Rule #1. Women don't know what they want. Rule #2. Being a man not a boy is what they want. Forget, looks, height, money. Your masculinity will supersede it all.
If a woman doesn't know what she wants, run from that woman. She is not a woman at all but likely looking for support and a father figure - she's not complete in herself and she will put you through it. She should know who she is and what kind of man she wants. And she should be the kind of woman you want. :-)
@@EarzOnTunz 1 the longest journey is the journey of self discovery because it never ends, you can never truly know yourself and those who say they do are living in dilution. 2 you don’t know what you want nobody does what we want is the journey but we focus on the goal the first thought upon achieving something is what’s next, so was that ever the objective and when will you ever be satisfied. The journey is the destination so the moment you say you know yourself or you know what you want is the moment you loose yourself because you’ve completely lost the point of life.
@@EarzOnTunz remember the man who has played a tree knowing he will never sit in its shade has only began to understand the meaning of life. If you can make sense in his reasoning maybe you will begin to understand too. It’s not about knowing it’s about learning and growing.
Best rule: YOU screen them. Never be a puppy dog or fan boy. Women are not goddesses to idolize. There’s not enough $$ in the world to deal w/ an unsubmissive crazy, even a 10. You as a male were created in the image of the Alpha of alphas, THE Male, Jesus Christ our Lord.
Alpha here, I never ever allow any females to control me. They need to get a wussy boy to wipe their feet on cuz that ain't me babies. I call them on all of their actions & they get infuriated as they cannot handle being wrong or held accountable for anything these days. At the gym, I give off a IDGAF attitude as they are trying desperately to get my attention. It's so amusing the game they play & how frustrated they get cuz they cannot control me. Perhaps it's a challenge for them. They are not a challenge for me so game over.
Never that. That's the problem with too many. They've been warped around an idea of high status in their heads. LIFE will eventually humble them soon enough. Men please get a grip on the difference between making a woman feel like a woman , and down right filling her head with more hot air.
A woman is a liability, so investing in her is like buying Lucid stocks! Invest in yourself and she will follow you...and as mentioned below, Never ever reveal your true worth to a woman, this can bite you in the butt later..
After having a few girlfriends and breakups, I decided to fully enjoy my life as a single. Getting a dog, some hobbys and decorating my place with my own taste. Spending more time with family and friends. Life can be so easy! With no drama and games… There is a song “run run run, when you see a beautiful woman” that’s the best advice I can give!
The thing is in general "Women want, what they can not have". Stop the validation and compliments. Keep her in the dark about your feelings. Just act normal and hangout, like you would do with friends. In her mind she will start thinking more and more about you. Why is he so different then all those other Guys? That's so damn attractive for them. Female nature. Do not ask me why, but it's a fact. That's why nice Guys/Simps will not get the girl. They get at best friend zoned. I have seen it time over time again. The one who has the power to walk away at any time, controls the relationship. Crazy I know. We as Guys were told (by society and Women) to be nice, give compliments, give her attention and validation, buying her presents... All lies Quiet the opposite. Focus on yourself, goals and growth instead.
Holy shit that sounds miserable. I love praising my boyfriend when he does something neat, and him complimenting me when I work hard. A problem I see consistently with comments on these videos is 1) you guys hella overthink this shit 2) you otherise women to a degree you dehumanise us and overanalyze every little behaviour. Would YOU feel good if your SO never acknowledges your hard work? "Nice guys" don't get the girl because a lot of us can tell when someone is specifically being nice to us in order to get romantically involved with us. I want to be with someone who would have liked me even as a friend, because the chemistry is there, and if a relationship happens then yay. Women don't owe romantic affection simply because someone is generally polite. I'm pretty sure most men don't fall in love with EVERY girl they meet either, or develop an interest for everyone. Some of these generalisations are so stupid too. "Women want what they can't have"? I feel like that applies to a lot of humans everywhere given how effective stuff like marketing is. Relationships aren't about constant power dynamics and "control". They're about building a partnership through affection and support.
I love and ONLY hang with the nice guys/simps. Maybe because I’m a nice girl. I love genuine men. I don’t need him to be something he’s not. Being real is the only way to decide if “we” make an “us.” No rejection, no fortune spent in dating. Just real talk. Real people. Real sharing of who we are and if it’s not compatible, great. Find the one who is!
Fighting the uphill battle with a controlling wife that separated from me. Now she resents me not chasing her around when she was the one who wanted me out of her life. Women are crazy and controlling and insecure. When you start there, you see things closer to the way they actually are. It’s very difficult to care about someone, and stay true to who you know you should strive to be, when your mate doesn’t like that person and wants to control the relationship and you. You have to figure out who you are, and what your values are, and hold fast to them. Women will either respect that or move on to someone they can control.
Sorry for what you've gone through. I like the last 3 sentences you wrote very much. Honestly, not all women or men are crazy, controlling or insecure. But many are. Research shows that 1 in 5 people have serious emotional issues. We have to know how to find genuine partners who don't play games and be a person who offers equivalent sincerity. Human struggles are normal but drama and expecting men to be anything other than human beings is really childish and ridiculous. We should approach sincerely and with the desire to be a best friend, a good steward and just a great life partner adding value to each other's lives. If you have to do some kind of crazy dance like is described in this video, you're dealing with the wrong type of partner. I'm not throwing shade on the video or the content. I'm saying if this is needed we're attracting the wrong type of partner. When you find women or men who are controlling or insecure you have tripped across a person who really needs to buy into their need for counseling and self-improvement to work out their own issues. I think it's very dangerous for us as a society to classify how men and women "are" but instead be aware that many people have been through traumas that set them on a path of insecurity that will make them unstable or unsuitable life partners until they do their self-growth. No partner can "save us." I think from my own research they often think a relationship will save them when that's not the case at all. We have to fix ourselves and love and nurture the others in our lives. Relationships are WORK and an investment of self. If either one has to "play games" it's not authentic. If a man gets me by playing these kind of power games - how would he keep it up and relax and be real and authentic after marriage? Do we have to keep playing games? I don't think so. I think we should opt to learn how we are not picking the best partners for us and learn - possibly with counseling or self-help books - how to pick correctly for us. I've never played games in dating like this and if I had to; I'd not date at all! I don't deny that with some people power plays are required; but I don't think we should build our lives around individuals of either gender who require such nonsense. I expect a man to be himself. I will be myself. We will decide together if that builds an "us" or not. I don't care about being a fan or a celebrity. I just want sincerity. At a minimum we should be able to expect to be real with our future spouses. If we can't; RUN don't walk away. Who we really are at our essence is all we have to give another person. Anything less is just posturing. Don't settle for controlling people. As a culture if we want to withhold anything, withhold initiating physical intimacy too soon. Talk about real stuff and get to know if you really LIKE the person without the goo of artificial romance unsupported by a real foundation. Physical intimacy is one of the chief initiators of controlling behavior as the partners often begin to feel they OWN each other. But if you are mentally intimate you will see the red flags sooner and be able to extricate yourself from bad relationships without guilt or drama. We often act married before we are married or even know if we should be married and then we have to get married because we acted married and never dealt with the real issues between us as a couple. It's my experience that controlling people often lack impulse control and patience. They don't want to sit and talk because if they talk they reveal what's lacking.
