I’ve been watching you guys for some time in fact since Zach was still in college. I must say that your videos have only gotten better and boy did this one hit me right in the feels. That letter was beautifully written and read thank you for being vulnerable and open with us
Greetings from the most isolated city on the planet. Perth, Western Australia. I just had to tell you guys how much I love your love. I've just started watching your clips and I smile with every one. I'm from an older generation ( I turned 60 on the 10th of November 2020) and I wasn't given the chance to marry until it was too late. I spent 41 years with the most amazing man for Vienna, Austria. Sadly I lost him on 15/02/2019, one day before my sister's birthday. My point is, I see your marriage/roller coaster and I love it. I'm so glad that we as people have finally evolved enough for us to share our love with the world. I'm so grateful that you share so much of your lives. I cried with joy when Alastair came home from deployment and I love Kyle's laugh. A deep, heartfilled laugh. Thank you for letting me enjoy life vicariously through yours.
I’m happy y’all are enjoying this one. The compliments on it mean a lot. I’m still stuck on what the title and thumbnail should be, but I’ll figure it out one of these days haha. Hope everyone’s week is wrapping up nicely. Enjoy the weekend!
You know, I've followed you basically since day one and I still fall in love with every new video you put out. They always get better and better. I think this one was beautiful.
You two are friggin’ adorable. I have three older brothers, none of whom are gay, but all of whom have expressed how the mainstreaming of gay culture has liberated them too. What they mean is that it has helped break down really limiting gender stereotypes for all men, and that has liberated them. Thank you for sharing your story.
To love and to be loved in return, is the greatest accomplishment two human beings can have. Together you can get through anything that comes your way.
Hands down my favorite part of this video was hearing your letter. It takes a lot to share your feelings, but even more so when you’re sharing them with an audience like us. We are strangers when it comes to y’all’s love for each other. We don’t see every raw detail of y’all’s life to fully understand the power behind your words. But I do believe we all understand love at some capacity. So with that, I feel moved and extremely honored that you shared a very private and romantic memory with all of us. Truly inspirational. Thank you, thank you, and oh yeah thank you! 🤓
I just had to copy the whole letter down: My Alastair, This morning, I woke up to a rush of warm inner sun. You were resting next to me, and I could see gentle dreams on your face. I smiled, watching you, and thought: all things should be about love. I'm not the perfect man, but I do know love. Because I'm in love with you. And if you hold my hand, I know that I can grow. If you give me a single day, I know I can use it to build many years. And we will live in those years, like a strong house, fixing our memories to the walls. What a thing love is. What a good thing. I love you.
Moments like this are what made me fall in love with you two. You have such beautiful souls. Never stop sharing your love and never stop being real with the world.
Hey Zach I’ve been following your channel for more than two years now and I just wanna say you’ve been a huge inspiration to me. I just graduated high school, came out, and now I’m heading to NYU. It’s been hard, but I’ve started talking to this really cute guy and things are beginning to fall into place for me. Thanks for showing me that it’s possible for people like us to find happiness :)
Hey, I don't know you, and I am from a different country. But I am really glad to read how things are coming together for you. Wish you the best, and good luck in college.
Think of the Notebook by Nicholas SParks but with a gay couple and imagine yourslef as being the husband or boyfriend of your partner. That's what I do when I get sad.
Amen finding someone in this world seems impossible. All I want is a decent man to build a life with, go to church, raise a kid, you know that kinda thing. All I keep finding are lazy dope heads.
@@williambishop8044 it sucks so bad. I hate gay hookup culture so much. All I want is a loyal and loving boyfriend who will marry me one day-but it feels impossible to do in todays gay culture. Good luck to you!!
This is really refreshing to see a HEALTHY GAY MARRIAGE being gay myself sometimes due to gay culture it’s sometimes easy to loose hope in stuff like this so yea 🥺😭 congrats on three years guys 🎉🎊🎉
Fuck, you guys make me cry...the good kind of tears. Thank you for showing the world what a good, solid marriage is-two imperfect people (I mean, we’re all imperfect) who perfectly love each other. Such a beautiful thing!
When u talk about your relationship and and people saying they want a relationship like yours & how your relationship is perfect. I think we all know that, married people argue, have their ups &; downs , but the thing is despite it all, you still love each other and that's what most of us are looking for. Ww are looking for that person who says, no matter what, no matter how u may drive me up a wall at times, I will never leave you. That's what we are looking for. It would be a dull world if we didn't duke it out at times & clear the air. Sp despite your wrongs & flaws, still think u have a great relationship. Happy Anniversary & many more.
THIS was one of the best gay couples vids I’ve ever seen. The love letter was beautiful and beautifully written. It actually brought tears to my eyes. I wish you two the best-always.
I've been a silent watcher for a while now and never comment but I just had to say that was so beautiful. That brought tears to my eyes and filled me with so much happiness. Zach you are so incredibly talented with these videos. I wish nothing but the absolute best for you two and many, many more years of this love. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Never forget to say "I love you", and always kiss each other good night. I lost my Marcos many hears ago. I've been alone ever since, he's my guardian Angel God bless you two.
Along with Matt and Blue, you really are just one of those couples that feels so natural on camera.... where every interaction feels not forced. I hope it makes sense. Keep loving each other. Always happy to see your uploads! 😊
I'm 51 years old and never had a long-term relationship. I'm very much an introvert. I love being alone and am very rarely lonely. However, when I watch your videos, I wonder if I should have let down the walls and risked the chance to find what you have. You guys are beautiful together. Truly.
Laying in bed, watching this at 4:00 in the morning... reminiscing on how RARE it is to find a love like this. And if you're ever lucky enough to- how important it is to cherish it, protect it, fight for it (every day). Because it can be gone in an instant. Thank you for sharing YOUR love with us as a reminder. xo
I have been sitting through the pandemic in the Hill County with my husband. We have to laugh at you both. You sound just like we were 21 years ago. We had to go with a King bed with two twins. I am 100% side sleeper and the softer the better. He sleep on his back, stomach and sides but it has to be hard as a rock. His side may work for sleeping but it sucks when it comes to the lovin and you don't want to do it on the crack where the two twins come together. Trust me. It is not exactly comfortable. You're right, it is okay to blow up as long as it doesn't get physical. Living in the RV for the last 5 months can really stress the relationship if you don't have a stable foundation. After 21 years it is safe to say that we have changed over the years. We met at the Round Up early on a Friday night. He had recently relocated to Dallas and I moved to Dallas in 1992 with my previous partner. I worked in the medical field in case management and stopped in to see a friend who had recently been released from the hospital. I swung by after work and was definitely not dressed to go dancing. We introduced ourselves. Chatted for about an hour. Went to dinner that turned into a 3am cup of coffee and off to my place. We have been together since that night. I knew right away that Don was the right guy. We ended raising two boys a couple years later. Left Oaklawn and moved to the suburbs. The kids are grown. I am retired. My husband would like to work a few more years before he is ready to retire and live in the RV fulltime. I have watched your channel and it is so exciting to see young couples find love and really work at it. If you're not willing to do the work it is never going to last. You're going to make mistakes. You're going to get it wrong. The question is how you handle it. Our best friends married the same time we did. They stood for us and we stood for them. They too have done the hard work and are happily married 21 plus years also. So Congratulations guys. From your Texas neighbors. Wishing you another 3 years and more.
