All women bluff to test your strength, we really make sure that your sincere enough and trustworthy thats why we dont rush for relationship or commitment.
@Chris, well personally I'm to the point where I don't care how women feel. I don't have time to babysit a spoiled princess. I am who I am and if they don't like it they can piss off.
I have a love/hate relationship with these videos. Hate them because it sucks knowing what i did wrong and that i could have fixed it if i would i have known all of this stuff before i got dumped. BUT, Love them because it gives me peace to know what i did wrong and know that i can avoid having that happen to me again.
Don't think about "fixing" past opportunities or relationships... that's a nostalgic and probably a needy stance. Just take the past as evaluation grounds to pinpoint what/when/where went wrong as you said. Myself I have to work hard on this.
I have the same problem, bro.. I fell hard for a chick and totally fucking pushed her away, and these vids helped me learn my lesson. It's too late, but homie I've fallen for sooo many girls.. I'm a lot different now then I was months ago, and I know there'll be more. A LOT more 😎
Corey is speaking nothing but the truth that’s what is like to take the red pill. I wish I knew all this many years ago but fuck it I know it now. Thank you Corey sincerely.
There's a lot of money-grubbing self-help books/instructors/youtube vids out there, and I've been through hundreds and have practiced many things.. this guy is here to help.
Don't all women screen guys before getting to know them, to gauge their emotional stability? I know for fucking sure if I was a woman, id be testing the fuck out of the people I was attracted to and pursued. You gotta look out for your well-being, you don't wanna get involved with sociopaths, because they do exist, and you gotta screen people to make sure they are emotionally and mentally well-balanced with confidence in themselves, and I feel like women test men if only for their own safety, and mental security. I sure would.
Yes but not only. In my opinion we all do it even if we are in a relationship already with someone but it's mostly a subconscious thing and we don't realise it at the time, catching ourselves after. I think it has something to do with expectations.
This guy has got some great advice. I have to admit that it's really quite simple when he says it, but it's a lot harder to apply when you have a horse in the race.
Not all women are the same you have to remember and men are not all wired the same. Some females want the alpha male , some don’t. Some want the guy to do the chasing , some are always doing the chasing. Dating many girls I’ve found each girl is different and have different wants and needs. 1 girl kept calling me, 1 girl didn’t answer, 1 girl texts me all the time, 1 girl texts me randomly. 1 girl likes the chase, 1 girl does the chasing...
I disagree. His advice is very easy to apply. Even more so when you see that it works. Sounds like you're coming from a position of fear. Like Coach says. Not trying to be critical. Hope you're doing good brother.
You just need to oversaturate yourself with his videos. In headphones if possible, then you can work all day while listening. Number one PC of advice, the phone is for making dates ONLY!
A lot of these videos (and my previous actions) make a lot of sense after reading Attached. I found it more helpful to understand why we do what we do instead of thinking it's just not good.
If you are saying something to a woman solely to elicit a similar response in return, the underlying motivation stems from both neediness and weakness.
A women's love develops slowly, like a good whiskey. The cheap whiskey that's ages for a few years is cheap for a reason it's easy and not all that great. The one that's been ages for a decade or more is expensive but leaps and bounds better than the cheap crap. Great things don't come easy or fast otherwise they wouldn't be great.
Yo Corey just the fact that you said the phone is for dates has blown my mind I feel like I got it all figured out even though that’s probably not true but it’s completely changed my mindset in literally a couple minutes of watching this video. Thanks a lot!!!
Mista Cassla but some females love to message and text. Hey sometimes I do if I like a girl but never needy or excessive. I went on a first date two weeks ago, we’ve spoken maybe every other day and about to go on the second date
@IWTBF How did things go with you two? I always try to reply to her texts 1 hour after I receive it. I wouldn't want to say something over text that might offend her and ruin the chances of seeing her.
I wish i had watched it before breaking up with my ex. Its pure gold, explaned everything i did not understand why my ex suddenly pulled off completely. Its me who was buying the society commitment shit. I thought commited in the relationship should involve being together saying i love you all day. Truth was i had been in way thats totally clingy and needy, i am now even amazed how long she could tolerate the me at the time for so long. The breaking up was destined. Maybe i just need this lesson.
Coach I will be buying and reading your book 10 15 20 times or more even 40 times if I can I'm a student of yours forever you have the perfect advice for me personally
Too many people think too much into "movie relationships" or "tv relationships" thinking that this is how its suppose to be. Movies are for Entertainment purposes. Not only that, but it is a movie about that particular love story. Someone else's ideal or fantasy of a love story. It doesn't mean that it is reality or needs to play out as your love story. Its movie!
@Joe Mel That would be an amazing 18th birthday present for any son. I will be doing the same when I have a son. Tell your son to read the whole book 10 to 15 times like Coach Corey Wayne often tells his viewers.
That's exactly right. Especially women that have a good family background will take their time. Especially for sex. Although, the sex cones between 3-6 dates. I rather wait and get a good girl than a girl that belongs to the streets.
