HOW TO KNOW IF A WHITE GUY ON ONLINE DATING APPS IS USING YOU

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  • Опубліковано 24 січ 2023
  • HOW TO KNOW IF A WHITE GUY ON ONLINE DATING APPS IS USING YOU,in this video will be sharing with you the things that will let you know that a white man on online dating apps is using you,the truth is when a man is using you,let it be on online dating apps or even in real life wont shout at you that aim using you girl for you to now.So by watching this this video it will shine your eyes,like a wake up call if you are dating a white guy and he is using you when you see the actions that i will share in this video stop him from keeping on using you or if you are online searching then when you see these signs in a white guy you are chatting to dont let him use you.My intentions of sharing this vide is to help you find yourself in the hands of the right white man or any man of any colour and have safe search while you are on online dating apps
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 201

  • @chimwemwemwansa7961
    @chimwemwemwansa7961 Рік тому +28

    On communication part, they’ll actually also ask you about your problems too. You will think you’re entering into a partnership & that they care about you. Instead they’re just using you to get by the day & once thyre fed up they’ll start telling you “ you can’t understand, it’s complicated “then stop communicating with you ,they will take another girl and start the same cycle.Don’t allow people to Emotionally /Mentally & physically drain you all because of love. We all have problems as adults , happiness is a choice , be smart on those patterns and pray for a Real Man. A Man who will knows how to handle pressure.

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +2

      If you are astray, isolation, negativity
      Gossiping your loved one will be forced into falses prophets.
      In that case block bad guys
      Block bad friends
      Change your number
      Avoid to meet fake people

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +1

      Emotional, physically, Mentally drain
      Joy sucked and dumb
      Some have dumped their babies and men GOTS same spirit of dumpings
      Red flag

    • @mwakaliambela9677
      @mwakaliambela9677 Рік тому +1

      ❤️

  • @buluma.lukiya283
    @buluma.lukiya283 Рік тому +2

    Thanks sis bella, for sure you helped alot that time about to be scammed.Let God reward you abandantly

  • @mwakaliambela9677
    @mwakaliambela9677 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sis Bella for these tips.❤️

  • @margaretatieno1137
    @margaretatieno1137 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Bella for the advice.

  • @ruthnjeri1392
    @ruthnjeri1392 Рік тому +1

    Thank you bella I alyways listen to your tips and follow what you say praying God 🙏 I get someone serious soon

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much Bella, you are such a good sister, we are proud of you

  • @Challet-Kay
    @Challet-Kay Рік тому +1

    Thanks Bella for sharing this I enjoyed listening to your tips and you opened my eyes.

  • @cynthyblessing9986
    @cynthyblessing9986 Рік тому

    Thank you so bella for always looking out on we your black sisters with wonderful advise, May God almighty continue to bless you and your lovely family real Good

  • @lionidakirochi9863
    @lionidakirochi9863 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Bella for the good work and beautiful advice, it's true my sister nowadays men are like that

  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily Рік тому +7

    Absolutely do not fall in their trap. And also always stand your ground. Do not be used oh this guys can sure use you if you are not careful. With all these tips and stories you are sharing hope they learn and run away oh. Good job sis coming through 👏👏

  • @paulineafrican1197
    @paulineafrican1197 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Bella for these tips🙏.

  • @naomnatukunda449
    @naomnatukunda449 Рік тому +2

    Thanks 🙏 my beautiful Bella for the good 👍 information u have really tought me alot to day .

  • @estherzaato626
    @estherzaato626 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for guiding us my dear may God Almighty continue to bless you more

  • @victoriaravera5831
    @victoriaravera5831 Рік тому +1

    True talk dear African Bella thanks for sharing 🥰🥰👍

  • @hajiranankoma4255
    @hajiranankoma4255 Рік тому +2

    Hi sis,I can't stop watching your content my dear I have actually learnt a lot a lot from you.Gid bless you big

  • @user-eo7vc9uz3c
    @user-eo7vc9uz3c 4 місяці тому

    I learnt something and enjoy it.am watching you from Nigeria

  • @changes1131
    @changes1131 Рік тому +7

    You really understand relationship issues and you are very intelligent, Bella. Thank you so much this was so educative. 🥰🥰

  • @EfranceNagadya
    @EfranceNagadya Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much Bella you helped me alot ever since I new this channel , have learnt a lot .

  • @Salvation123..
    @Salvation123.. Рік тому +1

    Mmmmm very helpful Bella ..Thank you . I hope the Lord will help us to be wise and careful.

