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  • @stuntery3949
    @stuntery3949 Рік тому +1586

    Why she look like caleb😂😂

    • @dwern15
      @dwern15 11 місяців тому +54

      Broooo 😂

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 11 місяців тому +39

      Sister😂😂😂😂

    • @jaddek.astrie3071
      @jaddek.astrie3071 11 місяців тому +49

      They are tween flames 🔥 🔥

    • @juditharsenault2131
      @juditharsenault2131 10 місяців тому +22

      Could be the glasses and the facial expressions.

    • @jessy7773
      @jessy7773 10 місяців тому +24

      Holy crap you’re right!! 😱 lol

  • @jonchrzanowski725
    @jonchrzanowski725 Рік тому +1878

    At this rate, in 5 years, this channel will have educated more youth about financial education than the school system has ever. Thank you for what you're doing. Humans will definitely be better in the future because of it.

    • @ghostofantarctica8216
      @ghostofantarctica8216 Рік тому +25

      Lol, you overestimate the people's ability to control impulses

    • @Capris9x
      @Capris9x Рік тому +15

      ​@@ghostofantarctica8216well he just simply said that *more* humans will be better with debt and useless spending, not all of them.

    • @DJSolistica
      @DJSolistica Рік тому

      Ever taken a math class?
      Financial education is just math, with a '$' added into the equation.
      Ain't rocket science, schools already teach it.

    • @raeblair6166
      @raeblair6166 Рік тому +4

      So I guess your parents are doing a poor job teaching you how to add and subtract.

    • @Syne111
      @Syne111 Рік тому

      In 5 years the finance landscape will be undergoing a paradigm shift. CBDCs will run half the govs in the world. BRICS will have their own $, the petrodollar will lose dominance, Bitcoin will be 200k and the digital asset market will be multi-trillion and pseudo-anonymous. People will demand online privacy and there will be no will to oppose it.
      If you think putting money into a 401k tied to USD will prepare young people for any of this, you're dreaming. Nothing short of outright econo-fascism will save middle class America.

  • @JavaDoodles
    @JavaDoodles Рік тому +1153

    why am i so addicted to watching these videos haha

    • @jace5151
      @jace5151 Рік тому +26

      Because you enjoy watching people be scrutinized.

    • @esmeraldarodri
      @esmeraldarodri Рік тому +18

      omg javadoodles! does this mean we can get a screaming Caleb animation soon 👀🤭

    • @trailertrish
      @trailertrish Рік тому +21

      it helps me look at my own spending, but it also makes me feel better to see other people going thru it

    • @JavaDoodles
      @JavaDoodles Рік тому +10

      @@esmeraldarodri i will ask if he wants to collab hahaha

    • @gio.orbit5498
      @gio.orbit5498 Рік тому +5

      I think subconsciously we like to compare ourselves to other ppl

  • @chandlerhamlyn5221
    @chandlerhamlyn5221 Рік тому +68

    I saw someone at the gym last night watching episodes while on the treadmill. Financial audit keeping us motivated in all spaces lol

    • @MHfanClub13035
      @MHfanClub13035 3 місяці тому +2

      I just went on a group trip with some friends and we all discovered we all watched him too bc someone randomly said “oh Caleb is going to be mad abt this” and we all got it lol

  • @artyfowl444
    @artyfowl444 Рік тому +1692

    Man, being in debt to a partner is rough. It introduces a power dynamic and puts a big strain on the relationship too.

    • @hanspz5505
      @hanspz5505 Рік тому +66

      If they’re healthy about it… I mean I’d want to help my partner we all make mistakes. As long as she’s working on it

    • @mAcroFaze
      @mAcroFaze Рік тому +126

      I can vouch for this. My partner owes me a pretty high amount and it's been a constant topic of contention when it comes to trying to be understanding but also calling out total bullshit on bad/impulsive spending.

    • @Jordybuilt
      @Jordybuilt Рік тому +71

      Sounds like he wants his money then hes leaving. If i was him i would

    • @airthrowDBT
      @airthrowDBT Рік тому +29

      This is what modern zero trust relationships are like

    • @hanspz5505
      @hanspz5505 Рік тому +48

      @@mAcroFaze I don’t agree with giving partners high amounts of money, I’m sorry girl. I know he’s probably not a scammer but you hear too many stories of women being conned out of money by men 😳

  • @itsrickus3582
    @itsrickus3582 Рік тому +1994

    Paying a personal trainer insane amounts of money meanwhile blowing just as much getting fast/junk food. As Caleb loves to always say... "DEATH."

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 Рік тому +134

      Exactly. It’s time to do a new workout: fork putdowns.

    • @uraldamasis6887
      @uraldamasis6887 Рік тому +93

      That's like running the furnace and the air conditioner at the same time.

    • @nly4607
      @nly4607 Рік тому +32

      She is a 3/10 and probs 200 pounds

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 Рік тому +99

      @@nly4607 and yet she has a sugardaddy. Let this be a lesson to us.