I’ve followed you almost from your first video, through Bama and meeting Alistair, courtship, West Point, graduation, (saying goodbye to B), deployment, and now this place. It’s been a true pleasure to watch you grow and mature, and y’all’s relationship (it takes another Texan to throw out y’all’s) is wonderful. Keep being yourselves and never let go of that rope, and y’all will have a wonderful life.❤️
I'm scared to come out. Im almost 18 leaving college soon, and I cant help but feel I will forever be seen as a different person when I come out. But, Zach, your videos have reminded me to have courage everyday. So thank-you so much. I don't know how it will work out but I think once all goes down I will have achieved a huge milestone for my life and I can then accomplish anything after it. Thank-you so much and spreading love to everyone who sees this.
I turned 18 on march of this year and the only one that doesn't know I'm gay is my dad. But besides that, it's ok to be different because it makes you unique in your own special way. The truth is I'm still trying to work through my inner struggles but that's ok because I'm young and so are you. You don't need to rush into anything especially in college. Just go with the flow🌈
@@kevinsanchez4666 well spoken, take it with the flow and BE WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE, Not someone wants you to be, that is a log once has to carry, i feel his struggle and pains.
don't be scared, just be who and what you are. You simply cannot changed for the world, but let the people around you welcome you with open hearts of who you are. It is a matter of time. As for now, concentrate on your college and the degree you want to pursue. There are lots of students in the college have the same emotions roller coaster like you are. Finish your degree and once you are out in the world, it is a total different place. You will get to find your inner self. Be strong and have faith in yourself. Once again, DON'T BE AFRAID OF WHO YOU ARE, YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE. YOU CAN'T ALTER THAT. LIVE AND BE PROUD OF IT.
Wow you may not realize it but this an exciting time for you! College is a time of tremendous growth and self discovery. I think you are already ahead of me when I was 18. I wish I knew UA-camrs like Zach at that age. Just take your time. Cliche but this just comes down to learning to love yourself and accept who you are. I’m almost 25 and I still have some shame and stuff to work on and I’m not sure if that fear of ppl looking at you differently will ever go away. But what I have learned in my life so far that each year I care less and less. What matters is you find ppl who support you (hopefully friends and family) who make you feel loved unconditionally even after you tell them. You’ll know when you are ready to come out don’t have to rush this is literally not a race lol. Some ppl don’t come out til later like 30s and 40s and that’s okay. Just learn to be comfortable with yourself and it’ll all work out. Sending positive vibes as you begin college this fall!!
You will be seen as a different person. You will be seen as you....and isn't that a good thing. You can then stop trying to be someone else, living a lie.
Not gonna lie, the reading of the letter to Alistair moved me to tears. I hope I find a love that makes me feel like that. Happy anniversary, guys. May you be blessed with many, many years of love and happiness.
Being a mother to humans didn't happen for me. Had I had sons, I would have been most blessed had they been men like you. Thank you for sharing this with us. Zach, this video is perfect. Your letter is amazing. Keep writing-- both of you. Love and hugs to you and the pups
I just love you guys. Zach, I've said it before, I'll say it again. You are immensely talented. Your story telling, your editing, your filming, are all just gorgeous and incredibly moving. Your letter to Alister was beautiful! You most definitely have a poets soul. I pretty much blubbered like an idiot through almost the entire video. Thank you for sharing yourselves, your dogs, and your art in such a beautiful manner. May you guys continue to recognize the special nature of your relationship. May you continue to face your struggles and your triumphs together. May you always remember that what makes your relationship great is knowing through your love, it does not have to be perfect. You both just have to be willing to fight for it, and for one another. I know you are aware of all of this. As long as you always remember it. You all are going to continue to build the most glorious future together. Take care!
The most genuine letter ever. So full of love and hope. I seriously cried while you read it. Oh my heart strings loves the love you have for each other.
I watched this and I wrote a love letter to my boyfriend. I guess you guys are my muse. I really believe you portray a relationship well in these videos, the tough talks, the ups and downs, how you take the time to share your feelings, and fighting (it's tough!) to keep it all together. You do this better than you yourself believe, and watching you I learn so much. I got my own relationship with someone who enjoys my company, and though that's mostly on me, you helped by leading with your example. I know it must be hard to share so much, but I want you to know I'm not here for the perfect couple, I am here to share your joy and pain, and thankful that you let me do so.
WOW. The amount of love in this video is without measure. When you look at each other, you can see the love without any words spoken. In a world filled with division, ravaged by a virus and reckoning with racial inequality, your vids give us a small glimpse of what happy looks like. What love should be. And how beautiful a simple smile or beautiful laugh can truly be. Thank you guys for this video! It is what I needed this morning. And Zach, you keep writing!! Your words are absolutely beautiful! ❤❤
For me, each of your videos is like a love poem - even the few that are hard to watch such s the one about your father. That one felt like a love poem to yourself and to your relationship with Alastair. There is a intimacy to them, but one that properly preserves the parts of you that must be protected. I so much appreciate your work. I wish both of you long lives and great joy.
I can’t begin to tell you how moved I was by this video. I have watched tons of gay proposals and weddings just because there is something special about two men in love. I was surprised by the fact that Alistair requested that you read something so private on camera and then that you actually did it. For the first time ever I found myself crying. The love and tenderness in your writing was overwhelming and the gentleness as you spoke it to him aloud made the meaning so much more profound. How blessed you both are to have found each other! Indeed all things should be about love❤Best wishes always!!
None of us are perfect, but you two are "perfect" for each other. May you have many years of happiness together. My partner and I will celebrate 53 years together in August.
That was beautiful - you are a gifted writer and a sweet, beautiful soul. I have watched your videos for years and have grown very fond of you both. I wish both of you many more years of enjoying each other’s love and friendship. Thanks for this video in particular.
"Do angels again." 😂👍👌 Such a great video. Happiness is something the world needs right now. Thank you for sharing your beautiful, and happy, moments. You may not be perfect in the sense of no bad times. But you do seem perfect for each other. And if your good times outweigh the bad times, then that's perfect. 🙂
I don't believe I have ever known two people, male or female, more in love with each other than you two. You guys are an inspiration to every one on this planet just how two people can be together, share together, love together, and have beautiful lives together. Thank you so very much.
Y’all are such a beautiful couple and I am inspired by you both. I became ordained to marry my best friend and her wife because they were afraid of being turned down by ministers. I wish someone like myself could have married y’all so that it could have been done with respect, love and compassion for the love that you two deserved. I am so proud of you, Zach! I have been watching you since you had 15,000 subs and you and your journey makes my heart beam with pride, joy, love, and I had misty eyes throughout this video. Sending love to you and Alastair and congratulations on your anniversary! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤎🤍
Most UA-camrs sit in front of a camera and talk and there's not much substance. Watching this, i feel like there is a story. There's a middle, beginning and end. The music, what you choose to include visually and the topic you cover. It's a pleasure that you share this with us. Thanks.
i agree this is so much more beautiful than what other youtube videos gives us that’s why zach will forever be my favorite. he always adds so much soul and individuality in his videos
Watching your vlogs always makes me cry, not from sadness, but from the pure joy and genuine love u share. I pray someday to find a love as pure as yours. The way u look at each other is magical! Thank you for sharing and letting the world know what true love looks like! God bless your family! ❤😊❤
Intense, personal, passionate and so deeply heartfelt. This is love made intimately manifest and so tangible that you feel almost intrusive just to see this film. Wonderful. Thank you, Zach & Alistair.
