Is she a serial cheater? Patterns and Warning signs

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +6

    Link to the KT1000 secret recorder: knightsecurity.io/products/mini-voice-recorder-and-mp3-player?rs_ref=d3qtY4gZ

  • @nanapoku5259
    @nanapoku5259 Місяць тому +15

    "They play victim so they can deflect attention from their actions or behavior and manipulate your EMPATHY"!! You couldn't have described it any better than this Jess!
    The love bomb and strategic sob story points hit home/ sounds too familiar to me! These points also speak to their narcissistic behavior!

  • @claymorekwaramba6937
    @claymorekwaramba6937 Місяць тому +32

    She lied about being divorced & forgot divorce records are accessible online for free....I told her to do a better research on her own lies 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @eddielongo7770
      @eddielongo7770 Місяць тому +3

      This happend to me. I found her records online and the guy who she was married to "initiated" the divorce proceedings lol. Crazy......it's all in the open public domain.

  • @NerdNovaTech
    @NerdNovaTech Місяць тому +13

    Jessica Os, your video on identifying patterns and warning signs of serial cheating was incredibly insightful. The way you broke down the subtle behaviors and psychological traits was both practical and thought-provoking. Addressing issues like manipulation, lack of accountability, and the repeated breaking of trust is so necessary for people navigating relationships.
    Your candid discussion about recognizing these signs early and taking steps to protect oneself emotionally and mentally adds immense value. Keep using your platform to shed light on such crucial topics it’s empowering and transformative for so many viewers!

  • @Kelsbyname
    @Kelsbyname Місяць тому +18

    This woman is the redeemer of the brotherhood🔥

    • @claymorekwaramba6937
      @claymorekwaramba6937 Місяць тому

      Red Flags are ALWAYS present..Truth is dudes chase the blinding drug that is the. 🐈ussy🐈

    • @decoratellc2711
      @decoratellc2711 Місяць тому +3

      @@Kelsbyname let’s protect her at all costs!

  • @Eros13adios
    @Eros13adios Місяць тому +8

    Thanks Jessica!!.. I needed to hear these dark truths/patterns.

  • @dozadjalo1371
    @dozadjalo1371 28 днів тому +3

    Wow, I’m dealing with a woman who has exactly all these signs you made, she identifies with all in the video, I’m speechless, and lost. Thank you Jessica good video.

  • @nfornformiwilson2059
    @nfornformiwilson2059 Місяць тому +4

    You array the clues with dazzling eloquence and cutting edge precision. You're a veritable asset.

  • @lloydfrancis6281
    @lloydfrancis6281 23 дні тому +1

    Thank you so much for being you, you're truly appreciated, not saying that I'm without faults, but I don't believe that there's another woman like the one I've been with for over 16yrs.your description fits her like a glove. OMG please continue to keep up the good work you're seriously appreciated.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  22 дні тому

      I'm happy to hear it resonated with you.

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 Місяць тому +6

    Really deep! 👏🏾👏🏾
    Biggest red flag has to be delayed responses to messages & it's mostly NOT about being busy 😪

  • @Papadeclara
    @Papadeclara Місяць тому +15

    How I wish I knew you before my past relationship, I wouldn't have been heartbroken to this level 💔.
    Thank you Jessica.

    • @greymaterresources
      @greymaterresources Місяць тому

      Papa ,are you kidding?heart broken cos of a female ?you can do better please!

  • @abdallahmohamedou7673
    @abdallahmohamedou7673 Місяць тому +4

    Well my red flag is she never stop talking to her ex and she forgot to block him always the excuse and I was like ok I’m out and it’s a hell off a fight to do so….thank you Jessica you’re the best!!

  • @salemtaxi9026
    @salemtaxi9026 Місяць тому +3

    Biggest sign I got was being with them and blinking can’t trust nothing these days
    This video is spot on and very true look for the signs😢😢😢

  • @Brainnydaniel
    @Brainnydaniel Місяць тому +9

    I have a first hand experience of EVERYTHING you just mentioned from one single lady 😂

    • @kire115
      @kire115 Місяць тому +2

      Me too... and my divorce from her was finalized 3 days ago.

    • @jbthao
      @jbthao Місяць тому

      Me too… my narcissistic ex was like this on everything. Literally everything. What why when where how = gaslighting. When they know you figured them out, that’s when they leave.