I'm very very confused. With my last girlfriend I literally did none of this stuff and she fell head over heels in love with me. I didn't really have to try. I was just confident in myself and just moved through life kicking ass.
I wished I could say that simply not being "needy and insecure" was the magic formula for attracting women but it is not. I do agree with Corey that alot of guys have the ''illusion of action'' but a woman either likes you or she doesn't. As a guy, you've just not got to get hung up on any one female at a time.
I was at country dance clubs the last week in AZ. No shit if there wasn't very hot women with way way below average looks on guys. One was 5"8 weight was 225. He was fat. She was a legit 7 to 8. More 8. She was all over this short Mexican guy. No offence. Even if he had cash she wasn't faking it. Deep kisses sober. Now it was a fluke but other were there. Not as drastic but still... I did the Cory open stance. Drink by my side. Sure enough good looking girls asking me to dance. Whaat? Tell I am sold on Country. Learning the 2 step. Hot women with average guys all over
I don't remember having been friend zoned before, have always been approached by woman and that was also the case this time - a few weeks ago I met a woman in a very awesome in front of all her friends and we had some strong connection. I somehow convinced myself that this one was "safe" and I could just "be myself", sharing thoughts etc - and leave out the seduction. That's not the case and I got friend zoned (She was flirting with another guy whom she had met just before me). Gave he the "I'm not interested in being your friend" talk. Thanks for the reminder - that women fall in love slowly!
this girl i seen once told me to be patient after i asked her i need her to be straight up with me and told her how i felt about her, because i noticed she's playing mind games. she stood me up once said she'd make it up the next day an disappeared again, i told her i got you, have a good life, she immediately answered which was unusual because she was slowly taking longer an longer to respond. she said "this is why i don't open up to people, stay mad bye" that's when i told her what i felt and to be straight forward, so i could move on. i expected to be rejected. she was raped as a young girl an has went through a lot, i NEVER act like this towards a girl but because she went through this i decided that me getting hurt instead of her was best. i always had girls chase me but i'm rarely ever interested this time the script is flipped. idk what to do anymore. she asked me to be really patient, that she really does like me an i make her feel different then other guys... bs
SouthPaw Rey You should never give noone, specially women so much power over you. She's emotionally fucked up. You give an opportunity and see what she does whit it, that's it
@Romes Republic I never really ask "So what are we?" I usually let my actions speak for how I feel. If I want to become exclusive, I'll go on dates with her more often. I'll ask to see her more often. Maybe twice per week.
Stop texting her, you're overpursuing. Don't tell her your feelings, and stop having those feelings for someone you don't even know. If she texts you invite her to your place (or somewhere alone), if she accepts, make your move, if she doesn't, go out and meet more girls. Let women do the choosing and chasing or you'll end up like Emailer 3.
its crazy because i used to be like this guy. I used to always put women on a pedestal, and I always dreamed/fantasized about them being more before I even talked to them, lol. Boy did i learn that lesson the hard way. Now I just approach them the say way they approach me -- to hang out, have fun, hook up. If anything, I just like making women smile now, and thats enough!
Thank you I needed this at this hour after our 8th date last night, seek and ye shall find, so upon after listening to many of your previous videos, I haven’t played needy and texting calling too much like I did this last winter and spring, trying hardest to just use phone to set dates, she reached out to me after I quit pursuing a date most of the summer, things have been going slow and just tonight she started asking me when I had my last girlfriend, and she started dancing up on me and close to me the more I just danced close to her and acted like I didn’t care, she finally danced a slow dance love song with me with her head on my shoulder holding me close tonight, when in times before she would shy away from romantic song slow dances, so I didn’t try and force a kiss because she wasn’t ready, but I did kiss her on the forehead when I walked her to her door! She calls me her special friend, so now I need to start dating other girls and see how she reacts if she may find out casually. Thanks so much Corey I need to finish listening to the book!
PS at the end of almost every date lately she keeps saying thanks for everything, I’ve been on 3 other official dates with 3 other girls since I been seeing this one spoke of but I haven’t felt the chemistry with them that I do with her, so if she’s been hurt in the past and doesn’t no longer believe in men like her amiga told me then what’s the purpose of seeing other girls if she would happen to see it and get hurt by it if she really likes me?
You have to give up ownership, that’s the problem, as you say, be patient , hook up, have fun, they will move thé pieces into place if they want, be a mystery , don’t be available all the time and they will think about you.
i brought you book, first time on kindle...Great love it finish first 30 pages .....make me think more about women... in better way....Ty......peace be upon you....
I wish i could meet corey in a bar and buy him a couple drinks so he can help me with my relationship. Skypes a little expensive but you pay for quality. Corey, you're the man💪
I love ur videos as a woman... I learn a lot on how to deal with these needy men... I myself am bi so I kinda have a small male mindset. I tend to take control even with men but I also have a submissive side. But that side only comes out to someone who I can see leading.
Take sex off the table. It's a sure fire way for a guy to avoid the needy condition and it levels the playing field if a woman knows the guy isn't needy and she can't control him with sex.