  • @Osiro2030
    @Osiro2030 Рік тому +2

    💗💗💗 thank you my dear Bella!

  • @laetitiamathe5779
    @laetitiamathe5779 Рік тому +2

    Beautifull !! Thanks a lot

  • @agie9328
    @agie9328 Рік тому +5

    The last tip really touched my heart
    It has opened my eyes
    Men are users nowdays

  • @esthermutete4368
    @esthermutete4368 Рік тому

    Thankyou Bella for shining our eyes keep it up good work 👏

  • @nakazziamina7097
    @nakazziamina7097 Рік тому +1

    Thanks my beautiful cc❤️

  • @patriciapendo3851
    @patriciapendo3851 Рік тому +2

    Thsnks alot for the info dea Bella❤️❤️❤️

  • @georginamuasya403
    @georginamuasya403 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing , may God order my steps to good man ,Amen

  • @violancube9901
    @violancube9901 Рік тому +2

    Good morning Thank you Bella

  • @MichilenDoll
    @MichilenDoll Рік тому +2

    Thank yiu bella for a other ✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️video

  • @elizamwetulundila3171
    @elizamwetulundila3171 Рік тому +3

    It is a “wake up slap” for me
    Thanks for sharing Bella 🙏

  • @aaliyahalicia8383
    @aaliyahalicia8383 Рік тому +3

    Honestly Bella some of the stories make me wanna step back 🙌 but thanks to you

  • @user-qy4wj2tw6p
    @user-qy4wj2tw6p 11 місяців тому

    Sister Bella when ever I watch your videos I feel like being with you in your house just to keep on listening when you talk you are really helping ladies keep it up sister god bless you 🙏

  • @bintabubakali7653
    @bintabubakali7653 Рік тому +2

    Good words of wisdom

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Рік тому +1

    thank you so much our lovely sister we love you so so much 💗 💖 more blessings omwagalwa wafe

  • @atuganyirajanet
    @atuganyirajanet Рік тому +4

    About online dating we thank God coz yo a gift from heaven God sent to us to direct us from users men
    I really appreciate for the love sis
    Thank you I love you so much

  • @evanakiboneka862
    @evanakiboneka862 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes Bella ladies should be careful these guys they write them in their bio's for example my dog is my number one priority so they should read carefully mens profile instead of saying oh I got a cute guy but when you're the last priority.
    Thanks always for the tips Bella ❤❤

  • @maicyekongo1232
    @maicyekongo1232 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Sissy❤❤

  • @patiencetumuherwe8501
    @patiencetumuherwe8501 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much Bella for being there for us all ...we couldn't know this for sure.

  • @achanharriet1301
    @achanharriet1301 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much Bella, but l really need you help 🙏💕

  • @alicenafula7789
    @alicenafula7789 Рік тому +2

    Thanks very much dear 💖

  • @lydiajoseph3760
    @lydiajoseph3760 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Bella for your tips and advice❤

  • @user-jt2pn6fq5l
    @user-jt2pn6fq5l Рік тому +1

    Wow ,all videos lessons 😢are teaching me in the relationship l'm in.

  • @Rachelsstyle
    @Rachelsstyle Рік тому +1

    Great tips, I also disagree with 50/50 in a relationship

  • @lucyanimuri9946
    @lucyanimuri9946 Рік тому +4

    God bless you Bella, you are so amazing with your presentation, educating us. Bella I have met a lot of them, they gave their WhatsApp numbers, you start chatting then all of a sudden they vanished and some months later they reface and vanished. I have been chatting with a German guy since 2021.

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 Рік тому +2

    Bella i agree with what you are saying because i always see these things and some I have experienced but because of the advice you always give us .i
    Survive the trap thank you Bella for loving us

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Рік тому

      Welcome hun

    • @morrineatieno
      @morrineatieno Рік тому

      Hii bella thnks so much how can I get the right man?

    • @winfridahkemuma1800
      @winfridahkemuma1800 9 місяців тому

      ​@@morrineatienoshe has explained it one if her vedios here on how to get the one girl go ahead and watch it ,

  • @mbabazianitah2849
    @mbabazianitah2849 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much dear ❤

  • @azooztv2228
    @azooztv2228 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Bella Bella ❤❤❤❤❤💘

  • @beautyximba6291
    @beautyximba6291 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much you such a darling 😘

  • @esthernakajiri
    @esthernakajiri Рік тому +2

    Thanks 👍🙏 dear 💕💕

  • @faithybaj6242
    @faithybaj6242 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much you really help, I have wanted to chat you but I don't have Instagram at the moment

