DEAR LADIES DONT ACCEPT THESE THINGS ON ONLINE DATING APPS

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  • DEAR LADIES DONT ACCEPT THESE THINGS ON ONLINE DATING APPS,In this video iam going to be sharing with you the things you shouldnt accept on online dating apps and by you not accepting these things will make unserious men on online dating apps run away from you which is a very good thing.This will help you concentrate on men who are only serious which will simplify your search on online dating apps.Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy and when the relationship ends you regreat that you wish you knew a guy was just wasting your time you would have saved it,so this video will help you not to fall into the hands of online dating apps time wasters.So if you are online dating apps searching for love this video will be so helpful for you but even in real life the things aply too for you who are only searching for love in real life not online.I can assure you after watching this video no man will ever play games on you not only online dating apps even in real life.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 192

  • @matoli_n
    @matoli_n 2 роки тому

    Thank you bella, your are real awesome and the video ,it was very insightful

  • @khungalucy4939
    @khungalucy4939 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the eye opener

  • @prudencem7621
    @prudencem7621 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you sweethrt we really appreciate❤

  • @genafar41
    @genafar41 2 роки тому

    Thank you very much my mentor more love ❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹

  • @SA-nl7wn
    @SA-nl7wn 2 місяці тому +1

    Extremely informative. Keep on keeping us informef dear.

  • @cleovernebaptiste2747
    @cleovernebaptiste2747 3 місяці тому

    Thank you this really helps

  • @linah2099
    @linah2099 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this insightful video. Everything you said is on point. Those red flags we should not ignore because it's clear that you are just being used.

  • @fatumawanyana717
    @fatumawanyana717 2 роки тому +1

    Bella thanks 😊 alot always on point

  • @BerthaMutale-y6p
    @BerthaMutale-y6p 21 годину тому

    Thanks love for the points I have learnt a lot 😊😊

  • @victoriaravera5831
    @victoriaravera5831 2 роки тому

    True talk dear African Bella, nice one. 👍🥰

  • @ehitywhiteRemedies
    @ehitywhiteRemedies 2 роки тому +2

    You are so right about all you mentioned. Ladies should be wise and very. Great tips shared

  • @shiningstone5801
    @shiningstone5801 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Bella for such a wisdom God gave you. You're a doing good advice for us.

  • @LifewitqueenP
    @LifewitqueenP 2 роки тому

    Very informative video . Great tips

  • @cherie5916
    @cherie5916 2 роки тому

    A nice topic Bella,my eyes are open now.Been chatting with a man for more than 3 months but I'm almost the one who initiates conversation all the time.He always claims that he's busy since he's a pilot.This an eye opener for me.Thanks alot

  • @judithsconcept
    @judithsconcept 2 роки тому +1

    You always nail it sissy, i totally agree with you on this, we need to be careful

  • @BBphysiolifestyle
    @BBphysiolifestyle 2 роки тому +1

    sorry dear I missed your premier. Here watching

  • @winny973
    @winny973 2 роки тому

    Thanks so much bella an God bless u 🙏🙏

  • @buluma.lukiya283
    @buluma.lukiya283 2 роки тому

    Thanks dear sis, its God who knowa what you deserve dear, because you are doing great work to us who are in need.

  • @beatricemukami4700
    @beatricemukami4700 Рік тому +1

    Exellent Advice Bella,,keep it up!!!

  • @indiracastillo9892
    @indiracastillo9892 2 роки тому

    Omg those are very good advices, thanks for that, I will continue with your other videos, you are sharing very good tips 👌🏾👌🏾

  • @preciouschinonyelum150
    @preciouschinonyelum150 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Bella
    Much love from Nigeria❤

  • @papamamlolomba9869
    @papamamlolomba9869 2 роки тому +2

    i know with you i will never go wrong, thanks for your advice and help. ❤️

  • @kaishalugonvu3495
    @kaishalugonvu3495 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you dear❤❤

  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily 2 роки тому

    Our teacher you come through again today with another awesome tips. Get to know where your relationship stands✌, honesty no hiding hiding, no ex talks....among others. Run oh before you regret the relationship.

