Please work on letting your guests finish talking before interrupting them, because then you can have them side track into something else when they weren’t even done with the previous one; Every word from this man is very worth hearing, then discussing after. You could see at one point he even started to get frustrated. Robert Greene is a special person of our generation, and you should’ve listened to him more attentively, and from a more open state of mind to truly understand what he’s saying. All in all, great talk
It would be helpful to tone down the strong stances and deep personal opinions when talking to a guest as the majority of the conversation felt more like a confrontation. Perhaps approach the future guests with questions that stem from innocent curiosity and active listening of the deeper meaning of their message they are trying to convey in the moment to understand its undertone. Taking things less personally could help to lessen the interruptions / constant need of rebuttals coming from personal frustration and defensiveness to truly get the guest to fully open up and to allow them to develop the subject of what they’ve been invited to discuss. In this podcast, you can gradually feel (see and hear) Robert Greene loosing hope of his message being truly understood. Great co-host to have alongside to lighten up the conversation and to move it forward.
I figured out pretty early that I don't like being told what to do and that I'm obsessive compulsive. So I sat down and figured I love to clean. I'm most at peace then. So I am a self employed housekeeper for 23 years and I still love it. Don't under estimate a low stress life.
Under-rated occupation for sure. I loved working as a cleaner. People looked down on me but it was low stress and paid well enough. What's nice about being self employed is if you get a bad client you can drop them. When you work for someone you're stuck dealing with abusive people.
@@littleripper312 Luckily I don't give a shit what anyone thinks😄 It's raising 2 girls by myself. Don't have to work all day either. A quick 4 or 5 hrs and I'm done🌟
Just an advice you should listen more when you are interviewing someone. It was overall good is just the guest got interrupted super often and by this “I think” is just nice to see everything flow and let the other person finish their idea. Regards!
My Dad always encouraged my musical compositional gifts by saying "Son I believe music has the power to heal and educate and could be the mythical Fountain of Youth"❤
I loved this episode. 2 things stood out for me. One was the part when he said if you are interacting ( for dating ) and the other person is not interested to move on to the next one. I am incredibly shy and when I was younger if someone I talked to in a bar was not interested I took it personally and would be devastated resulting in me leaving the bar and go home crying thinking something was wrong with me. I would see others go to almost everyone in the bar until someone clicked with them and I judged that person for being desperate.... The other was around the 1:35 mark towards the end about how we are all unique with our DNA and we know as young children what were primal inclinations - impulse voices. I immediately thought of the Pink Floyd song Comfortably Numb. The lyrics: When I was a child, I caught a fleeting glimpse Out of the corner of my eye I turned to look, but it was gone I cannot put my finger on it now The child is grown, the dream is gone. I have become comfortably numb.
And as a neurospicy person, I am very much on the "do what your good at not what your passionate about" because with my ADHD, the moment my passion is attached to obligation, the passion dies and it becomes an obligation. My passions are side hustles, but of it was how I supported my family, I wouldn't love it anymore.
@@beach_lion oh I am a collector of hobbies for sure. And I do make some money from them, but it's not my living, and if I burn out and need a break, I can step away for a little bit to reheat that passion. If it was my income and I couldn't step away, it would then be just another job. I'm very crafty and artistic.. but I also am good at seeing relationships between things and patterns, and so I work in medical device compliance as my income. I'm not passionate about it, and I like it just fine, but I bet if it wasn't reliant on it for survival, I would probably love it then lol.
I also believe that we knew a lot as small children but gradually forgot it as we grew up or were talked out of it. When I ask people my age what their purpose is, hardly anyone knows. I've had a passion since I was 7. It never let go of me. it works like a magnet. I can't not do it. I'll get unhappy if I can't do it. That's a gift.💖
Wow, just ventured into the comments section of this episode and got really sad about all the negativity. There are so many podcasts out there, just listen to the people whos' interview style you enjoy, geez louise. I just found out about this podcast about a month ago, I am vibing hard and making tonnes of new connections in my gorgeous little brain and am thoroughly inspired. And also super grateful for having such a huge backlog of episodes to thoroughly enjoy. Love the questions and sharing of personal views and experiences from both hosts. Keep up the fabulous work and don't let the party poopers get you down.
this interview gave me chills !! when he started talking about how the world conspires against you to help you find your path. . .great stuff . subscribed
There iare many levels of power: external power (resources, time, space, position, reputation, ability to influence, etc.) and internal power (cognition, believing/dreaming better/optimistically) and authentic power (inspiration, integrity, realization of the one/self beyond belief/doubt, turning on universal human character strengths, facing & integration of the white/dark shadow)
WOW...Mayim....Johnathan, Richard....this was a MOST EXCELLENT,INTERVIEW...I thought mmm,two hours...I was Glued to the screen...Thank you All,,,so much,,,guess I,ll be buying some books LOVE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH...I,m 75 and still love learning...Richard is Amazing,Inspiring,as I,ve also experienced such negative ,painful,issues concerning power
Never heard of his book, now on my list of books to read or listen to. Even though this was very long, I enjoyed every minute of it. I really appreciate that you're flexible on time, let it flow so what they want to say is said.
