What To Say To A Girl On The Phone (3 Proven Topics)

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  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  3 роки тому +20

    To learn more about tension, entertainment and dominance as well as my entire A to Z system for getting a girl obsessed with you, be sure to check out HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.

  • @rockobama4022
    @rockobama4022 3 роки тому +362

    If you are in a hurry I put the time stamps below
    1:20 something you’ve been doing recently
    3:45 something you’d like to do
    5:40 implementing the idea of hanging out
    Good luck guys and please like this so others who are in a hurry can see!

  • @brayansergiocruzvillanueva7273
    @brayansergiocruzvillanueva7273 4 роки тому +270

    To sum up, tell her about something interesting you've been done lately, as well as somehitng you wish you would or want to do and last but not least seed the idea of further physical interaction ( the date)...

  • @luckmaster1757
    @luckmaster1757 4 роки тому +109

    Dude, great advice, I met a really fit girl, 2 weeks before lockdown. We've been texting, a few calls where I've struggled.
    A few bits of info from you, the call lasted 40 minutes, she was over the moon i suggested a day at the coast, excitement in her voice.
    Cheers fam

  • @flace61
    @flace61 2 роки тому +451

    pov: you actually get a girl but you have no idea what to talk about

  • @Adam-ui3yn
    @Adam-ui3yn 4 місяці тому +3

    I find a great way to never run out of things to say is to slow down. It's so hard having an interesting conversation with someone where you mention a big topic like food, or relationships and then jump to another topic like 30 seconds later.
    If you bring up travel for example, really dig into the topic. Ask if they prefer nature or city life more, go into why and what that might say about their personality. Try to guess what type of country they most want to visit, mention a funny travel story, explain how you got nervous the first time you say local police of another country drive around with giant guns on the back of their truck. Talk about your unique skills that would make you a good travel partner, or how you were trying to barter in another language and your counter offer was higher than the suggested price.
    We're both anxious on the phone, if you can show some vulnerability they'll feel more relaxed and the conversation flows smoother. It's why you can quickly run out of things to talk about with your boss but not a close friend.

  • @Quintin953
    @Quintin953 4 роки тому +107

    Definitely making plans for after lockdown and mentioning things I wish I could do right now, this is really working during this time.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 роки тому +2

      Love it.

    • @j.t.r1976
      @j.t.r1976 4 роки тому +1

      Heck yeah telling a woman what you would do,or maybe do someday,is for sure getting her wett.you keep that up,all that talk,& maybe maybe you'll maybe get 1date.good job

    • @noelnoni
      @noelnoni 3 роки тому +2

      @@j.t.r1976 haahahahahahh

    • @Tyler-lz4jc
      @Tyler-lz4jc 2 роки тому

      Lol still covid is around

  • @westside706
    @westside706 4 роки тому +16

    Thanks for your tips...This is the video that I like more because you put summarization in 7:43...I hope you always do that if you giving an advice video. Thanks again😏

  • @biganswershack
    @biganswershack 4 роки тому +48

    You always give excellent advice, Tripp, and communicate it so well.

  • @nirobrown3287
    @nirobrown3287 4 роки тому +105

    I've actually used the "what have you been up to lately?" line, it tends to work. But some girls don't seem to get the question, they just reply "nothing much", " fine", "good"... It's frustrating.

    • @diegotavel5872
      @diegotavel5872 4 роки тому +23

      Sorry to say this to you.
      But...
      They dont want to reply to your question.
      They know were are you going, and they dont want to go "there".
      When a woman answer with just one word is because they want to CUT the conversation.

    • @nirobrown3287
      @nirobrown3287 4 роки тому +1

      @@diegotavel5872 Nothing can be done about it then. I'll have that in mind, Thanks.

    • @youngsuit
      @youngsuit 4 роки тому +14

      My suggestion would find a way to first talk about what you've been up to instead as a starting point, then she'll be able to open up about what she's been up to or you ask about what you've done

    • @karinpowers1018
      @karinpowers1018 3 роки тому +11

      @@youngsuit I'm with you. When a guy just continually says "Hey." Or asks me "How are you?" "Whatcha been up to?" it tells me that he doesn't have much going on and wants me to entertain him. I can be an excellent conversationalist, but I don't want to always to all the work.
      Best advice for men: Take the lead.

