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I love you Jamie, you are the most wholesome and amazing creators on here! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
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May you please stop leaving out Omni when you talk about multisexual identities bi and pan are not the only ones.
What is a woman
I'm laughing so hard at the bi and pan comic because my brain automatically read "smooching noises! smooching noises! these are the noises of smooching!" in OT's voice.
Same! 😂
As a pansexual I can confirm. I had a relationship with two bi people. ❤️
I READ YOUR COMMENT IN OTS VOICE! WHY IS THIS HAPPENING?!
@@pur3chao56 OT is too powerful. We can't resist!
I‘m pretty sure the person who made this watches OT, this is too accurately him to be a coincidence
Two things:
The trans ≠ straight things has happened to me, I told my mom I had a lesbian friend and she was so confused because the friend was also trans. She was also *concerned* because I had had crushes on two trans people??
And then! Recently, my aunt came out as trans, and it's super sweet, my other aunt is super supportive and they still have such a sweet relationship, even if the cis aunt struggles with getting things right 100% of the time
That's happened to my BFF and I too. She's a trans lesbian, and I'm a trans-masc pan. We were already close friends before either of us came out, and now we joke that we've just traded genders. It's also frustrating that people wonder why we haven't hooked up already. It's like, dude, she's more or less my sister! And I'm not a woman anymore!
Non binary = straight though
@@neuralmute Transwoman are male or female?
@@garyrandom7512 It's right in the name, dude. Trans women are women.
@@neuralmute My question is not "Are transwoman woman?" My question is are transwoman male or female?
I recently found out that I am also one of the asexuals who often don’t get the sexual meaning of things. My grandma kept talking about the nice man who moved in with their neighbor, played with her daughter and helped around the house. I thought for over two years that he was just living there. Turns out he‘s the neighbors boyfriend.
*OT voice* And they were roommates!!
I'm sorry, I'm also an oblivious aroace who didn't even realise two of my housemates were dating for half a year. It just was too fitting not to make that joke
All throughout high school, when someone would say someone was cute, I got confused as why are you seeing them that way (I associated cute with dog or other small innocent furry, feathery or scaled animal). Whenever the word hot was used, I thought they were talking about someone having a fever, but always thought that didn't make sense based on the context of the conversation so my brain just decided to ignore it because it couldn't figure out it was an aesthetic attraction thing that I just don't experience. But yeah, I am also one of those aces.
As pan person the nonstick pan joke was amazing
yeah lmao
Agreed. I was thinking 'Ohhh, maybe *that's* why I can't get a long term relationship to work out right...'
I herd that one and went DAMN. That one smarts but also made me laugh. I need to scratch off my non-stick coating!
@@userbunny14 Does this mean we need some hardcore exfoliation routine or something?
RIGHT? Like, honestly, when I was younger and people asked me if I f***ed cookwear, it got tiring, but these days I just embrace that shit, and the "non-stick pan" was honestly well thought out and punny as hell!
Fun fact: Defenestration is a word for the act of throwing something or someone out of a window.
LGBallT is so entertaining and adorable.
Yes!!!
Yes
I agree
This is one of my favorite types of videos!
@@Incognito-rf7vd hey what is the flag on the left of your pfp?
This is a dumb story but I just remembered. I'm ace. And I was talking to a friend about TV shows I don't remember the specifics but he said. "There was a Bone Scene." and I got Excited because I thought he meant there was a scene in which the focus was Bones for some reason and after I got excited he had to clarify that he meant a Sex Scene because he knew there was no way I suddenly got hype about a sex scene. I don't usually think about being Ace very often but that was one of the very few moments that I became Painfully Aware of my Ace-hood.
My friend doesn’t know I am not cishet, and the things people will say when they just, expect that, always trips me up. Like no, I was not even considering how their gender related to physical compatibility, I completely forget that people will just experience sexual attraction right away and start talking about it, like my guy I was thinking they would be fun to hang out with i was not picturing their crotch and mine and jumping to scenarios or judgements related to that
Matt Walsh recently made a video on aces and aros where he said literally all of the phobic stuff in that cartoon. It was the first time I've personally experienced arophobia so blatantly (yes, I know I'm lucky). But I figure if I'm pissing off Matt Walsh just by existing, that's a win, right?