Assuming every woman is like your wife is like if a woman assumes every man is abusive because her ex was. You picked a bad partner, that doesn’t reflect on every woman. If you keep dating the same type of woman you need to ask yourself why you only attract insecure and controlling women.
You better test her before pursuing her..Discernment is paramount... Also watch her actions and not what she says👹 #1 Rule Mathew 6:33, will save you money, headaches, And heartache..💫🛡️👍💯 So many Narcissist, Jezebel and Delilah spirits out here... Give not they strength unto a woman, not they ways to that which destroyeth kings 💫🛡️.......Great Advice, but only to the wise!
Only a man can think in such logical and strategic ways, which is in general most off-putting to real women, because what you're promoting here sounds robotic and does not contain any sensitivity in regards to true feelings! How about people just being themselves without playing stupid-games and to STOP seeing a partner as a prize in some competitive contest (on those soils no real love can grow!), and especially not struggling in endless mind-games to prove oneself to each other! .... This is a very materialistic way of thinking and also contains a slight connotation of narcissistic behavior! .... Only superficial men would think this way, as in 'pointing, scoring, ranking'! .... Ever thought that nature just runs its course? without people acting like they are bidding on a 'meat-market'!? Human beings aren't things! ... neither for sale, or to be controlled! ... If two people do not gravitate naturally towards eachother with a lot more things in common than not, then they aren't meant to be for each other in the first place. This is why so many relationships do not last mainly due to these type of insecurities, putting up a front, not showing up as ones real self. .... So here, YOU who gives real bad advise to men, it kinda comes across that you 'failed in your own game' in the past, because at some point the guard comes down°! ... and the image of a man that he displayed with fakery at the beginning no longer stands. It's deceptive, and it only leaves the other, the woman, hurt and confused due to dishonesty! The only one right now who I detect with insecurities is you! ... Mr. FarFromAverage - right`? ... far from average on the negative end. As a woman I can tell you straight up! ... You have no freakin' clue what most women really want in a man, and in a relationship! ... Most women are fed up and tired of your all games! ... while you're actually promoting that women should be kept and held by lower standards than men. That is not only sick, but also promotes often domestic violence! Sorry dude! I don't know how young and inexperienced you still are in regards to how life should actually work out in order for it to be harmonious and peaceful, and that isn't what you're promoting here, but you need to grow the hell up! ... and learn to be honest about who you are from right in the beginning, unless you have no decent qualities to show for? ... having to lie to even have a decent woman interested in you? How about simply showing up as yourself? Then, if the shoe fits your relationship may last after all? ... if that's what you actually want, and not just fooling around? No woman wants to be dominated and controlled by a man, if she has any healthy boundaries and self-respect. The best and most lasting relationships are those on eye-level where there is mutual respect, honesty, and appreciation. .... Good Luck to you! ...
A: Are you 6ft or above? B: I'm three inches short... of 7ft. On a serious note, I frigging hate it when tall girls ignore me, but 5ft girls with less than half my weight chase me. It feels just wrong, like a bobcat trying to mate with a jaguar...
I learnt from very early to not give any woman any validation despite how beautiful she is. It always ended in that those girls struggled to get my attention. Always focus on your self and your purpose and women always comes last on the priority list.
I can attest to the fact that men should give less time to women than what women give. Just give her due consideration in the limit, just don't go the extra mile. Nature has made women perceive such men as needy who are always available.
I love men who are themselves.They can cry. They can be scared. They can worry. It's just being human and if the lady doesn't like her human there's a problem! If a woman perceives a man who gives her his time and attention as needy she is not a kind woman or he is not her type of man. You should be able to act like you feel with the person you love. If you can't, you need to take heed there is something wrong in the maturity level of one or both partners. No one should have to "act" in love. Relationships are way too hard for faking it. If you have to pull back and feign to not give her attention this is a lack in someone's intimacy. I feel like it indicates the lady is in the relationship for some benefit; not because she likes you. Believe me, when the man I love shows me lots of attention and gives of himself I ADORE it and blossom under the affection. I don't think him weak I think he's wonderful and I feel connected and cherished. But that's because I LIKE him. She has to be genuine for this to work. You should be able to be yourselves - wholly - or something isn't real.
@@EarzOnTunz not many women think the way you think...an absolute majority of them get into a relationship thinking how it'll raise their social and economic standards, and a very minuscule population of women fall in love unconditionally...such women are gold but like I said they're few and rare...
My guy is a giver and I would do anything for him he is available for me 24 seven I am to him as well 24 seven, relationships are give-and-take if you’re keeping score of who gets the most time etc. then what kind of a relationship is that there’s a lot of sick advice on this channel the guy doing the videos has it all wrong about women he doesn’t have a clue if you follow his advice you’ll end up with a sick woman
I do the qualifying, I tell women to call me voice to voice, no text. And some do and some don't.....obviously, if they are interested, they will have no problem calling you voice to voice.
Matt’s dad here. If I have to tone down my energy which is likely what arouses her, especially if she is intelligent. Bold energy knocks intelligent women slightly off balance. Been there done that. Multiple times. Til I met the love of my life. It was inevitable. But in general smart women intuit your game playing because it looks unnatural. Close, but no cigar…
Been practicing the game ever since most of you are in your diapers. These are general guidelines at best. Still, every girl is a unique situation. So, if you wanna up your game you need to be aware of the specific situation/creature you are dealing with. Adapt, adapt and adapt. Most novice have lower success rates because sometimes they treat these general guidelines as strict rules that they need to follow by hook or by crook.
If this guy is as old as he claims (70yo?) then his advice will be mostly out of date. Women were super easy back in the 1970's and early 80's. I know many guys from that era who had crazy success (100's of lays each) with very basic game skills. The same guys have trouble dealing with modern social media girls.
