How to figure out what you want to do with your life xoxo
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This video has a few tips I've put together around figuring out what you want to do with yourself, what you want to do with your life, finding a career, and avoiding remaining stagnant.
It's for anyone who's maybe graduated / is about to graduate / is just trying to work out what they want to spend the majority of their time doing.
Appreciate you guys a whole bunch xoxo Sending lots of love and good vibes your way.
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Hey, I feel like I didn't get across the core message of this video as well as I wanted to - which is really: There is no one purpose that you have in life. Life is just a big old bunch of different experiences. Don't feel like you NEED to find the ONE AND ONLY thing that you were made to do, because that's a total fallacy and you'll never be happy if you live that way. Just keep on doing you, making decisions, pursuing what you're interested in and trying to live a life you dig - that's what I'm doing right along with you xoxo Love you lots xoxo
What's your MBTI?
I'm an INFJ 💖 xoxo lots of love
muchelleb, fellow INFJ here! You're an amazing inspiration! Love your videos! Watched almost every one of them.
omg haha kinda late (which is weird cause I'm on the notification squad) but I always have your video's running on auto-play to stay motivated when taking down big tasks, and so I was cleaning my room when all of the sudden I heard you talking about the Myers Briggs test and I flipped my shit cause I always wondered what type you would be so I immediately sprinted to my computer to check if you had your type somewhere in the comments 😂 you're UNmistakably an infj! totally makes sense! (I'm an intp) Love you and your content so much💕
This video was really helpful. Thank you!! xo
muchelle i literally had a mental breakdown last night because i don't know what i'm doing with my life. i needed this so much. Thank You!!!!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️ Ahh sending all of the love your way. Hope things just go uphill from here xoxo
How are you feeling these days?
I quit my job almost six months ago. I was lucky enough to have the resources to take my time and just spend a few months willingly jobless and finding myself. I've gotten randomly into flexibility (I almost have my splits!), dancing, violin, and minimalism. Now I am actually restarting my old business, but this time it is all official with business cards, flyers, and a website! Big life changes for this self employed dog walker :)
FangirlFiles that is very cool that you walked this path. I quit my job 3 months ago and I also have savings to take my time. But I keep getting nervous about that money slowly dwindling away. It’s ridiculous, because I cannot prosper in such a mindset, I understand it myself.
How did you keep those thought out? Or maybe you didn’t have them?
I am ridiculously in love with your vibe. I guess it's true, your vibe definitely attracts your tribe.
Amazing content as always Muchelle
Eee, thanks girl. Sending all of the positive vibes 💖
Thank you so much for this video. I'm 43 yrs old. When I was 19 I did a food service traineeship only to find it held no weight in the world of cooking & so I still had to find an apprenticeship at 20, which I couldn't so I worked as a kitchenhand hating it. Then struggled with addictions for a few years, not functioning enough to hold down a job, until I met my husband, got married & had kids. We only lasted 6 yrs & it's been 10 yrs since then I've been bringing up our kids totally on my own. Now they are teens I am so lost. I don't want to be a chef anymore & would love to learn makeup artistry but the start up costs are pretty big. I'm so freakin lost. I'll head over to the sites you've suggested, as well as take on your other advice & see where this leads me. Cheers xo
There is not a single one of your videos that I don't feel like I benefit from. Every time I watch one I am inspired and for some reason they all seem to address topics that I need help with right when I need them. You are my absolute favourite channel.
This video was so helpful to me - I go through periods of being sure about who I am and what I want to do with my life at this point in it, and then randomly I start to doubt myself and start thinking I'm just kidding myself and I should do what others are expecting of me. I'm always trying to learn new things and explore new possibilities, and I'm always finding new interests & skills. So this video really reassured me that I''m okay and there's nothing wrong with the path that I'm on. Thanks for the wisdom! x
Recently I've been taking more trips which is way outside of my comfort zone. I've learned so much through my travels and ave decided to move to a new state! Your videos are so helpful to me and make my goals and life expectations reachable. Thank you so much!💗💗💗
My whole life I have been afraid of bees, as are most people. But when my high school adopted beehives, I decided to just try to push my boundaries and go to the club meeting where we harvested honey. Honestly that one decision has now shaped my life, I published an article on beekeeping, I am now in college for Ecology and Conservation, plan on a 3 year paid beekeeping internship, and even have a honey bee tattoo! I went into the bee yard terrified, but I left with an entirely changed perspective. If you feel stuck, just try SOMETHING, even something you are scared of!! :) LOVE this channel and best of luck to everyone!!