Matt Walsh should look in his bible. Because Jesus in bible was clearly an ace and an aro.
It's a big win 🎉
Map Walsh is a piece of garbage who deserves nothing.
Being wrong about things is pretty much the only thing Matt is good at. Well, the only thing he's good at which is legal.
Nah u loose
3:27 I'll just take the OT approach:
Gaydar noises. Gaydar noises. Gaydar noises. These are the noises of a gaydar.
The gaydar noise would obviously be "I was born this way" by Lady Gaga
9:29 right here I relate my sister dose something like that a nickname she calls me and it warms my heart it’s something you call a man and I all ways make weird noises
aww no Jamie showed the old comic! (11:50) I have remade it
also that is the heteroflexible flag, not ally
I'm a bisexual who married a pansexual. We talked about our identities, understand why we chose the label we chose, and we are both cool with it. I just feel more comfortable calling myself bisexual than pansexual but I totally respect my partner and anyone who feels more comfortable with the pansexual label. It's all love in the end!
11:08 my friend's girlfriend when someone asked if she was cis. She's was like 'Oh, shit! Maybe not!'
That comic with the bi ball and the straight that then realizes its ACE is EXACTLY what happened to me!
I needed this, there is a terf touring the country giving speeches and violence breaking out between the transphobes and people in support of humans having rights. I felt the invalidation down to my bones.
My cousin came out to me as MTF & I was just like "ok, &?" I kind of felt like I didn't give them the reaction that they were looking for. But my muted response was from confusion because of all the build up. It felt like it was going to something along the line of "I just found out that I have an inoperable brain tumor & will be dead within 12 weeks." & then all that it is is that you are trans?
“Yeet that chair”
-Jamie 2023
10:44 I have like three or four Transfem friends named Lily, it's a meme that all transfems are legally obligated to choose a name that starts with L (I also fall into that trope)
Gaydar is the feeling of feeling safe, it’s a sign the persons either lgbtq and/or neurodivergent for me, so it wouldn’t make a sound, but I think I’d smell cookies 😅
Synaesthesia?
@@melissabarrett9750 no, I just mean it’s just a more gentle feeling than a sound would be for me 🍪
Today at school while I was waiting for my mom to pick me up at school, and I was with my friend and we were talking to this guy and my friends seriously just blurted out "(dead name) is trans and gay yk! 😋" And I seriously felt like everyone was looking at me :/
The last one made me sad. When I came out, I lost my husband. We'd been together 13 years. That was 7 years ago. I've yet to find an accepting partner, and I miss him very much. Things were complicated, and there was a lot more going on than that, but that part still really hurts.
Regarding the part where they run through all the horrible things people say = I will never understand hate. Aside from the awfulness, It's so much energy spent for no personal gain. From a purely selfish point of view, hate makes no logical sense. It's also like the old adage about taking poison hoping someone else gets sick, hatred is just bad for your physically too.
Ace woman giving lots of love and hugs to all of my LGBallT buddies. You are incredible and valid and I wish you all the good things in life. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳🌈🏳⚧
❤🧡💛💚🩵💙💜 thank youu! Aro ball here, wishing you all that + the hug we need after those negative comments hitting our balls
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Ace love! 💜
Demi-pan, poly and librafluid ball here! 🤗❤️🩷🧡💛💚🩵🩵💜🩶🤍🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ All the love and hugs to you all!
Non Binary ball here wishing you the best aswell! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Oriented aroace tomboy! Support for you and everyone else! 😊🖤🤍💚💜 ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
The realization that any noise Jamie makes while happy and confused is a “happy confused trans noise”, which means he nailed the sound effects for that comic by default
The "gaydar/pandar" comic is a funny demo of why I call it "queerdar."