WOW!! I cried as you were reading that letter. Absolutely beautiful. May you both be blessed to have many, many more years together. You sirs are showing the world right now, what true love looks and feels like. Thank you. May God bless you both even more and keep you safe and happy. Have a wonderful life together. P.S. Love the voice!!
Zach, I love your comment "I wish I would have started recording my life earlier". If we all would have known how special certain moments in our lives would become. There is a new cable show coming titled "what I wished I knew before I started talking" , your comment outranks that one. Love you guys.
Seeing how he feels about Alistair from these videos sometimes makes me cry. The way he calls him his soulmate is so obviously true just from the ways that he records him, it makes me so happy to see that someone can care about someone else so deeply. I know this video came out a while ago but it was on my recommended and now I'm crying happy tears on my way to classes. Have a good day to all who read this.
I have to watch this video in parts, because there is too much loving energy in it. So much for my body to handle. This gives me so much hope and inspiration for my future. I just turned 20, And I finally have come to terms with being gay. so it feels like I'm finally taking the first steps in creating myself, And it is exhausting. Thank you so much for everything you do, and for making this video.✨✨✨☁️
July 11th is our Anniversary as well. We were married on July 11, 2012 which was the 20th anniversary of the day we moved in together. And Zach, that was a truly beautiful letter you wrote. It was perfect.
My partner and I will celebrate our 40th anniversary next year and wish you all the luck we've had. It just seem to get better and better. Love, Paul and Brian
My partner and I will celebrate our 34th next year and I feel like a unicorn most all of the time. It is a good thing to see and read about other long-term dedicated same sex relationships. Love to all.
Your videos are always so beautiful and emotional. I often forget that I'm not watching a feature film because the editing, music, and effects are so well done. Absolutely perfect. Thank you so much for sharing your life and your love with us. Best of luck and happiness for you both and the pups with all that comes your way :)
Hi guys! I just came across your page yesterday and find it hard to stop watching. This video in particular, has touched me deeply. I'm 74 years old and I marvel at the love you have for each other. The letter reading was especially poignant. It brought a huge smile to my face and dare I say, a few tears to my eyes. May you have a great many years of happiness together and my God Bless every one of them!
Zach, I love that we have the same accent. People comment on the similarity’s daily. I no longer try to hold it back. And we both have a potty mouth. Roll Tide.
When UA-cam recommends your video entitled “Husband comes from deployment “ I was like WOW! I literally fell in-love to the both of you watching your videos. I may alone watching you guys but hopefully I could finally meet that someone, someday. 😊🥰 I’m your new subscriber from the Philippines 🇵🇭.
These get better and better man. I am so happy for you and your husband. It is truly heartwarming to see. You all really are goals. And thank you for your candidness about the ups and downs. Also, the cinematography on this edit was phenomenal. The bringing together of element like the soundtrack and the various shots, the dog licking your head, the shots of your "legal wedding," and you reading your letter in bed. It was a really gorgeous journey. Thank you for your contributions to this UA-cam community and this world. All the best to both of you all. Happy anniversary.
I only recently discovered your channel and have been watching your vlogs. I am much older than you - a 50 y/o man but I find your vlogs very interesting. I so very much envy what you and Alastair have with each other. When I was in high school I had a crush on my best friend. At the time I was so deep in the closet I could not find my way out. Even if I had been out - or had some balls to make a move on him - he seemed hopelessly straight. He started talking about his desire to go to West Point when we were in the 10th grade. He worked to this end for several years - especially our senior year and he made it. Unfortunately, I never saw him again. Through some mutual friends I have heard he married one of his female classmates, had three kids, retired from the military, and is now a general contractor in Hawaii. My West Point Man was not meant to be but, I still think of him every other day. In the years after we parted, I wanted someone but I felt I had to protect my job. I tried to meet other people and stay in the closet at the same time. I seemed to go from the wrong man to the next wrong man. My job moved me often - usually to remote locations. When I was young I always thought I had plenty of time to find a man when I settled down. Now at 50, the company has settled me in one location for good. However, all this adventure and bad decisions have left me alone. I think my current co-workers see my marital status and guess the truth. It amazes me that they seem to okay with it. I could probably come fully out but years of habit die hard. I have an ache in my heart when I think of all the years of happiness I gave up when was young and sexy - like you and Alastair. So, I would just like to echo a sentiment you have mentioned to all of your fans - follow your heart and be happy while you are young. Don't exchange that life for anything. Anything other than happiness will leave you empty and alone when you are old and gray. It may be hard for a time but everything will work out.
Never give up, as I found my true love at 50 marry him over 2,year ago. I have given up on love, got used to being alone, when we met in a Hospital of all places., he was visiting his uncle, I was visiting my mother. He was 43 than. Sometimes it comes when you least expect it.. Their still time to find your soul mate.
Not me sobbing in my bed at 8am watching this beautiful video. That letter. Wow. You two are so awesome for sharing this with the world. ♥️♥️♥️ All things should be about love. ♥️♥️♥️
I honestly love seeing my type of gay in real life, I’m not the stereotypical feminine, I don’t “sound” it or “act” it, my friends call me the straightest gay and it’s just so heartwarming and assuring to see that people like me exist and have such a seemingly perfect loving relation. You guys are literally my roll model for a relationship, you keep me hopeful. Love you guys lots ❤️
The two of you bring to the table the daily reality that is life for so many same-sex couples. Ups and downs, arguments and romance. Your letter to Alastair is really the embodiment of the sentiments so many of us wish we could impart to our husbands/wives/lovers and for that I wish to thank you. Articulate, handsome and seemingly navigating life with a steady hand is something more of our society need to see when considering the truth about same-sex families building a life. Thank you gentlemen.
Editing was extremely crafted beautifully as if its a movie trailer, even more surreal but its true. Well only people with humongous tools can make such art, that tool is called LOVE. I wish I'll find mine soon.
Watching this AGAIN. Zach you such a command of emotion and language that it seems almost manipulative. But I know it is not. Because you are the poet who tangles heart and emotion into around and through words and phrases to magically lift the human spirit into heavenly places. Those beautiful words were for your man and he is so proud to be yours. Im glad that he insisted you share them with us. I, like you, have a poets heart mind and soul. We think upon matters much, much deeper than most. What you wrote was possibly the most beautiful love song ever written. Still after 15 minute I am overcome with an emotional high and tears in my eyes .I was moved to heaven by the thought of it. We need more like you in this world. David
Thank you for the reminder of what a man's love can be. You're both good for both the internet at large and for the individuals. Never forget the good you do, even if you don't feel that energy personally. Thank you
The beauty and imperfection of love is something I wouldn't trade the world for. I love my sweet partner. I had to share this with him. Much love from GA and FL Zach and Alastair.
