It's crazy how normalized p*rn is... I'm glad people are speaking up about the issue. Know that if you're struggling you're not alone and you CAN overcome this!
sex is a universal language. why wouldn’t po*n be normalized? we also live in a patriarchal society. the consumers are mostly men and have always been the majority. it was inevitable
I didn’t watch porn but recently happened to watch a lustful Netflix series out of curiosity which turned out to be porn, with no story or value whatsoever. I think it did more harm than good. Thanks for bringing this issue!
As a woman, I’ve been struggling with p*rn (also lust) ever since I laid my eyes on it as a kid. I’m still fighting that but im p*rn free ever since the beginning of this year and I will continue to grow and fight this battle with lust. This has to be talked more often and so many of us struggle with p*rn. It’s really sad too because it’s affected my past relationships too. God bless everyone and pray to the lord to help you.
You're not alone sister ! At 11 I discovered porn and have struggled with addiction, lust and casual encounters. I take it a day at a time, I still fail. But I've been 13 days without before. Keep strong ❤️ I will keep you in my heart and prayers.
@@hunniebunnie290 i can recommend not counting the days, and instead thinking of it as “i dont watch it anymore” as counting the days just means that you’ll eventually relapse, compared to just not being a person that watches it
@@dr.nefario3349 It simply just doesn't work that way for me. Same thing with other substances I was addicted to. I'm four years sober from alcohol consumption. There were so many times I wanted to break. But that streak, that visible progression let me keep going. A few months ago I wanted to relapse. But then I would've lost that "champion" title I worked so get - different things work for different people
Not being religious and just neutral, this topic needs to be more talked about. Thank you for speaking up. Even science and scientific articles/research have shown how p0rn literally damages the brain and nerves and how shifts relationships with the people we relate to. It’s so sad to see that it causes addiction and it’s so normalized watching it, and worse the behind about how it’s made. People glamorizes it
Studies have shown that, yes, porn does affect body image and relationship expectations. However, it is a bit misleading to say it "destroys the brain". No studies show anything about the brain and nerves being damaged. It's a form of media like anything else. Watching too many Netflix shows could be addicting. Also, Porn/Erotica has always been normalized for centuries. Where have you been?
@@BeastiezCyZThat doesn’t matter, porn is generally very harmful mentally and how we view other people. I would know. It really messes up your mind and you, without trying, unconsciously undress people with your eyes and see them for just their bodies, instead of their person. It’s terrible, and should have never been invented.
@@BeastiezCyZit doesn’t actually destroys the brain but rather overfills it with a large amount of dopamine to the point where it becomes an addiction and so starts a cycle that’s hard to break. The brain gets so used to that fake intensity that when it comes down to the real thing many people don’t get excited or guys can develop erectile dysfunction. So in a way it definitely does some form of damage
@@BeastiezCyZ‘it’s been around for centuries’ is such a dishonest argument. Online prn and high speed internet have only been around 20 odd years and the levels of sexual dysfunction in otherwise healthy men has shot up, it’s not a coincidence. High speed internet has created a hyper-real, endlessly stimulating prn experience, it isn’t regulated, it’s accessible and it is proliferated in our media so that children are exposed to it at young ages. Our governments are not tackling this problem, so we must be educated and wary of the devastating effects it can have. And it does physically change the brain, it rewires the brain, conditioning it to only respond to prn rather than real intimacy or sex. Brain scans on heavy prn users showed similar brain activity to a dopamine inducing trigger as that of substance addicts. Heavy prn use fries dopamine receptors and makes normal stimuli far less reward. It is an addiction with devastating consequences.
@@BeastiezCyZit actually does damage the brain and mental health too, and it’s not like its another form of media when behind it there is abuse and a lot of violence too, you can look it up too from the people that worked in the industry many years. There are articles and news from universities even, google it hun it’s not that difficult. And even if it has been normalized for decades doesn’t mean it’s still okay 😂 at the end your passive aggression was pathetic lol, you’re hating on her on her channel and your past comments saying god invented porn are EMBARRASING. just stop being so obsessed and insulting people in other comments
I am ashamed to admit it, but I’ve been addicted for 11 years. And only the past 3 weeks or so I’ve been free. I don’t ever want to go back. And the lies I told myself destroyed me. There was no peace in me at all until I finally realized it as a deep deep problem in my life and gave it to God. But thank you for this. I’m sure I’ll find some help throughout this video.
@@ThePoeticAvocado seriously thank you. It’s been a long journey to get to where I am. God has woke me up from that bit of darkness I was in. I pray you also are doing well.
Stay focused. Stay strong. And don't be too hard on yourself if you stumble. I'm in the same boat with you. God is with you. Countless others are with you.
It did it to me too. Most of my life I have not known how to show love other than through sexual actions due to porn, which resulted in my own oversexualization of my interactions, in addition to the hormones of a teenager
You and me both. Keep up the fight man. Know Christ is with you always. And if your not religious then try thinking about someone you don't want to disappoint or loose because of it. For a while I stayed clean after a friend I loved like a mother was in a car accident that took her life. I was feeling I was honoring her memory. Now after an event in my life I think of how I'd loose her forever if I don't clean up and stay clean.
I was talking to my therapist about this the other day. I'm a girl and porn has damaged my idea of intimacy so much. This is so normalized and praised nowadays... it's crazy. God bless you!
I think the therapist should even if s/he is not a christian just agree that porn has so much negative impact in intimacy and relationships. Many addicted people will disagree to this but I say it’s true.
I was talking to my therapist about this the other day. I'm a boy and christianity has damaged my idea of intimacy so much. This is so normalized and praised nowadays... it's crazy. Wish you the best!
Let me be so forward: Women and porn addictions isnt talked about enough. A lot of women struggle with it, but so often, even at teen camps, it is just talked about with boys.
I am a woman and I struggle. I have vowed to stop this year. I was using it as a distraction from issues I haven’t wanted to face. It is very real for both genders.
I've quit cigarettes no problem, pot no problem, alcohol was easy, but porn is the single hardest thing I've ever tried to quit. It's a true addiction, and the worst stranglehold on my faith. Its a very serious issue that I wish had more attention
I can imagine, I once watch the very good UA-cam video by father Mike Schmitz talking about the dangers of pornography and part of it is that it gives your brain a dopamine kick which makes it so hard to resist I can't remember which video was specifically but he was talking at a conference
have you tried therapy or talking to someone? ❤ it really helps, and research have shown that it’s better to read erotica than consuming it visually, so you can read instead of watch
I will be one year porn free by July!! If anyone’s struggling reading this, we got this! God loves you so much, and amazing things in life will fall into place when we put Christ above our needs ✝️❤️ Edit: It’s past July and I have not looked back on it once! Could not have done it without Jesus! Still struggle with lust, but no porn is a huge leap in my life!
As a teenager who decided to quit porn a year ago, I can promise everybody that quitting is 100% worth it. Your mental health and confidence will thank you.
I was just praying about this and asking for a sign if I was sinning or not, a lot of these lies I believed. I’m so glad you posted this. More people need to see this
You get answers by trusting in God and having faith/patience! Pray to God and ask him to guide your steps to fulfill the desire/calling he has for your life.. you will see it come into fruition :) If you’re not using to praying I recommend praying to God and ask him to help you live like Christ. You will see character and desires start to change.. that’s what happened to me!!
I think this particular subject should be talked about more and addressed in churches especially, and society. It's really a shame that the sexualizing of just about everything is so widely excepted and really encouraged. Thank you for your boldness.
