I’m tired of standing without seeing anything happen. I’ve prayed, been submissive, cried out to God and my husband is still acting wayward, mean, and inconsiderate. I praying for the king in him to arise and not the fool. Break any soul ties, inappropriate thoughts/actions, spirit of deception, lying tongue, and hardened heart. My heart is in pieces. I’m trying to hear God and continue to pray, but I’m emotionally exhausted.
Please keep standing, praying & being submissive. Yahweh hears you and He knows you are tired. That's when we have to go in even harder. Refocus & redirect our attention off the problems we are facing. Take a walk, listen to music, praise, read a book, etc. It will get better if you faint not. Praying & going through with you my sister in Yeshua.
@@thatgirl4160it’s hard to focus on self and I have fasted but not consistently. I’m having a hard time walking in joy without feeling joy and standing without a spoken promise from God. I know what the Bible says about marriage and divorce but I need an audible voice about my marriage. I need a clear word on my situation.
I'm just beginning this journey and I have considered what you are going through but I decided to do this regardless I'm doing this no matter what my husband chooses to do because it's what God commands and because my husband turning over a new leaf is just a bonus. I know i will be tested (probably to see if I'm willing to shed my ego, go the distance, etc) but I know that if I pray for God's help He won't steer me wrong. God wants us to succeed in obeying His commands. This isn't a set up. Let's pray for each other.
I'm so glad I found you even though it's been 33 years of marriage that includes a lot of mess - most of which i am sure would have not happened if I had discovered this message a long time ago. But I am just starting to hear your content and this is exactly what I have been looking for. I always said that he needs to lead but I never considered the influence I have and WOW!!! I will do all of this. God will bless our marriage with abundance. I love and adore my husband even after we are just coming out of infidelity (his) - I am staying. We are working on things and this is how I will do my part. Thank you and thank God for you.
God has told me to trust him. Before that he told me I have to submit to my husband. I kept wrestling with that bc while my husband is a good man he is not a Godly man. I know I was led to your video bc I have to learn how to change. I’m a strong woman and it’s so hard for me to release control. But God has told me I have to trust him.
❤ Wow, i just can not express how MUCH i needed to hear all of this. I prayed to God and asked Him what i am doing wrong and guess what?! I came across these video's about submitting to you husband. I am guilty of almost everything you mentioned. You make me think about titus 2. HalleluYAH thank you sis for sharing this. I have work to do.
Amen! Thank you Jesus! Congratulations on saying Yes to God and making the right step forward. Glory to God! Your marriage will improve one step at a time. Change can be hard, so give yourself grace, praise God for every win and every step forward. Don’t give up! With Jesus, you’ve got this! We will keep growing together 💜
Your explanation of what God's Word straightforwardly says is so refreshing and clear. I know the Holy Spirit is working through you to reach many people, both men and women, to draw them closer to our Savior, Jesus!😊
This was so eye opening and so refreshing and full of life ❤ God knows I needed this. This helped me so much, I struggle in my marriage. And I’m so happy I found your channel ❤️
Not when the husband is a “Christian” covert narcissitst. That’s when you need prayer and boundaries . 😢 God reveals and exposes them in His time . I submitted to Him even when he was cheating and unfaithful. I don’t regret it.But He doesn’t want to change we are going thru a divorce . Still praying but God heard my cry and supplications .🙏🏻
Stay strong in God sister. Him cheating for sure gives you a Biblical way out and I pray you continue to forgive him and release him and allow God to reset your heart and life in all that is ahead for your new direction. God bless you 🙏🏽💜
My husband sits in the front of the church but is the biggest manipulative narcissist I've ever know. He puts on a show daily....he's so good at what he does that no one believes me. He has manipulated 4 different cousellors with his narcissm and that kind of a person is so good at manipulation that they can sweet talk there way out of anything and make the other person (me) sound crazy...i don't no what to do anymore. I've only been married for 3 years and it's been horrible sense day 1...he fooled me to! I THOUGHT he was the most genuine caring shy loving person ever but my eyes opened as soon as we got back from our honeymoon...like I said he is a MASTER at what he does. I've heard that those kinds of people you can not Crack because they are way to focused on themselves and there pride and ego...he is killing me emotionally. I don't no who I an anymore and I can not submit to him anymore...I've become a person I never ever ever thought I would become. He was raised this way from his family
The true reality is that the men we decide to choose is not God's gift to your life it's a permissible decision because that's who your flesh want in your life. That's y it's imperative to make sure you are equally yoked/compatible. Cares of life does cause shifts to happen in a marriage and satan just has his way...he doesn't discriminate he comes to steal kill and destroy christian and non christians homes. But submission is unto both parties. But it's really a task to hold on the love when the spouse is being unlovable. But to put the pressure on one person to lead them to righteousness is a bit unfair especially if the wife is not the headship over the relationship. And then trust God to do his part regardless of how it may have you appear to look like a fool to sooo many who only want your best interest to be happy. So, is it an assignment for ministry or is it a consequence.
