Why I Quit Dating and How I Met My Boyfriend 👫(storytime)

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  • @kromatic3610
    @kromatic3610 4 роки тому +340

    Today's society underestimates the importance of religion and core values in relationships. I applaud you for putting God first! 💖🙏I can tell that both of you are so thoughtful of one another.

  • @aliciaj9661
    @aliciaj9661 4 роки тому +240

    I'm married, and I agree 100% with everything you said. Definitely the most important core value is shared faith in God. ✝️

    • @samanthamccallum13
      @samanthamccallum13 4 роки тому +6

      Same, married woman here too, and that should be the most important part of your lives.

    • @KhawlaKhawla-o7b3y
      @KhawlaKhawla-o7b3y 14 днів тому

      Please learn about Islam❤

    • @aliciaj9661
      @aliciaj9661 14 днів тому

      @@KhawlaKhawla-o7b3y No

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 4 роки тому +87

    I like how y’all met through service through others

  • @nicoletteswinton5863
    @nicoletteswinton5863 4 роки тому +61

    They have very mature mindsets toward relationships... they are soooo cute 😥

  • @kianac6660
    @kianac6660 4 роки тому +69

    This is such a heartwarming story seeing how God brought both of you guys together :) Thank you for sharing!

  • @DariaSeminario
    @DariaSeminario 4 роки тому +97

    To the people who are reading this, ily! you are amazing, and you are loved 💖

  • @Ozmodiar6
    @Ozmodiar6 4 роки тому +66

    Very sweet! But I think there’s a lesson here: If you like someone, act on it! Maya’s bf sat on his feelings for a year and came close to losing her. Woulda been a shame if Maya found someone else in that time.

  • @MatthewCoast
    @MatthewCoast 4 роки тому +38

    “No matter where you are on your journey, that’s exactly where you need to be. The next road is always ahead.” - Oprah Winfrey

    • @lukairrahe
      @lukairrahe 4 роки тому +2

      I literally got an ad for you before this video

  • @RishabhJain-zi3do
    @RishabhJain-zi3do 4 роки тому +84

    You both look so cute together 👌🏻👌🏻🥰🥰

  • @PrincessTatyanna
    @PrincessTatyanna 4 роки тому +160

    I didn’t know you had a boyfriend. Congrats 🙂

  • @michellel.w.kennon155
    @michellel.w.kennon155 3 роки тому +7

    I'm only like 5 months late to find this video, but I am so touched by this wholesomeness. It was a video a younger me needed. It is so important to be intentional and date for the right reasons. You are both so blessed and I think it's fantastic you share your Faith so strongly. Wish you both the best

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  3 роки тому +1

      Awww thank you Michelle for your kind and supportive words! I think younger me could've used it, too! Hahahaha. Definitely had to get my heart broken to learn how to take care of myself (:

  • @tarafranklin8276
    @tarafranklin8276 4 роки тому +7

    Communication is key. I was single since 2015. So my current boyfriend and I are relatively new, despite having been friends since high school. We're different. I'm into yoga, mindfulness and meditation. He is less interested. He's into computers, technology and UA-camrs who cover a bunch of games I've never heard of. I believe in a universal God, he is agnostic. But we want the same things in life: marriage, children, and we have similar morals. We're very compatible when it comes to what we feel is right or wrong and dealing with the gray. We respect each other. We work to communicate instead of proving one of us is right and one is wrong. We try each other's interests: he is willing to try yoga, I'm trying Dungeons and Dragons. Behind everything we have is honest and kind communication. 💕

  • @melindavasquez6404
    @melindavasquez6404 4 роки тому +15

    I was dying laughing when he said
    “I’ve been around and involved”
    Maya: where have you been around? 😂
    It nice to see couples that put God first. 💕

  • @LeMErin21
    @LeMErin21 4 роки тому +9

    Umm your bf is precious 🤗 And ‘Boundaries’ is an excellent book for all kinds of relationships- not just a dating relationship. I highly recommend it to EVERYONE. And Francis Chan is 🔥🔥

