A common misconception is the idea that love is a "feeling", love is NOT a feeling, it is a commitment, a decisions, a judgment, and a promise. Love IS enough, but LOVE has to exist in both parties for LOVE TO BE ENOUGH. One sided love cannot keep any relationship, love has to be unified in spite of differences and even conflict. Love is willing to go through a certain amount of conflict in order to achieve harmony. Partners who don't argue at all inevitably grow resentment, but when you love someone you try hard to fight for it, even if you have to fight each other for it, BUT understanding fully that conflict is a necessary evil and NOT the purpose or end goal. The goal for Love is always to unify and exist in harmony, to bridge two different worlds even. Love is a willing sacrifice that is grown in joy and even in suffering. That is why love is not of this world, it is a divinity existing in each individual that harnest its fullest potential. Love is an otherworldly gift.
True. Yung love kasi di lang sya feeling but also a power. Gift sya from god na kaya mong ibigay sa lahat without expecting too much from the others to reciprocate.
I disagree with this. It's a common misconception too that love is NOT a feeling. Love is a feeling and a commitment. Lagi sinasabi ng iba iniinvalidate yung love is a feeling. But yes, love is more than just a feeling but it doesn't mean na it shouldn't be part of it. Love is a feeling, the feeling of compassion, the feeling of loving, the feeling of commitment, the feeling of warmth and security, the feeling of valuing someone. It is a feeling of responsibility and commitment.
It's not all about happiness and butterflies. When you decide to be with a person, you stick with that decision. Unless if that person is abusing you na physically, mentally, spiritually, and sexually. There will be days that it would be shitty, but it doesnt mean that you need to leave that person ASAP. You work for it. You talk about it. You do everything. Love is something calm and unquestionable. It wont leave you doubting your existence and self value. The moment you question, it's time for discernment. And then you two need to talk.
Totoo. Feelings are fleeting, nawawala/humihina. Kaya nga dapat may commitment. To maintain a relationship is hard work, hindi yan ung pinoportray sa fairy tales.
@@mm-cm6kc yes! that's why you have to constantly and consistently work on it. You can love and hate people at the same time and that's fine. There is no one and only, there is no soulmate. The one that you choose at that certain point in time is what matters, but it's hard work for sure, and both of you (or all of you if there's many lol) should maintain it otherwise one or all of you will be miserable.
I think love is a feeling. What you can do or how you want to deal with the feeling is the choice. We can love someone dearly and still choose to let them go because keeping them compromises your peace of mind. We can have so much love and passion for the arts and not choose to pursue it, instead go for a career path deemed more lucrative while hating it because one has to be practical.
I think we need to have a standard definition of what love is before we make opinions about it because hearing these people, they all have different insights about love based on their own experiences . From what I see, some define it as a feeling, for some it’s infatuation , but for me it’s a commitment. It transcends everything. Seeing this video focuses more on romantic context when really love is generally defined as a selfless commitment to seek the highest good of a person regardless if it’s a relationship matter, family or friendships.
I like the fact that the people on the vid has different opinion on the questions, people definitely have different perspectives on love as a general and it gives us new perspective aswell on love, even some of the comments have different opinions and tbh i feel like it just goes to show na love is subjective and people should believe what they think love is. People have different encounters, traumas and experience on love and its honestly unfair to say na there is a correct answer kasi love isnt that simple na we can have 1 formula and lead to 1 answer or multiple formulas that leads to 1 answer, love has multiple formulas and multiple answers. People have different circumstances and point of views on the topic kaya kudos to the people who find their true love
Love is ENOUGH. everything must be done out of love. may it be a choice of understanding, compromising, sacrificing- basically everything. So therefore, Love is ENOUGH.
Yun sinabi ni ate na "your not inlove with me, your inlove with the ideal version of me" na experience ko yun Kase daw ang ganda ng mindset ko mga ganito mga ganyan tapos ang ending parang nafefeel ko na parang di sya inlove saken mas inlove sya sa mindset ko "daw" na gusto nya na meron sa ibang tao na gusto nya parang ganon.
Love is not a feeling but rather a choice, that's why you can be in love but not happy. Also don't mistake love as relationship; relationship is a complicated thing which does not necessarily have to involve love, and love makes it much easier but is not enough if not in a two-way street. True love is an unquestionable form of choosing someone/thing whether this puts you on a convenient or difficult situation.