Mayim!!! Ahh girly we suffer from the same overthinking, aversion to injustice and come off like a downer often. I also felt bad that perhaps i am the infection 😢 Thank u for being so honest and shared so he could explain and dissect that. Love you! God continue to bless you 🫶🏻
And the awesomeness continues!!! WOW!! 👏🏻👏🏻 Improving always! When you think it’s impossible to watch a better episode..voilà, here it is! Thank you Mayim for educating and enlightening us weekly! 💜
Thank you so much for posting this great episode with motivation expert Robert Greene. Keep up the awesome work with this podcast. You are amazing, Mayim! ❤
Would love to see a panel between Dr. Ramani Durvasula and Robert Greene. I bet a conversation with them about narcissism (alongside tools that are used by narcissists) could help viewers and followers heighten their awareness either for themselves or for others. A lot of the things he mentions in this episode are similar or even the same as what Dr. Ramani says in her interviews and content.
Yes! I agree. And I'm glad Mayim challenged him a bit. I wasn't 'seduced' by Robert's ideas by the end of the interview. Narcissists are notoriously power hungry. If his work is endorsed by the likes of Kanye and Jay Z, that throws up more red flags than I'm willing to hold. If he and Dr. Ramani were able to create a balanced take on how to use power without harming vulnerable people groups, I'd be more inclined to take what he said a little more seriously. But the fact that he seemed stunned and genuinely shocked 1:22:00 -1:26:00 that women feel a certain way in power dynamics shows he's playing with fire and doesn't know (or doesn't care) about the consequences. Hard pass on this guy. 🙅♀️
@@amandab5222 Yes, you got it right. Balance is the word. Would love to see a tennis match of perspectives, studies, and ideas. There's a lot of work to be done to understand ourselves and how we interact with others and vice versa. The plethora of experiences could be helpful for us to pick and choose pieces that resonate and help our self-development.
@byDEVITA because not all people who give birth to children identify as a woman, just like not all women have the ability to carry a child.. and it takes very minimal effort on my end to accommodate someone's identity. Just because it's something I don't personally experience doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Sorry being a kind human and acknowledging others life experiences bothers you so much.
I agree with you to an extent, and though I’ve not read his works, let me hazard a guess as to where he’s coming from. Whenever you get human beings together, hierarchies naturally form. Just watch children play-some are more directive of the play and others are more go-with-the-flow and OK with doing whatever everyone else is doing. There are some relationships in which the power gradient is much more obvious. For example, I’m a preschool teacher. The power gradient between me and my students is pretty steep, much steeper than that between a high school teacher and a student, who can at least argue her case more cogently if a teacher is being unfair. Historically men have had more power in romantic relationships, since they held more economic power and since the woman was the one who would get pregnant and be dependent on him financially. I think his point might be that power dynamics being what they are, you’re never going to completely level the playing field-one person is going to be more dominant and another less dominant. So the point is to be aware of the power you have in relationships and to use that power for the good of the other person, to build up their autonomy, etc. Good parents and teachers do this all the time. I think something like this might be what he’s getting at.
Talk about Signier Signs on Steroids, I am currently journaling and reading about the 3rd chakra, listening to 528hz Solar Plexus music in the background on Spotify, then I see a notification on my phone for this podcast about the POWER of seduction. That's one powerful pattern.
14:43 I remember a TV commercial that said, “The mind is a terrible thing to waste.” The USA used to be known for innovation and thinking big. It can happen again.
I saw lot of Robert's interviews and never saw that much of interruptions, so rude...narcissism bursts from this Dr. Mayim.. too toxic i think...too annoying
The movie “Dangerous Liaisons” is mentioned, and I’ve always been fascinated by that story. Have to correct though…it’s actually John Malkovich who stars alongside Michelle Pfeiffer in the American version, and he was absolutely fantastic. Great example of a seducer having his selfish motives backfire on him.
