I have to say that from experience of it happening where one of us finishes and the other does not - there is a recovery period and if one is experiencing the recovery period while the other is not - that can be difficult - both are not on the same level. It is hard and I do not recommend it. Although it's hot and selfless 😂 there are more bennefits overall to being in the same boat. Not finishing together.
Great wisdom as always. May be a technical question, but when either one of you slips up and climaxes, while the other doesn't, how does that affect the dynamics of your relationship to each other. Is it different from a situation in which where both of you climax? Also, is it different when only the husband climaxes as opposed to when only the wife climaxes? I ask because on forums, I read some karezza practitioners telling their situation of being the sole karezza practitioner in the relationship (meaning that they withhold while their spouse climaxes). I was just curious to know if you have anything to say on that. I don't know if you've mentioned this before.
I have to say that from experience of it happening where one of us finishes and the other does not - there is a recovery period and if one is experiencing the recovery period while the other is not - that can be difficult - both are not on the same level. It is hard and I do not recommend it. Although it's hot and selfless 😂 there are more bennefits overall to being in the same boat. Not finishing together.
Well said! Karezza is such a great term for it, because connection is the prerequisite for caressing. It's not karezza unless the connection is there.
I have to say that from experience of it happening where one of us finishes and the other does not - there is a recovery period and if one is experiencing the recovery period while the other is not - that can be difficult - both are not on the same level. It is hard and I do not recommend it. Although it's hot and selfless 😂 there are more bennefits overall to being in the same boat. Not finishing together.
Great wisdom as always. May be a technical question, but when either one of you slips up and climaxes, while the other doesn't, how does that affect the dynamics of your relationship to each other. Is it different from a situation in which where both of you climax? Also, is it different when only the husband climaxes as opposed to when only the wife climaxes? I ask because on forums, I read some karezza practitioners telling their situation of being the sole karezza practitioner in the relationship (meaning that they withhold while their spouse climaxes). I was just curious to know if you have anything to say on that. I don't know if you've mentioned this before.
I have to say that from experience of it happening where one of us finishes and the other does not - there is a recovery period and if one is experiencing the recovery period while the other is not - that can be difficult - both are not on the same level. It is hard and I do not recommend it. Although it's hot and selfless 😂 there are more bennefits overall to being in the same boat. Not finishing together.