Today we're gonna be taking a look at a creep who was rejected at the gym, as well as the recent TikTok gym trend Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
@@sherrymonnahan9380the topic of this video is why a teenage girl is allowed in a adult oriented place by herself without parental supervision? It’s because the parents treat the gym like a daycare and social center
@@itsaytchannel407 Principled sentiment is always nice. But it doesn't protect you from being assaulted. Do you want to be right or do you want to stay alive?
For reference, I'm mid 20s. If i asked someone out and their response was "I'm 17" my feet would be on fire with how fast I'm running in the opposite direction.
And that's exactly how it should be. I'm only 20, and even I'd react the same to being told "I'm 17". This man obviously has never been made to be held accountable (que his attempts to make excuses by saying "it's legal")
I remember working in construction in my mid twenties and I always get creeped out on how the highschool girls always try to hit on me. It was disturbing.
Usually when someone says “I’m a nice guy/person”, automatic red flag. Actual nice people don’t have to tell you that they’re nice, they show it through their actions.
Teenage gym clothes don’t look like night club apparel. Fabrics that purposefully show off figure. Your disgusting. I would ban any teenage girl that came into my business with that intent
As a woman at the gym people do look around. I never stared but I’ll be damned if someone caught me on their camera looking around.I recognized hard work and those grinding. I could see reflections at night in the mirror of people watching me in the treadmill. But if I was on the bike treadmills were right I’m front of me and I would catch myself watching. Girls or guys. Watching form. Since covid I can’t handle people so now follow up here. When I run outside people stare all the time. Guys and girls. So I just wave 👋🏻
Yeah I mean as a 55, if I were single, I'd simply let women approach me if they are comfortable doing so, in Los Angeles they do very often if you are at least normal looking and look like you have your act together. Hell they do so even with a ring on my finger. I would certainly agree with your basis of at LEAST 30 years old.
She should have had parental supervision before entering a gym with adults. Also what parent allows there daughter to dress like that? The gym should ban all cameras for privacy
@@SunBunzWell, the moment you (as an adult) hear ANY number below 18, it's better to end the conversation on the spot, even if the minor wants to talk to you.
My 16 year old daughter changed gyms because there was a guy in his 50s blowing kisses at her in the mirror and constantly trying to catch her eye and wink at her. He could tell she was much younger than her and made her really uncomfortable. Thankfully she's not encountered any weirdos at the new gym she attends.
@@trainer1158 I wish she had reported him whilst he was still there but unfortunately she was too stressed about it and just left. I contacted the gym with a description and time he was there so they could keep an eye out for him.
@@trainer1158such guys like that exist everywhere. That’s why they need a no camera rule and dress code. Possibly no mirrors. If girls want to stretch go to the locker room. It is what it is
@@courthogan3140they are though ? What are you doing acting all sarcastic. Girls have gotten beaten up by men because they said no. Girls have been raped because they said no. Not all men, but somehow always A man.
@@courthogan3140 🚩🚩🚩 Edited to add holy god, looking at your comment history on this channel is really something. So you'd spit in someone's face for rejecting you? Classy! What a catch you are.
There’s many red flags leading up to this situation. Where are the parents? The gym is not entitled to babysit your unsupervised children. Also minors that enter the gym should follow a dress code. The gym is not a daycare
@@negritotenfold, 17 is not too young to attend a gym. It is too young for a creepy older man to prey on young women. That self entitled incel needs to be thrown out. Guy has a serious anger management problem too. No means no. That low life just couldn’t accept he was rejected. He’s mad he couldn’t control her. Good for her standing up for herself.
@@Sweetserendipity1 stop trying to dismiss what led up to this event. If her father was there. he would have her tie a hoodie around her waist for modesty. She would have had parental supervision to prevent this unwanted interaction.
@@Sweetserendipity1 her parents put her in danger because they felt entitled to treat the gym like a daycare center. 17 is underage and it’s her parents fault for leaving her unsupervised. Also schools have dress codes for this specific reason
Dude, lady said "not interested", just move on. Arguing with her isnt going to change her mind, nor is raising your voice. Besides, its a gym, its for working out, its not a club...
It would have been funny if, after he yelled at her, if she sarcastically said, "Oh!!! Oh, ok....now that you've yelled at me like I'm a CHILD, yeah~ sure, I'll go out with you!" 😂😂😂😂😂
@@lordlittletoeq8537 the point is a underage child who is vulnerable was left alone in a gym full of adults by her parents. Who is too blame??? Of course not the parents who but her the clothes and pays for her membership
@@lordlittletoeq8537 let’s not forget it’s child endangerment to leave a child unsupervised. In a place where you share showers and locker rooms with strangers. Yet you seem to want to be around children
@negritotenfold your first comment only mentions clothes, not the age. You realized too late how weird your comment is and so choose yo focus on that now. But funnily, you still don't put blame on the guy who went after her. You got issues
That guy could sue the gym for allowing children to run amuck unattended. The parents paying her membership can be sued too. It’s not public property she can’t shove cameras in peoples faces. That’s assault
@@Ohfr_ Yes her parents do have to pay for her membership and supervise their child. They are responsible for their child. Otherwise they signed a waiver to leave their child unattended at the gym. Which led to this event. The gym is not a daycare center for your children
@@Ohfr_ in what world do you live in? Where you allow your vulnerable teenage daughter to be in the same building that share locker rooms/showers with strangers?
@@negritotenfoldI don't care if she walks out of the house looking like a Victorias Secret model, she doesnt deserve to be creeped on and treated like shit like this.
What trips me out is when he starts saying, "Seventeen is legal" as if she is immediately supposed to swoon and give up the digits because he basically just said "It's not that gross." Sexy...??
