Break the cycle by: 1. admitting that your partner's behaviour was created by me (first recognise that, no need to dwell on it, accept it) 2. recreation (what you want); create the pattern/believe systems like my man is going to ask me how my day was etc, insist on the new reality note there might be time lack but keep persisting and the nw reality will be yours 💖 Beautiful again Shelley! :)
Ok am persisting on good caring behavior... I will continue being loving. No black magic from others on him to break us apart or to make him go against me. Nothing will work.. God is blessing us healing our relationship... And I will keep re creating a new loving reality. Amen Amen
This almost made me cry because my partner reacted in a way I didn’t like and you made me realize that I need to take responsibility for what is showing up in my life. Thank you!
I think that is the best explanation of STOP REACTING ever.Everybody said stop,but what to do instead hahahah nobody said that.Thanks for learning us how to change step by step without go into past and finding what did i do 100 years ago and what creates that belief in me.So we can ask oursefs WHAT I WANT TO CREATE.You are really gold!
We have to take 100% responsibility for everything that shows up in our lives but anything we don't like we have the power to change. I so wish I had known this when I was younger!
This is the easiest to understand that my outer world, how my sp appeared or acted was actually my creation. I have to make it current, present by re-thinking, creating how I want him to act or treat me. Thank you for this great advice. You are always as beautiful as sweet as you are, Shelly♥️♥️
I earlier today caught myself in this vicious cycle I don’t know much about creating or maintaining the relationships I truly desire but you opened me to see my situation differently & gain my full power back 💖✨
After watching your videos I realised that I got used to manisfesting bad scenarios all the time with my SP such as he was going to leave me because that was my worst fear and that was what happened eventually and even twice. I was so convinced and I assumed that was going to happen that it became real. For this reason, I believe that it is likely to manisfest the opposite if you decide to do that. Thank you Shelly for all your videos!! Love the way you explain it and make it clear!
You are absolutely amazing!!!!! You have such an amazing way of breaking things down and make it so understandable. God Bless you!!! Soo soo grateful I found you yesterday 💜💜💜💜💜
Reacting to outer world is reacting to lack, so when you impress new assumption from inner world then see it in outer, then react! This is positive feedback loop.
It sounds like the only way we can ever really manifest our desires is to finally land in a place of total confidence. Confident in ourselves, our self worth, what we deserve, and knowing that we will get what we want. Do you know if we have to be 100% confident? Or will it still work if we are predominately positive vs. negative? I keep sliding and my insecurities keep coming back in. How can I get myself to a place where I truly feel he's going to show up and be committed? It's so hard to ignore our current realities. :( Every time I feel and see progress, it seems to go away again.
Frank Kitty this is so me too! 😩like... I know the marriage is there... but Jees! I’m up and down with confidence and then anxiety. I get everyone is me pushed out etc but... so I say anything to my sp? We live in different countries which is no problem. But we text all the time and talk a few times a week. I want more. Do I say I want more? That’s showing I’m high value right? Oh I need help lol
Ive realised through inpatience to develop the realationship. I push with expectations, therefore i come on strong. This makes my partner pull back and put up walls. When i stop after being offended, he moves in towards me. Its energy. Push, pull. Im now going to adopt the mind set that he comes to me, wanting and desiring me with expectations. Im certainly holding back. We had been in this cycle tooo many times. Its painful.
Shelly U R so Gorgeous & U have great advice ! My Ex Wife is coming 2 see me tomorrow & we R going 2 work things out & get back together ! I'll let U know how it goes ! I'm going 2 win her heart back & create a better Happier life 4 us ! She is the 1 for me !
I really needed to hear this today.. had a major negative belief going on but no I’ve decided my man loves me is reliable thoughtful generous & available to me always !! Thank You Shelly you are wonderful xx
absolutely me!! I am training my e-motions (energy) to calm the F-down!! this is new to a lot of us and we resist the things that we were never trained or taught. I am the God of my reality. I NO longer creating that beast. just my lovable created creature ❤ 😊😇
I write all of this down. What I write I say "I AM" or "I INTEND". Now do we have to contact him? Or do we wait for them to contact us? I feel like when they contact us that I know specifically that they want to talk to me.?????
Hi shelly are u reading my mind ...the day I subscribed ur channel I am getting a lot from u ...love u so much from Nepal I try my best to manifest 🥰😍💕😊
Ummm this was really confronting to take this level of responsibility, my ego was saying how did I do this exactly. I'm adopting this new way of belief , and change my life... Thank you and I'm reading on your courses . Because we can have it all.
Shelly, what to do. I am in a relationship and he's completing ghosting me. Told me that he struggles with family stuff, has nothing to do with us, texted me two weeks ago that i am his absolute number one, always have been. But since then nothing. How to handle? React let him know that i am hurt and better than this or ignore and let him come to me?
