When I was 14 and on a flight alone, a middle aged man was seated next to me. I was wearing a jumper dress and he put his hand on my thigh. I froze bc I was young and didn’t know what to do. The stewardess immediately walked over and asked to speak with me. She grabbed my bag out of the overhead and walked me up to first class and sat me down. She let me fly first class for free just to keep me away from that creep.
Personally I don't think anyone under 18 should be on a flight unsupervised. That in itself is asking for all kinds of trouble. I've never been fond of the idea of kids roaming unattended for any reason
Ick, I'm sorry. Same happened to me on a cable car in San Fran. He put his hand on my bare leg,just the fingertips but I remember it clearly. I was frozen. He kept trying to get closer to me and I remember the look on his face. I was 9.🤮
I wish we knew how it ended.... This poor confused child, maybe her parents will see this and talk her into pressing charges if anything happened. Makes me sick.
@@jenniferwilliams9548 are she could be a victim of sex trafficking and her parents might see this and know their daughter is still alive and still have hope in finding her.
@@jack-gn4yl You are dense. He thought he was in trouble because his kid was next to a bar. Both you and the camera guy are creeps for assuming the worst.
I was 14 and was actually groped by a man on holiday when I was 14 and he was 35 with a wife and 3 children. It’s honestly disgusting 1 in 3 women have been either sexual harassed or assaulted.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I was molested at 10 years old by my so-called bff in front of everyone on the bus. My mind is fried forever. I have no sympathy for these creeps, but all the empathy for every victim. Take care of yourself.
The “dad” started to say 18, then realized that wouldn’t fly and decided to go the daughter route and said 16. He’s a predator. I hope he’s caught and that poor child is rescued
I caught that too! I was like nope there's no way this guy is her Dad he was about to lie about her age so it seemed like she was legal then he went with 16 instead. What a creep!
Wouldn’t the girl notice that and understand that the guy is creepy and has bad intentions? Why did she continue to follow him?? I don’t understand any of this. I hope she’s okay and safe.
@@torilan2672 To her this guy is a "magic man". Thier love is going to change the world. The fear you see is not of the predator, but the guy with the camera will keep them apart. She needs serious therapy. He needs serious jail time, not that it will help.
@@stevendeans4211 true, I think they’re in a relationship (with her consent, although the old guy could have groomed her into it), her facial expression when the guy with the camera came up to them was more like she’s annoyed about people questioning them when they’re together, and the old creepy guy was panicking cause he knew he would be caught. So many teenagers run away from home and get in relationships with older men not realizing that it’s wrong and that they’re being taken advantage of. It’s so sad, I hope she’s in a safer environment. (Ps : this is just what I think, idk what’s actually going on between them).
As a 41 year old woman, I want to tell all girls to never be afraid to be "rude." You do not have to be nice. If they won't leave you alone, call the cops, run and scream fire, do whatever you have to do. I wish someone had told me that when I was younger.
@@iThiink You need a taser or maybe pepper spray, heck even a gun. Anything to defend yourself there’s no shame in defending yourself. It’s better safe than sorry, You never know how these folks might act
I was 12 yrs old, at Disneyland with my family. And a Vietnamese man in his mid 30's or early 40's, followed me for hours, from one end of Disneyland to the other. His English wasn't good, so he couldn't really communicate much. Except to repeatedly say "Phone number?" I kept repeating "im 12". But the man was not deterred. Instead, he grabbed a mini umbrella souvenir I had been carrying, and took it. He wanted me to chase him for it. I just let him have it. In the end, my father had to chase him off, I got my mini umbrella back. But seriously... what are these men thinking?! I was a child! Disney Land is NOT a hunting ground 😠.
"I'm only 17." "Oh, well that's a good age." Uhm, 17 is a good age for getting a prom dress and a driver's license. NOT for getting into whatever that creeper had in mind. Glad she was smart enough to get away.
@@sprshb1852 I think it’s more about the fact that most people who say “16-17” is a “good age” to date are usually people well into their late 20’s early 30’s. It’s not about being an adult once you turn 18 it’s about grown men and women thinking that because you’re closer to 18 than to 14 that it’s okay to prey on you. Look at the whole Billie Eilish situation people waited years until she turned 17/18 to start making creepy comments about her. It’s weird to think that once someone is close too or is 18 that it’s okay to prey on them, it’s more or less just really weird. Most 20-21 years olds don’t want to date Highschoolers so why are grown ass men and women so quick to want to date a Highschooler?? It’s just really weird imo.
@@sprshb1852 I do agree with you, it's not like somebody snaps their fingers on your 18th birthday and you're suddenly an adult, you're still very much a kid. The frontal lobe of your brain doesn't even fully develop until your mid-twenties. In a weird way, it actually becomes worse at 18/19 because you're no longer underage, which is an easy out if someone is clearly being a creep. Suddenly it's "fair game" even though you haven't really changed. I would still tell people I was 17 when I wanted them to leave me alone because I could still reasonably pass for that a few years after.
Years ago, my hubby and I took my daughter and her friend to see a concert outside. They were both 13. Of course, they didn't want to sit with us on the lawn, so we let them take their blanket and move a little aways from us. Some old guy (to them anyway) about 30 or so started hitting on them. Before I could even get over to them, a man seated in front of them jumped up and loudly demanded the guy back off. I must have thanked him 10 times. The girls were scared then and moved right next to us. So many years ago, it was Meat Loaf, Bat out of Hell Tour. My daughter is now a mother of 2 and a high school calculus teacher.
Babies are in a hurry for independence but how wonderful is the bond and foundational love that they knew they could run right back under the protection of their parents
Yeah true these men are creeps. Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in March so is it fine? We are just 3 years apart in age and she just happened to be 18-19. I prefer girls within 3-4 years my age and would date any girl within 18 to 26 age range.
I am 18 and as a minor I got catcalled and once at a party there was a guy, who I just thought had a nice conversation with me, when in reality he was flirting with me and after he found out I was not 20 as he expected but 16 he just continued to flirt 🫠. Like why - I got uncomfortable and out of the situation, but also don’t get me started about guys on Snapchat 😂. As a minor I blocked them, even when they were just texting me my name 😂. So yeah girls, non binary minors and guys please beware of creeps on the internet 🫠😬
@Badussy Actually I am 22 and never had a girlfriend before so yeah unfortunately to avoid FOMO I have been asking out girls and so far got rejected by 6 girls. My most recent rejections were by 2 girls both of whom were in my school. One of them is 19 turning 20 in August whom I asked out last Sunday for a coffee and she agreed to meet me up one day. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month but she suddenly blocked me mysteriously 5 days ago. Today I tried asking out another one who is 20 with whom I had been chatting on Insta for over 3 weeks and she immediately blocked me after seeing the message. 2 days ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 4 months but she still didn't see or reply to my message yet as she isn't that active on Instagram. I hope she replies positively but I am worried because we were close friends when we were in elementary school and we didn't speak or meet in person since 2011 so idk whether she would be comfortable
@@manosijroy8282 relationships just cus you feel left out arent worth it trust. i did mamage to get into a relationship because i felt left out, and it didnt feel any better, and all i wanted to do was break up with them.
Straight up predator. He literally tries to get her to come to his secluded property under the guise of work. Thats the beginning of every true crime story and horror movie. Wow. Turn his ass in before he does kidnap someone. Thats just SCARY
I remember reading that Ted Bundy did something similar, he stopped and asked some girls to help him because he had a broken arm and that was how he lured some victims to his car...and we all know what happened to them.
Theres actually a real story like this. Some girl brought her fiance to help a man inquiring for help. I guess he didnt plan on the fiance to come with, so he immediately shot the fiance in the head and forced her into a storage unit on the property, he locked her in and would come in every now and then(use your imagination), I forgot how the police were led there, but when they did, bodycam footage showed him coming up to them completely normal, like an ordinary guy. Well, they found her alive, the fiances body was feound. Then they dug up a few other bodies who had fallen for the same crap.😔😔 I couldnt think of anything else but that story while watching that dude attempt to lure a 17 year old to his property. Despicable Disgusting
This is why many male family members and friends are so overprotective 👀. Young people do not need creepy adults coming on to them while they are innocently living their lives. Thank you to all the men who protect girls and women out there! ❤️🤗
I'm sure there was a serial killer who did exactly this, lured teenagers to his farm to work and then murdered the guy and tied up and abused the girl.
Everyday! All the time! The more a woman is outside the more it happens. Everytime a woman walks out the door she's avoiding and aware of moments like this.
I’m 14 years old and my best friend has gotten followed home by an old man and received texts from men asking her very creepy questions. This started happening when she was 11. Luckily she went to the police about all of this
The best thing about aging out is this sh t stops. Once they start calling you ma'am you've hit freedom from all annoying random creeps in public trying to beg you for a date
As a young woman, this shit happens ALL THE TIME. I can remember it since I was thirteen. Men, please don’t hesitate to step in and help get us out of these situations…
Remember to make a scene if needed. Most people are gonna be minding their business unless they hear that. Safety is more important then you feeling embarassed by it, you'll be surprised how much help you can get from us around when you do
I find it so messed up that at 14 I was cat called by more older men than I am now at 25. I even had a legit primary school teacher try to buy me a drink at my friends older sister birthday dinner. After I told him my age he still offered. We need to protect young people this shit is way to common
That was sick of him. Honestly I am a 22 year old guy and I wouldn't even date an 18 year old if she is still in high school because I am literally in last year of college so the 4 years difference would be too big but I would date an 18 year old if she is also a college student and closer to turning 19. Anyways I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 now turning 22 after 4 months via Instagram and I hope she replies positively and agrees to it as I really like her.
the worst realization about turning 18 is the fact that i can get stalked by a random person and it’ll be over looked because i’m an “adult” and society says it’s fine. i’m basically pleading:g my mom to get me a taser or pepper spray (old one i had expired rip) but she just laughs like, ?? i’m sorry, did you not tell me a story of how men tried to kidnap you more than me? and you’re completely nonchalant about it?
I think it was his attempt to make her feel bad for him an more willing to help out.. other sickos use fake casts, wheelchairs, anything to get "help" then turn on them when Noone is around. If she was thinking maybe (which clearly she wasnt) he could have thought mentioning his "messed up knee" could make her feel if something did happen I could just run away from him...
Absolutely. Read the Gift of Fear by Gavin deBecker. He talks about the different ruses men use to shift control in a situation but the main message is that if anyone ignores any form of no the first time, they do not respect your wants.
@@TwinMama09 Well I think some people are scared because if they get rude, a man (who is usually a lot bigger and stronger than these young girls) could easily get mad and injure them. I know for me, I wouldn’t be rude in fear that it angers the person and then they harm me in some way. Just thought I’d bring in another perspective!!!🥰
A guy did the same to me when I was about 15 but it was his back instead it was so creepy when he ask if I could come over and do Massage Therapy for him
I'm a teenaged boy and I have severe social anxiety when I go in public because of these types of people. That first girl handled that situation so well and if I was in her shoes, I'd probably have a panic attack or something.
This is actually terrifying. I had a similar event happen to me. So im 16 years old, i was waiting outside of a gas station while my mom was still inside the store buying some snacks and drinks. A man clearly drunk, i think in his mid 20s approached me and said i was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen. I tried to seem uninterested in the conversation and even told him my age. then my mom walked out of the store and saw the man talking to me. The stranger then asked my mom if he could marry me several times and every time he asked my mom, she said no. Luckily my mom was there to save me from the man and we walked to her car and drove away safely. I was so terrified. It really sucks that things like this happen so often.
I am so glad situations like this are getting recorded, it can spread more awareness on how to handle this situations and how to identify red flags coming from others.
I wish someone was able to record these situations when my friends and I were young. No one would believe the men who tried and sometimes (through force) succeeded. Dirty old men in that filthy village I grew up in 🤮
@@paddysgirl2098 Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear that happened to you and your friends. We've got to hope that whenever we witness something like this happen there will be people who will protect the victims and let the abuser get what they deserve
@@pimpkins0831 the police and social work didn't help us when we tried to expose the creeps, so all we've got left is the hope that karma will pacify our torment. Thank you for your kind words ✌️ ♥ 🏴
Probably not that weird if the person you started talking to was an adult and seemed to be interested in return I'd imagine it's probably ok to meet someone in a thrift store, library or amusement park.