I honestly don’t know how people can’t stand being rejected. Whenever I’ve tried to flirt with someone or ask them to dance or strike convo, if I don’t get a straight “no” or “go away,” I can take a hint in other ways such as their tone/body language/etc. and then just move on with my day. Don’t be a creep/sore loser about it. There’s billions of people in this world, you’re bound to meet someone compatible trust me ❤
@@j04370859Yes. But also you aren’t entitled to a yes nor a partner or sex. His behavior is and will stay as wrong. It’s better to fix your rejection sensitivity than think it’s okay to be angry for a rejection.
@@negritotenfoldYou go to the gym to work out. Dudes like this shouldn't be there if they find themselves easily distracted by women doing their workouts.
@@negritotenfoldit seems you have a big problem with minding your own business. Do your workouts and whatever has to do with you then you won’t have time to gawk at people minding theirs
@@sherrymonnahan9380 children shouldn’t be allowed in the same gym as adults where they share the same showers and locker rooms with strangers. It’s the parents fault
@@HeyitsBri_ it’s not about ‘minding my own business’ it’s about people having privacy. It’s a private space where people pay memberships to stay healthy. These kids and their parents treat the gym like a daycare center. There’s nothing wrong with minors having a dress code. Schools have them for this specific reason
Being accosted by men is not rare at all. It happened to me almost daily when I was around this age. It was a rare day when I didn't get called a name because I didn't engage with a guy. They'd even grab my hand walking by on the street and when I'd yell for them to not touch me, I'd get called everything u can imagine. Even in my 40s when I was a bus driver they figured I was cornered and had to be nice to them. I got into it with several men who wouldn't leave me alone. The wedding ring didn't even stop them. So no, not rare at all.
@@sherrymonnahan9380 that doesn’t make any sense. How are gyms suppose to keep track of every person and determine what a creep is? Should they turn away business to keep you happy how selfish
@@MikeBaxterABC why should other people’s children be our problem? Her father should be chaperoning her every time she goes in public. Otherwise she needs to be in a space with girls her own age
It's called entitlement. This man feels he is entitled to date her because he gave her a compliment. And because of that he insists she dates him even though she is 17. Any of 17 is legal age to consent to sex. She still considered a minor because she's not 18 yet. But you know honestly this man is just one of those guys doesn't like being told no. He doesn't like hearing that word he thinks he's entitled to every woman in the world that he wants. And when he's told no he throws a conniption fit. And was a little tantrum like a little girl and complains. For the simple fact that he's not getting his way and what he wants. Will people in Hell want ice water but they're not getting it. So why does he need to get what he wants because he's a creepy pervert. The thing of it is he's trying to make her feel guilty for turning him down to those she feels pity for him and give him a Pity date. I'm glad she stood up for herself I'm glad she didn't fall from his bull crap. I'm glad she called about on it too. I'm glad she was strong enough to stand on your own two feet and tell him I'm 17 get away from me kind of. I'm just glad that she stood up for herself and didn't let him walk all over. And honestly if her I wouldn't have left the gym she has every right to be there.
“iTs cAllEd eNtITLemEnT” yup how parents drop their kids off at the gym like it’s a babysitter. They expect the gym employees to change their diapers and be their Nannie’s. The parents are irresponsible and it starts at the home
Also what kind of parents allow their underage daughter to be in a building where they share pools, saunas, locker rooms and showers with strangers? These strangers can film her with there cameras because they are ‘influencers’
@@negritotenfold, it’s creepy the way you think. The fact you think that way and express those thoughts says a lot about you. You shouldn’t be in those places because you make it seem that’s what you would do or want to do. You think like a predator and express yourself like predator. You have doing those things on your mind. She has the right to be at a coed gym and workout without men bothering her.
@@Sweetserendipity1 nope it’s creepy the way you think. For a place that shares locker rooms and showers with strangers. Why would you leave your teenage daughter unsupervised and not think of the repercussions? You are not thinking clearly
Too many men these days are wearing their heart on a sleeve, can't handle emotions, and can't take no for an answer. They don't even wonder if she's already taken....just see a woman and go full speed ahead. This is creepy, weird, and scary....
If men did not take the initiative to meet women then who will? After all, most women still wait for the guy to approach them because that is what they are taught.
@@jackjules7552 And if that woman isn't interested, they should then take that same initiative....and walk away. Not turn around and be disrespectful, call her names, or be threatening. Just go bark up another tree....simple
there is also like an age gap to that also like 5 years or so for certain states so if the guy is way above that it don't matter if age of consent is 16 or 17. If he is in his 30's which is what it sounds like then it is no longer legal.@@JamesQMurphy imo if you're an adult above 19 hitting on a 17 yo even if it is legal it is still hella creepy.
It's legal in the UK where I'm from, but it doesn't even matter. Weird creepy man. I'm 17 and I think there should be separate categories for younger ppl or smth. Would make a much clearer boundary.
@@RyzeSkyz Over 19? Sheesh... given that girls typically mature faster than boys, give guys a break. You must be young. I've heard a good formula is divide your age by 2 and add 7. So maybe 20, but even early 20's isn't unreasonable. When I was in my early 20's, I had the maturity of a 12 year old.
I had cute girl acting flirty with me, then she told me she's 17... every female in the store be staring at me. I'm like- "I'm out!" "Girl, you too young" by like 4 years.😂
@@robertfullone9032 that actually makes him smart 🤦🏻♀️ Too many unhinged crazy people in the world. Best not to give them any advantage of figuring out who you are if you can avoid it, because you will inevitably piss someone off and they could be very unhinged like the creep in the gym.
Losers are everywhere. This creepy guy is one of them. I'm happy not all girls are like the ones who make fake dumb tiktok videos. Not every guy is out to stare at you..🙄
Disgusting and disturbing what a freaking loser. Even worse he would be the type of guy to commit an assault and or homicide. Good for her standing up for herself but so so sad that she has too. Can't just workout in peace without being hit on by this creep. He needs to be banned from this gym and police need to be involved because this could unfortunately get worse. As always great job Xenoshot.
Hitting on and then yelling at a 17 year old in a gym, not a good idea. Like Xenoshot said, the vast majority of men don't act like this. I would like to add that those same men might step in and have a few words (or fists) with you if they see you acting like this.