I constantly comment on your videos so I hope it never gets annoying but yeah, totally loving everything you do! As always!
as always, love this!! and your hair looks great
I love your channel! I've been confused with my life recently. The more videos of yours I watch, the better I feel 🤗
This video makes me a little less scared about the future, because I have absolutely no clue what to do after school.. Thank you so much💖 And to answer the question at the end of the video: I'm trying to learn sign language at the moment:)
Sign language! That's so fabulous. Sending good vibes xoxo
I really love your videos and I'm glad you upload a new video.
I recently found your channel. I absolutely love all of your videos and all of them look so aesthetically pleasing! Also your videos are so inspirational and I think everyone needs to watch your videos because they really help us become better, happier people. I was also so surprised when finding your channel because I expected this channel to have over a million subscribers already! Love you x
i think you hit the nail on the head; some people think that an answer will drop from heaven to what job or career they should be doing. They take a year off and nothing happens. The only way to find some kind of path is to learn new things and topics and take on courses, education or job opportunities and that will lead to something. It may not be perfect but it opens doors for you to land somewhere that could enjoy plus you gain experience from it.
I love your videos Michelle, I'm not sure you'll ever really know how helpful and inspiring they are. They are really insightful too, I read the article that you linked my mark and it was pretty amazing, I don't really think I'm ready to answer most of his questions but I've bookmarked the article for when I am ready. This video was great💕
This video came at the right time with everyone questioning what I'm going to do after university! I took the test and I'm also INFJ like you! I cannot believe how spooky accurate the result is for me, keep up the amazing content girl✨✌🏻️
I've been thinking so much about this lately! I'm definitely the worst at making decisions but have been working so hard at it! Love all your videos and all you have to give!! xoxo
So well said, I love your videos!
I just did this test yesterday and I'm an INFJ too! I'm an INFJ-T actually, don't know why I have an extra letter! It said it was 1% of the population so we are a rare breed apparently! This is why your vids about being a homebody and wanting to be super self-empowering and productive resonate so much with me ❤️
Your doing amazing work. Really appreciate your videos and insights.
Such good points!!!! Love when you upload!!!!
Amazing video!!!!!! Yes to all these tips!
such an amazing and helpful video! thank youuu
Thank you so much for this video!! I think your words are exactly what I need to hear right now. Lots of love
Ahh I'm so glad xoxo ❤
As an INFJ I struggle trying to fit in - thanks for reminding me that it's ok not to have it all figured out at all times. As always it was a pure pleasure to watch your content 🎈
So needed this vid right now
I love your energy. You're amazing lovely!!
YAAAAAAS I'M ON BOARD FROM A TO Z! A must watch. Another great production, Michelle 👍🏻
Hi Muchelle! Really great video! I've recently adopted this way of thinking after getting really bogged down! The answers are not in a book... your passion in life.. well I think it changes! Just taking small action every day has really helped me ⭐️
Thank you! I really needed this video right now
fab video muchelle, I love your channel ❤❤❤
Thank you! I loved this video.
My anxieties have been kicking hard this past few months. I really don't know what I wanna do with my life. I thought I had everything figured out but I don't feel happy at all. This video won't change my life completely and immediately BUT it's such a huge help and advice that I really need right now. So thank you ❤️ hopefully me and someone out there who also have no idea what they wanna do with their lives will comeback to this video in a year or two or maybe even few months full of happiness cause we finally find our purpose in life. And feel proud that we finally got through all the hard times in our lives..
this came at such a right time!!! THANK YOU
Absolutely awesome what that site has to offer :) I love learning new things
muchelleb gives me life 💕
daaaaaamn, i think this was the best video i have seen in youtube. thank you for creating this channel, it was the best decision you could make❤️
These are actually really good tips and are some things I am doing right now 🤗
Hey Muchelle! This is such a great Video! very much needed! I also want to mention something else to the point of learn new things: the more languages I learn(speaking 3 more or less fluently by now, starting Spanish in a few weeks), the more perspectives I have on the world! In one of the linguistic classes in Uni, I've learned that there were Linguists who thought this way but the theory was denied pretty fast but for me personally it couldn't be more true! The more languages I learn, the more I learn about how other nationalities see the world and it def gives you new perspectives! lots and lots of love from Germany💓❤💓
I really enjoy the content you share on bpth of your channels. Inspiring and very uplifting.