I found many of the things in this podcast interesting. I recall when I taught high school visual art, I was asked to also run the theater program. I discoverd I LOVED everything about the complexity and chaos of putting on a production. Theater was something I never considered before. I wish I had been exposed to it earlier in my life and had the opportunity to explore it. Interestingly, my father was a special effects person for his career, but I was never exposed to that industry. By the way, I am also accused of being bossy (like that is a bad thing?). LOL
Nobody is powerless and there’s no need to scramble. Our holy spirit walks with everyone every step of the way. 💖 We find our purpose when we find the thing that sparks joy. ✨
This episode is really interesting! Mayim, when you describe yourself its like you are describing me! I felt the same way about law #10! Thank you for this conversation! You are amazing ❤️
Please Mayim and Jonathan, could you interview Gabby Thomas that just won 3 gold medals in the olympics and is a neurobiologist, i think it would awesome, thanks !!...
I’m 42 and pregnant with my second. I had my first at 40 (almost 41). Home birth was still on the table. Love you Mayim, but just bringing some more perspective. I didn’t feel ready until my late 30’s and fortunately it worked out.
Before marriage, I told my wife I’m going to make her one of the most powerful women. Now I’m thinking twice about introducing any of Robert Greene’s book about power to her.
Doctor you are changing the conversation a lot of times. Let Robert Greene speak what he wants to say! Don't make it confusing, it is frustrating. Great episode btw
I cant help but love every time Mayim brings up women's issuess with this man! I dont want her to be quiet. I want her to explain to him what its like to be a woman.
Yeah, it's evident he hasn't had to think about it before. Even if he talked to his wife about having children, it's not a given that they would have discussed all the complexities that go into and come out of that decision.
I love that you "deflated him" and took it with humor, not just nodding along with everything he says just because of who he is, that made it much more enriching especially to women because we do live through the reallity of what you said. Fun and enriching 🌻.
30:40 It was funny seeing her trying to go the roundabout way of expressing she's unhappy therefore must be avoided as the book said. 😂 I kind of just accepted that even friends don't like someone with a less pleasant view of the world.. different from the linear way of life and thinking society has dictated that shaped their decisions and I refuse to shape mine and has left me in a supposed slump for a while. I'm glad she opened that conversation.
50:16 i like that robert greene can be more real about how he feels about the interviewers these days. I guess it comes from him being so established that he doensnt have 2 fake things no more
Thanks for acknowledging complicated pregnancies- I had my last baby after grad school & ended up quitting my NP corporate job after 1 year- that geriatric pregnancy rocked me!
I always really love your theme song because it sounds like you're going to break down the facts, then have an emotional breakdown, then breakdown what happened in relation to the breakdown, before you break it down freestyle 😂
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A quick thought on the point of the infection chapter. Perhaps it is not the ugly and downtrodden on the surface, for instance to feel the weight of the world means not that you are a burden to others who would cut you off. Instead, it refers to a more personal cycle of engaging with energy that goes against your "core" identity. In this case you can consider a person who finds it foolish for you to feel this weight, and tells you to just laugh at the world instead. Perhaps we already do inherently distance from/sort sort ourselves based on our intrinsic personalities and ideals.
I've found that a lot of men over the age of around 30 start to want love and not just sex. Even many women don't seek out love until they're older so it's not so much a gender specific thing but a human maturing thing. So many of my guy friends looking for girlfriends 30+ just want a friend/partner and are not so laser focused on just sex. I think it's a stereotype that's true of young men/women but 25-30+ people start to want a partner. Sex loses it's newness and shine and life becomes more than that.
I know Mayim can come off as being too negative or "feminist" in an aggressive way but she's pointing out that women have different realities to men. Like when he was talking about having fun in your 20's that's not something that most women can do if they want children. Men don't have these rigid timelines and can casually have them when they want. If a woman wants a career she doesn't have much space for having fun and exploring, she needs to be on a fairly strict timeline with her career. IVF is expensive, stressful and doesn't work for all women. I wouldn't plan your life with the assumption you'll be able to have kids 35+.
I completely agree! I wish Mayim was more aggressive in this interview! 😅 Robert does seem out of touch in regards to women's experiences. You can't write truly good healthy books on power and seduction without empowering everyone. Another point is young women, especially teen girls, are naturally more physically, emotionally and financially vulnerable to predatory men. His work will ultimately most benefit men looking for a power trip. And if it harms women? Well not my problem because they 'should be able to see through it' 1:24:20.
