I got married at 19 and he was 20 and that was 40 years ago…this world needs to start making better choices about marriage…the ones that honor and out God first ALWAYS last…anything worth having takes work even with your best friend😊
I also have never understood the getting married so young question. I got married at 18 and my husband was 2 months from 22. We’ve been married 11 years now. Are there things we had to learn because we were so young, yup. Do I regret it, nope. We just learned them together. Yes I’m a different person at 30 than I was at 18 and so is he. But I would be a different person today if I got married at 25. And I’ll be a different person every year I grow. It’s just how it works! Learn to grow together and allow for an abundance of forgiveness and compassion on both sides.
For another perspective, I got married at 21 and I do regret marrying so young. Deep down, I didn't really feel ready to make the biggest and most impactful decision of my life at such a tender age. I had not dated much and had little life experience, so I wasn't sure that my then-fiancé was truly a compatible life partner. I also wasn't fully developed as an adult person, and didn't have the reasoning skills to critically think through the ramifications of my decision. Critical thinking skills are typically not fully developed until approximately age 25. I remember having to think through serious issues like mental health concerns, debt, matters of faith, etc. as they pertained to my relationship, and just didn't feel equipped to make a wise and informed decision. I ultimately got married because my faith community puts a lot of pressure on young people to marry. And the first few years were really tough for me. It wasn't that I had a bad partner; it was simply that I was too young and inexperienced. Once I matured a bit, my marriage improved drastically. We have now been married ten years, are expecting our first child (after getting married too young I wasn't about to enter parenthood until I felt good and ready), and are very happy. I do look fondly on our first ten years of marriage, minus the first couple of years or so. We've built a beautiful life together, but it was hard-won, and it's crystal clear to both of us in hindsight that it didn't have to be so difficult. If I could do it again, I would have waited until after I had graduated from grad school and started my first job. I'm not one to judge another's personal decisions, but I know that it was a mistake for me, and that my experience is not unique.
@@jennaom1 but that is a different issue than age. That sounds more like maturity. Different people have different maturity at different ages. And yes, dating also has something to do with it. I had dated, and I knew exactly what I didn’t want. I also wasn’t afraid to be up front and honest about my needs and wants. At 17, on our first hangout I told my husband that I wasn’t playing around. I don’t date just to fool around, it is with the intention to find a partner to marry. Not today, may not even be you, but the intention is for marriage. I told him I expect him to come to church with me any time he’s not working. I’m not comfortable with porn, strip clubs or having sex before marriage. I wouldn’t be moving in with him before we got married either. Marriage is forever, so if your unhappy or feeling bored talk to me. I’m not a mind reader but I’m sure we can come to a place of mutual understanding. I also told him if any of this sounds like you can’t handle or not what you want then let me know. I’m ok not continuing a relationship because this isn’t what you want. I’m not ok with it 10 years down the road. And I don’t mean to make it sound like it’s a fairy tale life. We have definitely had our problems. Big ones. At one point we were separated. But we always have open communication. We always have an end goal to reunite stronger. We always do the hard work to build up the relationship. And that can’t just be done by one person. You both have to put in the work. I have found that in most divorces one person was willing to do the work to build up the relationship and the other person is not. But again, not an age thing. I’ve known people who got married at 25,28, even one at 32 who are now divorced and regret those marriages. Age was not the issue.
@@DeconstructionBarbie91 I’m so glad you were mature enough at 17 to be so rational. Undoubtedly some people are ready for marriage at young ages, and that’s great. I honestly can’t say I know many 17 (or 21-year olds) who are. I agree that my issue was a maturity issue, but maturity and age are correlated. Social science research consistently finds that marriages that occur at young ages are more likely to end in divorce. And the older you are at first marriage, the less likely you are to get divorced. These are of course just statistics, so divorces still occur in those married in all age groups. I know my experience is not unique because I’ve talked to dozens of people whose experience was similar to mine. In my faith community (which appears to have morals identical to yours), we are told that any two people who are committed to God and each other can have a happy and successful marriage. So people pair off quite quickly and marry quickly when their relationships are still in the infatuation phase. They truly believe they are doing what’s right. But a few years down the road, they often find themselves ill-equipped to handle the challenges of life together. It’s a common story. And all this occurs despite the fact that we start being “prepared” for marriage as soon as we enter our teens. I also know many, many folks who got married later than what is considered ideal in our community, but in hindsight are happy they had additional time to live and develop as single people, date around more, and really find their identity before committing to marriage. Again, individual mileage undoubtedly varies here. I also know many people who got married young and are supremely happy. As for me, I will advise my children to wait a few years. But to each their own.
