On communication part, they’ll actually also ask you about your problems too. You will think you’re entering into a partnership & that they care about you. Instead they’re just using you to get by the day & once thyre fed up they’ll start telling you “ you can’t understand, it’s complicated “then stop communicating with you ,they will take another girl and start the same cycle.Don’t allow people to Emotionally /Mentally & physically drain you all because of love. We all have problems as adults , happiness is a choice , be smart on those patterns and pray for a Real Man. A Man who will knows how to handle pressure.
If you are astray, isolation, negativity Gossiping your loved one will be forced into falses prophets. In that case block bad guys Block bad friends Change your number Avoid to meet fake people
Absolutely do not fall in their trap. And also always stand your ground. Do not be used oh this guys can sure use you if you are not careful. With all these tips and stories you are sharing hope they learn and run away oh. Good job sis coming through 👏👏
Yes Bella ladies should be careful these guys they write them in their bio's for example my dog is my number one priority so they should read carefully mens profile instead of saying oh I got a cute guy but when you're the last priority. Thanks always for the tips Bella ❤❤
Thank you so much Bella we got you ,most men on Afro introductions are interested in dominant and submissive women,Men on dating apps are really crazy,Bella I have been wanting to ask you something am 55kgs and I don't know whether am an average, slim or plus size help me to understanding this🙏
Underweight is not good Every woman must 56/58 kg Underweight is not good health You end up you have diarrhea, at you? Easily to gets bacteria Bacteria fungus go block your fallopian tube No babies once you gets married Too much overweight Too small underweight Is not healthy
About online dating we thank God coz yo a gift from heaven God sent to us to direct us from users men I really appreciate for the love sis Thank you I love you so much
God bless you Bella, you are so amazing with your presentation, educating us. Bella I have met a lot of them, they gave their WhatsApp numbers, you start chatting then all of a sudden they vanished and some months later they reface and vanished. I have been chatting with a German guy since 2021.
At least now I can say I have some tips no one can lie or manipulate me Iam so so careful .Having some content is the best gift ever .Bella God bless you
Asante sana dada Bella kwani nimekuwa nikifuatulia channel yako kwa miezi kama miwili sasa nimepata mafunzo mengi sana ila ya leo ndo kama umenipiga Kofi la uso kwani ulivyoanza tu kuelezea kama ulikua unaniambia mimi kabisa Asante sana Mwenyezi Mungu akupe umri mlefu wenye mafanikio yaan leo ndo story zote nilizosikia kutoka kwako ndo nimeziamini asilimia 100%
Sister Bella when ever I watch your videos I feel like being with you in your house just to keep on listening when you talk you are really helping ladies keep it up sister god bless you 🙏
Bella i agree with what you are saying because i always see these things and some I have experienced but because of the advice you always give us .i Survive the trap thank you Bella for loving us
Thank you so bella for always looking out on we your black sisters with wonderful advise, May God almighty continue to bless you and your lovely family real Good
Thanks alot Bella for these tips, I'm so glad I found your channel before joining any dating sites/apps, I've learnt alot and I know by the time I'll be ready to join I won't fall in any traps, for now I'm still working upon myself financially. May God continue blessing you as you bless as with more lessons 🙏😊
@@africanbellatherealtalk Sorry I am a scammer l am a woman not interested to marry now.... because I just divorce.... unless fooling around but no sex just pay me coffee and take me out on dating...no sex outside marriage is prison Thanks
Sometimes when a man say him love u and don’t even know u anything about u is a big joke.u can’t make love fool u that’s u too blind about love no one should ask u about money the man should take good care of u if him want to meet u. Woman don’t blind for love open your eyes looking into things before u jumping him .
Quick solution. Ladies, don't have sex with them. Once a man sees that your not easy, and can not be manipulated . It will force him to show his true intentions. Where he will either run for dear life, or remain. All because, he sees you as being different, or a challenge. Ever heard the phrase, "Hit it and quit it"? I have male friends and the way they talk about women. It is nothing pretty. So in short, Ladies know your worth.
As a 64 year old Black Man to my Sister’s be prayerful about these relationships. This goes for Black Men and Women, when they start calling you the N word they are telling you to leave before it’s too late
How I hate those words dominant woman and submissive man, the moment I hear that from a man. I blocked you them, such men are not serious online dating, just there to make fun,
Another sign is their profile doesn’t match how they present themselves and their grammer is telling. He says say he is a lawyer but his grammer and obvious typos are many. Secondly it’s how they choose to talk to you.
