I'm glad it works for you two but a lot of women just want to be "taken". All the women who say be gentle are usually screaming at the top of their lungs halfway into the act.
Yea some women suck I had some and they were not worth it 😂 rookies not fun. When you get one that knows what she doing boy oh boy she'll change yo life lol
Communication is a two-way street. As the saying goes, 'A closed mouth doesn't get fed!!' We're not mind readers..you have to tell someone your likes & dislikes.
Appreciate the info & advice, Jessica. Your approach is what's missing in communication with some women. Some really are terrible when it comes to communication. They go along to get along instead of telling us how it should be, go when comes to intimacy. It trickles up & down with other facets of the relationship too.
@@NathanaelChivandire Why are U triggered. He said if one woman doesn't like it another woman does. and the way the host poses the issue doesn't take into account. That very position a woman didn't like from one man she enjoyed with another.
Ahumm, I tend to disagree because ... 70% will not give you a straight away answer, just the common ' do as you like'. Lots of women won't say nothing in fear of being regarded as 304's. You may ask but I dare say ' observation is key' as in ' watch and learn'. Over time when confidence has grown both over yourselves that is the moment real talking/suggestions is happening.
The acts and positions will be gladly performed for the man who excites her, the man she WANTS. And she will love it. She will refuse them to the safe provider who is committed to her, who no longer is new and exciting. That said, missionary position has the women on her back spreadeagled. It is NOT about putting her knees into her shoulders. That is another position that could proceed FROM missionary, not "missionary position" itself. Every woman is different. One hated me bumping her cervix, another loved it. The biggest issue I see is that you need to be able to discuss what you like and what you don't. But there are nuances. The difference between how one partner does something and how another does can change the entire experience. Like verbalizing, where what you say AND HOW you say it matters, what you do AND how you do it can make a world of difference.
Different people using the same position can be VERY different, just as different people doing the same dance moves will look and feel different, for better or worse.
Believe it or not with my gf the best approach was to tell her I'm a bit rusty after turning my focus away from relationships so I'd appreciate if she told me what she actually liked. Gets 'em everytime.
Yes, I meant to mention that those eyes are actually white contact lenses or some other variant of lighter color. Don’t understand why people would do this to themselves. It makes them look creepy.
Through my experience, pleasure through positions varies with women. I take pride in making a woman feel good so ive found that you just have to learn her mind and body. Its always a plus if you give four play. Four play isnt just before sex its throughout the day like walking past her with a kiss saying hey gorgeous followed by walking off and not looking back, staring at her across the room and winking your eye, or even bringing her her favorite snack with a rose. It all plays its part
Where she first touches herself, and where she first touches me is where I start... and I move on from there. Pay attention to her movements, sounds and how she reacts.
I agree, this was a word salad of nothingness that ended up at no duh!.....jeez who really takes advise from lady...."when having sex on an ice burg be careful of cold" lmao!🙄
I have a question: why do men on the 1st encounter kiss & 4 play a lot but then every subsequent encounter they get lazy & don’t want to 4 play but expect the girl to be turned on.
Great advice there sis, but at the same time, you should have also given us 5 of the safest styles of your recommendation. Each time you take away something/a toy from a child, be sure to replace it with something else. Otherwise, he'll get it back faster than a lightning strike. Blessings 🙌
Man nothing feel more confident then having the guts to ask. If you haven't figured your girls body out yet, look her in the eyes and ask "now it's your turn to show me exactly what you want beautiful." Done ✌️
So, I know I'm late to the party. I've listened to this vid and was waiting for a good alternative option for each of these positions. I read between the lines, but, like most of us here, what are the solutions to your opinions?
