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  • @razarine
    @razarine 4 місяці тому +197

    Referenced Videos:
    FEAR PONG ua-cam.com/video/p3PRgNA7jNQ/v-deo.html
    IN THE DARK ua-cam.com/video/r_SYLYuNau4/v-deo.html
    TELEPHONE CRUSH ua-cam.com/video/HOhMSacJFFY/v-deo.html

    • @cut
      @cut  4 місяці тому +68

      Doing the lord's work, thank you.

    • @SourMellon
      @SourMellon 3 місяці тому +4

      hi cut@@cut

    • @Myth_World903
      @Myth_World903 2 місяці тому +1

      hello

    • @Myth_World903
      @Myth_World903 2 місяці тому +1

      like if you read this

  • @user-qf4vo2qy9m
    @user-qf4vo2qy9m 4 місяці тому +10679

    Now do this with the people on the button

    • @_nuclearnoodle_5757
      @_nuclearnoodle_5757 4 місяці тому +371

      I highly doubt any matches lasted

    • @uudta-panchii
      @uudta-panchii 4 місяці тому +33

      💀

    • @hannahj912
      @hannahj912 4 місяці тому +23

      PLEASE

    • @mprice6683
      @mprice6683 4 місяці тому +68

      Yeah, tell us how those toxic people who gave nobody a chance are now living alone with their 12 cats (women) or haven't showered in 3 weeks and haven't left the gaming room (men),

    • @lauraperdomo9095
      @lauraperdomo9095 4 місяці тому +3

      YES

  • @antibullshit
    @antibullshit 4 місяці тому +7940

    I'd love to hear the "love bombing" guy's perspective on their story.

    • @mariotatara4618
      @mariotatara4618 4 місяці тому +1701

      I can tell you from my experience that hearing you loved someone too much and thats why they ended things, is the most hurtful shit ever.

    • @bigfatknockers
      @bigfatknockers 4 місяці тому +387

      he probably didn’t see anything wrong with it

    • @simp_shitz359
      @simp_shitz359 4 місяці тому +535

      i cant even begin to think about how much that guy is hurting right now

    • @CaptainSweatpants90
      @CaptainSweatpants90 4 місяці тому +852

      Obviously you never know for sure without having been there, both sides of the story might be partially true. But dragging your crush on a UA-cam show to confess that you like them, and then being like "what's that love bombing about? Ew." felt so heckin weird to me. Of course it's fine if things don't pan out, but that reasoning just feels off.

    • @westerholt1071
      @westerholt1071 4 місяці тому +273

      Seems like some better communication was needed... if it was too much, then she should have talked to him...

  • @Maatjuhhh
    @Maatjuhhh 4 місяці тому +3937

    I want Cut to revisit every couple as in a where-are-they-now series. Doesn't have to be a long interview, just an update here and there.

    • @Viibeezz
      @Viibeezz 4 місяці тому +13

      Highly recommend this yes please Cut

    • @anaqohl
      @anaqohl 3 місяці тому +10

      Like at the end of the video a short sentence or two of where they are now few months later

  • @Firefoxy11
    @Firefoxy11 4 місяці тому +1326

    “That’s not a secret I have a crush on you too” SO CUTE OMFG IM CRYING

  • @maya-uq5md
    @maya-uq5md 4 місяці тому +2913

    those 2 bestfriends have my WHOLE heart, goals 😭🖤🖤

  • @iriabanigo293
    @iriabanigo293 4 місяці тому +1517

    The dude in the fear pong confessions whispering "get in there " took me out 😂😂😂

  • @igm1397
    @igm1397 2 місяці тому +63

    Elizabeth and Nate are a natural couple. They look like they’ve always been meant for each other. I really hope they make it to the altar and make it for life.

  • @ha231
    @ha231 3 місяці тому +121

    Watching the girl it didn't work out for I could see already in the clips they showed that she felt overwhelmed by his response. Like she's leaning as far back as possible when he tries to kiss her.

    • @lucpereira4853
      @lucpereira4853 27 днів тому +8

      but she literally wanted that, and said that she wanted to kiss him but thought he had backed off, however she did feel a bit embarassed and surprised with the hug after and didn`t really want it.