Me and my husband were 19 when we got married too...just celebrated 14 years yesterday with no regrets! Many thanks to your husband for volunteering...our house burned down and believe it or not some volunteers did not show that were only 2 minutes away. I am sure each family appreciates his time to show up and help. And I too hate being away from husband when he is home! Just starting to watch your videos!
I'm with Daryl! I grew up eating cereal morning, noon, and evening. Cereal is a main dish and a dessert. Cereal is perfect to snack on when you get home from school, when you get home from evening church services, and when you don't feel like actually cooking. 🙋🙋🙋🙆🙆🙆
My husband is a second generation firefighter/Medic/Engineer/RN and has 32 years in at his department. We married at 22 and 23 years of age. I was very lonely until we had three kids. He has worked two jobs all of our marriage. I worked one job and am currently raising our last child and enjoying our first granddaughter. I am excited to see your family grow.
I hear you on the girl nights I go out probably once a month with some girls for dinner but I just love being home with my hubby bc he’s my best friend!
My husband is the same about the cereal. So funny!! Works for me, when Me and the kiddo have a rough day, I can skip making them dinner because they both love cereal
Omg!! What a cute couple y’all are🥰...I can see how in love you both are!! It reminds me of when I first got married and when you have married the right person then after 25 years of marriage like myself ...your love only grows deeper after having gone thru the ups and downs of this life your love grows even more meaningful when you look back and see how you weathered the storms of life together🥰...not every marriage survives that .. I am so fortunate that even though the hardships this life became increasingly more difficult ...having a husband who worked 70 plus hours as a physician ...I worked as a Nurse Educator until our 2nd child and felt we felt the need to have at least one parent at home and the Hubs made more money than I did 😂😂so I stayed home with the kids ...then I developed a dibilatating autoimmune disease...at the age of 2 we found out our son was on the Autism Spectrum and later our daughter and son were both dx’d with ADHD...most marriages 90% end In divorce with just 1 child that has a disability and both our kids were premature...had speech and language delays and fine and gross motor skill delays ...AND I had a disability 😱😱😱😱how we made it thru is a testament to God’s strength and Grace and a testament of our love and support and respect of one another ....those were the hardest years of our lives and we MADE IT🥰🙏🙏...our kids are 22 and 23 now BOTH VERY gifted intellectually ...they never gave us any trouble as teenagers ...our daughter has made the Chanchellors list with straight 4.0’s every semester and will be working on her Doctrate in Nurse Practitioning and our son is just as intelligent and he too is in the medical field...They both have stayed in church and would give the shirts off their backs to anyone in need...As a parent one couldn’t ask for any more than that ...It has made all those years of struggle and years of therapy our kids had to attend ALL worth it and then some ....I don’t know why I felt impelled to share this with you but to say to enjoy the nuances of early marriage and young love because sometimes life throws us curve balls and gets hard ...just remember everything happens for a reason and remember to stay committed to God, love without condition, forgive easily and stay working as a team and in the end your love will stand the test of time like ours has❤️. Thanks for taking me down memory lane to when I was newly married🥰🙏🙏...oh and when our kids graduated from high school...they thanked their dad for working so hard so that we could afford all the therapies they needed when they were young AND afford for me to stay home with them (they said they needed that) ...then they thanked me for putting my career on hold so I could stay home with them 😱😱😱are they just not the best kids or what ??? What a blessing ...so WORTH IT🥰🙏🙏
You did it right getting married when you wanted. No reason to wait. No good reason, that is. If someone isn't very mature, they should wait. You guys seem to have it together. Good for you!! 👍
So, I don't know if you exercise or not but I read that regular exercise can help your cold hands and feet. As you excursive more your body will make more blood vessels to accommodate the need to reach your hands and feet as your heart beats and warms you up. ❤️
You are so funny, I could sit here for hours and listen to you, Oh my goodness girl, I love your voice, and I'm 55 and I live cats and chickens, I have about 300 chickens and when I give them fresh straw, I love watching them for hrs, I love you
Sweet couple❤. It doesnt matter when you marry. If it feels good then do it. I married at 29 but I knew my husband for 3 months, but it felt soo good. It felt like we knew each other for soo many year. A lot of people where shocked that we married so fast after knowing each other for only 3 months. He asked me and I said yes! We are now married for 8 years alhamdoulilah.