Perfect timing for this video! I had a meeting with my manager today and was asked what else I wanted to pursue outside of the position I have now. I had no idea what to say... I was never the type of person who had a clear career path in mind. It always makes me feel like I'm not doing anything with my life.
Thank you so much for this video. I am 28 years old and feel like I've been stuck in life for years now. I could never figure out what it really is I want to do with life. Over the past year or so, I've started working on myself - trying to become a better, healthier and more positive person. Now that I feel like I know myself better and love myself more, the next step is to figure out what to do with my life and I will definitely try out some of your tips! I'll probably create a mind map of who I am, where my interest lie and what different things I could try out doing to figure everything out.
I only found your channel a couple weeks ago but I've been really enjoying your content. Glad I subscribed!
same here - 28 and stuck for years... (It's kind of soothing to know that there are others who don't have everything figured out either, especially when it seems that around you everyone does). I'll try out your mind map idea!
I feel you ! I'm about to graduate and I'm slowly realizing that I'm not sure I want to work in my field of studies, I can't get an internship let alone a job, yet I can't let my parents pay for me forever, nor do I want to go back to living with them... I feel like not a lot of things interest me, and those which do are not "career worthy" or actually pursuable : writing, blogging (www.canvasofthoughts.wordpress.com if you're interested !) , taking pictures, creating recipes, minimalism ... :(
thank you, needed this so much...
i love mark manson!! i got excited when you mentioned him
i absolutely love all your videos. make my day better everytime i watch your videos. xo
Such a great video! Thank you 😘😘
this is such a helpful video to make! thanks for all the tips
Thanks so much! I'm glad you got something out of it xoxo 💖
love your life tips!
I love your channel. I watch your videos every day. They help keep me motivated and inspired. Thank you so much for making them.
new decisions I made recently:
I'm organizing a scavenger hunt/fundraising event to collect money for burn victims
I changed my major in Uni
I ditched some toxic friends and made some new friends
I completely changed my living space
im thinking in doing a Canada tour (because I live there and I still haven't fully experienced it)
This was really helpful. Thanks!
Love from Sydney. Love the video. Your content is always on point.
Thank youu 💖
You are so inspiring! 💞
figuring out what crappy things you can deal with is so important because no job is perfect!!!
I can't express howmuch I needed this video today
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I haven't learned new things in a while due to university. I know I learn while studying but I feel the need to explore different subjects or things that are not directly related to my career. I feel excited to try new things but I need to find the time to do them. BTW i loved this video. I learn so much from your view of the world and the way you explore it. Keep making great content!!
university just drains you. it takes away your enjoyment in relation to learning. I hate that.
Gloriana Elizondo So true! What I also find difficult, is that I'm often alone with my ideas, and need of exploration...as others often make other things ( studying or passive rest) a priority. Which is not wrong of them...it is just that I am the type of person who would like to share experiences with people. That is what gives me the most joy. But I just find myself alone. Do you guys have any tips on this?
i went to university straight after high school and then did a masters in my thirties. Completely different experience and i actually enjoyed university and learnt so much in comparison to studying when you are still in your teens!
I love your talking videos and it is inspiring also I enjoy watching your videos and i like to see a try on haul or makeup tutorials
Great video, Muchelle! :) And thank you for sharing the 16 Personalities test. It's the best personality test I've ever done. It surprised me how detailed and accurate the results are!
20 seconds in and I'm like yes I need this right now. I figured out something deep yesterday through journaling. That the reason I struggle with committing to what I want to do in life is bc I don't trust or love myself! So sad.
Journaling is great! I recently started doing it an it has made a big difference. I think we really do learn about ourselves that way
I'm an INFJ too! :P it actually made my day hearing you mention that personality test.. I was so obsessed with it mid last year
Also, would just like to add that you were the first youtuber that I've actually ever been drawn to listening to, so maybe that has something to do with our matching personality types haha
I ❤️ your videos. I look forward to each one and your messages are so encouraging.
Great advice :) thank you!
Awesome video, thanks for the tips! Was really useful, liked that. :)
I am a UA-camr too and your channel is nice because it's not like the normal channels out there. I strive to be different too and teach people to be the best they can be. Your channel does that for me. Thank you.
So helpful. Thank you :)
Thank you for this video!
I don't think there's enough great advice on things like this for people and it's so common. I'm constantly worrying about what to do with my life and I have a 6 month old daughter who's going to be looking up to me, I want to be able to show her to follow what she loves to do no matter what it is. If only I could find mine haha
loved this so much! very helpful! i'm an infj as well :)
Enjoying your videos thanks
you are a damn delight muchelle b.
back atcha, thanks so much for the love 💖
Totally agree with the do a work placement!