Interesting all these positions you say women hate many women have explicitly told me they love and requested we do in the moment so Im not sure if this is a personal thing or where you get your info from ma'am
Men’s Health came out with a position book. Literally 8 switches and 5 are brought up here lol definitely agree with other viewers on it’s not the position but the man…
It's good to see women give men useful advice on this topic. Some of these positions can be used you just have to adjust it a lil i.e missionary at the edge of bed instead of the default allows you reach the g-spot It's not typical doggy but if she's lying flat on her stomach it gives more room to control your movements Most importantly work on your balance and base. Gives you more stability in any scenario especially if you wana experiment with something
She did she explained to ask the woman if here legs are pushed back to far, be gentle. Men never ask they just do, then doggie style she said dont thrust so hard trying to hit the bottom. Basically be more considerate with what she wants not just what you did with the last woman. She gave a lot of advice. Just have to hear it
And therein lies your problem. As a woman, I thought she told you PLENTY. I agreed with everything she said. You guys never listen! That's why I gave up on sex at the age of forty. I figured my son was the best thing I was ever going to get out of it and so he is. AND....I have taught him to LISTEN!
Right all the men keep saying she gave nothing. Smh they dont listen its sad. But dont give up just because of a man incapable. God can send you a man that does it all. I know he just sent me one and he sent me this video so that when that time comes we are on the same page. I prayed for this and have been married beforeand faked it. Not this time @mandyharewood886
I know some women will say things like, If I tell him what I want in bed, he won't listen." But if you are in pain, you need make him listen. I know if you are in a relationship with a guy, the last thing he wants to do is hurt you "down there" This video should be more about a woman telling her man if he is hurting her, not, "Hey man you *might* be hurting her." And by doing positions that have been done since dirt was new. How is a guy supposed to know if she does not tell him? Relationship 101 "Men are not mind readers"
Jessica from ur point of view it seems like man is always going be a problem when it comes to sex. 😢 I guess you should give us 5 positions ladies love and or comfortable.
I hear what you are saying but it seems like a lot of women would disagree with you on the Doggy Style or Back Shot and who says they have to arch their back to get it. The Master has it covered!
Most of my exes DEMANDED doggy stayle, for few of them it was their favorite, even to the point where I was bored and complained . As well good few favorite was 1st one, because we could kiss, keep eye contact and they said felt most "romantic" Interesting subject
Facts half of it is cap for sure never seen a woman despise doggy style. I guess she’s saying it for the sake of causing controversy which I can see converted into comments pretty good
I had a girlfriend who loved missionary. I’m not a big fan. We compromised here and there with positions that worked for both of us. Ultimately, I believe one of the main reasons our relationship ended was some sexual incompatibility.
Let's start with the title Jess. The word "Everyday" indicates that it must be practiced by a large number of people, no? I can't imagine that people are doing something they don't want to do at that rate. The fun in it as least for me is communicating through the act itself. Take each other for a test drive. I never went to the "show" thinking what she does or doesn't like. That to me is a speed bump and is the express train to ED. Body language will take care of that. You'll find out there. Prince dropped a line in a track called Get Off. "23 positions in a one night stand." Through the process you might like something you didn't know or thought you'd like. Get creative, have technique and all will come out well in the end. I seek the epic leg trembling, body shaking climax from my mate. And for heavens sake don't perform an act just because your partner likes it, make sure you that you like it too.
At this time we are tired, No I am tired. Aaaba!!!!!! Todays girls this tomorrow Girls that. Its Ok, This time no relationship, no sex, no dating because my head is full up
Women generally don't tell us what they really like, and as a collective, we all end up being unsatisfactory, cause it's Power. Something to hold against us, and not only an excuse to move on, but will make sure you don't have success with others they know.
Damn! Women don't like missionary now? So what position should you start with? Finish with? Because it seems that 2-5 are off the table too. What's left? 😂😂😂
Thanks, Jess, for sharing these. Indeed, porn has ruined sex for many people cos the ideas in most young people's warped minds are picked from porn and those guys are commercial sex workers who go to any length to devise any means to do it, just to sell their products. ☹ I'd like to request you to research and also share with us on what works for most women (I think that would als0 balance it up). I've been a virgin and a great sex life is what I look forward to experience with my future lady, especially in satisfying her. Happy new year! - Silver from Nigeria
The best thing you can do is discuss this with the person you’re with. Encourage her to say what she finds pleasurable and be open discuss what works and doesn’t work for her. It’s a better way to be more intimate than trying to learn something general and assuming that it works for the specific person you’re with.