Many genetic defects come from old sperm as much as old eggs, yes men can be casual about having children but they exist in same timelines in the healthiest genetic material timelines. I’ve never had a single thought about Mayim being aggressive, she speaks her mind intelligently. I’ve lived in many countries and I’ve seen the ways women are valued, the Scandinavian countries are the best with social equality.
Great interview… I’ve read his books and Mayim asks a different variety of questions than the typical podcast. 😍 Just adding my feminist opinion , women like sex too 😈
Oh the 'dark path'-where one wrong move turns you into a lifelong supervillain. Thanks Yoda, for the no redemption allowed memo! I’ll just sit here terrified to make a single mistake while the rest of us humans keep messing up, learning, and realizing life’s not a 'one bad choice and you're doomed' movie plot. But hey, if someone prefers to live in a soap opera, who am I to ruin their drama?
Honestly, I think that whole 'dark path' idea is a bit overdramatic. Life’s messy, and we’re all a mix of good and bad. One mistake doesn't define you forever-it’s how you learn and grow from it that matters. We’re not stuck in some 'no redemption' script; we’re all just trying to balance the good and bad, making the best of what we've got.
Thank you for having me on the podcast Mayim.
It was wonderful seeing you and hearing you speak on this podcast, Robert! 👍
Thank you for your service to humanity! You’re a legend Sir!
@@RobertGreeneOfficial You, sir, are certainly a marvelous phenomenon in this vast universe. ✨
Thank you for opening my eyes. ❤
Love you and your books Robert❤(from Iran)
Please work on letting your guests finish talking before interrupting them, because then you can have them side track into something else when they weren’t even done with the previous one; Every word from this man is very worth hearing, then discussing after. You could see at one point he even started to get frustrated.
Robert Greene is a special person of our generation, and you should’ve listened to him more attentively, and from a more open state of mind to truly understand what he’s saying.
All in all, great talk
Exactly !
She is the narcissist he is describing.
She's too defensive
@@CobraQuotes1😂
She was just yappin and yappin. Whole conversation I kept thinking, let Robert speak his wisdom bruh!
It would be helpful to tone down the strong stances and deep personal opinions when talking to a guest as the majority of the conversation felt more like a confrontation. Perhaps approach the future guests with questions that stem from innocent curiosity and active listening of the deeper meaning of their message they are trying to convey in the moment to understand its undertone. Taking things less personally could help to lessen the interruptions / constant need of rebuttals coming from personal frustration and defensiveness to truly get the guest to fully open up and to allow them to develop the subject of what they’ve been invited to discuss. In this podcast, you can gradually feel (see and hear) Robert Greene loosing hope of his message being truly understood.
Great co-host to have alongside to lighten up the conversation and to move it forward.
I figured out pretty early that I don't like being told what to do and that I'm obsessive compulsive. So I sat down and figured I love to clean. I'm most at peace then. So I am a self employed housekeeper for 23 years and I still love it. Don't under estimate a low stress life.
Under-rated occupation for sure. I loved working as a cleaner. People looked down on me but it was low stress and paid well enough. What's nice about being self employed is if you get a bad client you can drop them. When you work for someone you're stuck dealing with abusive people.
@@stephaniehyden2440 oppressive compulsive?
@@littleripper312 Luckily I don't give a shit what anyone thinks😄 It's raising 2 girls by myself. Don't have to work all day either. A quick 4 or 5 hrs and I'm done🌟
@@Susan_F I fixed it grammar police🙄
@@stephaniehyden2440 I actually thought “oppressive compulsive” might be a new thing. I was not attempting to correct anyone’s grammar.
Just an advice you should listen more when you are interviewing someone. It was overall good is just the guest got interrupted super often and by this “I think” is just nice to see everything flow and let the other person finish their idea.
Regards!
Mayim used to interrupt Jonathan ALL THE TIME! She's getting better at correcting it, but needs to continue to work on it.
Mayim needs to change career or she should work on show by herself were she can talk for hours and hours
for real
I agree 👍
Let Robert talk I’m trying to take note and the interviewer keeps interrupting Robert. Hold your tongue later
Self-awareness is key! Once we shed light on our shadow we liberate ourselves. 🤯
46 & 2
@@MightyD_93love that song.. so Jungian
Who is the interviewee here I’m confuse is it the talking parrot
My Dad always encouraged my musical compositional gifts by saying "Son I believe music has the power to heal and educate and could be the mythical Fountain of Youth"❤
I loved this episode. 2 things stood out for me. One was the part when he said if you are interacting ( for dating ) and the other person is not interested to move on to the next one. I am incredibly shy and when I was younger if someone I talked to in a bar was not interested I took it personally and would be devastated resulting in me leaving the bar and go home crying thinking something was wrong with me. I would see others go to almost everyone in the bar until someone clicked with them and I judged that person for being desperate.... The other was around the 1:35 mark towards the end about how we are all unique with our DNA and we know as young children what were primal inclinations - impulse voices. I immediately thought of the Pink Floyd song Comfortably Numb. The lyrics:
When I was a child, I caught a fleeting glimpse
Out of the corner of my eye
I turned to look, but it was gone
I cannot put my finger on it now
The child is grown, the dream is gone.