  • @soravelora
    @soravelora 4 роки тому +16

    I’m not in a relationship or dating anyway but I appreciate this video so much. I learned a lot on how to be mindful and put God first in everything. Plus, I like how you both gave opportunity for the other one to speak and did not cut each other while the other one is talking cause most relationship videos on youtube have the other speaks more than the other partner and I feel like it shows how the relationship really is behind camera (even though that’s not true tho but it could be) you both have balance and I like the way you both shares stories and experiences.🥰

  • @savvysimite8291
    @savvysimite8291 4 роки тому +11

    So cute! I have been done with dating for a couple years and just trying to focus on more important things like Church and School. I hope to find someone that treats me just as well. I wish you guys luck in the future (hopefully married). ❤️❤️❤️

  • @johncastillo6920
    @johncastillo6920 4 роки тому +4

    I love how the both of you keep the relationship even a lot better everyday by simply relying to the CORE, and make it even more stronger. ❤️ got so inspired by you two. God bless you both! New sub here

  • @emgladerc1756
    @emgladerc1756 4 роки тому +6

    You guys seem so happy together! Your story is very cute and I love how it came from a friendship! Great video Maya!

  • @howdyfren
    @howdyfren 4 роки тому +2

    Loved the vid! I highly recommend taking a Prepare-Enrich course after engagement! In my relationship, we dated for 7 yrs and thought we were golden and knew everything about each other and this mentoring program was so insightful and fun to do together!

  • @childinchrist7335
    @childinchrist7335 4 роки тому +24

    AHHHHH! I am early. this is quite cute. God bless your relationship.

  • @huiling7947
    @huiling7947 4 роки тому +18

    your encounter with your bf reminds me of this verse from Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these. things shall be added unto you.God Bless your relationship with your bf!💖

  • @Myvideos586
    @Myvideos586 4 роки тому +7

    you're so cute!! i'm a christian too and maya has been one of my motivational inspirations with keeping myself productive all throughout this year! 😊

  • @shiela.7927
    @shiela.7927 4 роки тому +19

    Is he a Filipino? ♥️
    Anyways, I smiled the whole time as I watched this video! I love the idea of praying once you had an argument. It's just also inspiring to have a partner who helps you grow in your walk with the Lord. Godbless Maya! 💜

  • @CrisOnTheInternet
    @CrisOnTheInternet 4 роки тому +34

    Why the beep at 7:55?

    • @my_quadruple_chin115
      @my_quadruple_chin115 4 роки тому

      He probably said his IG and she was making a joke by not letting us hear his IG

    • @mkhare549
      @mkhare549 4 роки тому

      @@my_quadruple_chin115 I don't think so it's about his Instagram cause Maya has tagged him in many photos. 🙃

  • @twobefree4me
    @twobefree4me 7 місяців тому

    Such a cute story!! 😁 Im sure that now when you look back you can see how God timed everything perfectly

  • @onelittlejesusfollower
    @onelittlejesusfollower 4 роки тому +8

    You guys are so cute and such a good example! I love that you both love God and pray together!

  • @luzperras728
    @luzperras728 4 роки тому +1

    He’s so handsome and seem very well rounded! Thanks for the tips :)

  • @karlacoralic2696
    @karlacoralic2696 4 роки тому +78

    idk why but I could never imagine her with a boyfriend😂 theyre cute tho😍

  • @madeleineediop
    @madeleineediop 4 роки тому +76

    When your phone is at 5% but you gotta watch maya.

  • @ashleyhutomo8489
    @ashleyhutomo8489 4 роки тому +2

    Awww, Maya and Hezki! Y'all are so cute!! Honestly, both of you are couple goals! Haven't seen you both in a longgg time, but I'm glad to see that you guys are both happy and healthy!! Bless you guys!

  • @tracys169
    @tracys169 4 роки тому +6

    omg. You guys are so adorable. I'm just grinning from ear to ear watching this video

  • @EmelyReyesRowan
    @EmelyReyesRowan 4 роки тому +2

    Pure goals!!!!! I love you guys!

