I get where Jeannie is coming from completely. If I had a child outside of marriage I dont think I would give the child the dad's last name unless we got along well and i was sure he was going to be in the child's life
The last section of this Girl Chat and many other girl chats... shows how much these ladies love each other and truly are friends... I mean from being at Tams birth to being in Ades wedding , to supporting Tam while she was sick , to even hearing stories like Jeannie signing Ades marriage license and the girls comforting Jeannie while she went through divorce and tried to help her get back in the dating world... it’s beautiful to see their relationships blossom over time
My son has my last name & I love it. His "father" is not active in his life & I couldn't be happier, and proud, for my baby to share my last name with me as well as carry on our family name. 💕
I did the same my children have my last name their father is not someone who is a good role model in their lives, and doesn't in my mind deserve that honor. 💜
I highly disagree with automatically giving the child the father's last name. Maybe we can talk if the father is fully involved. But if the mother of raising the child on her own then it only makes sense the kid gets her last name. I'm not talking about the Kardashians BTW. Just about general situations
I was told to never share my baby’s name until they are born or details about planning your wedding. It can cause problems if down the line someone decides to use the idea you had shared with them
Jeannie was 100% right here. If my SO cheated on me while I was pregnant and I knew we wasn’t gonna be together. Ain’t NO WAY I’d give that baby his last name. And Adrienne was saying that was disrespectful to the father. But by that logic, giving the baby HIS name would be disrespectful to ME since I am the mother!! it was disrespectful when he cheated on me and disrespectful to my baby!! That baby would get my name lmao
I feel like it’s so unnecessary that there’s parents that name they’re kids one syllable name just bc it’s easier to learn them. That doesn’t rlly matter...everybody ends up learning they’re name regardless. I dont find it necessary
Alexxa Chloe It is not but it’s up to their parents and it’s also annoying that in the US wherever you go people ask “how do you spell your name? If was having a kid in this country I would choose a easy name and not too long
no they don't end up learning the name anyway. they will keep mispronouncing your name and even after correcting them they'll still go "Oh your name is just so hard, I'll give you a nickname" no I don't want a nickname I want my real name. other kids choose to introduce themselves with their "white" name, the way people would say it, just bc yall don't care enough to pronounce it correctly. so yes it is actually very necessary and political of them to choose one-syllable names for their children.
Yeah, for instance I plan on naming my future daughter Olivia Joy, and I’m sure when she’s a cute little toddler she’ll have trouble pronouncing it, but that’s fine. It’ll sound super cute anyway.
Why would you be hurt as the dad Ade, like women have every right to want their offspring to have their last name really when the child’s father is not in the picture or hell just cause
Lord Lex Adrienne is Male-identified, that means she identifies with men and thinks like them, pretty much a “pick me chick”. She doesn’t even realise these traditions are rooted in sexism where men OWN children and wives hence they stamp their last name on to u
K I and it’s so much with Latino culture. As a Latina myself I always found myself in very sexist situations where the man is just high and above the woman. Sigh.
Nope! I believe that it depends on the situation. My mother was with a man who ended up being a dead beat. I wish my mom would have gave me her last name.
mayeleydis my mom gave me her last name! Thank God I love sharing my family last name verses having a mans name idk. Traditions don’t work for everyone’s situation
true my son sperm contributor who's he don't know, has my(mommy) last name, it not a big deal , I rather my son has my name to remind him where he come from , instead of a reminder of a life time of a dead beat dad last name 😎😑☺🤗
I've always felt the single mothers that don't have the biological father active in their lives -- makes sense to give the child your last name. No confusion to pick up your child. That's his mom. His dad has nothing to do with the situation any longer. No questions asked for different last names.
@Carolyn I didnt have a father growing up. My mom raised me on her own until my step dad came into the picture. I actually just changed my last name to theirs. My dad was a dead beat in everyway and never did anything. He was in and out and it was terrible. Even if he was rich and and had properties i would still rather have my mom and step dads last name because they raised me and took care of me. They been through everything with me and loved me. I felt no happiness having a strangers last name. If anything it feels pretty lonely.
@@-.a9942 it's not about hating anything or anyone.. it's just .. why is necessary to take the man's last name but WRONG to take the females? There is no reason. Hyphenating would be perfectly fine!!
Em K who said it was wrong to take the woman’s last name? In Colombia we have the first name,middle name, mom maiden last name then the fathers last name
When i had my girls, i was in a relationship with with their dad and i gave them his last name...17 years on and he has'nt been in their life for 10 years, they both choose to legally change their last name to mine!
Im wit jeannie .... my sons father aint do nothing while i was pregnant and also didn’t do anything after our son was born and then got locked up and now is serving 3 years so i decided not to give my som his last name instead he shares my last name garcia and im proud of it :)
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So sorry u are going through this. I hope God will heal u, and that u make a speedy and full recovery. May the special people in your life continue to be there every step of the way with you. Keep pushing AND praying!!! Best
I love crying along with the ladies of The Real and witnessing authenticity. Not everyone has a support system in their lives- even more of a reason to be kinder to one another
True is actually a very pretty name... the first that came to mind when I heard the name was True Jackson VP ! No but umm now serious note I think that when you think of your child’s name u have to choose something that is meaningful to both parents as well as something that when ur kids name is said in the outside world they’re proud as hell of it !