If you're practicing celibacy for some reason, just stay away from women bro. You're either gonna be their emotional tampon or get cheated on (since you two can't bang).
The New Yorker definitely not. Some girls are different you know. What’s wrong with some build up and waiting for when it’s more intimate? It’s just not the same for all males or females. But I agree, it’s wrong that the girl can set a date limit before having sex. Why is it on her terms ?
Although this guys email reeks of neediness and kinda makes me cringe, I wonder if I’d have the same reaction watching this 5 years ago before reading Corey’s 3% man book and watching lots of his videos. To be honest, I probably sounded like that guy before. Anyways, my point is that Corey Wayne’s advice is so spot on and helpful - and as Corey says (and it’s not a marketing gimmick): “you need to read his book at least 10 times” in order to fully grasp it. I couldn’t agree more, maybe that’s not the case for everyone but was for me. Corey - you’re a beast. Keep up the good work 👍
These men don't know themselves. They especially don't understand their own infatuation thresholds nor the infatuation thresholds of other people. It's complex and it requires a lot of self-knowledge. Unfortunately, this is a situation that there's a shortage of. I'm a 62-year-old man, single, childless. And I'm also quite risk-averse. I'm reading your book. Maybe someday I'll get with a woman. Maybe I won't.
Dang it coach I JUST had this situation pop up about limiting beliefs with a former flame I re-attracted. We exchange I.L.U and there is definite REAL feelings, and we are exclusively dating one another BUT she wants to wait b4 making the leap to the "title". So essentially we are together without the title and it worried me, but I'm just flowing with it at this point.
I asked this girl out at my job a few times but she keeps making excuses so I ignored her for two days at my job I just felt like there was no point I wasn’t mad at all but I can tell it bothered her, the thrd day we ran into each other and she said hi I was in a rush and didn’t say hi back I felt bad so I apologized later and she asked why I was ignoring her and I told her I wasn’t just tryna be her friend was that me coming on too strong? I don’t even like her that much but I didn’t want too seem needy either cause I’m really not
yes you are, you feelt bad and reached back to her for not saying hello. Weak mindset and fear is controlling you. Do you think J Bond would apologize for not saying hello? Come on man, grow some balls
Great video! I gotta say it works like a charm! I'm dating this gorgeous up and coming stand up comedian who has guys buzzing aroundher like bees around honey, and thanks to Coach Corey Wayne, I'm the one she's spending her free time with. Oh, did I mention I'm a starving student with no car? :-)
Advice please: I think she is into me (she touches me and jokes with me) but at times when I send her texts she will not reply at all or send a short text back. But other times she sends texts where she seems excited. Why is that? We met up the other night, but we were all with friends. I didn't go for the kiss or make the move. But beside that we had fun. I sent her a text saying " I have something to tell you" and she did not reply. What should I do? Should I tell her my feeling? or what? Thx
What you are advocating sounds more like recreation rather than a relationship. Trying people out like kicking the tires of a car before you buy it. Why not get to know the other person truly as just a friend and person before jumping into bed? Sex is a bonding process not "just having fun" with no intention of sticking around. To mess around with someone's emotions not knowing if they are the right person for you is not having fun, it is USING that person for fun. And if they are like-minded-then ayou are BOTH using and potentially using eachother. Hense the "awkwardness in the morning" per the email you cited. This man instinctively sensed what he did was sacred-not just a fun passtime.
Sex is not sacred, it never has been. Look at every point in human history and pre history. Tribal alpha males slept with all the women they wanted and tribal alpha women slept with all the men they wanted. High born lords and ladies married and had sex for money and renown. The oldest profession is prositution. Only people who don't get a lot of sex but desire sex put it on a sacred level.
RoseAndTheGun94 So I see we do have an understanding, but disagree. If this is how you truly think of sex, I feel sad that that's all it is to you because there's so much more you're missing my dear brother. I have been happily married for over 25 years and am not deprived. If my spouse was injured or sick and couldn't have sex anymore, I would still love them because there's more to a person, male or female than just their sex life. We were made in the image of God to care for one another, not a mere animal in heat. To degrade and use eachother is wiping your feet on a precious gift me meant to be beautiful. I don't know what you're witnessed in your life, but you've been lied to my brother and it is you who are missing out.
gwen bliss you'VE and I added an extra "me." I just wanted to also say-I appreciate this conversation because it is important. Alot of people are getting hurt for this very reason-broken hearts that can end in depression or even suicide. Every body also has a SOUL that is the true core of a person, and sex is also emotional and spiritual-the body may be ok after a relationship ends, but the soul is left with scars. Is hard to trust again. When you have sex you are vulnerable-not just an exposed body, but an exposed heart. Do you see? Thank you again for the back and forth.
gwen bliss I think i may have stated my point too harshly. while what i said in my first post is true about sex, the loving connection between man and woman you depict is also true. However just because an act connects people on a highly advanced level does not make it sacred. Sacred things are usually things held in high regard by a religion, society, a culture, or just a random collection of human beings. Sex as of now is not sacred in western society. Only a few periods in western history come to my mind when i think about a society holding sex on sacred level; including the middle ages, the puritan period, and the first and second great awakenings.