This may be great advice for a 10-year-old but a man knows how to love a woman without being afraid he just need the right woman when you meet the right one it won’t be work it’ll just happen and you can be yourself and be real but if you have the wrong woman just MoveOn you don’t have to be all hateful about it like he devices in this video
I always knew what it takes to keep or get a girl, the problem most men have today is we have become more like girls and we are now to into our feelings and we aren’t really bad guys. But by us doing that girls have this little trick they use called crying to get under our skins and they then wipe their tears away when you aren’t looking smiling now because they know they’ve broken you. I was a super dominant man and I rarely showed my feelings and I had everything falling at my feet. Everyone wanted a piece of me whether it was women or my friends everything started being overwhelming fitting myself into these peoples life and then I realized that I was no longer dominant and I started allowing these people to change my moods and I became soft I ended moving in with a girl I didn’t even really like and after 11 years with this girl I noticed I was soft waiting for her to change as she became the one showing less interest than I was showing. Now I was the one in my feelings and life will have experiences where it will humble you and if you aren’t prepared everyday for anything everything will break you. Women love the chase but they only chase something that never can be caught. They can’t handle committing to something because they don’t like to change. There’s maybe 1% of women that just have that in them to be women and follow and commit to their men! But only through men they can reach their full potential because they have no leadership skills and they learn everything from feelings and pain! Which is why after break ups they start creating new habits to show their ex that they are missing out on something and then run into a relationship with a new man even more powerful or weaker than their ex and if the man is powerful they try to show their ex they can do better and if the man is weaker then they start thinking about going back to their ex. Real women know their worth and apply it to themselves everyday and only a true man can lead a true woman. There are tons of girls pretending to be women because life has made it easier for them nowadays to where they have access to deceive many guys just from their smart phone and they are using the money from their kids to improve their look to deceive men and the whole idea of everything is they aren’t really healed females they are broken operating broken still trying to prove her worth to the one that left!
The problem for most guys, or for most people women included is, if they can’t be bothered to make the effort to make themselves desirable/attractive, hardly would be bothered to engage them in the “game”, that is the reason why people chase, because interests shown to them are scarce, so few and so far between. That is a much harder problem to fix
I've always said that you should treat a girl like your shadow. Try and catch your shadow... run fast and you still can't catch it. Then just turn around and walk away like you don't give a damn and check out what's following you!
First time I’ve ever seen a content creator not slap up, or in normal people terms “waste time” talking about a whole lot of nothing then saying “buy my book” or some fuck. Well done thanks for your hard work. I’ve been viewing a lot of things the wrong way for some reason.
My advice leave the West .move to a country where you can live well.on $1500 a month.which is 90% of the world .. PS I live in Colombia 🇨🇴 next year Romania 🇷🇴
Right now, the message of this video doesn't help to better the lives of most people who are watching this channel BECAUSE of the fact of how the world had messed up and there is also a messed-up-Waar happening that affects and disturbing the eco-system of some countries with people who are trying to learn how to better themselves and their lives.. But only the rich people right now has the advantage.
5:53 - and if she thinks you're ugly and you will still stare at her she will say get lost creep, or in the worser scenario she call the police and you go to jail for sexual harrassment ;)
Don't ever listen to women say what they want. Also don't take relationship advice from women. This guy has it exactly right. I am working on this mindset. And that it what it is a mindset.
You don't even have to listen them because all they want the same. Best genes to breed best babies and after that they want the best provider to live with theirs children comfortably. If you don't offer the best genes still you can be a provider and take care of her children from the past relationships :P
🤣🤣🤣🤦don't ever listen to woman 🤣 your logic is ass backwards. Men who think this way are secretly gay,m misogynistic assholes. You're right don't take advice from a woman instead go take advice from a man and marry him while you are at it too. All misogynistic men secretly hate women and go to other men for advice how to get women, all while doing the exact opposite of what will attract the woman you don't want a woman you want a man is what it is 🤣🤦
Honestly it's weird... what happen to genuine people. Genuine love. If I got to play a game with you it's not genuine. I shouldn't have to WIN you over. This is natural LIFE not a GAME
Also challenge them. My current girl said I don’t like you watching porn it feels like cheating . I said to her tough you will have to like it or lump it unapologetically and I could tell right after that she respected me more because I didn’t placate her.
I like this! Very well put and straight to the point and in general...this is all you need! Just craft the knowledge from this video to your lifestyle and you good! I've seen 100's of videos like this from different "guru's" that make 15-30mins clips and or they break it up to make more content for added views and likes! But yo...very spot on! Appreciated 🙏🏾
Yo great video... Thanks for the reminder because it explains everything. So choose where you want to go and stick to the Lane and if you wish to switch lanes make sure it's to your own benefit and the other involved .... if there's any..
I learned most of that when I was younger. My friends would try so hard to impress girls. And I would end up with em for not treating them like goddesses and played it cool. Worked every time.
In my mid 40's realising all this now is gutting. I've had more than my fair share... But....because I'm a 'Nice Guy' I've tried to make women pass the games part... Now I know...they can't even if they tried to....🤣 👍
Damn 😂😂😂 you kinda funny ngl bc once spiritual awakening starts and you follow your path you can get what ever you want just my manifestation especially that from shit who cares tbh to every one here who thinks you're weak or lower value compared to others don't just be yourself manifest what you want it will come to you just don't rush😁
@@foreveryoung5277 I know but they’re not our type. It’s weird we’re attracted to ppl who aren’t see us as their type unless I guess if we play our game well.. and those who are mostly attracted to us are not even our types lol
They are out there and say the same thing. So while you all are busy ignoring each other, others are going out and finding partners. This is trash information.
This new style of video is not looking quite good. The earlier videos that you used to make were just great. Your content has always been top notch so no worries with that.
It's been a long time since i've known these and more rules, but only thing that concerns me, Can you be happy with a woman who you play by RULES? I didn't manage to be happy. I've managed to increase bodycount from 3 to 50, but Happiness from woman. No man. It does not give that shit. Happiness comes from Honesty. Why am I built so? and more importantly, Why are females built so?
#1 - stop calling grown women girls. As long you keep referring to this as 'game', you are going to lose. Relationships are not a game, so I guess this video about being a player and not for someone looking for an actual relationship. Confidence can be attractive, but not when it becomes fake or used as a power play. Good gods this is awful information. Why not try actually getting to know someone? Oh, sorry. That would require effort, being your true self and being a real human. Apparently, we can't have that. And that goes for both genders.
I've pulled plenty of females who at 1st wouldn't give me the time of day then months or years later we cross paths and they're all over me trying to get with me and wanting a relationship n commitment. So I hook up with em a few times then flip the script and move on and ghost them or just generally make it obvious I've got more important things going on. Let them see how it is on the other side of that situation.