Love ko si Ateng naka-Green. Yung mga di nakaka-gets sa kanya haven't really seen what a healthy relationship looks like. They miscontrue love with trauma bonding. When you grow up in an unhealthy environment/family (w/c is the "normal" thing for you), you form diff kinds of trauma. You attract who you are therefore you're attracting someone who've experienced trauma growing up resulting to trauma bonding between the two of you. Ask yourself if you have father/mother issues, abandonment issues, fear, etc.
yes! love is enough! becoz if you REALLY/TRUELLY love someone, you still choose him/her even though your relationship is not happy anymore. You BOTH have to make a move in order to keep the love alive!
TRUE Love is simply unconditional, not expecting for a love-back.. Wanting reciprocations for what you have gave is not true love since there were expectations and if those expectations were not met, that so called love you have fighting for is definitely not true. And you’ll about to realize that when it happened already in front of you
At least diba you still do things na ginagawa nyo before kahit hindi na kayo, meaning you don't avoid things na napapaalala niya sa'yo. That's matured. The good thing is nalalaa mo siya positively.
That's why self love and being able to enjoy your own company is very important before jumping in a relationship. So that you dont depend your happiness to other people. Being in a relationship and enjoying time with a partner is just a bonus in life. Same with having kids. Bonus and blessing silang lahat. At the end of the day, you are responsible of your own happiness, safety, security and whatnots.
attraction kasi ay minsan hindi nag bbunga ng Love ang Love kasi selfless yan pag mahal mo bbigay mo lahat pero pag mas ma angat ang sarili mo sa tao na yan hindi mo sya talaga mahal.. gusto mo lang may i control kasi feeling mo strong ka pag ganun un iba ganun makipag jowa kaya ang ending nakaka sakit lang..
Love is enough bunga nalang ng love yung efforts mga bagay na gusto mo ibigay sa mahal mo para maging masaya sya . Lahat yan nagmula sa love Hindi ka mag effort sa kung Hindi mo mahal ang tao
"Nawawala kasi yung love sa parents, sometimes e, before clingy sila, puro dating, may sex na part, nahuli ko na nga yung parents ko e, pero pag tumatanda, nawawala, choice na lang nila to stay for the sake of their children, and some of them -- friendship na lang e." If the guy in the gray jacket finds love as petty as being clingy, lots of dating and sex, a prostitute with "girlfriend experience" can give him what he needs for "love". I feel bad for the guy, hope he finds someone that will take his point of view about love to a genuine extent.
When all of us gets old, sex will be gone and friendship remains. That's how you actually see the dynamics and the value, yung friendship ng magpartner. Na kahit anong boredom o umay nila sa isa't isa, they're still together. This is what i saw with my parents. And tbh, a lot of old parents dont stay just bec of their children, they stay bec they really love each other all throughout the years & they cant imagine living without one another. Maybe hindi niya makita yun sa parents niya. Kala niya cguro puro sex lang at happy happy ang relasyon. He should interview couples that are 30s or 40s with kids na pag nagkaanak na, nababawasan tlaga ang sex at kilig and it's totally normal.
Love is not enough. Love is just a feeling or emotion. As per Mark Manson, Love is not equal to compatibility, Love does not solve relationship problems, and Love not worth sacrificing yourself for.
Having a romantic relationship with someone is like making a bread..we may say that love is like the flour in the bread. It is the main ingredient. The other ingredients like sugar, yeast, water or salt are the other things that you need in the relationship like money, emotional maturedness, sex and commitment. Without the flour, even though you have the other ingredients, you cannot make a bread. Just like in the relationship, even though you have money, you guys are having sex or the other things, you cannot create a romantical relationship. In conclusion, love is not enough? Yes of course. But it is the main ingredient that without that, you cannot create a romantic relationship.
girls payo lang wag kayo pipili sa lalake eh inuuna yung barkada alak yosi talpak ML punta ng punta sa mga bar, pumapatol sa mga BAKLA o kapwa lalake. mga low value mga ito or mga teens lang gumaggawa ng ganito.. pero pag gwapo naman pwede mo na tiisin. kahit marami syang bisyo.. tandaan nyo girls kayo tumatangkilik ng ganitong lalake kayo ang nagbibigay problema sa sarili nyo.. walang paminsan minsan lang, dapat kayo ang una sa lahat ng bagay girls..
A common misconception is the idea that love is a "feeling", love is NOT a feeling, it is a commitment, a decisions, a judgment, and a promise. Love IS enough, but LOVE has to exist in both parties for LOVE TO BE ENOUGH. One sided love cannot keep any relationship, love has to be unified in spite of differences and even conflict. Love is willing to go through a certain amount of conflict in order to achieve harmony. Partners who don't argue at all inevitably grow resentment, but when you love someone you try hard to fight for it, even if you have to fight each other for it, BUT understanding fully that conflict is a necessary evil and NOT the purpose or end goal. The goal for Love is always to unify and exist in harmony, to bridge two different worlds even. Love is a willing sacrifice that is grown in joy and even in suffering. That is why love is not of this world, it is a divinity existing in each individual that harnest its fullest potential. Love is an otherworldly gift.