  • @maxxie2440
    @maxxie2440 2 роки тому

    Thanks dear for always educating us ....we Always learn alot and how to handle relationships.....you are the best dear❤

  • @mercylineisaac7071
    @mercylineisaac7071 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the good advice

  • @tessthuku5647
    @tessthuku5647 2 роки тому +4

    I have been seeing someone and was skeptical about calling him unaware but yesterday I did. Bella is the true teacher. Online dating ain't easy ooohh

  • @jantshiyamba7251
    @jantshiyamba7251 Рік тому +1

    Wooooow Thank you so much Bella , we are learning to much about those dating site , God Bless you.

  • @MissUnice
    @MissUnice 2 роки тому

    As always my dear this are good advice you give us. you are full of knowledge on this topic

  • @TheresasLife
    @TheresasLife 2 роки тому +3

    Bella always giving the real talk... I agree with you Sis... A lot of them are really just looking for someone to split bills with 🤣

  • @sizakhelezitha4292
    @sizakhelezitha4292 2 роки тому

    Oooooh wow this is a real truth Bella 👏 💯 🙌

  • @vibewithmimmie3307
    @vibewithmimmie3307 2 роки тому

    Good points sis❤️

  • @shadilaide5920
    @shadilaide5920 2 роки тому

    Very true and well said

  • @ashantyfamily
    @ashantyfamily 2 роки тому

    U r so right beautiful. We have to b very carefull. We have 2 b wise enough. Bless u beautiful interesting video nd u r looking gorgeous.

  • @Ellasfam1
    @Ellasfam1 2 роки тому

    You are soo true some people need to be careful and be smart when going into a relationship because any red flag 🚩 need to be look into no body want people who play games thanks for this interesting video keep the good work dear ❤️

  • @lilianogola3635
    @lilianogola3635 2 роки тому +1

    This is so true the video is so educative.

  • @shiyeliainkorea
    @shiyeliainkorea 2 роки тому

    Very educative. Thanks sister.

  • @magdalenaamunyela2623
    @magdalenaamunyela2623 Рік тому +1

    Thanks our lovely sister Bella God bless you abundantly ❤

  • @serakose7814
    @serakose7814 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Darling we do appreciate 🥰🥰

  • @Casadolcecasa22
    @Casadolcecasa22 2 роки тому +1

    You are right a man should show effort doing things in a respectable way to build a good relationship

  • @kayirangwatina2494
    @kayirangwatina2494 6 місяців тому

    Wonderful sister Bella, you something, there's a reason why God blessed, because remember God annointed king David after seeing that he had a special heart, Bella believe that God will continue blessing you with more, more wisdom, I'm Tina from Mbarara 😊

  • @angelamkandawire7612
    @angelamkandawire7612 2 роки тому +1

    Am finally watching this today, thanks Bella. I used to ask you, now I know.

  • @MichilenDoll
    @MichilenDoll 2 роки тому

    So true sis when we see red flags, we should run we have be very careful when it comes to relationships

  • @fgfh9138
    @fgfh9138 2 роки тому +1

    Thx dea for the advise

  • @dolnkerry
    @dolnkerry 2 роки тому +4

    This is sooo true ,..we must be very careful when it comes to relationships....when you see a red flag just run

  • @grace-tee
    @grace-tee Рік тому +3

    Hie Bella. I need advice off this platform if at all possible. I recently started dating an Italian guy, he seems to have passed everything except he likes talking about the goodies too much. He answers calls any time, he calls, we chat till late, he talks about his family and is eager to know about mine. We seem to connect but I am getting a little frustrated coz I am failing to keep up when it comes to this goodies topic. Other than that everything about him seems legit so I am now confused and don't know if I should end it or not.

