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But if it comes to an unwanted climax, would you ruin it, i.e. keep it as flat as possible with all your might, or if it's already too late and happened anyway, enjoy it?

It's such a shame that hardly anyone in Germany knows karezza and that many people don't like it at all, even think it's stupid :-(

Sport is importing, running, this is most important, and Karezza, als well:-)

Whats your only fans?

When you don't take care of yourself - your cup is not full and you can not give to your significant other ❤ (fill your cup!!!)

Karezza applies to women at least as much as women. You should not be climaxing!

It's the best! It does work.

When your wife doesn't want you its simply means she's avoiding you and doesn't want sex from you. So as a wife, she needs to put her man's priority first in order for the guy to play his role to. Gents don't put up with a sexless relationship. If she won't do it, another will. Also, dont jump through hoops for her to get laid either. It never works. She needs to be the one who is attracted to you and makes the effort first. All a woman needs to do for a guy is give him consistency in sex, food and respect. Men do not need to play the part of a woman with all this so called "connections" because woman do that for themselves. Most woman live in a fake reality they make up anyways. Gents be very careful of what woman say, because we all know they say things that they feel, and do another as they feel. Woman are emotional so let them be. Guys you are strong, stoic and masculine. If you aren't those things, they won't want you. P.S. never marry woman. It has zero benefit to men in anyway and you can still do everything under the sun without marriage. In these times men need to protect themselves.

Thank you!!!

You are one of a few women on the web teaching useful honest advice for us men, on what & how women think and feel. Thank you!!

Gonna save this video as a good reminder

Seems like the video got cut off at the end. Anyways, always appreciate the honesty and today's video seemed to conveyed in a previously unseen mode of emotion that adds to the message of the video. Love is unquenchable, and it is ever increasing. It is contagious. It doesn't take, but it gives freely. Love is fruitful and multiplies. Fruits grow from Love and they nourish and inspire others to reciprocate in being fruitful as well. Too many men today are subscribing to a legalistic attitude about pursuing what they think is masculinity. A rich, physically fit man with the biggest house, the nicest cars etc. can be a completely weak man. Striving for the outward appearances IN ORDER to become more masculine does not actually make one any more masculine and does not fulfill ultimately. In fact, such an attitude is needy. This is parallel to Jesus' criticisms of those who were being legalistic, because the laws become more important than the lawgiver, and the keeping the laws became about themselves, projecting the inner neediness. And such as missing the point. It's putting the chariot in front of the horse. Jesus' parable of the widow's tithe can be applied to masculinity as well. The worth of one's masculinity is measured by an attitude of giving and serving. As for the relevance of the exterior, a serving and giving heart naturally finds ways to be more effective in giving and serving, and it actually becomes natural to make an effort, whether it's in working out, discipline, or relationships. The paradox is that one with such a heart is actually more rewarded. And changing the heart is actually about learning that one has inherent self worth. It follows that one who truly knows one's self worth does not seek worth from other people. That's what karezza is about too. Even before the mechanistic matters of slowing down and not ejaculating etc., it's about the heart posturing for connection through giving out of abundance. It's really unfortunate how distorted sex has become in culture. It has become all about the climax. And for all the conventional advice on 'good sex' being about being charitable and connecting, almost all but few also always advocate reaching for climax. I, speaking as a man, while not judging, have yet to hear a reasonable answer as to what about the male ejaculation actually is giving/serving to the partner, other than for the purpose of procreation. The conventional answer just comes down to "ah... it feels good"... But for who? For the self. It seems like only karezza practitioners come to realize how male ejaculation isn't the end all be all of sex.

Yeah, the space to express autonomy is a requirement for not only relationship harmony but also in happiness in general. It's also on each person to be honest about whether one is projecting one's own neediness on the other. Overflowing love/Love out of abundance is always more powerful than 'love' out of need (if there is such a thing as a needy love).

Yes, there is tendency for the westernized reformed christianity to pretend that spiritual aspects / this energy thing is not real, so much so that prayer has become only a ritual, and healing and prophesying are all deemed fake.. It has surely become more and more of dead religion. How ironic that there is an explosive rate of people today describing themselves as "spiritual, but not religious".

Here's how I would summarize it. Life (in this realm) is overrated.