I completely agree with you that this is why we must slow down and not rush into marriage. The wife who marries an ungodly man will face a lot of hardship, that does not mean she has to carry the man, it means she has to stay focused of carrying her faith and surrender to God. Many wives who are married to an ungodly man don’t have a reason to divorce, the guy is not cheating or beating her… he just is not a godly leader. So for that woman, she must truly hold strong to trusting in the Lord to be her help and surrender to the Lord 💜
Thank you for your comment, I would say the first step is to read 1 Peter 3, and ask God to forgive you of any way that has not been of him. Pray for strength and pray for your husband’s heart to be opened to the way God wants it to be. Then, yes, apologize to your husband and start over from there 💜 On the Spiced Wife podcast every Monday we are discussing how to start over and surrender to Gods way. You can find the podcast on Spotify.
I’m tired of standing without seeing anything happen. I’ve prayed, been submissive, cried out to God and my husband is still acting wayward, mean, and inconsiderate. I praying for the king in him to arise and not the fool. Break any soul ties, inappropriate thoughts/actions, spirit of deception, lying tongue, and hardened heart. My heart is in pieces. I’m trying to hear God and continue to pray, but I’m emotionally exhausted.
Please keep standing, praying & being submissive. Yahweh hears you and He knows you are tired. That's when we have to go in even harder. Refocus & redirect our attention off the problems we are facing. Take a walk, listen to music, praise, read a book, etc. It will get better if you faint not. Praying & going through with you my sister in Yeshua.
Have you fasted? Praying isn’t enough. Have you focused on self instead of the change u need in your husband?
@@thatgirl4160it’s hard to focus on self and I have fasted but not consistently. I’m having a hard time walking in joy without feeling joy and standing without a spoken promise from God. I know what the Bible says about marriage and divorce but I need an audible voice about my marriage. I need a clear word on my situation.
Im in the same sitation
I'm just beginning this journey and I have considered what you are going through but I decided to do this regardless
I'm doing this no matter what my husband chooses to do because it's what God commands and because my husband turning over a new leaf is just a bonus.
I know i will be tested (probably to see if I'm willing to shed my ego, go the distance, etc) but I know that if I pray for God's help He won't steer me wrong.
God wants us to succeed in obeying His commands. This isn't a set up. Let's pray for each other.
I'm so glad I found you even though it's been 33 years of marriage that includes a lot of mess - most of which i am sure would have not happened if I had discovered this message a long time ago.
But I am just starting to hear your content and this is exactly what I have been looking for.
I always said that he needs to lead but I never considered the influence I have and WOW!!!
I will do all of this. God will bless our marriage with abundance. I love and adore my husband even after we are just coming out of infidelity (his) - I am staying. We are working on things and this is how I will do my part.
Thank you and thank God for you.
Amen! Glory to Jesus!! Thank you so much for sharing! 💜
Thank you for this. It's very encouraging. I love how you use scripture to support all that you share. Blessings!
Wow thank u sister! I don't know how to love my husband anymore after he caused pain after pain in my life.
God has told me to trust him. Before that he told me I have to submit to my husband. I kept wrestling with that bc while my husband is a good man he is not a Godly man. I know I was led to your video bc I have to learn how to change. I’m a strong woman and it’s so hard for me to release control. But God has told me I have to trust him.
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Wow, i just can not express how MUCH i needed to hear all of this. I prayed to God and asked Him what i am doing wrong and guess what?! I came across these video's about submitting to you husband. I am guilty of almost everything you mentioned. You make me think about titus 2. HalleluYAH thank you sis for sharing this. I have work to do.