  • @Charlize2222
    @Charlize2222 2 роки тому +2

    O.M.G true - i know I used to dismiss them guys that wld say I don’t use WhatsApp come to Skype argh . These are all games if they don’t share their private number juss apps . So easy for game players to waste the desperate persons time .i Love your tops looks beautiful.❤️❤️❤️

  • @grace-tee
    @grace-tee Рік тому +2

    Hie Bella. I need advice off this platform. I recently started dating an Italian guy, he seems to have passed everything except he likes talking about the goodies too much. He answers calls any time, he calls, we chat till late, he talks about his family and is eager to know about

  • @grace-tee
    @grace-tee Рік тому +2

    Hie Bella. I need advice off this platform. I recently started dating an Italian guy, he seems to have passed everything except he likes talking about the goodies too much. He answers calls any time, he calls, we chat till late, he talks about his family and is eager to know about mine but I can't keep up when it comes to the goodies topic. I expressed how I feel about it but he just can't seem to help it. M getting frustrated but at the same time I don't know if I should let go coz everything else about him seems legit.

  • @FebineAwuor
    @FebineAwuor 2 роки тому

    The foundation of a relationship determines how it will be in future. You cant change when its too late. Setting boundaries is very important. Mr. Man , pay for what you need to .. a man has a responsibility of providing.

  • @agathachululuka7759
    @agathachululuka7759 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful information 👌👌👌

  • @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes
    @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes 2 роки тому

    Am telling you aki most of us ignore red flags, its so true be of honest and genuine. Thanks for sharing this informasjon with us its very important 🙌👌

  • @kalavarathanthram1043
    @kalavarathanthram1043 2 роки тому

    Excellent shayaring my friend thanks your advice and help

  • @sharonkayz517
    @sharonkayz517 2 роки тому

    This is true sis thanx

  • @mamafranjovlog72
    @mamafranjovlog72 2 роки тому

    You look amazing dear, haiyaaa sasa lets gooo,

  • @happiebabie4958
    @happiebabie4958 Рік тому +2

    Bella u are right a certain guy was forcing me to download Snapchat but I refused

  • @sharon_e_cephas1337
    @sharon_e_cephas1337 2 роки тому

    waiting
    the gang💃💃💪💪

  • @lorrainethobejane2043
    @lorrainethobejane2043 Місяць тому

    Thanks for the advice I recently got a guy prefer Skype

  • @ignatiathobile5565
    @ignatiathobile5565 2 роки тому

    You are the best❤️❤️

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Рік тому +1

    Maximum respect our lovely sis 😊

  • @kalungijackline1308
    @kalungijackline1308 2 роки тому

    Ohhhhh my God this what I call reality ohhhh my God it was so massive Bella you really said it all if all ladies can understand you we are saved from players much love from me forever you made me woman not girl to played games 😘😘😘😘😘

  • @Jessyqueen1962
    @Jessyqueen1962 2 роки тому +3

    So right some guys won’t want to give you their watssap number, nor call you during the night, we must be very vigilant, the unserious ones are all over the place, they only video call when they are taking their shower or when they are in a lonely place with out anyone around, they should be a kind of seriousness in his way of doing things, some of them tries to trick their way out to get the goodies before time , we ladies should always be alert until we are satisfied with the result or the way the relationship is going

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much sweetheart Jessy ❤

    • @preciouschakoma1035
      @preciouschakoma1035 6 місяців тому

      My dear lets say he is still knowing you is it possible for him to introduce you to his relatives

  • @Giniwonders1
    @Giniwonders1 2 роки тому

    Wonderful! I learnt something here. A guy shouldn’t force you to do what you are not comfortable of doing. E.G A guy forcing you to Download Skype and all. Not cool

  • @ciaobella796
    @ciaobella796 2 роки тому

    Healthy Boundaries very early in a relationship are important to avoid a lot of misunderstandings. I love your tips cara 😍, they are very important. With your tips women can avoid a lot of red flags in the relationship. Good job girl , brava 👏👏

  • @lucie25422
    @lucie25422 2 роки тому

    Many ladies ignore the red flags..especially if there is no freedom with communication

  • @Barr.JoyO.
    @Barr.JoyO. Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @giftchiluba1635
    @giftchiluba1635 Рік тому +1