In a thrift store and he trying to lure em with giving them work. Mans literally going for teenagers who are vulnerable financially (almost everyone thrifts now a days which is great but you know what his intentions is)
Many people that are hurting money go to thrift stores, trying to buy stuff for them and offering a job at that location probably isn’t a coincidence. He’s a predator, where they do it is part of the hunt.
When I was 13 I was in a pool on holiday and there was this man staring at me and I had no idea what he was saying aside from “puta” and making these weird faces, but thankfully my sister pulled me out of the swimming pool
@1:19 I agree with you. "17" should have been the deal breaker. BUT, after I got passed the PTSD of a molester grabbing my 17 y/o daughter's ass, in my home, longstory I will stop there. My ptsd occurred not when I threw him against the wall, or he ran away that night. But, when he came back pissed at me. I took the SOB to the ground, got tazed twice (dry stun), not only did it not release my grip, it pissed me off more. Long story short, they got me off the prick, arrested him.
@@noodlepoodlegirl same. I've had a fair share of run ins with creeps and I don't want my little sister or my nieces to go through any of it. Ya sound like one proud mama 😊
Don’t forget, it’s the government that facilitates the survival of these types of people. In early America, before the establishment of police, these people were taken out into the woods and shot, as they deserve
Yeah often times when women speak out about it, some men would either call them bitter because they aren't young and desired anymore, or make up excuses about how women mature faster so it's justifiable for an older man to pursue younger girls, so it's nice for a change seeing more guys who don't condone this behaviour in other men. I remember many stories of young underprivileged girls being preyed on by older men.
The one at the fair. You can see she's relieved that guy isn't leaving her alone with that creeper. An props to the guy for noticing something was up and stepped in to help her
That's the difference between a 14-year-old girl and 17-year-old girl. That 17-year-old knew she was in a situation where it is wrong, so she immediately started recording. The 14-year-old girl didn't know what to do, she was just quiet. No matter what age you are, stand up for yourself, because there aren't many people out there who will.
@@pandalol7118 Dude if you're a pedophile just say so stop going around all these comments saying she's old enough like wtf is wrong with you her brain still hasn't stopped developing you have no idea the psychology of underage kids.
The man in the second segment deserves our deepest respect and admiration. He may have saved that girl from trafficking, rape, and god knows what. I’m concerned that she went along with him initially, as though he whispered a threat in her ear. This vid needs to be sent to the local LE.
I don't know if he did save her because it looked like she was holding his hand and walking away with the man? What he did is awesome and admirable but you need to call the cops afterwards and not let her leave with this man she looked depressed!! I don't know what happened after the video but I pray someone called the cops !
"I don't know if he did save her because it looked like she was holding his hand and walking away with the man?" he could have told her...hold my hand and don't say a word or else I am going to hurt you and/or your family. Not all human trafficking is someone tied up and put in a trunk.
"Are you engaged to someone, or belong to someone?" That right there is all we need to know and the fact he persists even after he finds out shes a child, is so gross and creepy.
As a father of 3 daughters this scares the hell out of me. My wife and I constantly talk to our kids about situations like this and how to handle it. I wish the girl in the second video was forward enough to say “I don’t know him” or something else. Good on the man for protecting her.
I have three as well and I would as well always try and protect someone else’s child like my own. I have a good place for scumbags who try and pick up underage kids.
*@Jason.* Please show this video to your children and discuss the content with them, and share with other parents. I do not have a daughter, but I was trembling with anger while watching this.
We are working on this. The snakes have filled the well. It'll take time to clean this mess. They've networked in the dark for far too long. No more. Meanwhile we will stay aware of our surroundings and educate the children without fear mongering. Excuse me. I'll be adding to my list now. Love and appreciation. Truth is internal.
The way he took her hand and tried to start walking away with her made me want to cry. You can see how absolutely terrified she is. I’m so thankful for the guy who recorded the video.
I don't think she is terrified of the guy holding her hand. She's terrified of the guy with the camera... She know she's caught and I do believe she is aware of WHATEVER they are doing is illegal... TRUST...
@@tacodajones5379 I got close to the same vibe.....HER behaviour seemed off too.... if she felt terrified of the 'dad' guy- why did she stand there and start to walk off with him so willingly, when she had someone RIGHT THERE trying VERY hard to rescue her...??
She probably has no father figure and is looking for a substitute in a child predator. I know this story too well as I used to meet up with older guys online and hook up with them. I know it’s sad and disgusting, and I’m ashamed of it, but as I grew older now 35, I know I was looking for a father because my father wasn’t really a good one to me. Pray for this little girl, she may be in danger and wanting a father figure in her life.
He never got caught. He got his way with the child. And the parents couldv cared less. This little girl life has changed bc of her dumb poor excuse choices
i work at a take and bake pizza place. this guy, you could say he’s a regular, comes in pretty often and whenever i’m working he asks me if i’m in college EVERY TIME. everytime i say no and i say i’m younger than that but he always says “but you’ve told me you are in college” like sir, no i haven’t. if i had, you wouldn’t ask me if i was in college everytime you come in when i’m working.
I had a police detective come to our home looking for one of my dad’s tenants. He told me how pretty & wanted me to go out to dinner. I didn’t phase him at all. When I told him I was only 14. Their pigs too.
The fact that the first defense that dude went for was “she’s my daughter” just goes to show he knew how insanely young she was compared to him, that he thought he was old enough to be her father… sick fucks out there. Idk how these people don’t just bury them dudes out back, just let them walk off… unreal.
he address the elephant in the room, he is not obligated to ruin his own life over this mans actions - you get him arrested. Who cares if a predofyle calls you a rat, I'd rather be a rat than associated with such dirtbags . might be an award for it even
@@TheGuiltsOfUs The evidence ? He says she is 16 and him, 32, he would have be to be 16 when she was born, also, the first answer he gave isn't that he's his father, but that she's 16, and obviously she is younger. Not to mention she doesn't act like he's her father and he doesn't talk directly to her but whisper something to make her follow him.
Let me just advise ALL young girls... say very loudly "Leave me alone! I'm not interested and you're too old to be hitting on a minor!" Draw attention to the guy! Don't ever be afraid of getting as loud as possible. If I ever hear a young girl act like in public I will protect her and make sure she is safe!
100%. I think that scares them off most of the time. If you silently leave there's always a chance they may try again maybe more aggressively especially if its at night they'll circle back.
@@Kinobambino exactly! It draws attention to them and makes people remember their faces or small details about them. They definitely don't want that when trying to abduct someone.
This is very important. As a young girl, it’s hard to say no initially with confidence because of the fear of the predator getting mad or frustrated and becoming more aggressive, but I think practicing something to say beforehand if the situation ever comes up, women can be more prepared to defend themselves.
@@laurenhinrichs9084 it looks and seems crazy to practice in the mirror but I promise it works. I am 40 and do NOT like attention drawn to me ever, but I still practice in the mirror a few times a month. It helps to keep me vigilant and keeps me confident that I can do it IF I ever need to.
I was followed by an old guy walking home from a friends when I was 14, at first he kept driving past me and then slowed down to ask me for a ride. I just cut my eyes over and shook my head no, he started laughing and drove on. So I became spooked and started walking faster, there he is again facing towards me at a stoplight, he starts hanging out his window yelling something at me and at this point I'm scared. I take off running onto a side street and hide behind a tree on someones yard. Sure enough I see him creeping again looking for me but luckily he turns onto another street and I run all the way to my house. Never told my parents at the time because I knew they wouldn't let me out to walk again. I never saw the guy again either!
I’m 46. I don’t understand why men of my age find young girls attractive. A girl in her 20s looks like a child to me. This kind of shit gives us middle-age men a bad name.
Yeah true. I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and I prefer girls within 3-4 years my age in both directions so within 18 to 26 age range. Btw I really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in March so is it fine? Our age gap is only 3 years.
That little girl looks so scared and uncomfortable in that second video! I hope the police came! And I really hope there's a follow-up on that one! Glad you made him famous! That way maybe somebody can help that little girl
That kind of shite gets them off. They can’t have seckual experiences with adult women because they can’t satisfy them. So they prey on inexperienced children to feel like they are macho.
Some weirdos are out there. My ex had a family friend who basically had a family with his young, I mean very young daughters. He had kind of brainwashed them into thinking it was normal for a father to do things with them, and they’re supposed to do stuff back. Being very PG here but luckily he was caught and in prison now. Unfortunately his daughters will never been the same after what he put them through.
I’m glad that they recorded everything that was going on. Too many predators are getting out of hand. And mad respect for the man who stood up for the girl. Stay safe everyone. It’s getting too wicked out here if you know what I mean.
@@walkwithmeASMR I'm just saying they are getting too comfortable being around people under age is what I'm trying to say. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Just want people to stay safe and away from these kinds of people.
The 70s and 80s were when this shit was accepted. So much so people like Ted Nugent, Jimmy Page, and Steven Tyler were given permission by the girl's parents. Ted actually had custody of his young girlfriend, given by the parents. My friends and I wore that same expression the girl had, on our faces many many times. Pedos have - unfortunately - always been here and prevalent, we are just now seeing it more because of smartphone cameras. Hopefully the exposure, and strong empowered young females, will end it once and for all.
@@chippychin I don’t think it will ever end, there will always be older men who have a desire for young girls, the power dynamic that creates and a distorted sexual preference, simultaneously not giving a damn about any repercussions they might face if caught. We can teach our children best practices and still it’s not enough sometimes. I think applauding the people who “see something say something” like in this case is good. At the very least it’s clout, I don’t care what motivates it, preferably moral standing, but I want more people to call out sickos. It is socially acceptable to shame pedos for a reason.
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Listen up girls. Don’t be afraid to be “rude” towards creeps when they approach you in public. Sometimes a simple “you’re making me uncomfortable, I don’t want to talk” or “you’re in my bubble, leave me alone” is enough to get them to walk away. Creeps bank on the conversation appearing “normal” to onlookers. If there’s any semblance of reasonable doubt that they’re directly overstepping boundaries, a creep will justify creepy actions. Making it socially apparent that you’re deeply uncomfortable takes the power out of their arena. We’re conditioned to practice good manners towards people who strike up a conversation. Some of us might even fear further escalation if we show any hostility. Keep in mind that predatory people feed off your hesitation and discomfort. That’s why he’s unfazed by the uncomfortable social cues she’s giving off. Creeps like to see you squirm. Standing your ground, or even embarrassing them, takes all the fun out of it. Even if a creep escalates, you’re still better off, because at least you know what you’re dealing with.
I agree and the guy was a TOTAL CREEP and not blaming the girl but she could’ve walked away a bit BUT she kept the video going for content too if u see she looked over the same clothes over and over again🤔😅
@@xlxshax4163 The dude got into such a weird creepy glass eyed mode once he realized she wasn’t walking way. He decided to shoot his shot and try to get her alone and vulnerable in the most confounding way possible
Seriously this shit happens so much it's sickening. Since age 9 I've had old men trying to pick me up for sex and no one does anything about it because he didn't actually have the chance to hurt me. Like why wait for it to happen, he's fucking sexually harassing someone fucking lock him up!
@@jameswiggle Yes, and the guy was like in his 40's and my mom cursed him out. And when I was 13 and I reported to police about drunk men on the corner hitting on us they told us to just ignore it.
Ive always looked older than my age. Even now at 19 I get mistaken for being in my mid-late 20’s (I was always a lot taller for my age as a kid). I started getting approached by grown men at a similar age as you. A couple of times in my school uniform as well…
The last girl looks like she's maybe 13. I'm so happy that the guy recording it was trying to help her. I wonder what happened after that. I hope she's safe.
Yup, definitely not 16. He even changed her age from 18 to 16 when he realized that she legitimately looks like a child and that can’t be hidden. Fucking terrifying and I’m hoping that she’s okay.