Hi Ryan...I need advice hope can help me out... my gf broke up with me last December when I lost my job I became emotionally weak and codependent...but Valentine's day triggered her to get back to me saying she love me but only want see me Once a week ...but her roller coaster emotion of trying to please me but some time her Hot & Cold created her anxiety and she too tired of pleasing me she broke up with me again in April I did 3 month of No contact...It was Hell i was in depression I dont want to be Needy again but I dont know how to get what I want if I dont tell her ... She upset I dont initiate text ... and it become My job to pursue her to woo her back so that she dont turn cold and I become trying to please her Is this showing me as weak Needy ? but she act distance... I wonder how to make her submit willingly to me and for her to miss me I leave her alone which Backfire and mislead her thinking I not thinking of her.. she is resenting why I dont chat with her ....seem to her I am ignoring her daily with excuse I busy and cutting the conversation short ... I am confuse should I try to be more responsive or initiative ? Really counter intuitive and is so hard to maintain Long term relationship ... I becoming her emotional tampon and become their chat feminine buddy ? Pass her shit test and be in control , stay in masculine frame ..this dynamic is it Toxic and driving me into bad mental health...I dont understand women wants and need
Be very good looking. Get a good hair cut. Get better hygiene. Dress to suit and enhance your looks without making it obvious. Get in shape, build muscle, lose fat. Lose enough fat to enhance your facial features. Get good facial skin by taking care of it. Ask girls out, and realize most don't know you so expect rejections. Before approaching ensure she is able to at least talk and she is at least comfortable and you feel confident because she seems like she might like you, otherwise find one and don't go crazy over just one. Have a good job in case you get a girlfriend so you can potentially move out. Looks goes a long, long way, so improve yourself every way you can. Guys want attractive girls, and why wouldn't girls want attractive guys? Bottom line is to enhance your looks and go out enough to be able to ask girls out. Even if it takes 300 tries or more, all it takes is one good girlfriend and a future wife. Not all girls will be single or willing to talk, they're females so don't intimidate them.
Dude , literally the same as in videos for women.. ahah crazy. People think too much, just be yourself but chill. Like behave how you’d behave with friends , but flirt haah that’s it. You want to lie to girls just to get a girl and sleep with her , but you’re still misleading her
Nice, Rules, but i like 2 take it easy with the girls, ... . ... u just got, 2 chill, not kill bill, ... . take it eazy & r€L@x ... . ... if she's into u, she'll let u know, ... .
Women are immature small 5 year old toddlers. Don’t give in and spoil them. They will be unsatisfied no matter what. Even better stay single guys. You will live a longer and happier life.
Guys with great game will hide that they play video games. I typed this before i heard him say something about lying . So exactly youre confirming what im saying. Guys with grea game knownwhat to hide or lie about but the nice guys were tought to be honest
All of these things only work when the interactions are already in play. How to initiate interactions, and get them thinking about you, how about that?
i walked up to burger place girl working behind the counter, i said hi, hows your day going so far, she said good, i said anything interesting happen today? she said no, i placed my order she said anything else, i said ya, what's your name, she told me. I told her after she handed me the order Thank you it was nice meeting you i repeated back her name she smiled. Could she tell that i had a crush on her? Asking her for her name was that strange to her? What should i do next time i see her?
In other words, put yourself first by focusing on your greater priorities like your future goals, dreams & missions in life. Girls come later in life.
That's not what he said. But yes you do need a good base to have grounded self-confidence.
Not for u
If you're lucky that girl will come by herself. But for all of us who are not lucky, we need to find her in the meantime of searching for our fortune.
Girls come later in life and don't worry about all this posturing. Be real and look for real and treat them real. That way you'll hopefully find real.
No girls come NOW because your focusing on your greater priorities, future goals, dreams and missions in life.
Don’t ever try to earn her or “show you are worthy.” You are the prize.
Got to love coach lee my first dating coach top 5 if not the best ❤
That's right
Wow when the coach is in we will win 😂
True basics are its trying too hard dosent pay girls can tell
Totally agree.
# 1 Investment
# 2 Screening instead of qualify yourself
# 3 Power is everything
# 4 The beginning frame
Watch the video for the explanation
Thank you, kind sir
Forget videos like this, develop some decent leadership skills guys.
Whenever I think I want to watch a video like this, I always look for a comment like yours.
Thanks.
@@im1who84u whenever i look for a comment like his, is always discover another like yours
@@rebornpharaoh3617 I understand.
A girl once told me "I only date guys that are taller than 6 feet" and I tell her "I only date girls who use metric system"
And after that she asked what kind of shampoo or skin care formula is that "metric system" XD?
You're my role model now...
Don't be nice. Be real.authentic. The right frame is an masculine one. Strong, unemotional, playful yet remaining in your masculine.
Agree totally, would add that emotions founded on rocks can radiate masculinity too.
Maybe been nice is been authentic
A man should be all those things and nice or he won’t get my time
@@ciaran6309 no
@@dottiesullivan6410 always strive for nice until proven they no longer deserve it.
Rule #1. Women don't know what they want.
Rule #2. Being a man not a boy is what they want. Forget, looks, height, money. Your masculinity will supersede it all.
If a woman doesn't know what she wants, run from that woman. She is not a woman at all but likely looking for support and a father figure - she's not complete in herself and she will put you through it. She should know who she is and what kind of man she wants. And she should be the kind of woman you want. :-)
So dumb guys are just dumb
Women know what they want, but they refuse to admit it to themselves or anyone else.
@@EarzOnTunz 1 the longest journey is the journey of self discovery because it never ends, you can never truly know yourself and those who say they do are living in dilution. 2 you don’t know what you want nobody does what we want is the journey but we focus on the goal the first thought upon achieving something is what’s next, so was that ever the objective and when will you ever be satisfied. The journey is the destination so the moment you say you know yourself or you know what you want is the moment you loose yourself because you’ve completely lost the point of life.
@@EarzOnTunz remember the man who has played a tree knowing he will never sit in its shade has only began to understand the meaning of life. If you can make sense in his reasoning maybe you will begin to understand too. It’s not about knowing it’s about learning and growing.
"if you treat a woman like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan" - very true.
Best rule: YOU screen them. Never be a puppy dog or fan boy.
Women are not goddesses to idolize.
There’s not enough $$ in the world to deal w/ an unsubmissive crazy, even a 10.
You as a male were created in the image of the Alpha of alphas, THE Male, Jesus Christ our Lord.
Yep
Alpha here, I never ever allow any females to control me. They need to get a wussy boy to wipe their feet on cuz that ain't me babies. I call them on all of their actions & they get infuriated as they cannot handle being wrong or held accountable for anything these days. At the gym, I give off a IDGAF attitude as they are trying desperately to get my attention. It's so amusing the game they play & how frustrated they get cuz they cannot control me. Perhaps it's a challenge for them. They are not a challenge for me so game over.
HAHA....HAHAHAHAHAHA.
Stop playing games, full stop
I put myself first because women change their minds like the seasons
Works only if you are attractive. If you are ugly or below average she would just shrug her shoulders and go.
These videos scream social ineptitude and insecurity.