    • @gruxyyy
      @gruxyyy 3 роки тому

      @@diegotavel5872 try to talk to her and person and ask question about her, they tend to answer better!

  • @Ohhitspugaa08
    @Ohhitspugaa08 4 роки тому +30

    Setting up a date after this quarantine is over. Worked since we can’t see each other rn besides FaceTime. 👌🏽

  • @Young_Ban
    @Young_Ban 4 роки тому +42

    I just called her yesterday... We talk for 1/2 hr due to covid

  • @ThaMobstarr
    @ThaMobstarr 4 роки тому +33

    Tripp with the Corona content. Like it.

  • @DatPrince
    @DatPrince 3 роки тому +11

    ONLY ONE THING no jitsu
    Stay confident no need to say sorry all the time she would start thinking ur too much dramatic
    Talk to her normally
    After sometime try to ask her personal things
    Become more closer
    Tell her about your feelings

    • @SnoopyReads
      @SnoopyReads Рік тому

      Never say you're sorry or talk about "your feelings", you can talk about her feelings though

  • @jacktramaseur8894
    @jacktramaseur8894 4 роки тому +10

    You have saved me from messing this up thanks my dude 👍

  • @busuulwalawrence6793
    @busuulwalawrence6793 3 роки тому +16

    oh lord have mercy..I don't want to mess up.. this 1st phone call. thanks for the tips..✔ and wish me luck 😁

    • @benedictmavedzenge3768
      @benedictmavedzenge3768 3 роки тому +1

      Any luck?

    • @clkgtr12
      @clkgtr12 3 роки тому +3

      @@benedictmavedzenge3768 it was 2 mins i fucked up

    • @clkgtr12
      @clkgtr12 3 роки тому

      @@benedictmavedzenge3768 A lil update we talked after that for an hour n a month later we met she was taller than me and friendzoned me
      I think its okay cuz im not in love with her or anything shes a good person so being friends isnt bad plus we stude in the same college

    • @joedirt3333
      @joedirt3333 2 роки тому

      @@clkgtr12 2 minutes? You couldn’t think of anything to say for 2 minutes bruh

    • @clkgtr12
      @clkgtr12 2 роки тому

      @@joedirt3333 yeah bro that was the first girl i ever called now i can talk for hours i just pushed myself and now it seems like nothing

  • @caveman354
    @caveman354 2 роки тому +9

    You see , this only works once in a while but if you’re talking to the girl almost every day for months on end is hard. Be prepared for awkward silences and being in the moment.

    • @JohnBeezy3
      @JohnBeezy3 2 роки тому +8

      You shouldn't be talking to a girl that much if you aren't seeing her. It will kill attraction 10/10.

    • @FplHorizon
      @FplHorizon Рік тому

      This!!! I had to stop calling her.

    • @crispypotatoes520
      @crispypotatoes520 4 місяці тому

      Facts im in that situation already

  • @Vortex-gh4ur
    @Vortex-gh4ur 4 роки тому +8

    I'm watching this video while talking to her..... Thanks man👍

  • @dmnvelo
    @dmnvelo 3 роки тому +6

    I met a girl at a party and we had a fun time got her number but she lives 1 hour away so we probably won’t see each other for a long time this helped ty

    • @lulnerd9619
      @lulnerd9619 2 роки тому

      Exact same situation dawg- how did that work out

  • @proudman6153
    @proudman6153 4 роки тому +5

    Lol. Nice advice. This is the reason your followers are more than the others.

  • @abdul-maliksomo7466
    @abdul-maliksomo7466 3 роки тому +6

    Rip for people who read books and listen video
    How to talk to girl 😂😂 just go and try urs

  • @davidstein9129
    @davidstein9129 9 місяців тому

    The information in this Vid was straight forward and helpful. It was very well presented.
    Thanks for posting it.

