Mum Steals Spotlight And Tries On Wedding Dress Too! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Опубліковано 22 бер 2021
- This bride wants to find her perfect dress in a day where the spotlight is on her but with her mum getting engaged too it seems the bride’s mother is more interested in stealing the spotlight and finding herself a wedding dress than supporting her daughter.
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Just from how the daughter talks, you can tell she has been a victim of narcissistic abuse. “The least I can do for my mom is try it on” “I don’t like the embellishment, but I know my mom would love it. I can compromise”. She doesn’t feel like she can have her own moment. She has to share it with her mother because she knows how much her mother hates not having something be about her.
As a victim of a narassistic mother, I definitely relate...
@@axelblaze6950 same :/
@@cotton7507 it's a struggle aha
@@axelblaze6950 it rlly is ;/
I bet she's overjoyed that she'll be moving oversees, away from her mom. I hope she finds happiness.
The mom knew what she was doing when she put that dress on. She’s a horrible mother/person. Period.
Yeah for sure
Yeen lyin bruh❤
When you say period and im on my period lol
Alot of mother's treat their daughters like crap but idolize their sons.
@Nurah Sayed hah what day are you on im on day 4
There needs to be a store rule. Only ONE person in the appointment is able to try on dresses. If someone else in the appointment wants to try one on, she’ll have to make her own appointment for try-ons.
Yup don't even let it go there. If it's 2 brides, then fine, they can tell them that. One bride? Only one trying dresses on.
Exactly. Like they shouldn't have let this happen. But hey, it's tv.
It's all scripted
I agree. but then they would have less crazy material for episodes lol
@@vineeshavikram6827 those tears weren't fake.
"I felt like a villain" congratulations, the internet collectively agrees that you certainly were
Already saw red flags when the mom invited HER OWN FRIENDS to her daughters dress consultation. Seems like she was planning this from the beginning 😒
It could of been the moms freinds are close and love the bride and the bride could have wanted them there
Absolutely ...
@@user-xe1nr6er5q yeah but with the given info you can guess that’s not the case … her mom is pathetic
I would not want my parents’ friends there, just feels extra uncomfortable where they are close like aunts or uncles but way off because they are my parents’ friends and not mine
@@XenaAndKin if you grew up with your parents friends as your own with there kids too you wouldn't understand.
Mom: "I don't really know what my daughter wants..."
Me: You don't care what your daughter wants.
Fr
Yea
Yeah ...
AGREED
Oop-
The fact the mom had the AUDACITY to say that she didn't think her daughter would be upset is just so narcissistic
Correction “didn’t think you’d be that upset” so she was fine w her being upset just not as upset as she got. Which is worse omg how awful can you be you can go back on another day. This mum has been doing crap like this ALL her life
The friend rolling her eyes is such a mood 😂
She's the type of mom to tell her daughter that the dress doesn't look good, then go behind her back and buy that exact same dress for her own wedding.
”Cause it looks good on her due to having better shapes’
RIGHT
I thought that what she would do on first dress
Spot on lmao
I think she's jealous of her own daughter
You can tell the mother has been pulling shit like this all of her daughter’s life!
I WANTED TO CRACK THE SMILE OFF OF HER MOM'S FACE! HOW DARE SHE HURT HER BABY GIRL LIKE THAT🤦🏾
Yesh she's fake asf
It amazes me that women like her mom can actually find someone to marry them. SMDH
that must be sooooo suffocating 😟
ALLLLLLLLLL her life...🥴🥴🥴
6:12 “Does anybody like this on me?” Please no your ruining the moment stop 😭
No, you look like a narcissistic evil Disney villain.
Chassidy is so gorgeous. Everything looks perfect on her. I hope she is living a very happy life.
the mom was smiling and everything like she expected the whole room to clap for her.
I was thinking that she wanted to start drama or something lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Someone should have told her the dress looks better on her daughter.
Nobody wants to clap for a clown 🙄
I never thought a mom could be so cruel to her daughter. For her to come out smiling and expecting feedback from everyone then she’s definitely the villen
Mom- “I felt like a villain...!”
Everyone watching- “Um, maybe bc you are?!”
Even evil people have standars
@@sukano1600 indeed they do
Wow nice comment you comment so good tell me where are you from?
I’d probably feel like a villain too if my narcissistic behavior was recorded on camera for the whole world to see and criticize me about.