Never that. That's the problem with too many. They've been warped around an idea of high status in their heads. LIFE will eventually humble them soon enough. Men please get a grip on the difference between making a woman feel like a woman , and down right filling her head with more hot air.
A woman is a liability, so investing in her is like buying Lucid stocks! Invest in yourself and she will follow you...and as mentioned below, Never ever reveal your true worth to a woman, this can bite you in the butt later..
Sure LCID isn`t good stock?
Great content. I'm leveling up. Makes total sense. I've noticed the amount of attention I get from women is incredible. Thank you
After having a few girlfriends and breakups, I decided to fully enjoy my life as a single. Getting a dog, some hobbys and decorating my place with my own taste. Spending more time with family and friends.
Life can be so easy! With no drama and games…
There is a song “run run run, when you see a beautiful woman” that’s the best advice I can give!
Solid gold wisdom. I wish I'd known these truths 40 years ago, long before Internet and your UA-cam channel. Thanks for sharing!
#5 avoid marriage at all cost in western society.
That is so correct.
man i really do not want to be generalizing or stereotypical but man is it happing too common now these days over here
increase your value , you will attract
hot dumb chicks wont even look at that. they are clueless......
Haha amen hehe
The thing is in general "Women want, what they can not have". Stop the validation and compliments. Keep her in the dark about your feelings. Just act normal and hangout, like you would do with friends. In her mind she will start thinking more and more about you. Why is he so different then all those other Guys? That's so damn attractive for them. Female nature. Do not ask me why, but it's a fact. That's why nice Guys/Simps will not get the girl. They get at best friend zoned. I have seen it time over time again. The one who has the power to walk away at any time, controls the relationship. Crazy I know. We as Guys were told (by society and Women) to be nice, give compliments, give her attention and validation, buying her presents... All lies Quiet the opposite. Focus on yourself, goals and growth instead.
Yes I agree I only follow two steps
Focus on goals and
Work your ass
Then magic happen
Haha
Facts
Holy shit that sounds miserable. I love praising my boyfriend when he does something neat, and him complimenting me when I work hard. A problem I see consistently with comments on these videos is 1) you guys hella overthink this shit 2) you otherise women to a degree you dehumanise us and overanalyze every little behaviour. Would YOU feel good if your SO never acknowledges your hard work? "Nice guys" don't get the girl because a lot of us can tell when someone is specifically being nice to us in order to get romantically involved with us. I want to be with someone who would have liked me even as a friend, because the chemistry is there, and if a relationship happens then yay. Women don't owe romantic affection simply because someone is generally polite. I'm pretty sure most men don't fall in love with EVERY girl they meet either, or develop an interest for everyone. Some of these generalisations are so stupid too. "Women want what they can't have"? I feel like that applies to a lot of humans everywhere given how effective stuff like marketing is.
Relationships aren't about constant power dynamics and "control". They're about building a partnership through affection and support.
I love and ONLY hang with the nice guys/simps. Maybe because I’m a nice girl. I love genuine men. I don’t need him to be something he’s not. Being real is the only way to decide if “we” make an “us.” No rejection, no fortune spent in dating. Just real talk. Real people. Real sharing of who we are and if it’s not compatible, great. Find the one who is!
@@penguin_drive Right on! Agree with this! Well said.
Even at the age of 50 still trying to work women out so iam buying gold and silver instead 😂
Been there and shamefully done that
Fighting the uphill battle with a controlling wife that separated from me. Now she resents me not chasing her around when she was the one who wanted me out of her life. Women are crazy and controlling and insecure. When you start there, you see things closer to the way they actually are. It’s very difficult to care about someone, and stay true to who you know you should strive to be, when your mate doesn’t like that person and wants to control the relationship and you. You have to figure out who you are, and what your values are, and hold fast to them. Women will either respect that or move on to someone they can control.
Sorry for what you've gone through. I like the last 3 sentences you wrote very much. Honestly, not all women or men are crazy, controlling or insecure. But many are. Research shows that 1 in 5 people have serious emotional issues. We have to know how to find genuine partners who don't play games and be a person who offers equivalent sincerity. Human struggles are normal but drama and expecting men to be anything other than human beings is really childish and ridiculous. We should approach sincerely and with the desire to be a best friend, a good steward and just a great life partner adding value to each other's lives. If you have to do some kind of crazy dance like is described in this video, you're dealing with the wrong type of partner. I'm not throwing shade on the video or the content. I'm saying if this is needed we're attracting the wrong type of partner. When you find women or men who are controlling or insecure you have tripped across a person who really needs to buy into their need for counseling and self-improvement to work out their own issues. I think it's very dangerous for us as a society to classify how men and women "are" but instead be aware that many people have been through traumas that set them on a path of insecurity that will make them unstable or unsuitable life partners until they do their self-growth. No partner can "save us." I think from my own research they often think a relationship will save them when that's not the case at all. We have to fix ourselves and love and nurture the others in our lives. Relationships are WORK and an investment of self. If either one has to "play games" it's not authentic. If a man gets me by playing these kind of power games - how would he keep it up and relax and be real and authentic after marriage? Do we have to keep playing games? I don't think so. I think we should opt to learn how we are not picking the best partners for us and learn - possibly with counseling or self-help books - how to pick correctly for us. I've never played games in dating like this and if I had to; I'd not date at all! I don't deny that with some people power plays are required; but I don't think we should build our lives around individuals of either gender who require such nonsense. I expect a man to be himself. I will be myself. We will decide together if that builds an "us" or not. I don't care about being a fan or a celebrity. I just want sincerity. At a minimum we should be able to expect to be real with our future spouses. If we can't; RUN don't walk away. Who we really are at our essence is all we have to give another person. Anything less is just posturing. Don't settle for controlling people. As a culture if we want to withhold anything, withhold initiating physical intimacy too soon. Talk about real stuff and get to know if you really LIKE the person without the goo of artificial romance unsupported by a real foundation. Physical intimacy is one of the chief initiators of controlling behavior as the partners often begin to feel they OWN each other. But if you are mentally intimate you will see the red flags sooner and be able to extricate yourself from bad relationships without guilt or drama. We often act married before we are married or even know if we should be married and then we have to get married because we acted married and never dealt with the real issues between us as a couple. It's my experience that controlling people often lack impulse control and patience. They don't want to sit and talk because if they talk they reveal what's lacking.
Well said brother 👌 needed that this morning
@@EarzOnTunz I assume you are a lady and I have big problems with my wife.
What you said just make sense and very well put, thanks 🙏🏻
Assuming every woman is like your wife is like if a woman assumes every man is abusive because her ex was. You picked a bad partner, that doesn’t reflect on every woman. If you keep dating the same type of woman you need to ask yourself why you only attract insecure and controlling women.
You better test her before pursuing her..Discernment is paramount...