And the bi/pan conflict definitely happens a lot more on social media than RL. And then it's not that huge without trolls or fools getting involved. More and more people realize bisexual history got attacked by TERFs. Those of us in the thick of the arguments with GLs about our very existence felt like it was the same shit all over again from people who should've recognized our commonality, new label or not (with an unhealthy dose of misunderstanding and resultant BS). And well-meaning people took mis-education as accurate and were shocked to find out they were wrong in a way that disturbed part of the foundation of their identity. It'd help all people in the future if more people understood they should not define themselves by what they think they aren't compared to other people. It's about what you are. Comparing and contrasting and thinking it makes you "more evolved" to be something else is bias in action. (Side note: I also see this with polyamory and sapiosexuality, and I want all of those sorts to grow the feck up, too.)
I just came out in Jan, and thankfully, other than the "you will be a really tall woman " comments from my mother, there has not been very many dysphoria enduring comments from her
8:31 as a pansexual with trust issues struggling to date and be in relationships, im TOTALLY describing myself as a nonstick pan💖💛💙
Is it only me who heard The” smooching noises, smooching noises, these are the noises of smooching” in OTs voice
Omg the heteroflexible one at the end was SO CUUUTE AAA
Every time Jamie looks to the side, I see if his glasses reflection lines up with the chair. I have been doing this for two years, since I found this account
Guys have a million hugs from me! Happy to give all the love to fellow queer people! My parents should have given me about 6000 more hugs than they did, so I reckon I'll try to be giving 6000 hugs to others who had non-accepting parents. You are all loved and have our support.
And if you're watching this video to be homophobic, transphobic, biphobic, aphobic, queerphobic, etc, please just don't. Don't ruin someone's week. Show basic human respect. Thanks
Excuse me, did I hear someone express a possible need of mama hugs?
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Insert any sequence here that pertains to you!
@@missnaomi613 🖤🩶🤍💜! You're a gem!
I’m glad you didn’t include “nbphobic” that shit’s not real.
@@science_bear sorry, I should have specified that nbphobic most certainly is included! It falls under queerphobic, but thanks for the reminder to be more specific
@@j.apenrose7896 that’s identical to saying heterophobic falls under queerphobic, which it most certainly is not.
Heterophobia isn’t even real.
i have heard and dealt with that technically or biologically straight question. Ya know it gets funnier when they ask it unprompted to someone whom isn't straight. I am Nonbinary, aroace to the point there is no attraction at all. And I got it asked that before. My response was "I am not drunk enough for this."
Dear Creator, to answer your question first, the gaydar noise i think should be a nuclear air raid siren. It combines the warning rhythm and the wave rhythm so covers both vocalizations. This is my favorite series of yours because I think how you analyze them and react to them is truly great, I rarely disagree with your interpretations. The latter is a big thank you, I keep watching your every video for preparation of launching my Twitch stream, name [redacted, this is not self-promotion intended]. I come off as very cold to my audiences and I want to learn how to appear more warm because that is how I perceive your pattern. Keep up the good work! Thank you again.
I am 🖤🤍💜
I get told I’m just not sexually mature yet, I haven’t found the right one, I’m broken, I’m confused, it’s just a phase, I’m mentally ill and that’s why I’m Ace, etc. I kind of just stopped trying to justify myself.
Hugs for everybody who wants hugs and smiles to those who hate hugs.
Hello fellow ace! You’re valid af!
I'm Aspec and I've been married for years. So....
Gaydar would just be "Yaaas! Yaaass! Yaaass!" and when you get a blip or a hit it goes "Queen!" At least mine does but its half broken.
In my 40s and my parents have constantly reminded me I’m allowed to date now… 😅 nobody guess an Ace in the closet
Gaydar sounds like 'Silence' by Razzix. Audio rainbows and a general acknowledgement of the nearby friend's soul
I have had a pretty bad experience and overall idea of trans people because I am a pretty big conservative and because of Dylan Mulvaney, but this is too wholesome to not like. This was the first trans person I encountered on UA-cam and he was first to show me that not all people in a group can be bad. Thank you for the video, it always makes me smile!
As a *deep breath* Transsexual (ftm) Panromantic Acesexual polygamous I love all jokes having to do with my gender or sexuality! So as apart of the pan community I loved the joke where it said “maybe your a nonstick-pan” I will always rember it
I was going to say, the most "ace-phobic" thing I've run into over the years is the whole "Hey, look at that guy, isn't he hot?" thing. Like, I actually feel bad because I know they're trying to relate to me and have a shared experience and I'm just like, "Uuum, yeah, you see... the thing is..."
the gaydar noise is just cavetown songs slowed and with reverb
"Lemon boy and I... Started to get along... Together...."