    • @fdsafdsafdsafdsafd
      @fdsafdsafdsafdsafd Рік тому +18

      Yeah, judging by this video she isn't doing anything that personal trainer says

  • @mattbenz99
    @mattbenz99 Рік тому +315

    Wait, her boyfriend is a student and she is choosing to pay full price for Apple music? They have a 50% discount to students that I took advantage of for years.

    • @grace.1123
      @grace.1123 Рік тому +34

      I graduated from uni in 2018 and since my email with my school is still active, I still get the student discount 😂 literally the only reason I haven't switched to Spotify

    • @devantetoppin7879
      @devantetoppin7879 4 місяці тому +3

      opm aka other peoples money. When your spending their money you tend to be less thrifty.

    • @wiggles8289
      @wiggles8289 2 місяці тому

      @@grace.1123 very late reply- I’m in the same boat, been using my student Apple Music for 2 years past graduation.

    • @spenceranderson1627
      @spenceranderson1627 23 дні тому

      Hulu also has a student discount- it’s $2.18 a month being a student.

  • @lilgrannyari
    @lilgrannyari Рік тому +346

    Coming from a very traditional Asian family, I wonder if boyfriend's parents 1) know about her and 2) know about her living in the apartment they're paying for. I know a mom who basically disowned her son for a similar arrangement. Maybe that money he is anxious to get back was also from his parents? This living arrangement seems so precarious!!!

    • @p.shermanfortytwowallabyla9488
      @p.shermanfortytwowallabyla9488 Рік тому +44

      I was thinking something similar.
      She said she went to Korea tho so maybe they know about her??
      But she also seems like she is holding things back. A lot of secrets here.

    • @nadineburford4977
      @nadineburford4977 Рік тому +31

      My assumption is that because boyfriend wanted to study in the US, his parents would be paying for his accommodation anyway, so she/boyfriend/both of them thought why should she bother paying rent.
      Just an assumption.

    • @lilgrannyari
      @lilgrannyari Рік тому +15

      @@nadineburford4977 I'm sure that's the thinking, but in many Asian cultures this would be taboo or shameful. I'm not Korean, though, and I'm not sure how socially conservative they are.

    • @nadineburford4977
      @nadineburford4977 Рік тому

      @@lilgrannyari OK, interesting!

    • @3namechangezalowdevry90day7
      @3namechangezalowdevry90day7 Рік тому +37

      The parents are probably also giving him $ for the food and utilities that SHE's paying for!

  • @pabloescobarschanclas
    @pabloescobarschanclas Рік тому +1492

    caleb is an absolute powerhouse with this content, holy hell. we love the consistency.

    • @droid2D2C3P0
      @droid2D2C3P0 Рік тому +31

      I walk a friend's dog over lunch every Monday Wednesday and Friday and without fail every time there's an audit to listen to while I walk, I don't even question it anymore I just expect it lol but he never lets me down!

    • @emmafox6351
      @emmafox6351 Рік тому +4

      Right!? Came here to say this. I love these videos and I love knowing that there will be a new one a few times a week!

    • @amandabiz
      @amandabiz Рік тому +4

      It’s truly made my life better!

    • @ABrainlessThot
      @ABrainlessThot Рік тому +1

      @@Ryan-wx1biI’d love to go on the show but I live in a different state from him. The reason is because I don’t have anyone in my personal life who can sit down and do this with me! Everyone in my life is as financially illiterate as me unfortunately. Though, I’m not as bad as some of these people!

    • @JavaDoodles
      @JavaDoodles Рік тому +1

      seriously so much respect for his consistent upload schedule. as an animator, i could never xD

  • @newman716ET
    @newman716ET Рік тому +745

    I made a spreadsheet of my last 4 months to see how much I was spending on grocery, gas, eating out, and my dogs. And holy crap. Only eating out every 2-3 days still cost me like $300 that I should be putting in savings. Thanks to Caleb I only eat out with social purposes and it’s nice watching my savings grow twice as fast. Plus I paid off my car early with the kick in the butt from these videos. I’m feeling good thanks to Caleb!

    • @MeghanGraceDIY
      @MeghanGraceDIY Рік тому +36

      Right!? It’s always way more than we estimate in our heads, which is why tracking apps are great so you see where everything is going

    • @toolsac1014
      @toolsac1014 Рік тому +6

      @@MeghanGraceDIYwhat app would you recommend? It seems I can never get my self started with one

    • @quinnherden
      @quinnherden Рік тому +8

      ​@@toolsac1014not op, but I use Mint

    • @MeghanGraceDIY
      @MeghanGraceDIY Рік тому +7

      @@toolsac1014 I really like the free mint app. It can be complicated at first, it took me about a month to get the hang of it. But once I tracked my spending for a month, then I set up limits for each category and I check regularly to make sure I don’t go over in any category.

    • @WizzleCraft
      @WizzleCraft Рік тому

      @@hasala12345you went out of your way to be an asshole? 😂

  • @MeganVideoBlog
    @MeganVideoBlog Рік тому +193

    Wait. Is Caleb going to start bringing people back?! Please yes to re-audits!