Also watch her actions and not what she says👹
#1 Rule Mathew 6:33, will save you money, headaches,
And heartache..💫🛡️👍💯
So many Narcissist,
Jezebel and Delilah spirits out here...
Give not they strength unto a woman, not they ways to that which destroyeth kings 💫🛡️.......Great Advice, but only to the wise!
Only a man can think in such logical and strategic ways, which is in general most off-putting to real women, because what you're promoting here sounds robotic and does not contain any sensitivity in regards to true feelings!
How about people just being themselves without playing stupid-games and to STOP seeing a partner as a prize in some competitive contest (on those soils no real love can grow!), and especially not struggling in endless mind-games to prove oneself to each other! ....
This is a very materialistic way of thinking and also contains a slight connotation of narcissistic behavior! .... Only superficial men would think this way, as in 'pointing, scoring, ranking'!
.... Ever thought that nature just runs its course? without people acting like they are bidding on a 'meat-market'!?
Human beings aren't things! ... neither for sale, or to be controlled! ... If two people do not gravitate naturally towards eachother with a lot more things in common than not, then they aren't meant to be for each other in the first place.
This is why so many relationships do not last mainly due to these type of insecurities, putting up a front, not showing up as ones real self.
.... So here, YOU who gives real bad advise to men, it kinda comes across that you 'failed in your own game' in the past, because at some point the guard comes down°! ... and the image of a man that he displayed with fakery at the beginning no longer stands. It's deceptive, and it only leaves the other, the woman, hurt and confused due to dishonesty!
The only one right now who I detect with insecurities is you! ... Mr. FarFromAverage - right`?
... far from average on the negative end.
As a woman I can tell you straight up! ... You have no freakin' clue what most women really want in a man, and in a relationship! ... Most women are fed up and tired of your all games! ... while you're actually promoting that women should be kept and held by lower standards than men. That is not only sick, but also promotes often domestic violence!
Sorry dude! I don't know how young and inexperienced you still are in regards to how life should actually work out in order for it to be harmonious and peaceful, and that isn't what you're promoting here, but you need to grow the hell up! ... and learn to be honest about who you are from right in the beginning, unless you have no decent qualities to show for? ... having to lie to even have a decent woman interested in you?
How about simply showing up as yourself? Then, if the shoe fits your relationship may last after all? ... if that's what you actually want, and not just fooling around?
No woman wants to be dominated and controlled by a man, if she has any healthy boundaries and self-respect. The best and most lasting relationships are those on eye-level where there is mutual respect, honesty, and appreciation. .... Good Luck to you! ...
A: Are you 6ft or above?
B: I'm three inches short... of 7ft.
On a serious note, I frigging hate it when tall girls ignore me, but 5ft girls with less than half my weight chase me. It feels just wrong, like a bobcat trying to mate with a jaguar...
If a woman told me she only dates 6’ men plus only,I’d tell her I’m 6’2”,(which I am),and then tell her I don’t date shallow minded women,see ya’.
Good 4 u, would u like a gold medal for that
Have your own house your own cars and always always make more $ than she does. You will always have the power
maaan💪🏿 Trust your instincts always, Your self first 🍁💯💯💯✊
For real.
In other words, hide your emotions and play games.
I learnt from very early to not give any woman any validation despite how beautiful she is.
It always ended in that those girls struggled to get my attention.
Always focus on your self and your purpose and women always comes last on the priority list.
I can attest to the fact that men should give less time to women than what women give. Just give her due consideration in the limit, just don't go the extra mile. Nature has made women perceive such men as needy who are always available.
I love men who are themselves.They can cry. They can be scared. They can worry. It's just being human and if the lady doesn't like her human there's a problem! If a woman perceives a man who gives her his time and attention as needy she is not a kind woman or he is not her type of man. You should be able to act like you feel with the person you love. If you can't, you need to take heed there is something wrong in the maturity level of one or both partners. No one should have to "act" in love. Relationships are way too hard for faking it. If you have to pull back and feign to not give her attention this is a lack in someone's intimacy. I feel like it indicates the lady is in the relationship for some benefit; not because she likes you. Believe me, when the man I love shows me lots of attention and gives of himself I ADORE it and blossom under the affection. I don't think him weak I think he's wonderful and I feel connected and cherished. But that's because I LIKE him. She has to be genuine for this to work. You should be able to be yourselves - wholly - or something isn't real.
@@EarzOnTunz not many women think the way you think...an absolute majority of them get into a relationship thinking how it'll raise their social and economic standards, and a very minuscule population of women fall in love unconditionally...such women are gold but like I said they're few and rare...
And then she will find someone who does give her time 🤣 and the same later she gets bored with that other guy for giving her too much attention
@@AmitKumar-te6vw don’t act like you know anything about women, you clearly don’t if you watch videos like these, indian boi
My guy is a giver and I would do anything for him he is available for me 24 seven I am to him as well 24 seven, relationships are give-and-take if you’re keeping score of who gets the most time etc. then what kind of a relationship is that there’s a lot of sick advice on this channel the guy doing the videos has it all wrong about women he doesn’t have a clue if you follow his advice you’ll end up with a sick woman
You can Only give someone the amount of love you give yourself! Simple didn't need to watch this
I do the qualifying, I tell women to call me voice to voice, no text. And some do and some don't.....obviously, if they are interested, they will have no problem calling you voice to voice.
Good idea. I'd say tell them to just call.
This one is the Awesomesttt truth ⚡😎 This guy is truly helping those who are stuck and not aware of these all Matrix!!! Love you Bros~⚡
I tend to give it all away in the first week then go awol. Often works for me. Act a fool first, reap from the wisdom later. Thanks for the video❤
Matt’s dad here. If I have to tone down my energy which is likely what arouses her, especially if she is intelligent. Bold energy knocks intelligent women slightly off balance. Been there done that. Multiple times. Til I met the love of my life. It was inevitable. But in general smart women intuit your game playing because it looks unnatural.
Close, but no cigar…
Thanks for sharing your experience!
I explain setting the frame as domino effect. That means you set the standard and let the dominos fall in right order.
Bruh , this is gold . Now you just struck gold , its all about power and you showed me how they make the power moves and how i counter , thanks
Been practicing the game ever since most of you are in your diapers. These are general guidelines at best. Still, every girl is a unique situation. So, if you wanna up your game you need to be aware of the specific situation/creature you are dealing with. Adapt, adapt and adapt. Most novice have lower success rates because sometimes they treat these general guidelines as strict rules that they need to follow by hook or by crook.
can you teach me more about that sir? Please. Thanks.
