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- Chase excellence instead of women and women will automatically be drawn to you, and you will be spoiled for choice.
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how do i get that hoodie? loving the threading on that
Entrepreneurs in Cars really appreciate your advice videos rich, especially around this time of year for me, your even almost more informative on situations than my therapist is, since i seem to really need her right now, but in a way, i think thats alright, i realized without some sadness, your basically shutting the door to feel future happiness and not just that im starting to go through a homemade baking phase, so in a way, it relieves alot of stress, even when the bread doesn't rise, but practice makes perfect ya know and it feels extra rewarding in the end when it turns out alright, not just that, but also helps us live a bit more healthier, so thats a bonus too.....and rich can you eleborate on what purple pill is? Kinda stumped me there
My JohnThomas is not getting any bigger any time soon.
Universal fact: when you chase excellence and attain it, almost everything else will chase you.
u can be successful financially, but if she finds you boring, then it is all for nothing. you need to stir up her emotions. this is why women love assholes. they are unpredictable and don't give them validation. it is not about being excellent.
be excellent in awakening emotions in women like players do. they are not excellent either.
Very true. When you're chasing excellence however, you won't have enough time to totally focus on women. A lot of problems arise when men focus entirely on women, and put little to no effort into themselves, their goals and their dreams. It's true that women don't like boring men, and consequently most men who lack drive, discipline, determination and passion will be boring. The goal is to attain your own excellence, and if women are a part of that equation, they'll make themselves known to you. If not, who cares?
unfortunately i think the most disciplined men are boring. they are not spontaneous and predictable and have everything under control. but women love assholes,losers. they are not disciplined and focused.in fact they are a wreck.
Discipline is just one part of the equation. I also mentioned drive, determination and passion - and that's still a short list of many. You definitely shouldn't worship women nor treat them like total shit. You have to find a happy medium - and that still means nothing if you aren't in someway, shape or form successful. Let's put it this way: all things being equal (meaning broke or rich, successful or not), assholes are still more appealing then nice guys. This is very basic and should require no explanation. After all, women don't like the male version of themselves.
Getting rid of Facebook and Instagram! Focus on yourself! Stop talking to women who put you in friendzone.
Journey Trials and Joy Or throw women into the social media funnel and let them chase you 👍
Journey Trials and Joy never let them put u in the friend zone, I'm not even friends with women lol
Frindzoned Women have got other female friends. Think strategic..
Here is a trick: Talk with women but go next if they dont want sex.
J C not just retards my friend it happens to the best of us. Women play games! Best learn and never put yourself in that place!
Chasing women is like chasing after instant gratification, which by itself is never a good thing.
Old successful guy here, Listen. Richard is on track. Make yourself all you can be and the world will provide all it can. That's not the same for everyone. Here is a hint. Assume all the responsibility you can bear. It is what will guide you to your best.
As Rollo says in his book, women should complement a man's life, not be the focus of it.
Lars Desmet the Bible is straight up red pill too and says the same thing. Although most of the females I see wearing crosses have seemed to forget about that
kandycid100 true but I feel conflicted because I’m catholic but also want to be redpilled. The Bible says to get married and not sleep around,. But what if I want to stay bachelor and not get into any serious relationship with a woman
@@jakedaddio8909 go read Proverbs then especially Proverbs 21:19.
This video is so true. After my ex left me. I reevaluated my life, and realized that chasing women isn't really worth the time I put into it. I put that time into making myself better. Now i'm at a point where i'm successful and to be honest i can't really see myself being bothered with relationships anymore.
krims0n70, mgtow much?
u can be successful financially, but if she finds you boring, then it is all for nothing. you need to stir up her emotions. this is why women love assholes. they are unpredictable and don't give them validation. it is now about being excellent.
so no woman in your life at all?
@@svenmeissner2346? its easier to learn game than being financially free. when you have money you have the resources to talk to alot of women. you can experiment.
So true
He’s right guys! I’ve ruined my early 20s mid- 20s chasing women..it was a waste, and time I’ll never get back..
With the amount of time we have on this earth, I seriously dont see the value of chasing women and making them one of your top priorities.
Profoundly agreed!
Up your money and everything will fall in place. It's all about security security security. Best provider
I dont show off my money. I dont want to be supporter of a women, I can use that to attract them but I'd rather they attracted to me for the sex than to be a provider to them
As a teen, focusing on hobbies, fitness and going to town with my male friends while using social media to show little snippets has been for more effective at getting girls than chasing them and acting pathetically like most of the guys I know do. Valuable info as always.