This is part of what scares me about being a woman sometimes. While I don’t believe I’m conventionally attractive, that doesn’t mean that I can’t get approached (I have been approached online, but I don’t post photos, body dysmorphia oof). I’m always afraid that a person (man, woman, doesn’t matter, any gender can be a creep) while start stalking or acting creepy towards me, my female friends, or siblings.
Dude, you’re doing a huge service by bringing these sorts of things to light and condemning them. It enrages me that my mother, sister, aunt, grandmothers, female friends are under threat of being approached by some creep or, even worse, having a predator set his sights on them, every time they walk out the damn door. Until we guys start exposing and standing up against this crap, our women and girls are never going to have the safety, the freedom of movement that we enjoy and that they deserve just as much, simply by being human beings. Huge kudos to you.
I hate the guy no more than the next person, but women have been standing up against this behaviour for years. Sometimes too much; numerous men have been falsely accused of bad behaviour, largely out of racism.
@@ifaiful I agree that history has been cruel. False accusations based on race, gender, sexual orientation, etc, were commonplace - & so were real, yet unreported, attacks. But the only way things will change is if we raise it, own it, and lead by example - be the change we want to see. A couple of decades ago, I remember it being totally normal for a woman to be called every name under the sun for rejecting a guy and hurting his feelings. Now, we've had Me Too, Time's Up, BLM, and a real push for LGBTQ+ equality. It's up to all of us to seize that momentum and push change through so that we are *finally* equal - otherwise it'll never happen.
@@ifaiful I knew it would be just a matter of time before someone, usually a teenaged boy got on and said something about false accusations. Never fails.
My 14 yr old daughter gets grossed out when grown men look at her. Crazy part is she dresses pretty conservative compared to other girls at her high school. She has told those that try to talk to her that she is 14 and they respond "so, age is only a number" 😡. Luckly I wasn't around.
This is why at 30 I still dress conservative. Let me say when I was younger and not of age I had so many creeps try things while walking. It's gross and scary. This is why I'm uncomfortable even at 30 to wear a skirt when I want to look nice. Ugh.
"age is only a number"... "how many years you are missing after my dad gets here is only a number too, how many guys and gals he brings with him is also only a number"
@@hollowpistol2378 I’ve been approached by these monsters whilst wearing my school uniform. Trust me. These gross people just don’t care what you’re wearing.
The way he said "are you engaged? Or *belong* to anyone?" What the hell do you mean 'belong to anyone"?! That sentence was enough for me to be creeped out and would **immediately** leave!
A guy was hitting on me and he asked my age and the moment I said I am 17 he looked so disappointed. It’s so refreshing to find adults who care about your age.
I used to lie ab my age, saying i was a minor and was SHOCKED when that shit didnt work. Also, ladies, NEVER take gifts from men you barely know. They will use it as leverage against you
I hate that this is true. You can't be kind to people anymore because nobody but predators do anymore. It used to be tradition to bring apple pie to new neighbors.
I’ll take that gift and fuck off lol it’s a game and you gotta learn to play it If you don’t, then most definitely do not take gifts &/or money! A lot of Men like to think that they own your time after that
Thank God for the people who stand up for others in situations like this. Nobody deserves to go through any of this.. poor kid. What is wrong with people nowadays..?? There’s some sick people in our world, sadly..
@@purewater4057 I know what they were saying, but what's the point in bringing it up? Are you trying to argue against helping the girl out since 'she's not scared'? You don't have to 'act scared' to be scared. Even if she's not scared, *she's a little girl being groomed.* It's as if they were trying to say she 'consented', even though she doesn't have the ability to consent.
Correction: don't be like any of the guys we've seen today except for that HERO who called out the creep with the scared teenager. Everyone needs to be like him. You see something, you gotta say something!
Wrong. He should have continued filming and called the police. For all we know, he took her somewhere else and the guy never got what he deserved. If he called the police, they would have verified his story and if he was lying which we all assume he was, the police would have arrested him and the video would have been evidence used to convict him. It's not enough to be publicly shamed. They need to be stopped from ever doing it again. I just want to add that if anyone does this, don't let the guy walk away with the girl. Don't let the guy walk away at all.
Good on the teenager for having the awareness to film what was happening. Even if it’s not enough to get the guy arrested, his face is online everywhere and people know what he looks like.
So grateful for this guy watching out and actually standing up for this young girl. Although he doesn't know her, he knows that she is somebody's daughter! Love it!!
@HellCatQueen50 but isn’t there more of that videos bc it seems like something more was going on. Why was she leaving with him even tho it looks like his drunk and was trying to groom her?
@@sakitsubaki probably along the lines of she already got groomed and he's now manipulating her with stuff like "im going to hurt myself/someone if you leave me" or "you cant live without me" messed up but not uncommon and it really shows the length he was going by saying she was his daughter and then dragging her along with him and freaking out even more when the cops were going to get involved.
Back when I was 15 I was standing on the bus stop and this guy kept circling the block in a car (it took a couple of times for me to notice) and he was…playing with himself-a guy across the street at the other bus stop saw what the guy in the car was doing and on like the seventh trip around the block, the guy on the other bus stop ran up and sucker punched the pervert (who quickly drove away) and he missed his bus to make sure I safely got on mine. I’ll never forget that and I really appreciated what he did.
Good on him! I went to an all girls HS and exhibitionist ped*s would expose themselves on the block between the student-frequented bus stop and the school building. The fact that ppl get off on simply corrupting innocent minds is grooming behavior smh
To all the hot young girls: I live in the desert far from all civilization, and need nubile chicks to help me remove asbestos from some old buildings!!!!
The last guy having the audacity to grab the girl's hand to try to take her away with him even after being confronted is so terrifying yet infuriating to see
@MsDudette21 I don't think this one was all that clear cut and our "little angel" there , was about to make , willingly , the worst decision of her young life ! WAIT , before y'all maul me hear me out ! Just reading her body language and actions , I come to a different conclusion than those who say she "is terrified" . Yeah , of the hero possibly calling the cops or making a scene that would lead to her parents finding out what SHE is up to . Observe : 1. When hero walks up guy has her bracketed and pressed up against her....but she is not even flinching away , not to mention yelling or asking for help when there are literally dozens of people standing . 2. When she first turns around she does not look "terrified" or look like she was waiting for just this chance to make a break . 3. She still does not make break even though creep has back turned and is fully engaged with hero , OR 4. STILL NOT saying anything even while hearing hero accuse creep of the very thing we assume she needs help with ! (Remember , there are many people standing around) 5. She gives a sheepish grin at hero but STILL says nothing even though hero is now BETWEEN her and the creep who has walked off a couple steps . 6 Finally , creep tells her "c'mon let's get outta here , just say yer my daughter if asked"".... and takes her hand , which she accepts , then avoids eye contact with hero as she passes , and then when hero again confronts creep with calling police , she looks up with a look...."of terror"?..I think not . C'mon , she has repeatedly let every opportunity to " get help" pass by including Hero saying he'll call THE POLICE , and there STILL DOZENS of people right there , and probably hundreds more nearby ., in a public place , in broad daylight ! I would say her look is more like worry . Worry of discovery . Said all that to point out that she seems to know the creep already and is cozy and comfortable with him . That DOES NOT make you any less a CREEP , if the underage participant is willing , naive or infatuated with you . I think , in this 2nd case , that the girl is infatuated and probably flattered that the older guy is wanting her and she is making some really bad calls here , but doing so willingly . If you are a guy whom an underage girl is crushing on , you'd better nip that shit in the bud...and it is always the older person , THE ADULT'S responsibility to know right from wrong . Because it is STATUTORY RAPE no matter how "in love" the minor thinks she is ! Bottom line : She is being VERY FOOLISH and , he is being an OPPORTUNISTIC , PREDATORY , CREEP !
I've been in an abusive relationship and whenever I knew I was being taken home for punishment I got quiet too. I wouldn't speak up, because I learned if I did the punishment would be worse or last longer.
I had so many weird interactions like this growing up....I was so sheltered and innocent that I just thought these older dudes were being friendly or "fatherly". Now I realize how disgusting these guys were
Literally I used to just be nice a laugh everything off, my other girlfriends would look at me like I’m crazy. I don’t have any father figures or older brothers/ uncles, nothing. I didn’t know how to react .. lmao
It would take one hell of a good man to be friendly and fatherly in this situation one hell of a good man is not many of them left no more unfortunately
There was a serial killer who lured women onto his property to do work & kept them in a shipping container. He killed the first couple but the 2nd woman was rescued though her boyfriend was killed. Sounds like the first guy in this video was using his playbook. I think his name was Todd Kohlhepp if you're interested.
That makes my blood boil. I have a little girl, and the thought of a predator getting his hands on her like that is terrifying. Be the best father you can be to your daughters guys. You don't want her thinking she's gotta look for love from older men because you were a half ass father.
Wow, shout out to that man to actually did something about this, instead of acting like every other man and woman out there by "minding their own business". That was crazy... he thought he could take her out in public like it was okay...
Choosing to not protect another adult is one thing, but showing indifference towards a child being harassed is just plain evil. There’s literally no excuse for it. Anyone and everyone should be willing to risk their lives when it comes to child’s well being.
that first man gave me the chills that was horrifying. he definitely is a serial killer because no normal person says that to a teenage girl, what a disgusting creep.
This actually happened to my 14yr old daughter, about a month ago. We were at Walmart in the electronics department and needed help. There was a guy probably in his 20s flirting with my daughter right in front of me. I said do u realize my daughter is only 14yrs old. I was upset and left the store. Now if we go there my daughter avoid that electronic dept.
So you're driving and a guy that's in his 20s for talking to a girl that's closer in his age group than you are that doesn't seem very right of you he was only doing what came naturally to him he doesn't know exactly how they were is his right to talk to them and get to know this the point is you're stuck in today's society you have to realize if it wasn't for the things that happened in the past that gave you the right that you have now you can still be stuck in a society anywhere her age wouldn't matter especially if you live in another country right now where the age of consent is a lot different so don't take advantage of your privileges that you're giving in America... I'll give you an example right now I'm always in the fat ugly guy in my teenage years and my 20s I never got a chance to lose weight and get better looking so I can date really pretty girls and older I get the words it gets let's say I lose a couple hundred pounds a year from now and I start getting more attention from girls I might actually f****** attention from the girls in their teenage years because they'll start chasing me because they like older men.... You going to really kill me for that? Because you don't know what it was like for all my teenagers and twins that I wasted but I never got a chance to take good looking pretty girls in their late teens early 20.... You're going to look at me like a 30-something year old weirdo because I'm taking after girls that are around 18 or so or in the early 20s because I'm in my thirties because now I've lost a lot of weight but I have the confidence approach to younger looking girl are you going to tell me that my time is up I don't get a chance for redemption screw you lady
@@cacapeepee6711 she doesn't have to tell the guy anything with the guys right to approach a female and talk to her until you find out what age she is because he thinks that she's attractive there's nothing wrong with it you don't know until you ask
It's not just the electronic store mister. It's everywhere. It can happen at any place and any time. I'm 14 and I have been touched by my own father and now seeing comments saying, well now I know not to go there anymore, or stuff like that it really annoys me. It can happen at any place. Be mindful that you have a daughter. She will be targeted for the rest of her life. It's sad but it's true. All women are scared to go out bc of creeps like these men that are shown. Just protect you daughter at all cost. Not saying that you won't or that you don't but have your guard up. And if you have a son do the same with him bc he can be easily targeted like us girls/women.
This happens everyday. It's not flattering. Sometimes it's just scary because you don't know if the guy is going to turn on you and get pissed because you are turning them down. I've been in a position where the same man complimenting me one minute, turns red and goes on a barrage of insults the minute I say no thank you.
@@yourinnerlawyer4035 I’m that nigga 😂 Last chick who blanked me, I hated her from then on. That’s why I’m better off alone. I don’t wanna hurt anyone but damn it, why won’t anyone love me?