    • @aileenonvenus
      @aileenonvenus Рік тому +22

      he already has! the only one i can remember top of my head is this 18 year old very early on and he was brought back in the past 6 months

    • @ghostlyone2
      @ghostlyone2 4 місяці тому

      Testing

  • @OrdinaryEverydays
    @OrdinaryEverydays Рік тому +52

    This one is giving me some red flags - I think she should definitely save up just in case the relationship doesn’t work longterm! If they break up, she’s stuck with no savings, no car, etc meanwhile he’s had his stuff fully funded between her paying for living expenses and his parents covering the rest- hopefully it turns out well though!

  • @cupcakeordeath
    @cupcakeordeath Рік тому +207

    37.5 hours per week is the standard amount of time to schedule an employee in order to avoid overtime.

    • @amyeastman8764
      @amyeastman8764 Рік тому +19

      It’s too low and she needs a second job

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 Рік тому +54

      And health insurance :(

    • @1xlina
      @1xlina Рік тому +19

      @@miragggI’m not sure, but I’ve heard that there is no mandatory paid vacations in the US

    • @pr1ncessyapper
      @pr1ncessyapper Рік тому +9

      @@miragggmost people only get paid time off after they earn it over several pay periods. Good PTO is around 2 weeks for an employee in my experience. But it’s only accessible after warning it all.

    • @Driver8takeabreak
      @Driver8takeabreak Рік тому +5

      @@nineteenfortyeight6762 Doesn't she have health insurance? I missed that part. But if a company is contributing to a 401K they definitely offer health insurance.

  • @Incomestreamsurfers
    @Incomestreamsurfers Рік тому +303

    Caleb has completely single-handedly fixed my financial mindset

    • @dustygearhead
      @dustygearhead Рік тому +15

      First lesson. Stop eating out / ordering food.
      I do Uber Eats driving for fun and easy money. The amount people spend on food delivery is insane and I will capitalize on it.

    • @officerahmo
      @officerahmo Рік тому +6

      @@dustygearhead What's the average? I stopped doing UberEats when I realized I had spent all my savings on it in 2 months.. Yeah young and stupid and never again. Thankfully I'm not in debt, but 2k could have been put to better use.

    • @rce4651
      @rce4651 Рік тому +1

      same here.. got my eating out and cc debt under control since apr

    • @blankclz7176
      @blankclz7176 Рік тому

      yea dude since I started watching his Videos a few days ago I started to look at my spending more and I realized I spend way to much on eating out and delivery, I spent 200$ last month I need to cut that shit out starting now

  • @school5730
    @school5730 Рік тому +201

    Her employer gave her 37.5 hours a week and she wasn’t sure why after COVID. It’s so that they don’t have to provide healthcare to her.

    • @silverplug
      @silverplug Рік тому +20

      fulltime is considered 30 and over hours. Tx could be the exception, since they're always the exception.

    • @lexistangeland2842
      @lexistangeland2842 Рік тому +14

      my healthcare employer here in Alberta Canada considers fulltime 37.5 hours per week. Has to do with unpaid lunch breaks during 8 hour shifts.

    • @crusherven
      @crusherven Рік тому +6

      @@silverplug It's not a matter of exceptions; each state has its own laws. 32 in Texas. Some states (like NY) leave it up to the employer to define it. It's 40 in PA & CA.

    • @silverplug
      @silverplug Рік тому

      @crusherven I thought there are some federal definitions, for ERISA and workers comp purposes?

    • @crusherven
      @crusherven Рік тому

      @@silverplug On the federal level you're right, I'm sure different agencies have their own definitions.

  • @corinawohlfert1787
    @corinawohlfert1787 8 місяців тому +46

    Tip! Meal prep without a huge prep day:
    When you are cooking a meal and double it and put the other in the freezer for later!!

  • @S_L_W
    @S_L_W Рік тому +63

    She needs to be careful planning her future life around him and his potential earnings without the legal binding of marriage. He could easily ✌️out once he graduates and gets a job.

    • @Jasmine_sza
      @Jasmine_sza Рік тому +15

      Yeah, that’s what he SHOULD do…getting a huge sense of freeloading from this one as his parents are clearly the ones paying for everything…”I can’t disclose where the $$ comes from”…lmfao

    • @erickn7985
      @erickn7985 Рік тому +6

      He should definitely leave her he's the one financing her lifestyle😂😂

    • @harrietxo2310
      @harrietxo2310 5 місяців тому

      @@erickn7985she’s still paying bills though

  • @kaoo3540
    @kaoo3540 Рік тому +52

    Sienna, if shopping helps you to de-stress or gives you pleasure in doing so, and you really want to manage it? Then I recommend having insta-cart as a side-hustle. You do the shopping for someone else and it’s typically easy stuff since it’s groceries. I’m not fully knowledgeable of the job, but I’m sure you can do some research on it. Or at LEAST TRY it. Remember, the sooner you out from debt, the more freedom you’ll have in the near future!!! Good luck!