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True. Yung love kasi di lang sya feeling but also a power. Gift sya from god na kaya mong ibigay sa lahat without expecting too much from the others to reciprocate.
100 agreed with you
truth, ibabaw kasi ng pananaw nila sa love. opinyon ko lang hehe
I disagree with this. It's a common misconception too that love is NOT a feeling. Love is a feeling and a commitment. Lagi sinasabi ng iba iniinvalidate yung love is a feeling. But yes, love is more than just a feeling but it doesn't mean na it shouldn't be part of it. Love is a feeling, the feeling of compassion, the feeling of loving, the feeling of commitment, the feeling of warmth and security, the feeling of valuing someone. It is a feeling of responsibility and commitment.
"If pagod ka, then magpahinga ka. Pero 'wag mong iiwan yung tao kasi ending a relationship [is] a huge movement." - Lash Omadto
Love is easy if you have the same mindset and priorities in your relationship, because love should give you peace not chaos
It's not all about happiness and butterflies. When you decide to be with a person, you stick with that decision. Unless if that person is abusing you na physically, mentally, spiritually, and sexually.
There will be days that it would be shitty, but it doesnt mean that you need to leave that person ASAP. You work for it. You talk about it. You do everything. Love is something calm and unquestionable. It wont leave you doubting your existence and self value. The moment you question, it's time for discernment. And then you two need to talk.
True, people misconception of love is all about being so inlove and they not see the real essence of love.
Love is a CHOICE. It is a decision. it's not JUST a feeling. Ya'll have become victims of romanticism thinking that loving is easy.
you’ve got me fucked up
@@fujiwara4886 whaaat lol pls expound
Totoo. Feelings are fleeting, nawawala/humihina. Kaya nga dapat may commitment. To maintain a relationship is hard work, hindi yan ung pinoportray sa fairy tales.
@@mm-cm6kc yes! that's why you have to constantly and consistently work on it. You can love and hate people at the same time and that's fine. There is no one and only, there is no soulmate. The one that you choose at that certain point in time is what matters, but it's hard work for sure, and both of you (or all of you if there's many lol) should maintain it otherwise one or all of you will be miserable.
I think love is a feeling. What you can do or how you want to deal with the feeling is the choice.
We can love someone dearly and still choose to let them go because keeping them compromises your peace of mind. We can have so much love and passion for the arts and not choose to pursue it, instead go for a career path deemed more lucrative while hating it because one has to be practical.
I think we need to have a standard definition of what love is before we make opinions about it because hearing these people, they all have different insights about love based on their own experiences . From what I see, some define it as a feeling, for some it’s infatuation , but for me it’s a commitment. It transcends everything. Seeing this video focuses more on romantic context when really love is generally defined as a selfless commitment to seek the highest good of a person regardless if it’s a relationship matter, family or friendships.
love is a choice, staying in love is a constant responsibility.
Same. Choice mo if you still want to be with those person na mahal mo or titigil ka na.
Love is subjective. That's why they have different perspectives when it comes to "Love".
I like the fact that the people on the vid has different opinion on the questions, people definitely have different perspectives on love as a general and it gives us new perspective aswell on love, even some of the comments have different opinions and tbh i feel like it just goes to show na love is subjective and people should believe what they think love is. People have different encounters, traumas and experience on love and its honestly unfair to say na there is a correct answer kasi love isnt that simple na we can have 1 formula and lead to 1 answer or multiple formulas that leads to 1 answer, love has multiple formulas and multiple answers. People have different circumstances and point of views on the topic kaya kudos to the people who find their true love
Love is ENOUGH. everything must be done out of love. may it be a choice of understanding, compromising, sacrificing- basically everything. So therefore, Love is ENOUGH.
Love is a constant work.
Love is a choice..loyalty is responsability..
Green Gurl is Positive and i love it ♥️♥️
3:50 it's not abt being clingy or being sweet to each other. LOVE is about accepting each other and staying even through the hardest times:)
Yun sinabi ni ate na "your not inlove with me, your inlove with the ideal version of me" na experience ko yun
Kase daw ang ganda ng mindset ko mga ganito mga ganyan tapos ang ending parang nafefeel ko na parang di sya inlove saken mas inlove sya sa mindset ko "daw" na gusto nya na meron sa ibang tao na gusto nya parang ganon.