Your comments are valid but, you may want to lay off of criticism of men in general if you want your video to be more accepted by your intended listeners.
She sounds like one of those old cranky women that complain about everything. But the bottom line is, if she's uncomfortable or doesn't like it, she should say something. Communication is King!
To all the men that don't understand, this 63 yr old man that has been married for over 38 years can sum it up for you in two words. "Be gentle" 😊
I'm glad it works for you two but a lot of women just want to be "taken". All the women who say be gentle are usually screaming at the top of their lungs halfway into the act.
So what's the remedy
Yea some women suck I had some and they were not worth it 😂 rookies not fun. When you get one that knows what she doing boy oh boy she'll change yo life lol
Communication is a two-way street. As the saying goes, 'A closed mouth doesn't get fed!!' We're not mind readers..you have to tell someone your likes & dislikes.
Today I told my men what I like and he also tell me what hi likes so now we are clear about each other ❤
Appreciate the info & advice, Jessica. Your approach is what's missing in communication with some women. Some really are terrible when it comes to communication. They go along to get along instead of telling us how it should be, go when comes to intimacy. It trickles up & down with other facets of the relationship too.
My friend, because you don't like missionary position doesn't mean other women dont like it. It all comes down to the mind and their preferences.
Every woman likes it how they like it and no woman can say "what women like" with accuracy lol it's just their personal opinion
So true...
Why are you embarassing your selfs, she said MANY WOMAN not other or all women.... If you dont agree just keep it to you
@@NathanaelChivandire : Ah! Free speech at its best…?!
@@NathanaelChivandire Why are U triggered. He said if one woman doesn't like it another woman does. and the way the host poses the issue doesn't take into account. That very position a woman didn't like from one man she enjoyed with another.
It’s always best to ask the woman what positions she likes. Once you know that you are comfortable and home free.
Ahumm, I tend to disagree because ... 70% will not give you a straight away answer, just the common ' do as you like'. Lots of women won't say nothing in fear of being regarded as 304's. You may ask but I dare say ' observation is key' as in ' watch and learn'. Over time when confidence has grown both over yourselves that is the moment real talking/suggestions is happening.
What are the best positions???
The acts and positions will be gladly performed for the man who excites her, the man she WANTS. And she will love it.
She will refuse them to the safe provider who is committed to her, who no longer is new and exciting.
That said, missionary position has the women on her back spreadeagled. It is NOT about putting her knees into her shoulders. That is another position that could proceed FROM missionary, not "missionary position" itself.
Every woman is different. One hated me bumping her cervix, another loved it.
The biggest issue I see is that you need to be able to discuss what you like and what you don't. But there are nuances. The difference between how one partner does something and how another does can change the entire experience.
Like verbalizing, where what you say AND HOW you say it matters, what you do AND how you do it can make a world of difference.
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Facts 💯
Different people using the same position can be VERY different,
just as different people doing the same dance moves will look and feel different, for better or worse.
Believe it or not with my gf the best approach was to tell her I'm a bit rusty after turning my focus away from relationships so I'd appreciate if she told me what she actually liked.
Gets 'em everytime.
Love this!!
Yes, I meant to mention that those eyes are actually white contact lenses or some other variant of lighter color. Don’t understand why people would do this to themselves. It makes them look creepy.
Okay Jess I hear you. A solution however would make a world of difference. Thanks
Solution - a new woman who is excited about you, not one tired of you and looking for things to dislike about you.
Very insightful and informative information 😊hugs from Jamaica 🇯🇲 to all of you ❤missionary is my favorite position 😀
I think sex positions are relative...
Communication is key
Through my experience, pleasure through positions varies with women. I take pride in making a woman feel good so ive found that you just have to learn her mind and body. Its always a plus if you give four play. Four play isnt just before sex its throughout the day like walking past her with a kiss saying hey gorgeous followed by walking off and not looking back, staring at her across the room and winking your eye, or even bringing her her favorite snack with a rose. It all plays its part
Thank you
Where she first touches herself, and where she first touches me is where I start... and I move on from there. Pay attention to her movements, sounds and how she reacts.