That little girl never jumped in once to say she was his daughter. So I'm pretty sure she was not. That's so crazy!! This man deserves a medal for keep a vigilant eye out and doing something about it.
Yeah I was like “sooo could it actually be his daughter?” Lol cause not gonna lie she does look like she could be and she’s so young you just wanna believe that’s what’s going on but then I realized if I was in her shoes and that was actually my parent I woulda said something right away and not looked so scared But the more I watch it the more I wonder. First of all the resemblance is uncanny. And while the guy taking the video claims he was “kissing up on her” I only saw his face close to hers I didn’t see any actual kissing. My daughter is only 4 and when she’s 10 years older I don’t see why I wouldn’t still hold her close to me whenever I can, he wasn’t touching her anywhere in the pelvic area, he simply had his arms around her so that makes me wonder. And furthermore it looks like they had been chilling there sorrounded by other people for a minute and it didn’t look like anyone had gotten any feeling that this man was with anyone else than his daughter, even when he was supposedly “kissing up on her” around dozens of people. All those things make me question it, possibly the man was with his daughter and didn’t know what was going on at first? Maybe he was serious that she was his daughter and maybe the girl didn’t know how to respond, we don’t know what the guy holding the camera looked like, it’s possible intimidation played a role. But then there’s all the counter points such as why would he clearly lie about his daughters age and look so nervous? Why didn’t he just immediately say “this is my daughter fuck off?” I thought maybe he was trying to consider that someone might not like how close he was to his daughter? But he seemed so guilty so I just doesn’t stand to reason. But then the way he grabbed her hand made me think wtf? That looked so natural for the way a father would grab his daughters hand and lead her off? My only conclusion is that this man and this girl have been seeing each other for a while, and are used to the father/daughter shtick in public, which is just sickening. At the end of the day if he was her father he would’ve been 10 times more adamant about it but it’s so clearly rehearsed it makes it almost believable
They look the same. Not sure if it was his daughter, but they DO look related. Where's the follow-up video? Why not post a follow-up? If there was a follow-up video of the guy being questioned by the police or even being arrested, there would be no doubt something wrong was going on here. But the fact there is no follow-up makes me think the author of the video just posted that part of the video to get clout.
@Andy Rick I'm saying this video proves absolutely nothing. Mainly because there is no follow-up. It could just be a male karen with a camera making baseless accusations.
In my teens I learned acting batshit insane is an excellent way to get left alone. One guy all I did was stare intently into his eyes and move my lips as if I was muttering something really fast. I never stopped or broke eye contact. Freaked him out so badly he laid rubber getting away from me 😂
I think fathers don’t fully understand this, but around the age 13/14, young girls get approached like this all the time. It’s highly inappropriate, it’s uncomfortable, it feels violating, and often unsafe. You are developing into a woman and older men take advantage of that and is it as a reason to act like it’s okay to approach you in this way.
As long as people realise that if they approach my daughter, whether they think they have her best interest in mind or not, and try to harass us about whether or not I'm kidnapping her they're going to get popped in the mouth for approaching my kid. That said, that dude was definitely not her dad. If it were it would have been the first thing out of his mouth and he would have been pissed at the accusation. Not scared of calling the cops.
@@mossy319 because they know they can't take advantage of you that easily when you're an adult. They choose to go for teenage girls because they're a lot easier for them to manipulate.
You're absolutely right! The second she said she was 17 a normal person would have said, "Nice to meet you, have a nice day" and left. That guy is obviously a predator and you can tell this isn't the first time he's done this.
He seems like a love bomber. A girl with less confidence would be taken by the compliment, would get her in the "country" and then he'd show her who he really is. I agree with him 100%. Nothing comes for free. She handled it like a boss!
@@magictrixster921 Just that you have the self-worth to circulate your opinion indicates that there is a "primer" of self-esteem upon which you can build. Keep in mind that the narcissist has no sense of "self" at all, just like an empty shell. Image is everything. That's why, ,just like a vampire, they see no psychic reflection in the mirror and they suck the "life" out of everyone to which they attach themselves. Be careful with whom you choose to associate and build yourself up where you belong.
When I was 15 years old I went out to a diner with my 16 year old friend who could drive. These 3 men in their 30s felt entitled enough to sit with us and offer to pay for our food. I literally got up and tried to get help from people in the diner and not a single person helped us. We eventually were able to make a run for it but I seriously appreciate when guys stand up for this. If a girl is obviously not interested please back off. We rarely will just give in.
When I was 14 and on a flight alone, a middle aged man was seated next to me. I was wearing a jumper dress and he put his hand on my thigh. I froze bc I was young and didn’t know what to do. The stewardess immediately walked over and asked to speak with me. She grabbed my bag out of the overhead and walked me up to first class and sat me down. She let me fly first class for free just to keep me away from that creep.
That’s horrible but also amazing on how well the stewardess responded.
Personally I don't think anyone under 18 should be on a flight unsupervised. That in itself is asking for all kinds of trouble. I've never been fond of the idea of kids roaming unattended for any reason
@@johnemmy3913 what do you mean by that?
Ick, I'm sorry. Same happened to me on a cable car in San Fran. He put his hand on my bare leg,just the fingertips but I remember it clearly. I was frozen. He kept trying to get closer to me and I remember the look on his face. I was 9.🤮
@@ExploitingKidsFor_Wifi and which part of the *ENGLISH* did you not understand????
That creep really attempted to leave with that child…. She looked no older than 13… that’s disgusting, he needs to be found and questioned
I wish we knew how it ended.... This poor confused child, maybe her parents will see this and talk her into pressing charges if anything happened. Makes me sick.
@@jenniferwilliams9548 are she could be a victim of sex trafficking and her parents might see this and know their daughter is still alive and still have hope in finding her.
THat girl needs safety. I am concerened.
@@ticketyblue3080 yeah me too, she looked scared and confused…
Damn she was about to walk off with him. She should’ve been asked is this you father?
I felt terrified for the young girl, especially at how easily he could have walked away with her had nobody stepped in.
lmao, that's cuz he's her father. The real creep is the camera guy.
@@Quantum_Cola you believe that chomo??? bro when asked for her age he said "18-16, shes 16" hes a fuckin pedo bro
@@jack-gn4yl nope, that's because they're next to a bar/alcohol. He thought he was in trouble because of that.
@@Quantum_Cola ...21 is the legal age for drinking. i'm just going to assume youre dense.
@@jack-gn4yl You are dense. He thought he was in trouble because his kid was next to a bar. Both you and the camera guy are creeps for assuming the worst.
I was 14 and was actually groped by a man on holiday when I was 14 and he was 35 with a wife and 3 children. It’s honestly disgusting 1 in 3 women have been either sexual harassed or assaulted.
It's more disgusting that people spread debunked statistics designed to create hate against men. You are literally spreading misinformation.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I was molested at 10 years old by my so-called bff in front of everyone on the bus. My mind is fried forever. I have no sympathy for these creeps, but all the empathy for every victim. Take care of yourself.
I don’t believe that stat because most of us don’t even report because what’s the point?
1 in 1 men have been physically assaulted by their parents, women, and other men. Think about that.
The “dad” started to say 18, then realized that wouldn’t fly and decided to go the daughter route and said 16. He’s a predator. I hope he’s caught and that poor child is rescued
I caught that too! I was like nope there's no way this guy is her Dad he was about to lie about her age so it seemed like she was legal then he went with 16 instead. What a creep!
I also caught that.
Wouldn’t the girl notice that and understand that the guy is creepy and has bad intentions? Why did she continue to follow him?? I don’t understand any of this. I hope she’s okay and safe.
@@torilan2672 To her this guy is a "magic man". Thier love is going to change the world. The fear you see is not of the predator, but the guy with the camera will keep them apart.
She needs serious therapy. He needs serious jail time, not that it will help.
@@stevendeans4211 true, I think they’re in a relationship (with her consent, although the old guy could have groomed her into it), her facial expression when the guy with the camera came up to them was more like she’s annoyed about people questioning them when they’re together, and the old creepy guy was panicking cause he knew he would be caught.
So many teenagers run away from home and get in relationships with older men not realizing that it’s wrong and that they’re being taken advantage of. It’s so sad, I hope she’s in a safer environment.
(Ps : this is just what I think, idk what’s actually going on between them).
As a 41 year old woman, I want to tell all girls to never be afraid to be "rude." You do not have to be nice. If they won't leave you alone, call the cops, run and scream fire, do whatever you have to do. I wish someone had told me that when I was younger.
I've been in a situation where I was rude and the guy threatened me, younger men get violent when rejected :/
Or pull out the 9 ;))
@@iThiink
You need a taser or maybe pepper spray, heck even a gun. Anything to defend yourself there’s no shame in defending yourself. It’s better safe than sorry, You never know how these folks might act
@@iThiink One my dates pulled out pepper spray just for fun...
The cops don’t do shit SIS. Being rude and ALSO giving out fake numbers gets US KILLED. Get real, treat men to not be creeps and condemn them.
This was my life between 13-17. It’s bringing back horrible memories & breaks my heart. I would never wish any girls go through this.
Hope your life is getting better. Thank you for speaking up ❤
I was 12 yrs old, at Disneyland with my family. And a Vietnamese man in his mid 30's or early 40's, followed me for hours, from one end of Disneyland to the other.
His English wasn't good, so he couldn't really communicate much. Except to repeatedly say "Phone number?"
I kept repeating "im 12".
But the man was not deterred. Instead, he grabbed a mini umbrella souvenir I had been carrying, and took it. He wanted me to chase him for it. I just let him have it.
In the end, my father had to chase him off, I got my mini umbrella back.
But seriously... what are these men thinking?! I was a child! Disney Land is NOT a hunting ground 😠.
me love you long time
Disney parks are a hunting ground for these weirdos
"I'm only 17."
"Oh, well that's a good age."
Uhm, 17 is a good age for getting a prom dress and a driver's license. NOT for getting into whatever that creeper had in mind. Glad she was smart enough to get away.
@@sprshb1852 it's just trend . You can't pick girl or boy who is going to be 18 in about 2 months but after 2 months you can lol. Society is dumb 🤣
@@sprshb1852 I think it’s more about the fact that most people who say “16-17” is a “good age” to date are usually people well into their late 20’s early 30’s. It’s not about being an adult once you turn 18 it’s about grown men and women thinking that because you’re closer to 18 than to 14 that it’s okay to prey on you. Look at the whole Billie Eilish situation people waited years until she turned 17/18 to start making creepy comments about her. It’s weird to think that once someone is close too or is 18 that it’s okay to prey on them, it’s more or less just really weird. Most 20-21 years olds don’t want to date Highschoolers so why are grown ass men and women so quick to want to date a Highschooler?? It’s just really weird imo.
@@sprshb1852 I do agree with you, it's not like somebody snaps their fingers on your 18th birthday and you're suddenly an adult, you're still very much a kid. The frontal lobe of your brain doesn't even fully develop until your mid-twenties.
In a weird way, it actually becomes worse at 18/19 because you're no longer underage, which is an easy out if someone is clearly being a creep. Suddenly it's "fair game" even though you haven't really changed. I would still tell people I was 17 when I wanted them to leave me alone because I could still reasonably pass for that a few years after.
@@AlyssaTaylor9 The chick I spoke with who was 18 was immature ,had some mental problems too.
@@sprshb1852 yeah I know right? I’ll be 18 in 2 years and I can’t believe I’m already gonna be an adult. I can’t see myself being an adult
Years ago, my hubby and I took my daughter and her friend to see a concert outside. They were both 13. Of course, they didn't want to sit with us on the lawn, so we let them take their blanket and move a little aways from us. Some old guy (to them anyway) about 30 or so started hitting on them. Before I could even get over to them, a man seated in front of them jumped up and loudly demanded the guy back off. I must have thanked him 10 times. The girls were scared then and moved right next to us. So many years ago, it was Meat Loaf, Bat out of Hell Tour. My daughter is now a mother of 2 and a high school calculus teacher.
Babies are in a hurry for independence but how wonderful is the bond and foundational love that they knew they could run right back under the protection of their parents
Anybody should of been able to tell they were clearly underaged.