Good game pimp
say dat
@Chill Dude 😂😂😂
If this guy is as old as he claims (70yo?) then his advice will be mostly out of date. Women were super easy back in the 1970's and early 80's. I know many guys from that era who had crazy success (100's of lays each) with very basic game skills. The same guys have trouble dealing with modern social media girls.
Thank brother.....love from India 🇮🇳🙏🙌
I needed this video back in the 80's when I was 10 years old...
This may be great advice for a 10-year-old but a man knows how to love a woman without being afraid he just need the right woman when you meet the right one it won’t be work it’ll just happen and you can be yourself and be real but if you have the wrong woman just MoveOn you don’t have to be all hateful about it like he devices in this video
@@dottiesullivan6410
There you are again.
I always knew what it takes to keep or get a girl, the problem most men have today is we have become more like girls and we are now to into our feelings and we aren’t really bad guys. But by us doing that girls have this little trick they use called crying to get under our skins and they then wipe their tears away when you aren’t looking smiling now because they know they’ve broken you. I was a super dominant man and I rarely showed my feelings and I had everything falling at my feet. Everyone wanted a piece of me whether it was women or my friends everything started being overwhelming fitting myself into these peoples life and then I realized that I was no longer dominant and I started allowing these people to change my moods and I became soft I ended moving in with a girl I didn’t even really like and after 11 years with this girl I noticed I was soft waiting for her to change as she became the one showing less interest than I was showing. Now I was the one in my feelings and life will have experiences where it will humble you and if you aren’t prepared everyday for anything everything will break you. Women love the chase but they only chase something that never can be caught. They can’t handle committing to something because they don’t like to change. There’s maybe 1% of women that just have that in them to be women and follow and commit to their men! But only through men they can reach their full potential because they have no leadership skills and they learn everything from feelings and pain! Which is why after break ups they start creating new habits to show their ex that they are missing out on something and then run into a relationship with a new man even more powerful or weaker than their ex and if the man is powerful they try to show their ex they can do better and if the man is weaker then they start thinking about going back to their ex. Real women know their worth and apply it to themselves everyday and only a true man can lead a true woman. There are tons of girls pretending to be women because life has made it easier for them nowadays to where they have access to deceive many guys just from their smart phone and they are using the money from their kids to improve their look to deceive men and the whole idea of everything is they aren’t really healed females they are broken operating broken still trying to prove her worth to the one that left!
Awesome well written read with its reality !
Nicely spoken !!!
Real.
@@_Lazare thank you living testimony I witnessed it all my life.
You don't understand women even slightly.
@@starchilde8698 ummm you care to put that to the test! I’d love to prove my point to you….
A thing is sure: your voice is smooth 🆒️🗣
The problem for most guys, or for most people women included is, if they can’t be bothered to make the effort to make themselves desirable/attractive, hardly would be bothered to engage them in the “game”, that is the reason why people chase, because interests shown to them are scarce, so few and so far between. That is a much harder problem to fix
The problem is no one wants to actually work for a real relationship. They want to watch videos with ridiculous 'how to' information and call it good.
I've always said that you should treat a girl like your shadow. Try and catch your shadow... run fast and you still can't catch it. Then just turn around and walk away like you don't give a damn and check out what's following you!
Dude, this was nails. I’ve heard the cat analogy but the shadow is dead nuts on!
@@Filthycrats i always worked for me!
You always come first!
First time I’ve ever seen a content creator not slap up, or in normal people terms “waste time” talking about a whole lot of nothing then saying “buy my book” or some fuck. Well done thanks for your hard work. I’ve been viewing a lot of things the wrong way for some reason.
My advice leave the West .move to a country where you can live well.on $1500 a month.which is 90% of the world ..
PS I live in Colombia 🇨🇴 next year Romania 🇷🇴
TOP MARKS MATE 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙂🙂🙂🔥🔥🔥👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🎯🎯🎯
Right now, the message of this video doesn't help to better the lives of most people who are watching this channel BECAUSE of the fact of how the world had messed up and there is also a messed-up-Waar happening that affects and disturbing the eco-system of some countries with people who are trying to learn how to better themselves and their lives.. But only the rich people right now has the advantage.
There are 2 things I Never chase…whiskey and women.
If I had this video when I was 16 years old...Dangerous. Still happily married for many years so there is grace even is not perfect.
why play the game if in the end you will end in divorce
You will end in divorce if you play this game.
how do you expect anyone to waste their time on someone who is potentially unreliably valuable?
5:53 - and if she thinks you're ugly and you will still stare at her she will say get lost creep, or in the worser scenario she call the police and you go to jail for sexual harrassment ;)
Don't ever listen to women say what they want. Also don't take relationship advice from women. This guy has it exactly right. I am working on this mindset. And that it what it is a mindset.
You don't even have to listen them because all they want the same. Best genes to breed best babies and after that they want the best provider to live with theirs children comfortably. If you don't offer the best genes still you can be a provider and take care of her children from the past relationships :P
Also don't give more power to women
So glad I avoided meeting you
@@dottiesullivan6410
What did he say that upset you the most?
🤣🤣🤣🤦don't ever listen to woman 🤣 your logic is ass backwards. Men who think this way are secretly gay,m misogynistic assholes. You're right don't take advice from a woman instead go take advice from a man and marry him while you are at it too. All misogynistic men secretly hate women and go to other men for advice how to get women, all while doing the exact opposite of what will attract the woman you don't want a woman you want a man is what it is 🤣🤦
7:18 finally something in vid what is true. Yes she will treat you like a fan, free psychotherapist or even like a shit
really like the new style of the videos. Keep evolving bruh.
evolving train woo whoop whooo
Honestly it's weird... what happen to genuine people. Genuine love. If I got to play a game with you it's not genuine. I shouldn't have to WIN you over. This is natural LIFE not a GAME
I'm an older man...and this was an excellent video!
My goodness that was awesome advice my motto is never stopped learning this information is very informative great job
Also challenge them. My current girl said I don’t like you watching porn it feels like cheating . I said to her tough you will have to like it or lump it unapologetically and I could tell right after that she respected me more because I didn’t placate her.
I like this! Very well put and straight to the point and in general...this is all you need! Just craft the knowledge from this video to your lifestyle and you good! I've seen 100's of videos like this from different "guru's" that make 15-30mins clips and or they break it up to make more content for added views and likes! But yo...very spot on! Appreciated 🙏🏾
This is all very true with my own experiences
Focous on the base. Become rich beacuse money = fun , look good=good genetics, good personality = you will be a good dad🤷♂️
I subconsciously screen females 😂
Makes sense to screen anyway, so many are low value. Plus it makes you attractive to all of them inc the high value ones. Win-win!
@@simontmn Yessirski 💯💯🫵🏾
@@simontmn what are some screening example
Great video brother it will help lot of men in their dating life
Yo great video... Thanks for the reminder because it explains everything. So choose where you want to go and stick to the Lane and if you wish to switch lanes make sure it's to your own benefit and the other involved .... if there's any..