I laughed so hard at the cold feet and how you warm them up because I have the same problem and warm them against my husband 🤣🤣🤣🤣and I have heard him say the same thing your husband just said, we have been married for 13 years and this just never gets old🤣🤣😂
Lol this takes me back to my young married life. I was 19 and my husband was 20 I had my first baby before 20 but I say there cheaper by the dozen😂 my husband said 7-8 kids last year we had our 5 th baby so we will see what the Lord has! Oh my my hands and feet are so cold and I like to warm them up under his shirt and it drives my husband nuts😂
I am binge watching all of your videos and I love them! That being said, as soon as you ended saying that a stray cat is coming around and Liza is not fixed yet...hehe. I know what happens there. You 2 are a great couple and your videos are so fund to watch while I am working.
We also have cereal like that, sometimes it's breakfast, sometimes we have a plate of beans and a bowl of cereal for lunch, and sometimes it's snack, or if I don't exactly know what I want to cook in the evening, my family is like, let's have cereal 😊😋
Cute Video and both of your cats are ADORABLE!!! Please keep them indoors for their safety! Pets are really great companions as you said the first 6 months you were married and being away from your family! Pets are family too! 🐾💗🐾
We do have them inside most of the time but Leo gets cabin fever like crazy if he's indoors for too long so we let him outdoors occasionally 😍 he prefers it that way!
I get it about the cereal!! I have a husband and 2 kids that would eat it any time of the day....hungry or not! And when I say let's eat leftovers for supper and they pull out the cereal...😕 also it drives my husband crazy how I choose to warm my feet too!! 😉
I used to eat tons of cereal, but I recently realized some (not all) cereals have a significant amount of sodium if eating more than one bowl. You just might look into it because it may surprise you especially if he eats cereal by the box.
What a sweet and nice couple you are. I first thought youre husband was from the Netherlands, becouse you said his first language is Dutch. 😉 I was al little bit confused about amisch speaking dutch. But now I understand what you did ment. I am from the Netherlands I understand amisch Dutch a little bit, but it looks more like German language than Dutch ( Netherlands) Sorry for my worse Englisch writing.
In the US~ do firemen get full pay at 20, in UK its between 21 & 25. Sorry but cats weird me out, I am PETRIFIED of them. Sorry I prefer dogs my daughter has a colli-lab and a lab.
Sounds more like your husband speaks German (Deutsch). I was born and raised in the Netherlands and speak Dutch. The sentence your husband said was in German.
Pennsylvania Dutch is a German dialect spoken by the descendants of anabaptist immigrants to North America during colonial times. A significant proportion of Americans are descended from these immigrants, who collectively are also called the Pennsylvania Dutch. The language is still spoken in some old order Amish/Mennonite communities. You are correct that "Dutch" in this case is a mutation of the original "Deutsch." en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennsylvania_Dutch en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennsylvania_German_language
@@lovelylife4506 You're welcome! North America is funky that way, with several pockets of languages and cultures left over from colonialism and immigration.
I feel the exact same way... been married to my best friend for 23 years and I’ve never wanted to do a ‘girls’ day because if I can be with him I’ll always choose him over anyone else! Don’t like to be apart! I just love how wholesome you guys are... I worry about my young boys sometimes finding a good girl in this crazy world but you give me peace knowing that as long as we are close to God he will always provide. God bless your marriage! 🙏❤️
Wow! That was a lot of fun. You two are a very sweet couple. I was wondering if you worry when your husband goes out on a call or are you used to it. God bless you both!!!
There will never be a day I don't worry about it, but he's a very good fireman and the department trains a lot for the situations they deal with so that puts my mind at ease!