    • @kofi557h
      @kofi557h 11 місяців тому +10

      What a great idea!

    • @kiaharper7172
      @kiaharper7172 5 місяців тому +5

      Whoa... that is a GREAT idea.😮 I actually should think about that

  • @daelkolwitz3509
    @daelkolwitz3509 Рік тому +304

    I believe she can do it. Glad to see someone who isn't arguing with Caleb the entire time like "information systems degree" man.

    • @martabanasiewicz6353
      @martabanasiewicz6353 Рік тому +50

      40yo smart kid?

    • @Driver8takeabreak
      @Driver8takeabreak Рік тому +64

      I have low confidence she is going to stick to a tight budget. There was justification for EVERY purchase, and doesn't seem to be much urgency that she even has a debt issue.

    • @Crijoe
      @Crijoe Рік тому +24

      That dude was a monster. No question about it.

    • @tracy_cakkes
      @tracy_cakkes Рік тому +3

      What video was that?

    • @jasonroemhild
      @jasonroemhild Рік тому +28

      TAQUITOS!

  • @joelroman90
    @joelroman90 Рік тому +61

    This channel has been a wake up call for my 33-yr old self. This has replaced my Hulu account (which has seen the door about 2 months now) in terms of entertainment. Lowered most of my expenses and bills like cellphone/ipad at $112 to $40 and etc. I've had Sofi for 3-years and it's been tremendous and love seeing the APY just skyrocket. Now I learned what a T-bill and a Roth IRA is from these videos. I've had public but never touched it with $30 total in there. Now, it's half a grand worth of investments; some with high dividends and have a bi-weekly recurring deposit into my Treasury Bills. Thank you, Caleb! Also, I had to transfer close to $3,000 from my ALLY HYSA towards opening my Fidelity Roth IRA and have started contributing bi-weekly from my paycheck to max that baby out. I've learned more in the last 3 months than I had in college and in life. Keep on keeping on Caleb. Love the 500K sub, I can see a 1M by Sept/Oct easily.

  • @Lowbrass64
    @Lowbrass64 Рік тому +347

    Crystal ball mode. No marriage certificate… he passes the bar, he moves away and leaves her.

  • @grimsventure4439
    @grimsventure4439 Рік тому +166

    While being financially stable, this channel helps me realize ways I’m wasting money. Showed friends who really need the help your channel. Good work man.

  • @buum7197
    @buum7197 Рік тому +23

    Currently have $40,000 in debt with 20% interest, $12,000 with 11% interest. Living off beans and toast for the next 18 months and I plan to be debt free by Christmas next year.

  • @ashleywoodie9386
    @ashleywoodie9386 Рік тому +17

    I'm an underwriting *intern* in a MUCH cheaper city and I make $23 an hour so her pay rate being the same is insane to me personally

  • @Brooks0511
    @Brooks0511 Рік тому +56

    sounds like they work 40 hours but don’t get the paid lunch break . 30 minutes a day 5 days a week =40-2.5=37.5hours

  • @user-ge3wm8ot8q
    @user-ge3wm8ot8q Рік тому +170

    I get leaning on a boyfriend for some support, but it’s crazy how intertwined some unmarried couples’ finances are. I didn’t even live with any boyfriends before my now-husband out of fear I’d be stuck with someone because of bills! I also never wanted to owe a boyfriend money lest it get held over my head.
    On the flip, you almost need a two income household to function in a lot of areas, and getting a roommate can be so so so risky.
    It sucks, man.

    • @csx6910
      @csx6910 Рік тому +14

      Here's the thing, she owed him because she had a proven track-record of irresponsibility and he might have been worried she'd drag him down. So, yeah, marriage is probably off the table if she doesn't change because then he'll be _legally_ on the hook for her bad decisions. The guy is being smart by not just throwing money at her because she'd learn to expect it and might even become worse at finances.

    • @Drety6
      @Drety6 Рік тому

      People are just dumber these days and infantilisation of Americans is happening

  • @TRIUMVIRATEMEDIA
    @TRIUMVIRATEMEDIA Рік тому +69

    I don't understand why she's paying her boyfriend the full amount of all the stuff they bought on the credit card if he's the one that wanted the stuff in the first place. So now she's got to pay that back and pay interest on the credit card. Why can't she just pay half and call the other half his half of the stuff that they bought for their apartment?

    • @fae10
      @fae10 Рік тому +43

      This is confusing me too. At the very least she should only owe him half half of the 1800 if he also wanted the furniture etc. I’m also surprised people in the comments have suggested she’s using him/she is a sugar baby. He receives free housing from his parents, his girlfriend covered all of their moving bills and she also pays for food and utilities. If anyone is the sugar baby it’s him lol

    • @whiteboyangel4838
      @whiteboyangel4838 5 місяців тому

      Thinking this the whole time ​@@fae10

  • @zacknelson8918
    @zacknelson8918 Рік тому +42

    She needs to find a new personal trainer, or just drop the expensive personal trainer, and join a group training gym for alot cheaper, and more fun when your with a group

    • @sinkintostillness
      @sinkintostillness Рік тому +4

      A group session would probably = greater success too because there's always that competitive edge, companionship and support from those on the journey with you.