Not even
When Lori said "i wonder what she wanted her to look like" after the mom said she looks like a virgin in that dress is exactly what i was thinking...like who tf says that to anyone let alone your daughter....
Exactly my point! That woman knew her daughter looked good in that dress and wanted to say something that would make her feel bad. She just wanted to spite her😭
When her Mom walked out and said, “Hi, Chas!” was so creepy! She knew exactly what she was doing!
Bride: “I want my mom’s approval”
I bet she’s been trying get that all her life!
It amazes me that pretty much all of them say that. The mom seems like an awful person, and they're still looking for the approval! I never understand compromised on this show, you don't have to compromise with your mom, the day is about YOU. Im glad this bride got the dress she wanted
@@bleechrcreechrr it's difficult when you live in this type of abuse... i grew up in pretty much similar shit family my whole life and i must tell you, im pretty fucked up and i know it, but still my brain seeks my mother's approvel, which will never come and i know it and still i cant stop seeking for it....
@@attyart4785 I'm sorry I hope you are able to break the cycle. My mom was verbally and emotionally abusive, but it had the complete opposite effect on me. I didn't care what she wanted, didn't even care to talk to her. Now I feel guilty about that because she's passed, but it is what it is
@@bleechrcreechrr sorry to hear that... but at least you didn't stuck in the circle you know... you were able to hold on to you life... it's sad when people have children and don't take care of them properly or streight abuse them....
Also the circle of seeking the approval is mostly caused when the parent acts sometimes good and sometimes bad... like when you have a bad day, they are gonna get you even deeper by harsh words, then next day they ask you how the problem is getting solved. And when you are able to work it out, it's ok and you feel for a while they care, until next time when you get too happy or problems again and they get into their psychological war with you again.... it's like constantly trying to prove them wrong and hoping they will finally stop with guilttriping you and finally start praising you for once.... some fucked up stockholm syndrom
Poor Chastity.. I hope her time away from her mother, in another country, gives her the space to see her mother’s behaviour is competitive and toxic.
if you ever wondered what a narcissist looks like... this mother is it.
Helloo
How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe
I was just going to comment this but I’ll just thumb up yours 😄 👍🏽 my mother is the same exact way 😖
@@roxiewatters1161 im so sorry for you
As for someone with a narcissistic personality disorder, this hurts.
@@lizzygreene5023 If you have narcissistic personality disorder you are constantly making it about yourself anyways so why should I care
The most insincere apology I have ever heard from a mother. She knew exactly why her daughter was crying and she knew exactly what she was doing. Personally if it were me I wouldn’t invite her to the wedding.
I just love how the friend was supportive and calming her when she was crying about her mom wearing a dress. That friend is was so nice to her.
She didn’t even apologize. “I didn’t think it would bother you that much,” and, “I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings,” aren’t apologies. She’s putting all of the blame on Chassidy for reacting and being upset, and only straightened out when people made her feel like the villain.
@Twicexxiii It wasn’t an apology. Her, “Sorry,” was laced with phrases like, “I didn’t think it would bother you so much,” and, “I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings,” which actively works against any apology she would’ve given. It places the blame on the person who was hurt over the person who caused the pain, and, honestly, I don’t think her mom believes she did anything wrong.
An apology is meaningless when you follow it up with, “I didn’t think it would bother you so much.”
Typical narcissistic behaviour all round
She said “I’m sorry I did that”
@Twicexxiii the mom was gaslighting her
I think that they definitely can be used in an apology. In my opinion the main issue with her apology wasn’t what she said, but how she said it. It just came off as quite insincere and not genuine.
I think I appreciate how quiet they all remained when her mum walked out in that dress. They weren't going to give her a single word of their attention. Perfect response to such awful behaviour.
Exactly. You ignore narcs. Their only food in life is attention and approval. Actually very weak.
Does anyone like this on me??? I would have said something but most of it would have beeped out. Nope ugly will always look ugly no matter what dress you have on
@@melrobertson2743 geez ugly isn't just outside, it's words too and saying mean things although you think they deserve it isn't pretty either... just ignore them. They handled it the best way by ignoring her, not being uneducated and cussing her out 😒🙄
@@ericag5346 how does cussing someone out make you look uneducated?
@@snesquiks I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you
0:20 bruh the mom’s face when she said IT WAS HER DAY definitely reflected what kind of person she is.