39:20 thank you for mentioning the human trafficking on the industry, it annoys me that people don’t consider the abuse behind it and that the person you are watching is being exploited for the sake of your pleasure :/
I've been without pornography for a week, I'm going through a very serious period of withdrawal, headaches, dirty thoughts, insomnia and a lot of physical pain, I have the habit of watching ASMR to sleep, but even on UA-cam i end up finding stimuli, despite being a sensitive topic, and English is not my native language, I am very grateful for this video, it came at the right time, where I am regaining my faith and getting rid of bad things in my life! God bless your life, and Amen!
I was in a bad place today and started searching for some of those "Thirst Trap" Asmr videos you talked about. As I was searching I just felt disgusted and the thought occurred to me to search for Christian Asmr instead, this video was the first video I saw. Your kind words and prayer turned me away from from my temptation and have pulled me out of a month long spiritual rut that I have been suffering in. Thank you so much for sharing your story and for fighting the lies of the enemy by speaking The Word of The Lord. God bless.
I was struggling with this kind of stuff for so long that I had lost my identity. I pray that God's people wake up to this problem and start to talk about it more often. God bless us all, thank you for the video
I love you as my neighbor so I gotta let you know that you and I have broken God's law the ten commandments which is the moral law if you've ever lied in your life if you ever stolen in your life if you've ever lusted after anybody in your life if you ever been angry in your life if you've ever coveted someone's items been jealous of what someone else has then you broken God's law and guess what you'd be like everyone else because every single person has sinned and falling short of the glory of God and the wages of sin is death that's why it's been appointed to every person to face death then the judgment but God is saying I have a gift of Grace that is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord, he is the Son of God, God in the flesh, the visible image of the invisible God for God is Spirit and he was born of a virgin and died on the cross for our sins 2000 years ago in Israel and God raised him from the dead 3 Days later conquering hell and death he's now on the right hand of God being a mediator for all who call on the name of the Lord to be saved for he's coming again to judge the living and the dead and put an end to all wickedness but if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead and you will be saved and repent, turn away from your lifestyle and turn to a lifestyle that's pleasing to God, having a relationship with God, keeping the ten commandments, abiding in the Word of God, being baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ for the remission of your sins you will receive the Holy Ghost which is the spirit of Truth the comforter; you are washed clean through the blood of Jesus Christ that was shed on the cross because his blood is the only blood ever has no sin in it and you can have the Hope assurance that when he comes again in that Eastern hemisphere you will be raised to eternal life but if you choose to reject the Messiah you're choosing death over your life because you'd be choosing sin over the Saviour and if you choose sin over the Saviour you're putting yourself on the path of destruction instead of on the narrow path and God would be justified to send you to hell but God wants no one to perish but all to come to repentance so humble yourself and submit to God he has such an amazing plan for your life and he loves you and care for you that's why the Lord Jesus Christ willingly died on the cross for you he took the most excruciating pain and suffering so that he can be the bridge for you to have a relationship with God and be forgiven of your sins and have eternal life and to show that The suffering that we face in this life is not comparable to the glory that we will have in God's presence.
Its amazing how God shows Himself through our prayers, I was acutally just facing temptation with wanting to watch p*rn and I took a moment, removed all distractions and just started praying and rebuking those demonic forces that were at work (it doesn't normally happen like that but I'm tired of this sin and don't want it apart of my life and I know God feels the same). I was praying for strength to overcome this temptation, and He put this video in my FYP. Thank you Jesus. God truly is amazing even as He works in mysterious ways.
Sex is the one of the deepest acts of affection one can show to another and the fact that it’s so normalized to just watch people imitating it is scary.
Super creative, Gaby! I know lives were touched by the power of the Holy Spirit and the lies of the enemy were revealed and the Belt of Truth was placed over Gods sons and daughters 💕🙏🏽
I hope this is uncomfortable for people. Because this sin should be uncomfortable in our spirit. Especially a sin that can be hidden in our lives. And the shame that comes along with it keeps others in chains. Thank you for speaking truth into this subject and exposing the darkness with the light of the gospel. Thank you for also sharing your own testimony it is powerful!
Wow, this video is so important! God bless you Gabby 😊 It doesn't matter what the world say, P*RN IS NOT HEALTHY! It just leads to addiction, anxiety and depression... KEEP PRAYING and the lord is going to help you to kit this addiction! I used to be completed addicted to p*rn and mstb, it was destroying me. The enemy convinced me that this was ok, and little by little I was loosing my identity of a daughter of God... I was so deep in this sin that I thought it was to late to come back to the Lord, so it got worse and worse. But one day my sister talked to me and said that she knew what was happening and talked to me, I was so relieved to have someone to count on. I started to pray and ask for mercy and strength, read the bible more and be careful with the media I consume to not trigger me. I'm not perfect, but the Lord helps me (and you who is reading too). I am better than I used to be, I stopped to consume p*rn and slowly stoped to mstb (I felt back a lot of times, but The Lord had mercy with me). I don't have the words to thank God, but I am really really grateful 🙏
Very thankful that you made this video, it's so SO important to address and encourage everyone to avoid these sins and address sensitive topics like this. Doing God's work here, keep it up and may He be with you.
This couldnt have come out at a better time. Im currently 5 days clean and im not gonna lie it hasent been easy ive been trying to quit for about a year now. God bless you and everyone whos struggling with this.
I applaud your courage and faith! Your obedience to the Lord had shed light on the truth about this topic. I use to struggle with this sin and once believed these lies. For those who do struggle with p*rn, you can be delivered!
This is something I am thankful for I feel like the lord had planned me to turn notifications on like a month ago just so I could hear this message. Thank you
This is such a necessary video, especially for the youth who find themselves falling into these lies. Thank you for being a good voice and role model. ✝️💕
girl thank you for opening up about this harmful addiction and calling this out in such a biblical and straightforward but kind way. I've struggled with this myself over the years and have also had relationships with partners having damaging addictions to it. Even if I weren't a Christian, like you pointed out, it's so psychologically damaging and relationally hurtful on top of the wrong being done to those being filmed. I pray often that God will guard my son's heart and mind from this as he grows. Gosh the C.S. Lewis quote at the end gave me chills. So good.
I have been p*rn free for about 4 years now. Lately I’ve been tempted to go back down that dark and sinful path. I am truly thankful that I found this video! It really helped me get back on track, to run away from that sin. God bless!
I became a p0rn addicted at the age of eleven, and that was so sad. I had my innocence taken so early and I was destroyed and depressed. With that, I've discovered m4sturbati0n and became a slave of that. Everything led me to an unhealthful relationship and I got pregnant at seventeen. On top of that I was born Christian, I knew that I was doing something wrong. But now, Jesus set me free, I am 18 and living my best life with my baby girl. You can do it too, it is never too late!!!
I started looking at it at 12. Im always afraid to admit it because i feel like i might aswell get hate, but reading this comment makes me feel better and im trying my best to stop the addiction
thank you so much for this video. i’m a sixteen year old girl and i’ve been struggling with this for the past year and 4 months i think. i don’t watch it but i listen to it, like different role plays and stuff on different apps and websites. i’ve been really trying not to and i’m 3 days clean but i was tempted to right before i clicked on this video. but i didn’t and that’s thanks to God and you!