Gym, proper diet, and money! - get those 3 right and watch the rest get in order!
Chase a check, never chase a chick
Future*
Chase a check never chase a bitch*
Actually I’d say don’t even chase a cheque. Money doesn’t bring happiness.
@@christheonion4240 but it sure does make bitches chase you
Mask off
good morning..... it works both ways. In my age group , (close to 60) there are not a lot of women I would want... I went to my 40th highschool reunion. Even the hottest cheerleaders had changed, not for the better.. that photo on the left isn't even a month old...
Get out of social media wasteland unless you make money from it & never ever ever ever prioritise the veejayjay, organised thoughts and knowledge are key, for instance working on our blockchain knowledge and tech skills would be a great start.
I've given up on chasing women. I even deleted all the dating apps. Listening to videos like yours you are 100% right and I'm going to focus on me and fixing my life and fixing myself. Thank you for all you do.
Even decided to put my house up for sale, always wanted to move to a certain city 1 state over and I'm ready to do it.
Great
These advices Rich shares are like the compound movements in the gym. They´re simple, but extremely important for growth
Spirit Of Alaska Awesome analogy bro. Very true
I don't if this is an Accurate quote from Jason Statham " The guy who chases Woman doesn't get any. The guy who doesn't chases woman gets them."
So if you stay at home, playing games, not going out, hot women will knock on your door? Nonsense. Without chasing women i would be a virgin till now haha. You have to chase them to get them
@@mariomaslik i guess by "doesnt chases women" he meant focus on becoming successful. I don't know how you got "playing video games,staying at home" from what he said.
I mean you have to get out there and chase women. Otherwise they dont chase you when you stay at home or in the office doing your business or whatever. You have to approach women regardless
@@mariomaslik dont take the literal meaning. chasing and approaching women are not the same.
We dont chase them, we replace them.
or rent them
DANK AF lease with the option to buy. No commitment
Or pay them to leave after secks
Lol right
Acoustic Silk, "and if we caressin' them, we undressin' them"
This page changed my life. About six months is what it takes; change is not over night; change is about consistency....it takes time. I strongly recommend studying Richards advice, and focusing on living in your own frame. Become the best version of yourself, and the world does turn your way! Thanks again Richard!!
Excellent vid!
Women position themselves for or chase men they can attract or FEEL they deserve. In other words, chasing women is a waste of time (counterproductive). Fellas, guard your health, time, and finances. A woman is dessert... NEVER the main dish!
Correct, I'd like to add that : but first they should know that you exist to then position themselves to catch your attention. If you sit in the corner of your basement being the best chemist in the world, no girl will jump on your lap suddenly out of nowhere just because you are the best.
I have found that "although men may pursue, ultimately the woman chooses". If they like a guy, they will move heaven and earth to get him to notice them. Like you, I view women as a potential enhancement rather than a necessity, and if they don't enlarge my life, then I really just ignore them, particularly since in Vegas they are all trying to pretend to be things they really aren't and offer things they actually lack.
Revaluate your life and invest in you!
illimatable man monk mode resourses guided me.
I still feel a bit of cringe and quite sorry whenever I hear about Elon every time. Dude has chased excellence all of his life but puts the V on a pedestal like your avg blue pill. Great video like always man, this is the kind of advice that we should not stop reminding ourselves.
Value your nuts....fellas. You got worth. 💯💪🍌🍌🏁🏆
A UA-cam channel called 'Alpha Male Strategies' also often talks about the importance of staying on your purpose in the path towards your goals, and as a side-effect, becoming more attractive.
Always a great reminder from you both.
Audiophile dude So, you think a beta male with no success and out of shape is desired by women? Every man with a hot girl has a purpose in life.
I think I’m a 2/10. Jeez this self development process is going to take a while...
No Filter you got it though brah. Just be the best version of yourself
Keep going !!
Magna Deuce - awesome reply. Thanks for the advice.
Interesting, I am 56 and I am a Clinical Psychotherapist and there are so few Women that I am interested in than I have ever been, given the expodedentially increasing number of mental health issues such as Borderline personality disorder and or Borderline traits in Women it would be like being in a 24/7 therapy session, no thanks, and I only have myself to please and quite frankly I am loving it
Johannes Nielsen Get yourself a pet..
The third eye no time I am fully occupied
you are totally right, now with 38 i found out i did exactly this in 14 of 19 years of relationships
Most women I meet have narcissistic personalities. They overvalue themselves based on their looks but their character is rotten.
so where do we find more or less "normal" women? I can relate to your story, just recently left my 2 year LTR, everything, except sex, was a nightmare. Constant walking on egg shells due to her extreme mood swings.