I'm happy the first woman had her phone for sure but filming should be banned in public gyms. Sometimes it's useful to check your posture and progress but what their doing is entited, gross and just ruining the gym for people who just want to get the workout in. Really there should be private gyms for filming for their business.
The guy on the first video should have had a face attached. She probably didn't for safety since they live in the same complex, but she did a real good job handling it.
I'm 56, overweight, going to the gym is something I don't really like, but I go anyway for the sake of my health, which is exactly what it should be about. I'm yet to see anyone filming, if ever I do, I'm certain it'll put me off going again; filming should be banned full stop, I don't want to be on someone's TikTok.
I once had a guy that kept staring at me from across the floor. Eventually he started following me around and holding his phone suspiciously. I went to the staff and they let me know he’s been getting constant complaints from women, but because he hasn’t approached them they can’t do anything. There’s real life examples everyday of creeps, these rage baiters on TikTok are gross.
Not 100% on this, but I’m almost positive if anyone walked up to staff and said “I don’t feel comfortable with that person recording me” and went into just a bit of detail, they’d basically be forced to either shut it all down or leave.
I never had a problem at the gym but I know people will be doing their own thing and zone out. Like, I will be replaying a convo in my head, making lists, or be really into my music while doing cardio. I probably look like I'm staring into the abyss. I know others are doing the same and I hate seeing people try to make it seem others are checking them out when they're not. I dont think cameras should be allowed at the gym unless you're just doing something quick to check out you own form. I'm glad Joey Swoll continues to call out these girls who are making people not want to go to the gym anymore. I have had to deal with a couple creeps like that guy before but never at a gym. Once you realize how bad they are you want to make sure you get away and are near as many people as you can be around. I won't debate them. I just dip. Safety first.
What a loser the first one was, I hate the internet for giving people like this the safety to be able to do smth like this Because these days, you read a caption about someone harassing a girl at the gym and you're like "eh probably fake"
"you give me trouble" Rapey as hell. Also I've been to the Gym a fair few times and no one has ever stood there staring at me or even attempted to talk to me.
I actually met my first boyfriend in college at the gym. We were in an abs class together a couple times and after having seen each other previously, he started chatting with me. Then he came to a yoga class with me and then finally asked for my number. It was cute and felt organic. He didn’t come on too strong, he didn’t interfere with my workouts, he was just chill. If it matters, my gym outfits were tshirts and soccer shorts since I played soccer from 6-17. I can understand the impulse of wanting to make a connection right away with someone, but it has to be in the right setting, at the right time. If you walk up and interrupt someone’s workout and then ask them out, unless you’re a young version of Brad Pitt, you’re probably getting rejected. You may still get rejected even if you are a young version of Brad Pitt. But if you go to the same gym as someone you’re interested in, try taking it slow and building some kind of rapport before taking the plunge. And if the person isn’t interested, accept that it’s possible that it might be you or it’s possible that it has absolutely nothing to do with you and everything to do with the girl’s circumstances (her age, sexual preference, if she’s in a relationship, if she’s going away to school soon, etc). Rejection doesn’t always mean, “You’re fcking hideous, get away from me.” Although, in the case of the guy in this video, it definitely does. I’m sure his looks equally match his terrible personality
Bud, you nailed the point "ban cameras at the gym" - its not trivial, its a necessity - peoples' lives are getting ruined because of clout. Here is a new proposition: a person capturing footage of a creepy gym person; fair game. A person who sets up a whole recording studio to "catch" creeps; IMMEDIATE ban. This is my honest take.
The sarcasm u give is the best thing I hear on UA-cam ❤😂😂 thank u!! Lmao! If I was her I wud stay there! I’d show his face and talk my ish until HE LEFT!
“17 is legal”…even if it was ethical and moral to date someone that young what makes some men think a 17 yo (or any young woman) would actually want them? What part of their brain actually makes them believe they have a chance? I’m confused.
They’re narcissistic predators. They think if a girl’s 17 or younger she’s also stupid and naïve enough to jump into bed with them because of hormones, being lonely, etc. Enough grooming, they’re “easy-pickings.”
To be honest, I am proud of this young lady. I would hope my daughter does the same as her and stand up for herself. I know the man is not only a creep but definitely an aggressive person who should be watched but I cannot get over how proud I am of her.
I'M 6'6", 235LBS & body build. At 48 years old (Look 38). I get hit on by ladies of all ages at the gym; even wearing my wedding band. They try to pretend they aren't hitting on me by asking me advice on how to work out and asking me to show them how. I'm not stupid. Woman are just as bad as men... They know I am married and still hit on me. Some of them are wearing their wedding rings as well.
@@lordlittletoeq8537 - When you get hit by a 19 year old and I tell them my age. They just laugh and say stop kidding. Funny thing when they finally believe my age. Most of them don't care. Young girls just care what you look like. Married ones just want to hook up on the down low. Looking young and in great shape is how I got my wife which is 12 years younger and a M.D. to boot.
I feel for that girl. I was 16 and spending the summer with my adult sister at her home in Florida. I rode my bicycle everywhere because everything was close by. This 40 something guy stopped to ask me for directions. I told him I was here visiting family and wasn't sure where he was asking for was. I rode back to her house. Thankfully she was off work that day. This creepy guy must have followed me as he showed up at my sisters door a few hours later with wine, chocolates and flowers. He wanted to take me on a date! I had my sister make him go away. Heidi
A few things here that are risky for that man. First the obvious; she's underage no matter what he thinks. Next, she's not interested. Then there's the other folks there, and the business owners, who are not likely to tolerate this for long. (If this is left alone, the businesse's reputation will go down the drain). This attractive girl is not stupid. This atractive girl most likely has living parents or siblings who would NOT appreciate this jerk's actions. She could be my granddaughter. I was born in an era where this young man would have received a 100% politically incorrect lesson in social graces. Even now at over 60 I'd be there in his face. Let's not kid ourselves; guys like him are dangerous. When they are found out, they need to be arrested for assault, stalking, or harassment. (I think they also need a "back alley" session of physical exercise away from the security cameras).