Hi Shelly, you bring up a new school of thought for me to explore as a Christian. If I create how another person is showing up, where does free will come into play? Or does your school of thought imply there is no free will? Thank you!
I keep repeating to myself that my SP loves me alot...after separation..but I haven't heard from her for a long time..how do I maintain this affirmation?
So I’ve watched a lot of your videos and find them very interesting and helpful in understanding how manifestations work. However when looking at the comments and replies ( especially on this one ) I’m afraid I still need to ask a question. The things you are changing in the video and comments are smaller minor behaviors, what about changing sever anger issues and defiance that has been there and demonstrated for 40 years or more? Can deep down ingrained behaviors that are decades old ( long before my time ) be changed be me now? It’s not what I brought to the table, it’s what was always there. I may have attracted it, but I didn’t put it there. Can that situation be corrected? And how long, what process will it take?
Do you have any advice on how I should proceed with trying to make changes? If I just feel/believe that she is not doing it anymore will that work ( obviously over time ) to change the behavior?
I'm not new to LOA but am new to you're channel and I feel like you have been the missing peice in how you explain living in the end I needed to manifest for the last 15 years. I had stopped trying to manifest as I could only do it sometimes w small things, I could never quite get there. So THANK YOU because I've restarted my manifesting journey with you as my guide and I'm SOOOOO confident about my abilities to manifest now and that things will start to happen because I've been practicing and focusing on living in the end 😁🌈. My question, Does it matter if I said " My man is GOING to drop everything when I get home and is going to ask me how my day was." ( Seems that is always in the future) Or if I say " I love it that my man drops everything when I get home and asks me how my day is. I can't wait to get home tonight. " Just wondering. I want to live in end result like you say correctly. Like it's already done and a fact in my life. Right? Or either ok? I know I'm supposed to feel it and do the Imaginal act as if I can feel it and experience it already.
Beautiful! I'm so happy you're here and that you found my channel. This one >> " I love it that my man drops everything when I get home and asks me how my day is. I can't wait to get home tonight. "
Can you please make a video on how to understand a relationship with a narcissistic / highly sadistic, is that also our own reality? If so, can we change the situation
It’s you’re creation, yes. Personally I don’t really view people through diagnosis/labels such as NPD however, if you’re creating this in your life, it’s likely you have history with someone with similar traits. That history creates the EXPECTATION of how you’ll be treated in relationship... which is what you have to change. You also could start seeing the good/better qualities in this person to ease away the challenging characteristics. Keep watching my videos & you’ll understand more.
@@ShellyBullard For example, if a very small kid is facing sexual abuse from a sadistic person then does it mean that the kid had this experience in previous birth then?
And how do I speak to him in the meantime when he doesn't behave the "right way"? This is my biggest trap, I always get triggered by his behavior and feel hurt all over again before I manage to take control of the situation I find myself asking him "what's wrong? Why are you being this way" and then I am in the shits cause he is then pissed with me cause he says there is nothing wrong and why I keep asking that 🙄 Then the atmosphere is strange and I have such a hard time ignoring that cause my "old wounds" start bleeding again..... And I get fear of abandonment.... Help shelly help 🤪
What I learned previously is that if my man doesn’t ask me how my day was, we don’t have to assign a meaning to it. Everything is neutral until we think, “he is being rude, hurtful, uncaring”etc. Maybe he just didn’t think to ask.. What is your take on this?
All these things about transforming, aka, changing. I'll be honest - they are a bit perplexing to me. I don't want to change him. If we do get together, I want to *know* him exactly as he is. Yes, as a spiritual being, but also on the earth plane with all his strengths and weaknesses, his stories, his experiences. And despite this idea of "everyone is you pushed out," I believe this to be possible. This is a gift. Life on earth is a gift. A gift of encompassing all that is, all emotions all experiences. [At least that's how I feel about it right now at this moment... 🤔]
Shelly how abt selfish partners or Narcissistic...am very loving but suddenly he turned out to be self-centered... And am trying hard praying and manifesting. God is helping us. Amen Amen ThankYou Lord
How do you create a new thought pattern of your soulmate when they are in conflict in their own minds about how they were treated by their current ex which was really bad so she tells me. How do I change her minds focus by me manifesting her not being confused right now to actually being loved as a person should be loved in a relationship, she wants to take things slowly even tho she tells me she knows I’m the one she’s waited for her whole life...
can i start off small? like i’ve created that we don’t really talk or text anymore (mind you we’re broken up which i know i created) so instead of starting so big and jumping to we’re dating again can i start with we talk everyday and all the time? and once i get comfortable doing that then can i go onto the relationship part? or should i just jump to the end? lol sorry i’m somewhat new at this
I sometimes wonder how your partner n your relationship is coz u are into manifestation and he surely does shows up the way u want even a smal things in daily life.