Thank you for a video on this topic, I hope it’s something that will become less taboo and more understood. So many people are affected or addicted. Personally I had been trying to quite prn for almost 3 years after realising I was addicted. I first watched it when I was a child and didn’t know any better, it’s so normalised I kept doing it until I was addicted but didn’t even realise. Trying to quit was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do and I relapsed so many times during those three years. About a month and a half ago I prayed to God, I asked him to help me, I said I was his completely, I just wanted it to stop. After that it felt as though a weight had been lifted from me, all the shame and guilt had gone and I truly felt as though I’d finally left it behind me for good. To all those dealing with this addiction, do not give up hope, you are worthy of love and forgiveness, and the Lord loves and forgives you. Trust in him, pray to him. I will pray for you all❤️
Omg 😩 I was so tempted to watch porn and thank God I didn’t fall into it but then seeing this as the first video to pop up on my timeline before going to bed is definitely God wow. Thank you for your obedience to God uploading this tonight 🙌🏽 Edit: those glasses are cool lol
You aren’t alone. I’m very proud of you, my sister in Christ. God is truly with us during those times. What has helped me so much is realizing that God sees us for who we are, and He knows when are hearts are soft and when we are striving to follow after Him. He will give us a way out when we’re tempted, just like this video helped you. Also I recently read historical context to the bible about how sexual immorality was really, really bad (weird) amongst the pagans and idol worshippers of the old testament. That’s part of why God had to destroy the earth by flood ….. 1 Corinthians 10: 13 (AMP) says - No temptation [regardless of its source] has overtaken or enticed you that is not common to human experience [nor is any temptation unusual or beyond human resistance]; but God is faithful [to His word-He is compassionate and trustworthy], and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability [to resist], but along with the temptation He [has in the past and is now and] will [always] provide the way out as well, so that you will be able to endure it [without yielding, and will overcome temptation with joy]. So sometimes I pray for God to strengthen me the way He must have had to strengthen His true followers, like Noah, living in those times. They might have been tempted to follow the trends/rituals the way us modern people are encouraged to be desensitized towards sex and pornography.
I just recently got attacked by the devil by about 20 mins prior to typing this banging on my doors and whispering to me and this is what I need to help me recover and sleep thank you so so much. Much love ❤️
This is a really great idea. I understand this can be awkward or a inappropriate topic but I love that you’re getting deeper into what others keep silent. Cleansing the mind is what everybody needs. God bless you & your big heart ❤️🙏🏼
I wish I had never seen or heard of porn. It is such a huge, spiritually, damaging industry. I feel so sad for those who have died or were killed by others because of suffering from this horrendous industry.
Girl!!! You are annointed and appointed ,"For such a time as this"!! Praying for you and your hubby as you are definitely storming the gates of hell with these truths!!❤❤❤❤❤
I dont personally struggle with this and never have, but I’m still glad ur talking about such an important topic! And I enjoy listening to ur well thought out points! God bless u and ur work Gabby
I’d never heard of Christian asmr before but stumbling upon this channel, and this video in particular, have been a literal Godsend. As a Christian I am constantly torn between the conviction my faith brings and the demand my addiction imposes. This video was so painful and so so necessary. Thank you.
Great video! So glad to see a lovely young Christian lady 🥰 speaking the truth of God’s word while plucking out the lies of p*rn. It’s such a stronghold for the majority of people who have access to the internet especially among Christians.
Thankyou for taking the time to make this, it’s been really good to be reminded of what God says versus what the world says, and how following God is always going to help me and be the correct path for my life. Praise the Lord that you are able to make these videos!!
"Pornographers have successfully taken acts of dominance, cruelty, and abuse, and have called it sex." YES! EXACTLY! Thank you for making this video, Gaby! 😍 It's an extremely important topic for Christians (and everyone else) these days, which we honestly don't discuss enough. I'm a psychology major at an elite university in my home country, and frankly, the number of highly educated psych students who are pro porn (despite knowing full well its horrible nature) baffles me. I personally have not watched it in years, and I feel so much purer and closer to God thanks to this. As a woman, it isn't even that difficult to develop the aversion to it, honestly. Thank you for taking the courage to talk about such a heavy part of today's moral landscape. We, as a society, need more honest discussions and help for those who struggle with this.
@@zaristophanes It's a genuine question. Although knowing how the people in the comment section think like their grandparents here I'm going to assume it's sinful.
@@devilsadvocate8234yes, any type of pxrn or hxntai that creates lust and distorts our view of sex is sinful. Which happens to be all pxrn and hxntai because it harms you both spiritually, as God tells us to avoid all content like this, and physically, as scientists have shown a very bad impact on the brain from frequent viewing of this type of sinful and lustful content. Hope this helped
i love gabby because of how open and honest she is, i always feel like its a big sister type talk. her lie plucking videos give me a whole new perspective on life, im definitely on my way to a better life
as someone who was introduced to sex at a very young age, thank you for this. I'm a fellow christian woman and have struggled for years with porn addiction, extreme body image issues, extremely distorted views of intimacy, and it led me to participate in hookup culture for years which only deepened my shame. but I know I'm saved and made pure through Jesus and am now waiting for my future spouse! However it's still my biggest battle and I have to fight it almost every day, and I believe God showed me this video for a reason. I'm definitely going to come back to it when I'm struggling and fighting temptation. thank you for this video! God bless you 🤍🕊️
Thank you for your vulnerability! I always appreciate brave women who open up about this battle. It is encouraging and makes me feel less alone. May The Lord bless you and keep you and your family, make his face shine upon you, and be gracious to you. May he turn his face towards you and give you peace! Amen.
Ive struggled with porn addiction since I first came across it at age 11 and although I can't say I've quit, I have definitely reduced my need for it and I hope that by the end of this year, Ill be able to truly stop watching it. Thank you so much for this video! Its nice seeing that Im not the only one on this journey :)
Wretched man that I am. I’ve been stuck in habitual porn for over a decade, believing a lie that I was not addicted and could quit whenever I wanted to (I am 25 to put it into perspective). Over the past few months, by the incredible, incomprehensible Mercy, Grace, and Patience of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, my intense spiritual war against lust has become met with increasing victories! I have recently surrendered my video game addiction to the Lord as well. This video has blessed me beyond words. Onward Christian soldiers, ALL FOR THE GLORY OF GOD!
Resolve is the secret, man. You have to know you are done with it. If you truly believe you can and will change it’s all over. Congratulations on taking the first step.
thank you so much for this amazing video and for highlighting all of the lies we are told regarding this topic. i also appreciate you providing relevant Bible verses that reinforce your points. i've been deceived by some of the lies you spoke about, but your inspiring and insightful words really put a spotlight on how wrong, damaging, and sinful these mindsets are. i truly believe God is using you as a vessel and speaking through you to help people who are struggling. thank you for the extremely important reminder that just because something is seen as "normal" does not make it good. i keep forgetting this, and this reminder was absolutely needed.
I wish porn didn’t even exist, it’s ruined the minds of our men. It’s so heartbreaking to realize just how common this addiction is among men, and I know for a fact that I will NEVER settle for one that brings that amount of disappointment to the table. I’ve left relationships for that very reason and I don’t regret it one bit
lmao imagine thinking that only men watch/ do porn........... the internet is free and i will not tolerate no slander towards men. this video is clearly towards ANYONE with a porn addiction not specifically just for 1 gender.
That P symbol is very pagan, not to mention the Catholic religion, not to bash on your religion or anything, but do some research please, God bless you in Jesus Name! As long as your not with any of that stuff your good though.