I'm with Jeannie cause my biological father is not apart of my life and I feel some type of way every time I hear my last name. My mom has a different last name and I want to Change my name back to hers because why am I carrying the name of the person who's not in my life. And didn't do anything for me. I don't want that. I gave him a chance and now I don't feel the need to be associated with him
Carolyn Inheritance has absolutely nothing to do with last names. You will be entitled to a certain amount of inheritance (depending what kind of situation, how many spouses involve etc and the law to each states). I don’t know where you get that info from. As long as the father DNA is in his descendants, it doesn’t matter what kind of names the descendants have or don’t have.
Carolyn that article said nothing about “having someone’s last name gives you the right to inheritance” ???? I’m changing my last name to Spears tomorrow let’s see how much Britney Spears have to pay me. ??? You see what I mean. It makes zero sense. I’m confused. If someone is your biological parent, no matter what name you have, you will be entitled to their inheritances UNLESS the will says otherwise.
@Carolyn lol I didn't read any of your comment besides the one under my initial comment so I didn't know what you even meant when you replied to me 😂 , also you don't know my life, or what matters I can speak on, from experience I've dealt with wills and inheritance before so I stand by my statement... But I get you
It’s so good to see Loni get emotional. You could see when Tamera first started talking about her experience and Loni’s support that Loni was brushing it off and being humble but as Tamera was expressing her fear and her gratitude, Loni broke down and her defences came down. I love their friendship.
In Brazil we always use the mom last name and the father, so the full name of a person is like "First Name Mother Surname Father Surname" the couple being married of not, does not matter.
Lord Lex Spanish people are the same way, that’s why they always have long names so not sure why Adrienne is acting brand new, she much have been Americanized or something. Giving ur child only the fathers name is disrespectful to the mother who did ALL the work. At least pass ur last name (hopefully feminine name) on to ur daughter
@@user-nq6um4bs5y for this motive wen I got married, I refuse to give up my mother's last name and now I have a really long name like "Leticia Mother Surname Father surname husband surname" my mother had so much work, so the least I can do is carry her name with me for all my life. :)
My parents were sooo upset that I voluntarily took my spouses last name and dropped both of theirs, I get that it's tradition ...but it's their tradition, not mine.
@@imposter.Target.Dog.you are building a new family with your husband, make your on traditions, start new, or old ones, just be happy about, they eventualy be too.
I was married so my son has his father's last name. When we got divorced when my son was 8 years old, his father never spoke to us ever again and has nothing to with him. He is 24 years old now. It makes me sick to my stomach that my son has his name. So unless you are married, I am so against giving a child their father's name. By the time my son was 18, his name was a part of his identity and he didn't want to change it. It hurts me that he feels that way. Call it selfish but I agree that my son's father does not deserve the honor of my son having his name. Neither does his grandfather if I'm honest. None of my ex-husband's family was ever truly there for my son as he was growing up. But yet, he carries their name and his children will likely carry that name as well.
I thought this was recent until my longterm memory said Noway, you watch this already...😣 I still watch it .I'm a Fan of this show in fact I'm an AC at this point.
lol Adrienne! ur right tho,Carol & Susan are older lady names. Barbara, Linda, Cathy... there's classic or traditional names that aren't outdated though
Love these ladies so much...so inspirational and always have positive vibes and you can definitely see the unconditional love they have for one another x
In regards to K. Michelle- don't be so quick to cut people off. People don't get to plan the timing in which they go thru things. You can't assume people weren't there on purpose.
That’s my thought. People have their own lives. If I’m going through something serious a phone call or a text is more than enough for me if you’re not my immediate family. You aren’t the only going through a hard time at any given time.
The reason that I believe that most people give the father’s last name is because that people will know who the dad is because the mom we know for a fact is the mom because they carry the child by the dad sometimes doesn’t even resemble the child
When I had my daughter I was 17 and her father was 16 when she was born. When she was born she had my last name. As she got older her father became part of her life and we were coparenting perfectly. I surprised him with court order papers to change her last name to his but we ended up hypenated it. I did this because my mom gave my brother his father last name and she regrets it to this day. My brother wanted my fathers last name because he raised him or my moms maiden name. My mom was also young when she had my brother. I'm glad I gave my daughter my last name because I wasn't sure if her father was gonna step up. It did take him a while but he came around and I am blessed
@@rebeccat6825 i just recently did. I never wanted to do it without my mom's support cause she wasnt sure of the reasons why i wanted to do it. Then she realized i really wanted it amd she supported me so i went ahead with the process amd i couldn't be happier
that’s some old fashioned thinking. I’m with Jeannine on this - being male doesn’t make your name automatically superior or deserving of being attached to a child for the rest of their life. Even with married folks or traditional nuclear families - I mean, how many kid have their abusive or neglectful “father’s” last name?