My husband was in and out of really crappy jobs and I mean really crappy jobs that barely payed anything (and it didn't help that he was one of those naughty boys in school) but he was offered a work placement as an admin for a charity and it really gave him some skills and a really big footprint into the admin job life. His work placement had ran it's course for 2 years and the charity didn't have enough money to be able to take him on but they did know a company that was willing to take him on for the 'next level' in admin as an aprentaship. He has just been there for just under a year and he has already climbed to the top of the ladder (next step is actually the boss). His boss also payed for driving lessons and the test fee, and is putting him through a course so he can gain his SIA badge for security. He has also said that if he doesn't know what he would do without him.
Ahhh this is so awesome! I know it's such an average suggestion, but I can honestly say that doing a traineeship was one of the best things I could have done for myself just to develop my skills and knowledge, and I've worked my way up by showing innovation in the workplace. I've done better for myself than I would have done if I went straight to uni.
this video popped up in my sub box at a pretty good time (although, really, is there ever a bad time to figure out your life because everyone is trying just the same, ahha) -- anyway thanks for making it and for the tips!
An important decision I made recently was to start my own UA-cam channel! You are actually one of my main inspirations :)
omg i am an INFJ too and I noticed a lot of my audience are similar LOL it's a thing
I have spent many years moving sideways... I started wanting to be a child speech therapist but the course fell through, so I took a gap year to figure shit out. Ended up working in a play centre whilst I was volunteering at youth centres etc. This led to an opportunity to apply for a youth service job, which I got. Worked that for a couple of years until government cutbacks meant we all had to re-think what we were doing, so I ended up in retail for a while before I came across a healthcare assistant role in mental health.
I did that for a couple of years but wanted to move up, so I applied for a nursing placement as I wanted to do wound care after seeing a district nurse patch up some serious self harm wounds... I got the placement but a couple of months in it wasn't working (trying to work full time to pay the bills whilst doing a full time nursing degree didn't fit) so I dropped out... went back to the drawing board...
Floated around in retail, then worked as a waitress, then did admin/stock management for a while... decided I wanted to still do something to help people and I came across project management/fundraiser roles working for a charity or non-profit. I was getting in touch with some old contacts for references, including my old youth service boss. He no longer worked in youth services either and was interested in what jobs I was going for.
I explained my situation and history, and he invited me for an interview as he ran a PR company with his wife. I started working as a bookkeeper but expanded my skillset so that I'm now writing a lot more. 2 years and 7 months later I'm handing over the bookkeeping so I can now focus more on writing and social media, as well as working with a fab team who believe in doing lots of work with charities for fun!
In my free time, I do a lot of 'playing' with new skills, such as aerial classes, adult cycling classes, yoga, running clubs, circuits, foraging, baking, martial arts, MMA, reading, hiking... Stay forever curious, you never know where it may lead or who you may meet along the way!
Can you make a video on how you edit/color your videos? They're so pretty!
I'm a fairly new subscriber and this video is so refreshing! I'm overwhelmed with my shit sandwich of a job and looking for a change. Ps Skillshare is the bomb :)
I really needed this right now, thank you thank you! Do you have a job other than youtube? I'm just wondering!
my main problem is i have a lot of different things that i enjoy and i cant pick between them- im studying film at uni so i want to make films, but i'd love to sing more, and i'd love to become a better drummer, and i enjoy writing poetry, modelling and cosplaying. im so lost!! hoping i figure out the best way to go soon. thanks for the vid x
I am an INTP-A, very rare female introverted alpha and I LOVE IT. The 5 types also nailed my INTP-A which is like...lolz yes!!!