  • @abbey_376
    @abbey_376 4 місяці тому +549

    the couple with the curly haired guy is so cute i love them

    • @way9883
      @way9883 4 місяці тому +6

      righttt their bickering here is so cute 4:19

  • @st3ffn11
    @st3ffn11 4 місяці тому +1598

    I would be interested on hearing the other side of the story for Love b0mb. Especially since she brought him onto a game show to express feelings. How much was he doing after then video then?!?

    • @nhow4
      @nhow4 4 місяці тому +131

      Yeah I’m curious if she actually had a conversation with him about it or just broke it off right there because it’s giving vibes of the later. If she spoke with him about it, I don’t see how he would continue if it made her uncomfortable or claustrophobic, unless he’s a little bit psycho and didn’t get the message. A lot of people would rather dip then have a dark convo, because if he understood, something like that could’ve totally been worked out.

    • @Nyualum21
      @Nyualum21 4 місяці тому +92

      He probably didnt even do all that much, she just got overwhelmed emotionally. We'll probably never actually know, but thats my guess

    • @wilmara24
      @wilmara24 4 місяці тому +39

      Sometimes girls are attracted to the unavailability of a guy. I wouldn’t know if a girl likes me unless she seriously said so. I always gave that I’m not interested mystique, but in reality I was clueless. Once I find out and show interest their opinion of me may change. I guess some people just like the chase 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @SuperRedWaffle
      @SuperRedWaffle 4 місяці тому +14

      Girls when you like them back 😭😭

    • @anonymoushumanhi
      @anonymoushumanhi 4 місяці тому +60

      Some people confuse the honeymoon phase for love bombing. BUT in this case, seeing as I have been love bombed and it all started with kissing that moved things wayyyyy too fast, I think she ultimately made the right decision to protect herself, especially since he immediately kissed her without her consent.

  • @BernardinD
    @BernardinD 4 місяці тому +782

    Thank you!!! I know I'm not the only one who's been WISHING for follow up videos for things like this and the button haha

  • @colinparent1374
    @colinparent1374 4 місяці тому +713

    That kiss duo with the shoulder hug in the third girl's original video were really giving love bombing 🙃 Shout out Cut for keeping it real and also showing an occurence were it didn't workout after!

    • @michaeladebayo2474
      @michaeladebayo2474 4 місяці тому +181

      Love bombing is a manipulation tactic. It has to be intentional. Personally, to me it just looked like he was excited that the girl he liked liked him back and even confessed to him so he wanted to hug and kiss her. Even if he did show “too much” affection it wouldn’t be “love-bombing” unless he intentionally did it to influence her feelings towards him

    • @Zedd...
      @Zedd... 4 місяці тому +57

      @@michaeladebayo2474 I think it was more like him coming off too much and too desperate and which ended up putting a lot of pressure on her.

    • @RyanMacInnes
      @RyanMacInnes 4 місяці тому +43

      Love bombing does not have to be intentional. In fact most manipulation is not intentional.

    • @fubytv731
      @fubytv731 4 місяці тому +43

      @@RyanMacInnes If the intention is not to be manipulative, then how is it a manipulation?

    • @anakhanair_
      @anakhanair_ 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@fubytv731agreed, with the last statement although I don't know if the guy was manipulative cause to me she seemed to be more lustful towards him than affectionate.

  • @1retrorobot
    @1retrorobot 4 місяці тому +365

    Cut, I want to hear abt how the button winners ended up!!!!! I want the tea w their dates!!

  • @NotYouAgain28
    @NotYouAgain28 4 місяці тому +87

    the two couples look sooooo good togetheeeerrrrr!! they look so happy and cute! im melting

  • @KLNDR
    @KLNDR 4 місяці тому +91

    Damn the "shy" girl is beautiful. Never caught any of these confession videos but it's great to see how many memories the two couples have made -- and great photos from around Seattle local favs! 👏🏻

  • @johjohxoxo
    @johjohxoxo 4 місяці тому +191

    I’m gonna cry hahahahaha this is so fucking cute. And i wish i was strong enough to tell someone “i really like you, what do you think about actually trying to date each other? Like, be together” i wishhh i could say this

    • @noellyventura159
      @noellyventura159 4 місяці тому +7

      you can! there’s two options for the other person, yes or no. if they say no then move on and someone will eventually say yes. have fun always.