My mom and dad weren’t married when I was born. I have my mother’s last name. I absolutely think it’s up to the parent. Not every man earns the right to have his name put on a child...especially if they’re not a significant figure in their life. When ur married, that is different I think.
My dad asked not to be named on my birth certificate & i still have his last name & honestly sometimes I feel some kinda way about that. I was gonna change it but ultimately decided to keep it for my grandparents but I kinda agree with Jeannie if I have a baby it’s having my last name unless we’re married.
I am 24 so I’ll call myself a grown-ish man (Family saying). Every time I watch an emotional part. Or watch these wonderful ladies be so real I can really say they make me cry. Help me get in touch with my (soon to be wife and child.) I’m Happy this show is running and happy we have the best host. thanks for being REAL
My dad died when I was four months old. My mom and dad were married so I took his last name but my mom remarried (I’ve always called him my dad) a few years later and they had kids and everyone but me had the last name Philips. There was five Philips and one Walsh so it was just weird.So when I was eight my parents changed my last name to theirs to help me not feel so you know different from everyone else in my family. I was happy about it then but now I sometimes feel like I screwed over my biological dad and am just forgetting about him.
What I would want to say for like Adrienne just to give another view cause I heard her say that's messed up about not giving the fathers last name. Say like my child's father isn't a good role model and was in a well DV relationship not married and now a single mother of 3 all 3 have my last name I don't feel their father should have that say honor of my children carrying on his last name. What would you say to a women bearing a child with someone who is say toxic would you tell them give that child their fathers last name? ❤ I love these talks so people can see others opinions and views on things like this
Are we suppose to be honored that the Kardashian/Jenner next generation will mostly be black? No honey, the other way around. They need to be honored that we are blessing them with melanin. PERIODT!!!
It's like in some cultures once a woman gets married part of their identity gets wiped out. They become Mrs whomever, their children are seen as the children of Mr whomever. I don't get this debate though just give your child both parents' last name🙄. It never made sense to me why children in some countries only get the father's last name.
Everyone will be mixed in the US, not the world. Everyone is basically already mixed in Latin America. It only happened in Latin America first bc most countries didn't have anti-miscegenation laws. It was more about class but people of different races could marry if they were from the same economic class. The US is just catching up.
Married or not married... Involved in the child's life or not... For me, my future kids won't automatically get their dad's surname. My surname is dying out and I would't be able to continue it. For what, just because I'm a woman? Nah fam. It should be a conversation between future parents and what they want. I hate sexist traditions and don't assume just because you have a dingdong between your legs that my child will have your surname.
I agree w Jeannie. My daughter's dad bailed as soon as I got pregnant. The day I gave birth he showed up and expected me to put his last name. Nope. I didn't. I didn't think he deserved that. Hes not even on the birth certificate. And that has honestly been the best decision of my life. I don't need his permission to get her a passport to enroll her in school for any insurance purposes or anything else. I also don't get any child support from him or have ever asked. She's 100% mine.
The last name thing is purely due to the fact that the mother is never in question, she's carrying it. The father's name is a way for the dad to Be involved, than just the birth certificate.
Do you guys remember that one clip (web exclusive) where they were talking about tampons and jeannie said "dont you hate when you have to fish for the string" . If anybody can find the clip please send me the link
Love this video I miss four and this set ,Loni and Tamera Jeannie Adrienne, Loni' and Tamera friendship is straight goals, can we just, a take a moment and realize how amazing tamera skin looks 🤩🤩🤩, 🤩🤩🤩, Tam and Lonnie got me in here crying 😭😭😭, 😭😭😭 oh geze 😭😭😭, 😭😭😭, I love when Tamera make cry 😭😭😭 Loni with her relationship 😭😭😭, 😭😭, the 4 of them had such a light hearted welcoming environment, so fun good old days, love y'all miss 4 Loni and Tamera Jeannie Adrienne keep it up continue watching all on UA-cam
Thank you for sharing your experience with your back pain situation. I've been there and no one understood how much pain I was in, couldn't workout for six months or more. Thank you so much for sharing, Tamara! I better now, but thought I would never be able to workout or work again.