  • @Somedumbdudeontheinternet
    @Somedumbdudeontheinternet Рік тому +200

    Your videos are the reason I’m nearly debt free

  • @jamiegarzon4251
    @jamiegarzon4251 Рік тому +51

    You should put people who have follow ups in a playlist so its easier for us to find their previous videos. We, as the audience are nosey so love seeing their old videos and look forward to future check ins!

  • @prestodubbz
    @prestodubbz Рік тому +145

    Within 2 months of watching these videos I’ve relived myself of $29k of debt. This channel should be shown in all high schools across america.

    • @shelbyhr
      @shelbyhr Рік тому +5

      Wow! How did you do it?

    • @aihsonavais769
      @aihsonavais769 Рік тому +8

      Spending 29k in extra bs??? Is just insane to me

    • @momsspaghetti4504
      @momsspaghetti4504 Рік тому

      Then the indoctrination would be for not. They teach us the way they do on purpose. They want nation of workers not thinkers

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC Рік тому +2

      Would backfire.

    • @stephanienkurtz
      @stephanienkurtz 10 місяців тому

      @@aihsonavais769 where did you get that from? Debt can be from all kinds of things and still suck, and uneducated people might think it’s better to save/invest that $29k and pay minimums on the debt instead of getting rid of the debt/interest ASAP.

  • @silverrapunzel
    @silverrapunzel Рік тому +383

    Truly love the consistency and videos! You never disappoint Caleb!

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Рік тому +57

      I appreciate that!

    • @XxCaptNKnucklesxX
      @XxCaptNKnucklesxX Рік тому +5

      @@CalebHammerupload less man. Your giving out these bangers too
      Much. Slow down

    • @Dis_is_fine
      @Dis_is_fine Рік тому +11

      @@XxCaptNKnucklesxXto grow on youtube he needs to post consistently. UA-cam doesn’t like recommending videos from inactive channels.

    • @shannonmoynihan8957
      @shannonmoynihan8957 Рік тому +1

      I think it’s great to have all these videos 😊

    • @Kirito109
      @Kirito109 11 місяців тому

      ​@@Dis_is_finethat was being a smart ass bud

  • @XxGxXBloodshot
    @XxGxXBloodshot Рік тому +106

    Can we get 8 hour episodes? I need a work remedy to keep me on track. Listening to these make me that much more dedicated to leave my job in the next year to start my business.

    • @neutralsportsfan17
      @neutralsportsfan17 Рік тому +30

      That's a great new series idea: Financial torture.

    • @lindzriddb
      @lindzriddb Рік тому +2

      I am down for this as well. I love listening to it while I work because it really does seem to help motivate me to work harder and make the most of my days!! Also encourages me to get more OT whenever possible too! 😂

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 Рік тому +1

      @@lindzriddbsame here! I always listen to this while working and it encourages me to keep working harder and picking up extra time at work.

  • @Mr.Rogers91
    @Mr.Rogers91 Рік тому +16

    The mental gymnastics we do to justify out spending or inaction on something is craaaazy. Im not getting at just this girl because I also did this for years.

  • @shroomssadow4981
    @shroomssadow4981 Рік тому +212

    She should get a job in government filibustering. She would get paid a lot more and is clearly a pro at it.

    • @kfitz192
      @kfitz192 Рік тому +3

      Don't give her any ideas!!!

    • @margaretqueenofscots9450
      @margaretqueenofscots9450 Рік тому +1

      Lol 😂

    • @bryguy1811
      @bryguy1811 Рік тому +6

      Umm. Uhh.

    • @haute03
      @haute03 Рік тому +11

      @@bryguy1811 She's clearly nervous...

    • @toriagiro9519
      @toriagiro9519 Рік тому +10

      @@haute03exactly. There’s a slight quivering tone to her voice and she’s not really arguing.

  • @mochi_salamanders
    @mochi_salamanders Рік тому +188

    The excuses they make are seriously the unconscious excuses they use to deny debt and living beyond their means. I did it myself and am learning everyday. Thanks for your content Caleb!!!!🎉🎉🎉lets go for ONE MILLION SUBSCRIBERS!!

  • @bigtiny1102
    @bigtiny1102 Рік тому +150

    Im glad to see Caleb bring his sister on the show and help get her help 😅. Love your stuff thanks for the consistency

  • @hannahhassler6861
    @hannahhassler6861 Рік тому +18

    As an Underwriter myself, I appreciate your definition for everyone, because underwriters feel like Chandler Bing - nobody knows what we do for a living!

  • @themusic6808
    @themusic6808 Рік тому +19

    So boyfriend is paying for rent (which actually comes from his family) because he’s in school while she’s working, yet she had to loan money from him that he’s expecting her to pay back (which she says she can’t say where it came from….but I’d bet his family also) just so they could move in together ? On top of the fact she’s not making much, has spending problems and credit card debt of her own with zero savings ? Sounds to me like a healthy start to a relationship !