First off there is a societal norm for age range that is acceptable to initiate a potential relationship with. It is up to each person what that may be. Age aside if anyone makes another feel uncomfortable, the conversation is OVER, period. Many people think the age of consent is universally 18 but it is not and should be changed to that. Penn & Teller on BullShi*t disussed this topic and I was surprised how much the age differs between not only States but by sexual orientation too. Watch it if you haven't already.
1:50 Got to agree! .. I've dated LOTS of much younger girls, (Like 22 to 25 year olds, just for drinks etc.) .. BUT at 17??? She might not even be ALLOWD to go on dates yet, my daughter wasn't out dating on her own until she was 18, Before that, she was allowed at our house with a date or at the guys house, AFTER I met him. (they were all nice guys too)
This is not even a petty reaction to rejection, this is the type of guy who could actually commit crimes. He's unhinged.
They are everywhere. That’s why you should watch how you dress and possibly workout at home
@@negritotenfold Men would be creepy regardless of what women are wearing.
@@sherrymonnahan9380that’s why I said ‘they are everywhere’ also women can be creepy too. Men don’t document it for internet clout
@@negritotenfoldI never said women can't be creepy, were talking about cases where men are tho. That's the topic of this video.
@@sherrymonnahan9380the topic of this video is why a teenage girl is allowed in a adult oriented place by herself without parental supervision? It’s because the parents treat the gym like a daycare and social center
The way he keeps yelling at her to go home is downright scary, he's the one that needs to leave.
Probably wants to follow her home
@@johnblaze2665 Or he subconsciously knows he's about to lose his temper and attack her, and is trying to get her out of there.
@@annehaight9963then why doesnt he leave as the adult 🙄
@@annehaight9963then he would still need to be the person who leaves. Innocent people don’t need to be punished because guys get mad
@@itsaytchannel407 Principled sentiment is always nice. But it doesn't protect you from being assaulted. Do you want to be right or do you want to stay alive?
For reference, I'm mid 20s. If i asked someone out and their response was "I'm 17" my feet would be on fire with how fast I'm running in the opposite direction.
When the dude said “17 is legal” made him sound like a creep, and did not help his case at all.
And that's exactly how it should be. I'm only 20, and even I'd react the same to being told "I'm 17". This man obviously has never been made to be held accountable (que his attempts to make excuses by saying "it's legal")
I'm 21 and if I asked out a girl who told me she was 17 I'd apologize and not press for anything has it should be
@wolvesgirl1565 exactly who even wants to hang with teenagers anyway. They annoying
I remember working in construction in my mid twenties and I always get creeped out on how the highschool girls always try to hit on me. It was disturbing.
Usually when someone says “I’m a nice guy/person”, automatic red flag. Actual nice people don’t have to tell you that they’re nice, they show it through their actions.
No way I would allow my daughter to be dressed like that around a business where grown men attend. I blame the parents
@@negritotenfold She's wearing gym clothes at a gym. Be serious.
Teenage gym clothes don’t look like night club apparel. Fabrics that purposefully show off figure. Your disgusting. I would ban any teenage girl that came into my business with that intent
You say it to any bad roommates "hey Im nice but im not doing all your laundry nice, clear the washer and dryer. 😂
He comes across as dangerous, with lots of anger and entitlement, a bad combination.
I’m 52 and would feel a little creepy approaching anyone under 30. Some of these guys have no shame, disgusting.
I’m 30 and I’ll be damn to approach 18 19 21 22 23 24 😂
I am 77 and I smash them CHEEKS if they are 18 and over of course ;) HELLLO LADIES HUGH HEFFNER NUMBER 2 COMING THROUGH YEAHHHHHHH
As a woman at the gym people do look around. I never stared but I’ll be damned if someone caught me on their camera looking around.I recognized hard work and those grinding. I could see reflections at night in the mirror of people watching me in the treadmill. But if I was on the bike treadmills were right I’m front of me and I would catch myself watching. Girls or guys. Watching form. Since covid I can’t handle people so now follow up here. When I run outside people stare all the time. Guys and girls. So I just wave 👋🏻
Yeah I mean as a 55, if I were single, I'd simply let women approach me if they are comfortable doing so, in Los Angeles they do very often if you are at least normal looking and look like you have your act together. Hell they do so even with a ring on my finger. I would certainly agree with your basis of at LEAST 30 years old.
She should have had parental supervision before entering a gym with adults. Also what parent allows there daughter to dress like that? The gym should ban all cameras for privacy
When a minor tells you her age, and doesn’t wish to engage, the conversation should be OVER.
She’s much more mature than this creep.
THAT IS ONE SAD DUDE!
When *anyone* doesn’t wish to engage, the conversation IS over. Period.
Leave. Me. Alone.
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin exactly. I just think doubly so if it’s a minor, otherwise they’ll look like a creep _and_ a predator.
@@SunBunzWell, the moment you (as an adult) hear ANY number below 18, it's better to end the conversation on the spot, even if the minor wants to talk to you.
@@PrimericanIdol exactly.
My 16 year old daughter changed gyms because there was a guy in his 50s blowing kisses at her in the mirror and constantly trying to catch her eye and wink at her. He could tell she was much younger than her and made her really uncomfortable. Thankfully she's not encountered any weirdos at the new gym she attends.
Hope she reported him before she left. He's for sure going to start it with someone else.
@@trainer1158 I wish she had reported him whilst he was still there but unfortunately she was too stressed about it and just left. I contacted the gym with a description and time he was there so they could keep an eye out for him.
I guarantee she wears inappropriate outfits at both gyms. Something probably learned from you. Gyms need a dress code
@@trainer1158such guys like that exist everywhere. That’s why they need a no camera rule and dress code. Possibly no mirrors. If girls want to stretch go to the locker room. It is what it is
@@negritotenfold You're actually disgusting for this.