    Thanks I recently met one of such kind that he doesn't use WhatsApp....he told me to to download Skype.... thanks for your teachings I was wise enough to cut him off

  • @rachelbala8634
    @rachelbala8634 Рік тому +2

    Hi Bella how are you I don't know how to join you for membership

  • @mamafranjovlog72
    @mamafranjovlog72 2 роки тому

    Hahahhahaa hao wasiotaka wasapu kwa karne hii jamani wanaficha nini lol,kwakweli hao ambao wao hawako hata interested na maisha au fure , ni kweli dear wa kuwakimbia pia lol kabisa dear kabisa ukianza kulipa mwanzoni huwezi kumbadilisha mwishoni, its good kuwa muwazi kama akidisaper mwanzoni akimbie tuuuu haahaa, kwakweli sana mtu anaekupenda atafurahi ukimuuliza na sio kuweka boundary, hahaaha clean haswaaa, nice video dear very helpfully

  • @selphaadweya
    @selphaadweya 2 роки тому

    New subie

  • @lukongahmwahle7612
    @lukongahmwahle7612 2 роки тому +1

    Greetings bella more ❤ from me.. keep us updated every time.. let me be one of the ladies to be on ur list... when you will have single white man who needs black woman.. don't forget me as well

  • @EfranceNagadya
    @EfranceNagadya Рік тому +4

    How to chase players in love
    1.wen the communication is complicated. Wen he's the one to call you.
    2.wen a man calls you in bathroom
    3.no calls at night
    4.wen he tells u he don't have WhatsApp.
    5.to sleep with you before any move
    6.if he don't want to take the responsibility.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Рік тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @MilicentINGOS
      @MilicentINGOS 6 днів тому

      Hi Bella,I went on a date and imagine the guy never even bought me lunch or a drink in our first meeting,,,,I went ahead telling him I need pizza since he knew I had not eaten lunch but still he never bought it,,,

  • @guibongbaby839
    @guibongbaby839 2 роки тому

    Hi sis Bella
    I want to share with u a little bit
    Have made this guy on afro,he's from United States
    So we r chatting all day.
    Just that I'm out of the country on a 2yrs contract else he wanted to come to my country,first to propose to me then go,come again for our marriage then I can join him .so he says he working an evening shift,while during the day,we can't chat but only when he's driving in the evening for work and u know United state time difference
    So I'm little confused and think maybe he's playing me by saying he doesn't want to take my calls because he might be hiding something or because when it day here,it night there and vice versa so when I want to call during day here,he won't pick because he's back from work and sleeping

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  2 роки тому +2

      Hi dearest sis he is playing you.Let me tell you if a guy is seriously interested in you he will make that time talk to you no excuses.

  • @rachelbala8634
    @rachelbala8634 Рік тому +2

    I keep on trying to find a man but there is no one help me

  • @peshpeshgal3796
    @peshpeshgal3796 Рік тому +2

    1. Complicated Communication
    2.Talks of sex sex sex everytime.No future plans talks
    3.A fight erupts when he's planning to visit you on who to pay for the visa,bills etc.
    4.If he ignores you all the time, you're the one running after him by sms,calling etc
    5.Dont wants to be asks a lot of questions
    6.Dating for so long without knowing where the r/ship is heading to.
    7.Never date a guy who has many complications in his past r/ships, not yet healed from the past, he is bitter

  • @fridahmachilima6940
    @fridahmachilima6940 4 місяці тому

    Thank you balla im chatting with someone on Whatsapp but he told me to buy a sim card ad send it so that we can open WhatsApp please what i can do? Everything is ok like Communication

  • @mathanakalembe3839
    @mathanakalembe3839 Рік тому +1

    its true

  • @anushamunishvaran297
    @anushamunishvaran297 Рік тому +1

    I joined most of these dating site. But could never get to send or receive messages unless I pay..how come. Pls explain .

  • @rosendirangu5941
    @rosendirangu5941 3 місяці тому

    You look beautiful ❤ gal..