That bride looked AMAZING in the first dress. I'm so glad she chose it.
Her mother is a narcissist, she didn't feel no remorse, guilt or no nothing except seeing how disapproved her behavior was and then proceeds to act like she care.
The most unexcusable behavior I've ever seen in this show mother and fathers needs to know their place cuz it's not there wedding
idk who would engage someone like thst
unrelated but i love your pfp
I mean it’s just one dress. I’m sure the mother did so much for the daughter and one dress she puts on she can’t handle it?
@Adelita Verdonck I see you a lot going above and beyond defending her. You’re both wrong , goodbye
That first dress is insane on her. She looks SO beautiful. Don’t get me started on her toxic mum
I thought the exact same thing! I dont think I've ever seen a dress look so good on someone on this show!
Yesssss, I was stunned by it. Absolutely Gorgeous 🤗
Her mom is still 21 in her mind, disgusting really, trying to compete with her daughter.
I didn't like it. It was that tie in the front. Not my style, BUT take that off and she would rock that dress.
Oh and her mom would have walked out wearing a black eye if she tried that on me.
i agree, it was absolutely gorgeous and that vintage style she wanted
The dress she chose is literally so perfect for her I was hoping she picked it no matter what was going on. Gorgeous
the first dress was absolutely gorgeous.
Then asks her “WHATS THE MATTER?” Then wonder why their kids don’t contact them anymore
I lovr your profile pic
@@lianavillar3881 I've noticed it after reading your comment. Glade I did !
Absolutely !
“I feel like a villain” even at that point it’s still about HER feelings
I feel so bad for her bruh, she should never have to “compromise” for a wedding dress to make her mom happy. And then her momma trying one on her day??? What in the hell?
Lamo right
Ikr
@Sophie L seriously, I mean it’s one of the MOST IMPORTANT day of her life, not her mothers. If her mother wants her special day well, she can wait after her daughters day.
Aww! 🥺 My eyes watered when the bride started crying. The mother marred what should have been a beautiful appointment. Kudos to the staff for saving that appointment!
2:33The first dress couldn’t be more perfect ❤ 6:02God, her face here breaks my heart. She did a great job keeping her composure until her mother left the room.
You remember in the Movie Tangled where Mother Gothel and Rapunzel look in the Mirror and she said “You know what i see? I see a strong confident beautiful young lady...OH LOOK! You’re here too!”
yeah this is pretty much a similar relationship...
Yes!! Her mum was a narc too.
This is the most amazing comment! It’s really sad but it’s also a fact
yea like WHEN SHE TENTINLLY SAID LIKE oH i SeE a strong confident women oh and ur here too when the mother said nice things she ment it to herself
Yes i totally got Mother Gothel vibes from her im glad im not the only one who did
@@itsaperfectionist4158 ya
Chassidy's friend who consoled her and didn't smile and actually shot a few dirty looks at her mother is a real one
I would have given “mom” such a bollocking. I would probably have landed up in jail. It’s bad enough when so-called friends try and steal a bride’s spotlight but when their own mother does it 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
I thought the same thing. The friend didn’t egg her mother on at all. She was there for her friend, and only her friend.
@@smileymctrashbag
CYLI LOSPTI GIRLFRIEND
MELISSA OILER MOTHER-IN-LAW
Why is it always the mum
@@jacquimaclennan3254 bollocking ?
Her mom defines the word “disgusting.”
This must be the tip of the iceberg with her and her mom.
How many other days have been over shadowed by her mom’s selfish behavior.
I pray she had a beautiful wedding and a happy marriage
The mother seems like one of those people who announces they are pregnant or engaged at someone else’s wedding, or just wears white at someone’s wedding.
how about all three? She’d be the person who found a white dress and decides to announce that she’s pregnant and engaged.
Girl this sounds so true 💀 she seems like the type to make everything about her
Rachel from friends
@@swetharam905 who is?