Hi I'm a guy what does your husband do for a living this is my wife's phone I'm a Christian to I'm from Pennsylvania dutch country does your husband hunt or fish .half my family are farmers. I like to go fishing with your husband I can teach you how to make fresh fish ..and make fish cakes very good and I can teach. Your husband how to make deer Jerry in the stove.not a smoker o will nice taking to you both God bless you both.from the Reeds
I got married at 19 and he was 20 and that was 40 years ago…this world needs to start making better choices about marriage…the ones that honor and out God first ALWAYS last…anything worth having takes work even with your best friend😊
I also have never understood the getting married so young question. I got married at 18 and my husband was 2 months from 22. We’ve been married 11 years now. Are there things we had to learn because we were so young, yup. Do I regret it, nope. We just learned them together. Yes I’m a different person at 30 than I was at 18 and so is he. But I would be a different person today if I got married at 25. And I’ll be a different person every year I grow. It’s just how it works! Learn to grow together and allow for an abundance of forgiveness and compassion on both sides.
Such good words🙌thanks for commenting!
For another perspective, I got married at 21 and I do regret marrying so young. Deep down, I didn't really feel ready to make the biggest and most impactful decision of my life at such a tender age. I had not dated much and had little life experience, so I wasn't sure that my then-fiancé was truly a compatible life partner. I also wasn't fully developed as an adult person, and didn't have the reasoning skills to critically think through the ramifications of my decision. Critical thinking skills are typically not fully developed until approximately age 25. I remember having to think through serious issues like mental health concerns, debt, matters of faith, etc. as they pertained to my relationship, and just didn't feel equipped to make a wise and informed decision.
I ultimately got married because my faith community puts a lot of pressure on young people to marry. And the first few years were really tough for me. It wasn't that I had a bad partner; it was simply that I was too young and inexperienced. Once I matured a bit, my marriage improved drastically. We have now been married ten years, are expecting our first child (after getting married too young I wasn't about to enter parenthood until I felt good and ready), and are very happy. I do look fondly on our first ten years of marriage, minus the first couple of years or so. We've built a beautiful life together, but it was hard-won, and it's crystal clear to both of us in hindsight that it didn't have to be so difficult. If I could do it again, I would have waited until after I had graduated from grad school and started my first job. I'm not one to judge another's personal decisions, but I know that it was a mistake for me, and that my experience is not unique.
@@jennaom1 but that is a different issue than age. That sounds more like maturity. Different people have different maturity at different ages. And yes, dating also has something to do with it. I had dated, and I knew exactly what I didn’t want. I also wasn’t afraid to be up front and honest about my needs and wants. At 17, on our first hangout I told my husband that I wasn’t playing around. I don’t date just to fool around, it is with the intention to find a partner to marry. Not today, may not even be you, but the intention is for marriage. I told him I expect him to come to church with me any time he’s not working. I’m not comfortable with porn, strip clubs or having sex before marriage. I wouldn’t be moving in with him before we got married either. Marriage is forever, so if your unhappy or feeling bored talk to me. I’m not a mind reader but I’m sure we can come to a place of mutual understanding. I also told him if any of this sounds like you can’t handle or not what you want then let me know. I’m ok not continuing a relationship because this isn’t what you want. I’m not ok with it 10 years down the road.
And I don’t mean to make it sound like it’s a fairy tale life. We have definitely had our problems. Big ones. At one point we were separated. But we always have open communication. We always have an end goal to reunite stronger. We always do the hard work to build up the relationship. And that can’t just be done by one person. You both have to put in the work. I have found that in most divorces one person was willing to do the work to build up the relationship and the other person is not.
But again, not an age thing. I’ve known people who got married at 25,28, even one at 32 who are now divorced and regret those marriages. Age was not the issue.
@@DeconstructionBarbie91 I’m so glad you were mature enough at 17 to be so rational. Undoubtedly some people are ready for marriage at young ages, and that’s great. I honestly can’t say I know many 17 (or 21-year olds) who are. I agree that my issue was a maturity issue, but maturity and age are correlated. Social science research consistently finds that marriages that occur at young ages are more likely to end in divorce. And the older you are at first marriage, the less likely you are to get divorced. These are of course just statistics, so divorces still occur in those married in all age groups.