I have become comfortably numb.
this man is my personal hero. A living legend
Hearing the generic feminist regurgitation from Mayim is pretty tiring.
This interview should be watched twice; once for information and the second time to apply the info to the behaviour of the hosts and guest.
Dr Mayim.. two ears, one mouth for a reason. Great talk Robert.
ROBERT GREENE NEEDS TO WRITE AN AUTOBIOGRAPHY (YES, CAPITAL LETTERS!!!) ❤❤❤
All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed.Third, it is accepted as self-evident.
I have this quote posted in my hallway. 🙂
there are levels to truth tho... like some u like open up and like u just droop...
And as a neurospicy person, I am very much on the "do what your good at not what your passionate about" because with my ADHD, the moment my passion is attached to obligation, the passion dies and it becomes an obligation. My passions are side hustles, but of it was how I supported my family, I wouldn't love it anymore.
i never thought about it quite that way, that's a very good point... i can love so many new hobbies
@@beach_lion oh I am a collector of hobbies for sure. And I do make some money from them, but it's not my living, and if I burn out and need a break, I can step away for a little bit to reheat that passion. If it was my income and I couldn't step away, it would then be just another job. I'm very crafty and artistic.. but I also am good at seeing relationships between things and patterns, and so I work in medical device compliance as my income. I'm not passionate about it, and I like it just fine, but I bet if it wasn't reliant on it for survival, I would probably love it then lol.
Thank you jonathan for noting its not necessarily sexual seduction ..
I also believe that we knew a lot as small children but gradually forgot it as we grew up or were talked out of it. When I ask people my age what their purpose is, hardly anyone knows. I've had a passion since I was 7. It never let go of me. it works like a magnet. I can't not do it. I'll get unhappy if I can't do it. That's a gift.💖
That is a gift; I've had about 40 jobs and at age 70 I am still wondering what to do when I grow up.
@@didid7880 🌷🍀💖
Mayim, when you talked about your worry that you are an example of Law #10, I felt that too. The way you described yourself is how I see myself too.
Mayim, your hairstyle and smile are seducing me 100%. Your hairstyle and smile are seducing me 100%😂😂
I feel like she was trying to say at times she can be a negative person to be around….nobody is perfect but she was beating around the bush
Great interview Robert, it was nice getting to hear Mayim on your show.
Wow, just ventured into the comments section of this episode and got really sad about all the negativity. There are so many podcasts out there, just listen to the people whos' interview style you enjoy, geez louise. I just found out about this podcast about a month ago, I am vibing hard and making tonnes of new connections in my gorgeous little brain and am thoroughly inspired. And also super grateful for having such a huge backlog of episodes to thoroughly enjoy. Love the questions and sharing of personal views and experiences from both hosts. Keep up the fabulous work and don't let the party poopers get you down.
this interview gave me chills !! when he started talking about how the world conspires against you to help you find your path. . .great stuff . subscribed
There iare many levels of power: external power (resources, time, space, position, reputation, ability to influence, etc.) and internal power (cognition, believing/dreaming better/optimistically) and authentic power (inspiration, integrity, realization of the one/self beyond belief/doubt, turning on universal human character strengths, facing & integration of the white/dark shadow)
WOW...Mayim....Johnathan, Richard....this was a MOST EXCELLENT,INTERVIEW...I thought mmm,two hours...I was Glued to the screen...Thank you All,,,so much,,,guess I,ll be buying some books LOVE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH...I,m 75 and still love learning...Richard is Amazing,Inspiring,as I,ve also experienced such negative ,painful,issues concerning power
🥹🤯
Never heard of his book, now on my list of books to read or listen to. Even though this was very long, I enjoyed every minute of it. I really appreciate that you're flexible on time, let it flow so what they want to say is said.
Thanks to this podcast, i know im special as an person
Mayim!!! Ahh girly we suffer from the same overthinking, aversion to injustice and come off like a downer often. I also felt bad that perhaps i am the infection 😢
Thank u for being so honest and shared so he could explain and dissect that.