And people wonder why women are afraid to say no.
Waaah…. Women are victims …. Waaah ….
Women en mass need a concealed carry....just sayin
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@@courthogan3140they are though ? What are you doing acting all sarcastic. Girls have gotten beaten up by men because they said no. Girls have been raped because they said no. Not all men, but somehow always A man.
@@courthogan3140 🚩🚩🚩
Edited to add holy god, looking at your comment history on this channel is really something. So you'd spit in someone's face for rejecting you? Classy! What a catch you are.
His self entitlement tells me he might be an incel. He acts like she owes him. This girl did nothing wrong. So many red flags with this guy.
There’s many red flags leading up to this situation. Where are the parents? The gym is not entitled to babysit your unsupervised children. Also minors that enter the gym should follow a dress code. The gym is not a daycare
Plus why allow children in commercial gyms when they have their school gyms? There’s solutions to prevent this
@@negritotenfold, 17 is not too young to attend a gym. It is too young for a creepy older man to prey on young women. That self entitled incel needs to be thrown out. Guy has a serious anger management problem too. No means no. That low life just couldn’t accept he was rejected. He’s mad he couldn’t control her. Good for her standing up for herself.
@@Sweetserendipity1 stop trying to dismiss what led up to this event. If her father was there. he would have her tie a hoodie around her waist for modesty. She would have had parental supervision to prevent this unwanted interaction.
@@Sweetserendipity1 her parents put her in danger because they felt entitled to treat the gym like a daycare center. 17 is underage and it’s her parents fault for leaving her unsupervised. Also schools have dress codes for this specific reason
Good for her for being so firm with that creep! She didn’t let him get away with anything and clocked him trying to manipulate her. She’s a hero!
She’s like a 4
Dude, lady said "not interested", just move on. Arguing with her isnt going to change her mind, nor is raising your voice. Besides, its a gym, its for working out, its not a club...
“It’s a bit club, but you ain’t in it.”
It would have been funny if, after he yelled at her, if she sarcastically said, "Oh!!! Oh, ok....now that you've yelled at me like I'm a CHILD, yeah~ sure, I'll go out with you!" 😂😂😂😂😂
Not even a lady… a teenager
@@Eclipse1369a year away from being a legal adult so she’s on that line already. still, she wasn’t interested so it should’ve been over there.
Yeah when someone compliments you that means you automatically have to go on a date with them even if you don't want to. Makes perfect sense
Workout equipment is not expensive workout at home. Go to a curves. Stop wearing thin fabrics
@@negritotenfold what you wear isnt an invitation, that was settled in the courts along time ago. catch up already
@@lordlittletoeq8537 the point is a underage child who is vulnerable was left alone in a gym full of adults by her parents. Who is too blame??? Of course not the parents who but her the clothes and pays for her membership
@@lordlittletoeq8537 let’s not forget it’s child endangerment to leave a child unsupervised. In a place where you share showers and locker rooms with strangers. Yet you seem to want to be around children
@negritotenfold your first comment only mentions clothes, not the age. You realized too late how weird your comment is and so choose yo focus on that now. But funnily, you still don't put blame on the guy who went after her. You got issues
Bro said 17 is legal.... Dude's a nut job. 😂😂😂
Guy is probably in his early 30's and looked up the age of consent laws in his state to use that gem of bs.
Do we know what country this was filmed in, as the legal age of consent in the UK is 16, making "17 is legal" a true statement.
@@AlegraGilgamesh legal aint the point, weirdo. A grown man should be chasing after grown women.
The age of consent in the vast majority of the US is 16.
@@cteckerman Doesn’t matter. It’s still weird for adult men to pursue a 16 year old.
This is a textbook example of how to handle such creeps. Good for her. I wish she did show his face though.
That guy could sue the gym for allowing children to run amuck unattended. The parents paying her membership can be sued too. It’s not public property she can’t shove cameras in peoples faces. That’s assault
Also the parents should be there with there daughter. The gym is not a daycare
@negritotenfold It's a residential gym. She doesn't need to pay nor be supervised in her own building...
@@Ohfr_ Yes her parents do have to pay for her membership and supervise their child. They are responsible for their child. Otherwise they signed a waiver to leave their child unattended at the gym. Which led to this event. The gym is not a daycare center for your children
@@Ohfr_ in what world do you live in? Where you allow your vulnerable teenage daughter to be in the same building that share locker rooms/showers with strangers?
17 is legal!!
(Chris Hansen enters the chat)
You don’t allow girls like that to walk out the house wearing fabrics that reveal creases. Parents treat their kids like they are grown
@@negritotenfoldI don't care if she walks out of the house looking like a Victorias Secret model, she doesnt deserve to be creeped on and treated like shit like this.
@@negritotenfoldI mean..people can wear whatever they want. It's not their fault if they get hurt, half naked or not. We. Have. Rights.
Bro is gonna be on the next episode 😂
@@Tea_Noireyour disgusting. Read your comment out loud. You would allow your child to do what?????
"Put this guy on a watch list immediately "
Sounds like there's a chance he's already on one 😁
"17 is legal" Chris Hansen better be on this creep's ass with the way he's acting
This girl did nothing wrong for sure, this guy is a total creep.
oh I am SO proud of this girl. She is standing up for herself and calling out that guy's creepy bullsh*t.
The classic "pedophile" rant.
Even if 17 is legal, she still rejected you. What are you going to do now bro?
What trips me out is when he starts saying, "Seventeen is legal" as if she is immediately supposed to swoon and give up the digits because he basically just said "It's not that gross." Sexy...??
I honestly don’t know how people can’t stand being rejected. Whenever I’ve tried to flirt with someone or ask them to dance or strike convo, if I don’t get a straight “no” or “go away,” I can take a hint in other ways such as their tone/body language/etc. and then just move on with my day. Don’t be a creep/sore loser about it. There’s billions of people in this world, you’re bound to meet someone compatible trust me ❤
Being rejected sucks, especially if you're a virgin.