Looks like you just broke out of prison and stole a car with that stripped shirt. Thanks for the videos
excuse me... "striped" shirt 😉
Haha
Worked my ass off to save up 250k in 3 years to start my life with my ex fiance, she no longer fit within frame and was holding me back from my true potential. Dumped her due to BPD before she wrecked my life, went and bought my own house, living the dream now 👍 bullet dodged! Maintain frame gentlemen
'' chase a chick never chase a bitch '' - Albert Einstein
Possibly your best video ever. You have plenty of great content but at the core of this whole ongoing collective conversation amongst men, this piece of advice is the root from which everything else should be based on. Tightening all the loose ends of your life as a sole individual (aka getting your shit together) is where it all starts. Strive to be someone you'd wanna emulate. Chase after excellence and you won't have to chase much after women.
i have spent countless hours talking with my son about this very subject...hes now 21 years old...makes 65k a year...and does things for himself to better himself...he has girlfriends here and there...and when i asked him about his last gf he said "dad...women arent the first priority in my life...being happy is"...i think i did a good job raising him...his priorities are on the right track :)
What’s his job? I’m 19
@@JADNCK he worked his way up the ladder in a large corperation into management..he started at 16 as a bag boy bagging groceries...moved up to a department manager...then transfered to the company he now works for bringing his resume with him...he then advanced from their and is still working hard for that corp...
Thank you, internet Dad 😢
James Merone OMG THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT HE IS!!!
This comes from my yoga teacher- if you walk towards women (darkness) you will be consumed by it. Walk towards the light (excellence in this case) and the shadow (women) will follow you. Literally, the shadow follows when you walk towards the light, try chasing a shadow and you will never be able to catch the b****.
"Do not compare yourself with others, lest you become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself" Great message Richard. Your job is to be the best Bob Fuckknuckle there ever was and you're halfway home 'cause you're the only Bob there is. If we get that right, the rest falls in place.
When dating always remember you leasing with the option to buy. It's a long test drive. If you don't like the way she performed trade her in for the next.
Gotta steal this
If women are always hypergamous, they're always open to and looking for options to trade up, even once they "commit". If they will choose based on what you offer, you're not courting them. You are indeed leasing them, but they are the ones who decide whether they let you buy them.
The problem with trying to get rich is that often times you have to work 60+ hours a week leaving you with no time for hobbies or woman, so your stuck in this constant delama where you don't have the money for woman/hobbies, but when your rich, you don't have time for woman or hobbies
60hrs work is 10hrs a day, 6 days a week. If you sleep 8hrs, you'd still have approx ~6hrs left and a full day for yourself.
You can go on a date for 1-2hrs max. 4hrs for yourself, be it hobby, going to gym, friends, etc.
Also you have a full day where you do nothing. There's enough time even with a 60hr workweek.
I'm happy now. This is an excellent clip. Now I let a girl now where I stand before "the dance begins". I let them know that they will be treated with respect, but it's mutual. In the past I've been burned because I'm a one girl man. Just tread carefully, be loving and show trust. It works!!! Honest.
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Excellent video.
As an almost 30 year old with porn addiction and low self-esteem, anxiety, this is 100% true.
My father tells me the same thing - don't stress about it, don't think too much about it - continue to work and grind and women WILL come. Focus on you and making yourself better.
I hope you're doing good now during this pandemic.
@@kimikimi4791 It's been tough.
Hanging in there by a thread.
Thanks. Hope you're doing well too
This guy is great
I’m 18 years old and working towards entrepreneurship. This is very inspirational to me.
Female here and actually find the content very useful. Had my heart shattered more times than I can count and though I have a low "use" count, does that ultimately matter? All that matters is what you said, chasing excellence and I now do this as a woman. I am far more than my bra size like men are far more than their wallet. Btw you are an excellent and very decent.high quality man. I can't exactly comment on some of the commentators both men and women, but Thanks for your videos. Have a wonderful day
"A good man is a very dangerous man who has it under voluntarily control"
JBP is a legend. The way he stood up against bill C16 and carried himself afterwards (check any "interview / hit piece" ) is a perfect example of a man proving his words with actions.
Great video...I am chasing excellence at this very moment by attempting to look the best I ever looked in my entire lifetime physique wise as a 44 year old man and I am going to be competing in a NPC sanctioned national qualifying bodybuilding show in 4 weeks to celebrate.
You are saving my life. Thank you
"Do the work"
Chase the money. The women will follow and you will get everything you want once you are established and secure.