Imagine that person treating you within the boundary rather than talking about it. Meaning, see (within yourself) that that person respects your boundaries already. Once you see that person that way, they will manifest into that. But you have to do the work inside. It's not about talking about it outside.
How long do u do this for before u see results because i have visioned this & no results, but i must say its difficult when u know what they r like & what they do, like knowing/feeling that he is lying, detatched, shutdown, how have I created this, i have seen these behaviours for 6 months & i have had enough & told him no more unless he is straight up with me & he walked, how can i manifest him to be honest & open?
Ok I get triggered that this person does not ask or consult me just expects so I tell them or put a boundary they get triggered and pissed off and go on long
This confuses me. Because your partner makes their own choices also? They choose their own reactions or actions too? That’s on them. I can’t make someone do something or not do something? If my partner chooses to lie... then he lied? And if he’s abusive, then that’s on him? How could you create someone who is also God and a creator?
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Isn't it so tiring to keep recreating until we get the ideal version of that man? Can't he just show up the way I want him already? So it's basically what I want is not necessarily my belief of what he is showing up.
My question is - if they are a reflection of me then aren't I a reflection of them? Am I not showing up the way my boyfriend is expecting me to show up.
So u are saying to tolerate their bad manners please please reply no loa coach replies this question. ... I m a man is it not like telling a woman that I m too nice and thus weak not to speak for myself and tolerate any bad manner !
@@ShellyBullard yes I understand but sometimes I faced this issue of manners like saying something casually and not acting on it ... so this piss me off really...rest else is fine but this one things is ruining our relationship and i almost decided to move on because for me manners and respect, trust are very important factors in life .. so i asked ...
@@shivamiltiwari9541 If someone is being rude to you, you created that. If you don't understand that and take full responsibility for how people are treating you, you're never going to change the pattern. You're not a victim. You're a Creator.
Break the cycle by:
1. admitting that your partner's behaviour was created by me (first recognise that, no need to dwell on it, accept it)
2. recreation (what you want); create the pattern/believe systems like my man is going to ask me how my day was etc, insist on the new reality
note there might be time lack but keep persisting and the nw reality will be yours 💖
Beautiful again Shelley! :)
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Is there a way you can delete patterns?
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Ok am persisting on good caring behavior... I will continue being loving.
No black magic from others on him to break us apart or to make him go against me. Nothing will work.. God is blessing us healing our relationship... And I will keep re creating a new loving reality. Amen Amen
This almost made me cry because my partner reacted in a way I didn’t like and you made me realize that I need to take responsibility for what is showing up in my life. Thank you!
This came right on time. 👀
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I think that is the best explanation of STOP REACTING ever.Everybody said stop,but what to do instead hahahah nobody said that.Thanks for learning us how to change step by step without go into past and finding what did i do 100 years ago and what creates that belief in me.So we can ask oursefs WHAT I WANT TO CREATE.You are really gold!
Glad it resonates!
Finally someone that tells u not to just stop reacting but HOW TO STOP! And how to deal with it!
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We have to take 100% responsibility for everything that shows up in our lives but anything we don't like we have the power to change. I so wish I had known this when I was younger!
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I can’t stop staring at your face, you are so pretty! 💓
This is the easiest to understand that my outer world, how my sp appeared or acted was actually my creation. I have to make it current, present by re-thinking, creating how I want him to act or treat me. Thank you for this great advice. You are always as beautiful as sweet as you are, Shelly♥️♥️
You’re welcome 💜
Wow! It’s finally sinking in. Thank you so much!
I'm obsessed with these older videos right now 😍So very helpful! (we know it but the way you explain it is amazing)
Wah!! I am so happy to read you liked them. 🥰
I earlier today caught myself in this vicious cycle I don’t know much about creating or maintaining the relationships I truly desire but you opened me to see my situation differently & gain my full power back 💖✨
Amazing💜
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@ Sarah Han we,re extremely capable I am glad that your seeing your desire changes ❌💎❌💎❤️🔥
This video really brought me perspective on creating changes to my inner self.
Great!
You are so beautiful shelly, i love your looks..
Ha! Thanks :)
Isn’t she??!!!
She Manifested us to say that 😅
I created how my partner is showing up. This is so good. Amazing thank you!
Thinking and visualizations to create a new way of acting and reflection. Thank you
Persistence!!♥️
Yes!
After watching your videos I realised that I got used to manisfesting bad scenarios all the time with my SP such as he was going to leave me because that was my worst fear and that was what happened eventually and even twice. I was so convinced and I assumed that was going to happen that it became real. For this reason, I believe that it is likely to manisfest the opposite if you decide to do that. Thank you Shelly for all your videos!! Love the way you explain it and make it clear!