    • @johjohxoxo
      @johjohxoxo 4 місяці тому +5

      @@noellyventura159 thank you, but they usually say no because they don’t want any commitment or serious relationship in their life. Even before i can explain but that i mean move slowly, but just be together officially and not dating others. But yea. So that’s why i usually never say it…..they obviously like me alot usually, but they just get freaked out by being in something where they actually have to commit lol or actually remember their gf daily.

    • @strikerali2160
      @strikerali2160 4 місяці тому +2

      You can do it! If they say no then that’s okay! I get it if it’s a close friend but if you truly value them and they value you, you guys can talk it out like adults! It doesn’t have to be weird

    • @Sukinero
      @Sukinero 4 місяці тому

      @@johjohxoxoI’m ready to commit

    • @johjohxoxo
      @johjohxoxo 4 місяці тому +1

      Nevermind. Got SA’ed this weekend so no more dating for me. Watch your drinks everyone. People are very sneaky with drugging you. Stay safe :( and goodluck. Thanks anyways for the sweet vibes and kindness.

  • @justwantedtea
    @justwantedtea 4 місяці тому +56

    The two besties turned lovers 🥹🥹🥹

  • @9manny99
    @9manny99 4 місяці тому +248

    I’m here for this! Love to see how the couples on screen are doing! Cute to see them after matches!

  • @v.s5642
    @v.s5642 4 місяці тому +118

    Glad to see the Entertainment for us viewers evolving into something special for the protagonists. This is so heartwarming 😁

  • @aquezada2254
    @aquezada2254 4 місяці тому +21

    Thank you for the follow up videos!!! I always hoped you guys would do this with the couples/matches.

  • @Plaf__
    @Plaf__ 2 місяці тому +11

    The thing about love b0mbing, is that is not always just "loving", but more of a manipulation thing.
    You love b0mb someone, then ignore them knowing that they will worry why did you change how you act with them, then start the process again. It's usually used (intentionally or not) to keep the other person around and have them on a short leash. Maybe the guy was doing that, and that's why she cut contact with him. If that's the case, you go girl, it's a learning as you said it!

    • @gray_girl
      @gray_girl 13 днів тому +1

      Thank you for saying this, people are reducing it "loving too hard" or being inexperienced and it's not that. I wouldn't treat someone like this and I have little to no experience

  • @chazziegrosshandler
    @chazziegrosshandler 4 місяці тому +10

    I AM SO GLAD yall made this!! i was rewatching the first couple's fear pong again a day ago and I am just so happy their together!

  • @karenrn5607
    @karenrn5607 4 місяці тому +34

    LOVE seeing the outcomes. I always feel sad when I don’t know what happens next for your people.

  • @Sillygoose24
    @Sillygoose24 3 місяці тому +11

    The fear pong couple is so cute. it seems so genuine!

  • @Ki-KisWorld
    @Ki-KisWorld 4 місяці тому +62

    I love when you have the ppl react to themselves 😂

  • @danzwku
    @danzwku 4 місяці тому +122

    More "In the Dark" videos plz

  • @oricand4142
    @oricand4142 4 місяці тому +19

    Omg so happy for themmmm
    So happy for the girl too, she knows what is right to her and that's amazing! She didnt force something she didnt feel complete with and that awesome!

  • @Orange_creamsicle
    @Orange_creamsicle 4 місяці тому +19

    we need more of these

  • @jonaswolterstorff3460
    @jonaswolterstorff3460 4 місяці тому +70

    I’m happy an interview format is back (and still miss “Chansplaining”).

    • @artemuycaro
      @artemuycaro 4 місяці тому +3

      @cut bring back chansplaining 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps 3 місяці тому +1

    Great video. Interesting seeing the "what happened afterwards," with some of these videos. With those that are of course comfortable with sharing the story/coming back to the studio to revisit everything.

  • @alecwilliams3487
    @alecwilliams3487 3 місяці тому +4

    Damn! The best friends are living their best lives! I hope everyone finds that person for themselves.

  • @Vgreenlantern09
    @Vgreenlantern09 4 місяці тому +9

    Thank you for giving us an update

  • @Aphixella
    @Aphixella 3 дні тому

    this is an incredible idea for a video that can spark the interests of old viewers, keep it up!