One I just want to say how beautiful you all are sheesh 😍😍😍😍 but I went back to Foster care when in was 17 and in my senior year of highschool . I was going through so much I already had to grow up quickly from my parents passing. I was so angry and felt like I didn't belong anywhere But I met this girl in the group home . At first she got on my nerve cause she was so bubbly. I never forget how she just was so forgiving of me and never got mad at me when I snapped on her 🥺 she loved me so much and showed me it . Even when I felt like I couldn't love ... She loved me. She prayed with me. She listened . Bathed me when I was sick with pneumonia , dressed me , brushed my hair & refused to go to school just to take care of me. Of course she got in trouble. She'd stay up and wait on me just to hear about my day whenever I went on a visit . We stood up for a lot of wrong doing where we lived at the time and made a difference together you know ? One day we had a falling out & I decided to cut her off ( petty drama) I ended up leaving the group home at 18 and went through many other trails. One day months later we met up again walked half across bmore city to see each other again. Nothing was different , we took pictures , smoked fat Ls , ate BBQ had one of the best times of my life that summer day..... That was that last day I seen her alive . She was murdered at 21 . I still remember her high pitched voice , her big beautiful smile & how we'd dance like crazy in the living room 😓 I can relate to Tam and Lonnie I cried when Tam was talking. Till this day I've never met a spirit as bright and vibrant as CeCe . Dance in paradise honey bunny 😇💐🌄🕊️😓💔Cherish your close friends 💌💯👩❤️👩
You do find out who your friends are. My husband had a stroke 6 years ago and friends stop calling and stopped hanging with me. There is a Wives of Stroke Survivors page on Facebook and I talk to women who have gone through the same thing as me. It really made me feel better.
I didn’t give my baby his dad’s last name because I wasn’t sure how much his dad would be around and I wanted him to grow up feeling like apart of my family since I would always be there. However, after 2 years I can see that his dad is consistent and adores his son. So we’re going to add his last name and he will have both of ours, if he decides when he gets older he wants to drop one/give his children only one then that will be something he gets to decide. I got a lot of opinions during the whole process but I’m so glad things turned out the way they did. God is good.
Loni and Tamera’s friendship is straight goals
❤
I get where Jeannie is coming from completely. If I had a child outside of marriage I dont think I would give the child the dad's last name unless we got along well and i was sure he was going to be in the child's life
The last section of this Girl Chat and many other girl chats... shows how much these ladies love each other and truly are friends... I mean from being at Tams birth to being in Ades wedding , to supporting Tam while she was sick , to even hearing stories like Jeannie signing Ades marriage license and the girls comforting Jeannie while she went through divorce and tried to help her get back in the dating world... it’s beautiful to see their relationships blossom over time
*i miss these four and this set*
OMG is The Real over now?
@@meerakakar4454 No they have an additional host now and a new set so its just different vibes in the show and a lot of people are not happy about it
I wish they would have never added a fifth person.
I love the four.
I miss Tamar I wish she never left
bruhhh, as a male OG viewer I HIGHLY AGREEE
Can we just take a moment and realize how amazing Tamera’s skin looks😍
YES!!!!!!!!!
Trueeeee
@@NaimahAltidore Ikr.
And her hair 😍
Her skin always looks amazing!
My son has my last name & I love it. His "father" is not active in his life & I couldn't be happier, and proud, for my baby to share my last name with me as well as carry on our family name. 💕
MalC good for u girl!
I did the same my children have my last name their father is not someone who is a good role model in their lives, and doesn't in my mind deserve that honor. 💜
@@Strawberrieshortcakes
Exactly girl!! Good for you & your babies!
That’s really good! I’m really happy for you!
Ok
I highly disagree with automatically giving the child the father's last name. Maybe we can talk if the father is fully involved. But if the mother of raising the child on her own then it only makes sense the kid gets her last name.
I'm not talking about the Kardashians BTW. Just about general situations
“I just want to have a kardashian with a normal name...” “Susan” “Carol” 😂😂
:)
The middle names are tho. Kristen, Mary, Arthur, Noel, etc. I did a quick Google search, but those are cute names.
I was told to never share my baby’s name until they are born or details about planning your wedding. It can cause problems if down the line someone decides to use the idea you had shared with them
Andrea Rios facts
Andrea Rios can’t they still take it though even after u say the name when their born lol
Andrea Rios ok boomer
Bean Waldroun Ok fha_g
Lol who even cares
Jeannie was 100% right here. If my SO cheated on me while I was pregnant and I knew we wasn’t gonna be together. Ain’t NO WAY I’d give that baby his last name. And Adrienne was saying that was disrespectful to the father. But by that logic, giving the baby HIS name would be disrespectful to ME since I am the mother!! it was disrespectful when he cheated on me and disrespectful to my baby!! That baby would get my name lmao
I feel like it’s so unnecessary that there’s parents that name they’re kids one syllable name just bc it’s easier to learn them. That doesn’t rlly matter...everybody ends up learning they’re name regardless. I dont find it necessary
Alexxa Chloe It is not but it’s up to their parents and it’s also annoying that in the US wherever you go people ask “how do you spell your name? If was having a kid in this country I would choose a easy name and not too long
no they don't end up learning the name anyway. they will keep mispronouncing your name and even after correcting them they'll still go "Oh your name is just so hard, I'll give you a nickname" no I don't want a nickname I want my real name. other kids choose to introduce themselves with their "white" name, the way people would say it, just bc yall don't care enough to pronounce it correctly. so yes it is actually very necessary and political of them to choose one-syllable names for their children.