That comment doesn't slander men. It's just stating the fact that men tend to watch porn regularly far more than women. I think it was like 90% of men having watched porn in the last month in a study, while it was 'just' 40% of women. Most porn is created with men as the target audience too. I definetly think too that a lot of people forget that women struggle with porn addictions as well, but I really can't imagine that the comment was rejecting the idea of women being addicted to porn lol
lmao thats just false its almost equal due to the fact that there is over 1m videos including girl on girl or girl on boy women neeed to stop excluding themselves when it comes to something thats a global problem that both genders tend to have. the blame is on society @@livinggraveyard
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Thank you so much for this beautiful video. I've learned many things about the habits I've struggled with since a little boy upon accidentally finding porn, to it becoming a lifelong struggle with lust. Your voice is so calming, soothing, and as a Christian I've found great pleasure in listening to what you have to preach against these sins and being relaxed at the same time. I hope your channel grows and reaches so many more Christians and Non-christians. You've earned an immediate sub from me :)
Im Muslim and it was really good to hear these words from you And one thing your videos are great for improving English Thank you for spreading the things people need sister
Thank you so much for your vulnerability and intentionality with this video! It was such a great encouragement and important reminder on so many levels. God bless you, keep you, and may your online ministry continue to grow 🙏
I REALLY needed this. Thank you for speaking out to me through the word of the lord and for reminding me that it is never too late to change and become a better image of ourselves infront of the lord. I will never forget this. Thank you and God bless you very very much ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ive been waiting for you to post a new video. I've started a journey of reconnecting to God as part of my New Years Resolutions. I'm going through the whole Bible with my SO this year (who's had a more constant relationship with Him while I've been on and off throughout the years, now fully commited to the path.) I know your videos will be of great help to me as I walk through the valley of those pages. Peace be with you!
Although I have never struggled with porn, thank you so much for actively going against the toxic lies of this world while providing relaxation, hope, and prayer! Your work is reaching thousands of people and benefitting many- mine included.
One of my favorite videos on UA-cam. Thank you for combining spiritual meditation, forgiveness, mercy, and TRUTH in one relaxing video. Pornography is 100% one of our world's most dangerous drugs out there, and I am so glad to see my fellow women in faith calling it out. Amen, sister! God bless everyone who struggles with this awful substance and its addictive qualities. Stay strong, everyone. We must guard our hearts and minds against such invasive, manipulative evil.
I know you probably won't see this because you posted the video 2 months ago, but I find it such a comfort that you, a woman like me, also struggle/struggled with this. Me and my Husband both have accountability software on all our devices, and try to regularly check in on each other. Most often, when I'm weaker, he's stronger, and vice versa. Anyways, thank you for the encouragement and the relaxing video! God bless you, sister.
No truer word has ever been spoken, its as if it was said by jesus himself, its impossible to argue this.. thank you for your courage to speak in depth about it x
This video takes a lot of guts to make, brutally honest but delivered in a caring way. Not really something I personally struggle with but I know so many people do. Great job! ❤ Not to make this about myself but I struggle a lot with social media addiction, dead scrolling and such, would be supercool if you would want to make a video on that in similar fashion.
Im sad to say that im battle an addiction to this horrific stuff. Its poisoned my mind from a young age and now I'm truly trying to change. I know God is the way, the truth, and the life. I feel relief that i have him. It's still brutal, but i know there is light at the end of the tunnel
I so appreciate this, i remember quitting porn for 7 months without even one set back in 2022 it was the most peaceful days, i felt that my soul is purified and i that void i’ve always felt inside of me is filled with and that i finally had a purpose and that is to struggle with God in doing my moral duties and to not grieve God with sins and i want that back really soon, I’m a muslim am a huge fan of biblical studies and how Christians study and take care of their back really fascinates me
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As a man, thank you. People don't want to talk about this massive problem because it's awkward, or "crass," or whatever. But we NEED to talk about it.
Wtf u talking about people always talk about it 😂😂
You're absolutely right. Most men have struggled or still struggle with p*rn. It's extremely addictive, and it's terrible for the inner man or woman.
@@omaurioncouncil564 Maybe on the internet but people aren't having conversations with friends and family about porn lol
And certainly not in Christian circles or Churches as much as online
It's not only a man's problem these days
It's crazy how normalized p*rn is... I'm glad people are speaking up about the issue. Know that if you're struggling you're not alone and you CAN overcome this!
Well, erotism was always a part of the traditional world.
@@oraetlabora1922 erotism is not necessarily porn, but yes
sex is a universal language. why wouldn’t po*n be normalized? we also live in a patriarchal society. the consumers are mostly men and have always been the majority. it was inevitable
@@oraetlabora1922 There's a huge difference between eroticism and modern porn
I didn’t watch porn but recently happened to watch a lustful Netflix series out of curiosity which turned out to be porn, with no story or value whatsoever. I think it did more harm than good. Thanks for bringing this issue!
As a woman, I’ve been struggling with p*rn (also lust) ever since I laid my eyes on it as a kid. I’m still fighting that but im p*rn free ever since the beginning of this year and I will continue to grow and fight this battle with lust. This has to be talked more often and so many of us struggle with p*rn. It’s really sad too because it’s affected my past relationships too. God bless everyone and pray to the lord to help you.
You're not alone sister ! At 11 I discovered porn and have struggled with addiction, lust and casual encounters. I take it a day at a time, I still fail. But I've been 13 days without before. Keep strong ❤️
I will keep you in my heart and prayers.
@@hunniebunnie290 i can recommend not counting the days, and instead thinking of it as “i dont watch it anymore” as counting the days just means that you’ll eventually relapse, compared to just not being a person that watches it
@@dr.nefario3349 It simply just doesn't work that way for me. Same thing with other substances I was addicted to. I'm four years sober from alcohol consumption.
There were so many times I wanted to break. But that streak, that visible progression let me keep going. A few months ago I wanted to relapse. But then I would've lost that "champion" title I worked so get - different things work for different people
I applaud your courage to admit this as a guy it feels like it's only a guy thing
I pray for you my dear sister and your deliverance from this trap
*breathing intensifies*
*hi*
Not being religious and just neutral, this topic needs to be more talked about. Thank you for speaking up. Even science and scientific articles/research have shown how p0rn literally damages the brain and nerves and how shifts relationships with the people we relate to. It’s so sad to see that it causes addiction and it’s so normalized watching it, and worse the behind about how it’s made. People glamorizes it
Studies have shown that, yes, porn does affect body image and relationship expectations. However, it is a bit misleading to say it "destroys the brain". No studies show anything about the brain and nerves being damaged. It's a form of media like anything else. Watching too many Netflix shows could be addicting.
Also, Porn/Erotica has always been normalized for centuries. Where have you been?
@@BeastiezCyZThat doesn’t matter, porn is generally very harmful mentally and how we view other people. I would know. It really messes up your mind and you, without trying, unconsciously undress people with your eyes and see them for just their bodies, instead of their person. It’s terrible, and should have never been invented.
@@BeastiezCyZit doesn’t actually destroys the brain but rather overfills it with a large amount of dopamine to the point where it becomes an addiction and so starts a cycle that’s hard to break. The brain gets so used to that fake intensity that when it comes down to the real thing many people don’t get excited or guys can develop erectile dysfunction. So in a way it definitely does some form of damage
@@BeastiezCyZ‘it’s been around for centuries’ is such a dishonest argument. Online prn and high speed internet have only been around 20 odd years and the levels of sexual dysfunction in otherwise healthy men has shot up, it’s not a coincidence. High speed internet has created a hyper-real, endlessly stimulating prn experience, it isn’t regulated, it’s accessible and it is proliferated in our media so that children are exposed to it at young ages. Our governments are not tackling this problem, so we must be educated and wary of the devastating effects it can have.