@@nala7658 there's a tv show called 'FRIENDS' and there was a seen where one of the character(Rachel) found out that she is pregnant when her best friend's wedding was going on
“The mom needs to stop seeing her daughter as a mannequin and start seeing her as a bride” Preach girl👏🏻
Right
army
This is not the first time the mother has attempted to upstage her daughter and try to be coy about it. The mother doesn't see her daughter as a mannequin but as competition. I know that feeling first hand. Every opportunity the mother gets to hurt and humiliate her beautiful daughter she will. It gives her pleasure causing her loving daughter pain. IMHO
@@gmcfarland4341 the apology was not sincere. she has a body of grown woman but a persoanlity of a sick person. that doesnt love her own child. or doesnt have the capacity to love her own children
Yassss 🤗🥰
That mom makes me so mad, like, it’s your daughter, YOUR DAUGHTER. COME ON MAN-she looked beautiful
It was heartbreaking to see the pain the mom caused. I'm glad her daughter was happy in the end.
Ignoring the mother’s behaviour, can we talk about how STUNNING the bride is? She looked amazing, especially that first dress
I KNOWW 😭✨
Same here. Simple yet so classy 😍😍😍
She looked GORGEOUS in that dress she’s so stunning 😍😍
What has happened to generation Z
@@premiummemes7320 lol wdym
"She looks like a virgin" okay... WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH THAT??? Weddings are about love and commitment, it's not about sex appeal. If this dress makes her feel good then SHUT UP and LET HER BE HAPPY.
Are you agreeing with the mother?
@@notimportant2072 did you even read the comment
@@notimportant2072 No; sorry if I gave that impression. I'm saying that the mother was stepping out of line when she told her she "looked like a virgin" in a degrading manner. There isn't a problem with "looking like a virgin", and if the dress makes her feel good, she shouldn't be criticized for wearing it. Also, what is a virgin even supposed to look like? How would you be able to tell from an OUTFIT?
@Sara M, this mother is covertly trying to hurt her daughter and get attention for herself. This is not within the realm of normal mother behaviour. It is aberrant!
@@PrincessGold1 I don't think she's trying to hurt her or steal the attention. It's more like she only thinking about what she wants without realizing the consequences. She doesn't realize that her actions would hurt the bride because she's not seeing herself in a motherly position. She was inconsiderate and ignorant not a villain.
"I felt like a villian" u are indeed 😊
I was fuming, I was boiling over, how dare she do that to her daughter, she's a witch! It's like she got a knife and stuck it into her daughter's heart!
I hope she has a beautiful wedding day 🤗💗 💐
Who wants to bet as soon as she heard her daughter was engaged the mom went out and did everything possible to get engaged?
She could possibly even fake the engagement just to get the attention🥴
Oh goodness I said the same thing.. lol
I am betting
My husbands mom to a T. She was never married, and had just broken up with a borderline abusive man two days before we got engaged. When we announced our engagement she took us out to a movie to announce her own engagement to that same guy and they got married the next day. She even said in her own wedding she couldn't let her son be the first one down the aisle.
I thought it was fishy that the moms friends were there , even though it's not her day
“Want my mom’s approval”...”least I can do for my mom”...lemme just say, these are sayings that come from the psychological conditioning of an emotionally abusive mother.
its HER DAY SHES A GROWN ADULT she can choose what she wants
same my heart broke when I heard those
It makes me so sad when I hear almost all the brides on this show say that.
In her case, sure. But not every child who wants his parents' approval comes from an emotionally abusive fam.
@@Ananya-cl6wh Yes, that's true. But having abusive parents in one way or another is mostly the case nowadays
The mom wants it all about her, that's crazy. She knew it would hurt it....She looks stunning in #1.
Yo the bride looks so beautiful! And that first dress was STUNNING. I LOVE vintage/vintage wedding dresses so she’s got great taste! There’s nothing wrong with taking a step back in time to find inspiration for your wedding dress
I agree, it’s beautiful. I would love it with long sleeves, but that’s just me.
The mother's behavior was awful. The bride's friends who came to comfort her was so sweet and caring. We all need a friend like her
Where's her grandmother at ?? ( her mother's mother ) ??? she would have say something bad to her mom ( the daughter ) bc it's bout ur baby girl getting married NOT about you mother just because you're engage as well
I bet she is the kind of person that only got pregnant for attention
It’s like they expected the mother’s behavior
@@lifeofneacy3891 not everyones granny lives that long or maybe she isnt present there? who knows
I'm your 1k like
If the mom wanted to see how the dress looked on her, she could’ve just stayed in the dressing room... like why come out and RUIN your daughters appointment.
That evil lady didn't want to see!.... actually she wanted to show!
Because she’s a narcissist. The type that should never give birth.
