how to: BE MORE FEMININE

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  • IN THIS VIDEO: I share how FEMININITY is NOT weakness and HOW TO use it!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 743

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee  5 років тому +281

    Thank you Loves for watching and commenting! Just entered into my feminine energy by reading your comments and learning how to receive positive feedback/compliments - you’d be surprised how difficult that is 😊❤️

    • @Danielathebrand
      @Danielathebrand 5 років тому +4

      Breeny Lee thank you for sharing! It’s so easy to stay in BOSS mode especially being a working woman. These are great tips!

    • @ms.mannym3781
      @ms.mannym3781 5 років тому +3

      Breeny Lee you’re personality is awesome 😎 Thank You for all of your pep talks!🙏

    • @glowbynature5879
      @glowbynature5879 5 років тому +1

      thank you for another great video

    • @bizarr13
      @bizarr13 5 років тому

      Breeny thank you so much for this video!! This was really helpful! Can you do a part 2 ? Like inner vs outer feminine energy ? Thank you again and God bless ♥

    • @OwolabbyAzeez
      @OwolabbyAzeez 5 років тому +4

      Yup whoever is scrolling through the comments I hope you have a phenomenal day. Get ya bread and all the crumbs too lol. Stack and act broke 😤🤟🏾😤🤟🏾. But this is the internet so lemme stop being positive 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @gingers2555
    @gingers2555 5 років тому +621

    Catch me next semester.....I'm learning to be feminine this summer boys.

  • @ccsub
    @ccsub 5 років тому +1258

    1. Be present
    2. Get out of your head and into your heart
    3. Ask for help
    4. Say thank you, be grateful
    5. Learn to smile
    Feminine energy is attractive energy!

  • @starsighting7167
    @starsighting7167 5 років тому +696

    attractiveness definitely isnt all looks, energy and personality is alot

  • @anna-mariaulanowski7837
    @anna-mariaulanowski7837 5 років тому +364

    "There is nothing wrong with being a dominant man but you must balance that out with empathy, with compassion, with gentleness" AMEN SIS!!

  • @b.b.3761
    @b.b.3761 5 років тому +558

    As a woman it is your divine right to be feminine..

    • @NoName-mm6gh
      @NoName-mm6gh 5 років тому +2

      Alti J how can one be feminine with an unpleasant face to begin with

    • @lolimcimco5627
      @lolimcimco5627 5 років тому +15

      MyNamed Name Who you? Your face is unpleasant?? That must suck. But I’m sure your positive energy could change that.. that’s if your energy is positive...

    • @hazele.2861
      @hazele.2861 3 роки тому +5

      @@NoName-mm6gh none of us have unpleasant faces. God makes no mistakes and he created us. Songs of Solomon 4:7 says “You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” Psalms 139:14 tells us that we are WONDERFULLY and FEARFULLY made. You’re beautiful and God knows you are beautiful. ❤️

    • @NoName-mm6gh
      @NoName-mm6gh 3 роки тому +4

      @@hazele.2861 there's a fine line between reality and pure vagueness. Why is beauty pushed as the ultimate virtue for God and his creation, let alone setting a woman's value. A man can comfortably become realistic and admit to his physical flaws without someone trying to give him platitudes but it seems like for women we're always met with endless platitudes whether it's from religion or social coercion. So I'll state this, when God selected David to become king of Israel do you think he was paying attention to his appearance and physique? No. That's why he told samuel that he's looking for the person he has chosen and not how they look like. I don't know why Christian's make it seem like God is visual and cares for how genetically look like. God doesn't look at us how we look and admire beauty. We humans do that then we assume that God also cares about those things while he never said so. I think I'm not physically appealing but that's not the only quality that makes me. I want people to cut this out once and for all

    • @NoName-mm6gh
      @NoName-mm6gh 3 роки тому +2

      @@lolimcimco5627 lol. There's no such thing as positive energy my dear, it's either you're hot or not then your values will determine everything else

  • @ayooandy
    @ayooandy 5 років тому +107

    This is good especially for us darkskin girls we need to learn how flaunt our femininity before everything else

  • @CiaraMathias
    @CiaraMathias 5 років тому +33

    The eye contact when having intimate conversation is SO important. I do the same thing whenever I am talking with someone and they start messing with their phone- stop talking and walk away. 👋

  • @Mel-go2pz
    @Mel-go2pz 5 років тому +315

    Theres nothing wrong with being a damsel in distress! Our lives would be SOOO much easier if we let men be men & simply HELP us💗They like it, we benefit. Its a win-win! Lovely video💗💗

    • @She_So_Solo
      @She_So_Solo 5 років тому +6

      I agree.

