Im Sweating Ep. 5: Mental Health
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- {CONTENT WARNINGS} This one is a little longer and deeper than our usual podcast. In this episode, we sit down and discuss each of our journeys with mental health. This is unedited it the most part. With that, there is some obvious content warning of self-harm, suicide, and eating disorders.
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This was one of your best videos so far. Being vulnerable is terrifying but also the biggest power move. Thank you both for sharing your stories ❤❤
We love talking about trauma and mental health issues 💜 I love y’all so much 🥺 and I hope you’re learning good coping mechanisms to help with the struggles
Also I am totally here for either of you whenever you need to talk to someone 💜
I don't see my first comment showing so I'm going to recap.....dont identify with the train! Identify with the destination! Someday you will reach the happiest point in your life. That is your destination! That is the real you! When you have a child, you will be able to give that child what you needed others to give you. And just like it was with Kelsie, you will finally feel complete!
I hope my first comment got saved. This one is separate because Kaylee, I want you to know that it is easy for me to see that you need to watch this with me together, so I can tell you exactly who and what is to blame for these traumatic experiences. It is not you in even a little way! But you have always been unable to separate your guilt feelings from other people's guilt feelings. When you were very young, you cried at school when anybody on the classroom got reprimanded, as if it was you who did something wrong, but you were innocent just as you are now.
Kaylee, again, the problem is a combination of you being extremely advanced. You are empathic and extremely sensitive. Combine that with the ruthless, inconsiderate, ignorant people that refuse to take ownership for your experiences, and anyone in your position would be traumatized! Believe me, it read frustrating. I saw all this coming while we were going through it. Nobody listened!
Kaylee I identify with the side of you that is so sad and gets chocked up easily. This will require meds. Your current med is loosing it's effectiveness, which is causing you to feel worse than you did before you took them. It's all chemical, your body adjusted to the med. I've been there many times! I know! Right now I know of a med that will instantly relieve you. Unfortunately it's a narcotic and is addictive ( your body gets used to it and you need more for the same effect). With my guidance, you will reach your destination (motherhood) and that's where the real healing takes place!
Kaylee, notice your fear of losing friends..,.it is the same as the divorce, and you can't help but feel it's your fault because you make the mistake of assuming others are as sane as you......they are not! That is your vote issue, it began subconsciously in your first year of life.....Fear Of Abandonment! I saw that coming. I brought up the issue at court, but to them and your mom, I was considered ignorant because of my concentration issues!
So Nice 💘💘💘💘💘💘
You are both well on your way towards healing. You have the courage to publicize your issues. That shows you know the value of your genuineness. I know you both and sense you both are going to be fine. As a 58 year old man, it's easier for me to realize the things you possibly may be blind to because of your age. The point where you are in life is really a lot to blame. You are "between seasons" emotionally you are at the age of individuating. That means your adult coping skills and your personalities are developing. That too, puts you "between seasons" emotionally. It's important to BALANCE your perspective, which can only be done by done by reminding yourself that there is a place in the future when you will no longer be between seasons. It is a place where you will be Mothers, have more new friends again (from occupation), and husband too! Remind yourself constantly, you are currently on the train home. If you make the mistake of thinking you are at your destination already, you will have issues.....anyone would who makes that error.