You sound wise and have been married for 25 years, if only you could find time to council unmarried men and women on youtube it will be much appreciated. Thank you.
I’m taking my ex out on a date. She said to pick her up in back of her apartments, I told her why not the front like usual ? She said no we aren’t in a relationship any more I don’t want you to feel like we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I told her I understood this. But then she says you need to try cause you have competition. So obviously that means she talking to other guys right ? How should I approach this ?
@@MistahUnknown we been broken up for months now. But I met someone so much better that doesn’t treat me like garbage or take me for granted. My new girlfriend made me realize how much of a toxic person my ex was.
All women bluff to test your strength, we really make sure that your sincere enough and trustworthy thats why we dont rush for relationship or commitment.
Shes talking about a certain type of woman. In specific, there are definitely a group of women who are this way.
Oh really? Then why do so many women go after the bad boys?
Todd google 100% I’ve had girls wanting to meet my mum after the second date lol it’s a myth
@Chris yeah I know
@Chris, well personally I'm to the point where I don't care how women feel. I don't have time to babysit a spoiled princess. I am who I am and if they don't like it they can piss off.
I have a love/hate relationship with these videos.
Hate them because it sucks knowing what i did wrong and that i could have fixed it if i would i have known all of this stuff before i got dumped.
BUT, Love them because it gives me peace to know what i did wrong and know that i can avoid having that happen to me again.
“The greatest teacher, failure is” ~Yoda
Don't think about the past and bad memories, you'll actually feel bad and more anxious. Think about corey's advice and a great future!
Don't think about "fixing" past opportunities or relationships... that's a nostalgic and probably a needy stance. Just take the past as evaluation grounds to pinpoint what/when/where went wrong as you said. Myself I have to work hard on this.
I have the same problem, bro.. I fell hard for a chick and totally fucking pushed her away, and these vids helped me learn my lesson. It's too late, but homie I've fallen for sooo many girls.. I'm a lot different now then I was months ago, and I know there'll be more. A LOT more 😎
It’s called failing forward my guy. We all go through failures. The important thing is to learn from them 👍🏾.
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"I'm not needy" Corey: "Yes you are" 😂😂 😂
"I'm not needy" - Needy person. "I'm needy" - Alpha male
HU Burnnnn
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Corey is speaking nothing but the truth that’s what is like to take the red pill. I wish I knew all this many years ago but fuck it I know it now. Thank you Corey sincerely.
12:49 Hesays I'm not needy Yes you are
There's a lot of money-grubbing self-help books/instructors/youtube vids out there, and I've been through hundreds and have practiced many things.. this guy is here to help.
"at the end of the day all women bluff to test your strength"
that's a good one
Don't all women screen guys before getting to know them, to gauge their emotional stability? I know for fucking sure if I was a woman, id be testing the fuck out of the people I was attracted to and pursued. You gotta look out for your well-being, you don't wanna get involved with sociopaths, because they do exist, and you gotta screen people to make sure they are emotionally and mentally well-balanced with confidence in themselves, and I feel like women test men if only for their own safety, and mental security. I sure would.
Yes but not only. In my opinion we all do it even if we are in a relationship already with someone but it's mostly a subconscious thing and we don't realise it at the time, catching ourselves after. I think it has something to do with expectations.
Is it Alex? Is it really?
yes MrVolcomclassic, yes it is, though no girl will admit it to you
OzHSV hahahaha. Best move ever 😂
This guy has got some great advice. I have to admit that it's really quite simple when he says it, but it's a lot harder to apply when you have a horse in the race.
Right lol
Not all women are the same you have to remember and men are not all wired the same.
Some females want the alpha male , some don’t. Some want the guy to do the chasing , some are always doing the chasing. Dating many girls I’ve found each girl is different and have different wants and needs.
1 girl kept calling me, 1 girl didn’t answer, 1 girl texts me all the time, 1 girl texts me randomly. 1 girl likes the chase, 1 girl does the chasing...
I disagree. His advice is very easy to apply. Even more so when you see that it works.
Sounds like you're coming from a position of fear. Like Coach says.
Not trying to be critical. Hope you're doing good brother.
You just need to oversaturate yourself with his videos. In headphones if possible, then you can work all day while listening. Number one PC of advice, the phone is for making dates ONLY!
thank goodness for your videos. I'm getting better at seeing things from a woman's logic. Movies have messed up the way we men think.
Damn Right lol! You hit it around on the head Mate. Spot On 🎯
Love stories in movies is bs. It's scripted. That's why i stopped watching them
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Women don’t use logic
Dude in email: "I'm not needy."
CW: "Yes you are..."
No bullshit and straight to the point. His philosophy in natural practice.
I literally just got to that part of the video and had to scroll down to see if anyone else picked up on that. What a boss he is, love it.
You're doing the lords work man!
The first guy has an anxious attachment style. Hard to break likely because of past experiences.