That's murmur Momo Who is a man childishi to extend only him (31-34) That's traps I don't want marry of local woman i want to marry international women's who is dominant dominion That's is trap He probably GOTS a wife in his home local resident If you meet a man interested in marriage he focus on marriage assignments Not compared you locals or international Native or disaporas
Axacly other one he said he want to send me the money so that he can buy me the car he said cause he is in USA he can't send the money I must pay 3500 first to the guy who will do papers I raised up my mind I say there a many ways to send the money without taking my 3500 it was clear to.me that he want to rob me me about my 3500
Hello me l cannot be used by men and sucking money too from me Because first place when l gets money pays all my bills..... I go pay my nephew's, nieces and daughter school fee and basic needs gift's I don't save much money because I am scared to be Victims of money I only save money to my bank of hospitals tax, medicine to buy ! 150USA dollars If l have to save 1000 $ I give it to my uncle who is married i can trust to save my money 💸 for me!
Hahahaha someone did same to me and I told him to use his money so when the interest comes, he can deduct and send me the rest and he blocked me instantly 😂😂😂😂😂😂
On communication part, they’ll actually also ask you about your problems too. You will think you’re entering into a partnership & that they care about you. Instead they’re just using you to get by the day & once thyre fed up they’ll start telling you “ you can’t understand, it’s complicated “then stop communicating with you ,they will take another girl and start the same cycle.Don’t allow people to Emotionally /Mentally & physically drain you all because of love. We all have problems as adults , happiness is a choice , be smart on those patterns and pray for a Real Man. A Man who will knows how to handle pressure.
If you are astray, isolation, negativity
Gossiping your loved one will be forced into falses prophets.
In that case block bad guys
Block bad friends
Change your number
Avoid to meet fake people
Emotional, physically, Mentally drain
Joy sucked and dumb
Some have dumped their babies and men GOTS same spirit of dumpings
Red flag
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Absolutely do not fall in their trap. And also always stand your ground. Do not be used oh this guys can sure use you if you are not careful. With all these tips and stories you are sharing hope they learn and run away oh. Good job sis coming through 👏👏
Thank you so much Mrembo❤
The last tip really touched my heart
It has opened my eyes
Men are users nowdays
Welcome dear ❤️
Users are so evil targeting naive women am so glad Bella God sent you to help us all.
Awwwh thank you ❤️
Yes Bella ladies should be careful these guys they write them in their bio's for example my dog is my number one priority so they should read carefully mens profile instead of saying oh I got a cute guy but when you're the last priority.
Thanks always for the tips Bella ❤❤
You really understand relationship issues and you are very intelligent, Bella. Thank you so much this was so educative. 🥰🥰
Thank you sweetie ❤️
Thank you so much Bella we got you ,most men on Afro introductions are interested in dominant and submissive women,Men on dating apps are really crazy,Bella I have been wanting to ask you something am 55kgs and I don't know whether am an average, slim or plus size help me to understanding this🙏
Average
@@shank3380 thanks for sure I didn't know where I belong
Underweight is not good
Every woman must 56/58 kg
Underweight is not good health
You end up you have diarrhea, at you?
Easily to gets bacteria
Bacteria fungus go block your fallopian tube
No babies once you gets married
Too much overweight
Too small underweight
Is not healthy
@@shank3380 you really do not care how is average
Not even crossed
56 kg
@@angulaaagula5926 slim (skinny), average and plus size. It isn't about kgs. I know slim people that got more kgs. It's more the body appearance
About online dating we thank God coz yo a gift from heaven God sent to us to direct us from users men
I really appreciate for the love sis
Thank you I love you so much
Love you too darling 😘 💗
It is a “wake up slap” for me
Thanks for sharing Bella 🙏
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God bless you Bella, you are so amazing with your presentation, educating us. Bella I have met a lot of them, they gave their WhatsApp numbers, you start chatting then all of a sudden they vanished and some months later they reface and vanished. I have been chatting with a German guy since 2021.