Same old same old. He/she that cares the least, wins.
in short:
Ignore women
Focus on your self and your pupose.
I am guy and I find this to be total crap
I learned most of that when I was younger. My friends would try so hard to impress girls. And I would end up with em for not treating them like goddesses and played it cool. Worked every time.
In my mid 40's realising all this now is gutting.
I've had more than my fair share...
But....because I'm a 'Nice Guy' I've tried to make women pass the games part...
Now I know...they can't even if they tried to....🤣
👍
5:09 - If you're an ugly manlet that's a cope. It's a great advice... for Chad. But wait - Chad even don't need a game...
Know Your Worth⚡
A, up I have been Married 2 times, second wife had been Married 4 times, and she had £350-0000,in different banks around England so
Summary: Don't be a Simp.
1:08 - Sure, that works. But you have to be young, handsome, tall and rich ;)
Damn, i had the initial frame of her chasing me, but then i broke it by asking her to be my gf, and she went hella cold on me 😑
Let women ask to be gf. Never offer!!! She has to earn it.
Damn 😂😂😂 you kinda funny ngl bc once spiritual awakening starts and you follow your path you can get what ever you want just my manifestation especially that from shit who cares tbh to every one here who thinks you're weak or lower value compared to others don't just be yourself manifest what you want it will come to you just don't rush😁
I don’t think this strategy would work on Filipino/Asian women.. just saying
not wromng there
It will work if woman is attracted to you
@@foreveryoung5277 I know but they’re not our type. It’s weird we’re attracted to ppl who aren’t see us as their type unless I guess if we play our game well.. and those who are mostly attracted to us are not even our types lol
all this istuff works when your dealing with young silly girls
It's gonna work... You just need to adjust... Add more bling that show off high value and money...
7:27- We ain't trying to be nothing that we ain't we in the grind season of our lives right now
I need the female version of this list.
They are out there and say the same thing. So while you all are busy ignoring each other, others are going out and finding partners. This is trash information.
This new style of video is not looking quite good. The earlier videos that you used to make were just great. Your content has always been top notch so no worries with that.
It's been a long time since i've known these and more rules, but only thing that concerns me, Can you be happy with a woman who you play by RULES? I didn't manage to be happy. I've managed to increase bodycount from 3 to 50, but Happiness from woman. No man. It does not give that shit. Happiness comes from Honesty.
Why am I built so?
and more importantly,
Why are females built so?
all of this sounds toxic af
#1 - stop calling grown women girls. As long you keep referring to this as 'game', you are going to lose. Relationships are not a game, so I guess this video about being a player and not for someone looking for an actual relationship. Confidence can be attractive, but not when it becomes fake or used as a power play. Good gods this is awful information. Why not try actually getting to know someone? Oh, sorry. That would require effort, being your true self and being a real human. Apparently, we can't have that. And that goes for both genders.
Treat them like fan...that alone be top notch ... thanks man!
I've pulled plenty of females who at 1st wouldn't give me the time of day then months or years later we cross paths and they're all over me trying to get with me and wanting a relationship n commitment. So I hook up with em a few times then flip the script and move on and ghost them or just generally make it obvious I've got more important things going on. Let them see how it is on the other side of that situation.
Hi Ryan...I need advice hope can help me out... my gf broke up with me last December when I lost my job I became emotionally weak and codependent...but Valentine's day triggered her to get back to me saying she love me but only want see me Once a week ...but her roller coaster emotion of trying to please me but some time her Hot & Cold created her anxiety and she too tired of pleasing me she broke up with me again in April I did 3 month of No contact...It was Hell i was in depression
I dont want to be Needy again but I dont know how to get what I want if I dont tell her ...
She upset I dont initiate text ... and it become My job to pursue her to woo her back so that she dont turn cold and I become trying to please her Is this showing me as weak Needy ? but she act distance... I wonder how to make her submit willingly to me and for her to miss me I leave her alone which Backfire and mislead her thinking I not thinking of her.. she is resenting why I dont chat with her ....seem to her I am ignoring her daily with excuse I busy and cutting the conversation short ...
I am confuse should I try to be more responsive or initiative ?
Really counter intuitive and is so hard to maintain Long term relationship ...
I becoming her emotional tampon and become their chat feminine buddy ? Pass her shit test and be in control , stay in masculine frame ..this dynamic is it Toxic and driving me into bad mental health...I dont understand women wants and need
Be very good looking. Get a good hair cut. Get better hygiene. Dress to suit and enhance your looks without making it obvious. Get in shape, build muscle, lose fat. Lose enough fat to enhance your facial features. Get good facial skin by taking care of it. Ask girls out, and realize most don't know you so expect rejections. Before approaching ensure she is able to at least talk and she is at least comfortable and you feel confident because she seems like she might like you, otherwise find one and don't go crazy over just one. Have a good job in case you get a girlfriend so you can potentially move out. Looks goes a long, long way, so improve yourself every way you can. Guys want attractive girls, and why wouldn't girls want attractive guys? Bottom line is to enhance your looks and go out enough to be able to ask girls out. Even if it takes 300 tries or more, all it takes is one good girlfriend and a future wife. Not all girls will be single or willing to talk, they're females so don't intimidate them.
Dude , literally the same as in videos for women.. ahah crazy. People think too much, just be yourself but chill. Like behave how you’d behave with friends , but flirt haah that’s it. You want to lie to girls just to get a girl and sleep with her , but you’re still misleading her
Very good advice 👍🏻
People will judge based on your intentions not your behavior
Nice, Rules, but i like 2 take it easy with the girls, ... .
... u just got, 2 chill, not kill bill, ... . take it eazy & r€L@x ... .
... if she's into u, she'll let u know, ... .
Women are immature small 5 year old toddlers. Don’t give in and spoil them. They will be unsatisfied no matter what.
Even better stay single guys. You will live a longer and happier life.
Guys with great game will hide that they play video games. I typed this before i heard him say something about lying . So exactly youre confirming what im saying. Guys with grea game knownwhat to hide or lie about but the nice guys were tought to be honest
Your videos never dissappoints the people who views it.
All of these things only work when the interactions are already in play. How to initiate interactions, and get them thinking about you, how about that?
i walked up to burger place girl working behind the counter, i said hi, hows your day going so far, she said good, i said anything interesting happen today? she said no, i placed my order she said anything else, i said ya, what's your name, she told me. I told her after she handed me the order Thank you it was nice meeting you i repeated back her name she smiled. Could she tell that i had a crush on her? Asking her for her name was that strange to her? What should i do next time i see her?
Iggt so we dont really think the girl we like is beautiful we're just trying to qualify ourselves. Ok
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