Hi Jay. I feel what you are going through and am glad you are sharing your surgical experience. How do you stay so positive? I am trans woman who underwent SRS a year and half ago and experienced immediate urinary complications. My complications really effected my quality of life. I'm currently having to dilate too just to be able to pee. I feel at times upset, frustrated, depressed and angry. Truthfully, I miss how effortlessly going to the bathroom was before the surgery. Stay Strong! Wishing you only the best and a speedy recovery. God Bless You!
Will they leave the opening at the base of the phallus or will they attempt to reroute it again? Hopefully you have a speedy recovery, and can get rid of the catheter. I can only imagine how uncomfortable that is :(
Dana May I have a choice, I could get it attempted to be rerouted to the tip again or I can leave it at the base of the phallus. I’ve had horrible issues since the first stage of surgery in May with urinary problems so while I have the choice to bring it to the tip still, this is not something I’m going to risk pursuing. I want to move on with my life and limit the amount of surgeries. I’m very sad I can’t stand to pee but this year was incredibly hard having so much pain and health problems, I need to move on with my life
Hi Jay. I feel what you are going through and am glad you are sharing your surgical experience. How do you stay so positive? I am trans woman who underwent SRS a year and half ago and experienced immediate urinary complications. My complications really effected my quality of life. I'm currently having to dilate too just to be able to pee. I feel at times upset, frustrated, depressed and angry. Truthfully, I miss how effortlessly going to the bathroom was before the surgery. Stay Strong! Wishing you only the best and a speedy recovery. God Bless You!
Hi Jay. I feel what you are going through and am glad you are sharing your surgical experience. How do you stay so positive? I am trans woman who underwent SRS a year and half ago and experienced immediate urinary complications. My complications really effected my quality of life. I'm currently having to dilate too just to be able to pee. I feel at times upset, frustrated, depressed and angry. Truthfully, I miss how effortlessly going to the bathroom was before the surgery. Stay Strong! Wishing you only the best and a speedy recovery. God Bless You!
Johanna Ward Hey! That just sounds so horrible :( I really relate to you! I missed being able to pee without worry and being pain free and realized that something I took for granted before was so important. In terms of staying positive, well it wasn’t easy. I was depressed and angry and very very low, probably the lowest in all of my life, but I kept a good supportive network around me and tried to do things I still enjoyed like go out to events. I just took it slow but didn’t let it completely keep me isolated. When I was feeling extra depressed I talked to my girlfriend, I talked to my friends, to other trans guys and it helped. I also didn’t let myself pity myself sometimes because I knew I couldn’t get stuck in a dark cave if I kept doing that. It’s hard, but I’m better now and going through this experience forever changed me for the better and taught me a lot!
@@Nuthin2kik Thank you for getting back to me. You are a warrior! I really admire the endurance and pain trans men go through with their bottom surgery. So, now that you've done the revision surgery how has urinating been? Has it gotten better or still the same? Or are you still on the catheter? I have good and bad pee days but I try and remain calm and stay positive. And always keep in mind that there are much more worst situations in this world that people have to endure and at least we are getting to live our authentic self and truth. Thank you for sharing your true feelings with me. :)
I hope you’re feeling better by now!
I’ve watched some of your videos & I hope you feel better by now.
What a journey, I’ve been watching your videos in a random order. You’re handling it all really well. Hope you’re feeling better by now 🤞
Jennifer Juniper
Thank you! Very shortly I’m going to be making another explaining my whole journey in summary and where I’m going now
Hi Jay. I feel what you are going through and am glad you are sharing your surgical experience. How do you stay so positive? I am trans woman who underwent SRS a year and half ago and experienced immediate urinary complications. My complications really effected my quality of life. I'm currently having to dilate too just to be able to pee. I feel at times upset, frustrated, depressed and angry. Truthfully, I miss how effortlessly going to the bathroom was before the surgery. Stay Strong! Wishing you only the best and a speedy recovery. God Bless You!
Not fun. Feel better soon 💝
Ellen Richardson thank you! :)
Will they leave the opening at the base of the phallus or will they attempt to reroute it again? Hopefully you have a speedy recovery, and can get rid of the catheter. I can only imagine how uncomfortable that is :(
Dana May
I have a choice, I could get it attempted to be rerouted to the tip again or I can leave it at the base of the phallus. I’ve had horrible issues since the first stage of surgery in May with urinary problems so while I have the choice to bring it to the tip still, this is not something I’m going to risk pursuing. I want to move on with my life and limit the amount of surgeries. I’m very sad I can’t stand to pee but this year was incredibly hard having so much pain and health problems, I need to move on with my life
Are you ok now? This f to M surgery seems to go wrong a lot..
Are you in the UK?
Danny
No I’m from BC, Canada
Hi Jay. I feel what you are going through and am glad you are sharing your surgical experience. How do you stay so positive? I am trans woman who underwent SRS a year and half ago and experienced immediate urinary complications. My complications really effected my quality of life. I'm currently having to dilate too just to be able to pee. I feel at times upset, frustrated, depressed and angry. Truthfully, I miss how effortlessly going to the bathroom was before the surgery. Stay Strong! Wishing you only the best and a speedy recovery. God Bless You!
Hi Jay. I feel what you are going through and am glad you are sharing your surgical experience. How do you stay so positive? I am trans woman who underwent SRS a year and half ago and experienced immediate urinary complications. My complications really effected my quality of life. I'm currently having to dilate too just to be able to pee. I feel at times upset, frustrated, depressed and angry. Truthfully, I miss how effortlessly going to the bathroom was before the surgery. Stay Strong! Wishing you only the best and a speedy recovery. God Bless You!
Johanna Ward
Hey! That just sounds so horrible :( I really relate to you! I missed being able to pee without worry and being pain free and realized that something I took for granted before was so important.
In terms of staying positive, well it wasn’t easy. I was depressed and angry and very very low, probably the lowest in all of my life, but I kept a good supportive network around me and tried to do things I still enjoyed like go out to events. I just took it slow but didn’t let it completely keep me isolated. When I was feeling extra depressed I talked to my girlfriend, I talked to my friends, to other trans guys and it helped. I also didn’t let myself pity myself sometimes because I knew I couldn’t get stuck in a dark cave if I kept doing that. It’s hard, but I’m better now and going through this experience forever changed me for the better and taught me a lot!
@@Nuthin2kik Thank you for getting back to me. You are a warrior! I really admire the endurance and pain trans men go through with their bottom surgery. So, now that you've done the revision surgery how has urinating been? Has it gotten better or still the same? Or are you still on the catheter? I have good and bad pee days but I try and remain calm and stay positive. And always keep in mind that there are much more worst situations in this world that people have to endure and at least we are getting to live our authentic self and truth. Thank you for sharing your true feelings with me. :)