you say first angry and yes he did all those things you say. Thennn it went to stalking me. Its creepy always aware of my surroundings butt i not showing. He would not stop letting me live in peace
Lee, you are absolutely adorable! You say the funniest things!! You make me laugh while helping me heal! I love your method of delivering your message! You are such a blessing to those of us needing encouragement and support to heal from narcissistic abuse. ❤❤
Everything you've said is absolutely true. Yes! I noticed things missing but accessing my accounts and phone. Legally what can I do? It's been four years and I'm still experiencing hoovering and stalking.
It’s hard for me. He went no contact with us 3 years ago after he left us for some other woman he’s not even with anymore. And I don’t like it. I wish he would call me sometimes just to see how I’m doing. We were married for 13 years. I had to divorce him by myself because he refused to divorce me after he said he’d rather die than stay married to me and bought the other girl a $4000 diamond ring on credit and had the lease agreement sent to my home out of spite. I’m mad that I still want him to call me. I don’t want him back. Like PERIOD. He was beyond demonic when he was here. I would not trust him around my son or him my house. But it pains me that I’m sitting here trying to figure out why he did any of this? How he could be so cold hearted and just not talk to your own son and wife for 3 freaking years. What’s with the silent treatment teenager crap? I’m glad I’m watching this though. Because yeah it’s weird. We just divorced 3 months ago. This is a transition. A healing period. I’m going from him being here 24/7 to no contact EVER AGAIN. It just hurts still.
I almost died with the boombox mountain dew bottle on your forehead. Backing that a#@ up to "In Your Eyes" . I dont think thats the same reaction in the movie. I😂😂😂 am dying thinking about it.
Did you ever hear of a narcissist getting diagnosed with bpd or bi polar and be excited about that? I swear my ex did because now she had an excuse and it gave her an indisputable victim card but it also conceals her npd. So she can do damage forever and npd will never be exposed because "are you a therapist"
EXPECT GOD TO COMPLETELY HEAL YOU........EXPECT to learn how to LOVE yourself over again. EXPECT your SELF-ESTEEM to increase, EXPECT your MENTAL, PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH TO not just improve, but SKY ROCKET. EXPECT to learn how to SOCIALIZE AGAIN, EXPECT to learn how to SMILE AGAIN!! you can EXPECT TO learn how to WALK AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!! like me, this July made 6 years that I WALKED AWAY,AND NEVER LOOKED BACK!! It is truly AMAZING what you can accomplish when YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO IT!!!
He used to hoover, but now he doesn't. He is cruel and callous, could care less about our son and me. He is indifferent, and I am hoping to be able to be indifferent as well. It hurts, not going to lie..it plays with my head. Last thing I heard was that he had a new partner, and supposedly he went physical on her, so now he might have to go to jail. I'm embarrassed to say it, but I actually feel sorry for him.
@@Hillside-Hive Good morning, Thank you so much for your words. I usually keep these thoughts to myself because other people don't seem to understand where I am coming from.
I had no transition. That mfr gave me the silent treatment so much I was used to him having BF's and not talking. N it was nothing bt relief when I realized the roller coaster ride was over for good!
It took my sister 2 years to finally get divorced from her narcissist alcoholic husband with all of his stall tactics. He even tried to sweet-talk her lawyer to get him to represent him at the same time. Let's share the lawyer and split the cost😮
Yep, not weird for me anymore he was the one who reached out begging me to him after a month he tried to play games so I cut him off and told him off and then blocked him. I’m hoping I never hear back from that covert narc again.
I needed the breakup , wanting it was harder ..I still love him but he does not care about me and I have no choice but to make myself understand that bc I'm dying inside and out, like I feel it..got in a fight, was just gonna be gone at my sister's one night..barely heard shit from him which is completely opposite from before ..4 days later finally lost it and said it's over blah blah his response what am I supposed to do chase you? Blocked him on everything instantly. I gotta hate him so I don't love him anymore
Mine was so bad and he expected me to just be ready. Then he'd put me back in the closet like the vacuum cleaner. He could have least grabbed the boombox for later.