  • @clau_sing_
    @clau_sing_ 2 роки тому +2

    And now you're married! ❤️❤️

  • @jujulovespink
    @jujulovespink 4 роки тому +4

    Aww thanks for sharing your love story. It's so cute!

  • @ellenjeanjacques8174
    @ellenjeanjacques8174 4 роки тому

    God is proud of you for working so hard and bless you with this man

  • @smurfs126
    @smurfs126 3 роки тому

    Came here to say congrats on your engagement!! Wishing you two the most amazing marriage ever.

  • @beverlymutirua1656
    @beverlymutirua1656 4 роки тому +2

    I am so happy for you two.
    Can't wait for the wedding day.

  • @teamthurman594
    @teamthurman594 4 роки тому

    I definitely agree about this right relationship. I also want to add that you would know that something is wrong in the relationship based from what your spiritual leaders also say. My friends opinion can be right, but I also consider what my youth pastor/ pastor/ parents would tell me about the person I am with. This is such a great insight and I am glad my husband and I both waited and have had Christ as the center of our relationship 💕 What a wonderful testimony you guys!

  • @truecollar9059
    @truecollar9059 4 роки тому

    communicating feelings is so important, good advice here maya 💫

  • @ebonymcphee6095
    @ebonymcphee6095 4 роки тому +3

    Such a lovely couple, enjoyed this video so much!

  • @anushkakadam4265
    @anushkakadam4265 4 роки тому

    Awww... he is so sweet ❤️
    You guys look beautiful together

  • @DongBertJecker
    @DongBertJecker 4 роки тому +50

    When you know that your favorite teacher vlogger is also a Christian
    Me: 😍😊🤗 whoa

  • @BriNathanCollins
    @BriNathanCollins 4 роки тому +1

    Happy for you guys!

  • @hyangi25
    @hyangi25 4 роки тому +3

    The matching thing is so cute. God was sending you messages 💖

  • @paulineferrer9098
    @paulineferrer9098 4 роки тому

    Very timely and encouraging especially during the waiting season. ☺️

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 4 роки тому +28

    "She's older than me." Maya is a cougar. 😂 Ya'll are an adorable couple and when you delight yourself in the Lord, he will grant you the desires of your heart. My next question is will we receive a virtual invite to the wedding? 🤗

  • @estherlee8694
    @estherlee8694 4 роки тому +7

    Is he a morning person/early bird just like you? Love this video! 😍

  • @gracechilo345
    @gracechilo345 4 роки тому

    Such a beautiful couple. I'm so happy for you Maya!

  • @aramintawilliams5205
    @aramintawilliams5205 4 роки тому +2

    I’m about to hit on year of being single! This is encouraging thanks.❤️

  • @apsaraanbu
    @apsaraanbu 4 роки тому +10

    His voice 💓💓💓 u both 😍😍

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  4 роки тому +5

      Our voices are opposites hahahaa!

    • @apsaraanbu
      @apsaraanbu 4 роки тому +3

      @@mayaleex3 so true 🤣🤣 opposite poles attract each other 💓💓

  • @ungata101
    @ungata101 4 роки тому +1

    I live with my boyfriend and it’s good. He is way better than my last relationship. My current boyfriend has never dated before me. So it was easy to stay with him

  • @peacesamuel7698
    @peacesamuel7698 2 роки тому

    "Stick around, you'll know when it happens" 2 years later, IT HAPPENED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YEAHHHHH, Congratulations guys

  • @Hello-vv5hp
    @Hello-vv5hp 4 роки тому +2

    Maya you both are soo sweet together🤗Thank you for this video,was soo helpful.
    You said you’ve been dating for 5 years, I’m also a Christian and I’ve been advised that long term dating leads to compromise.
    How do you both keep your relationship clean?