And it does physically change the brain, it rewires the brain, conditioning it to only respond to prn rather than real intimacy or sex. Brain scans on heavy prn users showed similar brain activity to a dopamine inducing trigger as that of substance addicts. Heavy prn use fries dopamine receptors and makes normal stimuli far less reward. It is an addiction with devastating consequences.
@@BeastiezCyZit actually does damage the brain and mental health too, and it’s not like its another form of media when behind it there is abuse and a lot of violence too, you can look it up too from the people that worked in the industry many years. There are articles and news from universities even, google it hun it’s not that difficult. And even if it has been normalized for decades doesn’t mean it’s still okay 😂 at the end your passive aggression was pathetic lol, you’re hating on her on her channel and your past comments saying god invented porn are EMBARRASING. just stop being so obsessed and insulting people in other comments
I am ashamed to admit it, but I’ve been addicted for 11 years. And only the past 3 weeks or so I’ve been free. I don’t ever want to go back. And the lies I told myself destroyed me. There was no peace in me at all until I finally realized it as a deep deep problem in my life and gave it to God. But thank you for this. I’m sure I’ll find some help throughout this video.
Fr. Mike Smichtz has a great video on strategies to combat p.0rn
Stay strong brother
You got this I’ll pray for you❤
@@ThePoeticAvocado seriously thank you. It’s been a long journey to get to where I am. God has woke me up from that bit of darkness I was in. I pray you also are doing well.
Stay focused. Stay strong. And don't be too hard on yourself if you stumble. I'm in the same boat with you. God is with you. Countless others are with you.
Porn destroys people's souls. It completely wrecked my mind growing up. Only through Jesus have I been helped dealing with it.
It’s insane how normalised it is
It did it to me too. Most of my life I have not known how to show love other than through sexual actions due to porn, which resulted in my own oversexualization of my interactions, in addition to the hormones of a teenager
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@@Getout249population control
You and me both. Keep up the fight man. Know Christ is with you always. And if your not religious then try thinking about someone you don't want to disappoint or loose because of it. For a while I stayed clean after a friend I loved like a mother was in a car accident that took her life. I was feeling I was honoring her memory. Now after an event in my life I think of how I'd loose her forever if I don't clean up and stay clean.
I was talking to my therapist about this the other day. I'm a girl and porn has damaged my idea of intimacy so much. This is so normalized and praised nowadays... it's crazy. God bless you!
I think the therapist should even if s/he is not a christian just agree that porn has so much negative impact in intimacy and relationships. Many addicted people will disagree to this but I say it’s true.
I was talking to my therapist about this the other day. I'm a boy and christianity has damaged my idea of intimacy so much. This is so normalized and praised nowadays... it's crazy. Wish you the best!
this is such a shame. porn doesn’t hurt anyone 😊
@@chaos6504even non Christians agree that porn is not real and no one can perform like those videos
Now if you go to a gun range one day, be warned, bullets are not infinite like in the movies
Let me be so forward:
Women and porn addictions isnt talked about enough. A lot of women struggle with it, but so often, even at teen camps, it is just talked about with boys.
I am a woman and I struggle. I have vowed to stop this year. I was using it as a distraction from issues I haven’t wanted to face. It is very real for both genders.
@@lb6056 i'm sorry for the stupid question but what kind of porn do women watch? I have always wondered this
@chandllerburse737Well said, Arthur
Totally. I'm a female and I always had that issue since I was a teenager. it was my way to cope with loneliness and depression..
@@lb6056 yeah i feel with you, i pray both of us will be done with it and find a healthy way to cope
I've quit cigarettes no problem, pot no problem, alcohol was easy, but porn is the single hardest thing I've ever tried to quit. It's a true addiction, and the worst stranglehold on my faith. Its a very serious issue that I wish had more attention
I can imagine, I once watch the very good UA-cam video by father Mike Schmitz talking about the dangers of pornography and part of it is that it gives your brain a dopamine kick which makes it so hard to resist
I can't remember which video was specifically but he was talking at a conference
What you are looking for doesn't exist and it will never come out of the screen and sit on your lap... *never*
It's a waist of time
@@lxportugal9343it looks hot tho
keep gooning
have you tried therapy or talking to someone? ❤ it really helps, and research have shown that it’s better to read erotica than consuming it visually, so you can read instead of watch
I will be one year porn free by July!! If anyone’s struggling reading this, we got this! God loves you so much, and amazing things in life will fall into place when we put Christ above our needs ✝️❤️
Edit: It’s past July and I have not looked back on it once! Could not have done it without Jesus! Still struggle with lust, but no porn is a huge leap in my life!
congratulations! we praise God! may He use you to set others free too!
Congratulations! I struggle with this so much :(
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Pray for me
Good for you!
As a teenager who decided to quit porn a year ago, I can promise everybody that quitting is 100% worth it. Your mental health and confidence will thank you.
I was just praying about this and asking for a sign if I was sinning or not, a lot of these lies I believed. I’m so glad you posted this. More people need to see this
How do y'all get answers to your prayers?
@@leaguixxx9736Lots of different ways, can be your recommended page or something for example
@leaguixxx9736 Basically, it will just happen if you have faith and patience
@@leaguixxx9736Things happen that it's an impossibility to begin random multiple times would I say, like signs clear as day. You can't miss them :)
You get answers by trusting in God and having faith/patience!
Pray to God and ask him to guide your steps to fulfill the desire/calling he has for your life.. you will see it come into fruition :)
If you’re not using to praying I recommend praying to God and ask him to help you live like Christ. You will see character and desires start to change.. that’s what happened to me!!
I think this particular subject should be talked about more and addressed in churches especially, and society. It's really a shame that the sexualizing of just about everything is so widely excepted and really encouraged. Thank you for your boldness.
Absolutely. And the number of people who unalive themselves in the industry just proves the point all the more.
39:20 thank you for mentioning the human trafficking on the industry, it annoys me that people don’t consider the abuse behind it and that the person you are watching is being exploited for the sake of your pleasure :/
I've been without pornography for a week, I'm going through a very serious period of withdrawal, headaches, dirty thoughts, insomnia and a lot of physical pain, I have the habit of watching ASMR to sleep, but even on UA-cam i end up finding stimuli, despite being a sensitive topic, and English is not my native language, I am very grateful for this video, it came at the right time, where I am regaining my faith and getting rid of bad things in my life!
God bless your life, and Amen!
I was in a bad place today and started searching for some of those "Thirst Trap" Asmr videos you talked about. As I was searching I just felt disgusted and the thought occurred to me to search for Christian Asmr instead, this video was the first video I saw. Your kind words and prayer turned me away from from my temptation and have pulled me out of a month long spiritual rut that I have been suffering in.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and for fighting the lies of the enemy by speaking The Word of The Lord.
God bless.