Yeah, for instance I plan on naming my future daughter Olivia Joy, and I’m sure when she’s a cute little toddler she’ll have trouble pronouncing it, but that’s fine. It’ll sound super cute anyway.
Why would you be hurt as the dad Ade, like women have every right to want their offspring to have their last name really when the child’s father is not in the picture or hell just cause
Lord Lex Adrienne is Male-identified, that means she identifies with men and thinks like them, pretty much a “pick me chick”. She doesn’t even realise these traditions are rooted in sexism where men OWN children and wives hence they stamp their last name on to u
@@user-nq6um4bs5y agreed!! It's getting real old.
K I and it’s so much with Latino culture. As a Latina myself I always found myself in very sexist situations where the man is just high and above the woman. Sigh.
Well in Mexico you get fathers last name but then follows the mothers last name so your main last name is your mothers
Lord Lex my dad wanted me and my brother to have his surname
You can just tell Loni is the BEST friend. She is an awesome person to have in your life. I hope she feels that kind of love and loyalty back.
Tamara and Lonnie got me in here crying oh geez!😭😭😭😭
Dark Treasures same I’m tearing up!
Me to they always be taking us on a emotional Journey
@@Zoerapss Ikr.
Cancers lol
"loyal, real and genuine" basically just the dictionary definition of True. Why Tamera making it like we don't know the meaning lol
Right? I was like what the actual f*** just happened 😳🤣🤣
They were saying the name info not just the word true. And I feel like Khloe did it to remind her cheating ass man to stay true 😂😂😂
Nope! I believe that it depends on the situation. My mother was with a man who ended up being a dead beat. I wish my mom would have gave me her last name.
mayeleydis my mom gave me her last name! Thank God I love sharing my family last name verses having a mans name idk. Traditions don’t work for everyone’s situation
Same
mayeleydis same!!! Ugh
true my son sperm contributor who's he don't know, has my(mommy) last name, it not a big deal , I rather my son has my name to remind him where he come from , instead of a reminder of a life time of a dead beat dad last name 😎😑☺🤗
My daughter has my name my son has his fathers and mine different fathers but I’m still with my sons father
I've always felt the single mothers that don't have the biological father active in their lives -- makes sense to give the child your last name. No confusion to pick up your child. That's his mom. His dad has nothing to do with the situation any longer. No questions asked for different last names.
@Carolyn I respect that. Understood 👍🏽
@Carolyn I didnt have a father growing up. My mom raised me on her own until my step dad came into the picture. I actually just changed my last name to theirs. My dad was a dead beat in everyway and never did anything. He was in and out and it was terrible. Even if he was rich and and had properties i would still rather have my mom and step dads last name because they raised me and took care of me. They been through everything with me and loved me. I felt no happiness having a strangers last name. If anything it feels pretty lonely.
Why is it necessary that the child takes the father's last name? Because of some sexist traditions? F that.
You can hyphenated the last names or if he’s your husband why would you hater your husband name?
@@-.a9942 it's not about hating anything or anyone.. it's just .. why is necessary to take the man's last name but WRONG to take the females? There is no reason. Hyphenating would be perfectly fine!!
Look at it as it’s easier to track family.
Exactly!!
Em K who said it was wrong to take the woman’s last name? In Colombia we have the first name,middle name, mom maiden last name then the fathers last name
LMFAOOOOO Adrienne killed me with the family names 💀💀💀💀
Tamara is such a genuine person and so is Loni... you can tell they love each other. And Loni loves her babies... ❤️
I love when Tamera makes Loni cry with her friendship 😭😭😭
When i had my girls, i was in a relationship with with their dad and i gave them his last name...17 years on and he has'nt been in their life for 10 years, they both choose to legally change their last name to mine!
This was a whole different environment so welcoming wow
The 4 of them had such a light hearted welcoming environment so fun.. good ol days
Im wit jeannie .... my sons father aint do nothing while i was pregnant and also didn’t do anything after our son was born and then got locked up and now is serving 3 years so i decided not to give my som his last name instead he shares my last name garcia and im proud of it :)
I was diagnosed February 18th,2020 that I had breast cancer invasive ductal carcinoma. It has been the hardest thing I am going through. It has been a blessing to have certain people in my life.
So sorry u are going through this. I hope God will heal u, and that u make a speedy and full recovery. May the special people in your life continue to be there every step of the way with you. Keep pushing AND praying!!! Best
I agree with Jeannie. I wouldn’t give my baby his last name
I love crying along with the ladies of The Real and witnessing authenticity. Not everyone has a support system in their lives- even more of a reason to be kinder to one another
my daughter has my last name for good reason, and im glad i made the decision
and we co-parent fine.
