I tried to do that months ago, but she said I should have stayed and not taken some space and time. She told me she wanted a break, I told her how she defines a break, and she said: me staying faithful to her and her rolling through her options. And I said: then we don't need a break, we need a breakup, and she dumped me... I refuse to be treated as an option when I made her one of my priority, I thought she deserved to be one of my priority after all the investment she did, we both did into our relationship, but yeah...
This is damn near impossible for me to do while in any kind of argument. I got it from my parents. They refuse to just let things calm down, and they will actively follow you if you try to leave. My father just did this to me a couple months ago. I tried to walk away, and he followed me. So it's kind of ingrained in me that I can't walk away (I physically cannot make myself leave) And fear of abandonment makes me terrified that by leaving, I will be losing whatever it is (mostly with romantic partners). So during arguments I freeze and just am trapped there in a loop of wanting to leave, fix it, and being scared. I'm trying to help this, but never seem to get any better.
I tried to do that months ago, but she said I should have stayed and not taken some space and time. She told me she wanted a break, I told her how she defines a break, and she said: me staying faithful to her and her rolling through her options. And I said: then we don't need a break, we need a breakup, and she dumped me...
I refuse to be treated as an option when I made her one of my priority, I thought she deserved to be one of my priority after all the investment she did, we both did into our relationship, but yeah...
I don’t have a partner 🗿
No one asked 🗿
Chad
@@primoyrezawhy did u call them Chad, what does that mean?
Hope you'd get a wonderful partner in the future!🙏🏻
This is contradicting the fact people say that don't go to bed angry. So what to do?
This is damn near impossible for me to do while in any kind of argument. I got it from my parents. They refuse to just let things calm down, and they will actively follow you if you try to leave. My father just did this to me a couple months ago. I tried to walk away, and he followed me. So it's kind of ingrained in me that I can't walk away (I physically cannot make myself leave) And fear of abandonment makes me terrified that by leaving, I will be losing whatever it is (mostly with romantic partners). So during arguments I freeze and just am trapped there in a loop of wanting to leave, fix it, and being scared. I'm trying to help this, but never seem to get any better.
Wow. Great advise
Good advice👏
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Literally?