Does she realise she just mentioned the sex positions 90% of both male and female love???🙄.....Girl just say those are positions "u" don't like🙂
I agree, this was a word salad of nothingness that ended up at no duh!.....jeez who really takes advise from lady...."when having sex on an ice burg be careful of cold" lmao!🙄
I have a question: why do men on the 1st encounter kiss & 4 play a lot but then every subsequent encounter they get lazy & don’t want to 4 play but expect the girl to be turned on.
It depends on the feedback. I'm guessing to don't respond to foreplay in a way that makes your partner understand what feels good to you.
Great advice there sis, but at the same time, you should have also given us 5 of the safest styles of your recommendation. Each time you take away something/a toy from a child, be sure to replace it with something else. Otherwise, he'll get it back faster than a lightning strike. Blessings 🙌
Is there anything women like these days..
Pretty much money food and and attention
@@Rhyno-ls3ku☝️🤓 don't forget about "semen retention"lol
Food we like food 😂😂😂
Very nice video Jessica👍🏽💞 your very smooth and soothing with your lecture 😁. Love from Orlando,FL❤️💛💚
Sounds like Jess talking from her own experience
Mrs how do you do? Thanks you for your video and happy New year. I'm in Yaoundé Cameroon.
Happy new year!!
You're in Yaounde? I'm in Buea.
Well i think different women love different things... my GF loves missionary so much...
Always insightful Jessica
I really do enjoy that missionary. I get to admire while I'm doing my thing.
So what position is left?
Man nothing feel more confident then having the guts to ask. If you haven't figured your girls body out yet, look her in the eyes and ask "now it's your turn to show me exactly what you want beautiful." Done ✌️
What would us women do without you! My girl 🔥🔥
So jessica which position you like??
The doggy 🐕 style, she was blushing a lot when she was on it 😀😃🥰
Don't know what guys in the comments are saying.... She spoke the truth here and not all women like wild sex.
First to comment, cause of the notification 😅😅 thank you for the beautiful lessons
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Weldone😂
@@JessicaOS Thanks for teaching
@@JessicaOS I must say your eyes are charming
So, I know I'm late to the party. I've listened to this vid and was waiting for a good alternative option for each of these positions. I read between the lines, but, like most of us here, what are the solutions to your opinions?
Let's face it: the title was clickbait and she didn't have any meaningful content.
Not only is she fine, but she gives a lot of fine advice, thank you for this👏🏾💕
Thank you for making facts or life and normal behaviours and happenings more secure and understanding!❤
Guys it's nearly impossible to satisfy a judge that compares you to thousands of actors before you
Interesting all these positions you say women hate many women have explicitly told me they love and requested we do in the moment so Im not sure if this is a personal thing or where you get your info from ma'am
Before i watch.... better not say from the back! Because im the "DOGGY KING" 💪🏾
😂😂😂😂
Men’s Health came out with a position book. Literally 8 switches and 5 are brought up here lol definitely agree with other viewers on it’s not the position but the man…
Its True, not all positions are enjoyable
What position do you enjoy??
@@victoriajohnson4541 cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, doggy, modern missionary,
Girls like the doggystyle it just depends on if they comfortable enough to enjoy it
They like it big. Stop the cap
Not everyone likes it big most dicks are big and doesn't work well 😂😂some are medium and works effectively than ever
@@DG-EditsYT what size is a good size?
😂😂😂
Does the ones that have been run through
😂😂😂😂😂😂 and long
It's good to see women give men useful advice on this topic.
Some of these positions can be used you just have to adjust it a lil
i.e missionary at the edge of bed instead of the default allows you reach the g-spot
It's not typical doggy but if she's lying flat on her stomach it gives more room to control your movements
Most importantly work on your balance and base. Gives you more stability in any scenario especially if you wana experiment with something
Please make a part 2 because you brought no solutions! This was sooooooo general! If your going to actually talk about, talk about it!