I was struggling with this kind of stuff for so long that I had lost my identity. I pray that God's people wake up to this problem and start to talk about it more often. God bless us all, thank you for the video
im a christian and i hope that everybody that listened to this masterpiece will be blessed 🙏
I am not a Christian but your voice is very relaxing, you give me a lot of peace
There’s a reason you’re here listening to Christian asmr 💜 God doesn’t make mistakes and has perfect timing. He loves you no matter what 🙏🏼💜🥰
I love you as my neighbor so I gotta let you know that you and I have broken God's law the ten commandments which is the moral law if you've ever lied in your life if you ever stolen in your life if you've ever lusted after anybody in your life if you ever been angry in your life if you've ever coveted someone's items been jealous of what someone else has then you broken God's law and guess what you'd be like everyone else because every single person has sinned and falling short of the glory of God and the wages of sin is death that's why it's been appointed to every person to face death then the judgment but God is saying I have a gift of Grace that is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord, he is the Son of God, God in the flesh, the visible image of the invisible God for God is Spirit and he was born of a virgin and died on the cross for our sins 2000 years ago in Israel and God raised him from the dead 3 Days later conquering hell and death he's now on the right hand of God being a mediator for all who call on the name of the Lord to be saved for he's coming again to judge the living and the dead and put an end to all wickedness but if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead and you will be saved and repent, turn away from your lifestyle and turn to a lifestyle that's pleasing to God, having a relationship with God, keeping the ten commandments, abiding in the Word of God, being baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ for the remission of your sins you will receive the Holy Ghost which is the spirit of Truth the comforter; you are washed clean through the blood of Jesus Christ that was shed on the cross because his blood is the only blood ever has no sin in it and you can have the Hope assurance that when he comes again in that Eastern hemisphere you will be raised to eternal life but if you choose to reject the Messiah you're choosing death over your life because you'd be choosing sin over the Saviour and if you choose sin over the Saviour you're putting yourself on the path of destruction instead of on the narrow path and God would be justified to send you to hell but God wants no one to perish but all to come to repentance so humble yourself and submit to God he has such an amazing plan for your life and he loves you and care for you that's why the Lord Jesus Christ willingly died on the cross for you he took the most excruciating pain and suffering so that he can be the bridge for you to have a relationship with God and be forgiven of your sins and have eternal life and to show that The suffering that we face in this life is not comparable to the glory that we will have in God's presence.
God’s calling for you @puffskein6397
@@graced131Because he clicked on it
@@GluttonousGodKingplease dont ruin everything. thanks
Its amazing how God shows Himself through our prayers, I was acutally just facing temptation with wanting to watch p*rn and I took a moment, removed all distractions and just started praying and rebuking those demonic forces that were at work (it doesn't normally happen like that but I'm tired of this sin and don't want it apart of my life and I know God feels the same). I was praying for strength to overcome this temptation, and He put this video in my FYP. Thank you Jesus. God truly is amazing even as He works in mysterious ways.
Sex is the one of the deepest acts of affection one can show to another and the fact that it’s so normalized to just watch people imitating it is scary.
Super creative, Gaby! I know lives were touched by the power of the Holy Spirit and the lies of the enemy were revealed and the Belt of Truth was placed over Gods sons and daughters 💕🙏🏽
Amen!
Amen!!
Amen
Amen! 🙌🏽
Girly, God is using you to do his work. Such a taboo or difficult topic for churches and you're out here doing his work. Blessings to you!
I hope this is uncomfortable for people. Because this sin should be uncomfortable in our spirit. Especially a sin that can be hidden in our lives. And the shame that comes along with it keeps others in chains. Thank you for speaking truth into this subject and exposing the darkness with the light of the gospel. Thank you for also sharing your own testimony it is powerful!
Wow, this video is so important! God bless you Gabby 😊
It doesn't matter what the world say, P*RN IS NOT HEALTHY! It just leads to addiction, anxiety and depression... KEEP PRAYING and the lord is going to help you to kit this addiction!
I used to be completed addicted to p*rn and mstb, it was destroying me. The enemy convinced me that this was ok, and little by little I was loosing my identity of a daughter of God... I was so deep in this sin that I thought it was to late to come back to the Lord, so it got worse and worse. But one day my sister talked to me and said that she knew what was happening and talked to me, I was so relieved to have someone to count on. I started to pray and ask for mercy and strength, read the bible more and be careful with the media I consume to not trigger me. I'm not perfect, but the Lord helps me (and you who is reading too). I am better than I used to be, I stopped to consume p*rn and slowly stoped to mstb (I felt back a lot of times, but The Lord had mercy with me). I don't have the words to thank God, but I am really really grateful 🙏
Very thankful that you made this video, it's so SO important to address and encourage everyone to avoid these sins and address sensitive topics like this. Doing God's work here, keep it up and may He be with you.
This couldnt have come out at a better time. Im currently 5 days clean and im not gonna lie it hasent been easy ive been trying to quit for about a year now. God bless you and everyone whos struggling with this.
thank you so much for this
Thank you for being honest and a good example 😇
I applaud your courage and faith! Your obedience to the Lord had shed light on the truth about this topic. I use to struggle with this sin and once believed these lies. For those who do struggle with p*rn, you can be delivered!
This is something I am thankful for I feel like the lord had planned me to turn notifications on like a month ago just so I could hear this message. Thank you
This is such a necessary video, especially for the youth who find themselves falling into these lies. Thank you for being a good voice and role model. ✝️💕
Thank you for this. God really spoke to me in this one!
Me too! I'm so thankful 🥹😭
What a beautiful thing that the Lord is using your platform to spread these encouraging messages ♥️
God bless you and your family! Your courage is appreciated by all whose souls still speak inside of us.
I'm not even religious but serious respect for breaching this subject.
Something a lot of the world struggles with including myself. Lifting my brothers and sisters up in prayer!
Thank you. I’m not Christian, but you are truly doing the Lord’s work.
Come to Jesus, blessings will be poured out on you like rain
Your "Jesus" was nothing more than a false Jewish Messiah that people started a cult around after his death
@@T.D.F.M I don t believe so, the evidence for the existence and life of Christ is overwhelming and indisputable, God bless you
P#rn messed up my mind so bad growing up.. I’m happy this is getting talked about
girl thank you for opening up about this harmful addiction and calling this out in such a biblical and straightforward but kind way. I've struggled with this myself over the years and have also had relationships with partners having damaging addictions to it. Even if I weren't a Christian, like you pointed out, it's so psychologically damaging and relationally hurtful on top of the wrong being done to those being filmed. I pray often that God will guard my son's heart and mind from this as he grows.
Gosh the C.S. Lewis quote at the end gave me chills. So good.
Thank you for bringing up this topic. All thanks to God, I’ve been clean for around 14 months. Couldn’t have done it without Him. Praise God.
I have been p*rn free for about 4 years now. Lately I’ve been tempted to go back down that dark and sinful path. I am truly thankful that I found this video! It really helped me get back on track, to run away from that sin. God bless!
I became a p0rn addicted at the age of eleven, and that was so sad. I had my innocence taken so early and I was destroyed and depressed. With that, I've discovered m4sturbati0n and became a slave of that. Everything led me to an unhealthful relationship and I got pregnant at seventeen. On top of that I was born Christian, I knew that I was doing something wrong. But now, Jesus set me free, I am 18 and living my best life with my baby girl. You can do it too, it is never too late!!!
i’m so glad you’re doing better, I hope you and your baby r doing great💓
I started looking at it at 12.
Im always afraid to admit it because i feel like i might aswell get hate, but reading this comment makes me feel better and im trying my best to stop the addiction
thank you so much for this video. i’m a sixteen year old girl and i’ve been struggling with this for the past year and 4 months i think. i don’t watch it but i listen to it, like different role plays and stuff on different apps and websites. i’ve been really trying not to and i’m 3 days clean but i was tempted to right before i clicked on this video. but i didn’t and that’s thanks to God and you!
Same here girlie. You got this!
I hope you keep clean dear
@@violetchamberlain9025hope your clean now
Thank you for a video on this topic, I hope it’s something that will become less taboo and more understood. So many people are affected or addicted.