Great for u enjoy ur life with ur child or children
We decided to give my daughter my last name,Price, because her dad last name Handloff and he said he got teased in school with names like hand job
Hahaha not to be rude or mean but it kinda funny when i read it i was in tears
haha i remember when Adrienne would get so defensive and hostile when the topic is Kardashian
True is actually a very pretty name... the first that came to mind when I heard the name was True Jackson VP ! No but umm now serious note I think that when you think of your child’s name u have to choose something that is meaningful to both parents as well as something that when ur kids name is said in the outside world they’re proud as hell of it !
Why is Adrienne so passionate about that lol
Actually Adrienne, traditionally, if you’re not married the child takes the mother’s maiden name. People can do what they want though.
I'm with Jeannie cause my biological father is not apart of my life and I feel some type of way every time I hear my last name. My mom has a different last name and I want to Change my name back to hers because why am I carrying the name of the person who's not in my life. And didn't do anything for me. I don't want that. I gave him a chance and now I don't feel the need to be associated with him
Carolyn Inheritance has absolutely nothing to do with last names. You will be entitled to a certain amount of inheritance (depending what kind of situation, how many spouses involve etc and the law to each states). I don’t know where you get that info from. As long as the father DNA is in his descendants, it doesn’t matter what kind of names the descendants have or don’t have.
Carolyn that article said nothing about “having someone’s last name gives you the right to inheritance” ???? I’m changing my last name to Spears tomorrow let’s see how much Britney Spears have to pay me. ??? You see what I mean. It makes zero sense. I’m confused. If someone is your biological parent, no matter what name you have, you will be entitled to their inheritances UNLESS the will says otherwise.
I completely and respect your decision.
@Carolyn Inheritance is based on DNA and state stuff not if the child has the last name as the father
@Carolyn lol I didn't read any of your comment besides the one under my initial comment so I didn't know what you even meant when you replied to me 😂 , also you don't know my life, or what matters I can speak on, from experience I've dealt with wills and inheritance before so I stand by my statement... But I get you
It’s so good to see Loni get emotional. You could see when Tamera first started talking about her experience and Loni’s support that Loni was brushing it off and being humble but as Tamera was expressing her fear and her gratitude, Loni broke down and her defences came down. I love their friendship.
In Brazil we always use the mom last name and the father, so the full name of a person is like "First Name Mother Surname Father Surname" the couple being married of not, does not matter.
Leticia Cruz that makes so much sense to me, I’ve always said I wanted to do that. Glad to know it’s already happening and normal
Lord Lex Spanish people are the same way, that’s why they always have long names so not sure why Adrienne is acting brand new, she much have been Americanized or something. Giving ur child only the fathers name is disrespectful to the mother who did ALL the work. At least pass ur last name (hopefully feminine name) on to ur daughter
@@user-nq6um4bs5y for this motive wen I got married, I refuse to give up my mother's last name and now I have a really long name like "Leticia Mother Surname Father surname husband surname" my mother had so much work, so the least I can do is carry her name with me for all my life. :)
My parents were sooo upset that I voluntarily took my spouses last name and dropped both of theirs, I get that it's tradition ...but it's their tradition, not mine.
@@imposter.Target.Dog.you are building a new family with your husband, make your on traditions, start new, or old ones, just be happy about, they eventualy be too.
It's how loni said Peter Kardashian
The tounge is powerful indeed lol
I love Jeannies top, she’s glowing 😍😍
Funny to hear Jeannie talk about the last names. I bet Monaco keeps Jeezy's last name, Jenkins.
Everyone needs a loni love in their life ❤️
Ya some people do not all but true they need it agree yes
I was married so my son has his father's last name. When we got divorced when my son was 8 years old, his father never spoke to us ever again and has nothing to with him. He is 24 years old now. It makes me sick to my stomach that my son has his name. So unless you are married, I am so against giving a child their father's name. By the time my son was 18, his name was a part of his identity and he didn't want to change it. It hurts me that he feels that way. Call it selfish but I agree that my son's father does not deserve the honor of my son having his name. Neither does his grandfather if I'm honest. None of my ex-husband's family was ever truly there for my son as he was growing up. But yet, he carries their name and his children will likely carry that name as well.
Adrian is extra always going so hard for the kardashians 😂
7:34 Adrienne killssss me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thought this was recent until my longterm memory said Noway, you watch this already...😣 I still watch it .I'm a Fan of this show in fact I'm an AC at this point.
I feel you ladies are my family. This is amazing the bond you all have. Never let anyone take that from u. Fight for your friendship. ❤
I agree with Jennie
lol Adrienne! ur right tho,Carol & Susan are older lady names. Barbara, Linda, Cathy... there's classic or traditional names that aren't outdated though
Stormi....imagine her as an adult and with that name.
This is the first time I’ve ever agreed with Jeanie. I would absolutely not give the child the father’s last name.
Awww the ending got me 😭😭😭
Saturnino! 😂💕I love our Boricua Old Generations names
Jeannie looks like she changed her mind about having kids. I guess the man she married didn’t give her the right vibes to have a baby with him. 🤷🏿♂️
Love these ladies so much...so inspirational and always have positive vibes and you can definitely see the unconditional love they have for one another x
In regards to K. Michelle- don't be so quick to cut people off. People don't get to plan the timing in which they go thru things. You can't assume people weren't there on purpose.