    • @bonym371
      @bonym371 5 років тому +3

      @The Real Issues If we try and help we're called "Cavemen" or #metoothis or #metoothat. still try to help but I'm doing this at a risk; but it's a risk I'm prepared to take; a lot of guys in this day and age, WON'T out of fear!!

    • @BeeKayPopn1
      @BeeKayPopn1 5 років тому +3

      @The Real Issues listen 😂😂😂 i was thinking the same thing like... 👀👀👀 if i DIDN'T HAVE TO I WOULDN'T!

    • @BeeKayPopn1
      @BeeKayPopn1 5 років тому +7

      @The Real Issues i could b stuck in 3FT of snow and 6 men could walk RIGHT PAST me with absolutely NO ASSISTANCE! 🤷🏽‍♀️😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ELP1125
      @ELP1125 5 років тому +6

      I don’t like helping ppl that don’t help themselves. So this whole “men enjoy helping us” mentality gotta go 👉🏾

  • @F0reverblessed
    @F0reverblessed 5 років тому +543

    Feminine tips are always great! Especially when you don’t grow up with a mother or older sister to talk to about things. Great video Breeny!! -from a self love content creator to another!! Keep these videos coming ! ❤️

    • @neishasolomon7551
      @neishasolomon7551 5 років тому +9

      Even when you do sometimes you don't even have anyone to talk to tbh

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 5 років тому +2

      neisha solomon absolutely ! ❤️💕

    • @theythinkidontknow1975
      @theythinkidontknow1975 5 років тому +2

      I def I have som masculine ways being the only girl around all boys

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 5 років тому +1

      GODS PLAN FOR SALVATION I do too! We learn as we grow! ❤️

    • @nondumisomanyisa6373
      @nondumisomanyisa6373 5 років тому +1

      Subbed

  • @Nat_may19
    @Nat_may19 5 років тому +309

    I'm literally in masculine energy all the time. Exhibiting feminine energy makes me feel uneasy, but I'm going to work on it.

    • @sabsays4091
      @sabsays4091 5 років тому +52

      OMG! I get the same way sometimes but I’m much better at being more feminine nowadays!
      I feel sometimes it takes strength to be in your feminine energy because when you act soft, and go with the flow - quite frankly sometimes people abuse that. So we use our masculine energy to be able to defend ourselves or be taken more seriously.
      And sometimes you feel like you have to be careful where to allow yourself to embody femininity because people may take advantage of your softness and want to harm you bc you’re showing your vulnerability. That may be why it sometimes feels hard for us to switch out of masculine ways sometimes.

    • @Nat_may19
      @Nat_may19 5 років тому +28

      @@sabsays4091 yes exactly that. Especially men. I think between them and making sure I could stand up for myself growing up has solidified my masculine energy lol. It is hard though and I'm still trying lol

    • @DaddysGrl463
      @DaddysGrl463 4 роки тому +1

      nmh_xox It’s new for me too, but I’m enjoying it.

    • @Dahshanae
      @Dahshanae 3 роки тому

      Thisssssss😭 story of my life

    • @antoinebguitar2869
      @antoinebguitar2869 Рік тому

      I'll help you out here, if I you try to portray yourself as strong and masculine or whatever, we still perceive you as weak anyway (maybe not the right choice of word, dont get offended) like to me a women being all bitchy and trying to assert her dominance it looks like a baby cat trying to bite your finger lol you just let him bite and you find it cute, but if he keeps biting over and over and never let himself being pet then it starts get annoying and we might get rid of that cat. If my explaination is sexist im sorry lol

  • @teatodd2
    @teatodd2 5 років тому +95

    I hate smiling all the time because EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. a man thinks that's code for, "Hey I'm available come holla at me" 😂. I'm married. But I'm working at resting my face softly and not always looking like I'm in deep thought.

    • @thatgirlrickki2119
      @thatgirlrickki2119 4 роки тому +1

      Ommmggg yesss 😂🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @lillianhbbler960
      @lillianhbbler960 3 роки тому

      Yea, same here.

    • @malindalewis3799
      @malindalewis3799 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣Gm Translation; there will be no sipping on this Tea! This Tea is taken! 🙏🏾Have a great day beautiful !

  • @Kuntheary_
    @Kuntheary_ 5 років тому +38

    Please write a book already, I will definitely read it

  • @lunamontez7630
    @lunamontez7630 5 років тому +40

    Please, can you make a podcast? It would be amazing to listen to you everyday before work and life moves on.