Hey got a question for you Lee, was watching one of your other vedio about favorite supply. How do you know if you are the favorite supply for a narcissist? If a friend is a narcissist how do you know if you are there favorite, or it a coworker or your boss or a family member?
@@anonymoususer4866 I do work and he does too he wanted this to separate so why not get the divorce right?? Al of a sudden he don’t want to pay for it ? Yea I’m barely making it because of how he left me but it’s ok for him to go out spend time with someone else and yet the divorce is hard for him now .. I’m so angry and hurt by this .
Ther covid monster tried to put stuff on my credit card.luckly I had my card frozen.ther bank notify of ther person trying to charge men clothing on my card.law enforcement could care less.he have no credit.
It’s hard for me. He went no contact with us 3 years ago after he left us for some other woman he’s not even with anymore. And I don’t like it. I wish he would call me sometimes just to see how I’m doing. We were married for 13 years. I had to divorce him by myself because he refused to divorce me after he said he’d rather die than stay married to me and bought the other girl a $4000 diamond ring on credit and had the lease agreement sent to my home out of spite. I’m mad that I still want him to call me. I don’t want him back. Like PERIOD. He was beyond demonic when he was here. I would trust him around my son or him my house. But it pains me that I’m sitting here trying to figure out why he did any of this? How he could be so cold hearted and just not talk to your own son and wife for 3 freaking years. What’s with the silent treatment teenager crap? I’m glad I’m watching this though. Because yeah it’s weird. We just divorced 3 months ago. This is a transition. A healing period. I’m going from him being here 24/7 to no contact EVER AGAIN. It just hurts still.
💯 Toddler tantrum in adult body 😮 My ex narc violently attacked me and the dog 😢, told me all he needs is a cleaner to replace me and there are lots of women happy to take my place. He ordered me out, not to speak to him or the dog 😮 4 days later I was gone, and since then he tells everyone he is the victim, that I stole his things etc…….. but he won’t return my things that mean nothing to him, and so much more. They do not poses the ability to deal with anything in an adult manner….. no one taught them to take accountability for their actions or words…. Sad 😢 His favourite one liners “ money is my best friend” and “I will do what I want when I want ….. let me be me “ 😅. If I could ask the flying monkeys 🙉 one question it would be ….. if he is so wonderful why would I leave the sunny coast and flee to another country ? Stay strong everyone - it is NOT easy. For me I am thankful for the last violent narc rage - made me realise I don’t deserve this type of behaviour. Thank you Lee for putting EVERYTHING in to perspective it is really helping me heal ❤
Sounds like what mine did 😂feel sorry for the babies, NOT!!
Don't forget that leaving IS statistically the most dangerous time. It's when most women are killed. Stay safe.
My nex totally took his mask off and was the most vile I've ever seen him when I finally said it was over. It was really scary.
Mine as well. Terrifying
I'm so nervous about this. He went and got our youngest son a phone. I noticed he has the location on where only he can turn it off. As if he's trying to track us secretly.
@@NewLifeJourney24 get support wherever you can, reach out to your local DA charity if it's safe, they can help with leaving safely, making a plan, checking phones / vehicles for tracking etc. Be careful with phones because I was faced with "well he pays for the phone so he can track it" 😳
I wasn't prepared yet knowing his behavior. His choices are disgusting . Im so so so much better off than all of this bs
“Girl you look good wont you back that ass up one more time” 😂 Your videos are literally helping me in so many ways funny & informative lol.
😂 happy to help
I’m no contact and sometimes the hard part is we still work together. I don’t engage at all, even when we have to be in the same room.
stay strong
I work with mine too. He ended things with me 2 days ago. You’re not alone.