I've mostly been a silent watcher for the past year and a half, but I just need to say how sweet this is, and how much we need to see some positivity in an extremely troubling time. Zach, you and Alastair may not be perfect, as you say, but both of you easily put a smile on my face. The world needs people like you. Thanks for being here. I wish you many years of happiness.
This is real and all people missing it need to discover that lgbtq love is the only bonafide thing to date !!!! I should know , I've been hetero and it had not worked !!!!!?????
I’ve just recently discovered you guys and I have to say… sincerely… you make me SMILE. Your authenticity makes me smile. Thanks for sharing yourselves the way you do. Its such an uplifting and positive vibe ❤️
I Love seeing how you love each other, that letter was beautiful, and so heartfelt. Congratulations on your anniversary guys , and cheers to many many more, stay safe and healthy.
Everything about this video was just pure love. I cried and laughed the entire video. Absolutely beautiful. You guys are indeed couple goals. Love you guys. Continue to stay safe.
Oh Zach if only I could convince you that you are as rich as you can be, because of that wonderful man who fell in love with you. Christ, he lies down and makes angels on your bed... what a beautiful, childlike man he can be. A.J.Patton Garcia trusts you absolutely and fortunately for you. Here is a prayer wishing you both a long joy filled life together.
this kind of love is rare. not everyone is lucky enough to meet someone who can be their home. it is even more difficult for lgbtq+ community so I'm very happy to know that these guys are living their best moments. if only everyone could see and accept our community and our love, because it is so beautiful. i hope more people could find a love like this. i hope to see more people finding the love of their life. i want to see the world with more love, acceptance, and respect.
This is one of the best videos 🎥that you have done in a long time. I have been a subscriber 💻since you started this channel Zack and have always enjoyed your videos, but this one in particular really hits the spot.🏄 Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us and bless you both and Winiford too.
Happy Anniversary!! I cried through this whole video. Thank you for showing me that love is possible, hard yes, but possible. Thank you for sharing your lives with us and being raw about it.
This crazy world is definitely better because you guys are in it. Never doubt the profound impact that your story has on all of us. You show us all the depths of affection and devotion that two men can have for each other. Someday perhaps you will have children, and those little people will be very lucky indeed to have two dads that love each other so deeply. You inspire me. Thank you both!
My husband and I have been together almost 23 year (April 2020). We have been married since April 2014. We would have married much earlier, but it wasn't legal until this time. I was also in the military (USAF) for 6 years long before I could be out (1984-1990). I applaud you both for such a loving relationship. I wish I could have met Jeffrey (my husband) back when I was in the military and would have been able to marry him. Everything is not always perfect by far, but in the end we love each other as much as the day we met back in 1998. I would love to meet you both someday and share some of our times with you. We have lived in many cites throughout the years, but now live in Palm Springs, CA. This is the link to our 20 year anniversary video that Jeffrey put together for us: ua-cam.com/video/QiSGLEXg83Q/v-deo.html I hope many years of happiness to you both. David
I just watched this again. WOW! Listening to you read your letter to Alistair again, I found myself caught off guard…such simplicity, but such profound effect! I was unexpectedly overcome with emotion… again! It reminded me how fortunate I am to have my “soulmate, my true love” of 34 years. Your letter, so well written, such an honest heartfelt expression of your love. You are very eloquent in your ability to share your feelings, your passions, your love for Alastair. You’ve unselfishly shared your beautiful and magical articulation of your love, with us, reminding us to remember that “it SHOULD all be about love!” Thank you! And please, don’t ever lose this! It’s such a gift. 🥰
The amount of love that is shown in each of your videos always has me crying, you all are so real , and not afraid to show it. I'm glad I caught this video today ( sorry I'm late 😅) because it was a depressing day for me. My sister told me this morning she's diagnosed with stage 3 uterine cancer, and I just feel so helpless, and lost, and been crying all day. Your video though sure put a smile on my face, when I needed it the most. Thank you guys 😘
I have watched this 3 times now. Been following you guys forever. I have been married to my husband for almost 11 years now and I still love him as much now as I did back then. I Zach, that letter was beautiful! Alastair make sure you keep it! I found a letter from my husband from 13 years ago before we had even met in person that makes me smile and cry at the same time. Cherish all the times you have together and yes, it is all about love!
Subtitles are usually automatic, but don’t seem to be for this video. I will personally put them onto the video shortly.
Adventures of Zach and B very sweet
Always love watching Zach’s video. So riveting. He’s looking fit, and beautiful & Alastair’s gorgeous as always. A cinematic delight. 🥰🌞
I’ve been watching you guys for some time in fact since Zach was still in college. I must say that your videos have only gotten better and boy did this one hit me right in the feels. That letter was beautifully written and read thank you for being vulnerable and open with us
Hi Zach you guys don't be a stranger I love your perfect not so perfect life we identify ourselves with you guys love from Puerto Rico.
I hope nothing happened to zach or Alastair. Haven't seen a video posted in 3 weeks.
Couple goals: "May all your ups and downs be on your new mattress."
Oh my, that sounds romantically p[censored]graphic! ;-P
Bahahahah I just cackled our loud
What I should have written in that letter
@@AdventuresofZachandB exactly what you wrote!!!! talk about a romantic. ...Zach you are!!
seriously 😂nkt
Greetings from the most isolated city on the planet. Perth, Western Australia. I just had to tell you guys how much I love your love. I've just started watching your clips and I smile with every one. I'm from an older generation ( I turned 60 on the 10th of November 2020) and I wasn't given the chance to marry until it was too late. I spent 41 years with the most amazing man for Vienna, Austria. Sadly I lost him on 15/02/2019, one day before my sister's birthday.
My point is, I see your marriage/roller coaster and I love it. I'm so glad that we as people have finally evolved enough for us to share our love with the world. I'm so grateful that you share so much of your lives. I cried with joy when Alastair came home from deployment and I love Kyle's laugh. A deep, heartfilled laugh. Thank you for letting me enjoy life vicariously through yours.
I’m happy y’all are enjoying this one. The compliments on it mean a lot. I’m still stuck on what the title and thumbnail should be, but I’ll figure it out one of these days haha. Hope everyone’s week is wrapping up nicely. Enjoy the weekend!
Te quiero mucho mi corazón te Amó 💞💕💖💗💝
You know, I've followed you basically since day one and I still fall in love with every new video you put out.
They always get better and better. I think this one was beautiful.
I'm just curious if who among you guys is the Top and Bottom?
@@lzlpards Don't be impertinent!
You guys look good together
You two are friggin’ adorable. I have three older brothers, none of whom are gay, but all of whom have expressed how the mainstreaming of gay culture has liberated them too. What they mean is that it has helped break down really limiting gender stereotypes for all men, and that has liberated them. Thank you for sharing your story.
Ditto!
To love and to be loved in return, is the greatest accomplishment two human beings can have. Together you can get through anything that comes your way.
Well said!