RIP meatloaf
thats terrifying. gotta love meatloaf tho RIP
Your daughter married the 30 year old and had 2 kids by him?! That's crazy. Why would you let that happen?
I’m 19 and I still get uncomfortable when men are like this been happening since I was 11 its absolutely disgusting
Yeah true these men are creeps. Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in March so is it fine? We are just 3 years apart in age and she just happened to be 18-19. I prefer girls within 3-4 years my age and would date any girl within 18 to 26 age range.
I am 18 and as a minor I got catcalled and once at a party there was a guy, who I just thought had a nice conversation with me, when in reality he was flirting with me and after he found out I was not 20 as he expected but 16 he just continued to flirt 🫠. Like why - I got uncomfortable and out of the situation, but also don’t get me started about guys on Snapchat 😂. As a minor I blocked them, even when they were just texting me my name 😂.
So yeah girls, non binary minors and guys please beware of creeps on the internet 🫠😬
It’s so icky 🥴
@Badussy Actually I am 22 and never had a girlfriend before so yeah unfortunately to avoid FOMO I have been asking out girls and so far got rejected by 6 girls. My most recent rejections were by 2 girls both of whom were in my school. One of them is 19 turning 20 in August whom I asked out last Sunday for a coffee and she agreed to meet me up one day. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month but she suddenly blocked me mysteriously 5 days ago. Today I tried asking out another one who is 20 with whom I had been chatting on Insta for over 3 weeks and she immediately blocked me after seeing the message. 2 days ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 4 months but she still didn't see or reply to my message yet as she isn't that active on Instagram. I hope she replies positively but I am worried because we were close friends when we were in elementary school and we didn't speak or meet in person since 2011 so idk whether she would be comfortable
@@manosijroy8282 relationships just cus you feel left out arent worth it trust. i did mamage to get into a relationship because i felt left out, and it didnt feel any better, and all i wanted to do was break up with them.
I think the most unsettling thing about all this is that women /girls are supposed to "be nice" to guys who won't take no for an answer
and who the fuck ever said this
@@FullBeardSk8 men who won't go the fuck away
@@Melissa-jp8ps just talkin out your ass
@@FullBeardSk8 if you say so coomer
Straight up predator. He literally tries to get her to come to his secluded property under the guise of work. Thats the beginning of every true crime story and horror movie. Wow. Turn his ass in before he does kidnap someone. Thats just SCARY
I remember reading that Ted Bundy did something similar, he stopped and asked some girls to help him because he had a broken arm and that was how he lured some victims to his car...and we all know what happened to them.
I guarantee this man is already known to LE.
Theres actually a real story like this. Some girl brought her fiance to help a man inquiring for help. I guess he didnt plan on the fiance to come with, so he immediately shot the fiance in the head and forced her into a storage unit on the property, he locked her in and would come in every now and then(use your imagination), I forgot how the police were led there, but when they did, bodycam footage showed him coming up to them completely normal, like an ordinary guy. Well, they found her alive, the fiances body was feound. Then they dug up a few other bodies who had fallen for the same crap.😔😔 I couldnt think of anything else but that story while watching that dude attempt to lure a 17 year old to his property. Despicable Disgusting
@@saraev1119 I saw that story recently in a crime documentary.
@@saraev1119 omg!!! 😳🤯
Think of how many times this happens when it’s not recording. It’s absolutely disgusting. Be safe out there y’all
This is why many male family members and friends are so overprotective 👀. Young people do not need creepy adults coming on to them while they are innocently living their lives. Thank you to all the men who protect girls and women out there! ❤️🤗
Yep, wish we had cell phones back when I was growing up to film all the sleaze balls I put up with.
@@joan-lisa-smith me too
I'm sure there was a serial killer who did exactly this, lured teenagers to his farm to work and then murdered the guy and tied up and abused the girl.
Everyday! All the time! The more a woman is outside the more it happens. Everytime a woman walks out the door she's avoiding and aware of moments like this.
I’m 14 years old and my best friend has gotten followed home by an old man and received texts from men asking her very creepy questions. This started happening when she was 11. Luckily she went to the police about all of this
When I was just 9 years old I had a construction worker touch my chest while I was on the bus on the way home. I still feel angry till this day
That 17-year old handled it pretty well: started recording, stayed polite, didn’t give him the attention he clearly wanted. Good on her!
Ever hear of The Delphi murders? She got off a snapshot but as far as I know, they haven't caught him 😔
@@ennuiblue4295 no. Oh damn. What happened there, I would like to know the story.
@@ennuiblue4295 I thought they recently arrested someone in a new breakthrough.
Girls actually think telling them theyre under age or real young is gonna turn them off and not on more?? 😩
The best thing about aging out is this sh t stops. Once they start calling you ma'am you've hit freedom from all annoying random creeps in public trying to beg you for a date
As a young woman, this shit happens ALL THE TIME. I can remember it since I was thirteen. Men, please don’t hesitate to step in and help get us out of these situations…
Remember to make a scene if needed. Most people are gonna be minding their business unless they hear that. Safety is more important then you feeling embarassed by it, you'll be surprised how much help you can get from us around when you do
@James Bond lol imagine the guy she was recording was attractive
@James Bond wtf is wrong with you
@James Bond so little girls could be “hoes” according to you?
@@originaleslie Sounds weird but alot of these girls really do be going out there looking for older guys so clearly there needs to be more education.
I find it so messed up that at 14 I was cat called by more older men than I am now at 25. I even had a legit primary school teacher try to buy me a drink at my friends older sister birthday dinner. After I told him my age he still offered. We need to protect young people this shit is way to common
That was sick of him. Honestly I am a 22 year old guy and I wouldn't even date an 18 year old if she is still in high school because I am literally in last year of college so the 4 years difference would be too big but I would date an 18 year old if she is also a college student and closer to turning 19. Anyways I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 now turning 22 after 4 months via Instagram and I hope she replies positively and agrees to it as I really like her.
the worst realization about turning 18 is the fact that i can get stalked by a random person and it’ll be over looked because i’m an “adult” and society says it’s fine. i’m basically pleading:g my mom to get me a taser or pepper spray (old one i had expired rip) but she just laughs like, ?? i’m sorry, did you not tell me a story of how men tried to kidnap you more than me? and you’re completely nonchalant about it?
The "knee" conversation was to see how gullible she is or how programmed she is to be nice and make people feel comfortable.
I think it was his attempt to make her feel bad for him an more willing to help out.. other sickos use fake casts, wheelchairs, anything to get "help" then turn on them when Noone is around. If she was thinking maybe (which clearly she wasnt) he could have thought mentioning his "messed up knee" could make her feel if something did happen I could just run away from him...
Absolutely. Read the Gift of Fear by Gavin deBecker. He talks about the different ruses men use to shift control in a situation but the main message is that if anyone ignores any form of no the first time, they do not respect your wants.
Be weird be rude and stay alive. Never be afraid to tell some dude to stfu and leave you alone.
@@TwinMama09 Well I think some people are scared because if they get rude, a man (who is usually a lot bigger and stronger than these young girls) could easily get mad and injure them. I know for me, I wouldn’t be rude in fear that it angers the person and then they harm me in some way. Just thought I’d bring in another perspective!!!🥰
A guy did the same to me when I was about 15 but it was his back instead it was so creepy when he ask if I could come over and do Massage Therapy for him
"I'm only 17.."
"That's a good age to be"
actually disgusting
Well actually you are not a kid after you turb 10 soo..
@@pandalol7118 don’t even try to excuse this man 😭
@@pandalol7118 This is an 11 year old thinking he is an adult, can't even spell
@@Georgiz160 Comes from a 8 year old
@@pandalol7118 Listen, I dont wanna get into a debate. But you need to spell correctly. I dont want any trouble, let's brush this aside
The thing is... If you see a grown adult man with a young girl you can't tell if it's a father or a predator.
So if you're a man, don't spend time with your daughter.
Got it.
I'm a teenaged boy and I have severe social anxiety when I go in public because of these types of people. That first girl handled that situation so well and if I was in her shoes, I'd probably have a panic attack or something.
"I'm only 17."
"Oh, my bad. Have a good day."
The Good Ending
Then she turned 18 three weeks later, went out with him and they lived happily ever after.
These days, girls lie about their age. The way these girls developing nowadays, a 15 year old with a 21 year old body.
@@mikejohn29mj maybe its because we don't want to get harrassed?
@@robsyhood Meaning?
@@mikejohn29mj meaning stop being a creep and leave us alone.
Creep: "Are you engaged to someone?"
Girl: "No, I'm not.
Creep: "I'm not either!!"
Well, I guess that makes you a perfect match. 🤦♂️
yeh I think he thought he was in with a chance if they were both available. Unbelievable!
The guy's a creep
Even if the person was over the legal age, like who ask that? “Are you engaged to someone?” That is such a weird question 🤢
@@BraffWaffle right what the f*ck someone asked me that last night if I was engaged in my mind that’s none of your business lmao…
HAHAHAHA 🤣🤣
This is actually terrifying. I had a similar event happen to me. So im 16 years old, i was waiting outside of a gas station while my mom was still inside the store buying some snacks and drinks. A man clearly drunk, i think in his mid 20s approached me and said i was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen. I tried to seem uninterested in the conversation and even told him my age. then my mom walked out of the store and saw the man talking to me. The stranger then asked my mom if he could marry me several times and every time he asked my mom, she said no. Luckily my mom was there to save me from the man and we walked to her car and drove away safely. I was so terrified. It really sucks that things like this happen so often.
The 14 year old looks uncomfortable and doesn't know what to do
I am so glad situations like this are getting recorded, it can spread more awareness on how to handle this situations and how to identify red flags coming from others.
I wish someone was able to record these situations when my friends and I were young. No one would believe the men who tried and sometimes (through force) succeeded. Dirty old men in that filthy village I grew up in 🤮
@@paddysgirl2098 Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear that happened to you and your friends. We've got to hope that whenever we witness something like this happen there will be people who will protect the victims and let the abuser get what they deserve
As soon as he said "can I buy that for you" you pretty much know where this is going
@@pimpkins0831 the police and social work didn't help us when we tried to expose the creeps, so all we've got left is the hope that karma will pacify our torment. Thank you for your kind words ✌️ ♥ 🏴
Yess!!! 💜
He goes to scam on girls IN A THRIFT STORE. That's even worse than a public library or amusement park.
Probably not that weird if the person you started talking to was an adult and seemed to be interested in return I'd imagine it's probably ok to meet someone in a thrift store, library or amusement park.
Thrift store yes u can meet ppl there
In a thrift store and he trying to lure em with giving them work. Mans literally going for teenagers who are vulnerable financially (almost everyone thrifts now a days which is great but you know what his intentions is)
@@alayakow1037
Exactly, yikes!
Many people that are hurting money go to thrift stores, trying to buy stuff for them and offering a job at that location probably isn’t a coincidence. He’s a predator, where they do it is part of the hunt.
When I was 13 I was in a pool on holiday and there was this man staring at me and I had no idea what he was saying aside from “puta” and making these weird faces, but thankfully my sister pulled me out of the swimming pool
@1:19 I agree with you. "17" should have been the deal breaker. BUT, after I got passed the PTSD of a molester grabbing my 17 y/o daughter's ass, in my home, longstory I will stop there. My ptsd occurred not when I threw him against the wall, or he ran away that night. But, when he came back pissed at me. I took the SOB to the ground, got tazed twice (dry stun), not only did it not release my grip, it pissed me off more. Long story short, they got me off the prick, arrested him.
Sorry about your daughter.. sounds like you had restraint and could have done a lot more to the idiot. I can only imagine, you must have wanted blood.
The older I get, the more I wish I could protect everyone from people like these creeps.
Agreed. Maybe with it comes lots of exposure to creeps, maybe because I’m a mama of a BEAUTIFUL nine year old.
@@noodlepoodlegirl same. I've had a fair share of run ins with creeps and I don't want my little sister or my nieces to go through any of it. Ya sound like one proud mama 😊
Same here.