That's rough
Same. The only difference is, he's a courier at my job and I'm able to avoid him on the days he delivers. My co-workers help with that also. They alert me that he's in the building so I make sure I'm no where in the area. I've been no contact for a year and eventually had to get my number changed because he was calling me from different numbers. Thank God I don't have to see him because my disgust for him is deep!
Stay strong my sister and treat him as if he doesn't exist and it will get easier by the day. I had to do that for a while until I figured out a strategy and that was to get a couple of co-workers(that I trust of course)who see him the most to help me out. It has worked beautifully. You can do it girl!🙌
@@vinnell13 I live with mine still. He won't leave (unless he finds someone new I'm guessing) We have kids and they don't want him to go so I can't make him.
Separate rooms and walking on eggshells to keep the peace for everyone. I feel quite stuck
Mine discarded me and then started checking up to see what I was doing, made phoney text messages, phoney phone calls I never answered. No contact going on 3 years.
Nice! I'm going on 3 year away from my narcissist ex husband also. Have to co parent tho 😢
If you don’t mind me asking. What do you mean by phoney text messages? Mine is doing that and I just want to know I’m not alone in this experience.
@collectivemindsunique7945 oh God no. You're not alone. Text messages by the flying monkeys. Anyway he can get you to answer and get his foot in the door.
Mine tried to reset my Facebook password 😢
Thank you for these videos. Really helps.. been free since 3/20/24..
Hardest part which i still can't make sense of is he completely gave up when I caught him cheating. Just went emotionally dead and cold. Its like a switch flipped.. so bizarre but as a recovering codependent i really believe he thought I was too weak to leave. He never expected me to leave and divorce him because of my codependency, my own childhood trauma and anxious attachment style. Ive been working diligently in therapy throughout our 6 year marriage and i believe he thought i was this weak little 19 year old he love bombed.. its wild to see. Super grateful for self awareness and growth. Thankful for this channel and therapy in general..true life saver
I’m at such peace without that behavior
Not going easy is an understatement….he flipped out, the mask fell off and his dangerous covert abuse turned lethal. I’m lucky to be alive. Never assume you are safe, nor should you trust them. Remember, the will hold a grudge and plan revenge. Stay Safe!
Your acting the parts skills are on point 😂🤣give this man an Oscar
Almost like he knows 😂
That snap poetry session brought me to tears. It is very deep and it is very true. I didn’t necessarily desire to reach out when I had memories & moments that we shared, however, the fact that we have those memories does arise.
Currently going throu that now & I must admit the peace returning has been phenomenally breathe taking but i do have some lows yet I noticed it was me grieving what wasnt truly there all along. Its very sad but it's also imperative to had let him go so i can regain myself. Thank you for allllllll of your hard work, i appreciate all you do🙏🙏🙏
🙏🏽🙏🏽 stay empowered
@@MentalHealness Yes sir, each & everyday. If this helps anyone, I also noticed the times I felt anxiety or grief the most was also during the "same times" I knew he was up to no good or about to try to trigger or provoke a reaction way before he exited.. so I've learned those same feelings rather emotional memory & trauma started during the course of the hardship in which I'm addressing all of it but Im being gentle & patient with myself. I'm no one's victim but that of my own if not dealing with the reality of it all but I refuse! God bless!🙏
The timing of this is impeccable. Been having those very doubts this past week.
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Mine gave me the go, then got mad when I filed for divorce!
He said someone was coaching me. 🤷🏽♀️
Oh my goodness
Same. Even went so far and lied about having an attorney already 🙃 Welp. Guess who called his bluff??? 👋🏾 ✌🏾 Can't wait for this to be finalized..
Sounds like my soon to be ex-husband when he was served the divorce papers this week! Ask me why did I it get a lawyer and who is in my ear!! No one, I just woke up and got tired of the cheating and disrespect!