  • @ladonnalathon5038
    @ladonnalathon5038 5 років тому +57

    People are dragging other woman by saying weave makeup ect is not feminine. Actually it has nothing to do with this topic. We are talking about personality. Weave/personality two different topics

    • @mermaidtingzzz
      @mermaidtingzzz 4 роки тому +5

      @wackazz peepoh ppl will literally say anything to diminish women, especially Black women. We have to continue acknowledge that they are just loud and wrong and move on about our lives with or without weave and makeup.

  • @Suite1029
    @Suite1029 5 років тому +211

    🙋🏽‍♀️..... I've been saying this about myself and women who have aggressive energy. Those of us who take the time to become aware of ourselves and want to change, will find this video informative and an eye opener.

  • @aaliyahhhhhhh335
    @aaliyahhhhhhh335 5 років тому +280

    You should collab with love your natural. Holly boon. And asha c. They are amazing empowering women who have similar content to you xx

    • @Hawausanusi
      @Hawausanusi 5 років тому +11

      Ali A I love them bro

    • @vliciouss
      @vliciouss 5 років тому +8

      Also Sheraseven

    • @MarieLaureQuayson
      @MarieLaureQuayson 5 років тому +3

      Yes I love them too! I hope to soon be on their level!

    • @carleighcivil721
      @carleighcivil721 5 років тому +6

      Ali A & Love Your Natural !

    • @toolboxevolution7456
      @toolboxevolution7456 5 років тому +11

      I am Eloho. They remind me SO much of each other. Both modelesque, black, strong, but over-the-top absolutely fabulous!!!!

  • @Shunshiiine
    @Shunshiiine 5 років тому +30

    i have a hard time tuning into my feminine enegery...its hard allowing someone to help me,it makes me feel like im a burden. but you know what Breeny,ill try...ill try to recieve.

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  5 років тому +1

      SunkissedTeddy All the best ❤️

    • @monikaballah931
      @monikaballah931 3 роки тому

      me too. i have been doing things on my own for too long

  • @mariannimoh9514
    @mariannimoh9514 5 років тому +68

    Asking for help, is something I do a lot. But nowadays, I find myself not asking anyone for help bc at my workplace, the first time I asked my manager for help, she told me to figure it out myself. Not even that, when I worked in college for the dean, she always told me to figure it out so now I find myself not asking anyone for help even when the inside of me is crying for help. I just figure it out and now I find myself telling others to figure it out. LOL. I need to stop that now bc my momma ain’t raise no fool. See how the world can easily change a person.

    • @butterflymage5623
      @butterflymage5623 5 років тому +13

      Marian Nimoh that’s also work. Were you should be using more masculine energy. You’re there to work, earn paychecks and compete for raises/promotions.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 5 років тому

      Yeah I asked a guy I was dating for help and he said I can do it.myself. 🥺😐🙄

    • @mariannimoh9514
      @mariannimoh9514 5 років тому +10

      Yeah I understand but if you’re new to the job with no training, for ex. I’m a teacher. I was expected to be trained at least. But nah, the first day they put me in a class expecting me to know everything and I asked my manger one simple question, all she had to do was say “yes or no” but instead she said “figure it out yourself” I was able to figure it out but I made a mistake and she went off on me. So now every time I need help, I just go on google informs my students.😂😂 we google together

    • @Liz-ic6jb
      @Liz-ic6jb 5 років тому +7

      Marian you are missing the point. This is about asking men in your personal life for help, not women at work. You need tips on "how to get job training" totally different subject.

  • @sawssanebargach
    @sawssanebargach 5 років тому +196

    I Love love love how this had nothing to do with your appearance, but with your energy/emotions. And I love how you said that you can be both feminine and masculine.

  • @deerandomized9337
    @deerandomized9337 5 років тому +60

    Ha! I used to say thank you to my ex all the time and he'd say "you should be" or I'd tell him he looked/smelled nice he'd say "I know" haha what a jerk

    • @11071874
      @11071874 4 роки тому +14

      He was so rude to you. I can’t stand arrogant guys. Omg. So glad he’s an ex. 😖

    • @derica818
      @derica818 4 роки тому +2

      I say "I know haha" when I get a compliment cos I am sometimes uncomfortable with ppl genuinely liking me and I am a bit taken aback but u secretly appreciate it. I am working on it and to show more gratitude but ur ex sounds abit arrogant

  • @wonderfulrainyday
    @wonderfulrainyday 5 років тому +51

    Off topic: Your fingers/hands look so elegant!

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  5 років тому +10

      Rainy Day ASMR - Aww thank you for saying so because my hands are one of my insecurities lol 🤗

    • @malindalewis3799
      @malindalewis3799 3 роки тому +1

      🙏🏾

  • @urbanfxshion
    @urbanfxshion 5 років тому +89

    You’re the big sister I never knew I needed ❤️

  • @luciadozier1267
    @luciadozier1267 5 років тому +75

    You just give me big sis vibes even tho I'm older than you lol but totally had to be more masculine since my childhood and I was never taught about feminine energy or how to use it. Great video.