Amen! Thank you Jesus! Congratulations on saying Yes to God and making the right step forward. Glory to God! Your marriage will improve one step at a time. Change can be hard, so give yourself grace, praise God for every win and every step forward. Don’t give up! With Jesus, you’ve got this! We will keep growing together 💜
Im so happy to have found your channel. Im learning so much about my walk as a wife in this season ❤❤
Amen! Thank you Jesus 💜🙌🏽🙏🏽
Awesome word amen 🙏🏽
Your explanation of what God's Word straightforwardly says is so refreshing and clear. I know the Holy Spirit is working through you to reach many people, both men and women, to draw them closer to our Savior, Jesus!😊
Amen! Thank you so much! Thank you Jesus! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
I just found your channel and I’m enjoying thanks
Amen! Thank you Jesus 🙌🏽🙏🏽 Happy to have you here. 💜
This was so eye opening and so refreshing and full of life ❤ God knows I needed this.
This helped me so much, I struggle in my marriage.
And I’m so happy I found your channel ❤️
Amen! Praise God! He wants marriage to be restored. Hold on strong to His ways and keep your focus on pleasing Him 💜🙏🏽
YESSSSSSSS TRUTH 🔥
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜
Amen, thank you for the teaching
🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜
Not when the husband is a “Christian” covert narcissitst. That’s when you need prayer and boundaries . 😢 God reveals and exposes them in His time . I submitted to Him even when he was cheating and unfaithful. I don’t regret it.But He doesn’t want to change we are going thru a divorce . Still praying but God heard my cry and supplications .🙏🏻
Stay strong in God sister. Him cheating for sure gives you a Biblical way out and I pray you continue to forgive him and release him and allow God to reset your heart and life in all that is ahead for your new direction. God bless you 🙏🏽💜
My husband sits in the front of the church but is the biggest manipulative narcissist I've ever know. He puts on a show daily....he's so good at what he does that no one believes me. He has manipulated 4 different cousellors with his narcissm and that kind of a person is so good at manipulation that they can sweet talk there way out of anything and make the other person (me) sound crazy...i don't no what to do anymore. I've only been married for 3 years and it's been horrible sense day 1...he fooled me to! I THOUGHT he was the most genuine caring shy loving person ever but my eyes opened as soon as we got back from our honeymoon...like I said he is a MASTER at what he does. I've heard that those kinds of people you can not Crack because they are way to focused on themselves and there pride and ego...he is killing me emotionally. I don't no who I an anymore and I can not submit to him anymore...I've become a person I never ever ever thought I would become. He was raised this way from his family
I will be doing a video on narcissistic husbands VERY soon 🙏🏽
@@spicedwife thank you! I appreciate that very much
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The true reality is that the men we decide to choose is not God's gift to your life it's a permissible decision because that's who your flesh want in your life. That's y it's imperative to make sure you are equally yoked/compatible. Cares of life does cause shifts to happen in a marriage and satan just has his way...he doesn't discriminate he comes to steal kill and destroy christian and non christians homes. But submission is unto both parties. But it's really a task to hold on the love when the spouse is being unlovable. But to put the pressure on one person to lead them to righteousness is a bit unfair especially if the wife is not the headship over the relationship. And then trust God to do his part regardless of how it may have you appear to look like a fool to sooo many who only want your best interest to be happy. So, is it an assignment for ministry or is it a consequence.
I completely agree with you that this is why we must slow down and not rush into marriage. The wife who marries an ungodly man will face a lot of hardship, that does not mean she has to carry the man, it means she has to stay focused of carrying her faith and surrender to God. Many wives who are married to an ungodly man don’t have a reason to divorce, the guy is not cheating or beating her… he just is not a godly leader. So for that woman, she must truly hold strong to trusting in the Lord to be her help and surrender to the Lord 💜
Thank you for this video, so is the 1st step to apologize to our husbands for our bad reactions, of nagging and judgement?
Thank you for your comment, I would say the first step is to read 1 Peter 3, and ask God to forgive you of any way that has not been of him. Pray for strength and pray for your husband’s heart to be opened to the way God wants it to be. Then, yes, apologize to your husband and start over from there 💜 On the Spiced Wife podcast every Monday we are discussing how to start over and surrender to Gods way. You can find the podcast on Spotify.
You must be a fly on the wall because you sound just like me.