  • @JasonMabry-d5m
    @JasonMabry-d5m Місяць тому +4

    I dealt with all these for over 2 years with a woman I loved from Ghana 🇬🇭 (I’m in Texas) Took me way too long to convince myself to leave this toxic situationship….love all you videos Jessica ❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +1

      So sorry to hear that. It’s never easy to leave but you’re stronger for it!

    • @JasonMabry-d5m
      @JasonMabry-d5m Місяць тому

      @ although I’m in a happy relationship now, I still feel bad for leaving and I know it’s not good, but I still take care of my ex and her family in Ghana. I don’t like anyone to go without even though we are not together anymore.History of a relationship keeps up trapped!

    • @Vadko-b9o
      @Vadko-b9o 25 днів тому

      @@JasonMabry-d5m hey bruh, I'm assuming you was with her while she was living there the whole time? Either way if you are still pouring money because you feel bad, you shouldn't feel bad, especially if she lives in the states, at the end of the day you aren't God and you can't save everyone in bad situations such as being in a poor country/environment.
      Giving away your money to ex and her family is taking away resources from your current GF and your potential future/family/ kids with her or anyone else that is your future spouse.
      Trust me I have been in similar shoes

    • @JasonMabry-d5m
      @JasonMabry-d5m 25 днів тому +1

      @@Vadko-b9o Yes, we where in a serious long distance relationship(even got engaged) she’s still in Ghana. I’m in Texas. I spent so much time,money and effort traveling back and forth to see her. Your right, I need to let her figure life out on her own.

  • @philuxximan3187
    @philuxximan3187 Місяць тому +21

    The biggest red flag is, when she keeps a lot of male friends

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Місяць тому +9

    Covert Narcissists do it as a way of life so are experts at it,they don't see anything wrong in cheating hence they never feel guilty about it and will rarely get caught unless you put your mind to it and investigate,what you discover about them could end in tears though

  • @eddielongo7770
    @eddielongo7770 Місяць тому +2

    Only a Ghanaian Queen would know these tatics. Thanks Jessica.

  • @BunandziBeyise
    @BunandziBeyise Місяць тому +3

    You got it right Jessica ❤ ...... Thanks for the information ..... Looking for more ...... From Swaziland

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +2

      I’m so happy to be helping people from all over!

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Місяць тому +5

    I distance myself immediately I discussed she had multiple boyfriends, because I can not an option

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +1

    The summary is 👌🏾
    Let go is the solution… easier said than done though..

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +2

    The biggest red light I spotted in this particular relationship was lieing and inconsistency

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +2

    I know one who is exactly like this.. communication roller coaster..

  • @AmpliifyOS
    @AmpliifyOS Місяць тому +1

    Thank you Jessica Os.

  • @OfficialEDirty
    @OfficialEDirty Місяць тому +3

    It’s harder to find out she’s cheating when she’s cheating with other women.

  • @Herv66
    @Herv66 Місяць тому

    I can't enough of your content. Always on point & helpful! 🤩👍🏼💯

  • @SureshR-c5x
    @SureshR-c5x Місяць тому +1

    Excellent video Jess. My ex showed all these signs

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +1

    This one would never have a discussion, she lies and just expects you to accept it lol

  • @TheSamale
    @TheSamale Місяць тому

    🎉🎉😊well and enjoying your channel
    Watching from United Kingdom 🇬🇧 😍
    Thank you we support your channel all the time your my favourite.

  • @Beesoowavey92
    @Beesoowavey92 Місяць тому +15

    So they're narcissists

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Місяць тому +6

    *Recognizing these signs early helps avoid unnecessary heartbreak and builds awareness for healthier relationships.*

  • @kennethsemafumu4677
    @kennethsemafumu4677 25 днів тому +1

    She disappears with out any real good explanation and cant be reached....

  • @IsraellyOutFit-pf3io
    @IsraellyOutFit-pf3io 25 днів тому

    Me right now I was just waiting to watch one of your videos matches her character thanks very much

  • @AwakasJega
    @AwakasJega Місяць тому +2

    Jessica yesterday I met a new girlfriend so I will watche all your videos.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +1

      You're going to learn a lot!