  • @choc-litcake6568
    @choc-litcake6568 5 років тому +58

    My secret to being more feminine is to play slow love songs...

  • @sashacole3140
    @sashacole3140 5 років тому +40

    NY WOMEN WE GOTTA LEARN TO SAY THANK YOU AND DEPEND ON MEN SOME TIMES 😭 even tho we are natural hustlers 😩

  • @msog8488
    @msog8488 4 роки тому +2

    I am guilty of being in a masculine energy most times, I have learned this from being on my own, living alone and just trying to survive. I am learning more and more about the strength in being feminine... I miss it

  • @AT-gz4ej
    @AT-gz4ej 5 років тому +58

    Eye contact makes me uncomfortable

    • @electricbeing993
      @electricbeing993 5 років тому +22

      It only makes me uncomfortable in intimate situations. Like a nervous anxiety. But if I'm at work, I'll stare ya ass down all day no problem. Thats how i lnow i had to work on balance and ground myself. Root chakra weak asf. Lol. Im getting better tho.

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  5 років тому +7

      Haha too bad!!

    • @tianamiller6820
      @tianamiller6820 5 років тому +7

      It only makes me uncomfortable when im around people I either don't like, not close to ior don't know well. When you're in the company of the right people (or person ) it builds intimacy.

  • @amysocool7
    @amysocool7 5 років тому +40

    love this topic and this video. i used to be a crazy feminist and i used to be so angry for wayy to many reasons, but after i did a little well... alot of soul searching i taped into my femininity and my life has gotten alittle better in many areas

  • @brihendie
    @brihendie 4 роки тому +1

    I am going to try to be more grateful this week, say thank you more instead of reminding someone of something they forgot. I can be independent and ask for help. Your videos have helped me so much! Love you Breeny!

  • @Alyssa18633
    @Alyssa18633 5 років тому +160

    the only thing that can keep you truly humble is God. Humility is talked about in every holy book.
    Quran: "Verily, Allah has revealed to me that you must be humble towards one another, so that no one wrongs another or boasts to another."
    "No one who has the weight of a seed of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise."
    Bible: "You are the people of God; he loved you and chose you for his own. So then, you must clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience."
    whether you're religious or not, you gotta stay humble.

    • @farhiajama4423
      @farhiajama4423 5 років тому +12

      Alyssa YES! Knowing that God is the greatest and recognising our weakness is most definitely humbling.

    • @AsToldBySab
      @AsToldBySab 5 років тому +5

      Does the Quran believe in Jesus Christ?

    • @AsToldBySab
      @AsToldBySab 5 років тому +2

      cocoachica32 not the son of God?

    • @Alyssa18633
      @Alyssa18633 5 років тому +11

      Sabrina Petit no. A prophet. Not the son of God. There is only one God in Islam not the holy trinity.

    • @AsToldBySab
      @AsToldBySab 5 років тому

      Alyssa oh ok, well than what you’re saying is invalid to Breeny. You need to check yourself first, no one can enter the kingdom without Jesus Christ.... read the Holy Bible, you cannot judge 👩‍⚖️ it’s all love, we can debate with scriptures, and before anything do you have the Holy Spirit within you? Does God talk to you? Give you dreams like Jacob? Are you after his heart like David? Yes for me! Do you know the sound we will hear? Seekedministries on IG. Let’s not blow her up, this Child of God

  • @clmediazw
    @clmediazw 5 років тому +26

    Thank you so much for this. I think we also need to highlight the fact that these all work WITH THE RIGHT GUY..from experience, the wrong guys will make you feel like you’re asking for too much because they are not in a position to play the role

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  5 років тому +4

      Crooked Lanes Absolutely, don’t cast your pearls before swine doll ❤️

  • @CindyLeah
    @CindyLeah 5 років тому +77

    A feminine woman is a grateful woman. I resonate with this so much. Have better interactions with people by just being grateful and listening

  • @Douce.Colombe
    @Douce.Colombe 5 років тому +4

    Wait! How did you know that this is exactly the topic I was waiting for in this season ? 😩😩😩 I can't, girl you're special

  • @patriciasalaam42
    @patriciasalaam42 5 років тому +27

    We are constantly painted as angry, masculine and unlovable. These were excellent tips.

  • @missyg9778
    @missyg9778 4 роки тому

    I love Mary Kays "Miracles Happen". She was so inspiring. She believed in embracing your femininty but she also had masculine energy. She encouraged everyone to balance that and she deacribed it as wearing many hats.