I do not think love is enough to be happy! i think there is soooo much more, like commitment, compromise and understanding the other person fully!
Maybe some people are against ate naka Green's answer but again, it's subjective. I love her answers, does make sense!
Love is not a feeling but rather a choice, that's why you can be in love but not happy. Also don't mistake love as relationship; relationship is a complicated thing which does not necessarily have to involve love, and love makes it much easier but is not enough if not in a two-way street. True love is an unquestionable form of choosing someone/thing whether this puts you on a convenient or difficult situation.
Grabe yung mindset ng naka green dress, sobrang nakaka-attract ang sarap kakwentuhan kahit buong araw siguro. 😭💚✨
Love is a choice. Pag ayaw na wag na pilitin paulit ulit lang ang sakit. Tama na nag try kung wala talaga wag na pilitin.
loving is different from being in love
Love ko si Ateng naka-Green. Yung mga di nakaka-gets sa kanya haven't really seen what a healthy relationship looks like. They miscontrue love with trauma bonding. When you grow up in an unhealthy environment/family (w/c is the "normal" thing for you), you form diff kinds of trauma. You attract who you are therefore you're attracting someone who've experienced trauma growing up resulting to trauma bonding between the two of you. Ask yourself if you have father/mother issues, abandonment issues, fear, etc.
The one with the geeen dressss!!!!! Love her sentiments. 🫶🏻
yes! love is enough! becoz if you REALLY/TRUELLY love someone, you still choose him/her even though your relationship is not happy anymore. You BOTH have to make a move in order to keep the love alive!
TRUE Love is simply unconditional, not expecting for a love-back.. Wanting reciprocations for what you have gave is not true love since there were expectations and if those expectations were not met, that so called love you have fighting for is definitely not true. And you’ll about to realize that when it happened already in front of you
Whaaa here cause I saw Ms. Lash sa thumbnail!
People and feelings changed! The person you love today, might not be the same in 10 years. Just enjoy the moment.
Andito Pala si ate lash HAHAHAHHA
Love is patient and kind.
Love is not enough to be happy in a relationship its a choice its a decision ..staying inlove is different from being inlove
si boy naka shirt na may written voyage is ramdam ko..kapagod iyong palaging ikaw na lang susuyo or ikaw ang mag iisip. promise.kapagod
I always watch recreat w/ her, but this time ako nalang kasi hindi na kami. 🥺
malay mo him pala talaga ang forever mo
At least diba you still do things na ginagawa nyo before kahit hindi na kayo, meaning you don't avoid things na napapaalala niya sa'yo. That's matured. The good thing is nalalaa mo siya positively.
If you're not happy then it's not love? I think so. There was a time na I feel very alone even though I have a boyfriend. So yeah.
I feel you 😔
@@여자이름여자이름-x7p Sending hugs 🫂
Kailangan mo lang ng space..
Not at all.
That's why self love and being able to enjoy your own company is very important before jumping in a relationship. So that you dont depend your happiness to other people. Being in a relationship and enjoying time with a partner is just a bonus in life. Same with having kids. Bonus and blessing silang lahat. At the end of the day, you are responsible of your own happiness, safety, security and whatnots.
attraction kasi ay minsan hindi nag bbunga ng Love ang Love kasi selfless yan pag mahal mo bbigay mo lahat pero pag mas ma angat ang sarili mo sa tao na yan hindi mo sya talaga mahal.. gusto mo lang may i control kasi feeling mo strong ka pag ganun un iba ganun makipag jowa kaya ang ending nakaka sakit lang..
The girl in green is the only sane person here 😂 prop to her!
Love is not just enough, MORE THAN ENOUGH. Pag-isipan niyo nalang kakatamad mag-explain.
Si ateng naka green mukang single pa.. mashadong idealistic haha
Kahit naman single may common sense eh. Hindi naman talaga sapat yung love lang eh
Love is enough bunga nalang ng love yung efforts mga bagay na gusto mo ibigay sa mahal mo para maging masaya sya .
Lahat yan nagmula sa love Hindi ka mag effort sa kung Hindi mo mahal ang tao
If it is a FEELING, then it is not LOVE.
Yes bec feelings are fleeting
Ang pretty pala talaga ni Pretty. ♥
"Nawawala kasi yung love sa parents, sometimes e, before clingy sila, puro dating, may sex na part, nahuli ko na nga yung parents ko e, pero pag tumatanda, nawawala, choice na lang nila to stay for the sake of their children, and some of them -- friendship na lang e."