A lot of these videos (and my previous actions) make a lot of sense after reading Attached. I found it more helpful to understand why we do what we do instead of thinking it's just not good.
beetdiggingcougar either way, at the end of the day it’s still not a good thing.
If you are saying something to a woman solely to elicit a similar response in return, the underlying motivation stems from both neediness and weakness.
Coach we need to make a meme with you saying " C'mon Man!".
MasterChiefSteve lol or Tee-shit
A women's love develops slowly, like a good whiskey. The cheap whiskey that's ages for a few years is cheap for a reason it's easy and not all that great. The one that's been ages for a decade or more is expensive but leaps and bounds better than the cheap crap. Great things don't come easy or fast otherwise they wouldn't be great.
A decade or more is too long to Court a woman, 7-8 weeks, if she doesn't love you by 12-20 weeks probably forget her and have some cheap Whiskey.
Huh.... That's one thing I need to get through my head, that dating precedes the relationship, that dating is not the relationship.
Yo Corey just the fact that you said the phone is for dates has blown my mind I feel like I got it all figured out even though that’s probably not true but it’s completely changed my mindset in literally a couple minutes of watching this video. Thanks a lot!!!
Mista Cassla but some females love to message and text. Hey sometimes I do if I like a girl but never needy or excessive.
I went on a first date two weeks ago, we’ve spoken maybe every other day and about to go on the second date
@IWTBF
How did things go with you two? I always try to reply to her texts 1 hour after I receive it. I wouldn't want to say something over text that might offend her and ruin the chances of seeing her.
The Coach has been the same. Always. This man is a gift to humanity.
I wish i had watched it before breaking up with my ex. Its pure gold, explaned everything i did not understand why my ex suddenly pulled off completely. Its me who was buying the society commitment shit. I thought commited in the relationship should involve being together saying i love you all day. Truth was i had been in way thats totally clingy and needy, i am now even amazed how long she could tolerate the me at the time for so long. The breaking up was destined. Maybe i just need this lesson.
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Client: what do I do coach Corey?
Coach: Do nothing.
Coach I will be buying and reading your book 10 15 20 times or more even 40 times if I can I'm a student of yours forever you have the perfect advice for me personally
Too many people think too much into "movie relationships" or "tv relationships" thinking that this is how its suppose to be. Movies are for Entertainment purposes. Not only that, but it is a movie about that particular love story. Someone else's ideal or fantasy of a love story. It doesn't mean that it is reality or needs to play out as your love story. Its movie!
Love is a gift from your heart. That's so perfect
I gotta get your book and gift it to my 23-year-old son.. alright!
@Joe Mel
That would be an amazing 18th birthday present for any son. I will be doing the same when I have a son. Tell your son to read the whole book 10 to 15 times like Coach Corey Wayne often tells his viewers.
some women are just slow burners guys relax and move with the moment
That's exactly right. Especially women that have a good family background will take their time. Especially for sex. Although, the sex cones between 3-6 dates. I rather wait and get a good girl than a girl that belongs to the streets.
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I'm very very confused. With my last girlfriend I literally did none of this stuff and she fell head over heels in love with me. I didn't really have to try. I was just confident in myself and just moved through life kicking ass.
Your last girlfriend may be that way, but she doesn’t necessarily represent most ladies
What happen? How’d the break up happen?
@@cuttilo2122 I want to know too even though we’re 2 years late to this comment 😂
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I mean that’s all you need to do
I hear CW in my brain say " Common Man " ! and begin acting like James Bond again lol
I wished I could say that simply not being "needy and insecure" was the magic formula for attracting women but it is not. I do agree with Corey that alot of guys have the ''illusion of action'' but a woman either likes you or she doesn't. As a guy, you've just not got to get hung up on any one female at a time.
Rock N Show a little interest, then back off.
Yeah we know, he's said that.
No matter what you do, 60% will not like you. You got plenty left to work on with some good game
Gotta read the book
I was at country dance clubs the last week in AZ. No shit if there wasn't very hot women with way way below average looks on guys. One was 5"8 weight was 225. He was fat. She was a legit 7 to 8. More 8. She was all over this short Mexican guy. No offence. Even if he had cash she wasn't faking it. Deep kisses sober.
Now it was a fluke but other were there. Not as drastic but still... I did the Cory open stance. Drink by my side. Sure enough good looking girls asking me to dance. Whaat?
Tell I am sold on Country. Learning the 2 step. Hot women with average guys all over
I don't remember having been friend zoned before, have always been approached by woman and that was also the case this time - a few weeks ago I met a woman in a very awesome in front of all her friends and we had some strong connection.
I somehow convinced myself that this one was "safe" and I could just "be myself", sharing thoughts etc - and leave out the seduction. That's not the case and I got friend zoned (She was flirting with another guy whom she had met just before me). Gave he the "I'm not interested in being your friend" talk.
Thanks for the reminder - that women fall in love slowly!