  • @iammichaelamonique
    @iammichaelamonique 5 років тому +33

    Yesss! I struggle with accepting a compliemnt too. Need to be more conscious about this

  • @Evebossie
    @Evebossie 5 років тому +40

    I can proudly say an your number one Kenyan subscriber..i love love your contents. This one made me open my eyes wide coz am the type who doesnt ask for help as I view it as being weak.
    I just feel like I have a big sister and my own personal therapist when I listen to you talk. May God continue using you to help us women. I love love you 😍

    • @annkima
      @annkima 5 років тому +1

      @evelyne, we'll have to share that number one Kenyan subscriber 😊❤️. Breeny, you are doing an amazing job, raising standards amongst ladies. I appreciate you siz❤️

    • @malindalewis3799
      @malindalewis3799 3 роки тому

      ❤🥰🙏🏾

  • @teiatalks1879
    @teiatalks1879 5 років тому +112

    I like this cause I have EVERYTHING you said and I see why these men be so crazy about me 🤣

    • @a-735
      @a-735 5 років тому +48

      LaTeia Deiónn damn her first point was being humble 😬

    • @sizzaaa7394
      @sizzaaa7394 5 років тому

      confii

    • @teiatalks1879
      @teiatalks1879 5 років тому +6

      an On your point

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  5 років тому +4

      LaTeia Deiónn 🤣🤣🤣❤️

    • @Liz-ic6jb
      @Liz-ic6jb 5 років тому +1

      LaTeia 😁😁😁😁❤️

  • @LevenLyfe
    @LevenLyfe 5 років тому +26

    Thank you for this, I need to learn how to be feminine, my last two relationship broke down and both guys said, "you don't need me", "you can take care of yourself" "when are you going to let me be the man".

  • @ms.s8718
    @ms.s8718 5 років тому +11

    Y’all remember in Eat Pray Love when the spiritual dude told her to focus on smiling from within? Ima try it

  • @mauikaimalone
    @mauikaimalone 3 роки тому

    see I love your videos so much because you be calling me OUT!! you always tell me what I need to hear, never what I want to hear. I'm gonna take your advice on smiling 24/7 because I always used to just say I had permanent RBF and I'll never look happy, and I always complain about guys not approaching me. but you know what? I'm done making excuses!!!

  • @ninapineapple4034
    @ninapineapple4034 5 років тому +6

    Girl your body looks amazing omg!!

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  5 років тому

      Nina Pineapple - Thank you darling ❤️

  • @dekadensbbygirl4303
    @dekadensbbygirl4303 5 років тому +10

    YOUR SKIN IS UNREAL so beautiful

  • @HannahLussenden
    @HannahLussenden 5 років тому +17

    This is making me cry. I've been working towards some of these things. My boyfriend and I broke up recently and the biggest thing was I was too masculine and that caused soooo many problems. He would tell me to be femine but I didn't know how. So thank you xx

    • @hailleification
      @hailleification 5 років тому +11

      You should be yourself, strength isnt masculine its human. Some men dont know how to work with strong women, only direct them. They feel entitled to it so its better u lost him

  • @tayatoussaint
    @tayatoussaint 5 років тому +11

    Keep telling me how to become a better person I love it😍❤️

  • @1journal2catstea39
    @1journal2catstea39 5 років тому +20

    Hi 🙂 I love your videos. (In no way is this message meant to sound contradictory to what you teach in the video. I started telling about me and got carried away.) I quit dating because it isn't for me. About the no cell phone on a date thing I was told I am weird because I don't check my phone. It makes things awkward. I lack in feminine energy. I am at my best being a janitor in a production facility (factory) wearing my steel toe work boots and safety glasses. No one bothers me and I get to clean. It is the only time I really feel appreciated and satisfied with life. The rest of the time I am just weird. I live with my two cats. I love to journal and at the moment read fantasy novels. Men want a woman who has Netflix and a fave show and is on the phone and I guess doesn't read and write for fun. I try to be feminine. I like being a janitor. And I am unwilling to change for another person. I would rather be alone and independent. Thank you for reading this. 😄

    • @akilahshae1178
      @akilahshae1178 5 років тому +3

      All that matters is you are happy!

    • @sabsays4091
      @sabsays4091 5 років тому +1

      Tbh, I get it. You’re not alone.
      Ideally I would love to live the rest of my life single, because I love my own presence and only care about companionship from a man and not a true relationship.
      I just like looking into these videos because I find that I am treated better by the men who choose to be around me, and I’m just better received by other people.