I personally never get why american brides always want all the attention on them. But if thats what makes them happy then pop off!! And noone should take it away from them and hurt their feelings
If she wanted to try that very dress on, she should have booked her own appointment. Her 1 job was to sit there and smile when her beautiful daughter showed off the dresses.
@@elizabethg2062 exactly
The mother was Extremely Wrong in what she did to her daughter.
Mom is selfish, this is a moment to remember, have separate appointments.
How that daughter turned out to be such a kind soul, with a mother like that, is beyond me.
I think kids with mean/abusive/narcissistic parents know what its like to be treated that way and treat people the other way cause they know how horrible it is
@@Kyndall_Marie25 facts but some also pick up them ways you ever met someone horrible and then you meet there parents lol
@@prettyhandsomegang5227 this is so true my grandmother is like that sadly
Sometimes that happens.
The graphic said “Step Mother” so maybe she didn’t actually raise her
Actually never mind I misread it
Am I the only one who heard Mom say, "I didn't think it would bother you THIS MUCH".. wow
Right there is her admission that she knew it would bother her daughter. She just didn't know it would "bother her this much."
I know like if it hurt a little mom would be ok with that.
Nope, I heard her. The lies
If my mom did this to me she would've said "get a grip its not that deep stop crying." And I'd cry more because knowing her,she wouldn't care how upset id be. She would think I'm overreacting and it's not a big deal.
The mom was Totally Wrong!
She Was Jealous and Intentionally
Inflicted Emotional Pain on Her Daughter.
Mom Went Way To Far!!!
She Forever Left a Permanent Stain on
The Beautiful Brides, Emotional Memory Book.
I Am Sure That The Bride Will Be Very Happy
Living Away From Her Jealous, Controlling,
Intentionally Inflicting Emotional Pain,
Immature Mother..Smh
The daughter is absolutely beautiful. I hope she has a wonderful life.
thats a "love from a distance" type of momma
Her daughters friends GET it. They didn't react to the mom at all and seemed annoyed that she was even there. I'm sure they've heard it ALL about that woman, cause if she did THIS, she's been doing shit her whole life.
@Adelita Verdonck A loving mother would NEVER try on wedding dresses on her daughters fitting day UNLESS the daughter okay'd it whether she's also engaged or not. Dress shopping is supposed to be all about the BRIDE, it's a super special moment, finding THE dress. The mom was sneaky and made the DAUGHTERS day about HER which is incredibly inappropriate. She clearly was trying to upstage her daughter. The fact that everyone in the comments and the damn owner/employees understood how inappropriate this should tell you that you're missing something. The mom IS a villain, she's a narcissist, self-centered, and mean to do that to her own damn daughter.
@Adelita Verdonck bruh, her mother is narcisstic asf🤦🏻♀
@Adelita Verdonck If you do not get why this is inappropriate and sad...please do not have children. The mom has every opportunity after that day to make her own appt and try on dresses. You want the spotlight on you as a bride with your mom being supportive and lifting the weight of preparing for wedding off of your shoulders, not embarrassing you and making it all about her. She is self-absorb and you can see it in the daughters eyes
@Adelita Verdonck on which era did you exist before this one?
@Adelita Verdonck di
The mother is hateful, selfish, egotistical, and vain. Frankly if that were my mother acting that way, she'd have lost her chance to be at the wedding. No excuse for it.
I don't think she is? She came off more as an ignorant mother to me. I think the dress trying was staged(the timing was too perfect). And the rest was selfish, I agree but it was selfish in a way where she was thinking of herself as a friend(a bad one) rather than a mother. She made self-centered and uncalled for comments but it wasn't meant to hurt anyone and once she realized her mistake she corrected her behavior. She was being terrible but she isn't as bad as you put her out to be.
It’s all scripted.
You wanted to say Narcissist? Because yes
Same bro. OUT I SAY, OUT
@@nutellacelery8830 agreed. i also feel like considering it's tv, none of us actually know her or how she is most of the time. i feel like people like to make statements describing how someone on tv is as a whole based on one portrayal of them. a lot of the times it just feels kinda exaggerated or kinda shallow because it's as if you actually know that person, ya know? i'm also not sure how many people would completely ban their mothers from coming to their wedding because of something like this, i guess it would depend on the relationship
The daughter looks good in literally anything ! Beautiful personality and appearance!