  • @miguelcastaneda1142
    @miguelcastaneda1142 3 роки тому +4

    I used your technique of the beach on phone with her lol thank you. Now it's been almost a year me and her

  • @rvw8066
    @rvw8066 3 роки тому +8

    Have a plan, ask her out, get off the phone. That’s it.

    • @SnoopyReads
      @SnoopyReads Рік тому

      Call her when she's not busy is another key

  • @amarecudjoe9501
    @amarecudjoe9501 Рік тому +7

    Why is talking on the phone way harder than talking in person

    • @crispypotatoes520
      @crispypotatoes520 4 місяці тому

      This is funny but legit 😂

    • @crispypotatoes520
      @crispypotatoes520 4 місяці тому

      This is funny but legit she gets bored and then thinks i dont love her anymore 😂😢

  • @sohaibn.
    @sohaibn. 2 роки тому +3

    the exact advice I was looking for

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 4 роки тому +21

    Talk, compliment and get her talking about things she likes!! Make her confortable men, stay strong🔥🤘❤

    • @privxete4089
      @privxete4089 4 роки тому +6

      Compliment only rarely

    • @j.t.r1976
      @j.t.r1976 4 роки тому +6

      Umm comfortable is not what she wants.wise up!

    • @str7637
      @str7637 4 роки тому +5

      Jason Rench comfortable in a way that its not getting awkward.

    • @h.9089
      @h.9089 4 роки тому +4

      FALSE. Do not compliment her much and pull her into YOUR world instead of hers.

    • @truenorthaffirmations7049
      @truenorthaffirmations7049 4 роки тому

      @@h.9089 im a man, a man gives credit where its due, im not going to kiss her ass, but that should go without saying, theres too much bullshit advice on how to be a man, its simple, be the utmost respectable and honorable man who takes care of business,

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Місяць тому +1

    *Start with light and open-ended questions about her day or interests. Show genuine curiosity about her thoughts, and don’t just talk about yourself. Listening actively and responding thoughtfully helps build connection and keeps the conversation going smoothly.*

  • @randallhehe
    @randallhehe 3 роки тому +6

    thanks for the tips, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. we usually text a lot, and we'll meet up with each other about 4 times during a week if there's a school session. but we never call or video call each other. ajajsjsjs

    • @gamernd6591
      @gamernd6591 2 роки тому

      same bro😅

    • @SnoopyReads
      @SnoopyReads Рік тому

      If you're seeing each other 4 times a week there's no reason to talk on the phone or FaceTime

  • @tgdraco6408
    @tgdraco6408 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks I usually stay on the phone with my girl for 4 hours but probably 6 or 7 now thanks

  • @johncarter6852
    @johncarter6852 4 роки тому +4

    i have used all three in the past (*independently from anyone telling me),...and it seems to work on some! (*it's never a be all and end all)

  • @benholland9987
    @benholland9987 4 роки тому +6

    I am Terrified of her,I just wanna say,stop disturbing me but really hard to say!

  • @Family-guy-shorts.x3694
    @Family-guy-shorts.x3694 2 роки тому +9

    Is there any student who is watching this video 😂😂😂

  • @z.p.m.n.8240
    @z.p.m.n.8240 2 роки тому +7

    Don't be scared to make a good Ole fashion phone call boys, the ladies are all too comfortable with texting, that's their frame.They put little if any effort into it. But When they hear their phone ringing, and see your contact pop up, she has no choice but to come out her frame and put forth a lil effort. The power of vocal conversation vs. texts is huge.
    you've just separated yourself from the 95% of other guys who big talk behind text msg, and play into that whole " it's weird to call a girl nowadays" BS .FYI it's weird to think it's weird.
    If she doesn't answer, no worries, leave a nice lil Voice- mail. Either way your pulling her outta frame.
    It's produced for me anyways, my personality isnt always compatible with a tiny lil written txt msg..
    If she's pulled away, wait a couple weeks then call ..... perfect