I know my experience is not unique because I’ve talked to dozens of people whose experience was similar to mine. In my faith community (which appears to have morals identical to yours), we are told that any two people who are committed to God and each other can have a happy and successful marriage. So people pair off quite quickly and marry quickly when their relationships are still in the infatuation phase. They truly believe they are doing what’s right. But a few years down the road, they often find themselves ill-equipped to handle the challenges of life together. It’s a common story. And all this occurs despite the fact that we start being “prepared” for marriage as soon as we enter our teens. I also know many, many folks who got married later than what is considered ideal in our community, but in hindsight are happy they had additional time to live and develop as single people, date around more, and really find their identity before committing to marriage. Again, individual mileage undoubtedly varies here. I also know many people who got married young and are supremely happy. As for me, I will advise my children to wait a few years. But to each their own.
I got married at 19 😁 11 years and counting! Love your channel. You shine for Jesus
Got married at 24. It’s been 27 years and still going strong. Thank You Lord 🙌🙌🙌
I married my best friend and we will celebrate 35 years this year. ❤️ And, we still have date nights. 😘
Congrats on 35 years! What an accomplishment!! YES TO THE DATE NIGHTS!
Me and my husband were 19 when we got married too...just celebrated 14 years yesterday with no regrets! Many thanks to your husband for volunteering...our house burned down and believe it or not some volunteers did not show that were only 2 minutes away. I am sure each family appreciates his time to show up and help. And I too hate being away from husband when he is home! Just starting to watch your videos!
I'm with Daryl! I grew up eating cereal morning, noon, and evening. Cereal is a main dish and a dessert. Cereal is perfect to snack on when you get home from school, when you get home from evening church services, and when you don't feel like actually cooking. 🙋🙋🙋🙆🙆🙆
My husband is a second generation firefighter/Medic/Engineer/RN and has 32 years in at his department. We married at 22 and 23 years of age. I was very lonely until we had three kids. He has worked two jobs all of our marriage. I worked one job and am currently raising our last child and enjoying our first granddaughter. I am excited to see your family grow.
He is a Very Lucky Man!! You seem like such a wonderful person and wife. LUCKY LUCKY Man!!!
Ibwas 19 and my husband was 20 when we got married. Wouldn't change it for the world❤
You both are so cute , you both just make me smile every time I watch you! Hope you make more videos !
I'll have to ask him to do another Q&A with me sometime soon!
I hear you on the girl nights I go out probably once a month with some girls for dinner but I just love being home with my hubby bc he’s my best friend!
My husband is the same about the cereal. So funny!! Works for me, when Me and the kiddo have a rough day, I can skip making them dinner because they both love cereal
Omg!! What a cute couple y’all are🥰...I can see how in love you both are!! It reminds me of when I first got married and when you have married the right person then after 25 years of marriage like myself ...your love only grows deeper after having gone thru the ups and downs of this life your love grows even more meaningful when you look back and see how you weathered the storms of life together🥰...not every marriage survives that .. I am so fortunate that even though the hardships this life became increasingly more difficult ...having a husband who worked 70 plus hours as a physician ...I worked as a Nurse Educator until our 2nd child and felt we felt the need to have at least one parent at home and the Hubs made more money than I did 😂😂so I stayed home with the kids ...then I developed a dibilatating autoimmune disease...at the age of 2 we found out our son was on the Autism Spectrum and later our daughter and son were both dx’d with ADHD...most marriages 90% end In divorce with just 1 child that has a disability and both our kids were premature...had speech and language delays and fine and gross motor skill delays ...AND I had a disability 😱😱😱😱how we made it thru is a testament to God’s strength and Grace and a testament of our love and support and respect of one another ....those were the hardest years of our lives and we MADE IT🥰🙏🙏...our kids are 22 and 23 now BOTH VERY gifted intellectually ...they never gave us any trouble as teenagers ...our daughter has made the Chanchellors list with straight 4.0’s every semester and will be working on her Doctrate in Nurse Practitioning and our son is just as intelligent and he too is in the medical field...They both have stayed in church and would give the shirts off their backs to anyone in need...As a parent one couldn’t ask for any more than that ...It has made all those years of struggle and years of therapy our kids had to attend ALL worth it and then some ....I don’t know why I felt impelled to share this with you but to say to enjoy the nuances of early marriage and young love because sometimes life throws us curve balls and gets hard ...just remember everything happens for a reason and remember to stay committed to God, love without condition, forgive easily and stay working as a team and in the end your love will stand the test of time like ours has❤️. Thanks for taking me down memory lane to when I was newly married🥰🙏🙏...oh and when our kids graduated from high school...they thanked their dad for working so hard so that we could afford all the therapies they needed when they were young AND afford for me to stay home with them (they said they needed that) ...then they thanked me for putting my career on hold so I could stay home with them 😱😱😱are they just not the best kids or what ??? What a blessing ...so WORTH IT🥰🙏🙏
Wow, what a great life story!! God is so good, isnt he!?