Love you! God continue to bless you 🫶🏻
And the awesomeness continues!!! WOW!! 👏🏻👏🏻 Improving always! When you think it’s impossible to watch a better episode..voilà, here it is! Thank you Mayim for educating and enlightening us weekly! 💜
Very glad you’re enjoying the podcast Marisa! Thanks so much for sharing and for being here 🫶🧠
@@MayimBialik Thank you to you Mayim! Always! 🫶🏽💜
This is such an interesting podcast to have Robert Greene on. Amazing to see.
Very intrigued. Looking forward to reading the book. Thank you, Robert and Breakdown🙌
Wow, Robert Greene! Amazing show 😊
Thank you so much for posting this great episode with motivation expert Robert Greene. Keep up the awesome work with this podcast. You are amazing, Mayim! ❤
Thanks for sharing and for being here! 🧠🫶
I've never heard of Robert Greene, but will buy his book. Such an interesting person! Another fantastic episode!!
In which world are you?
Really wish these books were available when I was in my twenties.
Mahalo for this dynamic conversation. Fan of you both!
Would love to see a panel between Dr. Ramani Durvasula and Robert Greene. I bet a conversation with them about narcissism (alongside tools that are used by narcissists) could help viewers and followers heighten their awareness either for themselves or for others. A lot of the things he mentions in this episode are similar or even the same as what Dr. Ramani says in her interviews and content.
Yes! I agree. And I'm glad Mayim challenged him a bit. I wasn't 'seduced' by Robert's ideas by the end of the interview. Narcissists are notoriously power hungry. If his work is endorsed by the likes of Kanye and Jay Z, that throws up more red flags than I'm willing to hold.
If he and Dr. Ramani were able to create a balanced take on how to use power without harming vulnerable people groups, I'd be more inclined to take what he said a little more seriously. But the fact that he seemed stunned and genuinely shocked 1:22:00 -1:26:00 that women feel a certain way in power dynamics shows he's playing with fire and doesn't know (or doesn't care) about the consequences.
Hard pass on this guy. 🙅♀️
@@amandab5222 Yes, you got it right. Balance is the word. Would love to see a tennis match of perspectives, studies, and ideas. There's a lot of work to be done to understand ourselves and how we interact with others and vice versa. The plethora of experiences could be helpful for us to pick and choose pieces that resonate and help our self-development.
Medically speaking, over 35 is a geriatric pregnancy. We can get pregnant after 35, but there is increased risk to both fetus & pregnant person.
And oh boy lemme tell ya... My geriatric (and last) pregnancy earned the right to be labeled as such lol.
Pregnant person? How about just a WOMAN?
@byDEVITA because not all people who give birth to children identify as a woman, just like not all women have the ability to carry a child.. and it takes very minimal effort on my end to accommodate someone's identity. Just because it's something I don't personally experience doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Sorry being a kind human and acknowledging others life experiences bothers you so much.
Lol trying to disempowering women with words. People get pregnant even on their 60' Mother nature is who decides if it is geriatric or not
I object to the idea that no one is above the insanity that is the power dynamic.
Me too. He missed that a lot of people just want personal power and freedom to escape power dynamics.
I agree with you to an extent, and though I’ve not read his works, let me hazard a guess as to where he’s coming from. Whenever you get human beings together, hierarchies naturally form. Just watch children play-some are more directive of the play and others are more go-with-the-flow and OK with doing whatever everyone else is doing. There are some relationships in which the power gradient is much more obvious. For example, I’m a preschool teacher. The power gradient between me and my students is pretty steep, much steeper than that between a high school teacher and a student, who can at least argue her case more cogently if a teacher is being unfair. Historically men have had more power in romantic relationships, since they held more economic power and since the woman was the one who would get pregnant and be dependent on him financially. I think his point might be that power dynamics being what they are, you’re never going to completely level the playing field-one person is going to be more dominant and another less dominant. So the point is to be aware of the power you have in relationships and to use that power for the good of the other person, to build up their autonomy, etc. Good parents and teachers do this all the time. I think something like this might be what he’s getting at.
Talk about Signier Signs on Steroids, I am currently journaling and reading about the 3rd chakra, listening to 528hz Solar Plexus music in the background on Spotify, then I see a notification on my phone for this podcast about the POWER of seduction. That's one powerful pattern.
The energy was contagious.
14:43 I remember a TV commercial that said, “The mind is a terrible thing to waste.”
