Get Me Married - Cry of Youth | Message To Muslim Parents

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2013
  • "Marry your sons and daughters early, don't delay it. If you delayed it, and if your son's or daughters got involved in something wrong (Haraam), then the sin is on you as well and sin is multiplied on parents. Let it happen in the Halaal way (i.e. let them get married).
    Why is it necessary that a Man is allowed to marry only when he's earning and has home & good bank balance?
    His parents should get him married, and let his wife live in their house like their own daughters live. This is how things would be in the early days, and that's why the Daughter-in-law's would look at their Parent-in-law's as her own parents too.
    Nowadays, since your boy marries after he starts earning, how is his wife going to have the same respect for her Parent-in-law's?
    How will she consider his parents as her parents too, when you had not treated her like your own daughters?
    She wouldn't even want them to be living in the same house, they would be considered to be invading the young couple's privacy so obviously they will plan to move and live in an independent home. This is how the concept of Family is destroyed by Shayateen and the followers of Shaytaan. So Get married early. Get your sons & daughters married early. Let your Daughter-in-law's live in your house like your other Daughters. If you can feed your sons and daughters, you can also feed your Daughter-in-law's ..
    Please think about it and there should be Mutual Understanding and Respect between Elders and Youngsters regardless of age and educational background else there will not be any Peace, Unity, Love or Affection amongst the Family members.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 35

  • @shahidsabuj4711
    @shahidsabuj4711 8 років тому +4

    may Allah grant our parents understanding.most of time they misunderstand us.

  • @subzardar
    @subzardar 10 років тому +3

    Amazing advice to tackle a serious problem in the world.

  • @TheHoneymonstersmile
    @TheHoneymonstersmile 9 років тому +9

    I wish my dad did lesson to me and this video

  • @arbaazscorpion4664
    @arbaazscorpion4664 7 років тому

    this is all good to hear I know myself how I lived in Western world studying and working neither my parents were ready to hear what I am going through 😅

  • @FatimaKhan-mc1oi
    @FatimaKhan-mc1oi 5 років тому

    Best believe this is getting forwarded to my parents' whatsapp group right now

  • @mwkhan1163
    @mwkhan1163 6 років тому

    listening to this makes me wana abandon my parents.. just because they stopped caring ... and wouldnt listen.. they have just beings of reaction and not action... upsets me down to my core

  • @yasirarafat8226
    @yasirarafat8226 5 років тому

    mashaallah sach me mai roh raha hun bhai

  • @khairulkamal5454
    @khairulkamal5454 7 років тому +1

    Alhamdulillah. Permission to share this video.

  • @TheShinningstar015
    @TheShinningstar015 7 років тому +3

    Can you please talk to my parents. I feel so bad Im commiting sins so many times😓 I can't help it😓

  • @DEMONACY177
    @DEMONACY177 8 років тому +9

    Were did our parents learn this . Where. I hear brothers and sisters crying after they made the mistake of losing their virginity without marriage. Why have our parents forsaken us.

    • @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
      @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 років тому +1

      +DEMONACY177 cryin & screaming!!

    • @tehreem1725
      @tehreem1725 7 років тому +1

      😣💔true

    • @wynwilliams6977
      @wynwilliams6977 5 років тому

      not a mistake, the mistake is your shitty fucked up society and religion attacking them for it

  • @whitecroc6226
    @whitecroc6226 7 років тому

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @FreshFromThaDeli
    @FreshFromThaDeli 7 років тому

    who was the first speaker?

  • @sakeena4832
    @sakeena4832 6 років тому

    Please tell me what to do as a girl of marriable age, my parents are very much worried about it and they try also.. But I am not liking the boys at all.. I know some amount of physical attractions ought to be there for good married life.. Is it OK to just get married for the sake of it without liking the boy.. What is the view of the learned on this point?

    • @roser7441
      @roser7441 6 років тому

      Sak sak physical attraction is not every thing! You need to make sure he is good for you.. after marriage comes mawada ( true love) and peace .. I advise you sister if the man is in acceptable physical shape do Estrkhara prayer and make duaa if hes good muslim for you as husband within Allah’s love, and remember whats matter is the life after ( jannah) so it’s important to find the good muslim that helps you to be better muslim and go to paradise together.. physical attraction is superficial and fade away by getting old, but Allah”’s love stay forever:)

  • @FaiLovex3
    @FaiLovex3 8 років тому +1

    Who was the Urdu speaker in this video?

  • @hasnain7999
    @hasnain7999 10 років тому +2

    I think I am too young for it only 14 hahaha

    • @tipeihongkong7181
      @tipeihongkong7181 8 років тому +4

      Uhm, no...
      So.......you're basically telling me that you are old enough to have sexual desires, and old enough to have a girlfriend, AND old enough to have sex with your girlfriend...(if you had a gf)...?
      Well, if so, then you're old enough to marry...
      That nonsense of "I'm too young to get married", is pure cultural mumbo-jumbo...
      Don't look at culture...it's culture(especially the western culture) that makes you think that marriage is for older people... for people of 30 years old or maybe 25...
      That's mumbo-jumbo...
      I sometimes see women who are THIRTY years old, and EVEN OLDER who still say they aren't 'ready' to get married...
      When you wanna get married? Those women/people are still litlle kids at the age of thirty...
      Astaghfirullah....
      Brother, get married at a young age, it's better. And if you think you should get married at the age of 25 or older, then i'm sorry, but i have to say you're really unrealistic...

    • @adilbundhoo3069
      @adilbundhoo3069 7 років тому +1

      +The Ultimate Veteran777 I agree with you

    • @tipeihongkong7181
      @tipeihongkong7181 7 років тому

      Adil Bundhoo Thanks, may Allah(swt) bless you in Janah.

  • @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
    @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 років тому +1

    what a great speech! dam i jus found out my arab munta is a shia sharmuda, time to tell her to convert! smh

    • @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
      @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 років тому

      ***** dats old dude, my computer dint have a password so i dnt even know who