I love all of Jammi's sound effects throughout this video. Extremely wholesome. Also, one of my favorite subreddits.
I’m aromantic, and seeing the ‘You’ll find a date someday’ has always triggered me
2:37 Some women have wide shoulders because they are doing workouts.
The gaydar would just say ✨slay✨ over and over again lol
It the most un amused, straight faced voice there is
The noise a gaydar makes would probably be 'Born This Way' on repeat
For everyone who needs a hug. Here is a warm bear hug 🤗
5:06 - Welp! Time to get out the OT summoning noises over on LGBallT! Raise the OT signal light!
someone telling ace "you will die a virgin"
ace- That's the point :I
(note that not all aces are repulsed, some can still enjoy it, but just don't feel attraction, its a spectrum)
@@Izzythemaker127 noted 📖✏
10:47 I think its because a lot of trans women choose the name Lily? Like trans men going for Kai or something. Out of all of the options, everyone picks the same
3:20 "Gaydar noises! Gaydar noises! These are the sounds of a gaydar!" - OT maybe
Gaydar sounds like the "gay gay homosexual gay" from the "i can still hear his voice" meme
As someone with a lot of flags I love watching these vids and I can say that most of these are really accurate.
5:03 HOLY $#1+ IS THAT AN [One Topic] REFERENCE?!?!
I am genderfluid and my partner of 4 years is agender. Over quarantine we both started questioning our genders. I came out to them first and then about a month later they came out to me. We like to joke that I stole their gender
These videos of Jamie reacting to LGBallT always put me in such a good mood. The LGBallTs are so adorable.
Honestly, I use bi and pan sexual interchangeably, I tell people I’m bi but that basically just means I don’t care about gender when it comes to relationships.
10:55 I was wondering what flag the purple and orange one is and I did a bit of research. It is an exclusionist flag apparently, so them picking up a wand to "end transphobia" gives the whole thing a completely new meaning and not a good one at that. It is actually kind of fucked up tbh, but stuff like that often flies under the radar between all the more niche flags on that reddit. Just wanted to let anyone know that was wondering about what the meme meant.
*hugs and validation for those in need of it*
Gaydar noise:GAY GAY YOU GO GIRLY POP GAY
The gaydar wouldn't sound like "YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSS QWEEEEEEEEN!!!!!"
Yaaaaasssssqueeeeeennnnn
I think the sound of a gaydar would be the sound that the tardis makes in doctor who lol
On the Lily one it's because the name Lily is common among transfemmes
very common
Me: I wonder if I’ll get married when I’m older.
My anxiety: Nah, no one would want to be with someone who is a s3x repulsed ace.
Me: 🥲
Idk bout y’all but my gay dar is a large sniff noise, so you can be like “I smell a gay” or “you smell gay”
My brain at 5:07:OT!!!!!!!
AS A SCOTTISH TRANS PERSON, 8:40 IS A YES
Gaydar noise would just be "G A Y" but it gets louder and faster if it detects something or someone G A Y
I'm pan & I think that non-stick pan joke was hilarious!!!
My aunts had something like that last meme.
And there are, in fact anti-transohobe wands. It just so happens that the older type is almost exclusively used by lesbians and the new one consumes ammunition
maybe gaydar uses the noise kitt makes on knight rider first pass to find the gay person the second pass to confirm lol
The add I got when clicking on this vid was for the Netflix show you and started with "it is crucial not to be noticable", and I think it's hilarious to have this one a trans video cos yea, same xD
As OT would say: *Gaydar noises* *Gaydar noises* *this is the sound a gaydar makes!*
I’m pretty sure the name shoppe joke is that Lily is a very stereotypical trans girl name. (It’s my middle name!)