  • @happytomeetyou2047
    @happytomeetyou2047 4 місяці тому +38

    Does that mean Cut will get a invite to some weddings? 💒 💒

    • @aortega701
      @aortega701 4 місяці тому +2

      I love how dedicated we r to the lore 😅❤❤❤

  • @SuperClearwood
    @SuperClearwood 4 місяці тому +2

    So cute thank you for the update

  • @nataliefletcher
    @nataliefletcher 3 місяці тому +5

    It's nice to see it actually work out sometimes. I had a fun experience with my best friend lol - he freaked out 😬

  • @jhefferson9048
    @jhefferson9048 4 місяці тому +153

    Loving someone so much that they leave you. You can never know from their perspective but as a guy that shit jades you.

    • @missmochiicecream
      @missmochiicecream 4 місяці тому +17

      You can never know from their perspective unless you ask or they tell you - take the initiative and ask, and if they tell you, try to learn from it. If someone's not into it as much as you are, then you wouldn't want to waste your time and energy or theirs trying to pursue more. Instead, use it to improve upon yourself and take that experience to the next relationship.

    • @fos1451
      @fos1451 4 місяці тому +6

      @@missmochiicecreamyou couldn’t ask something that you don’t know is a problem

    • @johnswagger7971
      @johnswagger7971 4 місяці тому +2

      Treat 'em mean, keep them keen

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz 4 місяці тому +1

      No wonder y'all are single. Smh

    • @fos1451
      @fos1451 4 місяці тому

      @@DA-js7xz there's only 4 people here

  • @FernzWife
    @FernzWife 4 місяці тому +6

    We need more of these! I’m sooo curious about all the couples!

  • @crystalgeiger7278
    @crystalgeiger7278 4 місяці тому +7

    Yes I’m cheezy and a sucker for love, but this was a fun update to watch. Made me smile! Happy everyone got a good takeaway from it!

  • @lls1338
    @lls1338 3 місяці тому +2

    YAYYYY THE FOLLOW UP WE ALL WANTED!

  • @jillsarah7356
    @jillsarah7356 4 місяці тому +2

    This was so interesting and BTS and wholesome! More of this please!!!

  • @tylerbarker8877
    @tylerbarker8877 4 місяці тому +15

    I really enjoy this type of video!! You should do more of this interview style and behind the scenes!! I would love to hear other people’s stories and experiences on Cut!!

  • @janelm7645
    @janelm7645 Місяць тому +1

    i’m so happy for the couple from the dark episode omg😭

  • @FHPPedersen
    @FHPPedersen 4 місяці тому +6

    IVE BEEN WATING FOR THIS DAY.

  • @alexx.maxiii
    @alexx.maxiii 4 місяці тому +2

    wait i love this!!
    more please!!

  • @TheMrCC21
    @TheMrCC21 4 місяці тому +15

    -"I love you now." The first "I love you" can be a killer if it's not reciprocated. But at the same, it takes time for some to say it. There's various reasons that they are hesitant. I get it.
    -The single girl didn't go into too much outside of "love bombing." Some have said she may have meant clingy. You don't throw around "love bombing" if that's not what you meant. Love bombing can possibly be part of abuse. The fact she said love bombing is saying he was possibly abusive. That accusation is damming. That could follow him around for the rest of his life.
    If the guy came on, he could have given his side. But one thing that should have been asked is if she liked him or liked the idea of liking him. That would have taken it in a different direction.

  • @BreeGee2023
    @BreeGee2023 4 місяці тому +1

    This is the video I’ve needed!

  • @aidanado6231
    @aidanado6231 4 місяці тому +2

    Finally the follow up to all those stories I wanna know about

  • @danashachan8080
    @danashachan8080 4 місяці тому +1

    OMG YES THE LONG AND AWAITED VIDEOOO

  • @ccannon1
    @ccannon1 4 місяці тому +5

    Aww this is so cute 🥹

  • @laurenbyrnes5751
    @laurenbyrnes5751 4 місяці тому +1

    I need more of these videos

  • @tiffanyi5645
    @tiffanyi5645 Місяць тому

    Ok YES! Give us update videos 100%!!!

  • @Bookalicious1717
    @Bookalicious1717 4 місяці тому +1

    This is so cuteeeee ❤❤❤ love both of these couples. Please do more follow ups

  • @Thehealthycreative_
    @Thehealthycreative_ 3 місяці тому

    oh yeah baybeeeee the series we've been waiting forrrr

  • @macistroughter9680
    @macistroughter9680 3 місяці тому

    THE VIDEO WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR

  • @user-cs1tu2km4o
    @user-cs1tu2km4o 4 місяці тому +12

    Stoopp because the couples are soo cuteee im crying

  • @dahonu85
    @dahonu85 4 місяці тому +29

    more follow up!!