  • @jjdorothy7866
    @jjdorothy7866 Рік тому +3

    Very true my darling

  • @riamhills11
    @riamhills11 Рік тому +1

    Thanks alot Bella for these tips, I'm so glad I found your channel before joining any dating sites/apps, I've learnt alot and I know by the time I'll be ready to join I won't fall in any traps, for now I'm still working upon myself financially. May God continue blessing you as you bless as with more lessons 🙏😊

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +1

      I am a man l can I connect to you if you want me 👰🏿‍♀️

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Рік тому

      Good dear❤️❤️

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +1

      @@africanbellatherealtalk Sorry I am a scammer l am a woman not interested to marry now.... because I just divorce.... unless fooling around but no sex just pay me coffee and take me out on dating...no sex outside marriage is prison
      Thanks

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +1

      Kidney kidding Roam Hills

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Рік тому +1

    Wow I'm so happy for your advice you giving us 💪💪💪

  • @HannahNjogu-hg2wo
    @HannahNjogu-hg2wo Рік тому +1

    Am happy to hear this stories am in class to know about white man

  • @asia9548
    @asia9548 Рік тому +8

    Thank you so much Bella we got you ,most men on Afro introductions are interested in dominant and submissive women,Men on dating apps are really crazy,Bella I have been wanting to ask you something am 55kgs and I don't know whether am an average, slim or plus size help me to understanding this🙏

    • @shank3380
      @shank3380 Рік тому +1

      Average

    • @asia9548
      @asia9548 Рік тому +1

      @@shank3380 thanks for sure I didn't know where I belong

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +1

      Underweight is not good
      Every woman must 56/58 kg
      Underweight is not good health
      You end up you have diarrhea, at you?
      Easily to gets bacteria
      Bacteria fungus go block your fallopian tube
      No babies once you gets married
      Too much overweight
      Too small underweight
      Is not healthy

    • @angulaaagula5926
      @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +2

      @@shank3380 you really do not care how is average
      Not even crossed
      56 kg

    • @shank3380
      @shank3380 Рік тому +1

      @@angulaaagula5926 slim (skinny), average and plus size. It isn't about kgs. I know slim people that got more kgs. It's more the body appearance

  • @allthingsrufy
    @allthingsrufy Рік тому

    I'm in here this apps tip toeing on this apps cz truly Bella my girl you keep in check no nonsense 2023 oh ,users beware 😜❤️🇰🇪

  • @caramel6062
    @caramel6062 Рік тому +2

    At least now I can say I have some tips no one can lie or manipulate me Iam so so careful .Having some content is the best gift ever .Bella God bless you

  • @caramel6062
    @caramel6062 Рік тому +5

    Users are so evil targeting naive women am so glad Bella God sent you to help us all.

  • @namboozoolivia256
    @namboozoolivia256 Рік тому

    Love you bella

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 Рік тому +2

    Good looking bella

  • @Charlize2222
    @Charlize2222 Рік тому +3

    3:59 lol he can’t access bank services O.M.G such scam lol shockingly some women fall for such tricks still which is shocking 😅😅😅. Helpful video thanks for sharing hope it helps someone ❤❤❤❤

  • @dorcasnyokabi8792
    @dorcasnyokabi8792 Рік тому +2

    Thank you bella,this was a good teaching

  • @viviennenakazwe4818
    @viviennenakazwe4818 Рік тому +2

    It was so educational

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Рік тому

    We love you 👄👄sis ❤️

  • @wewuzairene489
    @wewuzairene489 Рік тому +1

    Bella thanks for the good advice but what about a guy who does video call but refuses to send you photos

  • @arethamorgan6613
    @arethamorgan6613 Рік тому +4

    Quick solution. Ladies, don't have sex with them. Once a man sees that your not easy, and can not be manipulated . It will force him to show his true intentions. Where he will either run for dear life, or remain. All because, he sees you as being different, or a challenge. Ever heard the phrase, "Hit it and quit it"? I have male friends and the way they talk about women. It is nothing pretty. So in short, Ladies know your worth.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Рік тому

      👏❤❤

    • @user-ut1en2lt8l
      @user-ut1en2lt8l 3 місяці тому

      As a 64 year old Black Man to my Sister’s be prayerful about these relationships. This goes for Black Men and Women, when they start calling you the N word they are telling you to leave before it’s too late

  • @fielahmukwata5249
    @fielahmukwata5249 Рік тому +1

    Hi, Bella. Is it safe to share cellphone numbers within two days of chatting online?