    • @armyblinkstayoncemoomooorb7932
      @armyblinkstayoncemoomooorb7932 2 роки тому

      im a girl and i asked him out and im always the one messaging and calling him, men are so confusinggg, he never makes the first move

    • @aryankumar87771
      @aryankumar87771 Рік тому +2

      @@armyblinkstayoncemoomooorb7932 them not making the first move is actually what keeps you hooked
      I'm not saying all men do this on purpose, but I do it sometimes when I'm too afraid to lose her or when I really like her, mostly the latter

  • @Mike-bi7vg
    @Mike-bi7vg 3 роки тому +3

    I'm driving the PHX in a few weeks to go see the girl, wish me luck lol

  • @martelofficial3354
    @martelofficial3354 2 роки тому +2

    this is so helpful

  • @josevidalmedina3189
    @josevidalmedina3189 2 роки тому +1

    So helpful I appreciate itim in that situation, where I have plans not till later because of money issues

  • @brayan1621
    @brayan1621 3 роки тому +1

    So this is on my recommended,could this be a sign,I think yes

  • @AchanShimray-s3z
    @AchanShimray-s3z Рік тому +2

    Bro now I have no words left to tell her I've said everything in chat that u told
    Plz help me 🥺

  • @Ketho_chielie
    @Ketho_chielie 4 роки тому +9

    Present you videos along with written points

  • @HeyWhatsNewToday
    @HeyWhatsNewToday 3 роки тому +6

    dude thanks a lot. my long time crush is now my girlfriend. I still can't believe it. definitely looking forward to do stuff we wished to do.

  • @TomFox1
    @TomFox1 4 роки тому +13

    Talk to her like she your best friend.

    • @privxete4089
      @privxete4089 4 роки тому +13

      #friendzoned

    • @Sharivvv
      @Sharivvv 4 роки тому +1

      Thats how i do but the problem is she doesn't talk alot when she sees me or talking to me. I dont always her. What i want is to be a romantic .

    • @Capro10
      @Capro10 7 місяців тому

      Like she's your mom

  • @oficialterra
    @oficialterra 3 роки тому +4

    Funny how its basically Q&A stuff. But it's horrifying how it's not Q&A stuff. I mean she already knows the props. Then what .🥶🥶

  • @spirit-teacher
    @spirit-teacher 3 роки тому +6

    Tripp you're the best!!!!

  • @Skyman08
    @Skyman08 3 роки тому +2

    About to call her now, so hopefully this works.

  • @kakabraza8869
    @kakabraza8869 Рік тому +1

    I think I've already messed up 😭

  • @arenavisionTV
    @arenavisionTV 9 місяців тому

    Great video! It really works.

  • @nugget4059
    @nugget4059 3 роки тому +3

    Me being 14 watching this

  • @z-root8955
    @z-root8955 3 місяці тому

    You know it's bad when you ended up here

  • @mayureshpatade3039
    @mayureshpatade3039 3 роки тому +2

    Well I used the idea of sharing something and , I am certain that she gets excited too but when I say what about u . She's like nothing . Any help!?

  • @daydreamer3898
    @daydreamer3898 Рік тому +1

    Me who have zero talent in talking to girls😅

  • @mribrahim3902
    @mribrahim3902 4 роки тому +9

    What do u desire? aka lucifer series style, best workin

  • @Nico1a5
    @Nico1a5 4 роки тому +7

    WHAT IF
    They ask why do you want to talk?

    • @zachvizion
      @zachvizion 4 роки тому +1

      Nico1a5 The best thing to do is being honest with her about your intentions.

    • @Joseville007
      @Joseville007 4 роки тому +1

      Tell them why you called.