  • @gibsterzz
    @gibsterzz 4 місяці тому

    omg finally one of these videos

  • @tylerjohnson9133
    @tylerjohnson9133 4 місяці тому +17

    she likes him that much to drag dude to a youtube video shoot to tell him she has a crush on him but then is able to get the ick from being "love bombed". bringing him there isn't overwhelming but him loving you too much is? makes no sense lol

    • @missmochiicecream
      @missmochiicecream 4 місяці тому +8

      it's not like she brought him onto a cut video to propose to him lol it's a funny experiment to see how her confession evolves over a game of telephone. To me it looks like they both were just caught up in feelings and hormones (they were both 20 years old) and at some point she realized it was way too much, way too fast.

  • @vdt-gh4
    @vdt-gh4 4 місяці тому

    THEY'RE ALL SO CUTE

  • @toxicphrog7693
    @toxicphrog7693 4 місяці тому +4

    Perfect timing

  • @billyhorr7126
    @billyhorr7126 2 місяці тому

    Cut is AWESOME pure truth and in the end sometimes it just doesnt work out...#Beerpong❤️❤️❤️💁

  • @benita9078
    @benita9078 4 місяці тому +1

    This is sooo cute

  • @niels__vdb
    @niels__vdb 4 місяці тому +11

    More of these please!

  • @happinessikhaobomhe930
    @happinessikhaobomhe930 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow thank you for doing this with Nate and Elizabeth I've always wanted to know how they ended up
    Y'all are a great couple❤and I hope you are happy and continue to love yourselves and Lizzy you're so beautiful❤❤❤

  • @THEWLLAS97
    @THEWLLAS97 3 місяці тому +1

    Lol immediately when he said "scout's honor" I knew he wasn't a scout - wrong salute!!😂

  • @goncalopintomendes8065
    @goncalopintomendes8065 4 місяці тому

    Keep spreading the love ❤

  • @MsDemonism
    @MsDemonism 4 місяці тому

    Awwwwwwwweeeeee alll beautiful couples!!!

  • @abrilselenemancedo8077
    @abrilselenemancedo8077 3 місяці тому +3

    This actually healed my hopeless romantic heart

  • @KERPZz
    @KERPZz 23 дні тому +1

    We desperately need an update on the wlw couple in the 2nd in the dark video!!

  • @colby_wuz_here
    @colby_wuz_here Місяць тому

    YES I LOVE THE FEARPONG COUPLE!!!

  • @entvex
    @entvex 3 місяці тому

    I like this!

  • @KristinReneeCreative
    @KristinReneeCreative 4 місяці тому +1

    Crying at how cute they are again 😭

  • @alfredopasta218
    @alfredopasta218 4 місяці тому +5

    Omg more of these please!

  • @blighticus
    @blighticus 4 місяці тому +5

    Editor knew what they were doing with the pictures at the end and not showing the girl by herself

  • @EffaloveZurcaroh
    @EffaloveZurcaroh 4 місяці тому +4

    Now I want to know about Josh and Piper the button winners, any follow up date etc?

  • @victoriavvc
    @victoriavvc 3 місяці тому

    *crying from how cute Nate is about her*

  • @PL4Y3R_0N3
    @PL4Y3R_0N3 4 місяці тому +2

    2:13 IM SO WAITING FOR ITALIANBACH RN

  • @lizw495
    @lizw495 4 місяці тому +3

    Seriously, can’t stop smiling at the couple from beer pong. I loved them in that video and it makes me so happy to see them now 💕

  • @Fishyface2424
    @Fishyface2424 4 місяці тому +14

    i love that the two couples truly seem so happy... 🤍

  • @rita8274
    @rita8274 4 місяці тому +48

    The "love bombing" one is sad for multiple reasons. The 2 standing out for me: First, if he was sincere and kind guy, she needs therapy to deal with her fear of being loved and I hope he finds someone that loves him the way he deserves. The second is if he wasn't a good person and she did dodge a bullet, so many people are going to talk badly about her anyways. :'(

  • @pirlie
    @pirlie 4 місяці тому +3

    Cut could do a 100 people video with 100 button winners!