You’re not an outsider. Your soul/spirit is being awakened. What you’re experiencing is Jesus knocking at the door of your heart. We are in the very last days and many MANY people are waking up. God is moving like never before. We are in the final harvest before he comes. Try calling out to Jesus! If you don’t believe me please please please Let him show you! Ask Jesus to show you the truth and he will. He said he would pour out his spirit in the last days and I can see he’s trying to call you home by what you just explained. ❤❤❤

I hear you. Big changes coming starting this year. We have had our last normal Christmas and now last normal Easter. Try to enjoy the lasts of each of these this year. Take care.

Can completely relate. Everyday, hopefully, we grow out of the perspective that we currently hold. Even without looking at others, if I reflect back to how I behaved and thought even a few weeks, months, years ago, I see how limited my perspective was at the time, compared to the current one I hold. As humans, we imbue all kinds of meaning to anything and everything that we do or interact with. Just as a simple example, we imbue so much meaning onto physical beauty. Our media, cultural stories that we consume ever since we can remember imbue magical value (i.e. good morality, pleasure, status etc.) into physical beauty. But objectively, what is it? it's just a salient placement and linking of physical features that stand out from the familiar. And by the same principle is what infatuation is. We imbue/project an image composed of our own desires onto another person, only to find out in due time that it was nothing more than a mirage. So many of us are chasing mirages and we don't even know it. All that said, if that's how we're able to feel, with our limited perspectives. Imagine what Jesus sees when He sees us. His famous words "They know not what they do" demonstrate that.

Just found your channel, saw a few videos, got to know your take on those topics, and overall I think that you are a nice, humble, kind-hearted, not too loud and obnoxious, instead a much sensible woman on UA-cam(which is rare to find here.) So thanks for that. My question was that I have been practising something like not having an ejaculation for longer intervals and I feel good doing that for various reasons. You know the usual ones like clarity of thought, health benefits, enhanced vigour etc etc. However I don't stop from touching myself whenever I really feel like doing so. Still I refrain from certain things like watching porn and fantasising such things, and also to climax into an ejaculation. Even while pleasuring myself I prefer not to fantasise at all, rather try to ground myself into the immediate tangible senses. Kind of well-dedicated, gentle, relaxed, no hurry sessions. Unfortunately I don't have a partner so.... basically my hands are my companion😂. I don't know what anyone would call this practice of mine, 'Carezza' 'Semen retention' or just whatever. I just want your take, or rather your husband's take on that, or any suggestion you can give whether I am doing it right and what all i should avoid. I would really appreciate if you guys guide me as a younger brother. Btw, I am in my early twenties. Lastly I would say that you look wonderful for your 40s(if I am not wrong, as you said that in a video.) Maybe carezza is doing those wonders for you.

Salam sister, May God bless you and you're loved ones ❤️

How wonderful! I'm so glad to hear that correlation between Jesus and being lonely. That is very interesting. It's sad. It's truth.

"Love your neighbor as yourself" Can't love others unless you love yourself In Jesus' lifetime on earth, everybody needed Jesus, but not everybody sought Jesus. And Jesus died a lonely death. I've been watching this channel since its very first video. And it's so cool to see you evolve. Please keep being real. There are lot of us that feel seen

Thank you so much. I am so glad my honesty is well received. What a blessing to have you watch the video and be a part of the channel!

This is the most real, raw and honest channel. You are so genuine and insightful it's a breath of fresh air. As a young male who is a bit lost and confused, I find this channel to be an island of refuge in the vast ocean of fake. I sincerely appreciate how you don't whitewash the difficult, don't sugar coat the harsh, and don't shy away from the Taboo. Thank you so much for always keeping it 💯% real. God Bless you.

Wise observations. Yes, one should not seek a relationship to complete oneself, because the other person can never fulfill all the emotional needs of the other. We all want to be seen in our own ways. We all distract ourselves from our own problems. Some hit rock bottom quicker than others, but as long as we don't face our own emotional needs, we all hit rock bottom sooner or later, because the emotional needs need nourishment too, and they will manifest themselves in unwanted ways if unattended to. And society has come to normalize that as 'midlife crisis'. We all want to be accepted, and because we want to be accepted, we try to be 'good enough' to be 'acceptable'. There is an epidemic of divorce, but even moreso, there is an epidemic of loneliness. We all want to have meaningful relationships, but more and more we try to be 'good enough' to earn/maintain a relationship. We all want unconditional love, but so many of us experience conditional love (which is an oxymoron, because love can only be unconditional), which is why we put mask our emotional needs in order to be 'acceptable enough' for the 'conditional love'. May we all experience unconditional love, and express love unconditionally.