No block them those at first place coming back is to robber, drain you mentali
Amen 🙏
You need to get rid of him if nothing serious
At least now I can say I have some tips no one can lie or manipulate me Iam so so careful .Having some content is the best gift ever .Bella God bless you
😂😂😂😂 be careful gal
Am being careful chirry😂😂😂
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Hi sis,I can't stop watching your content my dear I have actually learnt a lot a lot from you.Gid bless you big
Thank you dear 🥰
Honestly Bella some of the stories make me wanna step back 🙌 but thanks to you
Welcome
Great tips, I also disagree with 50/50 in a relationship
Thank you sis❤️
Asante sana dada Bella kwani nimekuwa nikifuatulia channel yako kwa miezi kama miwili sasa nimepata mafunzo mengi sana ila ya leo ndo kama umenipiga Kofi la uso kwani ulivyoanza tu kuelezea kama ulikua unaniambia mimi kabisa Asante sana Mwenyezi Mungu akupe umri mlefu wenye mafanikio yaan leo ndo story zote nilizosikia kutoka kwako ndo nimeziamini asilimia 100%
Important information and good guidelines strategy
Karibu dear🥰
Thank you
On the other hand thank you so much for guiding us. May God bless u mightily
Am happy to hear this stories am in class to know about white man
Thanks Bella for the good work and beautiful advice, it's true my sister nowadays men are like that
Welcome dear
True talk dear African Bella thanks for sharing 🥰🥰👍
Welcome ❤️
I learnt something and enjoy it.am watching you from Nigeria
Sister Bella when ever I watch your videos I feel like being with you in your house just to keep on listening when you talk you are really helping ladies keep it up sister god bless you 🙏
Bella i agree with what you are saying because i always see these things and some I have experienced but because of the advice you always give us .i
Survive the trap thank you Bella for loving us
Welcome hun
Hii bella thnks so much how can I get the right man?
@@morrineatienoshe has explained it one if her vedios here on how to get the one girl go ahead and watch it ,
Thank you for guiding us my dear may God Almighty continue to bless you more
Welcome dear ❤️
Thank yiu bella for a other ✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️video
Thank you sis ❤️
Thank you so much Bella for being there for us all ...we couldn't know this for sure.
Welcome dear ❤️
I want to join to a member how do I do it
Check me on insta I direct you
Click on join button if you don't see it come on insta I direct you how to do it
Thank you so much Bella you helped me alot ever since I new this channel , have learnt a lot .
Welcome dear ❤️
Wow ,all videos lessons 😢are teaching me in the relationship l'm in.
All the best
Thank you bella I alyways listen to your tips and follow what you say praying God 🙏 I get someone serious soon
Welcome dear ❤️
Thank you so much Bella, you are such a good sister, we are proud of you
Welcome dear ❤️
Mmmmm very helpful Bella ..Thank you . I hope the Lord will help us to be wise and careful.
Welcome dear 🙏
Thank you for sharing , may God order my steps to good man ,Amen
Welcome
💗💗💗 thank you my dear Bella!
Welcome dear ❤️
Thsnks alot for the info dea Bella❤️❤️❤️
Welcome dear ❤️
Thanks 🙏 my beautiful Bella for the good 👍 information u have really tought me alot to day .
Welcome dear
Thank you sis Bella for these tips.❤️
Wow I'm so happy for your advice you giving us 💪💪💪
All the best hun
@@africanbellatherealtalk more blessings our lovely sis 💕
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Very true my darling
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thank you so much our lovely sister we love you so so much 💗 💖 more blessings omwagalwa wafe
Love you back hun❤️
Beautifull !! Thanks a lot
Welcome dear ❤️
Thank you Sissy❤❤
Welcome dear ❤️
Thanks my beautiful cc❤️
Welcome dear ❤️
Good words of wisdom
Thank you ❤️
Good morning Thank you Bella
Welcome dear ❤️
Thank you Bella for these tips🙏.
Welcome dear ❤️
Thanks Bella for sharing this I enjoyed listening to your tips and you opened my eyes.
Awwwh welcome dear
Thanks Bella for your tips and advice❤
Welcome dear ❤️
Hello bella how can I talk to you privately
@sarahamoit2546 on insta @African bella
Thanks so much dear ❤
Welcome
Thank you Bella for the advice.
Welcome dear ❤️
Thank you so bella for always looking out on we your black sisters with wonderful advise, May God almighty continue to bless you and your lovely family real Good
Thank you too dear🥰
Thanks so much you really help, I have wanted to chat you but I don't have Instagram at the moment
Sorry dear ❤️
I'm in here this apps tip toeing on this apps cz truly Bella my girl you keep in check no nonsense 2023 oh ,users beware 😜❤️🇰🇪
Thanks beautiful 😍
Thanks very much dear 💖
Welcome dear ❤️
Thankyou Bella for shining our eyes keep it up good work 👏
Welcome dear ❤️
Hi, Bella. Is it safe to share cellphone numbers within two days of chatting online?