  • @elvisbryma8590
    @elvisbryma8590 Місяць тому +1

    God bless you abundantly 🙏

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +1

    They guard their fones like it’s their life

  • @CYMRUKID69
    @CYMRUKID69 Місяць тому +2

    WOW! Jessica is so beautiful ❤

  • @willieweaver9607
    @willieweaver9607 Місяць тому +2

    If you have to purchase the KT1000, that's not the relationship you need to be in. No spy thrillers here!!!

  • @vwederepublic8879
    @vwederepublic8879 Місяць тому +3

    Are serial cheaters same as narcissists? @jessy

  • @DivineAffirmationnow
    @DivineAffirmationnow Місяць тому +1

    Great video thank u

  • @LS-sv7bo
    @LS-sv7bo Місяць тому

    you are spot on!!

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +1

    Trust??? lol
    This one never answers a direct question

  • @anthonyharris1358
    @anthonyharris1358 28 днів тому

    Best thimg you need to do in these situations, is from jump, in the relationship, you let them know that you HAVE BRUTAL NO LOOKING BACK CUT OFF GAME. No more worries ....EVER.

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому

    This one would even say she was speaking with her sister for 5 hours and sometimes forget to use a past excuse lol..

  • @joelprince4173
    @joelprince4173 Місяць тому +1

    When you have children with her and living in the same home can you just walk away when you see this signs?

  • @eddielongo7770
    @eddielongo7770 Місяць тому +2

    Serial cheaters are attention craved types of people too..

  • @piusfriday5534
    @piusfriday5534 Місяць тому +1

    No doubt you re so so right

  • @ElieDemase-s7j
    @ElieDemase-s7j Місяць тому +2

    If she views your story or status is that a way of reaching out?

  • @Trustee-of-The-Most-High
    @Trustee-of-The-Most-High Місяць тому +1

    Biggest red flag is coming to me on February 14 at the seat next to me on a airplane to cuba on vacations after paying a visit to ""your father"" 😒
    No is not her seat, is just that late night planes are usually empty

  • @nkundajohn7803
    @nkundajohn7803 Місяць тому

    Nice one ❤

  • @deanwelch9055
    @deanwelch9055 Місяць тому

    You right thanks for this video 💯%

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому

      I'm glad it resonated with you!

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому +2

    Narcissists

  • @gero256media
    @gero256media Місяць тому

    Thank you Jessica i jst love you woman❤

  • @hendersongreaves3004
    @hendersongreaves3004 22 дні тому

    Hi there.
    I have seen all of the above 😢

  • @matjazb.157
    @matjazb.157 Місяць тому +2

    Talking about narcissists ...

  • @owusuaharmon
    @owusuaharmon Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤CHICK You broke the relationship code 🎉whoaaaaat!!!!

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому

    This one always comes back with one ridiculous story but I know she’s always lieing, I ignore it and focus on asking the right questions

  • @andrewjackson6826
    @andrewjackson6826 21 день тому +1

    Believe it, or not ?

  • @terrelloliver9760
    @terrelloliver9760 Місяць тому

    Do you have a video or course on how to keep a woman interested through conversations?

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому

    Is the KT 1000 soundless with no clicks?

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 Місяць тому

    Plus they won’t have anything positive to say about you as well 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @Njoro-hp1bo
    @Njoro-hp1bo Місяць тому

    Love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @aaronandrew360
    @aaronandrew360 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @christianhcevallos
    @christianhcevallos Місяць тому +1

    Why even try reasoning with a cheater, just leave

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 20 днів тому

    LILY PHILLIPS UK 🇬🇧 😮

  • @kvantonio2001
    @kvantonio2001 Місяць тому +1

    Maybe the man or the woman not cheating maybe they just don't like you😅

  • @mensontboymannaesi6133
    @mensontboymannaesi6133 Місяць тому

    Exactly

  • @terryscott734
    @terryscott734 Місяць тому

    ❤💯

  • @deigoblonco4710
    @deigoblonco4710 Місяць тому

    💖💣🔥🔥

  • @abdulazizonotu6629
    @abdulazizonotu6629 Місяць тому +1

    I got all the behaviour in a single relationship that sent me into a major depression and ultimately PTSD. But then, when I eventually plugged out of the metrix, she had already fell in love without realizing it. Now I am the missing character in all her subsequent relationships. A walking karma, I guess! 😂

  • @Lj900-j1p
    @Lj900-j1p Місяць тому

    GO AWAY, YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY NOT PROVIDING NOTHING GOOD!!!😮😢