God bless your hubby for his heart to serve as a volunteer fireman!
You did it right getting married when you wanted. No reason to wait. No good reason, that is. If someone isn't very mature, they should wait. You guys seem to have it together. Good for you!! 👍
Thank you for posting! You both are the cutest couple. 💙💙💙
Y'all have such a great sense of humor!! So delightful!
So, I don't know if you exercise or not but I read that regular exercise can help your cold hands and feet. As you excursive more your body will make more blood vessels to accommodate the need to reach your hands and feet as your heart beats and warms you up. ❤️
You 2 are the sweetest ❤
You are so funny, I could sit here for hours and listen to you, Oh my goodness girl, I love your voice, and I'm 55 and I live cats and chickens, I have about 300 chickens and when I give them fresh straw, I love watching them for hrs, I love you
I was married at two months into being 19 , never thought of it as a weird thing 😅
I love that, we need more positivity around young, godly marriages!
I was married at 18:) wouldn’t change a thing!
I was 18, my husband was 17! 3 kids and 17 years later , he's still my best friend❤️ don't regret it at all!
Has anyone ever told Daryl he looks like actor Ryan Phillippe?
I can see that too
Whaaaaat?! Oh my goodness, now I can't un-see it!!!!!
I agree, I've always thought cereal is just the right amount of sweetness, has a satisfying substance and thus makes a good dessert.
You two are so sweet together❣️
Aw, thank you so much!
Sweet couple❤. It doesnt matter when you marry. If it feels good then do it. I married at 29 but I knew my husband for 3 months, but it felt soo good. It felt like we knew each other for soo many year. A lot of people where shocked that we married so fast after knowing each other for only 3 months. He asked me and I said yes! We are now married for 8 years alhamdoulilah.
Front loops (most cereal) is dessert! Sugar and sugar in milk...I agree! LOL! Your black furry baby is beautiful!! Please get her fixed!
We are planning to get her fixed!
Love Liza. She is beautiful! Great video!
Subscribed! Thank you! May God bless your family!
Aw thank you for your comment!
Cute video :) its refreshing to see young couples having so much fum together :) p.s. growing up both of our grandmas (sisters) were amish ☺)
Aw thank you so much!🥰 we really do have too much fun together. So can you speak any dutch?
@@Kim_Martin unfortunately no not really ..... keep up the good work -ur doing a good job :)
You guys are sweet! God bless you guys!
I laughed so hard at the cold feet and how you warm them up because I have the same problem and warm them against my husband 🤣🤣🤣🤣and I have heard him say the same thing your husband just said, we have been married for 13 years and this just never gets old🤣🤣😂
I do the same thing with cereal 😂😂 I grew up eating cereal as breakfast, desert or just as a snack lol
Apparently I am part of a minority that I didnt know existed 😂😂
Lol this takes me back to my young married life. I was 19 and my husband was 20 I had my first baby before 20 but I say there cheaper by the dozen😂 my husband said 7-8 kids last year we had our 5 th baby so we will see what the Lord has! Oh my my hands and feet are so cold and I like to warm them up under his shirt and it drives my husband nuts😂
hahaha! I hope they are cheaper by the dozen! I would love to have a whole bunch of children, Lord willing!
You two are adorable! I had to subscribe! 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am binge watching all of your videos and I love them! That being said, as soon as you ended saying that a stray cat is coming around and Liza is not fixed yet...hehe. I know what happens there. You 2 are a great couple and your videos are so fund to watch while I am working.