She looks so stunning in her dress!! I hope her wedding was wonderful !!
her mother seems like the type of mother who has been manipulating and gaslighting her daughter out of jealousy her entire life
I know that feeling. It's very upsetting and eats away at any confidence you might have. My mom is extremely manipulative, usually with an ulterior motive.
Agreed
@@sarahalbers5555 just how she was talking about herself the entire time was so tone dead
I know the feeling quite well.
PERIOD
The sad thing is that the mother doesn't understand why it was bad. She just adjusted her behavior after seen everybodys disapproval and seen she was playing the "villian". No remorse, no shame, no guilt at all. She didn't regret hurt her daughters feelings but having a bad image on tv.
Narcissists don't..if you tell them there are other people on this planet and that they have feelings too, they stare at you like you're joking
@@shrgh1876 - Exactly! This mother is definitely narcissistic.
Of course she does! The Mother knows and DOESN’T CARE!
@@shrgh1876 You are right on this mother!
The mom is the definition of an entitled narcissist. like hi hello, mother, I'm the one getting married, let's make today about me. your engaged too, but we're here for me. sit yo ass down.
With that third dress I was like “nah” UNTIL I saw her walk out. Chassidy really does makes everything look amazing on her!
i love how they always stand up for the bride
“I felt like a villain” LADY YOU ARE A VILLAIN
Good! Someone said it
You are much kinder with your wording then i would be
Notice how it's "I felt like a villain" and not "I felt ashamed I hurt my daughter." She only cares how she's percieved.
That part!! Her mother could have made a separate appointment so that she could have her moment and let her daughter enjoy her moment trying on dresses and sharing that with her.
I am so glad she ended up with the first one, because the moment she put it on, I was like, "GET. THAT. ONE." it's like it was made for her. Stunning.
100% first dress. So beautiful
That dress literally took my breath away shes STUNNING in it
So rare for that to happen, but holy shit it was made for her.
It was perfect 🥰
I liked #3 to be honest. But there's too much drama attached to it now.
The first dress the bride put on was so gorgeous!
Sadly, I know what the pain of feeling betrayed by your mom’s words feels like. It had nothing to do with a wedding dress but the punch in the gut felt the same. Mom’s be gone for almost 17 years but I felt the same pain watching this as that day 29 years ago.😢
Mom "I didn't mean to hurt you"
Yes. Yes you did. You knew exactly what you were doing. The level of entitlement and audacity from that mother is staggering.
Exactly, couldn't have sed it better myself.
Idk, she might not be aware enough to realize it. If she’s a narcissist, she really might be only capable of seeing things from her perspective.
@@lisahannah3175 i agree. I honestly dont think she meant to hurt her daughtor, shes just wildly oblivious and narcissistic. If shes willing to make up for her mistake, which she did, i definetly think she meant her apology
@@sadiaaa1373 sorry but i have to disagree she knew what she was doing she was literally saw the way everyone was acting and rolling their eyes and even the dress seller rolled her eyes and told to "lets just focus on the bride" and no more then 10 minutes later the mom is putting on the dress .
@@lisahannah3175That’s sounds like a bad thing learn how to see things in other people’s perspective because what she did was…. 😕
The friend going quiet and then holding chasity telling her it’s okay is such a real one
bro you could see the RAGE in her eyes but she kept her cool for her girl ❤️
@@erikahunter652 yesss exactly
Cause those were her moms friends .
@@Jadoreeee no? It was her friends and her mums
Ikr right. And ayyy I’m the 3 thousandth like
SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL
Idk how the mom isnt even embarrassed or sorry or knows why her daughter is sad, it's so obvious. Actually the mom does know what she's doing.
Yikes, she's a certified narcissist. Can't even give the day to her child.
Χδ she reminds me mine mothers 😂
I cant imagine when she gave birth to her daughter. Imagine her stealing the attention back then when the attention is supposed to be on the baby and welcoming the baby to the world.
Sad that she could do that. It can't be taken back.
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Wow my mom and I went shopping alone for my wedding dress. What a mom that lady is. Its her daughter's day.very rude 😒 😑 😤 🙄
I love how she named her daughter Chastity and then virgin-shamed her
her name is Chassidy but i get your point
She is already married, so not that big of a deal
What does it mean that she named her Chastity ? I don't understand
@@amirabelhafsi4712chastity is when you abstain from sex
@@meganswistak1144 oh
Good to see the daughter is so sensible and sees right through her mother. Probably used to mommy coming first all her life.