Her loss
Haha bro I’m like on the edge of that if I’m already not there I gotta flip this shit around 😂
this girl i seen once told me to be patient after i asked her i need her to be straight up with me and told her how i felt about her, because i noticed she's playing mind games. she stood me up once said she'd make it up the next day an disappeared again, i told her i got you, have a good life, she immediately answered which was unusual because she was slowly taking longer an longer to respond. she said "this is why i don't open up to people, stay mad bye" that's when i told her what i felt and to be straight forward, so i could move on. i expected to be rejected. she was raped as a young girl an has went through a lot, i NEVER act like this towards a girl but because she went through this i decided that me getting hurt instead of her was best. i always had girls chase me but i'm rarely ever interested this time the script is flipped. idk what to do anymore. she asked me to be really patient, that she really does like me an i make her feel different then other guys... bs
SouthPaw Rey You should never give noone, specially women so much power over you. She's emotionally fucked up. You give an opportunity and see what she does whit it, that's it
Do you meditate? I feel like your mind is super clear when analyzing these things.
Gator don't play that shit.
"you get what you focus on in life" - damn
Just recently started listening to you. I think your pretty sharp. So far great advice to these guys.
If you haven't agreed to become exclusive with a woman, continue to date other women. If you're single, don't get hung up on one woman.
@Romes Republic
I never really ask "So what are we?" I usually let my actions speak for how I feel.
If I want to become exclusive, I'll go on dates with her more often. I'll ask to see her more often. Maybe twice per week.
Been watching a bunch of your videos today @Coach Corey Wayne, so glad I found your channel! Very helpful stuff
Good straight forward advice thank you Corey
Stop texting her, you're overpursuing. Don't tell her your feelings, and stop having those feelings for someone you don't even know.
If she texts you invite her to your place (or somewhere alone), if she accepts, make your move, if she doesn't, go out and meet more girls.
Let women do the choosing and chasing or you'll end up like Emailer 3.
its crazy because i used to be like this guy. I used to always put women on a pedestal, and I always dreamed/fantasized about them being more before I even talked to them, lol. Boy did i learn that lesson the hard way. Now I just approach them the say way they approach me -- to hang out, have fun, hook up. If anything, I just like making women smile now, and thats enough!
Thank you I needed this at this hour after our 8th date last night, seek and ye shall find, so upon after listening to many of your previous videos, I haven’t played needy and texting calling too much like I did this last winter and spring, trying hardest to just use phone to set dates, she reached out to me after I quit pursuing a date most of the summer, things have been going slow and just tonight she started asking me when I had my last girlfriend, and she started dancing up on me and close to me the more I just danced close to her and acted like I didn’t care, she finally danced a slow dance love song with me with her head on my shoulder holding me close tonight, when in times before she would shy away from romantic song slow dances, so I didn’t try and force a kiss because she wasn’t ready, but I did kiss her on the forehead when I walked her to her door! She calls me her special friend, so now I need to start dating other girls and see how she reacts if she may find out casually. Thanks so much Corey I need to finish listening to the book!
PS at the end of almost every date lately she keeps saying thanks for everything, I’ve been on 3 other official dates with 3 other girls since I been seeing this one spoke of but I haven’t felt the chemistry with them that I do with her, so if she’s been hurt in the past and doesn’t no longer believe in men like her amiga told me then what’s the purpose of seeing other girls if she would happen to see it and get hurt by it if she really likes me?
True 👍
@12:48 "yes you are" 🤣😭 I can't 🙋🏿
You have to give up ownership, that’s the problem, as you say, be patient , hook up, have fun, they will move thé pieces into place if they want, be a mystery , don’t be available all the time and they will think about you.
Corey your the man for helping us guys out.
I remember having sex with my ex, then making the mistake of admitting I missed her,and wanted her back. Dried her up like the Sahara Desert.
@Ant Man
That's a big mistake made
i brought you book, first time on kindle...Great love it finish first 30 pages .....make me think more about women... in better way....Ty......peace be upon you....
*Make her feel special, but don’t overdo it or put her on a pedestal. Let your actions come from a place of self-assurance, not validation-seeking.*
I made the same mistake too man just live n learn it takes a whole lot of pressure of you
Lmaooo! 3rd email reactions had me crying 😂😂 Mr. Wayne is so damn Objective 👏🏾👏🏾
NEEDINESS KILLS, DO NOT BE NEEDY
Coach Corey Wayne stands for CCW. Once you gain his knowledge...You are Carry that Concealed Weapon!! FACTS!!!
Thanks for the "limiting belief" explanation
I wish i could meet corey in a bar and buy him a couple drinks so he can help me with my relationship. Skypes a little expensive but you pay for quality. Corey, you're the man💪
Thanks, coach. I needed to hear this again.
Spot fkn on. What a great bit of content Cory, short video but so encompassing.
What if the girl is waiting for the guy to bring up the bf/gf talk? What if she's not sure if the guy is serious about her or not?
That's fine, let her wonder where she stands with you, don't bring it up until she says something about it.
Thank you Corey. Your video are very very helpful.
Also what I learn is about the different love languages. You have to find a match there also.