  • @Dniepropetrowsk
    @Dniepropetrowsk 5 років тому +18

    Hey Breeny, I really really appreciate your work! Could you, please, make a video about male friends? XO

  • @mariannimoh9514
    @mariannimoh9514 5 років тому +29

    I just love her. If I was a lesbian and if she was a lesbian, I would marry her. LOL. what a Barbie doll😍😍

    • @relaxwithme__
      @relaxwithme__ 5 років тому +3

      For real. She's such a baddie.

    • @joannefaith1243
      @joannefaith1243 5 років тому +8

      What a odd thing to say lol smh, could of just say, you admire her etc why bring lesbianism into it 😩🙄

    • @mariannimoh9514
      @mariannimoh9514 5 років тому +23

      Jillian Buntin because I’m unique and I like to exercise my first amendment rights.

    • @akiraelai8053
      @akiraelai8053 4 роки тому

      Marian Nimoh Amen sisterrr !!

  • @zuzanna4380
    @zuzanna4380 4 роки тому

    ThANK YOU!! First of all thank you for another great video, second of all, thank you for not mentioning the looks. This is so important for me, because a lot of times I just don't feel like wearing things generally considered as "feminine". I don't like ruffles and sparkles, I don't even put make up really and I felt like this is the reason I struggle to be "feminine enough", but you just showed me that feminine/masculine energy has nothing to do with how you dress. Love you for that top quality content, keep it up!

  • @onedirection1201
    @onedirection1201 5 років тому +8

    You starting a podcast would be SMASHING

  • @asiamnow6832
    @asiamnow6832 5 років тому +22

    Damn I really needed to watch this video ....plz make more of these Feminine videos 😘

    • @vliciouss
      @vliciouss 5 років тому +2

      Yes ! Like a series on the topic.

    • @asiamnow6832
      @asiamnow6832 4 роки тому +1

      Femininity & Finance Will definitely check out your videos 😊

  • @Tamiyaki_
    @Tamiyaki_ 5 років тому +18

    Always love your advice love !❤️ Could you do a video on how to have more masculine energy as a woman? That‘s something I struggle more with e.g. if I want to get a message really across and want to be taking seriously.

  • @melodyindigoestell7920
    @melodyindigoestell7920 5 років тому +35

    Being "present" was a good tip to me

  • @muralmica
    @muralmica 5 років тому +2

    It’s crazy how on time you are with these videos 🧐 always the perfect topic. HOW lol

  • @mmaeyen
    @mmaeyen 5 років тому +9

    You explained feminine energy so well. I used to struggle with the idea and did everything possible not to give off a feminine vibe, even though I loved dresses and high heels. But I've learned that there's nothing wrong with being a feminine woman especially if I want to attract a masculine man, and being feminine is not about my outward appearance.
    I am still working on being present, getting out of my head and making eye contact. At first I worried that saying thank you and smiling (rather than being proud of my RBF) would not feel genuine, but I faked it until I made it. Now I'm a natural. My thank yous are heartfelt and audible, I smile to myself like I have a hidden joke and have more experiences of men greeting me and holding the door for me. Like you said, it feels so good to ask for and be given help.

  • @jovonnecameron
    @jovonnecameron 5 років тому +1

    This was such a good video with awesome tips. Femininity is something we should talk about more often. I’m going to find a way to integrate all these tips at least once this week. I’m grateful for you girl! 💗

  • @viaggeira
    @viaggeira 5 років тому +9

    Thank you babe for posting this
    I love your femenity your vibe and everything for you
    I am committed to practice more my
    1.Presence
    2.connect more with my heart 😌❤ and receive

  • @arturk2402
    @arturk2402 4 роки тому

    wow being present and be able to receive all good things that comes is both simple and difficult

  • @themainethingsinlife
    @themainethingsinlife 5 років тому

    Needed this. I have a big ego and find it hard to open up to men in my life but I’m going to work on this in my relationships

  • @tsway8503
    @tsway8503 5 років тому

    Thanks so much this video is so needed, i deffo would say I'm an alpha female but listening to you literally made me view things a whole lot different! 👏🏾

  • @minastamenkovic162
    @minastamenkovic162 5 років тому +9

    «Attractiveness is all energy.» This is so true,often in my life I wondered why the hell did I attract some guys when there were girls who were more fit than I was,and then I realised it wasn't my body,it was my energy. Plus,I always were into martial art sports mostly bc I wanted to protect myself and not depend on guys.Now I realise the pressure I used to put on myself and decided I'll just let myself be liberated and adopt the more feminine part of me.Women don't have to do everything alone,we're a team not adversaries.That's when I realised asking for help is a completely normal and sometimes necessary thing for the balance of energies in relationships. Thank you for being a smart beauty,love your channel,love your perspective on life and energy.You're such an inspiration,thank you and love you 💜

  • @awa7246
    @awa7246 5 років тому +10

    you're like the big sister i never had

  • @simsim876
    @simsim876 3 роки тому +2

    You are a breathe of fresh air. Gifted with your wisdom :) Xx

  • @natalia.a020
    @natalia.a020 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this video, I'll make an effort because I think these are very valuable tips! Also you're gorgeous

  • @anmola1936
    @anmola1936 5 років тому +3

    hey xx just wanted to say I loveeee your videos as a teen girl developing into a woman. I just wanted to ask how a girl who perhaps is more in line with her feminine side can channel her masculine energy to be more productive x thank you!