@@j04370859Yes. But also you aren’t entitled to a yes nor a partner or sex. His behavior is and will stay as wrong. It’s better to fix your rejection sensitivity than think it’s okay to be angry for a rejection.
@@j04370859everyone’s time will come. no need to rush..
Are we really surprised? HELL TO THE NO!
Stretch and pose before going to the gym. Stop setting up cameras bringing attention to yourself. Stop wearing clothes that are revealing
@@negritotenfoldYou go to the gym to work out. Dudes like this shouldn't be there if they find themselves easily distracted by women doing their workouts.
@@negritotenfoldit seems you have a big problem with minding your own business. Do your workouts and whatever has to do with you then you won’t have time to gawk at people minding theirs
@@sherrymonnahan9380 children shouldn’t be allowed in the same gym as adults where they share the same showers and locker rooms with strangers. It’s the parents fault
@@HeyitsBri_ it’s not about ‘minding my own business’ it’s about people having privacy. It’s a private space where people pay memberships to stay healthy. These kids and their parents treat the gym like a daycare center. There’s nothing wrong with minors having a dress code. Schools have them for this specific reason
Being accosted by men is not rare at all. It happened to me almost daily when I was around this age. It was a rare day when I didn't get called a name because I didn't engage with a guy.
They'd even grab my hand walking by on the street and when I'd yell for them to not touch me, I'd get called everything u can imagine.
Even in my 40s when I was a bus driver they figured I was cornered and had to be nice to them. I got into it with several men who wouldn't leave me alone. The wedding ring didn't even stop them. So no, not rare at all.
Damn. I wish she put the phone right in his face!
I’m surprised there wasn’t some body builder at the gym to put this guy in his place for harassing this poor girl
She had to be in an apartment work out room.
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Sure, that usually happens....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
3:12 Hey SUPER props the the kid for standing up for herself ... AND at this point I'd expect one of the regulars at the gym to step up and back her.
Or maybe her parents. Her parents treat the gym like a nanny. The gym shouldn’t even let her in without parental supervision
@@negritotenfoldClearly they shouldn't let certain guys in without parental supervision either.
@@negritotenfold I'm not as quick to judge, in this case, she seemed mature enough by her voice .. BUT yes that certainly does happen.
@@sherrymonnahan9380 that doesn’t make any sense. How are gyms suppose to keep track of every person and determine what a creep is? Should they turn away business to keep you happy how selfish
@@MikeBaxterABC why should other people’s children be our problem? Her father should be chaperoning her every time she goes in public. Otherwise she needs to be in a space with girls her own age
It's called entitlement. This man feels he is entitled to date her because he gave her a compliment. And because of that he insists she dates him even though she is 17. Any of 17 is legal age to consent to sex. She still considered a minor because she's not 18 yet. But you know honestly this man is just one of those guys doesn't like being told no. He doesn't like hearing that word he thinks he's entitled to every woman in the world that he wants. And when he's told no he throws a conniption fit. And was a little tantrum like a little girl and complains. For the simple fact that he's not getting his way and what he wants. Will people in Hell want ice water but they're not getting it. So why does he need to get what he wants because he's a creepy pervert. The thing of it is he's trying to make her feel guilty for turning him down to those she feels pity for him and give him a Pity date. I'm glad she stood up for herself I'm glad she didn't fall from his bull crap. I'm glad she called about on it too. I'm glad she was strong enough to stand on your own two feet and tell him I'm 17 get away from me kind of. I'm just glad that she stood up for herself and didn't let him walk all over. And honestly if her I wouldn't have left the gym she has every right to be there.
“iTs cAllEd eNtITLemEnT” yup how parents drop their kids off at the gym like it’s a babysitter. They expect the gym employees to change their diapers and be their Nannie’s. The parents are irresponsible and it starts at the home
Also what kind of parents allow their underage daughter to be in a building where they share pools, saunas, locker rooms and showers with strangers? These strangers can film her with there cameras because they are ‘influencers’
@@negritotenfold, it’s creepy the way you think. The fact you think that way and express those thoughts says a lot about you. You shouldn’t be in those places because you make it seem that’s what you would do or want to do. You think like a predator and express yourself like predator. You have doing those things on your mind. She has the right to be at a coed gym and workout without men bothering her.
@@Sweetserendipity1 nope it’s creepy the way you think. For a place that shares locker rooms and showers with strangers. Why would you leave your teenage daughter unsupervised and not think of the repercussions? You are not thinking clearly
Troll
Just because someone looks at you doesn't mean they're checking you out. I look at damned near everyone I pass. Its called situational awareness.
It started with this dude asking her out then getting butt hurt when she said no.
@@ffsno9078 yeah, my comment was more on the general side of some of these gymfluencers.
@@JamesFromTexas gotcha.
Did he just say "17 is legally" WTH 😂😂😂😂 ... Hello 👋 Christensen Henson ... we got another one
He definitely needs to be on a list. He's created a whole relationship in his head.
She seems very articulate and wise beyond her years if she’s really 17
That creep definitely has Winger's 'Seventeen' on his playlist.
lol cmon bro did you even read the lyrics to that song or did you just assume it was about having sex with an underage girl?
He must have Into the night by Benny Mardones too 😂
Winger!!!!
great song
"have a nice day, buddy" ... DAMN, this garl is GANGSTA!
That dude is soo damn emotional
I have never met a self proclaimed "nice guy" who was an actual nice guy
she absolutely destroyed him, props to her
0:56 -- I like this chick already.
5:15 Plus/// "You give me trouble.." .. isn't that something we used to say in like Grade School??
Too many men these days are wearing their heart on a sleeve, can't handle emotions, and can't take no for an answer. They don't even wonder if she's already taken....just see a woman and go full speed ahead. This is creepy, weird, and scary....
If men did not take the initiative to meet women then who will? After all, most women still wait for the guy to approach them because that is what they are taught.
