Ohh my, this world has a lot of sick people ,it's scary. The advice you are giving the women out there is commendable African Bella. Let those who have ears listen. Great video Bella 😘😘😘
These are very important points to note. Thank you for opening our eyes. May you be richly blessed.
Thanks Bella for raising awareness and giving tips, sure many ladies are taking notes! Bless
You have given important points and that story of getting blocked after, av seen many African women going through it..
No man leaves his wife for a side chick. We should always value ourselves and know what we want. There are so many red flags of the people we shouldn't date but some just ignore until it's late.
@@africanbellatherealtalk hi Bella thank for your advice for sure I personally I need a white guy but my dear things are easy being that it's our first time to do so
Thank you so much bella at least I have learnt something , and I have also subscribed to your channel
This is packed with wisdom and very important for our women and girls to know and act wisely.
A lot of valid point made here. Hope people learn from it. Thanks for sharing Cara Mia
I totaly agree with you, putting your job first before me. I dont understand how. Gal you're full of wisdom, I have really enjoyed watching this vlog. Hugs to you💕🤗❤
Good point I just left one who kept ghosting me, wouldn’t spend time with me. But still has my phone number, I blocked him I told him I don’t deserve to be treated like this. Being ghost by a guy is not okay. I deserve a good men I will marry
Privacy as a couple is a must.👍 Don’t date a mama’s Boy 👦 as a black lady. Online dating, Avoid it.😆😆
I am so proud of that young girl who reported that monster, some men think women are sex objects ,shame shame, it is so disgusting , I can't believe it
I love that these tips will apply to all men, aaah but it is sad what we women will do to prove to society that we are married or in a relationship, we should do and demand better in relationships, thanks Bella for the tips ❤
Yes we need too.Not just a relationship we need good and healthy relationships period😀.Thank you beautiful Mercy❤
My dear your videos are really interesting and informative hope people are learning from all this. Some men find it easy to smash phones 📱
Thanks so much dear sister Bella.Its so helpful be blessed.
Hiyo ya mamas boy noma sana, hasa huko Italia ndio usisemeee, masikini huyo dada, i hope she is fine, maybe kajificha or something like that, so scary! Thanks for the tips Bella you said it all! ❤❤
Thank you so much Bella for such an informative video, I've really learnt a lot,and now I'll have to be very cautious.. Thank you so very much 🙏🙏.. And greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪🙋♀️
i can relate that one that is always at work 🤣🤣
I've seen it all🙈😊
Hmm such great advice. No matter what race I advice u go for the family type.
The man am chatting with online always tells me that am too beautiful
He keeps asking how a beautiful woman like me still single . should I block him please African Bella tell me dear
I totally agree with you,any man that puts his work first before his lady is a no no.hmmm,at 30 plus,still leaving with his mother and sharing bank account,lol,i will run.Thanks beautiful for sharing
He he me too will run from such kind of a Man.Thank you darling ❤
I love this tips because am also looking for a white man, but am not desperate. The guy will come at the right time.
Another great tips. I so much agreed with you. I don't like men that are so attached to their mothers. This is very enlightening and eye opening. I enjoyed watching
You have open my eyes 👁️ dear thanks so much l like you video's am in Uganda
What about the man that is asking me in few days of chatting if I would like to visit him in USA soon. Telling me he wouldn't like his girl to work, just a homemaker and if I'm fertile, we start making babies soon, but all my responses are like I'm slowing him down.. He is 45, he doesn't talk much and doesn't smile. Are there real men like that?
Get to know him better dear but talking you being fertile I sense a player though
Its well, i believe that all men are thesame when it comes to some of these attributes. I believe that even black men have some of these characters too. I enjoyed watching.
it's very important for someone to be careful, for example, someone asking bank details obviously that is a conman. I pitty the young lady I hope the body will be found soon
Yes and these are so many too sad their target is us black women. We need to be so much careful.Thank you love😘
Hey dear thanks for your advice but I want to talk to u privately how can I do it I need some advice please
Hello Joan.You can dm me on my instagram account African Bella will be glad to help you😘
Wow very sad about that girl ,omg, my she RIP, I am shocked
Its so sad you need to see the boyfriend.He is crying like crazy the last time he was showing the wedding dress they bought and his attire. Mercy this story is heartbreaking😔
i hate too much jelous man hahahhaha open relationship now i understand
Yes everything together . even cooking and bathing especially evening hours
Bella does that mean all rich white guys are not husband material😝
I will not advice anyone to date these types of men you mentioned both white or black except the rich guy😆😜
Noo maybe i was not clear here.I said if he is rich and always clubing with lots of women around him.Not all rich men are like that.
How will you know that his married when you not leaving with him.
Yeah True
How bout don't dare them at all
Don't date a worker holic man because he will never be at home ooooooh he is always working and no no to a mama's boy. Great and amazing dating tips
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Rich men behave like teenagers, they always seek pleasure through spending money. They are a big no!
I'm sure not all rich men are the same.
Yes not all rich Men only those who are rich and always partying with lots girls around them.These are not even thinking of settling.
@@africanbellatherealtalk Well Anna Bey said stay away from rich men or men in general who are:
1. Narcissistic
2. Party Boy
3. Old Money
4. Opposite Religion
5. Workoholic
Well I can't talk because I never personally met or talk to a rich man so I'm just hearing what you are saying and from others too.
@@maniwatson5503 what iam so sure and i have witnessed these rich men that always party with lots of women arent ready to settle.Like the story i said in this video of this Italian rich guy who had the same lifestyle,he was only using young ladies but no intention of marriage.If you want a husband material its better not to date such.
Exactly not all Rich men or well earners are bad ofcorse good exist too just need to observe him so well that you stay in a healthy relationship with a right Man.
Hahaaa it's funny about the guys who want to send u gifts before knowing each other.
Actually it happened to me😀, this guy contacted me on WhatsApp mind you I don't know him all he said was I was looking for my friends contact and I saw ur number...
Hmmm then he started praising me u look beautiful I would like to marry u. And he was like I don't want to show my friends ur photo because they will b so jealous..
Now the story goes...u knw I lost my wife in an accident I have two children, he sent me his, his children , his mother's pictures...about his job he was a director of like four companies hmmm too good to be true...
Gift time ....he wanted to send me shoes, bags, jewelry, money and so many things and he was it's my mother's birthday so am going shopping so I would like to buy u some gifts....I kept telling him he should not do that let's first get to know each other but he was having nothing of that.....btw all that was in a period of two weeks of chatting, I tried video calling him he refused after me rejecting his offer to send me gifts....oh btw before I forget he was like his American working in Switzerland today the next day his in Scotland it never made sense....long story short after refusing his gifts and me sending him my location he told me never to contact him again and I was blocked 😀😀😀😀😀😀
You were so smart to ask for a video and refusing his gifts Scammers
Men all around the globe can have this attitude no matter the color. The difference might be in the way they do it depending on their culture I guess. Thanks for sharing this topic Bella 😍
Thank you lovely 🥰