Hands down my favorite part of this video was hearing your letter. It takes a lot to share your feelings, but even more so when you’re sharing them with an audience like us. We are strangers when it comes to y’all’s love for each other. We don’t see every raw detail of y’all’s life to fully understand the power behind your words. But I do believe we all understand love at some capacity. So with that, I feel moved and extremely honored that you shared a very private and romantic memory with all of us. Truly inspirational. Thank you, thank you, and oh yeah thank you! 🤓
I just had to copy the whole letter down:
My Alastair,
This morning, I woke up to a rush of warm inner sun. You were resting next to me, and I could see gentle dreams on your face. I smiled, watching you, and thought: all things should be about love.
I'm not the perfect man, but I do know love. Because I'm in love with you. And if you hold my hand, I know that I can grow. If you give me a single day, I know I can use it to build many years. And we will live in those years, like a strong house, fixing our memories to the walls.
What a thing love is. What a good thing.
I love you.
Pricelesssss
My lonely ass was in tears 😭🤣
Beautiful, absolutely beautiful.
gorgeous
He has the heart of a poet. And where is my Zach or my Alistar? I don't mind the ups and down, I just want someone to write me a letter like that.
Moments like this are what made me fall in love with you two. You have such beautiful souls. Never stop sharing your love and never stop being real with the world.
Hey Zach I’ve been following your channel for more than two years now and I just wanna say you’ve been a huge inspiration to me. I just graduated high school, came out, and now I’m heading to NYU. It’s been hard, but I’ve started talking to this really cute guy and things are beginning to fall into place for me. Thanks for showing me that it’s possible for people like us to find happiness :)
Hey, I don't know you, and I am from a different country. But I am really glad to read how things are coming together for you. Wish you the best, and good luck in college.
Congratulation on your acceptance to NYU! May be years ahead filled with great books, crazy parties, and love!
College can be a magical time. Have one! All the best!
I wish things will go great for me too. Still in the closet. Congratulations for your admission to NYU.
Raffy Pongcol Remain in the closet.
Damn I'm gay and I'm finding more hard and hard to believe in love like a normal couple and you guys bring me some hope
Same here. I genuinely love these guys and started feeling better and now, have a bit of hope that it'll be when it's meant to be.
Think of the Notebook by Nicholas SParks but with a gay couple and imagine yourslef as being the husband or boyfriend of your partner. That's what I do when I get sad.
Amen finding someone in this world seems impossible. All I want is a decent man to build a life with, go to church, raise a kid, you know that kinda thing. All I keep finding are lazy dope heads.
@@williambishop8044 it sucks so bad. I hate gay hookup culture so much. All I want is a loyal and loving boyfriend who will marry me one day-but it feels impossible to do in todays gay culture. Good luck to you!!
@@space_cowboy1 yes it does
This is really refreshing to see a HEALTHY GAY MARRIAGE being gay myself sometimes due to gay culture it’s sometimes easy to loose hope in stuff like this so yea 🥺😭 congrats on three years guys 🎉🎊🎉
Thanks for sharing your special day with us all. Wish a lifetime of love to you both.
They are what gay live is really all about. Finding a soul mate for live.
@@nahelalkhateeb5102 English please.
I love how they act so manly with each other, i want to marry and be like them
Hardly "healthy" when Zach continues to cheat on him. No doubt he loves him, but also can't resist other men.
Fuck, you guys make me cry...the good kind of tears. Thank you for showing the world what a good, solid marriage is-two imperfect people (I mean, we’re all imperfect) who perfectly love each other. Such a beautiful thing!
When u talk about your relationship and and people saying they want a relationship like yours & how your relationship is perfect. I think we all know that, married people argue, have their ups &; downs , but the thing is despite it all, you still love each other and that's what most of us are looking for. Ww are looking for that person who says, no matter what, no matter how u may drive me up a wall at times, I will never leave you. That's what we are looking for.
It would be a dull world if we didn't duke it out at times & clear the air. Sp despite your wrongs & flaws, still think u have a great relationship.
Happy Anniversary & many more.
THIS was one of the best gay couples vids I’ve ever seen. The love letter was beautiful and beautifully written. It actually brought tears to my eyes. I wish you two the best-always.
I've been a silent watcher for a while now and never comment but I just had to say that was so beautiful. That brought tears to my eyes and filled me with so much happiness. Zach you are so incredibly talented with these videos. I wish nothing but the absolute best for you two and many, many more years of this love. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Same here... Thnx Alissa... 💓
That is exactly how I felt after watching this. Pure love. Absolutely beautiful.
Love 'em!
Never forget to say "I love you", and always kiss each other good night. I lost my Marcos many hears ago. I've been alone ever since, he's my guardian Angel God bless you two.
Along with Matt and Blue, you really are just one of those couples that feels so natural on camera.... where every interaction feels not forced. I hope it makes sense. Keep loving each other. Always happy to see your uploads! 😊
Also husband and husband
PJ and Thomas are one of my favorite as well
I'm 51 years old and never had a long-term relationship. I'm very much an introvert. I love being alone and am very rarely lonely. However, when I watch your videos, I wonder if I should have let down the walls and risked the chance to find what you have. You guys are beautiful together. Truly.
Love, “The Pool.” And you, sir, are a writer. Don’t let anyone say that you aren’t, Zach. You are. You have a great inspiration besides you. :)
Fantastic comment. Cheers to you for having the insight to recognize it and the wisdom to value it.
@@jeromeeisele6955 yes he is.
Laying in bed, watching this at 4:00 in the morning... reminiscing on how RARE it is to find a love like this. And if you're ever lucky enough to- how important it is to cherish it, protect it, fight for it (every day). Because it can be gone in an instant. Thank you for sharing YOUR love with us as a reminder. xo
I have been sitting through the pandemic in the Hill County with my husband. We have to laugh at you both. You sound just like we were 21 years ago. We had to go with a King bed with two twins. I am 100% side sleeper and the softer the better. He sleep on his back, stomach and sides but it has to be hard as a rock. His side may work for sleeping but it sucks when it comes to the lovin and you don't want to do it on the crack where the two twins come together. Trust me. It is not exactly comfortable.
You're right, it is okay to blow up as long as it doesn't get physical. Living in the RV for the last 5 months can really stress the relationship if you don't have a stable foundation. After 21 years it is safe to say that we have changed over the years. We met at the Round Up early on a Friday night. He had recently relocated to Dallas and I moved to Dallas in 1992 with my previous partner. I worked in the medical field in case management and stopped in to see a friend who had recently been released from the hospital. I swung by after work and was definitely not dressed to go dancing. We introduced ourselves. Chatted for about an hour. Went to dinner that turned into a 3am cup of coffee and off to my place. We have been together since that night. I knew right away that Don was the right guy. We ended raising two boys a couple years later. Left Oaklawn and moved to the suburbs. The kids are grown. I am retired. My husband would like to work a few more years before he is ready to retire and live in the RV fulltime.
I have watched your channel and it is so exciting to see young couples find love and really work at it. If you're not willing to do the work it is never going to last. You're going to make mistakes. You're going to get it wrong. The question is how you handle it. Our best friends married the same time we did. They stood for us and we stood for them. They too have done the hard work and are happily married 21 plus years also.
So Congratulations guys. From your Texas neighbors. Wishing you another 3 years and more.