  • @RyanSalm
    @RyanSalm 4 місяці тому +5

    Well done Cut, now with the ruthless button

  • @ElizabethSmading-zc4lw
    @ElizabethSmading-zc4lw 8 днів тому

    “how many times have you watched this video” yes.

  • @emmasimon2789
    @emmasimon2789 4 місяці тому +17

    i want this kinda love.

  • @dinahd9892
    @dinahd9892 3 місяці тому

    We need this for the button

  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle Місяць тому

    soooooooooooooooooooooo sweet!!!! gosh...

  • @linkcell
    @linkcell 4 місяці тому +1

    The CUT's inbox be like 🌧🌧🌧

  • @RandomMcRandomness
    @RandomMcRandomness 4 місяці тому

    Awwww. That's so cute that people need this to confess their feelings. I'm happy for the avoided pregnancies, like with Catfish. 🤪🤣

  • @whalium889
    @whalium889 4 місяці тому +32

    The Asian girl is so cute

  • @Hmmmmmmmmm....
    @Hmmmmmmmmm.... Місяць тому

    Thos is wholesome, so sad for the last girl tho. Also the blue couple look alike

  • @5starwillx
    @5starwillx 4 місяці тому +6

    this is like how ancient egyptians used to study even more ancient egypt

  • @washifasultana3889
    @washifasultana3889 4 місяці тому

    want the button version on this

  • @SilentJokerPT
    @SilentJokerPT 4 місяці тому +3

    Can we get an update on Arron and Analisa it’s been 5 years

  • @becc9355
    @becc9355 3 місяці тому

    Finallly!!! ❤

  • @ChrisTheAspergerGuy
    @ChrisTheAspergerGuy 4 місяці тому +11

    I'm glad at least 2 of these couples worked out, but I don't understand the Asian girl's reasoning for breaking up with that guy. I feel like there's more to the story there.

    • @TheNikohSan
      @TheNikohSan 4 місяці тому +8

      Well yea of course there would be more to the story; I don't think an eight-minute youtube video will ever cover probably months worth of personal experience she may have went through. On a related note, what exactly do you not understand about lovebombing being a reason for breaking up?

    • @ChrisTheAspergerGuy
      @ChrisTheAspergerGuy 4 місяці тому +2

      @@TheNikohSan Assuming you're asking out of curiosity instead of condescension, I'm simply confused what she's talking about. She was into him and he was into her and yet she didn't like the amount of attention he was giving her. She didn't really explain it much. I don't know. It doesn't matter. It's none of our business anyway.

    • @artemuycaro
      @artemuycaro 4 місяці тому +9

      As someone who has been in a similar situation I can at least give my perspective on it. Love and attraction have a lot to do with who we ourselves are as individuals, our upbringing shapes our patterns/habits and attachment style, our dating experience informs each new relationship - for me, the past two years I've learned that I tend to have an anxious attachment style. For example I had developed an intense infatuation with someone very quickly and wanted to talk to them all the time. After a few dates they started to show they were really into me too, and I was happy in the moment. But soon I was overwhelmed by how much time they wanted to spend together. It felt like if they could spend every possible moment with me they would. It made me uncomfortable. Though I was initially very attracted to them and there were lots of qualities I genuinely liked about them, my accelerated intense affection was driven by my needs/lack of healthy boundaries/lack of self identity than with the person. And because I had already started this journey of learning more about myself, relational psychology, attachment theory, etc, I realized that my intensity must have made people uncomfortable in the past, too. And now that I'm striving for secure attachment I value my alone time and having my own identity independent of a partner, and I value that in someone else too. It can be so much pressure to feel like you're someone else's entire world. So - yes, there's always more to the story. Who can say what else may have transpired between the two of them?

    • @ChrisTheAspergerGuy
      @ChrisTheAspergerGuy 4 місяці тому +2

      @@artemuycaro I guess that makes sense. I appreciate you sharing your story with me and that you didn't condescend me like the jagoff who responded to me first.

  • @Zekromus
    @Zekromus Місяць тому

    4:44 when the fire alarm runs low on battery
    jk, that was really sweet :)

  • @xotwod3254
    @xotwod3254 4 місяці тому

    Endless summer

  • @coconutsciencegirl9232
    @coconutsciencegirl9232 3 місяці тому

    The in the dark couple been together for a whiiile. For like two years. Go them