@@jackjules7552 And if that woman isn't interested, they should then take that same initiative....and walk away. Not turn around and be disrespectful, call her names, or be threatening. Just go bark up another tree....simple
17 is legal??? Ummmmm dude?
In some states it is legal. But dude is confusing "legal" with "not creepy."
@@JamesQMurphy yeah it’s still weird.
there is also like an age gap to that also like 5 years or so for certain states so if the guy is way above that it don't matter if age of consent is 16 or 17. If he is in his 30's which is what it sounds like then it is no longer legal.@@JamesQMurphy imo if you're an adult above 19 hitting on a 17 yo even if it is legal it is still hella creepy.
It's legal in the UK where I'm from, but it doesn't even matter. Weird creepy man. I'm 17 and I think there should be separate categories for younger ppl or smth. Would make a much clearer boundary.
@@RyzeSkyz Over 19? Sheesh... given that girls typically mature faster than boys, give guys a break. You must be young. I've heard a good formula is divide your age by 2 and add 7. So maybe 20, but even early 20's isn't unreasonable. When I was in my early 20's, I had the maturity of a 12 year old.
I had cute girl acting flirty with me, then she told me she's 17... every female in the store be staring at me. I'm like- "I'm out!" "Girl, you too young" by like 4 years.😂
lol exactly.
@@Frank-Einstein-Madman.... says guy who cannot post his real name on youtube.
@@Frank-Einstein-Madman. Guys get hit on I know it's soo wild who would guess you sound like a douche
@@robertfullone9032 that actually makes him smart 🤦🏻♀️ Too many unhinged crazy people in the world. Best not to give them any advantage of figuring out who you are if you can avoid it, because you will inevitably piss someone off and they could be very unhinged like the creep in the gym.
Losers are everywhere. This creepy guy is one of them. I'm happy not all girls are like the ones who make fake dumb tiktok videos. Not every guy is out to stare at you..🙄
Disgusting and disturbing what a freaking loser. Even worse he would be the type of guy to commit an assault and or homicide. Good for her standing up for herself but so so sad that she has too. Can't just workout in peace without being hit on by this creep. He needs to be banned from this gym and police need to be involved because this could unfortunately get worse. As always great job Xenoshot.
I’m not in the older generation but social media ruined society
Hitting on and then yelling at a 17 year old in a gym, not a good idea. Like Xenoshot said, the vast majority of men don't act like this. I would like to add that those same men might step in and have a few words (or fists) with you if they see you acting like this.
That creep deserve it
Also no phone camera and film equipment allowed in gyms, I rather do workouts at home.
Seriously, why don’t public gyms ban recording your workouts?
The NYC gyms ban any recording equipment including cell phones from the gym including the pool area.
Yeah, that's the problem here
This was an apartment gym.
I'm happy the first woman had her phone for sure but filming should be banned in public gyms. Sometimes it's useful to check your posture and progress but what their doing is entited, gross and just ruining the gym for people who just want to get the workout in. Really there should be private gyms for filming for their business.
I mean,, in this case he was 100% a creep and deserved being recorded
The guy on the first video should have had a face attached. She probably didn't for safety since they live in the same complex, but she did a real good job handling it.
I'm 56, overweight, going to the gym is something I don't really like, but I go anyway for the sake of my health, which is exactly what it should be about. I'm yet to see anyone filming, if ever I do, I'm certain it'll put me off going again; filming should be banned full stop, I don't want to be on someone's TikTok.
My dumbass roommate secretly recorded me and put it on Snapchat or some shit. No one is safe.
That's a murder/r@per vibes, especially when he starts yelling at her.
Wow, disgusting and alarming behavior.
Cloud is hell of a drug but wean it seriously hapen it’s so gross and uncomfortable I feel bad for the girl
Where is management/workers....!!?? 😮
This guy is fully unhinged
The fact that no one in that gym helped her from this creep pisses me off
I luv that u call out men and women for being idiots, you're fair. That's why i sub u.
"17 is legal" ok? Thats still fucking creepy
I once had a guy that kept staring at me from across the floor. Eventually he started following me around and holding his phone suspiciously. I went to the staff and they let me know he’s been getting constant complaints from women, but because he hasn’t approached them they can’t do anything. There’s real life examples everyday of creeps, these rage baiters on TikTok are gross.
You know what? That dude needs to go to a mental institution.
Not 100% on this, but I’m almost positive if anyone walked up to staff and said “I don’t feel comfortable with that person recording me” and went into just a bit of detail, they’d basically be forced to either shut it all down or leave.
I never had a problem at the gym but I know people will be doing their own thing and zone out. Like, I will be replaying a convo in my head, making lists, or be really into my music while doing cardio. I probably look like I'm staring into the abyss. I know others are doing the same and I hate seeing people try to make it seem others are checking them out when they're not. I dont think cameras should be allowed at the gym unless you're just doing something quick to check out you own form.
I'm glad Joey Swoll continues to call out these girls who are making people not want to go to the gym anymore.
I have had to deal with a couple creeps like that guy before but never at a gym. Once you realize how bad they are you want to make sure you get away and are near as many people as you can be around. I won't debate them. I just dip. Safety first.
Good for her, standing her ground. That guy is f'ing terrifying.
What a loser the first one was, I hate the internet for giving people like this the safety to be able to do smth like this
Because these days, you read a caption about someone harassing a girl at the gym and you're like "eh probably fake"
"you give me trouble"
Rapey as hell.
Also I've been to the Gym a fair few times and no one has ever stood there staring at me or even attempted to talk to me.
"Respect older people" When was he born? 1950's?
Respect each other, not just older people.
I hope he got his ass kicked out and banned. Proud of her, she's brave as hell.
I actually met my first boyfriend in college at the gym. We were in an abs class together a couple times and after having seen each other previously, he started chatting with me. Then he came to a yoga class with me and then finally asked for my number. It was cute and felt organic. He didn’t come on too strong, he didn’t interfere with my workouts, he was just chill. If it matters, my gym outfits were tshirts and soccer shorts since I played soccer from 6-17.