Don’t forget, it’s the government that facilitates the survival of these types of people. In early America, before the establishment of police, these people were taken out into the woods and shot, as they deserve
I just don’t understand how this is the world we live in. Or better yet I don’t get how this can live in our world.
I hugely appreciate the men that stand up for young girls like this
If I ever see this...I'll make sure they never do sum like that again 😀
Yeah often times when women speak out about it, some men would either call them bitter because they aren't young and desired anymore, or make up excuses about how women mature faster so it's justifiable for an older man to pursue younger girls, so it's nice for a change seeing more guys who don't condone this behaviour in other men. I remember many stories of young underprivileged girls being preyed on by older men.
Thank Sir got my Respect , for standing up for this little girl!!!!
I appreciate you that you appreciate it
Who’s the man trying to stand up for her? She should say go tell my daddy he’s right there!
The one at the fair. You can see she's relieved that guy isn't leaving her alone with that creeper. An props to the guy for noticing something was up and stepped in to help her
That girl was about to go with him too. Where tf are her parents ???
She's with one of them.
That guy is her father.
@@TheFirstGoomba I think that's the case too. Child Protective Services need to be called if so.
@@cameronl1859 Why? What was he doing wrong?
@@TheFirstGoomba You're trolling
@@cameronl1859Weak response.
That's the difference between a 14-year-old girl and 17-year-old girl. That 17-year-old knew she was in a situation where it is wrong, so she immediately started recording. The 14-year-old girl didn't know what to do, she was just quiet. No matter what age you are, stand up for yourself, because there aren't many people out there who will.
I have to tell ya there is huge maturity difference between 17 and 14 year olds
@@pandalol7118 As if this individuals does not know???
@@pandalol7118 Dude if you're a pedophile just say so stop going around all these comments saying she's old enough like wtf is wrong with you her brain still hasn't stopped developing you have no idea the psychology of underage kids.
@@pandalol7118 that is literally what the comment is about.
Some people just froze. Please dont blame it on them. It is how our brain works. Some people fight, some people flight, some people just froze.
The man in the second segment deserves our deepest respect and admiration. He may have saved that girl from trafficking, rape, and god knows what.
I’m concerned that she went along with him initially, as though he whispered a threat in her ear. This vid needs to be sent to the local LE.
I don't know if he did save her because it looked like she was holding his hand and walking away with the man? What he did is awesome and admirable but you need to call the cops afterwards and not let her leave with this man she looked depressed!! I don't know what happened after the video but I pray someone called the cops !
I really wish he had a follow up video because that creepy guy NEEDED to be investigated
"I don't know if he did save her because it looked like she was holding his hand and walking away with the man?"
he could have told her...hold my hand and don't say a word or else I am going to hurt you and/or your family. Not all human trafficking is someone tied up and put in a trunk.
That girl is his slave. Hopefully that creep gets caught for real soon. That girl in the video is already broken. You can see it
No she’s just young and does t understand and wants to go with him. He probably just told her “pretend ur my daughter”
Damn, we can't even exist in peace. 😡
"Are you engaged to someone, or belong to someone?"
That right there is all we need to know and the fact he persists even after he finds out shes a child, is so gross and creepy.
As a father of 3 daughters this scares the hell out of me. My wife and I constantly talk to our kids about situations like this and how to handle it. I wish the girl in the second video was forward enough to say “I don’t know him” or something else. Good on the man for protecting her.
i think the girl was getting groomed
I have three as well and I would as well always try and protect someone else’s child like my own. I have a good place for scumbags who try and pick up underage kids.
*@Jason.* Please show this video to your children and discuss the content with them, and share with other parents.
I do not have a daughter, but I was trembling with anger while watching this.
We are working on this. The snakes have filled the well. It'll take time to clean this mess. They've networked in the dark for far too long. No more.
Meanwhile we will stay aware of our surroundings and educate the children without fear mongering. Excuse me. I'll be adding to my list now.
Love and appreciation. Truth is internal.
odds are at least one of your daughters will have a brown baby
The way he took her hand and tried to start walking away with her made me want to cry. You can see how absolutely terrified she is. I’m so thankful for the guy who recorded the video.
Where’s the girls parents doe?!. lol.😭😭.
I don't think she is terrified of the guy holding her hand. She's terrified of the guy with the camera... She know she's caught and I do believe she is aware of WHATEVER they are doing is illegal... TRUST...
@@tacodajones5379 I got close to the same vibe.....HER behaviour seemed off too.... if she felt terrified of the 'dad' guy- why did she stand there and start to walk off with him so willingly, when she had someone RIGHT THERE trying VERY hard to rescue her...??
She probably has no father figure and is looking for a substitute in a child predator. I know this story too well as I used to meet up with older guys online and hook up with them. I know it’s sad and disgusting, and I’m ashamed of it, but as I grew older now 35, I know I was looking for a father because my father wasn’t really a good one to me. Pray for this little girl, she may be in danger and wanting a father figure in her life.
He never got caught. He got his way with the child. And the parents couldv cared less. This little girl life has changed bc of her dumb poor excuse choices
i work at a take and bake pizza place. this guy, you could say he’s a regular, comes in pretty often and whenever i’m working he asks me if i’m in college EVERY TIME. everytime i say no and i say i’m younger than that but he always says “but you’ve told me you are in college” like sir, no i haven’t. if i had, you wouldn’t ask me if i was in college everytime you come in when i’m working.
I had a police detective come to our home looking for one of my dad’s tenants. He told me how pretty & wanted me to go out to dinner. I didn’t phase him at all. When I told him I was only 14. Their pigs too.
The fact that the first defense that dude went for was “she’s my daughter” just goes to show he knew how insanely young she was compared to him, that he thought he was old enough to be her father… sick fucks out there. Idk how these people don’t just bury them dudes out back, just let them walk off… unreal.
he address the elephant in the room, he is not obligated to ruin his own life over this mans actions - you get him arrested.
Who cares if a predofyle calls you a rat, I'd rather be a rat than associated with such dirtbags . might be an award for it even
@@Pressplay_Media_EU Yeah when it comes to kids being abused. It is okay to snitch on pedophiles.
Where is the evidence?
@@TheGuiltsOfUs evidence of what, exactly?
@@TheGuiltsOfUs
The evidence ?
He says she is 16 and him, 32, he would have be to be 16 when she was born, also, the first answer he gave isn't that he's his father, but that she's 16, and obviously she is younger.
Not to mention she doesn't act like he's her father and he doesn't talk directly to her but whisper something to make her follow him.
Let me just advise ALL young girls... say very loudly "Leave me alone! I'm not interested and you're too old to be hitting on a minor!" Draw attention to the guy! Don't ever be afraid of getting as loud as possible. If I ever hear a young girl act like in public I will protect her and make sure she is safe!
100%. I think that scares them off most of the time. If you silently leave there's always a chance they may try again maybe more aggressively especially if its at night they'll circle back.
@@Kinobambino exactly! It draws attention to them and makes people remember their faces or small details about them. They definitely don't want that when trying to abduct someone.
This is very important. As a young girl, it’s hard to say no initially with confidence because of the fear of the predator getting mad or frustrated and becoming more aggressive, but I think practicing something to say beforehand if the situation ever comes up, women can be more prepared to defend themselves.
@@laurenhinrichs9084 it looks and seems crazy to practice in the mirror but I promise it works. I am 40 and do NOT like attention drawn to me ever, but I still practice in the mirror a few times a month. It helps to keep me vigilant and keeps me confident that I can do it IF I ever need to.
I was followed by an old guy walking home from a friends when I was 14, at first he kept driving past me and then slowed down to ask me for a ride. I just cut my eyes over and shook my head no, he started laughing and drove on. So I became spooked and started walking faster, there he is again facing towards me at a stoplight, he starts hanging out his window yelling something at me and at this point I'm scared. I take off running onto a side street and hide behind a tree on someones yard. Sure enough I see him creeping again looking for me but luckily he turns onto another street and I run all the way to my house. Never told my parents at the time because I knew they wouldn't let me out to walk again. I never saw the guy again either!
I’m 46. I don’t understand why men of my age find young girls attractive. A girl in her 20s looks like a child to me. This kind of shit gives us middle-age men a bad name.
Yeah true. I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and I prefer girls within 3-4 years my age in both directions so within 18 to 26 age range. Btw I really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in March so is it fine? Our age gap is only 3 years.
@@manosijroy8282 Hey man! Of course it's fine!
Are you kidding? Ask her out!
@@manosijroy8282 Of course it is fine! My wife is 5 years older than me. I'm 46 and she is going to be 51 soon.
That little girl looks so scared and uncomfortable in that second video! I hope the police came! And I really hope there's a follow-up on that one! Glad you made him famous! That way maybe somebody can help that little girl
She is obviously uncomfortable and dude just doesn't gaf. Pitiful.
That kind of shite gets them off. They can’t have seckual experiences with adult women because they can’t satisfy them. So they prey on inexperienced children to feel like they are macho.
@@KurosakiLuvar01 you aren't wrong. Disgusting.
@@SuzanneDeniseB sounds like your for fathers lol
If that was truly her dad then she woulda stepped up and said so. That poor girl looks so uncomfortable and scared.
She’s gripping onto that rail for dear life.
Some weirdos are out there. My ex had a family friend who basically had a family with his young, I mean very young daughters. He had kind of brainwashed them into thinking it was normal for a father to do things with them, and they’re supposed to do stuff back. Being very PG here but luckily he was caught and in prison now. Unfortunately his daughters will never been the same after what he put them through.
@@MrZachgonz Jesus fucking Christ.
I would’ve been like “hey sir, it’s ok, he really is my dad :)) thank you for the concern tho” but she didn’t
The man would’ve also been like “hey stop filming my daughter or I’m gonna have to get the authorities involved”
So proud of that man he did the right thing. So many just walk by without saying anything.
Thank the gods for people like the guy filming at the end. That little girl looks so terrified.
I’m glad that they recorded everything that was going on. Too many predators are getting out of hand. And mad respect for the man who stood up for the girl. Stay safe everyone. It’s getting too wicked out here if you know what I mean.
What do you mean its getting out of hand?? Like is 100 time better than it was in the 90s and 2000s.
@@walkwithmeASMR I'm just saying they are getting too comfortable being around people under age is what I'm trying to say. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Just want people to stay safe and away from these kinds of people.
The 70s and 80s were when this shit was accepted. So much so people like Ted Nugent, Jimmy Page, and Steven Tyler were given permission by the girl's parents. Ted actually had custody of his young girlfriend, given by the parents. My friends and I wore that same expression the girl had, on our faces many many times. Pedos have - unfortunately - always been here and prevalent, we are just now seeing it more because of smartphone cameras. Hopefully the exposure, and strong empowered young females, will end it once and for all.
@@chippychin I don’t think it will ever end, there will always be older men who have a desire for young girls, the power dynamic that creates and a distorted sexual preference, simultaneously not giving a damn about any repercussions they might face if caught. We can teach our children best practices and still it’s not enough sometimes. I think applauding the people who “see something say something” like in this case is good. At the very least it’s clout, I don’t care what motivates it, preferably moral standing, but I want more people to call out sickos. It is socially acceptable to shame pedos for a reason.
Sin leads to hell, keep focused, the devil is on earth to destroy your soul. But God wants to give you everlasting Joy. But our sin is keeping this from happening. You must stop sinning and turn to Jesus Christ he is your only hope.
He can save you from eternal suffering under the Earth, where hell is hot..
Not everyone who calls me their Lord will get into the kingdom of heaven. Only the ones who obey my Father in heaven will get in.
Matthew 7:21.....