Make your own appointment MOM! My god, what a narcissist. Chas was thinking of both herself and her mom and mom was only thinking of herself! What a selfish woman! She should have never been invited!
The daughter is so nice & thoughtful. She doesn’t deserve such a selfish & unsupportive mother.
I agree
Hearing her say she would “compromise” on the third dress made my blood boil, you do NOT compromise on your own wedding dress.
i literally said the exact same thing- this day is about YOU, who cares if you’re mom doesnt like it
exactly!!!
You know what’s worse she wanted to compromise but the mom was not there and she tried to please her mom yet the mom f**ked big time wanting to try on the dress knowing that the all her daughter wanted was mom to be a mom and enjoy the special moment with her.
My mother tried to get me to compromise on the color of my dress. I want a black dress, she is like "How about blue or red?" I told her off, not her day it's mine. If my SO and I wanna have our goth wedding, we will have it. She ain't paying for it so she gets no say. If she pulled the crap that some of the mothers on this show do she can leave and not come to anything, refuse to put up with it like these poor girls do.
The first dress is so gorgeous on her!
Unfortunately I know how she feels... My mother is my bestfriend but I have yet to have that moment where she is my best friend AND my mom.
This mother's emotional immaturity is absolutely stunning.
THIS 👏😭
I DIdNT ThInk It WOulD BothER yOu ThaT mUCh
The mom's a complete clown. I bet she's engaged to a 20 something year old.
@@ZeeBug15 she really said THAT much so she already knew it was gonna both her smh 🤦♀️
Aaht!!!! 😂😂😂🤣
I love how mom acts like she didn't know she was hurting her daughter, then to lie to the camera and say she was remorseful when she clearly wasn't is so gross.
I know😭
That was down right LOW and MOM KNEW THAT! It’s your DAUGHTER’s Appointment! If I were the daughter I’d tell her “You broke my trust, get out of my dressing room and out of my appointment! Now!”
Narc
That's my mom in a nutshell
@@Cheddar_Shred
Damn. I'm sorry man. Im only 11 and parents sure can be that way. :(
This mother is outrageous...
I cried the first dress is gorgeous
God why is no one talking about the bride.. I mean i get it the mum's awful BUT have u seen the bride? Her face, her smile, her figure? She's so beautiful! She'd honestly look amazing in anything
Agreed
She is also such a nice person and someone I would want to be friends with
My first thought was immediately "woah shes gorgeous" 😭❤️😍
I agree. She also is very intelligent, both brainwise and emotionally. She sort of radiated and glowed. A real beautiful bride!! That mom should be proud...like you raised a winner. Why not let her shine? I think it's even more upsetting because of how kind and forgiving the daughter is. I think I was rather flabbergasted by the mom continuing to talk about herself. A lot of moms that act ridiculous sort of snap out of it but I felt her attitude was VERY phony and fake and superficial even after. She didn't even have the grace to get emotional or look genuinely happy. A forced plastic smile and very blase and basic niceties. She didn't fawn over her. The daughter clearly craved a mom not a friend. She even said she just wanted a MOM and her mom to act like a mom for one day...not a friend. But the woman who birthed and raised her. Just makes me mad. Any parent would be lucky to have such a daughter!
And the daughter? Gorgeous. She and her friends also handled the mother's BS perfectly by not reacting at all!!! No attention. Any attention to a self absorbed idiot is good for them. They gave her nothing and she awkwardly left.
To the daughter...you are stunning and we are all impressed by your poise and self worth/maturity. Your dress looked beautiful. God bless you!!!
what I thought too right away! STUNNING
i cannot believe there’s MOTHERS who are jealous of their daughters it’s so weird and scary. and disturbing.
You're telling me. My mom made a comment to me when I was around 13-14 that my chest was bigger than hers while slightly glaring at me. While she was competing in a bowling tournament 🤷♀️
Then a few months back she made a comment to the guy she's seeing, in front of me, how EVERYTHING is smaller on me now since my weight loss (and her eyes wandered to my chest)
@@callanightshade8079 girl you definitely got a jealous mother. I can you tell this from experience because i have a mother like that too and I think it best we leave these type of women Alone because their miserable and unhappy with themselves. I feel sorry for you😔
I’m not surprised…sadly 😞 My mom definitely didn’t come with me when I went wedding dress shopping though. You have to protect yourself. At least if you can afford your own dress.