  • @leliavoinea5934
    @leliavoinea5934 3 роки тому

    Dating someone that is both soulmate and friend at the same time must be really special. My parents are soulmates, husband and wife and also each other best friends for 32 years. Despite the fact that my parents have difrente type of personalities they have a good solid and happy marriage because they shere the same values regarding marriage, children, religion, God and life in general.
    I am their only daughter.

  • @priyankazipporah3639
    @priyankazipporah3639 4 роки тому +3

    Am soo happy for you Maya.. You are my favorite... You and your guy are made for each other ..lots of love from india.. Stay safe

  • @fictionalcharactersobsesse9443
    @fictionalcharactersobsesse9443 4 роки тому +12

    You look really cute together!! So exiting to meet him!

  • @sonianegi6417
    @sonianegi6417 4 роки тому +2

    Aww they look soo cute together they are amazing..

  • @readingwtea
    @readingwtea 4 роки тому +2

    You should do a Podcast on Spotify 🥰 I would LOVE it 🥺❤️ Who agree ?

  • @maryjency3195
    @maryjency3195 2 роки тому

    Just now I saw dis video.... N I do understand how u guys r coping up wid this society under the Guidance of God... God bless u guys... Loves India....

  • @adriannaavenicci7026
    @adriannaavenicci7026 4 роки тому +2

    you’re guys so cute 😍😍😍 i really love your videos, btw ^^

  • @jazzminehands4352
    @jazzminehands4352 4 роки тому +5

    I don't know if I have ever been this early. Ever. Btw I love your channel!

  • @excellexcell980
    @excellexcell980 4 роки тому

    Can u make a video on how to keep a positive attitude like yours cause your so sweet and soft spoken and god fearing. And have u always been this way or did you turn in to this genuine sweet person?

  • @k.k.9522
    @k.k.9522 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you sooo much for answering to my question, you two are so lovely 😍😍😍 wish you all the best xoxo ❤❤❤

  • @iloveyou58121
    @iloveyou58121 4 роки тому

    I LOVE HIM!!!!! You two are great together

  • @princesstaltal
    @princesstaltal 4 роки тому +9

    I have been praying for my next relationship, can you share how you pray in 2014 (when you are sort of ready and not in a rush)- that's my situation now and I have been searching online for prayers that I could learn. Please share if any of you have good prayer guides! Thanks a lot and God bless everyone! :)

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  4 роки тому +13

      During that season it was definitely hard because it’s easy to think “will I be single forever at this point?” 😂 I really felt like that! But it’s important to remember that singleness is a gift, as well. So I prayed that I would continue to grow to be the person God wants me to and I prayed for someone with my non-negotiables (must love God, must love serving others)

    • @princesstaltal
      @princesstaltal 4 роки тому +1

      @@mayaleex3 thanks for sharing! I have been using this to pray:
      www.everydayknow.com/prayers-for-the-right-partner-in-life/
      See if anyone here would find this useful too :)

  • @delfinoworld9265
    @delfinoworld9265 4 роки тому +5

    Never been this early!! Love you Maya ❤️
    Edit: first comment too

  • @kathy582
    @kathy582 4 роки тому

    This is so wholesome!!!

  • @barbieb6897
    @barbieb6897 4 роки тому +2

    Very informative, I actually have just been reading the meaning of marriage.....🤣😂

  • @magieoliver6813
    @magieoliver6813 4 роки тому

    I dont know why but the whole time i am watching the two of you talking was, I smiled😊. You two are very charming and pleasant.. God bless your relationship more🙏🏽👆❤️

  • @lindaplumley4060
    @lindaplumley4060 4 роки тому

    Love you guys together! ❤️

  • @fitjessielee
    @fitjessielee 3 роки тому

    aw..you guys are so cute. Thanks for sharing Maya.

  • @ennieeliansy
    @ennieeliansy 4 роки тому

    Sooo good 🥰🥰🥰 thanks for sharing it maya! Keep it up!