That’s my thought. People have their own lives. If I’m going through something serious a phone call or a text is more than enough for me if you’re not my immediate family. You aren’t the only going through a hard time at any given time.
When they were talking about True’s last name anybody else here the anger rising in Adrienne’s voice 😂
Can we all agree that the Kardashians pick some interesting baby names...
Yeaaa stormi is the best tho
As soon as Tamera started crying, I started crying.
The reason that I believe that most people give the father’s last name is because that people will know who the dad is because the mom we know for a fact is the mom because they carry the child by the dad sometimes doesn’t even resemble the child
When I had my daughter I was 17 and her father was 16 when she was born. When she was born she had my last name. As she got older her father became part of her life and we were coparenting perfectly. I surprised him with court order papers to change her last name to his but we ended up hypenated it. I did this because my mom gave my brother his father last name and she regrets it to this day. My brother wanted my fathers last name because he raised him or my moms maiden name. My mom was also young when she had my brother. I'm glad I gave my daughter my last name because I wasn't sure if her father was gonna step up. It did take him a while but he came around and I am blessed
how ironic, aint nothing loyal, real, or genuine about that family lmao
I wish my mom would've never given me my dad's last name. I hate it so much he's a deadbeat and so is his family. I have a strangers last name.
Change it
@@rebeccat6825 i just recently did. I never wanted to do it without my mom's support cause she wasnt sure of the reasons why i wanted to do it. Then she realized i really wanted it amd she supported me so i went ahead with the process amd i couldn't be happier
that’s some old fashioned thinking. I’m with Jeannine on this - being male doesn’t make your name automatically superior or deserving of being attached to a child for the rest of their life. Even with married folks or traditional nuclear families - I mean, how many kid have their abusive or neglectful “father’s” last name?
I thought this was new so I thought Khloe was having a baby with Tristan again
My mom and dad weren’t married when I was born. I have my mother’s last name. I absolutely think it’s up to the parent. Not every man earns the right to have his name put on a child...especially if they’re not a significant figure in their life. When ur married, that is different I think.
My dad asked not to be named on my birth certificate & i still have his last name & honestly sometimes I feel some kinda way about that. I was gonna change it but ultimately decided to keep it for my grandparents but I kinda agree with Jeannie if I have a baby it’s having my last name unless we’re married.
I LOVE THEIR LOVE!!!! I also love Tam in that dress!
I am 24 so I’ll call myself a grown-ish man (Family saying). Every time I watch an emotional part. Or watch these wonderful ladies be so real I can really say they make me cry. Help me get in touch with my (soon to be wife and child.) I’m Happy this show is running and happy we have the best host. thanks for being REAL
My husband’s dad wasn’t in his life growing up so our kids are keeping mine 🤷🏼♀️
Loni and Tamera made that awkward but it was very endearing
It's 2024 and I'm still watching these old clips ❤
Jeannie has to always make things deep and bring up stuff that isnt apart of the convo
There were already jokes about Tristan not being True because he wasn't faithful.
My dad died when I was four months old. My mom and dad were married so I took his last name but my mom remarried (I’ve always called him my dad) a few years later and they had kids and everyone but me had the last name Philips. There was five Philips and one Walsh so it was just weird.So when I was eight my parents changed my last name to theirs to help me not feel so you know different from everyone else in my family. I was happy about it then but now I sometimes feel like I screwed over my biological dad and am just forgetting about him.
damn i need to surround myself w genuine people like these four women 🥺💗
What I would want to say for like Adrienne just to give another view cause I heard her say that's messed up about not giving the fathers last name.
Say like my child's father isn't a good role model and was in a well DV relationship not married and now a single mother of 3 all 3 have my last name I don't feel their father should have that say honor of my children carrying on his last name.
What would you say to a women bearing a child with someone who is say toxic would you tell them give that child their fathers last name?
❤ I love these talks so people can see others opinions and views on things like this
Are we suppose to be honored that the Kardashian/Jenner next generation will mostly be black? No honey, the other way around. They need to be honored that we are blessing them with melanin. PERIODT!!!
SAY IT LOUDER SIS
It's like in some cultures once a woman gets married part of their identity gets wiped out. They become Mrs whomever, their children are seen as the children of Mr whomever. I don't get this debate though just give your child both parents' last name🙄. It never made sense to me why children in some countries only get the father's last name.
Everyone will be mixed in the US, not the world. Everyone is basically already mixed in Latin America. It only happened in Latin America first bc most countries didn't have anti-miscegenation laws. It was more about class but people of different races could marry if they were from the same economic class. The US is just catching up.
ye believe that the next generation will all be mixed i so believe that the future is mixed interracial loves gonna be so much more common
I enjoy the diversity of different cultures and nationality’s mean while crying with loni and tamera
Married or not married... Involved in the child's life or not... For me, my future kids won't automatically get their dad's surname. My surname is dying out and I would't be able to continue it. For what, just because I'm a woman? Nah fam. It should be a conversation between future parents and what they want. I hate sexist traditions and don't assume just because you have a dingdong between your legs that my child will have your surname.