  • @MrPennstate2014
    @MrPennstate2014 Рік тому +201

    Congrats on 500,000 subscribers, Caleb! We're already well on our way to 750,000! Keep up the GREAT work!

    • @biigsmokee
      @biigsmokee Рік тому

      You say we but you have 25 subscribers. Curious

    • @MrPennstate2014
      @MrPennstate2014 Рік тому +10

      @@biigsmokee The community.

    • @Drety6
      @Drety6 Рік тому

      What a loser, including yourself lol you had nothing to do with this

  • @juditharsenault2131
    @juditharsenault2131 10 місяців тому +24

    You go girl! Listen to Caleb and get a second job and you will be free from debt, have a fully funded emergency fund, and happy as a clam. I never felt so alive as when I was knocking out debt and working a lot.

  • @fancyslayer99
    @fancyslayer99 Рік тому +67

    Caleb asks a simple yes or no question. Gets a 5 minutes excuse said back to him 🤦🏽‍♂️ the way people justify their spending is baffling to me yet I too used myself thinking those things when I overspent. Thanks to Caleb I’m well on my way to retiring a millionaire.

  • @illustratorwithissues6434
    @illustratorwithissues6434 Рік тому +6

    „Im working on losing weight so I spend a ton on a personal trainer“
    *buys takeout almost every night*

  • @jant1213
    @jant1213 Рік тому +22

    Caleb explaining that she hasn't been paying off the card. Response, awkward silence. I just started laughing.

  • @marykate6538
    @marykate6538 Рік тому +41

    if i owed my boyfriend money there’s no way i would be going getting waxed, buying cosmetics, going to the MOVIES, or any of that bs…this girls excuses are annoying

    • @brookescanlon5888
      @brookescanlon5888 8 місяців тому

      Don’t forget the personal trainer!

    • @laurendearnley9595
      @laurendearnley9595 3 місяці тому

      I dunno, the trainer and the makeup and the waxes might be useful in keeping him from getting too chatty about being paid back 😅

  • @FirinMahLazer1
    @FirinMahLazer1 Рік тому +85

    The justifications for all the expenses are wild. I'm guilty of it myself in the past. It's crazy how we'll find reasons to justify poor behavior, financial or otherwise. It's definitely and issue of maturity and experience.

    • @Lazirus951
      @Lazirus951 Рік тому

      Agreed. It's definitely her main problem.

  • @katieweigl
    @katieweigl Рік тому +19

    I wish I cared as deeply about anything as Caleb does about the financial futures of strangers he just met 😂

  • @TheRestlessKind
    @TheRestlessKind Рік тому +10

    The editing on this between the dead silence of just going back and forth bahaha brilliant!

  • @jaqueitch
    @jaqueitch Рік тому +31

    Boyfriend is, like, gonna, like, drop her like a hot potato once his, like, paperwork is settled.

  • @whosaidthat4299
    @whosaidthat4299 Рік тому +11

    Bet the boyfriend is going home to parents when graduated, She's a comfy pillow for him right now.

    • @rerungirl
      @rerungirl Рік тому +2

      Yeah… I don’t really see it working considering how much he’s letting her suffer

  • @DidacticToast
    @DidacticToast Рік тому +5

    Always such a treat to have Calebs videos drop

  • @heimbiggysmallz
    @heimbiggysmallz Рік тому +3

    Keep cranking out these vids bro. You’re blessing us with the frequency of uploads

  • @ItsMicobs
    @ItsMicobs Рік тому +33

    The blank stare 😂😂, she was definitely rethinking why she came on the show 🤣🤣

    • @lindala2602
      @lindala2602 Рік тому +2

      She might be on the spectrum

    • @JB-pe2yn
      @JB-pe2yn Рік тому +2

      ​@@lindala2602 might be?!?

    • @kiaharper7172
      @kiaharper7172 5 місяців тому +1

      ...gawd. EVERYONE is on the damn spectrum these days 😒
      Society running a special.

  • @dinahlizett
    @dinahlizett Рік тому +37

    There are people out there making 6 figures a year and dont spend that kind of money on a personal trainer. Oof.

    • @dp2120
      @dp2120 Рік тому +18

      I make $300,000 and don’t pay for a personal trainer at all. There’s UA-cam, free Nike apps, just get a gym membership and go. People make up needs.

    • @thewildmonica7680
      @thewildmonica7680 4 місяці тому

      Honestly i feel like its bf making her feel like she needs it. Obvi idk shit but thats how it feels to me

  • @apjapki
    @apjapki Рік тому +7

    People underestimate how expensive moving to a new city is. When it wipes our your savings, you have no good job lined up and little support, it can be a bad idea, even for Love.

  • @krissyrific
    @krissyrific 11 місяців тому +10

    Props to her for being willing to go on the show. I would be in tears.

  • @vaishnaveesundararaman7876
    @vaishnaveesundararaman7876 Рік тому +10

    I love how consistent you are! Love these vids!