I’ve followed you almost from your first video, through Bama and meeting Alistair, courtship, West Point, graduation, (saying goodbye to B), deployment, and now this place. It’s been a true pleasure to watch you grow and mature, and y’all’s relationship (it takes another Texan to throw out y’all’s) is wonderful. Keep being yourselves and never let go of that rope, and y’all will have a wonderful life.❤️
I'm scared to come out. Im almost 18 leaving college soon, and I cant help but feel I will forever be seen as a different person when I come out. But, Zach, your videos have reminded me to have courage everyday. So thank-you so much. I don't know how it will work out but I think once all goes down I will have achieved a huge milestone for my life and I can then accomplish anything after it. Thank-you so much and spreading love to everyone who sees this.
I turned 18 on march of this year and the only one that doesn't know I'm gay is my dad. But besides that, it's ok to be different because it makes you unique in your own special way. The truth is I'm still trying to work through my inner struggles but that's ok because I'm young and so are you. You don't need to rush into anything especially in college. Just go with the flow🌈
@@kevinsanchez4666 well spoken, take it with the flow and BE WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE, Not someone wants you to be, that is a log once has to carry, i feel his struggle and pains.
don't be scared, just be who and what you are. You simply cannot changed for the world, but let the people around you welcome you with open hearts of who you are. It is a matter of time. As for now, concentrate on your college and the degree you want to pursue. There are lots of students in the college have the same emotions roller coaster like you are. Finish your degree and once you are out in the world, it is a total different place. You will get to find your inner self. Be strong and have faith in yourself. Once again, DON'T BE AFRAID OF WHO YOU ARE, YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE. YOU CAN'T ALTER THAT. LIVE AND BE PROUD OF IT.
Wow you may not realize it but this an exciting time for you! College is a time of tremendous growth and self discovery. I think you are already ahead of me when I was 18. I wish I knew UA-camrs like Zach at that age. Just take your time. Cliche but this just comes down to learning to love yourself and accept who you are. I’m almost 25 and I still have some shame and stuff to work on and I’m not sure if that fear of ppl looking at you differently will ever go away. But what I have learned in my life so far that each year I care less and less. What matters is you find ppl who support you (hopefully friends and family) who make you feel loved unconditionally even after you tell them. You’ll know when you are ready to come out don’t have to rush this is literally not a race lol. Some ppl don’t come out til later like 30s and 40s and that’s okay. Just learn to be comfortable with yourself and it’ll all work out. Sending positive vibes as you begin college this fall!!
You will be seen as a different person. You will be seen as you....and isn't that a good thing. You can then stop trying to be someone else, living a lie.
Not gonna lie, the reading of the letter to Alistair moved me to tears. I hope I find a love that makes me feel like that. Happy anniversary, guys. May you be blessed with many, many years of love and happiness.
I CACKLED when he said “do angel again” and zoomed😂 Also, you have THE BEST music in your vids
this should be on a tshirt. LOL
I was like, yassss give us the content the audience wants lol
And the "I got what I needed" hahaha
Seriously! Zooming in on his butt, most likely unbeknownst to A was hilarious!
“Don’t make your bed, just sleep on top” that’s literally what I do 😂
Being a mother to humans didn't happen for me. Had I had sons, I would have been most blessed had they been men like you. Thank you for sharing this with us. Zach, this video is perfect. Your letter is amazing. Keep writing-- both of you. Love and hugs to you and the pups
What a lovely sentiment to express! 💜 Made me shed another tear or two on top of Zach’s letter.
I just love you guys. Zach, I've said it before, I'll say it again. You are immensely talented. Your story telling, your editing, your filming, are all just gorgeous and incredibly moving. Your letter to Alister was beautiful! You most definitely have a poets soul. I pretty much blubbered like an idiot through almost the entire video. Thank you for sharing yourselves, your dogs, and your art in such a beautiful manner. May you guys continue to recognize the special nature of your relationship. May you continue to face your struggles and your triumphs together. May you always remember that what makes your relationship great is knowing through your love, it does not have to be perfect. You both just have to be willing to fight for it, and for one another. I know you are aware of all of this. As long as you always remember it. You all are going to continue to build the most glorious future together. Take care!
The most genuine letter ever. So full of love and hope. I seriously cried while you read it. Oh my heart strings loves the love you have for each other.
Same
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"What a thing love is. What a good thing."
More perfect words have never been spoken. May they be the guiding mantra to all our lives!
Thank you boo❤
I watched this and I wrote a love letter to my boyfriend. I guess you guys are my muse. I really believe you portray a relationship well in these videos, the tough talks, the ups and downs, how you take the time to share your feelings, and fighting (it's tough!) to keep it all together. You do this better than you yourself believe, and watching you I learn so much. I got my own relationship with someone who enjoys my company, and though that's mostly on me, you helped by leading with your example. I know it must be hard to share so much, but I want you to know I'm not here for the perfect couple, I am here to share your joy and pain, and thankful that you let me do so.
WOW. The amount of love in this video is without measure. When you look at each other, you can see the love without any words spoken. In a world filled with division, ravaged by a virus and reckoning with racial inequality, your vids give us a small glimpse of what happy looks like. What love should be. And how beautiful a simple smile or beautiful laugh can truly be.
Thank you guys for this video! It is what I needed this morning.
And Zach, you keep writing!! Your words are absolutely beautiful! ❤❤
For me, each of your videos is like a love poem - even the few that are hard to watch such s the one about your father. That one felt like a love poem to yourself and to your relationship with Alastair. There is a intimacy to them, but one that properly preserves the parts of you that must be protected. I so much appreciate your work. I wish both of you long lives and great joy.
I can’t begin to tell you how moved I was by this video. I have watched tons of gay proposals and weddings just because there is something special about two men in love. I was surprised by the fact that Alistair requested that you read something so private on camera and then that you actually did it. For the first time ever I found myself crying. The love and tenderness in your writing was overwhelming and the gentleness as you spoke it to him aloud made the meaning so much more profound. How blessed you both are to have found each other! Indeed all things should be about love❤Best wishes always!!
None of us are perfect, but you two are "perfect" for each other. May you have many years of happiness together. My partner and I will celebrate 53 years together in August.
That was beautiful - you are a gifted writer and a sweet, beautiful soul. I have watched your videos for years and have grown very fond of you both. I wish both of you many more years of enjoying each other’s love and friendship. Thanks for this video in particular.
"I got what I needed." 🍑 😆😆😆
the secret is don’t remember the fights and disagreements, just remember the making up. love you guys keep up the love it’s worth it.
The most beautiful and loving anniversary ever! Happy anniversary Zach and Alistair!! 💕
yes it was!!!!
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“I’m not a perfect man, but I know love, because I’m in love with you”...uh...can I steal this for my wedding vows?!🙏🏼
"Do angels again." 😂👍👌
Such a great video. Happiness is something the world needs right now. Thank you for sharing your beautiful, and happy, moments. You may not be perfect in the sense of no bad times. But you do seem perfect for each other. And if your good times outweigh the bad times, then that's perfect. 🙂
I don't believe I have ever known two people, male or female, more in love with each other than you two. You guys are an inspiration to every one on this planet just how two people can be together, share together, love together, and have beautiful lives together. Thank you so very much.