She did she explained to ask the woman if here legs are pushed back to far, be gentle. Men never ask they just do, then doggie style she said dont thrust so hard trying to hit the bottom. Basically be more considerate with what she wants not just what you did with the last woman. She gave a lot of advice. Just have to hear it
Both my BF and I LOVE the Missionary style because of it's intimacy. I love kissing him throughout our intimacy ❤❤❤.
So basically she told us nothing 😢... Thx you very much 🎉🎉🎉
Facts 😂😂
And therein lies your problem. As a woman, I thought she told you PLENTY. I agreed with everything she said. You guys never listen! That's why I gave up on sex at the age of forty. I figured my son was the best thing I was ever going to get out of it and so he is.
AND....I have taught him to LISTEN!
@@largegod77Another non-listener! You should wonder if your partner is faking it.
Right all the men keep saying she gave nothing. Smh they dont listen its sad. But dont give up just because of a man incapable. God can send you a man that does it all. I know he just sent me one and he sent me this video so that when that time comes we are on the same page. I prayed for this and have been married beforeand faked it. Not this time @mandyharewood886
I am now confident that my styles has zero injuries
Hv watched almost all your flogs jess but hv never experienced a woman who hates missionary, majority preferes it
Really great and informative...I'll hang on to this one.
Well i will take your intel under advisemen, for sure rand i love your accent its very lovely, thanks again
I know some women will say things like, If I tell him what I want in bed, he won't listen." But if you are in pain, you need make him listen. I know if you are in a relationship with a guy, the last thing he wants to do is hurt you "down there" This video should be more about a woman telling her man if he is hurting her, not, "Hey man you *might* be hurting her." And by doing positions that have been done since dirt was new. How is a guy supposed to know if she does not tell him? Relationship 101 "Men are not mind readers"
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For some women, asking them if they're enjoying it could be a huge turn off. They don't want to tell you anything they expect you to just know.
Well informed information.
Glad you think so!
Jess, You have refined this subject eloquently.😂❤😊🎉
Jessica from ur point of view it seems like man is always going be a problem when it comes to sex. 😢 I guess you should give us 5 positions ladies love and or comfortable.
Wow that's awesome Auntie ❤
Wao special delivery 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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My girls always ask me for the missionary. They like skin to skin. Stop the cap!
If women would talk and discuss what they NEED or want..... Like I'm willing to learn ..... Girls WILL tell each other but won't tell US
I like your bar behind good collection of wiskies cheers!
I hear what you are saying but it seems like a lot of women would disagree with you on the Doggy Style or Back Shot and who says they have to arch their back to get it. The Master has it covered!
Most of my exes DEMANDED doggy stayle, for few of them it was their favorite, even to the point where I was bored and complained .
As well good few favorite was 1st one, because we could kiss, keep eye contact and they said felt most "romantic"
Interesting subject
Facts half of it is cap for sure never seen a woman despise doggy style. I guess she’s saying it for the sake of causing controversy which I can see converted into comments pretty good
Such a Beautiful Woman 🫶🏽👍🏽🫡
Thank you, this is insightful. I’d appreciate it if you can share informations on sex positions that women actually likes. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Allow the woman to control portions of sessions, she'll go where se wants to go. I've had women choose everything that this video says is 'hated'.
Jessi you are very right, sure mate
❤❤❤❤🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪thank you so much.maybe you can try and research the best and enjoyable position(kind request)
Mwana witu wi gukuu😂😂😂
Kabiri ni guakana mwaki
@@kushyknight meaning?
@@Muchirikelvin meaning what
As a disabled man, all standing positions are uncomfortable. ♿️
Thank you 😊
You're welcome 😊
I had a girlfriend who loved missionary. I’m not a big fan. We compromised here and there with positions that worked for both of us. Ultimately, I believe one of the main reasons our relationship ended was some sexual incompatibility.