Personally I had been trying to quite prn for almost 3 years after realising I was addicted. I first watched it when I was a child and didn’t know any better, it’s so normalised I kept doing it until I was addicted but didn’t even realise. Trying to quit was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do and I relapsed so many times during those three years. About a month and a half ago I prayed to God, I asked him to help me, I said I was his completely, I just wanted it to stop.
After that it felt as though a weight had been lifted from me, all the shame and guilt had gone and I truly felt as though I’d finally left it behind me for good.
To all those dealing with this addiction, do not give up hope, you are worthy of love and forgiveness, and the Lord loves and forgives you. Trust in him, pray to him. I will pray for you all❤️
Omg 😩 I was so tempted to watch porn and thank God I didn’t fall into it but then seeing this as the first video to pop up on my timeline before going to bed is definitely God wow. Thank you for your obedience to God uploading this tonight 🙌🏽
Edit: those glasses are cool lol
You aren’t alone. I’m very proud of you, my sister in Christ.
God is truly with us during those times. What has helped me so much is realizing that God sees us for who we are, and He knows when are hearts are soft and when we are striving to follow after Him. He will give us a way out when we’re tempted, just like this video helped you.
Also I recently read historical context to the bible about how sexual immorality was really, really bad (weird) amongst the pagans and idol worshippers of the old testament. That’s part of why God had to destroy the earth by flood …..
1 Corinthians 10: 13 (AMP) says -
No temptation [regardless of its source] has overtaken or enticed you that is not common to human experience [nor is any temptation unusual or beyond human resistance]; but God is faithful [to His word-He is compassionate and trustworthy], and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability [to resist], but along with the temptation He [has in the past and is now and] will [always] provide the way out as well, so that you will be able to endure it [without yielding, and will overcome temptation with joy].
So sometimes I pray for God to strengthen me the way He must have had to strengthen His true followers, like Noah, living in those times. They might have been tempted to follow the trends/rituals the way us modern people are encouraged to be desensitized towards sex and pornography.
I'm finally able to stop consuming it after having Faith in God 😇
its literally the algorithm. Your devices listen to you
keep gooning
@@taylortrolllur so real
i've always watched asmr and i've always been a christian. never realized the two were combined! so excited i found this!
I just recently got attacked by the devil by about 20 mins prior to typing this banging on my doors and whispering to me and this is what I need to help me recover and sleep thank you so so much. Much love ❤️
see a doctor please
@@marcopolo1390yeah, the devil is not a physical entity to normal folk, broski is just a schizo
Banging on the doors? Is that a common occurrence? That’s so scary
schizophrenia core
Hello I don't think this is a normal thing to experience..... Please try see a doctor or someone about what you are hearing / seeing
This is a really great idea. I understand this can be awkward or a inappropriate topic but I love that you’re getting deeper into what others keep silent. Cleansing the mind is what everybody needs. God bless you & your big heart ❤️🙏🏼
Yeah, this will be a video I have to watch over and over. Thank you SO much! God Bless You
no, keep gooning. watch porn. watch it hard
I wish I had never seen or heard of porn. It is such a huge, spiritually, damaging industry. I feel so sad for those who have died or were killed by others because of suffering from this horrendous industry.
Not a porn user but I have issues with lust and this was needed 💕 very grateful for you God blesss
is it really lust? or just normal human attraction?
@jaimepayne9407 no, it's lust.
@@jaimepayne9407There is a difference between appreciating beauty and having sexually lustful thoughts and imaginations.
@@jaimepayne9407It's none of your business.
@@ShaneAlan1but how do you know?
Girl!!! You are annointed and appointed ,"For such a time as this"!! Praying for you and your hubby as you are definitely storming the gates of hell with these truths!!❤❤❤❤❤
I dont personally struggle with this and never have, but I’m still glad ur talking about such an important topic! And I enjoy listening to ur well thought out points! God bless u and ur work Gabby
Beautiful. It feels like you’re sharing a testimony as you make such genuine videos. May Christ continue to shine through you 💛
I’d never heard of Christian asmr before but stumbling upon this channel, and this video in particular, have been a literal Godsend. As a Christian I am constantly torn between the conviction my faith brings and the demand my addiction imposes. This video was so painful and so so necessary. Thank you.
Great video! So glad to see a lovely young Christian lady 🥰 speaking the truth of God’s word while plucking out the lies of p*rn. It’s such a stronghold for the majority of people who have access to the internet especially among Christians.
More videos like this need to exist. Thanks for putting this message out there!
I love the plucking out lies series 😍🙏 Thank you so much for speaking out! This is a painful but very important topic
Thankyou for taking the time to make this, it’s been really good to be reminded of what God says versus what the world says, and how following God is always going to help me and be the correct path for my life. Praise the Lord that you are able to make these videos!!
I LOVE everything about this video. It truly hit home. Everything that was said, was so accurate and powerful. You nailed it! Thank you so much!❤
Thank you for this!! You are so encouraging and your videos have been a great blessing to me. From the bottom of my heart thank you!! ❤️✌️🙏🙌
”The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.“
Psalms 34:18
such a perfect combination of christian and classic asmr😭thank you so much for the video, may God bless you ! 🙏✨
Amen preach it sister, let God use you.
"Pornographers have successfully taken acts of dominance, cruelty, and abuse, and have called it sex."
YES! EXACTLY! Thank you for making this video, Gaby! 😍 It's an extremely important topic for Christians (and everyone else) these days, which we honestly don't discuss enough. I'm a psychology major at an elite university in my home country, and frankly, the number of highly educated psych students who are pro porn (despite knowing full well its horrible nature) baffles me. I personally have not watched it in years, and I feel so much purer and closer to God thanks to this. As a woman, it isn't even that difficult to develop the aversion to it, honestly.
Thank you for taking the courage to talk about such a heavy part of today's moral landscape. We, as a society, need more honest discussions and help for those who struggle with this.
I have a question, would the hentai book series Monster Girl Enclyclopedia be considered sinful?
@@devilsadvocate8234bruh 😂
@@zaristophanes It's a genuine question. Although knowing how the people in the comment section think like their grandparents here I'm going to assume it's sinful.
@@devilsadvocate8234yes, any type of pxrn or hxntai that creates lust and distorts our view of sex is sinful. Which happens to be all pxrn and hxntai because it harms you both spiritually, as God tells us to avoid all content like this, and physically, as scientists have shown a very bad impact on the brain from frequent viewing of this type of sinful and lustful content. Hope this helped
Girl, the Lord is using you!! Thank you for this video ❤
Gaby, thank you for addressing this very real issue and affirming through scripture. May He continue to bless you
i love gabby because of how open and honest she is, i always feel like its a big sister type talk. her lie plucking videos give me a whole new perspective on life, im definitely on my way to a better life
as someone who was introduced to sex at a very young age, thank you for this. I'm a fellow christian woman and have struggled for years with porn addiction, extreme body image issues, extremely distorted views of intimacy, and it led me to participate in hookup culture for years which only deepened my shame. but I know I'm saved and made pure through Jesus and am now waiting for my future spouse! However it's still my biggest battle and I have to fight it almost every day, and I believe God showed me this video for a reason. I'm definitely going to come back to it when I'm struggling and fighting temptation. thank you for this video! God bless you 🤍🕊️
Can I help you I will teach you how to be free
Perhaps stop posting your body on the internet. Let us pray for your future husband… or perhaps let us pray you become a nun, instead
Thank you for your vulnerability! I always appreciate brave women who open up about this battle. It is encouraging and makes me feel less alone. May The Lord bless you and keep you and your family, make his face shine upon you, and be gracious to you. May he turn his face towards you and give you peace! Amen.