@@melissaknight3438that part! 🙌
Loved the poetry / finger snapping meditation 😊 lol
Appreciate it 😆
It spoke right to me...😂😢
Had to call the police for him to leave... He always said I was cute when mad... never took me seriously
@@kelliprice4953 Omg mine too…he would smile at me. It’s so fuckin creepy.
About a month after the discard, he sent me information about a concert of people we’ve listened to throughout the years coming here to San Diego.
the snap poetry!! 🤣
😂
The snapping of the fingers almost got me fired here at work 😂lol.
In a serious note what you’re saying is so true! My Narc was the lying cheating one in the relationship and now that I left he’s telling people everything is my fault and I broke up the family.
I have mixed feelings, I don't believe if what happened is true. I think I am in a dream 😢
??
More like a nightmare being with a narc.
I started having nightmares after the discard, and then I would wake up and not know where I was, and once I realized that it is true, I felt like I was waking to a living nightmare.
Yeah I went through that. Because it was all so weird, when you end it and come back to earth and normalcy, what you experienced feels even weirder 😂
Then you start thinking 'nah it can't have been as bad I thought because WHO does/says those things?'
Recording, writing things down helps you to remember exactly how surreal it was and that it wasn't your imagination making it so crazy
I have TWO narc parents and then I married one. Only woke up a year ago at 45 years young... and it's been a roller coaster.
If i hadn't have been recording everything I'd still be doubting myself.
Trust yourself ... it was THAT crazy
@@jenster29You are so accurate. That's what I am dealing with. Coming to the realization with it.
Yes I was a little emotional this morning still missing him. I keep saying to myself I deserve heaps better. It's been over 3 months since I haven't heard from him & it's a good thing. I'm keeping strong & moving forward to better days.
You'll miss him for sure but that's the trauma bond, my ex husband would love bomb me after being horrible. I miss the financial security but I replay the bad times in my mind to make sure I never go back. It's been 3 years and it's much better now without him. Grieving takes time❤
@@LeahBreHappy ❤️
😂😂😂 Yes the inside joke happened. 😂😂😂 But I stayed no contact, it's been 3 years with no going back.
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OMG!!!!!😂😂😂😂 the boombox !!!! I’ve experienced what you’ve stated in various ways. WOW.
Oh wow!
Lol..That's snap was Epic..
Thank You
Glad you liked it
I love watching and listening to you, Lee! 💯
They are soulless people...not you, Lee! ❤❤
♥️
Or when he was drunk “If you cheat on me, I’ll kill all three of you” 🤨 I thought it was funny at first until I remembered he’s had restraining orders in the past, false imprisonment, multiple battery charges on his exes…not so fuckin funny. A week later we get into it and he gets wasted, drove, and drove off the road and into the trees. Broke his pelvis, hip, and a couple ribs. More to the story but basically I bought outdoor cameras and they’ll be here Sunday.
This is very interesting...Thats exactly what im feeling at this very moment...
That breakdown with the snaps was very helpful❤. I'll be using this method.💖✨️
Thank you so much for that...
You are very welcome
Lee, you are hilarious! Not the boombox! 😂
YOU ARE RIGHT ON POINT WITH WHAT IM GOING THROUGH it’s been 10 years I am at the let go stage and it’s a lgbt relationship ppl don’t think it’s with everyone but it’s true . NPD has no face or gender it hurts but I am ready to feel it and move on im exhausted and tired of feeling confused or not good enough or unappreciated we’ve broke up been through stages Hoover stage cheating while part blame shifting manipulation I’m just tired I’ll be 30 I feel just ugh
When I was trying to leave and I told that Psycho I am done. He threw a adult toddler temper tantrum on me. He tried to blame me for everything and put his shit all on me. I wasn't having it. I knew I wasn't the problem here. That he was the problem. He didn't want to accept any kind of Accountability at for what he did to me. I am going through the withdrawals still and sometimes I have that urge to reach out. I know how it will go all over again. I don't want to continue the abuse cycle anymore. I know that I deserve so much better, then he was doing to me.