    • @Nico1a5
      @Nico1a5 4 роки тому

      well you should tell them even if they dont ask

    • @biden6970
      @biden6970 3 роки тому +3

      Say you just wanna hear her voice

    • @karinpowers1018
      @karinpowers1018 3 роки тому +3

      Yes, tell her that you want to hear her voice. Tell her why she is special to you. Tell her that you are calling her because it's the next best thing to being in her presence.
      Then report back. 😍

  • @bluemoon9412
    @bluemoon9412 3 роки тому +2

    So this is where I find all the socially fucking AWKWARD and unfunctionable people like me:) hi guys

  • @impact_1k108
    @impact_1k108 Рік тому

    thanks for the advice 🙈

  • @lahaza6515
    @lahaza6515 Рік тому

    It's hard to find videos on these subjects that don't have "girl" or "guy" in the title.
    What about grown people?
    I know a man who lives a state away.
    We've gone through periods of talking on the phone where I've felt the need to ask him questions because, while he calls me (used to be too often imo) his tone is very monotone, low energy even when he's laughing.
    I want to be more interested in him, but something about this annoys me to no end because I don't know why he hasn't noticed this in himself.
    When I've spoken to him I've made quite an effort not to take over the conversation, to learn more about him, but it's a lot of "yeah... I dunno, the new position is good, the hours & schedule are working out pretty good."
    And I end up wondering "why can't we talk about music or films or anything other than pragmatic day to day!?"
    I have a question if anyone happens to read this who has an opinion on it;
    He's attractive, but I noticed that his profile, nose, forehead and coloring are so similar to my father that it shook me.
    I don't know why it turns me off so much, but is that normal?
    If you met a woman who was attractive, yet her skin and features looked like she was directly from your gene pool would it turn you off?
    I'm sure I sound like a bizarre woman with a lot of expectations, but aside from the physical part, I just find it exhausting to carry the conversation each time.
    If I don't ask him a question he sort of slowly reiterates something we've spoken about previously.
    He's not a stupid man by any means, but I've made the mistake of thinking that still waters run deep before!:))

  • @southerncaliforniafreedom7927
    @southerncaliforniafreedom7927 4 роки тому +3

    Triple Ice give me some advice don't get me wrong I know how to spit my game two girls few couple times I got rejected in the past but no big deal but this coronavirus going on and people wore a mask and social distance how is that going to play out by game give me some advice is it a great idea to go up to a girl if she's worn at mask because she might pull away and I might end up getting hard court rejected or if that person is not wearing a mask I could go up to her I'm just being curious I just I think if this is a good question to ask you

  • @arnoldcab
    @arnoldcab 4 роки тому +12

    I'm actually in a pretty "tricky" situation with this girl. I went no contact after pushing too hard and she came back.
    We spoke on the phone and I managed to do 2/3 of these. Though i feel seeding for the date was the most important and its the one i forgot.
    (Realized it after hanging up too)
    good to know im on the right track but now idk if she wants to meet up or if the attraction is still there...😬

    • @tanzidnabi3454
      @tanzidnabi3454 4 роки тому +2

      Broo what happened with the girl?

    • @davidmbewe6683
      @davidmbewe6683 4 роки тому

      @@tanzidnabi3454 😂😂😂

    • @sirRustyiron
      @sirRustyiron 2 роки тому +3

      @@tanzidnabi3454 she is with me now, bro lost his chance sadly

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 Рік тому

      @@sirRustyiron omg

  • @atteindresiempredad
    @atteindresiempredad 2 роки тому +1

    What if you just want to take her to a normal bar?

  • @damionclift1736
    @damionclift1736 2 роки тому

    Thx bro I used them all

  • @GENUINEKAI
    @GENUINEKAI 4 роки тому

    Lol my boy showed me this. Imma fuck with it free

  • @shi.www.youtube
    @shi.www.youtube Рік тому +1

    I met a girl then we started dating in 3 days and I have no idea what to say

    • @SnoopyReads
      @SnoopyReads Рік тому

      Just ask her questions about her past, family, jobs, relationships etc...women won't shutup about themselves once they get started

  • @gussyaeo96
    @gussyaeo96 Рік тому

    Im at a situation where the girl i used to like past days and now shes calling me everyday like morning and evening or night and she doesn't hang up call too and i dont get any words to say or talk about someone please help 😓