  • @guibongbaby839
    @guibongbaby839 2 роки тому +2

    So,he has told me about his family,and has told me he wants to have kids,has also told me he will pay for everything
    He also wants me to send him my ID for he can be sending me some money to take care of myself
    He also wants to send me some package 📦. Infact he has said so many.,but like I said earlier, it just my work contract that's hindrances I would have send him to see if he's real
    So have not concluded yet,if he's true or not
    I'm still keeping fingers cross

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  2 роки тому

      Ok you can keep observing him but I dont like package story that sounds like a redflag

    • @preciouschakoma1035
      @preciouschakoma1035 6 місяців тому

      ​@africanbellatherealtalk Bella l need help.Where can l talk to you.

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vincentgift4822
    @vincentgift4822 8 місяців тому

    Ma what about guy that is saying he has not use WhatsApp before that he can't download it

  • @magdalenaamunyela2623
    @magdalenaamunyela2623 Рік тому +1

    There's one i was asking him some questions and then apparently a like asking past things😂😂

  • @rejoicesmelton7699
    @rejoicesmelton7699 2 роки тому

    Hi sisy Bella, I have a burning issue that I need to discuss with you.How can we talk privately?

  • @aestheticmusic1026
    @aestheticmusic1026 2 роки тому

    What if you don’t want to give out your number so soon. What do you say?

  • @zalwangobelindah4762
    @zalwangobelindah4762 Рік тому

    I love your attire darling Bella nice fashion 👌

  • @nankyabernadette3195
    @nankyabernadette3195 9 місяців тому

    Bella sis please help get awhite man

  • @mamafranjovlog72
    @mamafranjovlog72 2 роки тому

    Mh hao wa wakupiga simu chooni half naked its no no no ,Hahahaha bela bwana na kweli anaficha nini usiku hahahha lazima akimbie mwenyewe lol

  • @BBphysiolifestyle
    @BBphysiolifestyle 2 роки тому

    I love everything about you today

  • @gracegifty6845
    @gracegifty6845 Рік тому +1

    😁

  • @abdulshakoor7214
    @abdulshakoor7214 2 роки тому

    African ladkiyon se Shaadi ke Liye marriage karni hai relationship aur dating ke liye

  • @ruthmkupu
    @ruthmkupu Рік тому +2

    U talking the real man can never ask yr naked

  • @genafar41
    @genafar41 2 роки тому

    exactly we should date guys who are clean with their boxer shorts 😅😅😅❤❤❤

  • @rachelbala8634
    @rachelbala8634 Рік тому +2

    Im looking for a old age man 65 to 80

    • @rachelbala8634
      @rachelbala8634 Рік тому +1

      Hi sis Bella thank for replying my msg of lo age man ,I did try to join your group but the thing is I don't know how to do the Vodacom billing that is why now I ask you to find one for me I'm in South Africa joburg I'm far and I'm widower for 12 yrs now dear if you find one you will tell me dear🙏🙏♥️

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Рік тому

      Check me on Insta dear.African bella

  • @marygitau7308
    @marygitau7308 Рік тому +1

    most of them ask you to download skype

  • @selphaadweya
    @selphaadweya 2 роки тому +1

    Online dating app and this Man from UK always to talk about sex I just don't like it.
    I feel we should know each other well in other perspective before we go deep into talking about sex

  • @rachelbala8634
    @rachelbala8634 Рік тому +1

    White does it matter even overseas one hornest one dear darling I keep on watching your videos

  • @esthermighty4807
    @esthermighty4807 2 роки тому

    Just tired of online dating app

  • @joanneromi956
    @joanneromi956 2 роки тому +1

    Bella, how can I get you on insta, or watsupp. I would use some of your help at this point of my life. But thanks for all the love.🙏

  • @grace-tee
    @grace-tee Рік тому +1

    Hie Bella. I need advice off this platform. I recently started dating an Italian guy, he seems to have passed everything except he likes talking about the goodies too much. He answers calls any time, he calls, we chat till late, he talks about his family and is eager to know about