Its hard in the beginning. I hope that he will never reach out ever again. But Nope but its spot on what you say first angry and yes he did all those things you say. Thennn it went to stalking me. Its creepy always aware of my surroundings butt i not showing. He would not stop letting me live in peace
Lee, you are absolutely adorable! You say the funniest things!!
You make me laugh while helping me heal! I love your method of delivering your message! You are such a blessing to those of us needing encouragement and support to heal from narcissistic abuse. ❤❤
They are desperate and can be alone for a week. They are losers
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Good God Lee!!😂😂 Only you could say this stuff out loud 😂
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Everything you've said is absolutely true. Yes! I noticed things missing but accessing my accounts and phone. Legally what can I do? It's been four years and I'm still experiencing hoovering and stalking.
It’s hard for me. He went no contact with us 3 years ago after he left us for some other woman he’s not even with anymore. And I don’t like it. I wish he would call me sometimes just to see how I’m doing. We were married for 13 years. I had to divorce him by myself because he refused to divorce me after he said he’d rather die than stay married to me and bought the other girl a $4000 diamond ring on credit and had the lease agreement sent to my home out of spite. I’m mad that I still want him to call me. I don’t want him back. Like PERIOD. He was beyond demonic when he was here. I would not trust him around my son or him my house. But it pains me that I’m sitting here trying to figure out why he did any of this? How he could be so cold hearted and just not talk to your own son and wife for 3 freaking years. What’s with the silent treatment teenager crap? I’m glad I’m watching this though. Because yeah it’s weird. We just divorced 3 months ago. This is a transition. A healing period. I’m going from him being here 24/7 to no contact EVER AGAIN. It just hurts still.
You’re always on point
i try. appreciate it
I almost died with the boombox mountain dew bottle on your forehead. Backing that a#@ up to "In Your Eyes" . I dont think thats the same reaction in the movie. I😂😂😂 am dying thinking about it.
Did you ever hear of a narcissist getting diagnosed with bpd or bi polar and be excited about that? I swear my ex did because now she had an excuse and it gave her an indisputable victim card but it also conceals her npd. So she can do damage forever and npd will never be exposed because "are you a therapist"
😂😂😂👍 love the humor!
Appreciate it
Transitional phase
🎯
I need to get that book for my little.
EXPECT GOD TO COMPLETELY HEAL YOU........EXPECT to learn how to LOVE yourself over again. EXPECT your SELF-ESTEEM to increase, EXPECT your MENTAL, PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH TO not just improve, but SKY ROCKET. EXPECT to learn how to SOCIALIZE AGAIN, EXPECT to learn how to SMILE AGAIN!! you can EXPECT TO learn how to WALK AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!! like me, this July made 6 years that I WALKED AWAY,AND NEVER LOOKED BACK!! It is truly AMAZING what you can accomplish when YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO IT!!!
💯
Lee you're hilarious... I'm in that transitional phase. .
Thank you so much your video's have helped took so not easy but a must i take my life back
you’re welcome
He used to hoover, but now he doesn't. He is cruel and callous, could care less about our son and me. He is indifferent, and I am hoping to be able to be indifferent as well. It hurts, not going to lie..it plays with my head. Last thing I heard was that he had a new partner, and supposedly he went physical on her, so now he might have to go to jail. I'm embarrassed to say it, but I actually feel sorry for him.
Don't be embarrassed- most of us are empaths ❤. As for thr callous- mine did that too, its a ploy to get us to hoover them. Stay strong💪
@@Hillside-Hive
Good morning,
Thank you so much for your words. I usually keep these thoughts to myself because other people don't seem to understand where I am coming from.
I had no transition. That mfr gave me the silent treatment so much I was used to him having BF's and not talking. N it was nothing bt relief when I realized the roller coaster ride was over for good!