The USA used to be known for innovation and thinking big. It can happen again.
Mayim, I saw Robert’s interview with Jay Shetty yesterday but this was far more entertaining! Thank you 😊
I saw lot of Robert's interviews and never saw that much of interruptions, so rude...narcissism bursts from this Dr. Mayim.. too toxic i think...too annoying
The movie “Dangerous Liaisons” is mentioned, and I’ve always been fascinated by that story. Have to correct though…it’s actually John Malkovich who stars alongside Michelle Pfeiffer in the American version, and he was absolutely fantastic. Great example of a seducer having his selfish motives backfire on him.
I found many of the things in this podcast interesting. I recall when I taught high school visual art, I was asked to also run the theater program. I discoverd I LOVED everything about the complexity and chaos of putting on a production. Theater was something I never considered before. I wish I had been exposed to it earlier in my life and had the opportunity to explore it. Interestingly, my father was a special effects person for his career, but I was never exposed to that industry. By the way, I am also accused of being bossy (like that is a bad thing?). LOL
Nobody is powerless and there’s no need to scramble. Our holy spirit walks with everyone every step of the way. 💖 We find our purpose when we find the thing that sparks joy. ✨
This episode is really interesting! Mayim, when you describe yourself its like you are describing me! I felt the same way about law #10! Thank you for this conversation! You are amazing ❤️
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When i read law 10 it is so painful but i understand now
Please Mayim and Jonathan, could you interview Gabby Thomas that just won 3 gold medals in the olympics and is a neurobiologist, i think it would awesome, thanks !!...
Super interesting conversation, thanks guys. Much love
I’m 42 and pregnant with my second. I had my first at 40 (almost 41). Home birth was still on the table. Love you Mayim, but just bringing some more perspective. I didn’t feel ready until my late 30’s and fortunately it worked out.
Extraordinary ❤I can listen to him all day long. Thank you 🙏
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Before marriage, I told my wife I’m going to make her one of the most powerful women. Now I’m thinking twice about introducing any of Robert Greene’s book about power to her.
Very interesting conversation about the art of seduction. It's a dance.
wow what a great interview/podcas!!! Robert Green is amazing!
I'm an aspiring writer from the Philippines, someday me and Mr. Greene will meet. Manifesting.
A couple book i have read he's a good aurther. You two have done it with a great guest.Sure you two will surpise .
So grateful for the convo on law 10.
amazing episode! love from Brazil s2!
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"I'm scared of both of you." Haha! This is gonna be a treat.
Why do I have a feeling Robert quoted a lot of poetry to ladies during his rakish period in his 20's. 😆 I can just imagine him pitching woo.
Even at his age I still find him handsome
@@alixander9401 and you are a man😂
She should listen, she aint the smartest person in the room
I’m a big fan of both but didn’t expect this collab in a million years lol❤
Doctor you are changing the conversation a lot of times. Let Robert Greene speak what he wants to say! Don't make it confusing, it is frustrating. Great episode btw
I cant help but love every time Mayim brings up women's issuess with this man! I dont want her to be quiet. I want her to explain to him what its like to be a woman.
Why do you think she needs to explain this to him?
Thank you! There is social pressure and biological pressure to have babies as soon as possible. We have a different experience in many areas.
Yeah, it's evident he hasn't had to think about it before. Even if he talked to his wife about having children, it's not a given that they would have discussed all the complexities that go into and come out of that decision.
Sound she puts everything out of context, who put this idea of you are all suppressed man😅
Love this gentleman and all his books, thank you Rob❤❤❤
I love that you "deflated him" and took it with humor, not just nodding along with everything he says just because of who he is, that made it much more enriching especially to women because we do live through the reallity of what you said. Fun and enriching 🌻.
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No she is just misunderstanding every single point he is making
30:40 It was funny seeing her trying to go the roundabout way of expressing she's unhappy therefore must be avoided as the book said. 😂 I kind of just accepted that even friends don't like someone with a less pleasant view of the world.. different from the linear way of life and thinking society has dictated that shaped their decisions and I refuse to shape mine and has left me in a supposed slump for a while. I'm glad she opened that conversation.
Please be nice to Robert Green !💓xxx
Thank you for going back to school, Doctor Bialik!!!!!!!! You have so much to offer to the real world. :)
i've always followed the passion: the money never came.
50:16 i like that robert greene can be more real about how he feels about the interviewers these days. I guess it comes from him being so established that he doensnt have 2 fake things no more
An intelligent & interesting guest!
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Love you Mayim!