@@callanightshade8079I feel you girl. When I hit puberty my chest started growing as well. Although my mom wouldn't comment anything, she never bought me new bras for my size. I had to wear those tight suffocating bras till I finished school.
Such a good thing she lives in Japan, far away from this woman's hurtful behaviour.
Mother aside, that first dress was like it was made for her! She personifies the sweet, gentle beauty of the dress so well! I’m so glad she found the right one so quickly! I hope shes doing well, she seems like such a beautiful soul ❤
I watch some of the parents on these shows and I’m glad I have the parents I have.
I don’t understand why people have kids just to treat them like this. Poor girl
Ugh ikr
What a comment! Did you think mothers and daughters don't have momentary, small disagreements??
@@dianebalch5369 she STOLE her day, the day was about the daughter finding her dress not her mum
@@dianebalch5369 This is not a small disagreement though-- this is a mother whom clearly is the child in the mother-daughter relationship taking over an appointment that clearly meant a lot to the bride, and not only that, but rather than using constructive criticism or explaining her dislike of the initial dress the bride chose for herself, tearing her self-esteem down, and this behavior has likely gone on for years.
If the mother wanted an appointment, she could have made her own following her daughter's or at a different time. She's so entitled and self-absorbed she didn't even have remorse for her choice to steal the dress and the appointment until she realized by everyone's disapproval how her image looked. The daughter should stand up and kick her out of the wedding, in my opinion at least.
@@dianebalch5369 everyone has small arguments...this is the mother crossing the line and not thinking about her daughter!!
Omg, the huge diamond on her engagement ring…..so gorgeous.
I cant comprehend why this mother would do such a terrible, heartless act to her daughter on her special dress shopping day.
I was heartbroken when she started crying,,,,wished I had been there to give her a big hug, was so happy when she chose dress #1 Chassidy you looked stunning, glowing, a beautiful bride.
Many years of happiness, filled with Blessings on this journey of marriage.
Be Blessed❤
When she walked in an said "hi Chass" that was very sadistic
it reminded me of a horror movie, just how she said it
@@villalbapatinomariamilagro7351 ikr...cringe
reminded me of a tik tok sound 😭🤚 “Hi chass...”
How was that sadistic?
@@dancingfirefly7761 maybe you should consult your dictionary.
The way she walked in the room in that dress like she really expected rounds of applause cheers gasps and compliments like that’s a legit narcissist
Yup
Then has the nerve to ask if anyone likes it when she's met with crickets
@@puck6080 honestly it’s embarrassing
FACTS!
The mom is a jealous narcissist for sure .😟
Bride looks fabulous in all 3 dresses.
Aww little queen got it in the end! Rah rah rah
She was “sorry” ONLY after breaking her spirit… typical emotionally abusive mom
Exactly right
My mom is so toxic. She don't even express that she is sorry then. She still make it about her, and act like I'm the one that is wrong. Because I became agitated.
“I didn’t think it would bother you that much”, so you knew what you were doing was wrong. Total emotional abuse
Exactly.
my mom doesnt even say sorry, she goes sarcastically "I'm ALWAYS the villain, you will look back at this when I'm dead and regret it"
“The dress makes you look like a virgin” girl, the purpose of a white wedding dress is to symbolize purity
its to symbolise wealth
@SarahdayZ totally agree with you ❤️
@@buttonmarie7808 the one that symbolizes wealth is gold, purity is for white
@@buttonmarie7808 No...just no.
Originally it was actually a symbol of wealth. Queen Victoria wore white on her wedding day and after that nobles would wear white to display their wealth and status. That’s why we wear white wedding dresses.
This shows you how you can forgive when your mom is being the one of the show . hats off to the bride hope you had a beautiful wedding day
As a mom of 4 daughters, this is unimaginable. If you MUST try something on, do it after. This is terrible. This poor girl. She is beautiful and I'm glad she found the dress she loves.
Chassidy’s mom: “I feel like a villain”
Me: “After trying to ruin your daughter’s moment, yes you are!!”
She looks like one too… no offense haha
Right! Like why go if you’re going to act like this
Yeah bitch Maleficent.
Why even bring her cause paying where the support and love.
Yes