Oh....I remember the volunteer days! Now I hear that radio while we are talking on the phone. He says, "Tones out, gotta go."
I was like that and started taking natural iron and natural vitamin B’s. They helped a lot!! ❤️
We also have cereal like that, sometimes it's breakfast, sometimes we have a plate of beans and a bowl of cereal for lunch, and sometimes it's snack, or if I don't exactly know what I want to cook in the evening, my family is like, let's have cereal 😊😋
Cute Video and both of your cats are ADORABLE!!! Please keep them indoors for their safety! Pets are really great companions as you said the first 6 months you were married and being away from your family! Pets are family too! 🐾💗🐾
We do have them inside most of the time but Leo gets cabin fever like crazy if he's indoors for too long so we let him outdoors occasionally 😍 he prefers it that way!
“Well I personally hope Kim has a kid first!” 😂😂😂
He's hilarious 🤣😂
Hahaha! Loved the cereal story. Do you wear wedding rings?
I get it about the cereal!! I have a husband and 2 kids that would eat it any time of the day....hungry or not! And when I say let's eat leftovers for supper and they pull out the cereal...😕 also it drives my husband crazy how I choose to warm my feet too!! 😉
Daryl is the same way!😂😂 cereal over leftovers.
Ohh. I always thought my husband was the only one , taking cereal over leftovers.
I used to eat tons of cereal, but I recently realized some (not all) cereals have a significant amount of sodium if eating more than one bowl. You just might look into it because it may surprise you especially if he eats cereal by the box.
I wish I met my husband when I was 19! So lucky! Like you, we were best friends first but we didn't meet until I was 22. All in God's plan I suppose!
My husband eats cereal almost every night as a desert before bed.
Just discovered your channel & I love it! I'm a Hoosier as well (not to far from you) , but a Buckeye by birth.
Thank you so much!
Okay Darryl you are okay..
It’s a dessert!! I agree!!
Cereal is definitely a dessert. 😀
Haha i must be a minority!
Yes! Cereal is a Great dessert
Kim I eat cereal after a meal, too! I like chocolate Chex. It's a perfect dessert. 😋
Haha see chocolate chex actually sounds good!
Both of my sons (47 & 43) still love to eat cereal and they also say it is like dessert. I have 5 cats, love the cats.
Must be a guy thing! :) Ah, another cat person! :) I'm so glad you are here!
What a sweet and nice couple you are.
I first thought youre husband was from the Netherlands, becouse you said his first language is Dutch. 😉 I was al little bit confused about amisch speaking dutch. But now I understand what you did ment.
I am from the Netherlands I understand amisch Dutch a little bit, but it looks more like German language than Dutch ( Netherlands)
Sorry for my worse Englisch writing.
My husband would speak more of a Pennsylvania Dutch, are you familiar with that?
Sugar is totally a dessert in our house. Our kids cheer when I serve it for dessert.
That's hilarious!!!
Oh my word!!! I'm serious! That is totally a typo!! It's supposed to say cereal, not sugar 🤭😵💫
I love your videos Kim!! My sister and mom and I can’t wait till your next video!❤️have a great day! Psalm 139:14🙂
Aw thank you so much!
Kim Martin I have a channel too if you want to check it out!
Y’all are sooo cute! My husband can’t handle my cold feet either. 😁
Cold hands means warm heart. ❤️
Cool.woot woot Michigan I'm.from Michigan too.im.pentecostal.holiness tranitrian.
I eat cereal when crave ice cream but don’t have any 😂 it’s definitely a dessert that is accepted as a meal
Hahaha...I'm realizing I'm the minority when it comes to my opinion on Cereal!!
@@Kim_Martin lol!
So cute!
In the US~ do firemen get full pay at 20, in UK its between 21 & 25.
Sorry but cats weird me out, I am PETRIFIED of them.
Sorry I prefer dogs my daughter has a colli-lab and a lab.
You two are adorable
Aw thank you! We have a lot of fun together!