If you read historical romances you know what a rake is.😊
Thanks for acknowledging complicated pregnancies- I had my last baby after grad school & ended up quitting my NP corporate job after 1 year- that geriatric pregnancy rocked me!
The host was just trying to create controversy the whole time instead of asking questions and creating a good back and fourth conversation
Great conversation. Thank you! 💐💕💫
Second omg, but gurlie I can’t stop watching these I click on them the second I see them
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I always really love your theme song because it sounds like you're going to break down the facts, then have an emotional breakdown, then breakdown what happened in relation to the breakdown, before you break it down freestyle 😂
Another Fantastic Episode 👌😆👍🍁🍁
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Amazing episode, thank you!
Amy and Robert Greene
Suduction ... That is dangerous to let yourself go .. you must be safe before letting go.
Fascinating conversation. Love Robert Green and just ordered his book The 48 laws of power.
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❤ this and your film.
Excellent interview
Oh no!! Hitting some of my brokenness around 52 minutes in 😢
A quick thought on the point of the infection chapter. Perhaps it is not the ugly and downtrodden on the surface, for instance to feel the weight of the world means not that you are a burden to others who would cut you off. Instead, it refers to a more personal cycle of engaging with energy that goes against your "core" identity. In this case you can consider a person who finds it foolish for you to feel this weight, and tells you to just laugh at the world instead. Perhaps we already do inherently distance from/sort sort ourselves based on our intrinsic personalities and ideals.
and can learn and work to align ourselves with our loved ones!
@29:30…I’ve never related to anything more. Mayim is a kindred spirit.
Timestamp: 29:57 I too had to reconcile my affinity to Infection and the ideas of perception, reality, and my own negative cognitive bias.
What happened to just being completely straightforward and not mincing words with people and accepting their response and going with it?
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I've found that a lot of men over the age of around 30 start to want love and not just sex. Even many women don't seek out love until they're older so it's not so much a gender specific thing but a human maturing thing. So many of my guy friends looking for girlfriends 30+ just want a friend/partner and are not so laser focused on just sex. I think it's a stereotype that's true of young men/women but 25-30+ people start to want a partner. Sex loses it's newness and shine and life becomes more than that.
Because of propaganda
Great episode!
I just want to be able to live a protective life
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I know Mayim can come off as being too negative or "feminist" in an aggressive way but she's pointing out that women have different realities to men. Like when he was talking about having fun in your 20's that's not something that most women can do if they want children. Men don't have these rigid timelines and can casually have them when they want. If a woman wants a career she doesn't have much space for having fun and exploring, she needs to be on a fairly strict timeline with her career. IVF is expensive, stressful and doesn't work for all women. I wouldn't plan your life with the assumption you'll be able to have kids 35+.
I completely agree! I wish Mayim was more aggressive in this interview! 😅
Robert does seem out of touch in regards to women's experiences. You can't write truly good healthy books on power and seduction without empowering everyone.
Another point is young women, especially teen girls, are naturally more physically, emotionally and financially vulnerable to predatory men. His work will ultimately most benefit men looking for a power trip. And if it harms women? Well not my problem because they 'should be able to see through it' 1:24:20.
Many genetic defects come from old sperm as much as old eggs, yes men can be casual about having children but they exist in same timelines in the healthiest genetic material timelines. I’ve never had a single thought about Mayim being aggressive, she speaks her mind intelligently. I’ve lived in many countries and I’ve seen the ways women are valued, the Scandinavian countries are the best with social equality.
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Yet they want equality lol. Non- sense
@MayimBialik I watched the movie: As They Made Us. It really tugged at my heart strings.
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How can you talk about seduction to a woman who is an anti-seducer.
Great interview… I’ve read his books and Mayim asks a different variety of questions than the typical podcast. 😍
Just adding my feminist opinion , women like sex too 😈
"Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny. Consume you, it will."
Oh the 'dark path'-where one wrong move turns you into a lifelong supervillain. Thanks Yoda, for the no redemption allowed memo! I’ll just sit here terrified to make a single mistake while the rest of us humans keep messing up, learning, and realizing life’s not a 'one bad choice and you're doomed' movie plot. But hey, if someone prefers to live in a soap opera, who am I to ruin their drama?
Honestly, I think that whole 'dark path' idea is a bit overdramatic. Life’s messy, and we’re all a mix of good and bad. One mistake doesn't define you forever-it’s how you learn and grow from it that matters. We’re not stuck in some 'no redemption' script; we’re all just trying to balance the good and bad, making the best of what we've got.
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