19:10 the things you should assume when someone doesnt get back to you immediately
This advice is very helpful for men and women.
Amazing....... thank you for the insight! Kinds sad it took me until 48 to get a clue on how to date.....
After 36 no contact, I reached her out for her birthday. She replied quickly and happy for remembering her.
Is that mean positive sign?
Coach is so mellow in this old video... I’m sure he just smoked a huge blunt 😁
I think something is wrong with me. I actually enjoy the texting and maintaining the conversation more than the actual dates themselves.
@Jo Mormont
What do you usually ask her about on dates? What are the topics like?
You've got to shy away from the texting.
@@MistahUnknown ahh a lot’s changed since then. Ive been cured! Lol
@Jo Mormont
Awesome to hear. You're no average Jo
I love ur videos as a woman... I learn a lot on how to deal with these needy men... I myself am bi so I kinda have a small male mindset. I tend to take control even with men but I also have a submissive side. But that side only comes out to someone who I can see leading.
I did the EXACT same thing as the first guy... dang... that’s how I fucked up my relationship y’all, listen to Corey, please ~
Take sex off the table. It's a sure fire way for a guy to avoid the needy condition and it levels the playing field if a woman knows the guy isn't needy and she can't control him with sex.
Exactly...then that’s how u actually end up getting sex
@@Rawyalty220, well if the objective is for the man to maintain control of the relationship then he wins either way.
Another great video coach !
Nice and Simple Straightforward Advice Corey, Cheers, London UK
I needed this homie
These are painful to listen too...and what makes it even more painful is the fact that I used to be the same way.
@Bodhi Sattva
Glad we can learn from these scenarios so we can avoid making these same mistakes
It's like this video was just straight up made for me. I'm going through the exact same problem and thought process as the guy in the story, holy crap
Coach, what's your advice on people who practice celibacy? Considering you're always advocating for people to hook up.
If you're practicing celibacy for some reason, just stay away from women bro. You're either gonna be their emotional tampon or get cheated on (since you two can't bang).
Anxious Drift Or I found someone who is into celibacy as well. Not all women want sex right away.
Woops, I didn't mean I found someone at the moment. I just was giving a potential scenario.
Attraction is not a choice. If she’s really feeling you, her emotions will override. Trust me on this. Every woman says that shit, but whatever
The New Yorker definitely not. Some girls are different you know. What’s wrong with some build up and waiting for when it’s more intimate? It’s just not the same for all males or females.
But I agree, it’s wrong that the girl can set a date limit before having sex. Why is it on her terms ?
Corey looks a bit like Brett Favre, and a hint of Dustin Pedroia.
With a dash of Steve Guttenberg
Although this guys email reeks of neediness and kinda makes me cringe, I wonder if I’d have the same reaction watching this 5 years ago before reading Corey’s 3% man book and watching lots of his videos. To be honest, I probably sounded like that guy before. Anyways, my point is that Corey Wayne’s advice is so spot on and helpful - and as Corey says (and it’s not a marketing gimmick): “you need to read his book at least 10 times” in order to fully grasp it. I couldn’t agree more, maybe that’s not the case for everyone but was for me. Corey - you’re a beast. Keep up the good work 👍
Its the same story the crow told me, its the only one he know. Like the morning sun you come, and like the wind you go.
"I'm not needy...yes you are!" 😂😂😭
Blxty - Awful
24:18 "thats a good plan" someone turn that into a meme pleas 😂
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These men don't know themselves. They especially don't understand their own infatuation thresholds nor the infatuation thresholds of other people. It's complex and it requires a lot of self-knowledge. Unfortunately, this is a situation that there's a shortage of. I'm a 62-year-old man, single, childless. And I'm also quite risk-averse. I'm reading your book. Maybe someday I'll get with a woman. Maybe I won't.
And what if she doesn't want to make love until she is in a commited relationship?
Power Shifts in Relationships
Delis, Dean C.. The Passion Trap: How to Right an Unbalanced Relationship (p. 17). Wheatmark, Inc.. Kindle Edition.
Wow this video just helped so much
The tail end of the 3rd email is hilarious.
Good point Corey because I have a date tomorrow
@Matthew Gregory
I hope that date 3 years ago went great.
@@MistahUnknown yes it tuned into a relationship
@@matthewgregory8218 That's great. Still together?
@@MistahUnknown yes
Thank you
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Dang it coach I JUST had this situation pop up about limiting beliefs with a former flame I re-attracted. We exchange I.L.U and there is definite REAL feelings, and we are exclusively dating one another BUT she wants to wait b4 making the leap to the "title". So essentially we are together without the title and it worried me, but I'm just flowing with it at this point.
@Damian G
That's confusing. Are you two still "exclusive"?