I agree w Jeannie. My daughter's dad bailed as soon as I got pregnant. The day I gave birth he showed up and expected me to put his last name. Nope. I didn't. I didn't think he deserved that. Hes not even on the birth certificate. And that has honestly been the best decision of my life. I don't need his permission to get her a passport to enroll her in school for any insurance purposes or anything else. I also don't get any child support from him or have ever asked. She's 100% mine.
so unless you're married or any really really good healthy relationship I would not put the father's last name.
Loni u are very very beautiful shoutout to u loni and the others on the real bless u all
Adrienne capping for her friends 😂😂
The last name thing is purely due to the fact that the mother is never in question, she's carrying it. The father's name is a way for the dad to Be involved, than just the birth certificate.
I love the way they are always there for each other... They really are like sisters😍😍
With Amanda on the show it gives the real a whole different vibe and personally it’s not in a good way for me, I just wish it back to this 😢
Do you guys remember that one clip (web exclusive) where they were talking about tampons and jeannie said "dont you hate when you have to fish for the string" . If anybody can find the clip please send me the link
Yes I literally just watched that not too long ago! I'll see if I can find it in my history. How can I send it to you if I find it?
@@mindofzena8447 just comment it under this comment
Love this video I miss four and this set ,Loni and Tamera Jeannie Adrienne, Loni' and Tamera friendship is straight goals, can we just, a take a moment and realize how amazing tamera skin looks 🤩🤩🤩, 🤩🤩🤩, Tam and Lonnie got me in here crying 😭😭😭, 😭😭😭 oh geze 😭😭😭, 😭😭😭, I love when Tamera make cry 😭😭😭 Loni with her relationship 😭😭😭, 😭😭, the 4 of them had such a light hearted welcoming environment, so fun good old days, love y'all miss 4 Loni and Tamera Jeannie Adrienne keep it up continue watching all on UA-cam
Loni is so real!!! Yes stop naming these kids all these weird names! lol
Thank you for sharing your experience with your back pain situation. I've been there and no one understood how much pain I was in, couldn't workout for six months or more. Thank you so much for sharing, Tamara! I better now, but thought I would never be able to workout or work again.
I'm not a crier, but Tamera & Loni got me bawling at 1am!!!!!
You can always add both last names just like Hispanics do, I have four names in mine LMAO
One I just want to say how beautiful you all are sheesh 😍😍😍😍 but I went back to Foster care when in was 17 and in my senior year of highschool . I was going through so much I already had to grow up quickly from my parents passing. I was so angry and felt like I didn't belong anywhere
But I met this girl in the group home . At first she got on my nerve cause she was so bubbly. I never forget how she just was so forgiving of me and never got mad at me when I snapped on her 🥺 she loved me so much and showed me it . Even when I felt like I couldn't love ... She loved me. She prayed with me. She listened . Bathed me when I was sick with pneumonia , dressed me , brushed my hair & refused to go to school just to take care of me. Of course she got in trouble. She'd stay up and wait on me just to hear about my day whenever I went on a visit . We stood up for a lot of wrong doing where we lived at the time and made a difference together you know ?
One day we had a falling out & I decided to cut her off ( petty drama) I ended up leaving the group home at 18 and went through many other trails. One day months later we met up again walked half across bmore city to see each other again. Nothing was different , we took pictures , smoked fat Ls , ate BBQ had one of the best times of my life that summer day..... That was that last day I seen her alive . She was murdered at 21 . I still remember her high pitched voice , her big beautiful smile & how we'd dance like crazy in the living room 😓 I can relate to Tam and Lonnie I cried when Tam was talking. Till this day I've never met a spirit as bright and vibrant as CeCe . Dance in paradise honey bunny 😇💐🌄🕊️😓💔Cherish your close friends 💌💯👩❤️👩
Did Tamera really just explain the roots of the word "true"?
You do find out who your friends are. My husband had a stroke 6 years ago and friends stop calling and stopped hanging with me. There is a Wives of Stroke Survivors page on Facebook and I talk to women who have gone through the same thing as me. It really made me feel better.
I'm with Jeanne.
Adrienne always stick up for the kardashians….I wouldn’t…not how rob embarrassed her on the show….Chris was laughing and all
I didn’t give my baby his dad’s last name because I wasn’t sure how much his dad would be around and I wanted him to grow up feeling like apart of my family since I would always be there. However, after 2 years I can see that his dad is consistent and adores his son. So we’re going to add his last name and he will have both of ours, if he decides when he gets older he wants to drop one/give his children only one then that will be something he gets to decide. I got a lot of opinions during the whole process but I’m so glad things turned out the way they did. God is good.
There are other countries where the tradition is for the baby to take the mother's last name