That accent wall is literally everything 😍😍😍😍😍
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Y’all are such a beautiful couple and I am inspired by you both. I became ordained to marry my best friend and her wife because they were afraid of being turned down by ministers. I wish someone like myself could have married y’all so that it could have been done with respect, love and compassion for the love that you two deserved. I am so proud of you, Zach! I have been watching you since you had 15,000 subs and you and your journey makes my heart beam with pride, joy, love, and I had misty eyes throughout this video. Sending love to you and Alastair and congratulations on your anniversary! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤎🤍
These videos are so special. They’re quaint, they’re simple. It’s perfect. They radiate love.
Most UA-camrs sit in front of a camera and talk and there's not much substance. Watching this, i feel like there is a story. There's a middle, beginning and end. The music, what you choose to include visually and the topic you cover. It's a pleasure that you share this with us. Thanks.
i agree this is so much more beautiful than what other youtube videos gives us that’s why zach will forever be my favorite. he always adds so much soul and individuality in his videos
This made me smile, cry and smile again, love is the most precious thing on this earth, hold on to it, cherish it. The smiles say it all xxx
Watching your vlogs always makes me cry, not from sadness, but from the pure joy and genuine love u share. I pray someday to find a love as pure as yours. The way u look at each other is magical! Thank you for sharing and letting the world know what true love looks like! God bless your family! ❤😊❤
Intense, personal, passionate and so deeply heartfelt. This is love made intimately manifest and so tangible that you feel almost intrusive just to see this film. Wonderful. Thank you, Zach & Alistair.
WOW!! I cried as you were reading that letter. Absolutely beautiful. May you both be blessed to have many, many more years together. You sirs are showing the world right now, what true love looks and feels like. Thank you. May God bless you both even more and keep you safe and happy. Have a wonderful life together. P.S. Love the voice!!
Zach, I love your comment "I wish I would have started recording my life earlier". If we all would have known how special certain moments in our lives would become. There is a new cable show coming titled "what I wished I knew before I started talking" , your comment outranks that one. Love you guys.
That letter is absolutely beautiful. It brought tears to my eyes. So simple, so pure of heart.
“I got what I needed” 😂
Water burgers !.......!?!?
Chipotle....... !?!?
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Hoping Zach would make Alistair make angels again. 😉
Seeing how he feels about Alistair from these videos sometimes makes me cry. The way he calls him his soulmate is so obviously true just from the ways that he records him, it makes me so happy to see that someone can care about someone else so deeply. I know this video came out a while ago but it was on my recommended and now I'm crying happy tears on my way to classes. Have a good day to all who read this.
So well put together! It's like a virtual love letter. The bedroom looks amazing btw
yes it is amazing!!!!
I have to watch this video in parts, because there is too much loving energy in it. So much for my body to handle. This gives me so much hope and inspiration for my future. I just turned 20, And I finally have come to terms with being gay. so it feels like I'm finally taking the first steps in creating myself, And it is exhausting. Thank you so much for everything you do, and for making this video.✨✨✨☁️
July 11th is our Anniversary as well. We were married on July 11, 2012 which was the 20th anniversary of the day we moved in together. And Zach, that was a truly beautiful letter you wrote. It was perfect.
My partner and I will celebrate our 40th anniversary next year and wish you all the luck we've had. It just seem to get better and better.
Love, Paul and Brian
All the love and more years to come for you both, Paul and Brian. ❤️
My partner and I will celebrate our 34th next year and I feel like a unicorn most all of the time. It is a good thing to see and read about other long-term dedicated same sex relationships. Love to all.
Your videos are always so beautiful and emotional. I often forget that I'm not watching a feature film because the editing, music, and effects are so well done. Absolutely perfect. Thank you so much for sharing your life and your love with us. Best of luck and happiness for you both and the pups with all that comes your way :)
Hi guys! I just came across your page yesterday and find it hard to stop watching. This video in particular, has touched me deeply. I'm 74 years old and I marvel at the love you have for each other. The letter reading was especially poignant. It brought a huge smile to my face and dare I say, a few tears to my eyes. May you have a great many years of happiness together and my God Bless every one of them!
Zach, I love that we have the same accent. People comment on the similarity’s daily. I no longer try to hold it back. And we both have a potty mouth. Roll Tide.
When UA-cam recommends your video entitled “Husband comes from deployment “ I was like WOW! I literally fell in-love to the both of you watching your videos. I may alone watching you guys but hopefully I could finally meet that someone, someday. 😊🥰 I’m your new subscriber from the Philippines 🇵🇭.
I can only imagine how zach told alistair he wanted to film in the shower lol
These get better and better man. I am so happy for you and your husband. It is truly heartwarming to see. You all really are goals. And thank you for your candidness about the ups and downs. Also, the cinematography on this edit was phenomenal. The bringing together of element like the soundtrack and the various shots, the dog licking your head, the shots of your "legal wedding," and you reading your letter in bed. It was a really gorgeous journey. Thank you for your contributions to this UA-cam community and this world. All the best to both of you all. Happy anniversary.
I only recently discovered your channel and have been watching your vlogs. I am much older than you - a 50 y/o man but I find your vlogs very interesting. I so very much envy what you and Alastair have with each other. When I was in high school I had a crush on my best friend. At the time I was so deep in the closet I could not find my way out. Even if I had been out - or had some balls to make a move on him - he seemed hopelessly straight. He started talking about his desire to go to West Point when we were in the 10th grade. He worked to this end for several years - especially our senior year and he made it. Unfortunately, I never saw him again. Through some mutual friends I have heard he married one of his female classmates, had three kids, retired from the military, and is now a general contractor in Hawaii. My West Point Man was not meant to be but, I still think of him every other day. In the years after we parted, I wanted someone but I felt I had to protect my job. I tried to meet other people and stay in the closet at the same time. I seemed to go from the wrong man to the next wrong man. My job moved me often - usually to remote locations. When I was young I always thought I had plenty of time to find a man when I settled down. Now at 50, the company has settled me in one location for good. However, all this adventure and bad decisions have left me alone. I think my current co-workers see my marital status and guess the truth. It amazes me that they seem to okay with it. I could probably come fully out but years of habit die hard. I have an ache in my heart when I think of all the years of happiness I gave up when was young and sexy - like you and Alastair. So, I would just like to echo a sentiment you have mentioned to all of your fans - follow your heart and be happy while you are young. Don't exchange that life for anything. Anything other than happiness will leave you empty and alone when you are old and gray. It may be hard for a time but everything will work out.
Never give up, as I found my true love at 50 marry him over 2,year ago. I have given up on love, got used to being alone, when we met in a Hospital of all places., he was visiting his uncle, I was visiting my mother. He was 43 than. Sometimes it comes when you least expect it.. Their still time to find your soul mate.
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Don’t give up, I am almost 50 myself but still full of hopes, you never know what the future holds for you.
Not me sobbing in my bed at 8am watching this beautiful video. That letter. Wow. You two are so awesome for sharing this with the world. ♥️♥️♥️ All things should be about love. ♥️♥️♥️
"do angels again... i got why i need it" LOL
Such a beautiful couple! And yes ... that made me laugh out loud 😂
... and it's delightfully clear what it is that you need...