I noticed you don’t wear wedding rings. Is there a reason? 🍀🐣
Wedding bands are a Protestant tradition, some Mennonites do wear a wedding band though.
i think most of us wld consider it jewelry
Thanks ur a nice young couple
Your husband looks like Ryan Phillipe , the actor. He’s a hottie!!
Fruit Loops on top of ice cream 👍🏻👍🏻
Do you guys live in Northern Indiana? I noticed you said something about Concord fire department, we live right next to concord firehouse!
Yes we do!!
6 to 7 is a lot of kids! I have 4 and I feel like I have a ton of kids 😅They sure keep me busy.
“It’s healthy!” Haha!
( sorry to burst your bubble but nope cereal ain’t healthy!!!)
Sounds more like your husband speaks German (Deutsch). I was born and raised in the Netherlands and speak Dutch. The sentence your husband said was in German.
Pennsylvania Dutch is a German dialect spoken by the descendants of anabaptist immigrants to North America during colonial times. A significant proportion of Americans are descended from these immigrants, who collectively are also called the Pennsylvania Dutch. The language is still spoken in some old order Amish/Mennonite communities. You are correct that "Dutch" in this case is a mutation of the original "Deutsch." en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennsylvania_Dutch en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennsylvania_German_language
Dat is dus ook wat ik dacht.
That was what i was thinking too.
I am from Holland, its sounds like german what he was talking.
Yes it was definitely german. Me as a German understood him very well.
@@jennaom1 I didnt knew this. Thanks for the information❤
@@lovelylife4506 You're welcome! North America is funky that way, with several pockets of languages and cultures left over from colonialism and immigration.
Cold hands warm heart lol
I feel the exact same way... been married to my best friend for 23 years and I’ve never wanted to do a ‘girls’ day because if I can be with him I’ll always choose him over anyone else! Don’t like to be apart! I just love how wholesome you guys are... I worry about my young boys sometimes finding a good girl in this crazy world but you give me peace knowing that as long as we are close to God he will always provide. God bless your marriage! 🙏❤️
Are you folks originally from anywhere near Johannesburg, MI? We've got some dear friends up there!
That doesn't sound familiar!
You guys are so cute.
Aw, thanks!
My husband would never let a cat in the house! Ever!!! 😄
My husband didn’t either for many years but he has changed and is ok with our cat in the house now.
Wow! That was a lot of fun. You two are a very sweet couple. I was wondering if you worry when your husband goes out on a call or are you used to it. God bless you both!!!
There will never be a day I don't worry about it, but he's a very good fireman and the department trains a lot for the situations they deal with so that puts my mind at ease!
My mom likes to eat cereal for desert sometimes lol
I met alot of mennonites here in corbin.ky I worked for Hampton inn..retired now got ten grand kids
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Im not Mennonite but I understand PA Dutch. I live near Ohio's amish communities.
That's so cool!!
They call it Pennsylvania Dutch
My husband and I both eat cereal after a meal🤣
Hahah, i'm discovering that is more common than i thought!
My hubby will eat pizza or corndogs after a full meal
That's so funny!!
Cereal is a dessert! :) lol
You guys are cute.
You shouldn’t let them eat birds. Put bells on them. Song birds are endangered
Do you not go to work kim
cute couple
Cereal is a dessert!!!! Lol
Hi I'm a guy what does your husband do for a living this is my wife's phone I'm a Christian to I'm from Pennsylvania dutch country does your husband hunt or fish .half my family are farmers. I like to go fishing with your husband I can teach you how to make fresh fish ..and make fish cakes very good and I can teach. Your husband how to make deer Jerry in the stove.not a smoker o will nice taking to you both God bless you both.from the Reeds
Can you guys.do.viedo.on how you guys be came mennonite.or.do a belief.viedo.
I dont like the cat!😂😂😂😂
LOL I definitely do cereal as a meal/dessert
Ceral is DEFINITELY NOT a dessert!! What’s going on?!
Weird to eat what your food eats! Lol
Are you not worried that your husband is a fireman~ isn't that worrying. ?
It's definitely a myth lol
Wait young you are thin, old you get fat and it stays.
Eating cereal for dessert is a guy thing. Lol
It must be!!!
Dear, watch the video and count the number of times you said like.
Well maybe you should save her the trouble and do it yourself, since it's getting to you. Lol