3:13 a couple years ago me and my friend took picture together and we posted them, the picture Included a wall with bees painted on them, (unfortunately it was on a schools wall and it got painted over last year) and my friend gave me the bright idea to post it with the caption "birds and the enBEES" I still have it posted on my ig and I think I always will. At the time I went by nonbinary so it was perfect. The aromantic one at 6:07 while it's derogatory I unfortunately relate to it, I came out to an aid at my school as aroallo, someone who I'm very close too, but she responded with "so at this point in your life you're feeling like this? I thought you liked cuddling though how do you know for sure?" It hurt and because I wanted to explain it deeply to her but it hasn't rlly come up in a Convo anytime soon and I don't even know if I can come out to my classmates
9:22 I adore this bit so much !!
And, one of my favorite parts is the happy trans noises. Yea, don't ask me, but I had to leave this comment mostly so I have a timestamp to easily find it later.🥰☺
I'm gonna get my first binder soon and am really excited! Has anyone got recommendations for good brands?
I feel like the gaydar is just playing Rhianna and seeing who starts dancing
As an ace/aro, I am constantly TOLD that thats a mental illness and that I'm straight but being difficult or frigid or refusing to conform. How many times can you tell someone I'm not attracted to you at ANY level except maybe platonic? Why does that make me the inhumane and unnatural one? Plenty of others that ARE straight, go pester them. I just wont share my cake with you!
Uhg aro here, same.
Ppl scrutonizing my past relationships saying it is all trauma and/ar selfishness...
Anyway, here to give out the virtual hug queerball suggested.. if you want it ofc!
😉🌈🤗
Here's a cake and a hug if consented ! As i have been named "cyborg" by a TEACHER for this, i feel it hard. (It was years ago, i dont care anymore)
What we do is let substandard garlic bread go stale. Then we pelt the aphobes with rock hard bread until the stop moving or pestering us. Whichever comes first.
I seriously don't understand some people.
Have they just never had a good quality platonic love for someone? It's very fulfilling. Friends or QPP, either way, it's great. ❤
I mean, not even just that. You can be whole and fulfilled from self love, love for your community, love for nature and the world.
I mean people make jokes about being married to their job, but it's always framed in the lonely, doesn't have good relationships way. If your job brings you joy and you are getting your emotional needs met, there is nothing wrong with that.
A lot of people are lonely and want connections and as long as their pursuit of connection doesn't hurt them or others, why does it matter who or what form those connections takes?
Edit: But yes, if they can't be polite they don't deserve cake (eat it all right in front of them) and should be pelted with stale garlic bread (although, how the bread remained uneaten long enough to get stale is a mystery even if it is substandard).
People just out here unable to comprehend a life without any sort of attraction
While I’m not aro, I’m ace, and people still find it bizarre that I don’t get sexually attracted to people and it does get annoying when they try to like “talk you out of it”
I feel
So I have a cute and funny story related to the last comic. I have a bi friend that tends to lean mostly sapphic in her affections. After quite a while of dating pretty much just girls, she met a sweet young man at a ren fair kind of place and they started dating. Some years later, the egg cracked. When my friend's partner came out to her, her response to her girlfriend was to stare blankly for a moment and then say "goddamn, maybe I really am just a lesbian". Turns out this is not the only person she has dated that turned out to be a trans woman not yet out of the closet. However, it did turn out to be the last. They are now grossly adorable wives that practice swordplay together and live with their big orange tom cat.
Ok but that's sooooo cuuute
that story is so sweet im lowkey tearing up rn
And they say fairytales don’t exist.
I think that something similar happened to Abigail from PhilosophyTube. Some ex-girlfriends later came out as lesbians, lol.
That's really cool! Guess things really do work out well sometimes. 🙃
I had known someone for a year who had then identified as a lesbian girl (who was with a bi girl) but later came out as a trans guy.
As I later said to him "so that means you're actually straight" he looked at me in utter surprise and said "Holy shit, you're right! I gotta tell my girlfriend!" which was adorable 😂
Me, a lesbian who's with a bi (demi)girl and questioning if I'm trans, cis, or genderfluid: 👁👄👁
OMG THAT HAPPENED TO ME
At first I was a lesbian cisgender, then I was a lesbian bigender (she/he), then I came out as trans. And my friends are like: Wait a damn minute… If you’re a guy, and you like girls… YOU’RE STRAIGHT!