Listen up girls. Don’t be afraid to be “rude” towards creeps when they approach you in public. Sometimes a simple “you’re making me uncomfortable, I don’t want to talk” or “you’re in my bubble, leave me alone” is enough to get them to walk away. Creeps bank on the conversation appearing “normal” to onlookers. If there’s any semblance of reasonable doubt that they’re directly overstepping boundaries, a creep will justify creepy actions. Making it socially apparent that you’re deeply uncomfortable takes the power out of their arena. We’re conditioned to practice good manners towards people who strike up a conversation. Some of us might even fear further escalation if we show any hostility. Keep in mind that predatory people feed off your hesitation and discomfort. That’s why he’s unfazed by the uncomfortable social cues she’s giving off. Creeps like to see you squirm. Standing your ground, or even embarrassing them, takes all the fun out of it. Even if a creep escalates, you’re still better off, because at least you know what you’re dealing with.
That's a good advice in public places but very bad one when you're alone with a creep
I agree and the guy was a TOTAL CREEP and not blaming the girl but she could’ve walked away a bit BUT she kept the video going for content too if u see she looked over the same clothes over and over again🤔😅
@@Garvin285 I think a simple “no” always goes a long way… with the exception of coercive frat boys targeting girls who are pre-passed-out 😵💫
@@xlxshax4163 The dude got into such a weird creepy glass eyed mode once he realized she wasn’t walking way. He decided to shoot his shot and try to get her alone and vulnerable in the most confounding way possible
@@xlxshax4163 Are you saying the predator would have respected her consent and let her walk away unimpeded?
Child predators don't deserve prison.💀
You deserve way more subscribers. Your commentary is hilarious every step of the way 😂
I was thinking the same thing 😭😂😂
Seriously this shit happens so much it's sickening. Since age 9 I've had old men trying to pick me up for sex and no one does anything about it because he didn't actually have the chance to hurt me. Like why wait for it to happen, he's fucking sexually harassing someone fucking lock him up!
WHAT
at age 9? goddamn
@@jameswiggle Yes, and the guy was like in his 40's and my mom cursed him out. And when I was 13 and I reported to police about drunk men on the corner hitting on us they told us to just ignore it.
Same it is so gross ☹️
Ive always looked older than my age. Even now at 19 I get mistaken for being in my mid-late 20’s (I was always a lot taller for my age as a kid). I started getting approached by grown men at a similar age as you. A couple of times in my school uniform as well…
The last girl looks like she's maybe 13. I'm so happy that the guy recording it was trying to help her. I wonder what happened after that. I hope she's safe.
ikr... she looked like she was on the brink of tears and smiled uncomfortably
Yup, definitely not 16. He even changed her age from 18 to 16 when he realized that she legitimately looks like a child and that can’t be hidden. Fucking terrifying and I’m hoping that she’s okay.
@@Aurora-rw9lp i sincerely HOPE that guy held them there and called the police.
She was looking to get fked
@@Digger-Nick even if she was it don’t matter. she cannot consent
"I'm looking for someone to help me..." sounds kind of like "hi little girl, can you help me look for my lost puppy"
This is part of what scares me about being a woman sometimes. While I don’t believe I’m conventionally attractive, that doesn’t mean that I can’t get approached (I have been approached online, but I don’t post photos, body dysmorphia oof). I’m always afraid that a person (man, woman, doesn’t matter, any gender can be a creep) while start stalking or acting creepy towards me, my female friends, or siblings.
Woman are pathetic and weak ^
Dude, you’re doing a huge service by bringing these sorts of things to light and condemning them. It enrages me that my mother, sister, aunt, grandmothers, female friends are under threat of being approached by some creep or, even worse, having a predator set his sights on them, every time they walk out the damn door. Until we guys start exposing and standing up against this crap, our women and girls are never going to have the safety, the freedom of movement that we enjoy and that they deserve just as much, simply by being human beings. Huge kudos to you.
im glad that we have guys like you who are defending women! it's great having your support
I hate the guy no more than the next person, but women have been standing up against this behaviour for years. Sometimes too much; numerous men have been falsely accused of bad behaviour, largely out of racism.
@@ifaiful I agree that history has been cruel. False accusations based on race, gender, sexual orientation, etc, were commonplace - & so were real, yet unreported, attacks.
But the only way things will change is if we raise it, own it, and lead by example - be the change we want to see. A couple of decades ago, I remember it being totally normal for a woman to be called every name under the sun for rejecting a guy and hurting his feelings. Now, we've had Me Too, Time's Up, BLM, and a real push for LGBTQ+ equality. It's up to all of us to seize that momentum and push change through so that we are *finally* equal - otherwise it'll never happen.
@@ifaiful i agree, there have been some women who take it too far ans its good that we call them out too so they can learn from it
@@ifaiful I knew it would be just a matter of time before someone, usually a teenaged boy got on and said something about false accusations. Never fails.
My 14 yr old daughter gets grossed out when grown men look at her. Crazy part is she dresses pretty conservative compared to other girls at her high school. She has told those that try to talk to her that she is 14 and they respond "so, age is only a number" 😡. Luckly I wasn't around.
This is why at 30 I still dress conservative. Let me say when I was younger and not of age I had so many creeps try things while walking. It's gross and scary. This is why I'm uncomfortable even at 30 to wear a skirt when I want to look nice. Ugh.
"age is only a number"... "how many years you are missing after my dad gets here is only a number too, how many guys and gals he brings with him is also only a number"
@@hollowpistol2378 I’ve been approached by these monsters whilst wearing my school uniform. Trust me. These gross people just don’t care what you’re wearing.
I don't think young girls know that song now days.
Men aren't even allowed to look at her? lol
The way he said "are you engaged? Or *belong* to anyone?" What the hell do you mean 'belong to anyone"?! That sentence was enough for me to be creeped out and would **immediately** leave!
A guy was hitting on me and he asked my age and the moment I said I am 17 he looked so disappointed. It’s so refreshing to find adults who care about your age.
he was a decent man then :)
yes!🥰Cause many of them don't.😔b careful.
Wish there was more people like this lol
i wouldn't care, 17 is a perfect age
@@jeanivanjohnson disgusting
I used to lie ab my age, saying i was a minor and was SHOCKED when that shit didnt work. Also, ladies, NEVER take gifts from men you barely know. They will use it as leverage against you
I hate that this is true. You can't be kind to people anymore because nobody but predators do anymore. It used to be tradition to bring apple pie to new neighbors.
I’ll take that gift and fuck off lol it’s a game and you gotta learn to play it
If you don’t, then most definitely do not take gifts &/or money! A lot of Men like to think that they own your time after that
Thank God for the people who stand up for others in situations like this. Nobody deserves to go through any of this.. poor kid. What is wrong with people nowadays..?? There’s some sick people in our world, sadly..
Based upon his persistence, he's definitely done this before, and it probably even WORKED...
If that was her dad the girl wouldve said “that’s my dad”. She looked so frozen in fear
She is not frozen. You cannot speak if you are frozen. She did not look like she was in fear at all.
@@vshah1010 What are you trying to say?
@@vshah1010 yes she was in fear and she was scared what are you talking about you sound like a creep
@@kouros158 She was afraid of the camera, not the guy.
@@purewater4057 I know what they were saying, but what's the point in bringing it up? Are you trying to argue against helping the girl out since 'she's not scared'? You don't have to 'act scared' to be scared. Even if she's not scared, *she's a little girl being groomed.* It's as if they were trying to say she 'consented', even though she doesn't have the ability to consent.
Correction: don't be like any of the guys we've seen today except for that HERO who called out the creep with the scared teenager. Everyone needs to be like him. You see something, you gotta say something!
Wrong. He should have continued filming and called the police. For all we know, he took her somewhere else and the guy never got what he deserved. If he called the police, they would have verified his story and if he was lying which we all assume he was, the police would have arrested him and the video would have been evidence used to convict him. It's not enough to be publicly shamed. They need to be stopped from ever doing it again.
I just want to add that if anyone does this, don't let the guy walk away with the girl. Don't let the guy walk away at all.
@@rayl3103 that's what I was thinking. He took her by the hand and walked off with her. Very disturbing
Creep ? How is he a creep ? There is nothing wrong in picking up young women .
Paradox - that girl was more afraid of "hero" that men who flirt with her. Cool of bro!
Wrong
Good on the teenager for having the awareness to film what was happening. Even if it’s not enough to get the guy arrested, his face is online everywhere and people know what he looks like.
So grateful for this guy watching out and actually standing up for this young girl. Although he doesn't know her, he knows that she is somebody's daughter! Love it!!
That looks like it might be in West Hollywood, Ca.
"Somebody" other than this dude
@HellCatQueen50 but isn’t there more of that videos bc it seems like something more was going on. Why was she leaving with him even tho it looks like his drunk and was trying to groom her?
@@sakitsubaki probably along the lines of she already got groomed and he's now manipulating her with stuff like "im going to hurt myself/someone if you leave me" or "you cant live without me" messed up but not uncommon and it really shows the length he was going by saying she was his daughter and then dragging her along with him and freaking out even more when the cops were going to get involved.
As a girl I'm horrified of white people
Back when I was 15 I was standing on the bus stop and this guy kept circling the block in a car (it took a couple of times for me to notice) and he was…playing with himself-a guy across the street at the other bus stop saw what the guy in the car was doing and on like the seventh trip around the block, the guy on the other bus stop ran up and sucker punched the pervert (who quickly drove away) and he missed his bus to make sure I safely got on mine. I’ll never forget that and I really appreciated what he did.
Glad you were safe! I almost got kidnapped by two men at the mall when I was 12.
@@teeciewalk OMG 😳 thank you and I’m glad you’re here now ❤️
@@EmpressChernobyl thank you 💕
Good on him! I went to an all girls HS and exhibitionist ped*s would expose themselves on the block between the student-frequented bus stop and the school building. The fact that ppl get off on simply corrupting innocent minds is grooming behavior smh
@@teeciewalk so did I and my friend many years ago when I was a kid. We were both around 7yrs old at the time.
When I was 14, two men tried to carry me out the back of a thrift store. My mom heard me screaming and came at them with all she had.
if a stranger touches you in any way you find improper, scream as loud as you can
"I live out in the country." He is trying to kill her.
to be fair I spoke to a girl, who I was starting to get worried that she was that age, and in the end it turned out she was older than me, over 30
@@ItsameAlex Sup girl?
To all the hot young girls: I live in the desert far from all civilization, and need nubile chicks to help me remove asbestos from some old buildings!!!!
@@worsethanhitlerpt.2539 disgusting
@@worsethanhitlerpt.2539 um what? Excuse me?
The last guy having the audacity to grab the girl's hand to try to take her away with him even after being confronted is so terrifying yet infuriating to see
and she was walking away with him too. she looked fuckin terrified. I wonder what the context is. had he kidnapped her or something?
@MsDudette21 I don't think this one was all that clear cut and our "little angel" there , was about to make , willingly , the worst decision of her young life ! WAIT , before y'all maul me hear me out ! Just reading her body language and actions , I come to a different conclusion than those who say she "is terrified" . Yeah , of the hero possibly calling the cops or making a scene that would lead to her parents finding out what SHE is up to . Observe : 1. When hero walks up guy has her bracketed and pressed up against her....but she is not even flinching away , not to mention yelling or asking for help when there are literally dozens of people standing . 2. When she first turns around she does not look "terrified" or look like she was waiting for just this chance to make a break . 3. She still does not make break even though creep has back turned and is fully engaged with hero , OR 4. STILL NOT saying anything even while hearing hero accuse creep of the very thing we assume she needs help with ! (Remember , there are many people standing around) 5. She gives a sheepish grin at hero but STILL says nothing even though hero is now BETWEEN her and the creep who has walked off a couple steps . 6 Finally , creep tells her "c'mon let's get outta here , just say yer my daughter if asked"".... and takes her hand , which she accepts , then avoids eye contact with hero as she passes , and then when hero again confronts creep with calling police , she looks up with a look...."of terror"?..I think not . C'mon , she has repeatedly let every opportunity to " get help" pass by including Hero saying he'll call THE POLICE , and there STILL DOZENS of people right there , and probably hundreds more nearby ., in a public place , in broad daylight ! I would say her look is more like worry . Worry of discovery .
Said all that to point out that she seems to know the creep already and is cozy and comfortable with him . That DOES NOT make you any less a CREEP , if the underage participant is willing , naive or infatuated with you . I think , in this 2nd case , that the girl is infatuated and probably flattered that the older guy is wanting her and she is making some really bad calls here , but doing so willingly .