I honestly love seeing my type of gay in real life, I’m not the stereotypical feminine, I don’t “sound” it or “act” it, my friends call me the straightest gay and it’s just so heartwarming and assuring to see that people like me exist and have such a seemingly perfect loving relation. You guys are literally my roll model for a relationship, you keep me hopeful. Love you guys lots ❤️
me, a closeted, insecure, high school sophomore, is now crying over a video primary about a bed and a pool😅so cute though, wish y’all the best :)
Remain closeted.
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These to me are great role models on coming out. Be patient with your own journey.
Hang in there, Cole. It gets better. itgetsbetter.org/
Cole Winstead why is this relatable
The two of you bring to the table the daily reality that is life for so many same-sex couples. Ups and downs, arguments and romance. Your letter to Alastair is really the embodiment of the sentiments so many of us wish we could impart to our husbands/wives/lovers and for that I wish to thank you. Articulate, handsome and seemingly navigating life with a steady hand is something more of our society need to see when considering the truth about same-sex families building a life. Thank you gentlemen.
Editing was extremely crafted beautifully as if its a movie trailer, even more surreal but its true. Well only people with humongous tools can make such art, that tool is called LOVE.
I wish I'll find mine soon.
Watching this AGAIN. Zach you such a command of emotion and language that it seems almost manipulative. But I know it is not. Because you are the poet who tangles heart and emotion into around and through words and phrases to magically lift the human spirit into heavenly places. Those beautiful words were for your man and he is so proud to be yours. Im glad that he insisted you share them with us. I, like you, have a poets heart mind and soul. We think upon matters much, much deeper than most.
What you wrote was possibly the most beautiful love song ever written. Still after
15 minute I am overcome with an
emotional high and tears in my eyes .I was moved to heaven by the thought of it.
We need more like you in this world.
David
I could listen to you talk all day Zach.
Thank you for the reminder of what a man's love can be. You're both good for both the internet at large and for the individuals. Never forget the good you do, even if you don't feel that energy personally. Thank you
The beauty and imperfection of love is something I wouldn't trade the world for. I love my sweet partner. I had to share this with him. Much love from GA and FL Zach and Alastair.
Keep on loving! Best!
I've mostly been a silent watcher for the past year and a half, but I just need to say how sweet this is, and how much we need to see some positivity in an extremely troubling time. Zach, you and Alastair may not be perfect, as you say, but both of you easily put a smile on my face. The world needs people like you. Thanks for being here. I wish you many years of happiness.
Happy Anniversary Boys. I love the intimacy. 💜💜
This is real and all people missing it need to discover that lgbtq love is the only bonafide thing to date !!!!
I should know , I've been hetero and it had not worked !!!!!?????
I’ve just recently discovered you guys and I have to say… sincerely… you make me SMILE. Your authenticity makes me smile. Thanks for sharing yourselves the way you do. Its such an uplifting and positive vibe ❤️
I Love seeing how you love each other, that letter was beautiful, and so heartfelt. Congratulations on your anniversary guys , and cheers to many many more, stay safe and healthy.
Everything about this video was just pure love. I cried and laughed the entire video. Absolutely beautiful. You guys are indeed couple goals. Love you guys. Continue to stay safe.
Oh Zach if only I could convince you that you are as rich as you can be, because of that wonderful man who fell in love with you. Christ, he lies down and makes angels on your bed... what a beautiful, childlike man he can be. A.J.Patton Garcia trusts you absolutely and fortunately for you. Here is a prayer wishing you both a long joy filled life together.
this kind of love is rare. not everyone is lucky enough to meet someone who can be their home. it is even more difficult for lgbtq+ community so I'm very happy to know that these guys are living their best moments. if only everyone could see and accept our community and our love, because it is so beautiful. i hope more people could find a love like this. i hope to see more people finding the love of their life. i want to see the world with more love, acceptance, and respect.
The love letter had me in tears it was so beautiful.
“We’re a roller coaster.” Zach and Alastair, of all your videos, THIS is my favorite! Gentle and innocent, and loving. Blessings to you both.
This is one of the best videos 🎥that you have done in a long time. I have been a subscriber 💻since you started this channel Zack and have always enjoyed your videos, but this one in particular really hits the spot.🏄 Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us and bless you both and Winiford too.
So sweet. Made me happy.
Happy Anniversary!! I cried through this whole video. Thank you for showing me that love is possible, hard yes, but possible. Thank you for sharing your lives with us and being raw about it.
Zach, you have the most beautiful voice, accent and laugh! I love listening to you!
...and a beautiful smile!
@@Val-hb6zy amen to that.
This crazy world is definitely better because you guys are in it. Never doubt the profound impact that your story has on all of us. You show us all the depths of affection and devotion that two men can have for each other. Someday perhaps you will have children, and those little people will be very lucky indeed to have two dads that love each other so deeply. You inspire me. Thank you both!
hi guys, glad your still together. hope you stay that way forever...
Y'all are perfect because of the way you accept each other and the way you are willing to learn and grow. Your love for one another makes you perfect
My husband and I have been together almost 23 year (April 2020). We have been married since April 2014. We would have married much earlier, but it wasn't legal until this time. I was also in the military (USAF) for 6 years long before I could be out (1984-1990). I applaud you both for such a loving relationship. I wish I could have met Jeffrey (my husband) back when I was in the military and would have been able to marry him. Everything is not always perfect by far, but in the end we love each other as much as the day we met back in 1998. I would love to meet you both someday and share some of our times with you. We have lived in many cites throughout the years, but now live in Palm Springs, CA. This is the link to our 20 year anniversary video that Jeffrey put together for us: ua-cam.com/video/QiSGLEXg83Q/v-deo.html I hope many years of happiness to you both. David
I just watched this again. WOW! Listening to you read your letter to Alistair again, I found myself caught off guard…such simplicity, but such profound effect! I was unexpectedly overcome with emotion… again! It reminded me how fortunate I am to have my “soulmate, my true love” of 34 years. Your letter, so well written, such an honest heartfelt expression of your love. You are very eloquent in your ability to share your feelings, your passions, your love for Alastair. You’ve unselfishly shared your beautiful and magical articulation of your love, with us, reminding us to remember that “it SHOULD all be about love!” Thank you! And please, don’t ever lose this! It’s such a gift. 🥰
That is my favorite line! “Is this water sanitary? It looks questionable to me.” How hilarious Alastair
The amount of love that is shown in each of your videos always has me crying, you all are so real , and not afraid to show it. I'm glad I caught this video today ( sorry I'm late 😅) because it was a depressing day for me. My sister told me this morning she's diagnosed with stage 3 uterine cancer, and I just feel so helpless, and lost, and been crying all day. Your video though sure put a smile on my face, when I needed it the most. Thank you guys 😘
Thank you for giving us a realistic view of what a good relationship looks like 💕
I have watched this 3 times now. Been following you guys forever. I have been married to my husband for almost 11 years now and I still love him as much now as I did back then. I Zach, that letter was beautiful! Alastair make sure you keep it! I found a letter from my husband from 13 years ago before we had even met in person that makes me smile and cry at the same time. Cherish all the times you have together and yes, it is all about love!
This feels like listening to my grandma's love story, I mean it give me so much passion and understanding in love.
Love you both
-PHILIPPINES
Such a beautiful video!!!! My husband and I got married last year October 30th!! Best wishes!!