@@Dragonlover-kz7mk Get well soon 😔/j
LGBallT is just so adorable :D
Also a Gaydar would definitely sound like a frog
Those fricking chemicals
Wouldn't the bi-fi connection noise be a frog-like?
For gaydar, I keep imagining a handheld fan unfolding aggressively, and I blame Roly for that.
@@koivunen2489 I can hear this so clearly 😂💜
I imagine very aggressive cartoon sparkling
turn the freking frogs gay
I can understand the “technically or biologically” thing, although I ultimately disagree with that way of thinking about it.
My fiancé is from a totally different culture than mine, so the topic of transness was pretty unfamiliar to him. He’s also REALLY analytically-minded.
At first he did not understand why a trans guy would be gay if he likes guys and not straight because he’s like “well trans men and men, but being homosexual is about sex not gender” but when I compared it to adoption he understood perfectly. Because being a parent or being someone’s child is biological, it can also be social like with adoption. SOCIALLY they are parent and child and nobody is going to bring up biology because it’s irrelevant and hurtful to do so. They ARE parent and child. The same can be said about gay trans people. Why would we bring up a trans person’s biology every time their sexual orientation came up? That’s just rude and weird. We call them gay because socially, they are.
That is actually a really good way of explaining it to someone who doesn't understand, but is still curious. Gold star.
I love collecting explanations like this, for I am cursed with many people in my life who simply do not understand and my brain doesn't always have the capacity to make the metaphors make sense.
This one is doubly perfect because I am in fact adopted😂
Thank you so much for sharing!!
Even then biology is a lot more complicated than people assume. After a while on hrt (not that you need it to be valid), your body appears and behaves a lot more like the "opposite" sex, so calling trans women/men "biological males/females" is inaccurate.
This is a good explanation, I like it a lot.
But also, I would argue that being gay IS about gender, not about sex. Very few things related to human interaction are actually about sex, the exceptions being reproduction and some health issues.
@@jadelinny yeah, I was kind of thinking about that as I was typing it out. They are kind of both about gender.
I like the name-changing booth idea. Before I knew I was trans (FTM), my brother and I would spin and it even had a whole theme song about changing names. When you wanted to change your name. We'd hold hands and spin around, and after a couple spins your name was magically changed singing: " at the name changing plaaaacceee". I had always hated my name. He is still amazing and we are very close. I am lucky.
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Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are!
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My farts are better than Jamie’s farts
Thank you , you are to ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Thank you!!! 🏳️🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Yay!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you :)
When people ask me and/or my wife who "the man" is in the relationship, we respond; "we are both "the girl" in the relationship, that's kind of the point" 😉
I also recommend: "hey, but I'm confused about your relationship: who wears the dress, and who wears the other dress?"
@@unapologeticallylizzy
"What about the dress wearer?"
"We already have one."
"You have one, yes. But what about the second dress wearer?"
@@CarMedicine Precisely.
I've actually flipped this around by mentioning the old boomer stereotype that the woman really runs the relationship. So "the man" is actually the woman of the house in most straight relationships. Teehee
I remember a long time ago the chopstick meme helped get that. LOL, silly but it worked for me!
My brother and his friend had a running gag that his friend was gay for years because teenage boys. Then she came out to us as a trans lesbian and we were really like "SO WE WERE RIGHT!". We love her
I mean, trans and gay aren't synonymous though
@@Jane-oz7pp I absolutely agree but she's a trans lesbian now
@@Jane-oz7ppshe is trans *AND* gay, kinda like that song from the legally blonde musical, where the guy is gay *AND* European, people can be multi faceted
fyi, women don't have penises
@@marxandengelsgodandangels8634 They do, actually.
My daughter is a lesbian and I've had people say, "she could still change her mind." Like, nah, I've known since she was 10.
I've always imagined that gaydar would sound like a soft, questioning "heeeeeeey?" and the closer you get to the gay person it would be a loud, positive HAAAY! (like an enthusiastic one you'd shout at your friend when you are surprised to see them)
What I was looking for, the gayest sound is just "Heeey~"
😂😂😂that's too cool!! Best suggestion yet
I imagined a whole bunch of little "yassses"
@@gregorywiederecht same 😅
"HEY GIRL HEY!"