If the guy in the gray jacket finds love as petty as being clingy, lots of dating and sex, a prostitute with "girlfriend experience" can give him what he needs for "love".
I feel bad for the guy, hope he finds someone that will take his point of view about love to a genuine extent.
When all of us gets old, sex will be gone and friendship remains. That's how you actually see the dynamics and the value, yung friendship ng magpartner. Na kahit anong boredom o umay nila sa isa't isa, they're still together. This is what i saw with my parents. And tbh, a lot of old parents dont stay just bec of their children, they stay bec they really love each other all throughout the years & they cant imagine living without one another.
Maybe hindi niya makita yun sa parents niya. Kala niya cguro puro sex lang at happy happy ang relasyon. He should interview couples that are 30s or 40s with kids na pag nagkaanak na, nababawasan tlaga ang sex at kilig and it's totally normal.
Nagiging mahirap ang love dahil sa mga taong minamahal natin.
Love is a choice.
Love is not enough. Love is just a feeling or emotion. As per Mark Manson, Love is not equal to compatibility, Love does not solve relationship problems, and Love not worth sacrificing yourself for.
13:27 that feeling na your inlove pero bakit nga ba umaalis pa tayo?
this content is exactly what i need right now😢
yan ang tamans ads! start them early TOP UP LANG NG TOP UP HAHAHAHAAHHA
I wish re•create will make a yt series similar to singles inferno of korea. ❤
Uy si idol pala to lash
wow si lash
Swerte siguro sa lovelife si ate nakagreen
napa-click dahil kay lash 😭😭😭
Who’s the girl wearing black. ? She is pretty 🤩
tatlo yung nakablack
The one in off shoulder. She has an aura or has resemblance to Angel Locsin.
Having a romantic relationship with someone is like making a bread..we may say that love is like the flour in the bread. It is the main ingredient. The other ingredients like sugar, yeast, water or salt are the other things that you need in the relationship like money, emotional maturedness, sex and commitment. Without the flour, even though you have the other ingredients, you cannot make a bread. Just like in the relationship, even though you have money, you guys are having sex or the other things, you cannot create a romantical relationship.
In conclusion, love is not enough? Yes of course. But it is the main ingredient that without that, you cannot create a romantic relationship.
Efforts matter.
Love is not enough. wala mapapala sa love love lang
Ung nkagreen d ko gets mga sagot... haha
eto rin ang dahilan kung bakit di tumatagal ang ibang relasyon
love is principle
Yung naka Green, nasa Perfect World ata nakatira or Single
Pinaka consistent sumagot yun naka green dress
I feel you, bobo din ako in terms of love
Uy si Lash?
Girl bakit ka nasali jan. Char!
aba nga naman si lash
omg it's lash from tiktok hahahaha
Hahahahaha kaya nga sinearch ko tlaga yung name nya dito sa you tube. Ito yung lumabas
Dude, Isn't it that choosing to stay is Love?
isa lang naman ang tanong ko - bakit iba ang quality ng video ni kuyang naka-checkered?
akala ko si da two
ok
The girl wearing green seems walking in a rainbow park
is that lash?
I think they are pertaining to childish/kiddy/fantasy love not mature love.
Si ayokong mag-anak pala to eh 😅
Real love conquers all..
U love him her but not happy ? Its not real love anymore..
Inlove ka sknya pero hindi ikaw ang love nya.. magiging happy ka ba?.. 😅
Naive ata si ateng naka green hehe
Swerte ata sa lovelife si ante. Puro healthy and happy relationship lang 😂
Hawig ni Datwo 😅
ilang cups po ng kape yung nainom nung nagvalorant bago kayo mag shoot? :D
Yung 3 girls na nka black lng ung may sense..
Why is he shouting
girls payo lang wag kayo pipili sa lalake eh inuuna yung barkada alak yosi talpak ML punta ng punta sa mga bar, pumapatol sa mga BAKLA o kapwa lalake. mga low value mga ito or mga teens lang gumaggawa ng ganito.. pero pag gwapo naman pwede mo na tiisin. kahit marami syang bisyo.. tandaan nyo girls kayo tumatangkilik ng ganitong lalake kayo ang nagbibigay problema sa sarili nyo.. walang paminsan minsan lang, dapat kayo ang una sa lahat ng bagay girls..
gagi kala ko si datwo
Akala ko si datwo hahahah
datwo AHHAHAHAHA
shet parang ako lang din, "BOBO"
Here because of our mother, Lash! 🫶🏻