    • @SnoopyReads
      @SnoopyReads Рік тому

      If you don't want to talk to her tell her to call less or just don't answer

  • @simbarashechingaira833
    @simbarashechingaira833 2 роки тому

    Goose bumps

  • @brbhave2p00p4
    @brbhave2p00p4 4 роки тому +4

    Schedule a corona beer date

  • @Prince-zd3pe
    @Prince-zd3pe 4 роки тому

    going to use

  • @andressuarez2355
    @andressuarez2355 2 роки тому

    Hey man how are you?? Bro I have a each problems becouse I speak in Spanish and I don't know how communicate whit a American girl and I don't know is pretty difficult. What can I do in this situation???:(

  • @somebodyoncerolledme7211
    @somebodyoncerolledme7211 3 роки тому +3

    This is good advice, but kinda worried about this girl I met NEEDING to talk on the phone very day.
    It's gonna be difficult to come up with new conversations, so I'll try cutting the conversation down to about 10 minutes because it's too early for 30 minute plus calls at the minute

  • @suthan1528
    @suthan1528 Рік тому

    Does this also apply to indians

  • @chr0med424
    @chr0med424 2 роки тому

    Thanks

  • @wantonquest
    @wantonquest 2 роки тому +1

    You look like John Krasinski. Are you?

  • @syeda6213
    @syeda6213 8 місяців тому

    Using this for my sales . Its amazing how both dating and sales are lost twins lol

  • @andythompson20
    @andythompson20 7 місяців тому

    Theres thing s i want to say but like i have social excited

  • @elijahmorgan3498
    @elijahmorgan3498 4 роки тому

    Feel u braa

  • @benholland9987
    @benholland9987 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks,but I am really terr

  • @austinramos71to23
    @austinramos71to23 3 роки тому

    Why not draw a girl and just make your own

  • @demidemi00
    @demidemi00 4 роки тому +5

    So be mysterious and at the same time entertain yourself? Talk about you a lot and the things you wish you could be doing

    • @j.t.r1976
      @j.t.r1976 4 роки тому

      What a turn on

    • @karinpowers1018
      @karinpowers1018 3 роки тому

      Show that you have a passion or two in life. That's a turn on.

  • @tumzah-2692
    @tumzah-2692 Рік тому

    I watched this

  • @calebwilburn6088
    @calebwilburn6088 2 роки тому

    Song

  • @zoxeyt4885
    @zoxeyt4885 2 роки тому

    1:45

  • @SurprisedHammerheadShark-ev4cl
    @SurprisedHammerheadShark-ev4cl 10 місяців тому

    We are dumbies my guys button😂 >>>>>>>>

  • @vishalsarkar2343
    @vishalsarkar2343 4 роки тому +3

    You say nothing

    • @DusskStudios
      @DusskStudios 3 роки тому +2

      my guy does not have ears LMFAO

  • @ILL_Poet
    @ILL_Poet 9 місяців тому

    First step find a gir

  • @drxpzi5209
    @drxpzi5209 3 роки тому +1

    XYZ LOL

  • @kiwimemes5991
    @kiwimemes5991 2 роки тому

    this doesnt work scamer

  • @elijahmorgan3498
    @elijahmorgan3498 4 роки тому +1

    But does this work for teens to?

  • @SlainMM2
    @SlainMM2 Місяць тому

    What about killing my fish on accident he accidentally ate my phone

  • @BagofSands
    @BagofSands 4 роки тому +3

    tripp everytime you wear charcoal colored clothing god kills a kitten

  • @abdulazizhawsah9884
    @abdulazizhawsah9884 4 роки тому

    😁

  • @Demon_YT11224
    @Demon_YT11224 5 місяців тому

    All we do is love things and nice things to each other

  • @jasonreimer4742
    @jasonreimer4742 2 місяці тому

    Dude I lost interest as soon as he said it's better to text and talk on the phone you're a freaking wiener dog

  • @Demon_YT11224
    @Demon_YT11224 5 місяців тому

    I just got a girl end dont know What to sey

  • @benholland9987
    @benholland9987 4 роки тому

    I am Terrified of her,I just wanna say,stop disturbing me but really hard to say!