  • @kobercheeks
    @kobercheeks Рік тому +29

    dude uploads consistently. love the content 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @edaj1990
    @edaj1990 Рік тому +29

    Thank you for being you, Caleb! I’ve finally found a watchable finance person😂 I just got my nursing license a couple months and finally making decent money. Now I feel like I can put myself in a good financial situation thanks to you!

  • @nmohrcfi
    @nmohrcfi Рік тому +22

    Two things I've learned from watching this channel. 1. Not enough people (myself included) have been educated about what money is and how to properly use it. 2. Some people really don't know how to be honest with themselves, and that is just as sad or more sad.

    • @GlobalIdiot101
      @GlobalIdiot101 5 місяців тому

      The way I see it money is the token of value you assign to portions of your life. Once you've spent those hours you don't get them back. Squandering money is the same as squandering your life away.

  • @margostarcruiser1083
    @margostarcruiser1083 Рік тому +4

    Over 550,000 subscribers!! Caleb is going to be at a million so quickly!! Love your content! Be sure to take some scheduled time off for your mental health! Everyone would support a summer break for Caleb! ❤

  • @FlyByMike94
    @FlyByMike94 Рік тому +19

    Caleb should do a drunk celebrity audit. Both parties will be drinking and Caleb will struggle to get upset at the ridiculous spending. It’ll be a great time for all involved

  • @ryanstaley5147
    @ryanstaley5147 Рік тому +2

    You’re going to crush it on UA-cam. Watched like 5-6 videos in the past 2 days and your channel will easily be over 2 million subscribers within the next 2 years. Probably 1B video views by then too, keep killin it.

  • @adamseidel9780
    @adamseidel9780 Рік тому +314

    Ah yes, the classic “I used to have (a tiny bit) of money, but then two unforeseen events happened… and one of the events was ‘I bought a bunch of stuff.’”
    Also, “I’m bored” is not a mental health problem.

    • @aliecarey
      @aliecarey Рік тому +4

      😂😂

    • @kyliecallaway5273
      @kyliecallaway5273 Рік тому +3

      Seriously!!

    • @boybetterknow86
      @boybetterknow86 Рік тому +7

      I really didn't wanna laugh but...🤷🏾‍♂️ LOL

    • @Lazirus951
      @Lazirus951 Рік тому +6

      I was screaming "that's why you have an emergency fund!!"

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 Рік тому +21

      @@Lazirus951 And buying furniture isn't an emergency anyway. Changing your flight home from korea is borderline, but the grandma dying may make it qualify. Emergency means EMERGENCY. It's like that sketchy husband with weird legal issues whose wife spent $10,000 from their emergency fund to remodel the bathroom.

  • @Dan-gj1hz
    @Dan-gj1hz Рік тому +6

    You KNOW its gonna be a good day when these video go up. Congrats on ALMOST 550,000. Rock on my fellow michigander🤘

  • @Rene707.
    @Rene707. Рік тому +23

    I thought you were auditing your sister 😂
    Great vid Caleb!

  • @flodio
    @flodio Рік тому

    YAY ANOTHER VIDEO. LETS GOOOOOOOOO - Literally how i go on the inside every time i see that you upload

  • @elenag6277
    @elenag6277 Рік тому +12

    caleb thanks to you and getting a better job i finally started a 401k….at 27 lol but hey still 1/4 of that best decade for compound growth ain’t bad

  • @cryptocred5754
    @cryptocred5754 Рік тому +27

    Keep ‘em coming Caleb. Don’t let this algorithm pump go to waste! Love your content!

  • @wattoucheng
    @wattoucheng Рік тому +36

    Now I can eat my brunch in peace. These daily/semi-daily videos are great Caleb! Keep up the good work!

  • @Tomakri15
    @Tomakri15 Рік тому +1

    Can’t wait to celebrate when you hit a million subscribers! You should do a special episode each time you hit a milestone! Like a financial audit of your spending or getting a celebrity to do a financial audit.

  • @death2theworld
    @death2theworld Рік тому +15

    I love hearing all the excuses because it makes me more self aware when i make them

  • @Robfather98XL
    @Robfather98XL Рік тому +15

    Love watching these videos and watch out for every new episode! So good to hear someone helping out others with finances when so many are uneducated in finances

  • @FixingthisRN
    @FixingthisRN Рік тому +8

    It's stupid how excited I get for these videos.

  • @press645
    @press645 Рік тому

    Liking the video before even getting through the ads. I know it's gonna be quality content

  • @joannamoody
    @joannamoody Рік тому +12

    People who open an account on Robin Hood and think they’ve saved for retirement remind me of people who think they can freelance as a professional photographer because they’ve taken pictures with their cell phone.

  • @JakeSpradlin2
    @JakeSpradlin2 Рік тому +48

    Love Caleb! I’m always an optimist but this one is difficult. I’m usually not too keen on this but the “ummms” has driven me crazy in this video

    • @EclecticOrange
      @EclecticOrange Рік тому +4

      ummm same

    • @EFW93
      @EFW93 Рік тому +3

      Umms and like. Public speaking should be a requirement in school. I understand she's nervous, but there are more words to the English language besides like and literally.