Let's start with the title Jess. The word "Everyday" indicates that it must be practiced by a large number of people, no? I can't imagine that people are doing something they don't want to do at that rate. The fun in it as least for me is communicating through the act itself. Take each other for a test drive. I never went to the "show" thinking what she does or doesn't like. That to me is a speed bump and is the express train to ED. Body language will take care of that. You'll find out there. Prince dropped a line in a track called Get Off. "23 positions in a one night stand." Through the process you might like something you didn't know or thought you'd like. Get creative, have technique and all will come out well in the end. I seek the epic leg trembling, body shaking climax from my mate. And for heavens sake don't perform an act just because your partner likes it, make sure you that you like it too.
Nice teachings but the music sometimes it's a bit too loud especially if you're on headphones like i am rite now.🇿🇦
Your music should be low
At this time we are tired, No I am tired. Aaaba!!!!!! Todays girls this tomorrow Girls that. Its Ok, This time no relationship, no sex, no dating because my head is full up
Thank you Jess
You my dear, are the bearer of bad news!!!! lol Deeeeep is everything!!!!!
I read the caption and knew this video wasn't for me.And so i didn't bother to open 👐.
Women generally don't tell us what they really like, and as a collective, we all end up being unsatisfactory, cause it's Power. Something to hold against us, and not only an excuse to move on, but will make sure you don't have success with others they know.
Which positions are best?
From a guy opinion, when she is on top.
Damn! Women don't like missionary now? So what position should you start with? Finish with? Because it seems that 2-5 are off the table too. What's left? 😂😂😂
So, I guess the “Wheelbarrow” is out of the question then:-(.
🤣🤣🤣
The kitchen counter has always been fun for me...
Eating at your house is prohibited 🚫
What about Mcdonald counter
@@wilsmith3898"keep my wife's name out your f*** mouth"
@@joelalala2845😂😂😂😂 oh no I sense a huge clap coming
LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks, Jess, for sharing these. Indeed, porn has ruined sex for many people cos the ideas in most young people's warped minds are picked from porn and those guys are commercial sex workers who go to any length to devise any means to do it, just to sell their products. ☹
I'd like to request you to research and also share with us on what works for most women (I think that would als0 balance it up). I've been a virgin and a great sex life is what I look forward to experience with my future lady, especially in satisfying her.
Happy new year!
- Silver from Nigeria
The best thing you can do is discuss this with the person you’re with. Encourage her to say what she finds pleasurable and be open discuss what works and doesn’t work for her. It’s a better way to be more intimate than trying to learn something general and assuming that it works for the specific person you’re with.
Sometimes you put it to your girl, sometimes you let her put it to you. Here you'll know what you need to know.
Ok guys, the cat is out of the bag! Let's go...
How about the women talk to us about what they like and want.
"5 sex positions that..."
"There are more than 5?"
Typo. 5. 😉
Your comments are valid but, you may want to lay off of criticism of men in general if you want your video to be more accepted by your intended listeners.
What's your favorite position Jessica?😅😊
😂😂😂😂
That beautyfull voice and preety eyes colour, and lovely Rasta you have, I'm love with it,oh yeah top😊😊😊
Speaking of comfort,what of excitement?age group perspective too..
So what are some better positions?
This woman always like talking rubbish 😢😢 if you don’t know what to say then kindly go to bed and have a good rest..I hate rubbish
New over here great contents 🇯🇲🇺🇸
Oh, wow! I need to watch this now. Have you?
she is saying dont have sex at all, hahahahahahahaha
Interesting ❤
With major sex positions uncomfortable its good to give a separate video on desirable positions for balance.
Hey guys this is something else to add to the long list of complaints about anything a female feels like complaining about
Just a simple conversation sbout likes and dislikes.
My girl says you’re absolutely wrong hahaha . She wants to know since when did you speak for all women
Its not abt teaching bt also looking for money
Nice topic❤😂
All styles are not great basically😅😅- so what do they like?
Do it and Do it right. Push it to the limit, past the point of no return.
She sounds like one of those old cranky women that complain about everything. But the bottom line is, if she's uncomfortable or doesn't like it, she should say something. Communication is King!