  • @trearjnprangley4032
    @trearjnprangley4032 5 років тому +8

    A boss.. queen, your content makes the most sense to me thanks gal

  • @LeahCheréMason
    @LeahCheréMason 4 роки тому

    I'm late to watching this video. I literally only got #4 down, I can say "thank-you" (with slight smile) till the cows come home! However, I don't like asking for help, just had a guy the other day ask me to help with my over night bag and I said "Nah, I'm good!", bahahahaha Also, the whole get out of your head and into your heart bit.... I don't do that one at all! I prefer to keep it private and give off the "tough, I don't need no man" persona. LOL. And I wonder why guys don't approach me. Phew, I got some work to do to get back in touch with my feminine side!! Thanks Breeny!

  • @mervesayn2014
    @mervesayn2014 4 роки тому +2

    I am watching this whenever I forgot to manage my balance(m/f), you are just amazing!

  • @singerg02
    @singerg02 5 років тому +29

    My issue with these definitions of "masculine" and "feminine" is that it feels like we're putting people in these little boxes that don't exist. Wonder Woman is not a masculine character. She is fierce and powerful and a fighter in her *own* right, not because she's copying a "man's energy". Single fathers are not "feminine" because they take care of their kids. They are loving and protective in their *own* right, not because they are copying a "woman's energy". People are more nuanced than this. Just my 2 cents. Love you, Breeny! ❤

    • @butterflymage5623
      @butterflymage5623 5 років тому +12

      AllieCat then you misunderstand what feminine and masculine energy is.

    • @singerg02
      @singerg02 5 років тому +7

      @@butterflymage5623 No, I don't. The problem is society has this delusion that a specific set of traits belong to a specific gender and that's not true. Strength isn't masculine and compassion isn't feminine. They are *human* traits. And we humans are far too complex to be stuffed into these tiny little boxes based on a label. I mean, you can try but, I can promise you that in the end, you'll fail.

    • @butterflymage5623
      @butterflymage5623 5 років тому +5

      AllieCat nah not really. Society ya generalizations. Like men are naturally physically stronger. Which is why sports are separated. This is a truth.
      Just like it’s a generalization that women like working with people more because they are generally more empathetic and men like to work with stuff.
      Now if you don’t fit into how humans have evolved then you don’t.
      Doesn’t make the generalizations not true just because their are always exceptions to rules. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @butterflymage5623
      @butterflymage5623 5 років тому +2

      AllieCat you can fight it all you want but in the end...

    • @butterflymage5623
      @butterflymage5623 5 років тому +2

      AllieCat also you helped proved my point because wonder women herself maintained her feminine energy even when beating the shit out of people. I would advice sitting down and taking the time to really think what masculine and feminine energy actually is outside of the standard talking points against the idea that they exist that people parrot despite evidence to the contrary.

  • @tinaanindo10
    @tinaanindo10 5 років тому +31

    This message seems to be rooted in weak soil to me. The world likes to tell us "you can change what you attract with your energy (feminine/masculine or positve/negative ) alone”. People accept it becasue it is pleasing to think you can do anything you want and still get everything you want. But everything is not good. Yes we can do all things but through Christ.❤️

  • @seabea31
    @seabea31 5 років тому +10

    I will work on smiling 😆 thanks Bree for sharing!

  • @lisacarey856
    @lisacarey856 5 років тому +4

    GREAT VIDEO.... sometimes as women we are such doers we forget to take a step back check our femininity and hey I am big on the thank you and the Gratitude it does go such a long way you are beautiful I love your tips and your videos have a blessed day🌴😘💕

  • @SageLotusTarot888-TEA-V
    @SageLotusTarot888-TEA-V 4 роки тому +3

    You always look absolutely flawless!! Lord knows I needed to hear this though. I love you!!!