Coop is cold chillin' in his ride!!! Niiiiiiiiiiiiiice
Marinate! LOLOL (I use that term a lot)
Author Alan Roger Currie stole it from you bro
My question is, if you're totally focused on yourself and your purpose, to whom will you be attractive to? You still have to put yourself out there to attract someone right? 90% focus on yourself and 10% putting yourself out there?
Do what you love...and the IRS will follow...
If you are not chasing women you dont need to chase excellence any more. You pursue self developement. No more warrior vocabulary is required.
"Women will come when you are the best version of yourself"
So THAT'S what I've been doing wrong in the bedroom!
True. Women notice men who do well in life and take good care of themselves. I've never felt attracted to lazy, fat, low-educated men who have no ambition. It doesn't mean you have to be rich but at least try to be a better version of yourself and invest in yourself.
Hey is my problem Richard:
*Now that I have success, I FEAR dating because I could not get women when I was broke. So I know that these women just want to take*
mrcarepig
So, just to clarify, you are saying that I should just give me hard earned resources to a woman for nothing in return? If so, why? Why should any man give to a woman who wasnt there during the hard times. Now, if I would have had a woman by my side when I was homeless and dead broke, I would give her *EVERYTHING* I have and some. But please help me understand how its a good idea for me to share my wealth(15k a month)with a woman who just wants me for my money and success. Keep in mind, when I was homeless some of the same women that want me today rejected me back then. It hurts my feelings that as a man my attraction is tied to my production.
Kobe The GOAT u just found that out?
Kobe The GOAT I know what you’re saying, having traveled a similar path myself albeit without some of the extremes.
Find one who makes you better, one with character and integrity and whose talents complement yours in such a way that you can raise your game even further than you already have. Stay the hell away from the ones who bring nothing to the table except maybe a pretty face and a tight pussy, because those attributes are fleeting. And I get it that you’re thinking I’m speaking about a unicorn. Accordingly, stay on the path you’re on until you find one who meets your specifications and whatever you do, thoroughly vet your candidates (something EIC touches on in his excellent video)
Yes you have to watch out for gold diggers the same way women have to watch out for users/abusers. What do YOU want from a woman? Answer that question; and THATS what you’re “getting” in return. When you meet a quality woman who speaks to your soul, you will want to give to her in many ways (attention, support,material things) giving to her will light YOU up. Do you want children? If yes, this is one of the “things” you will be getting in return; passing on your seed
Also; this is a bit like a formerly obese woman saying that “these guys were nowhere to be found when I was fat and had crooked teeth. Now that I’m fit and got my braces off, they all just want my pu$$y, but why should I give it to them since they weren’t there while I was losing the weight?”
Boom!!!!! M.A.C.K., Men Acquiring Complete Knowledge!
I here ya... Never never chase women... Why.. It pointless... Being the best version of yourself should be the only goal...
Yes!! Don't ever chase woman. You can show interest but they ultimately must come to you..
This is the best presentation you have ever posted.
What's the red pill blue pill stuff? Im a bit confused.
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Another gem stone from my brother from another mother!
Ditch the good, go for great! Stay focused & humble!
Peace!
The only motivation for a man should be his reflection in the mirror. Period
JP and RC are my favourits. And both are canadian. What a coincidence. Please invite JP to your channel. Cheers 🍻 Norway
I have been married for 27 years. I’m 47 now. I truly have noticed that when I focus on making me better and serving my wife, my life is awesome. When I slack on me it affects the whole marriage. I do wish I figured this out 20 years ago.
8 minutes and 4 seconds video , took me 40 years to REALIZED 🤔🤔🤔🤔 .
Can i say Amen to these Man 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Bruh this is what i've been telling dudes. Stop complaining about women, thinking about women and chasing them. Cmon fam😂😂😂
Another awesome video. Preach the truth.
This dude values women so much that he has dedicated his whole life to them and uses the word excellence to cover it. Lol
Why is it that men and women can't meet on the common ground of being human? It seems so obvious and yet so far-fetched a notion now-adays.
Thank you for making this video. Thank you for encouraging positive empowerment. You have helped me in so many ways through your videos, but this one, this is a teaching that I have found extremely beneficial. Strive for excellence. Stop chasing women. It has become a mantra of sorts for me and I must say it is enlightening when properly applied. It's not easy, but that's part of what makes it so great. It's something I can focus on daily in my routine and it makes each day BETTER. Thanks again
I think JP prescribes to finding a balance between red and blue pill mentality. Going too far down the red pill rabbit hole and self improvement and romantic opportunities will pass you by.