  • @strawberry_squad6906
    @strawberry_squad6906 4 роки тому +5

    Hi maya omgg i am so early pls heart and you were looking so cuteeee❤️

  • @louisaowuor6396
    @louisaowuor6396 4 роки тому

    Maya, this is inspiring ❤️❤️❤️

  • @beautifullove5074
    @beautifullove5074 4 роки тому

    This was so good! You both seem so genuine! Blessings :)

  • @tans6364
    @tans6364 4 роки тому

    ohmygosh you guys are so adorable 💗 and thank you, you both gave me something to think about :)

  • @BBarudi911
    @BBarudi911 4 роки тому +1

    Brooke and I love you guys!! Honored to see you grow in Christ together!!!! :D

  • @adrwp
    @adrwp 4 роки тому

    Congrats miss. Your bf is so cute

  • @tapywp
    @tapywp 3 роки тому

    So glad i found your channel!

  • @nagwamohamed1288
    @nagwamohamed1288 4 роки тому +4

    You both look so amazing ❤💕

  • @theworldforgot4857
    @theworldforgot4857 Рік тому

    May God bless you both!🙏🏽🤲🏽❤️❤️❤️

  • @muanichhangte5401
    @muanichhangte5401 4 роки тому

    And i was asking question not even related to the topic, i can be funny sometimes😅
    Anyways, hope you grow fonder each passing day and always stay true to God.

  • @mariorossi3731
    @mariorossi3731 4 роки тому +1

    Such a beautiful and lovely couple ❤️😍💞

  • @tellyourstorymusicbyikson
    @tellyourstorymusicbyikson 4 роки тому +4

    🙏🏼🎶

  • @dominiquetabagan
    @dominiquetabagan 2 роки тому

    This is like my 12 am thoughts as NBSB

  • @thatgirl1706
    @thatgirl1706 2 роки тому

    I was just smiliiiiing

  • @joelmutungi4018
    @joelmutungi4018 4 роки тому

    Proud of you guys

  • @geovanamauro5668
    @geovanamauro5668 4 роки тому +9

    Omg, you're soooo cute. I'm in love with both of you! ❤️🇧🇷

  • @emily-sharingChrist
    @emily-sharingChrist 4 роки тому

    I enjoyed this video!!!
    And love the answer on arguments!!
    Bless you Maya!

  • @julie510
    @julie510 4 роки тому +9

    OMG SO EARLY, LYSM

  • @michellesalim6749
    @michellesalim6749 4 роки тому

    THANKYOU for this video and the book recommendations guys. God bless your relationship always!:)

  • @rainenymphaea
    @rainenymphaea 4 роки тому +5

    Hi Maya! 💞

    • @rainenymphaea
      @rainenymphaea 4 роки тому

      I made it to the top ten first comments again!

  • @jeannelle_
    @jeannelle_ 4 роки тому

    Aw y’all are so cute!! ✨

  • @theresa8988
    @theresa8988 4 роки тому +2

    Is he a Filipino?
    You two are good couple 😍😍
    I hope my other half will also find me soon. 💞
    My best wishes for both you.

  • @lakshmipl2511
    @lakshmipl2511 4 роки тому

    You people are soo cute together..

  • @nathalief.1350
    @nathalief.1350 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this video, you're a great example of a couple💕🐿
    I also want to take a year full dedicated to God, you inspire me💙🐿

  • @Thapppie
    @Thapppie 4 роки тому

    I loved this! 😍

  • @vickynog8
    @vickynog8 4 роки тому

    this is sooo cute omg

  • @nishitabhingardive6754
    @nishitabhingardive6754 4 роки тому +5

    U both look so cute ❤️

  • @andreastandard1292
    @andreastandard1292 3 роки тому

    I apologize for being quite honest and transparent but I find this whole video so staged. I don’t see any chemistry between the two of you whatsoever but it might be just cultural thing which I totally respect. Being that said I sure hope it works out for both of you! You both seem like a very kind and genuine people!

    • @tigerlily5416
      @tigerlily5416 2 роки тому

      Sorry but what do u mean by no chemistry