I can understand the impulse of wanting to make a connection right away with someone, but it has to be in the right setting, at the right time. If you walk up and interrupt someone’s workout and then ask them out, unless you’re a young version of Brad Pitt, you’re probably getting rejected. You may still get rejected even if you are a young version of Brad Pitt. But if you go to the same gym as someone you’re interested in, try taking it slow and building some kind of rapport before taking the plunge. And if the person isn’t interested, accept that it’s possible that it might be you or it’s possible that it has absolutely nothing to do with you and everything to do with the girl’s circumstances (her age, sexual preference, if she’s in a relationship, if she’s going away to school soon, etc). Rejection doesn’t always mean, “You’re fcking hideous, get away from me.” Although, in the case of the guy in this video, it definitely does. I’m sure his looks equally match his terrible personality
Bud, you nailed the point "ban cameras at the gym" - its not trivial, its a necessity - peoples' lives are getting ruined because of clout. Here is a new proposition: a person capturing footage of a creepy gym person; fair game. A person who sets up a whole recording studio to "catch" creeps; IMMEDIATE ban. This is my honest take.
Why is it that the people who always demand respect are the ones who are the least respectable?
The sarcasm u give is the best thing I hear on UA-cam ❤😂😂 thank u!! Lmao! If I was her I wud stay there! I’d show his face and talk my ish until HE LEFT!
Dude needs to put down the Prime and reevaluate his life.
“17 is legal”…even if it was ethical and moral to date someone that young what makes some men think a 17 yo (or any young woman) would actually want them? What part of their brain actually makes them believe they have a chance? I’m confused.
They’re narcissistic predators. They think if a girl’s 17 or younger she’s also stupid and naïve enough to jump into bed with them because of hormones, being lonely, etc. Enough grooming, they’re “easy-pickings.”
To be honest, I am proud of this young lady. I would hope my daughter does the same as her and stand up for herself. I know the man is not only a creep but definitely an aggressive person who should be watched but I cannot get over how proud I am of her.
YEAH GIRL!!! PREACH!! Good for you for standing your ground and putting that creep in his place!!!
what a weirdo
When are gyms going to wake up & ban people filmimg within the premises??
"It's Legal". Since when is harassment legal?
Where is staff? There needs to be someone in the general area so this can’t continue.
Chillin in my home gym smiling right now 😂
is that a Tomato?? 😅😂
Right??? That was definitely odd. 😅
That guy is unhinged
At the end of the day it's up to the gym to start regulating. Just make it a rule "there's no filming in the gym" and all of this goes away.
Definitely a good idea to just ban filming in gyms altogether!
She should have shown his face so other females could see who he is and be warned, because he sounds crazy!
Keep eyes on that guy
That guy was scary and aggressive
I'M 6'6", 235LBS & body build. At 48 years old (Look 38). I get hit on by ladies of all ages at the gym; even wearing my wedding band. They try to pretend they aren't hitting on me by asking me advice on how to work out and asking me to show them how. I'm not stupid. Woman are just as bad as men... They know I am married and still hit on me. Some of them are wearing their wedding rings as well.
"at 48 years old (Look 38)" I now fear when i'm old enough to know the deference 😅
@@lordlittletoeq8537 - When you get hit by a 19 year old and I tell them my age. They just laugh and say stop kidding. Funny thing when they finally believe my age. Most of them don't care. Young girls just care what you look like. Married ones just want to hook up on the down low. Looking young and in great shape is how I got my wife which is 12 years younger and a M.D. to boot.
All gyms should have a no recording policy as well as everyone has to wear clothes.
After the first rejection just put your headphones back on and ignore the creep.
I feel for that girl. I was 16 and spending the summer with my adult sister at her home in Florida. I rode my bicycle everywhere because everything was close by. This 40 something guy stopped to ask me for directions. I told him I was here visiting family and wasn't sure where he was asking for was. I rode back to her house. Thankfully she was off work that day. This creepy guy must have followed me as he showed up at my sisters door a few hours later with wine, chocolates and flowers. He wanted to take me on a date! I had my sister make him go away. Heidi
❤ she did so GOOD!
A few things here that are risky for that man. First the obvious; she's underage no matter what he thinks. Next, she's not interested. Then there's the other folks there, and the business owners, who are not likely to tolerate this for long. (If this is left alone, the businesse's reputation will go down the drain).
This attractive girl is not stupid. This atractive girl most likely has living parents or siblings who would NOT appreciate this jerk's actions.
She could be my granddaughter. I was born in an era where this young man would have received a 100% politically incorrect lesson in social graces.
Even now at over 60 I'd be there in his face.
Let's not kid ourselves; guys like him are dangerous. When they are found out, they need to be arrested for assault, stalking, or harassment.
(I think they also need a "back alley" session of physical exercise away from the security cameras).
she straight TREATED this creep lmao
I agree with the banning of cameras from gyms.
First off there is a societal norm for age range that is acceptable to initiate a potential relationship with. It is up to each person what that may be. Age aside if anyone makes another feel uncomfortable, the conversation is OVER, period. Many people think the age of consent is universally 18 but it is not and should be changed to that. Penn & Teller on BullShi*t disussed this topic and I was surprised how much the age differs between not only States but by sexual orientation too. Watch it if you haven't already.
Guy in the video is scary.
The worst thing you can do with a creep is entertain him by giving him the attention he wants. Just call the police against people harassing you
1:50 Got to agree! .. I've dated LOTS of much younger girls, (Like 22 to 25 year olds, just for drinks etc.) .. BUT at 17??? She might not even be ALLOWD to go on dates yet, my daughter wasn't out dating on her own until she was 18,
Before that, she was allowed at our house with a date or at the guys house, AFTER I met him. (they were all nice guys too)
Where's the staff? Why didn't they interfere?