Danny I agree. Too much red pill definitely cuts down on sexual opportunities. Fake blue pill at first lures them in.
Audiophile dude ever heard of MGTOW? You go super red pill and you just want to live in a cabin and never talk to women again.
Audiophile dude you draw a hardline with woman before you fuck them and you might never get to fuck them. Validate them and evoke some emotion before you get all stoic on them.
Jeff Moss well if you practice stoic philosophy , sexual opportunities are rather an infantile pursuit . Coming from a guy that had dozens of woman and now has made the shift of rejecting dozens of sexual offers i can tell you one thing , being in control of impulsivity is an extreme advantage translated to all areas of life. Don’t let desires and impulsive pleasures run your life. That is true weakness .. nothing separates you from the likes of an animal.
Women...like dogs ( simmer down ladies, not calling you dogs or bitches) will run when chased. How do you get the dog to come "to" you?...go off happily doing your thing...(perfect yourself). Like a dog, they'll get curious and chase you ( as long as you are doing something interesting or fun, but doing it FOR YOURSELF !!!) I don't mean sitting on the couch playing with yourself..videogaming....I mean...go out and "better yourself". Learn to fly a plane or scuba diving...whatever....odds are, you'll meet someone "compatible" doing the same. Just don't let your guard down...so to speak. Don't fall back into the Blue Pill trap...just stay guarded.
It works for men and women. If they both make improvements on themselves. We like when someone cares about how they carry themselves. Its an attractive feature. Because you know they will be able to carry you through hard times. You have more confidence in this person . When you show that you care about all aspects of your life. Your saying you care if will be able to take excellent care for your family. Or your future.
We ve heard about chasing excellence a lot in this video, but what is concretely "excellence"?
It almost sounds as if 'JBP is a beta, because he keeps his marriage afloat and didn't go through a divorce' - not word for word, obviously but it's almost implied. In my humble opinion (maybe I'm wrong) very missed observation.
But the flaw in this argument is that women will never be after you for who YOU ARE, which is what you are looking for when you want to enter in an long term intimate relationship. Does that mean that's it's fundamentally impossible ?
Another thing is that, only a few can be world class at what they do by nature (there is only so much place at the top), so what happens to the rest ? Are average people condemned to a life of misery and frustration ?
This way of seeing the world is really bleak to me.
Quick question about The Rational Male, i see Rollo Tomassi has 3 different works, Iv'e ordered TRM(original vol.1) but want to know if the two others are as imporant?
Yup, read them in sequence
Take up Brazilian Jiu Jitsu .. stick with it ... it will transform you in all ways
Sage wisdom as always
Thank you Rich for dropping this dope video jewel of knowledge. I really needed to hear this to help keep me focused on my career goals and entrepreneur aspirations. Thanks brother you are like the Uncle that we never had and all needed for real advice!
love it. So true.
Bake the cake and the iceing is free.
God damn it. I know I NEED to do this, but I can't seem to get started. It's like I am trapped in one way of thinking.
Don't strive to become rich. Strive to be worth a lot of money. Women will chase after you.
When it comes to women you’re damned if you do and lonely if you don’t. The life of a man is treacherous one.
if you are giving your excellence away to average women you are losing.
2:57-3:04 no need to watch the rest of the video.
Dental work has put me in a credit card hell.
Great stuff rich, this is something every young man struggles with. Myself included, once you stop caring and just focus on yourself you become much happier.
I deadlifted for the first time yesterday. Felt awsome afterwards! Also had a pretty girl chase me last night (no indoor olympics though!:'). Thanks for the wise words Richard, keep em comming!
Oh man, he looks fabulous for a 50 years old guy
Thanks a lot, i wish i got this video 10yrs back, but its not that late im in my mid 30s
Heey Richard! Please do a Interview with John Sonmez! He has a UA-cam channel of other 145k Subscribers! The type of videos you do, he does the same. Masculinity, women and becoming the best version of ourselves. Would love to see it and two excellent minds coming together.
All the best
Your videos are helping thanks
Needed to hear this today. Thank you.
I think you are exactly right about this.
What is the high quality woman to you?
Absolutely and 100% spot on!!!! Thank you so much for this video!
I don't chase excellence, I piss it.
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Another great video!!!!!!
Amen!! Definitely working on myself more now than ever. Especially since I turned 45. I let myself go after I got married 8 years ago. When my wife left me because she had daddy issues I had a wake up call. But I'm on the right track now. Thx for your advice. It helps me every day. God Bless!