Can't get over how accurate that test was I was laughing out loud reading it INFJ (training to be a Psychologist) :') do you think it's worth buying the E Book? Great content Muchelle x
Amazing video :) I'm currently working on my master's thesis and will be graduated soon in International Relations. I can't get an internship, and I keep sending resumes but I'm not sure what I want to do exactly because I lack experience, I'm young (23), and I feel like it's not exactly what I want to work in (it's also very difficult to get in this work field because you have to pass exams or you'll get an expert/analyst/writer position after a minimum of 5-10 years of professional experience...it's also kind of rare in France to work strictly in IR, it's usually linked with economics or law professions, which I don't have a formation in!). I finished school lectures two months ago and I manage to keep busy but I now I have to find a job after presenting my thesis in October because my parents won't be able to pay for my apartment and sustain my lifestyle for ever... In fact, I feel like I'm not bored because I do what I like right now without any responsibilities (except my master's thesis to write but it's not due until September) : I work out, travel, write, shop and I feel like I'd love to somehow turn that into a work but I don't know how and I feel like it's impossible (one of my childhood dream has always been to be a writer for instance, but I keep trying to write things and can't finish them, except my blog posts, because I don't have inspiration, or I feel like what I write is bad). It's also very hard to decide whether or not I want to work in the field of international relations, because it's what I thought I wanted to do since I was in high school, and it's the only thing I know. I have no real knowledge in economic or law, and absolutely none in marketing and things considered "useful" today. However I'm sick of being in school to be honest even though I'm 23, I was in a double degree course that allowed me to have a master's degree in IR + a bachelor from a UK university. I like to learn (I'm trying to be consistent with my MOOCs and my duolinguo practice to learn Russian, as you can see, I like challenges !) but I also want to get started with life if that makes sense. But back to my blog for instance, I've had it for almost a year and a half and even though I get really amazing feedback, it still has not "moved forward" despite me trying to collaborate with other bloggers and have a FB page etc.. My point is, I have wishes that I feel cannot be fulfilled even though I'm taking time and working on it. Anyway, I wanted to write a short comment to say I love those kind of videos because of my situation, and here I am, rambling ! Sorry ! But any tips, any support is welcome ! :') By the way, if you, who are reading this very, very long comment, want to check my blog: www.canvasofthoughts.wordpress.com :) Have a nice day !
I'm a INFJ-T with the 16 personality quiz I feel it fits pretty well
Rachael same! :)
Hi muchelleb great video as always. Now it's difficult time for me because I need to make a decision whom I want to become in the future. I try to take part in a different events. But there are so many injustice in my life and I don't know how to deal with it. I want to continue my doing I want to enjoy my life but I can't Sorry for saying you my problems.You are awesome. And wish you all the best
I've made the 16 personnalities test 3 times every 3 months and I always have INTJ!
You're such a goddess! Thank you! 💖💖💖
I've been trying to find a job ..looking online and locally..and it's so hard to find a job or internships for teens. I'm 17 and I just want to do something for this summer! maybe make some money but all the job finding sites you need money to pay for..or have to be 18 to sign up. 😫 it's so discouraging
Sitting here in the dark at night wondering about life feeling lost...
what was the traineeship you did?
i was an infj for the longest time but now i'm an infp! i mean i did find it cool that only 10% of american's were infj but i'm down with my new personality type :P
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what is your lip color? I need it in my life D:
Australis lip velour in Paree! :) xoxo My holy grail haha xo
i never wanted to do anything of value but if you do and have a hard time learning i heard you have to study then go back after you do something else while you subconcience brain processes it. Good luck
6w5 or 9w8??
What’s ISFPT
IM SO EARLYYY WHAT DO I EVEN SAY??
...... I LOVE CATS
If we want a more so called "professional" career we kinda hv to make just one choice cos we can only afford college once
What's your mbti
I was thinking this too!
I read on her Instagram INFJ
Hello Muchelle! I've been strugling with What i want to do with my life the last few months... I have a tourism degree, which was expensive and took me 3 years and lots of effort from my family, and now i think i hate What a do. Iam a recepcionist in a 4 star hotel in Lisbon, and after 2 months i decided to quit.. I am stuck and o feel Lost 😧
Adriana Carvalho omg I have a hospitality & Tourism degree too and I am currently working in a hotel at the front desk and it has literally made me hate waking up! Looking for a change!
Whitney Wilson i know right?? I thought i loved to work with people but now i wake up with no pacience to work. I dont know what to do... I feel so lost, and in Portugal is not easy to find nice jobs .
Adriana Carvalho I am right there with you. I'm in the states, but I feel like I wasted 4 years and $35k on a degree I hate now. It's depressing. BUT I'm trying to teach myself graphic design and social media management so I can become a web designer or freelance consultant!
Whitney Wilson, Thats What i wanted to do, but i didnt had place in those degrees. I love interior design, and i think i was made to work by myself. Hospitality schedules are killing meeeee!!!! 😥
Taking Michelle advice, i think i really need to focus on learning about myself. No joke, iam really thinking about getting a therapist to help me, since iam at a place when sometimes i cant even think! 😤