  • @lucyanimuri9946
    @lucyanimuri9946 Рік тому +5

    How I hate those words dominant woman and submissive man, the moment I hear that from a man. I blocked you them, such men are not serious online dating, just there to make fun,

  • @EfranceNagadya
    @EfranceNagadya Рік тому +3

    Just waiting ✋

  • @darrioncarr1848
    @darrioncarr1848 9 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes when a man say him love u and don’t even know u anything about u is a big joke.u can’t make love fool u that’s u too blind about love no one should ask u about money the man should take good care of u if him want to meet u. Woman don’t blind for love open your eyes looking into things before u jumping him .

  • @zainabisihaka4278
    @zainabisihaka4278 Рік тому +2

    Asante sana dada Bella kwani nimekuwa nikifuatulia channel yako kwa miezi kama miwili sasa nimepata mafunzo mengi sana ila ya leo ndo kama umenipiga Kofi la uso kwani ulivyoanza tu kuelezea kama ulikua unaniambia mimi kabisa Asante sana Mwenyezi Mungu akupe umri mlefu wenye mafanikio yaan leo ndo story zote nilizosikia kutoka kwako ndo nimeziamini asilimia 100%

  • @muhumuzasafinaphiona9315
    @muhumuzasafinaphiona9315 Рік тому +2

    I'm waiting

  • @dictarchelsea
    @dictarchelsea Рік тому +1

    Sisy you've just said utopolo 😂😂 -29:40

  • @nakalemajacklyn3205
    @nakalemajacklyn3205 9 місяців тому

    The moment you talk about money😂😂my feelings vanish 😂dude i dont even ask for you money

  • @rose_Winchester86
    @rose_Winchester86 Рік тому +2

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @tamaradenyefaisele-rp4rz
    @tamaradenyefaisele-rp4rz 12 днів тому

    You drag things too longgggg , just hit the nail on the headddd

  • @lilylinny
    @lilylinny Рік тому +2

    Every tym when l watch your video l go and dawnload dating app again

  • @garasakk2244
    @garasakk2244 Рік тому +2

    Thanx sissy bella.am belha how long does it take to hook for me a seriously white guy.waiting.

  • @katumbamarian5945
    @katumbamarian5945 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @WinniePhiri
    @WinniePhiri 9 місяців тому

    Eiish l can't take it

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @angulaaagula5926
    @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +2

    That's murmur
    Momo
    Who is a man childishi
    to extend only him (31-34)
    That's traps I don't want marry of local woman i want to marry international women's who is dominant dominion
    That's is trap
    He probably GOTS a wife in his home local resident
    If you meet a man interested in marriage he focus on marriage assignments
    Not compared you locals or international
    Native or disaporas

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Рік тому

    Another sign is their profile doesn’t match how they present themselves and their grammer is telling. He says say he is a lawyer but his grammer and obvious typos are many.
    Secondly it’s how they choose to talk to you.

  • @sindiswaaudrey6137
    @sindiswaaudrey6137 3 місяці тому

    Axacly other one he said he want to send me the money so that he can buy me the car he said cause he is in USA he can't send the money I must pay 3500 first to the guy who will do papers I raised up my mind I say there a many ways to send the money without taking my 3500 it was clear to.me that he want to rob me me about my 3500

  • @laetitiamathe5779
    @laetitiamathe5779 Рік тому +2

    To find true love is not a jock🤦

  • @angulaaagula5926
    @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +2

    Hello me l cannot be used by men and sucking money too from me
    Because first place when l gets money pays all my bills.....
    I go pay my nephew's, nieces and daughter school fee and basic needs gift's
    I don't save much money because I am scared to be Victims of money
    I only save money to my bank of hospitals tax, medicine to buy ! 150USA dollars
    If l have to save 1000 $ I give it to my uncle who is married i can trust to save my money 💸 for me!

  • @sindiswaaudrey6137
    @sindiswaaudrey6137 3 місяці тому

    Others they a convincing u by saying they send money after that it difficult to send money in USA which is lies

  • @berthaanderson3444
    @berthaanderson3444 Рік тому

    Hahahaha someone did same to me and I told him to use his money so when the interest comes, he can deduct and send me the rest and he blocked me instantly 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @angulaaagula5926
    @angulaaagula5926 Рік тому +2

    Women's who grow up without no a dad
    To identify men joke's
    Men seriously committed to the truth
    Thanks for more advanced

  • @buluma.lukiya283
    @buluma.lukiya283 Рік тому +2

    Thanks sis bella, for sure you helped alot that time about to be scammed.Let God reward you abandantly