    • @lisawhited4291
      @lisawhited4291 3 місяці тому

      😂thanks, I didn't know till you pointed it out. Now I'm focused on it!

  • @LaylaLover90
    @LaylaLover90 Рік тому +6

    Cheers for all of the great advice! This will be my most reckless $5 spent this month, I promise! ;)

  • @tedm8492
    @tedm8492 Рік тому +2

    Caleb, I LOVE THE content man keep it coming!!!!

  • @julielineberry1852
    @julielineberry1852 Рік тому +2

    Well done, dude. Love your videos, it really helps to plan for the future and gives great motivation to spend sustainably and put more to retirement. Keep it up!! 😊

  • @transposestudios
    @transposestudios Рік тому +15

    Sometimes you need to be tough in order to get the severity of the situation across. I appreciate how brutally honest and correct Caleb is - I'm HERE for it :)

  • @brett5526
    @brett5526 Рік тому +4

    17 minutes and already 4.1K views.. you are killing it man!

  • @men05so
    @men05so Рік тому

    Dude I can't stop watching your videos 😅😅 ,it's funny I get excited when new one comes out

  • @richardeknormis7688
    @richardeknormis7688 Рік тому +8

    Keeping grinding caleb! Love watching these every time them come out!

  • @koorbmeh
    @koorbmeh Рік тому +31

    She said it, exactly what most people's problem is... poor planning... or just not planning at all.

  • @tianruixiao9239
    @tianruixiao9239 Рік тому +9

    It's just so funny watching Caleb's voice going up an octave every time he sees a credit card statement, probably to be consistent with his blood pressure.

  • @jessicatobbell3302
    @jessicatobbell3302 Рік тому

    Im so glad i found this channel via tiktok, i know what i need to do but this is motivation and good info to kickstart me into actually doing it!

  • @zennyo1496
    @zennyo1496 Рік тому

    Day off, breakfast ready and new video from Caleb. Hell yeah.

  • @martina_laray
    @martina_laray Рік тому +28

    Congratulations on 500k subs Caleb! Your videos have legitimately changed my life.

  • @anda.91
    @anda.91 Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for what you do. This channel has honestly inspired me to get my shit together.

  • @alexyokiel4493
    @alexyokiel4493 Рік тому +29

    It's crazy how fast Caleb has grown. I found him back in January when he had only 50K subscribers. Keep it up!

  • @duplicarus
    @duplicarus Рік тому +8

    I'm in a relationship myself, and outside of that have been relatively friendless my entire life. I take a $20/ month fencing class and go fishing on my days off, both very inexpensive things to do, and take walks on the days that I work. There are definitely things to do when you are alone for cheap, and with people where you can potentially make new friends. Just saying, shopping isn't the way to go to get out of the house.

  • @LoganIsOnYoutube
    @LoganIsOnYoutube Рік тому +91

    What a wonderful and honest woman. We all get into struggles but even though you could see the pain on her face, she stood strong facing her issues head on. I love seeing people like this. It’s a beautiful quality to have being able to own up to your mistakes. She’ll get through and do well I’m sure.

    • @Britt4880
      @Britt4880 Рік тому +18

      Nice to see a positive comment about the guest! Agree 👏🏽

    • @StarryBlackNight
      @StarryBlackNight Рік тому +5

      Agreed! She didn't have a bunch of excuses, and seemed willing to listen and change. I hope she does great in the future!

    • @BigTuna521
      @BigTuna521 11 місяців тому +5

      Agreed, but I could have used 1/1000th as many "likes" and "ums." It's basically every other word in her vocabulary. It's obnoxious.

  • @mar_man813
    @mar_man813 Рік тому +36

    Watching her do mental gymnastics to obfuscate what were needs vs. wants was amazing. Got the impression that her ability to use smoke and mirrors isn't as good as she thinks.

  • @tonia2483
    @tonia2483 Рік тому +1

    We're not going out to ear cuz We're tired! I need to hear this everyday!

  • @MrTheBest247
    @MrTheBest247 Рік тому +10

    Also being in her job industry, she will easily increase her salary 50-150% in the next 5 years if she continues on the path. No more credit cards + paying off debt consistently and shes going to be ok.

  • @zer0val668
    @zer0val668 Рік тому +21

    I was jusssst about to buy some things I don’t need but this video started playing and I was like NVM 😂 Do it for Caleb!! Do it for YOU!!

  • @sweetjohnny8211
    @sweetjohnny8211 Рік тому +16

    I don't know if i have much hope for her. She was giving a lot of excuses but i think she believes they were valid reasons instead.

  • @brookescanlon5888
    @brookescanlon5888 8 місяців тому

    Caleb- you are so patient! Listening to excuses all day everyday would get old.

  • @jimmymayer4153
    @jimmymayer4153 Рік тому +1

    Insane upload consistency take my subscription