  • @ImgratefulforJesus1
    @ImgratefulforJesus1 5 років тому +11

    Hello beautiful powerful Queen's I love your inspirational speech 🤝🏿🙏🏿

  • @BonBonHassan
    @BonBonHassan 5 років тому +9

    Wow I was feeling in my spirit to come watch one of your videos and this popped up 😭❤️🙌🏾

  • @AnjolaoluwaAwe
    @AnjolaoluwaAwe 5 років тому +14

    Love your hair- I really needed this video 🙏🏿

  • @MostOfMiree
    @MostOfMiree 5 років тому +1

    ^.^ I’m learning so much. Thank you so much

  • @YourGirlSudanny
    @YourGirlSudanny 5 років тому +5

    First of all, you looked stunning in those swimsuits!!! Also, great tips!! x

  • @lynell3566
    @lynell3566 5 років тому +30

    Hello again from America.
    Good video with useful practical points. I agree with the middle ground must be sought between overly masculinity & feminism. The 5 points you hit on are at the same time not too much for a woman to implement into her daily life and are a good foundation to begin with. As a BM I believe I can speak for most BM when I say yes, we LOVE femininity. Do not encroach on our "Man Territory". We are men and certain roles and responsibilities constitute the definition of being a Man and when a woman trespass on that it is an extreme turnoff. It's equal to a man doing the exact same thing to "Woman Territory". You'll look at that man in a totally different, unattractive light.
    I gotta stop writing long responses...but good video and points.

  • @nuriays7492
    @nuriays7492 4 роки тому

    I am doing all of this ... now I now why people always tell me I am so feminine. Can you do a video about being more masculine??? I love your videos!!!!

  • @theactualtia2696
    @theactualtia2696 5 років тому +7

    This week I am going to smile. I am going to work on being softer and more open. I’ve been going through so many hard times lately and I’m making it worse by shutting people, help, and kindness from others out. It’s time for a change ❤️

  • @gondofrancia7461
    @gondofrancia7461 5 років тому +9

    If u like Breeny video pls put your🖒🖒🖒😚😚😚

  • @danieladeleon8023
    @danieladeleon8023 4 роки тому

    I love this! Thank you, I really needed this video 🙌🏼

  • @Danielathebrand
    @Danielathebrand 5 років тому +5

    CHECK YOUR ENERGY BABE! Love this!

  • @Amuzki
    @Amuzki 5 років тому

    I will smile more this week and be grateful for loads of stuff🥰

  • @Ryan-xo9tf
    @Ryan-xo9tf 5 років тому +3

    “The problem lies in the fact that there is no balance.” YES. Your vids are great! :)

  • @danaehamilton5974
    @danaehamilton5974 5 років тому +6

    Love love love this, I was literally speaking to my bro about this, our need to be in control n I was sharing how I'm learning to let things go, it's amazing 🙆🙆😉😊

  • @buddhavibes24
    @buddhavibes24 5 років тому +5

    You look so good , drop a makeup routine sis your skins glowing x

  • @KateCameron1
    @KateCameron1 5 років тому +1

    More black women need to speak on femininity 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @greekysimi
    @greekysimi 4 роки тому

    This is the best feminine videos I’ve seen!

  • @ImgratefulforJesus1
    @ImgratefulforJesus1 5 років тому +19

    You look like Lepeta Nyong'o amazing I see up there don't let nobody or nothing stop you I have no doubt you will get there🤝🏿👍🏿🙏🏿

  • @Mscocoapuffz
    @Mscocoapuffz 5 років тому +4

    Thank you for the tips! I am horrible at taking compliments from most ppl (even my boyfriend 😫) but knowing that other people go through the same problem helps me relax. It is better to be grateful than to seem rude turning away a compliment.

  • @danaehamilton5974
    @danaehamilton5974 5 років тому +9

    I had to save this to reference back to 👍👌

  • @ABLW013
    @ABLW013 Рік тому

    I feel like I dress too masculine and feel emotionally too feminine. Hmm, Im going to try bringing out my smile and lovely energy today

  • @tt21292
    @tt21292 5 років тому +2

    I notice that I do that! I was walking one day and I was like omg I am giving off such masculine energy I can tell because men won’t treat me like a woman they will treat me like I’m another man and be aggressive with me

  • @ki.nichelle
    @ki.nichelle 5 років тому +6

    Girl I love this series!! I am going to smile more and be more open to receive!! Because I deserve it!

  • @joifulnoyze
    @joifulnoyze 5 років тому +3

    How do you express your feelings without coming across as needy (like in your example of him not calling for your usual one hour convo or something like that)?

  • @TheCupcakesworld
    @TheCupcakesworld 5 років тому +7

    This came at the right time Thankyou 🥰

  • @journeymariereacts
    @journeymariereacts 5 років тому +7

    For anyone that sees this, God bless you 🙏🏼
    btw I’m a small youtuber and would appreciate any support 💙✨