"...waited until we got married, and that is almost unheard of". Exactly. That's not to say that the church went about the right way about teaching Biblical principles of relationships, since there were many who were taught wrong and they became repressed emotionally and that went out of control. At the same time, even if the church's prescriptions can be and has been wrong on many occasions, the diagnosis for the need for Biblical chastity was correct. And your story is just a beautiful example of how you did not lack anything in doing it in the way of the Bible. In fact, you were blessed with more. It's too bad that karezza seems to be considered too new agey for the church. Seems like even the church was influenced to think that physical intimacy always constitutes a climax, which is a curious case, if one thinks about it. I mean, isn't the whole point of Biblical chastity about realizing that true love isn't rooted in the rollercoaster of emotions that is physical infatuation? and that physical consummation of marital love is just that, placing the capstone on a structure that already has a strong foundation, without which the structure is just a sand castle unable to withstand a single ocean wave? Therefore, if indeed the claim is such, then does it not follow naturally that true consummation of marital love does not obligate the climax, which also leads to a rollercoaster of emotions? Before the first commandment to humans (Gen 1:28 'be fruitful and multiply') was the concept of union, as humans are created in the image of God first ("in Our Image", God said). That is to say, it can be inferred that pro-creation is sequentially subsequent to union. Also, practically speaking, in all the acts of consummation, how many times does a couple wish to pro-create a child anyways? Is it not primarily to consummate union? Too often, the church makes Biblical chastity seem like chains on a prisoner who wants to escape. Who wouldn't want to break the chains and escape as quickly as possible? Song of Solomon 8:4 " Not to awaken love until the time is right" Good on you and your husband for not awakening love until the time is right. May your marriage and family be all the more blessed for it.

Shit is easier than ever. Guys are too scared or too embittered. There's no competition. Im too horny to care what anyone thinks. When I was in my twentie, guys would fight you for talking to a girl they wanted. Now they're all chicken shits. Easy.

Jmo, not a science bro, but i personally think the female need for attention is biological

Female mating cues evolved to be as discerning as possible to ensure the man chosen (Trusted) is of the highest quality mate available. A female basically has a subconscious checklist to filter out mates. 1. Does he intensely, and deeply truly desire me = Meaning how attached and incentivized is he to invest and stick with me thick and thin. 2. Is he competent capable and ambitious = Could he provide and protect me and the offspring. 3. Is he emotionally attuned and aware = Could he lead me and the family by accurately taking into consideration our needs and wants. 4. Does he claim me and take responsibility for me, thus providing me with a feeling of belonging. 5.

Very deep topics. Sociological phenomena don't occur by accident. What we we eat, the things we are socially primed to think and perceive all have consequences. For example, procreation has largely been separated from the act of intercourse, through various means, and there's no going back, especially when there is a bombardment of social priming of how 'liberating' that is. Heck, testosterone levels can rise even through a change of mindset/beliefs. But on the flipside, yes, hormone levels also indeed affect attitude. At the same time, long-held beliefs are not just results of hormones. All that said though, I personally would say that masculinity should be a natural byproduct of authentic healthy being, for men. A pretense of masculinity is only that, a product of insecurity and immaturity seeking an external identity. That is to say, one cannot 'seek to be masculine'. Rather, one must truly realize that there is no reason to be insecure. The cart doesn't come before the horse. There is nothing more masculine than a secure man, and it's also true that there is nothing more feminine than a secure woman. Praise God for the happy marriage that you have despite having a background of a broken home. You're already changing the world, one person at a time, starting with your family!

Unfiltered wisdom from real life. Yes, it's sobering to know how much social messaging that we've all adopted about marriage, love etc. Whatever it is, it ain't working, given the rates of divorce, lack of intimacy, etc. It's very interesting how your experiences match very well with virtually all other karezza practicing couples. That is to say, they are all so naturally considerate and charitable to one another. Perhaps a natural side-effect of karezza, since the principle of karezza itself is to be present and melt into union, of two becoming one, thereby considering the spouse as oneself, so to speak. On the other hand, in conventional practice, there is an element of using one another for the other's pleasure. It's a different mindset altogether.

Missed your content. Please upload more videos on Karezza. I am especially interested in insight on the practicalities of it all 😊

It's been a while since your last upload. Hope things are going well with you and your husband and family. Would love to keep hearing you drop wisdom on karezza and other things!