You are amazing, God bless you!!! this is finally the asmr the world needs
This is refreshing seeing a woman’s perspective on this topic, thank you.
Ive struggled with porn addiction since I first came across it at age 11 and although I can't say I've quit, I have definitely reduced my need for it and I hope that by the end of this year, Ill be able to truly stop watching it. Thank you so much for this video! Its nice seeing that Im not the only one on this journey :)
Did you finally stop?
Wretched man that I am. I’ve been stuck in habitual porn for over a decade, believing a lie that I was not addicted and could quit whenever I wanted to (I am 25 to put it into perspective). Over the past few months, by the incredible, incomprehensible Mercy, Grace, and Patience of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, my intense spiritual war against lust has become met with increasing victories! I have recently surrendered my video game addiction to the Lord as well. This video has blessed me beyond words. Onward Christian soldiers, ALL FOR THE GLORY OF GOD!
This video came quite fittingly, as I have been feeling that this issue has come at a point where I have a desire to change, not just a wish.
Resolve is the secret, man. You have to know you are done with it. If you truly believe you can and will change it’s all over. Congratulations on taking the first step.
Your work is loving and necessary. Thanks for sharing your Ministry with us ❤
This is awesome! Preach it sister🙌 so true and I wish everyone could hear this
thank you so much for this amazing video and for highlighting all of the lies we are told regarding this topic. i also appreciate you providing relevant Bible verses that reinforce your points. i've been deceived by some of the lies you spoke about, but your inspiring and insightful words really put a spotlight on how wrong, damaging, and sinful these mindsets are. i truly believe God is using you as a vessel and speaking through you to help people who are struggling.
thank you for the extremely important reminder that just because something is seen as "normal" does not make it good. i keep forgetting this, and this reminder was absolutely needed.
I wish porn didn’t even exist, it’s ruined the minds of our men. It’s so heartbreaking to realize just how common this addiction is among men, and I know for a fact that I will NEVER settle for one that brings that amount of disappointment to the table. I’ve left relationships for that very reason and I don’t regret it one bit
Indeed, but not only men :/
lmao imagine thinking that only men watch/ do porn........... the internet is free and i will not tolerate no slander towards men. this video is clearly towards ANYONE with a porn addiction not specifically just for 1 gender.
That P symbol is very pagan, not to mention the Catholic religion, not to bash on your religion or anything, but do some research please, God bless you in Jesus Name! As long as your not with any of that stuff your good though.
That comment doesn't slander men. It's just stating the fact that men tend to watch porn regularly far more than women. I think it was like 90% of men having watched porn in the last month in a study, while it was 'just' 40% of women. Most porn is created with men as the target audience too.
I definetly think too that a lot of people forget that women struggle with porn addictions as well, but I really can't imagine that the comment was rejecting the idea of women being addicted to porn lol
lmao thats just false its almost equal due to the fact that there is over 1m videos including girl on girl or girl on boy women neeed to stop excluding themselves when it comes to something thats a global problem that both genders tend to have. the blame is on society
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Christian ASMR is not something I knew I needed in my life. Amazing video, thank you so much!
Why am I finding your channel just now? This is QUALITY content talking about the topics that actually MATTER!! Instant sub fr fr… Dominus Vobiscum friends ✝️ Christ is King
Thank you so much for this beautiful video. I've learned many things about the habits I've struggled with since a little boy upon accidentally finding porn, to it becoming a lifelong struggle with lust. Your voice is so calming, soothing, and as a Christian I've found great pleasure in listening to what you have to preach against these sins and being relaxed at the same time. I hope your channel grows and reaches so many more Christians and Non-christians. You've earned an immediate sub from me :)
Wowwww. This is so 🔥. Keep preaching the truth, even if others don’t like it!
Im Muslim and it was really good to hear these words from you
And one thing your videos are great for improving English
Thank you for spreading the things people need sister
Thank you for this! I've been struggling lately and this is really helpful to hear and see ❤❤
Thank you so much for your vulnerability and intentionality with this video!
It was such a great encouragement and important reminder on so many levels.
God bless you, keep you, and may your online ministry continue to grow 🙏
Those Lies the world tells you videos are probably my favorite ones
I REALLY needed this. Thank you for speaking out to me through the word of the lord and for reminding me that it is never too late to change and become a better image of ourselves infront of the lord. I will never forget this. Thank you and God bless you very very much ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ive been waiting for you to post a new video.
I've started a journey of reconnecting to God as part of my New Years Resolutions. I'm going through the whole Bible with my SO this year (who's had a more constant relationship with Him while I've been on and off throughout the years, now fully commited to the path.)
I know your videos will be of great help to me as I walk through the valley of those pages. Peace be with you!
GIRL you out here really ministering with the whispers! Holy spirit don't stop.
Although I have never struggled with porn, thank you so much for actively going against the toxic lies of this world while providing relaxation, hope, and prayer! Your work is reaching thousands of people and benefitting many- mine included.
This is truth that needs to be shared all over! Thankyou:)
Thank you for doing this. I feel better after this video may God bless you and be with you ❤✝️🙏🏼
One of my favorite videos on UA-cam. Thank you for combining spiritual meditation, forgiveness, mercy, and TRUTH in one relaxing video. Pornography is 100% one of our world's most dangerous drugs out there, and I am so glad to see my fellow women in faith calling it out. Amen, sister! God bless everyone who struggles with this awful substance and its addictive qualities. Stay strong, everyone. We must guard our hearts and minds against such invasive, manipulative evil.
You would be a great speaker/writer. But this is so much easier than going to see a speaker or read a book
Supporting you girlll❤✝️❤
I know you probably won't see this because you posted the video 2 months ago, but I find it such a comfort that you, a woman like me, also struggle/struggled with this. Me and my Husband both have accountability software on all our devices, and try to regularly check in on each other. Most often, when I'm weaker, he's stronger, and vice versa.
Anyways, thank you for the encouragement and the relaxing video! God bless you, sister.
A wife being the accountable partner of the husband is not recommended but i stopped being a christian anyways so i am just quoting a book i read once
No truer word has ever been spoken, its as if it was said by jesus himself, its impossible to argue this.. thank you for your courage to speak in depth about it x
Thank you for posting about this! More ppl need to pay attention to this topic
This video takes a lot of guts to make, brutally honest but delivered in a caring way. Not really something I personally struggle with but I know so many people do. Great job! ❤
Not to make this about myself but I struggle a lot with social media addiction, dead scrolling and such, would be supercool if you would want to make a video on that in similar fashion.
Im sad to say that im battle an addiction to this horrific stuff. Its poisoned my mind from a young age and now I'm truly trying to change. I know God is the way, the truth, and the life. I feel relief that i have him. It's still brutal, but i know there is light at the end of the tunnel
Keep strong brother
I so appreciate this, i remember quitting porn for 7 months without even one set back in 2022 it was the most peaceful days, i felt that my soul is purified and i that void i’ve always felt inside of me is filled with and that i finally had a purpose and that is to struggle with God in doing my moral duties and to not grieve God with sins and i want that back really soon, I’m a muslim am a huge fan of biblical studies and how Christians study and take care of their back really fascinates me
Not gonna lie I really needed this it’s like everything you said it’s just exactly what I’ve been going through thank you.