Soon but depends on what you talked about in those two days
Thanks 👍🙏 dear 💕💕
Welcome ❤️
Bella thanks for the good advice but what about a guy who does video call but refuses to send you photos
Welcome dear
That one has something is hiding
I think he is hiding something
Yes oooh
Thanks alot Bella for these tips, I'm so glad I found your channel before joining any dating sites/apps, I've learnt alot and I know by the time I'll be ready to join I won't fall in any traps, for now I'm still working upon myself financially. May God continue blessing you as you bless as with more lessons 🙏😊
I am a man l can I connect to you if you want me 👰🏿♀️
Good dear❤️❤️
@@africanbellatherealtalk Sorry I am a scammer l am a woman not interested to marry now.... because I just divorce.... unless fooling around but no sex just pay me coffee and take me out on dating...no sex outside marriage is prison
Thanks
Kidney kidding Roam Hills
Thanks Bella Bella ❤❤❤❤❤💘
Welcome ❤️
Thanks sis bella, for sure you helped alot that time about to be scammed.Let God reward you abandantly
Welcome dear ❤️
Thank you so much Bella, but l really need you help 🙏💕
Achan check me on insta @African bella
Thank you so much you such a darling 😘
Welcome hun❤️
Good looking bella
Thank you hun
Sometimes when a man say him love u and don’t even know u anything about u is a big joke.u can’t make love fool u that’s u too blind about love no one should ask u about money the man should take good care of u if him want to meet u. Woman don’t blind for love open your eyes looking into things before u jumping him .
It was so educational
👍
Love you bella
Just waiting ✋
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We love you 👄👄sis ❤️
The moment you talk about money😂😂my feelings vanish 😂dude i dont even ask for you money
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Quick solution. Ladies, don't have sex with them. Once a man sees that your not easy, and can not be manipulated . It will force him to show his true intentions. Where he will either run for dear life, or remain. All because, he sees you as being different, or a challenge. Ever heard the phrase, "Hit it and quit it"? I have male friends and the way they talk about women. It is nothing pretty. So in short, Ladies know your worth.
👏❤❤
As a 64 year old Black Man to my Sister’s be prayerful about these relationships. This goes for Black Men and Women, when they start calling you the N word they are telling you to leave before it’s too late
Thank you bella,this was a good teaching
Welcome dear
I have one but l don't think if he is serious
How I hate those words dominant woman and submissive man, the moment I hear that from a man. I blocked you them, such men are not serious online dating, just there to make fun,
They are so bad
True
Sisy you've just said utopolo 😂😂 -29:40
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You drag things too longgggg , just hit the nail on the headddd
Thanx sissy bella.am belha how long does it take to hook for me a seriously white guy.waiting.
Yeah. Please Am searching for a marriage partner.
How long does it take to prepare dear.
Welcome dear ❤️
What?
I'm waiting
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Another sign is their profile doesn’t match how they present themselves and their grammer is telling. He says say he is a lawyer but his grammer and obvious typos are many.
Secondly it’s how they choose to talk to you.
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Every tym when l watch your video l go and dawnload dating app again
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To find true love is not a jock🤦
Yes
That's murmur
Momo
Who is a man childishi
to extend only him (31-34)
That's traps I don't want marry of local woman i want to marry international women's who is dominant dominion
That's is trap
He probably GOTS a wife in his home local resident
If you meet a man interested in marriage he focus on marriage assignments
Not compared you locals or international
Native or disaporas
👏👏👏👏👏
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Eiish l can't take it
Axacly other one he said he want to send me the money so that he can buy me the car he said cause he is in USA he can't send the money I must pay 3500 first to the guy who will do papers I raised up my mind I say there a many ways to send the money without taking my 3500 it was clear to.me that he want to rob me me about my 3500
Others they a convincing u by saying they send money after that it difficult to send money in USA which is lies
Hello me l cannot be used by men and sucking money too from me
Because first place when l gets money pays all my bills.....
I go pay my nephew's, nieces and daughter school fee and basic needs gift's
I don't save much money because I am scared to be Victims of money
I only save money to my bank of hospitals tax, medicine to buy ! 150USA dollars
If l have to save 1000 $ I give it to my uncle who is married i can trust to save my money 💸 for me!
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hahahaha someone did same to me and I told him to use his money so when the interest comes, he can deduct and send me the rest and he blocked me instantly 😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 Good!
Please I need to talk to you
On insta @african bella
@@africanbellatherealtalk thank you❤️
@@africanbellatherealtalk sent a message there please
Women's who grow up without no a dad
To identify men joke's
Men seriously committed to the truth
Thanks for more advanced
Thanks sis bella, for sure you helped alot that time about to be scammed.Let God reward you abandantly
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