If you are a guy whom an underage girl is crushing on , you'd better nip that shit in the bud...and it is always the older person , THE ADULT'S responsibility to know right from wrong . Because it is STATUTORY RAPE no matter how "in love" the minor thinks she is !
Bottom line : She is being VERY FOOLISH and , he is being an OPPORTUNISTIC , PREDATORY , CREEP !
I've been in an abusive relationship and whenever I knew I was being taken home for punishment I got quiet too. I wouldn't speak up, because I learned if I did the punishment would be worse or last longer.
If you are obedient in an abusive relationship then things go back to happier times with your bf quicker.
@@specialtwice4975 I am sorry you had to go through that, I wish the best for you
He "lives in the country" ya I bet. The song from the movie Deliverance comes to mind.
That slight smile she gave was her way of saying “thank you, this guy is a creep.”
I had so many weird interactions like this growing up....I was so sheltered and innocent that I just thought these older dudes were being friendly or "fatherly". Now I realize how disgusting these guys were
Ya but, did you die?
Literally I used to just be nice a laugh everything off, my other girlfriends would look at me like I’m crazy. I don’t have any father figures or older brothers/ uncles, nothing. I didn’t know how to react .. lmao
to be fair I spoke to a girl, who I was starting to get worried that she was that age, and in the end it turned out she was older than me, over 30
@@baelee132 Daddy issues huh? Smfh
It would take one hell of a good man to be friendly and fatherly in this situation one hell of a good man is not many of them left no more unfortunately
There was a serial killer who lured women onto his property to do work & kept them in a shipping container. He killed the first couple but the 2nd woman was rescued though her boyfriend was killed. Sounds like the first guy in this video was using his playbook. I think his name was Todd Kohlhepp if you're interested.
The Amazon review killer
Heh, i was just thinking of this case! I recently listened to this story on Mr. Ballen.
JCS has a really good video covering the whole case. Fascinating stuff
Yeah wasn’t there a lapel footage of her rescue
@@Cassandra6 correct
The dude recording that second video saved her from God alone knows what. I hope that dude that was creeping on her got served some street justice
The 17 year old girl should just screamed when he said “I’m looking for someone to help me” gives real Serial Killer vibes
That makes my blood boil. I have a little girl, and the thought of a predator getting his hands on her like that is terrifying.
Be the best father you can be to your daughters guys. You don't want her thinking she's gotta look for love from older men because you were a half ass father.
@Dr Diablory LMAO
@Dr Diablory *daughters, guys
Worry about yourself and your own kid
@Caramel As lonely as you are bud
@@Mr_Mistahwe got a pervert here
Wow, shout out to that man to actually did something about this, instead of acting like every other man and woman out there by "minding their own business". That was crazy... he thought he could take her out in public like it was okay...
Kid shouldn’t be out by a bar area. Where the hell are her parents?
@@Rico401Prov she's outside where ppl of many age groups are. That don't excuse a grown mandm hitting on a child. It pedo behavior
People really be doing shit like that sis
Choosing to not protect another adult is one thing, but showing indifference towards a child being harassed is just plain evil. There’s literally no excuse for it. Anyone and everyone should be willing to risk their lives when it comes to child’s well being.
that first man gave me the chills that was horrifying. he definitely is a serial killer because no normal person says that to a teenage girl, what a disgusting creep.
We need to get this guy out of society.
This actually happened to my 14yr old daughter, about a month ago. We were at Walmart in the electronics department and needed help. There was a guy probably in his 20s flirting with my daughter right in front of me. I said do u realize my daughter is only 14yrs old. I was upset and left the store. Now if we go there my daughter avoid that electronic dept.
Did your daughter flirt with him you said?
So you're driving and a guy that's in his 20s for talking to a girl that's closer in his age group than you are that doesn't seem very right of you he was only doing what came naturally to him he doesn't know exactly how they were is his right to talk to them and get to know this the point is you're stuck in today's society you have to realize if it wasn't for the things that happened in the past that gave you the right that you have now you can still be stuck in a society anywhere her age wouldn't matter especially if you live in another country right now where the age of consent is a lot different so don't take advantage of your privileges that you're giving in America... I'll give you an example right now I'm always in the fat ugly guy in my teenage years and my 20s I never got a chance to lose weight and get better looking so I can date really pretty girls and older I get the words it gets let's say I lose a couple hundred pounds a year from now and I start getting more attention from girls I might actually f****** attention from the girls in their teenage years because they'll start chasing me because they like older men.... You going to really kill me for that? Because you don't know what it was like for all my teenagers and twins that I wasted but I never got a chance to take good looking pretty girls in their late teens early 20.... You're going to look at me like a 30-something year old weirdo because I'm taking after girls that are around 18 or so or in the early 20s because I'm in my thirties because now I've lost a lot of weight but I have the confidence approach to younger looking girl are you going to tell me that my time is up I don't get a chance for redemption screw you lady
Why even tell him she's 14? Wtf? Call or have an employee call security immediately
@@cacapeepee6711 she doesn't have to tell the guy anything with the guys right to approach a female and talk to her until you find out what age she is because he thinks that she's attractive there's nothing wrong with it you don't know until you ask
It's not just the electronic store mister. It's everywhere. It can happen at any place and any time. I'm 14 and I have been touched by my own father and now seeing comments saying, well now I know not to go there anymore, or stuff like that it really annoys me. It can happen at any place. Be mindful that you have a daughter. She will be targeted for the rest of her life. It's sad but it's true. All women are scared to go out bc of creeps like these men that are shown. Just protect you daughter at all cost. Not saying that you won't or that you don't but have your guard up. And if you have a son do the same with him bc he can be easily targeted like us girls/women.
This happens everyday. It's not flattering. Sometimes it's just scary because you don't know if the guy is going to turn on you and get pissed because you are turning them down. I've been in a position where the same man complimenting me one minute, turns red and goes on a barrage of insults the minute I say no thank you.
Yup, they are terrifying. They’re the ones that murder their girlfriend or wife.
@@yourinnerlawyer4035 I’m that nigga 😂
Last chick who blanked me, I hated her from then on. That’s why I’m better off alone. I don’t wanna hurt anyone but damn it, why won’t anyone love me?
7:01 so he’s the only person that notice an older dude talking to a 14 year old girl???????
its videos like these that make me glad to be a kickboxer
I like how he said his wife was inside and then proceeded to try to leave with the little girl.
That little girl never jumped in once to say she was his daughter. So I'm pretty sure she was not. That's so crazy!! This man deserves a medal for keep a vigilant eye out and doing something about it.
Yeah I was like “sooo could it actually be his daughter?” Lol cause not gonna lie she does look like she could be and she’s so young you just wanna believe that’s what’s going on but then I realized if I was in her shoes and that was actually my parent I woulda said something right away and not looked so scared
But the more I watch it the more I wonder. First of all the resemblance is uncanny. And while the guy taking the video claims he was “kissing up on her” I only saw his face close to hers I didn’t see any actual kissing. My daughter is only 4 and when she’s 10 years older I don’t see why I wouldn’t still hold her close to me whenever I can, he wasn’t touching her anywhere in the pelvic area, he simply had his arms around her so that makes me wonder. And furthermore it looks like they had been chilling there sorrounded by other people for a minute and it didn’t look like anyone had gotten any feeling that this man was with anyone else than his daughter, even when he was supposedly “kissing up on her” around dozens of people. All those things make me question it, possibly the man was with his daughter and didn’t know what was going on at first? Maybe he was serious that she was his daughter and maybe the girl didn’t know how to respond, we don’t know what the guy holding the camera looked like, it’s possible intimidation played a role.
But then there’s all the counter points such as why would he clearly lie about his daughters age and look so nervous? Why didn’t he just immediately say “this is my daughter fuck off?” I thought maybe he was trying to consider that someone might not like how close he was to his daughter? But he seemed so guilty so I just doesn’t stand to reason. But then the way he grabbed her hand made me think wtf? That looked so natural for the way a father would grab his daughters hand and lead her off?
My only conclusion is that this man and this girl have been seeing each other for a while, and are used to the father/daughter shtick in public, which is just sickening. At the end of the day if he was her father he would’ve been 10 times more adamant about it but it’s so clearly rehearsed it makes it almost believable
@@massasauga100 or he's creeping on her AND she's his daughter,or stepdaughter
They look the same. Not sure if it was his daughter, but they DO look related.
Where's the follow-up video? Why not post a follow-up? If there was a follow-up video of the guy being questioned by the police or even being arrested, there would be no doubt something wrong was going on here. But the fact there is no follow-up makes me think the author of the video just posted that part of the video to get clout.
@Andy Rick she's not scared becauset that was probably a family member
@Andy Rick I'm saying this video proves absolutely nothing. Mainly because there is no follow-up. It could just be a male karen with a camera making baseless accusations.
i wish he got humbled by her immediately saying “ew you’re old, go away” kids don’t need to respect adults unless they deserve it
In my teens I learned acting batshit insane is an excellent way to get left alone. One guy all I did was stare intently into his eyes and move my lips as if I was muttering something really fast. I never stopped or broke eye contact. Freaked him out so badly he laid rubber getting away from me 😂
I think fathers don’t fully understand this, but around the age 13/14, young girls get approached like this all the time. It’s highly inappropriate, it’s uncomfortable, it feels violating, and often unsafe. You are developing into a woman and older men take advantage of that and is it as a reason to act like it’s okay to approach you in this way.
As long as people realise that if they approach my daughter, whether they think they have her best interest in mind or not, and try to harass us about whether or not I'm kidnapping her they're going to get popped in the mouth for approaching my kid.
That said, that dude was definitely not her dad. If it were it would have been the first thing out of his mouth and he would have been pissed at the accusation. Not scared of calling the cops.
This started happening to me when I was 14 it was so weird
When i was 13 they were lurking literally everywhere we went! The mall, the movie theater, and even our school football games. It was relentless!
And for some reason that behavior from them stops after you turn 20…. 🤔😖
@@mossy319 because they know they can't take advantage of you that easily when you're an adult. They choose to go for teenage girls because they're a lot easier for them to manipulate.
You're absolutely right!
The second she said she was 17 a normal person would have said, "Nice to meet you, have a nice day" and left.
That guy is obviously a predator and you can tell this isn't the first time he's done this.
"I got you I got you" lol he really is trying to calm the guy down
@@POPDATA og comment was talking about the first guy but yea second guy was trying but failing to make the situation less then it was
16 and above is legal in the UK
@@samdobie6748 still very disgusting
Nah, 16 and above is legal in many countries
The saddest thing is neither of them got reported.
The girl in the 2nd video looks freaking 12, thank God that guy stepped in that poor girl was probably so scared of that creep!
He seems like a love bomber. A girl with less confidence would be taken by the compliment, would get her in the "country" and then he'd show her who he really is. I agree with him 100%. Nothing comes for free. She handled it like a boss!
I get that vibe too
As a girl with no selfsteem, i sadly agree
@@magictrixster921 Just that you have the self-worth to circulate your opinion indicates that there is a "primer" of self-esteem upon which you can build.
Keep in mind that the narcissist has no sense of "self" at all, just like an empty shell. Image is everything. That's why, ,just like a vampire, they see no psychic reflection in the mirror and they suck the "life" out of everyone to which they attach themselves.
Be careful with whom you choose to associate and build yourself up where you belong.
When I was 15 years old I went out to a diner with my 16 year old friend who could drive. These 3 men in their 30s felt entitled enough to sit with us and offer to pay for our food. I literally got up and tried to get help from people in the diner and not a single person helped us. We eventually were able to make a run for it but I seriously appreciate when guys stand up for this. If a girl is obviously not interested please back off. We rarely will just give in.
Pretend you are crazy untilk they get scared. Still super annoying though
See no one cares for teens now adays they think they grown
@@LilXancheX why did you try to buy cigs at 17
@@phantomjosh2148 cuz I like to smoke
@@LilXancheX 😂