Hi there - Can you please do a video on the practicalities of Karezza? Ask your husband how he can last so long with you, looking at you, you are a very attractive woman. I find it hard to contain my primal passions. I want to dominate my partner and it feels good for both partners, but obviously can't last very long. Can you do a video on both the practical tips on Karezza and long sensual sex - As well as the aspect of primal passions and senses? I worry Karezza will be too slow for my partner and won't give them what they need???

Hi there - Can you please do a video on the practicalities of Karezza? Ask your husband how he can last so long with you, looking at you, you are a very attractive woman. I find it hard to contain my primal passions. I want to dominate my partner and it feels good for both partners, but obviously can't last very long. Can you do a video on both the practical tips on Karezza and long sensual sex - As well as the aspect of primal passions and senses? I worry Karezza will be too slow for my partner and won't give them what they need???

Because semen is the life force

Congratulate me 35 days no orgasm. My partner she has gone 20 days no orgasm.

I think the video got cut early at the end. Nonetheless, another nugget of wisdom from this channel. Working out is also a process to regulate pain by increasing pain tolerance, and research shows that the surest way to sensitize oneself to pleasure is also to increase pain tolerance a.k.a. tolerance for suffering. Also helps to have a healthy diet and not eat manufactured trash. It is always inspiring to hear that you and your husband only just keep improving in love.

After a long time .... Is your karezza, sacred sexuality journey going on?

I have to say that from experience of it happening where one of us finishes and the other does not - there is a recovery period and if one is experiencing the recovery period while the other is not - that can be difficult - both are not on the same level. It is hard and I do not recommend it. Although it's hot and selfless 😂 there are more bennefits overall to being in the same boat. Not finishing together.

Great wisdom as always. May be a technical question, but when either one of you slips up and climaxes, while the other doesn't, how does that affect the dynamics of your relationship to each other. Is it different from a situation in which where both of you climax? Also, is it different when only the husband climaxes as opposed to when only the wife climaxes? I ask because on forums, I read some karezza practitioners telling their situation of being the sole karezza practitioner in the relationship (meaning that they withhold while their spouse climaxes). I was just curious to know if you have anything to say on that. I don't know if you've mentioned this before.

Well said! Karezza is such a great term for it, because connection is the prerequisite for caressing. It's not karezza unless the connection is there.

Wow, such underrated advice that I haven't heard from any of the books that talk about karezza. I don't know if you realize, but your advice is really priceless, because as far as I know, you're the only karezza practitioner who is also a mother (having children) talking about karezza, maybe apart from Alice Bunker Stockham. I do find it interesting that most if not all people who talk about karezza don't have children, and they seek this for the natural contraceptive method that it is. Such others may have helpful wisdom, but they can never know to speak from your vantage point of being a mother, of having married as a virgin.

Should my gf not orgasm for that week as well? She finds it tempting to masturbate during the week before her period.

Of course it effects his mood. That’s why men that don’t cum need to shift the energy.. which is the road to being a multi orgasmic man. Semen Retention is also path men practicing karezza can follow. However, retention peaks ( for me about 2 weeks) and then declines, thus testosterone rises due to holding off, but will then decline in the long term. I can notice it. For this reason Tantric guidelines state when a man should ejaculate, and thank goodness I’m not 60 because it’s never allowed after that!

Love your videos. Marnia and Gary’s book was fantastic.

I love your video. We’ve been practicing this for many many years and it just builds such a wonderful relationship. We don’t have any of the ups and downs other couples do. Everything is so much better. You can’t imagine that it can get better - then it gets better!!!

It seems so mysterious and simple at the same time. Man needs to connect on a heart level to reach woman, which is why a self-aware and conscious man is attractive, but woman also intuitively has keys to a man's heart (and that is also woman's power). A self-aware and conscious woman can really unlock a man's potential.

Over the years, the more I introspect, the more I lean towards believing that the heart is at the issue of all psychological/emotional issues. And Truth pierces through the heart, but in order to do that, it must do that with the Truth of Love. Those were wise and practical word, thank you

The connection starts way before the bed. Men need to exercise self-control and take their time slowly increasing anticipation where her whole being wants you and she trusts you so that whatever you say or do she surrenders. Men you don’t have to come to derive pleasure as she transmutes her power to you soak it up. Side note, most women love to be overpowered and told what to do. Listen to the unspoken communication, she will tell you everything you need to know. Love each part of her body like she was a goddess. Don’t be afraid to ravish, and devour her with all of your masculinity and know when she needs to be your baby with some TLC. Again pay attention so that you don’t hurt her.