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It took my sister 2 years to finally get divorced from her narcissist alcoholic husband with all of his stall tactics. He even tried to sweet-talk her lawyer to get him to represent him at the same time. Let's share the lawyer and split the cost😮
Mind said he’s think he was dying lol 😂
😂
Yep, not weird for me anymore he was the one who reached out begging me to him after a month he tried to play games so I cut him off and told him off and then blocked him. I’m hoping I never hear back from that covert narc again.
💯💯
Just prepare to leave
They do love when you’re mean to them & that’s one reason why they love me! lol I’m like a sour patch kid
You are so good❤
♥️ appreciate it
I needed the breakup , wanting it was harder ..I still love him but he does not care about me and I have no choice but to make myself understand that bc I'm dying inside and out, like I feel it..got in a fight, was just gonna be gone at my sister's one night..barely heard shit from him which is completely opposite from before ..4 days later finally lost it and said it's over blah blah his response what am I supposed to do chase you? Blocked him on everything instantly. I gotta hate him so I don't love him anymore
It's cheap enough sex, though still financially draining, but a huge time sink.
Mine was so bad and he expected me to just be ready. Then he'd put me back in the closet like the vacuum cleaner. He could have least grabbed the boombox for later.
That is so convenient.
Oh snap!! I'm in the middle of that right now.
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Lee how do I tell this Narcisse I'm leaving, or should I just secretly leave.
Not back that ahh up😂😂😂😂
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Another question know it personal lee but how the family doing?
Yeah leaving is hard but be prepared what to come. Heal and docterment
If somebody feels tempted to go back please watch the video with DDon on here that will bring you back to reality
Who?
@@MentalHealness the reel you showed with that guy that said what would happen if you take them back or spin the block
Bring a police offer with you.
Hey got a question for you Lee, was watching one of your other vedio about favorite supply. How do you know if you are the favorite supply for a narcissist?
If a friend is a narcissist how do you know if you are there favorite, or it a coworker or your boss or a family member?
😂😂😂😂 I’m listening to this BS right now
I just wanna know what makes a person become this way? Because going through it, and discovering who they really are is no joke. It's messing me up. 😢
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Lee I think I got issues because I want my narcissist to say no don't leave me show me that he cares, am I crazy lol??
What I’m going through now ..
Mine told me for all my dudes I supposedly have to pay for our divorce and I can’t get my stuff out his house because he won’t give it to me ..
If you’re not working and you file, the courts may void the filing fee.
@@anonymoususer4866 I do work and he does too he wanted this to separate so why not get the divorce right?? Al of a sudden he don’t want to pay for it ? Yea I’m barely making it because of how he left me but it’s ok for him to go out spend time with someone else and yet the divorce is hard for him now .. I’m so angry and hurt by this .
It's hard😢
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I cannot deal with your little voices acting like them 😅😅😅😂 they have me so weakkkk
I had a maybe 👶 baby...
It was girl 😂
Ther covid monster tried to put stuff on my credit card.luckly I had my card frozen.ther bank notify of ther person trying to charge men clothing on my card.law enforcement could care less.he have no credit.
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Poke it out 😂
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It’s hard for me. He went no contact with us 3 years ago after he left us for some other woman he’s not even with anymore. And I don’t like it. I wish he would call me sometimes just to see how I’m doing. We were married for 13 years. I had to divorce him by myself because he refused to divorce me after he said he’d rather die than stay married to me and bought the other girl a $4000 diamond ring on credit and had the lease agreement sent to my home out of spite. I’m mad that I still want him to call me. I don’t want him back. Like PERIOD. He was beyond demonic when he was here. I would trust him around my son or him my house. But it pains me that I’m sitting here trying to figure out why he did any of this? How he could be so cold hearted and just not talk to your own son and wife for 3 freaking years. What’s with the silent treatment teenager crap? I’m glad I’m watching this though. Because yeah it’s weird. We just divorced 3 months ago. This is a transition. A healing period. I’m going from him being here 24/7 to no contact EVER AGAIN. It just hurts still.