@@MistahUnknown we broke up this year. yes we were exclusive but long term realized our values don't align and parted amicably
I asked this girl out at my job a few times but she keeps making excuses so I ignored her for two days at my job I just felt like there was no point I wasn’t mad at all but I can tell it bothered her, the thrd day we ran into each other and she said hi I was in a rush and didn’t say hi back I felt bad so I apologized later and she asked why I was ignoring her and I told her I wasn’t just tryna be her friend was that me coming on too strong? I don’t even like her that much but I didn’t want too seem needy either cause I’m really not
yes you are, you feelt bad and reached back to her for not saying hello. Weak mindset and fear is controlling you. Do you think J Bond would apologize for not saying hello? Come on man, grow some balls
Yo Corey, what’s your favorite James Bond movie?
Not all heroes wear capes
@23:00 maaaan 😂😂😂😂😂 REACTION is priceless
I don't even care if anyone want me.
Just doing my things and don't care if anyone sees me...😉😉😉😉
I want to ask you a question what have your girlfriend or your wife or someone you were seen started talking
Man Cory, good stuff.
Classic! Cheeky Corey 19:25
I LOVE IT! "THAT'S WHERE YOU'RE GOING OFF THE RAIL!"-LMAO!
Nice eye opener. Im good at the bed part, but im quite inexpirienced. Ty for help Coach. First real GF.
@ScytheReaper
How are things going with you two?
Solid gold!!
Thanks coach
Great video! I gotta say it works like a charm! I'm dating this gorgeous up and coming stand up comedian who has guys buzzing aroundher like bees around honey, and thanks to Coach Corey Wayne, I'm the one she's spending her free time with. Oh, did I mention I'm a starving student with no car? :-)
Advice please: I think she is into me (she touches me and jokes with me) but at times when I send her texts she will not reply at all or send a short text back. But other times she sends texts where she seems excited. Why is that?
We met up the other night, but we were all with friends. I didn't go for the kiss or make the move. But beside that we had fun. I sent her a text saying " I have something to tell you" and she did not reply. What should I do? Should I tell her my feeling? or what? Thx
OMG read the fucking book
What you are advocating sounds more like recreation rather than a relationship. Trying people out like kicking the tires of a car before you buy it. Why not get to know the other person truly as just a friend and person before jumping into bed? Sex is a bonding process not "just having fun" with no intention of sticking around. To mess around with someone's emotions not knowing if they are the right person for you is not having fun, it is USING that person for fun. And if they are like-minded-then ayou are BOTH using and potentially using eachother. Hense the "awkwardness in the morning" per the email you cited. This man instinctively sensed what he did was sacred-not just a fun passtime.
Sex is not sacred, it never has been. Look at every point in human history and pre history. Tribal alpha males slept with all the women they wanted and tribal alpha women slept with all the men they wanted. High born lords and ladies married and had sex for money and renown. The oldest profession is prositution. Only people who don't get a lot of sex but desire sex put it on a sacred level.
RoseAndTheGun94 So I see we do have an understanding, but disagree. If this is how you truly think of sex, I feel sad that that's all it is to you because there's so much more you're missing my dear brother. I have been happily married for over 25 years and am not deprived. If my spouse was injured or sick and couldn't have sex anymore, I would still love them because there's more to a person, male or female than just their sex life. We were made in the image of God to care for one another, not a mere animal in heat. To degrade and use eachother is wiping your feet on a precious gift me meant to be beautiful. I don't know what you're witnessed in your life, but you've been lied to my brother and it is you who are missing out.
gwen bliss you'VE and I added an extra "me." I just wanted to also say-I appreciate this conversation because it is important. Alot of people are getting hurt for this very reason-broken hearts that can end in depression or even suicide. Every body also has a SOUL that is the true core of a person, and sex is also emotional and spiritual-the body may be ok after a relationship ends, but the soul is left with scars. Is hard to trust again. When you have sex you are vulnerable-not just an exposed body, but an exposed heart. Do you see? Thank you again for the back and forth.
gwen bliss I think i may have stated my point too harshly. while what i said in my first post is true about sex, the loving connection between man and woman you depict is also true. However just because an act connects people on a highly advanced level does not make it sacred. Sacred things are usually things held in high regard by a religion, society, a culture, or just a random collection of human beings. Sex as of now is not sacred in western society. Only a few periods in western history come to my mind when i think about a society holding sex on sacred level; including the middle ages, the puritan period, and the first and second great awakenings.
You sound wise and have been married for 25 years, if only you could find time to council unmarried men and women on youtube it will be much appreciated.
Thank you.
I’m taking my ex out on a date. She said to pick her up in back of her apartments, I told her why not the front like usual ? She said no we aren’t in a relationship any more I don’t want you to feel like we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
I told her I understood this. But then she says you need to try cause you have competition.
So obviously that means she talking to other guys right ? How should I approach this ?
@Noiroxide
If I have to pick her up in the back of her apartment, she's not worth wasting my time over. How did things go with you and her?
@@MistahUnknown we been broken up for months now. But I met someone so much better that doesn’t treat me like garbage or take me for granted. My new girlfriend made me realize how much of a toxic person my ex was.
Why does CW say that one should only use the phone to set dates and not text? 🤔
16:00 "It doesn't happen that way." Usually, yes. Unless your batshit loco/psycho (BPD/Cluster-B Psychopathy)