3:20 If I learned ONE THING from OT, it's sounds, so it clearly makes:
*gaydar noises*. *gaydar noises*. *these are the sounds of a gaydar*.
Edit: And now it's also in the video...
God I love the ace jokes they make in LGBallT! It makes me as happy as when I eat cake!
They’re great!! Almost as good as garlic bread 😉💜
@@mailyak442 yes
Cake and garlic bread with tea is good
just wait until you’ve tried garlic bread flavoured cake
@@asawubi 😂
I'm guessing the name shoppe thing was that the clerk went "really? That one again?" because Lily really sounds like it'd be real common among trans women, right up there with Lilith and Luna
Don't worry girls I love that name too, I have a Hunter: the Reckoning character lined up whose name is Lily and I didn't even think of that when I wrote her. She also goes by Lilith when performing so I'm double dipping into that "popular trans girls' names" pile lmao
Now you mention it, I know a trans Lily 😆
If you pause it on the list, lily isn't on it. It's also got a couple hidden "jokes" as well lol
@@jvseventeen "Sorry we're all out of Lily" 😂
@@hannahk1306 I've met like, five trans Lily's lol they're everywhere and growing in numbers as we speak
I don't hang out with... well, anyone really, so I don't know many trans women personally, but just in terms of UA-cam I can name two trans women named Lily (plus one Lilith) so this tracks. Was checking the comments to see if anyone else thought this was what that joke meant, glad to see I wasn't totally off base!
That last one with the couple reminds me of the Magnus Chase series by Rick Riordan (who wrote Percy Jackson - it's like that but Norse mythology)!
*SPOILERS*
There's a genderfluid character, and their love interest (who'd assumed he was a straight guy) ends up kissing them in both boy-mode and girl-mode and going "Oh, I guess I'm not as straight as I thought", it's so wholesome. Really recommend that series!
fierrochase fan I see
cant wait for the sun and the star book as well
the riordan verse is amazing
FIERROCHASEEEEEE
Heyyyy spoilers! I hadn't finished that series yet!
Yes! I love that series! I'm currently obsessed with blizstone.
YES, Magnus being the maybe bi, maybe pan, definately not straight cousin was everything
as someone who identifies as pan, i would in fact love a panda and i DIED laughing at the non-stick pan one 🤣
When I was younger, I imagined a pan having a relationship with scrambled eggs
Real talk though
People are assholes
We need to EXPAND the community NOT DESTROY it from within
When you include homophobes like nonbinaries into the community that does destroy it from within. Are you dense?
Preach my fellow humanoid creature
That last one really hit my heart. My late wife was straight and when I came out she struggled for a bit about what it meant to be a straight woman who was in love with a woman, but came to the conclusion that I was still the same person and she still loved me. We had planned on going out on a date together as a same gender couple once COVID had calmed down, but then she succumbed to the liver disease that had lain dormant in her for years.
Aw, I'm sorry about your wife. Sending love
@@dragonzrsick2543 thank you
I'm so sorry. She sounds like she was an awesome person.
I’m so sorry
@@mirandarensberger6919 thank you
I am Scottish and I am still proud of my country for supporting trans people.
I'm English and furious with the all-round awful government here! 💙💓🤍💓💙 Love you, northern neighbour!
I might move to Scotland -- I love snow I want to live in a country that's safe.
@@tripwire202 It's mainly rain, to be honest.
@@allyedowd jokes on you I love the rain. It's very calming
@@dustygania2425bit of a nitpick, trans men exist. Also, chill, please, you are not ok.
Hi Jammie with the help of you this morning I came out as "Non Binary" and I originally found out about your channel from the original r/LGBallT and I'm happy that on this day you posted this, It makes my day. 😊
I hope it went well for you!
Congrats Tim! Sending you some fellow nb love
@@missnaomi613 It went well ☺️
How odd is it that Jamie, a trans person, would help you, a member of a violent homophobic and transphobic political group (NBs).
@@missnaomi613 why would you hope that a homophobe and transphobe is doing well?