You are absolutely amazing!!!!! You have such an amazing way of breaking things down and make it so understandable. God Bless you!!! Soo soo grateful I found you yesterday 💜💜💜💜💜
Thank you! So glad you’re here❤️❤️❤️
Reacting to outer world is reacting to lack, so when you impress new assumption from inner world then see it in outer, then react! This is positive feedback loop.
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Update: React first to inner then again to outer.
This is insane. I kept asking myself how to go about some issues in my relationship for the past 2 days then BOOM this video answered my question!
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The universe sends your perfect on topic messages just when I need to hear them. Love you
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This is a great video. I've burned down so many relationships from reacting too quickly.
Please make a video on how to deal with Anxious thoughts after manifesting the specific person.
Nikhat Pathan omg agree!
I was so angry with my Sp when i started watching this video - but u made me laugh 😂 yeah i created this
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You are a lovely person.
New to manifesting and finding your videos so helpful 😊 thank you 🙏
So glad they’re helping!
This was such a great and easy to understand explanation! Thank you. I am starting my recreation now! 🙏🏻
great!
Shelly do a video on how you keep your skin looks so good
hah! I actually get blemishes. It's something that's hard for me to "un-manifest." but thank you!
"I'm the God of my reality" another affirmation added to my list.
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I needed this.. Thank you Shelly✨
Namaste 🙏 I can’t get enough of your inspiration so grateful 🥲
Thank you so so much ❤️
This is something I needed right now
Perfect explanation! Thank you so much ❤️
This is so true of all relationships even with other family be it our children or aging parents or colleagues at work, all relationships.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
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Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him.
Loved it
Yes. yr absolutely correct... Thank you so much 👍
You’re welcome 💙
I love u, i simply love you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Shelley
You’re welcome
It sounds like the only way we can ever really manifest our desires is to finally land in a place of total confidence. Confident in ourselves, our self worth, what we deserve, and knowing that we will get what we want. Do you know if we have to be 100% confident? Or will it still work if we are predominately positive vs. negative? I keep sliding and my insecurities keep coming back in. How can I get myself to a place where I truly feel he's going to show up and be committed? It's so hard to ignore our current realities. :( Every time I feel and see progress, it seems to go away again.
Frank Kitty this is so me too! 😩like... I know the marriage is there... but Jees! I’m up and down with confidence and then anxiety. I get everyone is me pushed out etc but... so I say anything to my sp? We live in different countries which is no problem. But we text all the time and talk a few times a week. I want more. Do I say I want more? That’s showing I’m high value right? Oh I need help lol
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Ive realised through inpatience to develop the realationship. I push with expectations, therefore i come on strong. This makes my partner pull back and put up walls. When i stop after being offended, he moves in towards me. Its energy. Push, pull.
Im now going to adopt the mind set that he comes to me, wanting and desiring me with expectations. Im certainly holding back. We had been in this cycle tooo many times. Its painful.
@@lollydoeslolly3284 Dont know where you are with this. Noooo dont ask for more. Be of the mindset he wants more. X
Thank You Shelly for sharing your Video 😊💕🌈⚘
Great! Thank you so much!
You’re welcome!
This is something that I am learning now, and struggle with.
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Thank you 💕 reacting negatively kind of puts a block on the way of blessings do u think?
This is fantastic thank you 🙏
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Shelly U R so Gorgeous & U have great advice ! My Ex Wife is coming 2 see me tomorrow & we R going 2 work things out & get back together ! I'll let U know how it goes ! I'm going 2 win her heart back & create a better Happier life 4 us ! She is the 1 for me !
Wonderful!
Thank you Shelly Bullard thank you for being here 🙏😍🙋🙌what if you just had enough of ur partner ? Enough is enough 🤔
This video was perfect timing for me
I really needed to hear this today.. had a major negative belief going on but no I’ve decided my man loves me is reliable thoughtful generous & available to me always !! Thank You Shelly you are wonderful xx
You’re welcome 💙🙏
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Thank you for this!! 🙏🏽❤️
I love you thank you soo much ❤️
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absolutely me!! I am training my e-motions (energy) to calm the F-down!! this is new to a lot of us and we resist the things that we were never trained or taught. I am the God of my reality. I NO longer creating that beast. just my lovable created creature ❤ 😊😇
Beautiful!
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You are really good damn awesome 💓
Thank you!
I write all of this down. What I write I say "I AM" or "I INTEND". Now do we have to contact him? Or do we wait for them to contact us? I feel like when they contact us that I know specifically that they want to talk to me.?????
Hi shelly are u reading my mind ...the day I subscribed ur channel I am getting a lot from u ...love u so much from Nepal I try my best to manifest 🥰😍💕😊
Ummm this was really confronting to take this level of responsibility, my ego was saying how did I do this exactly.
I'm adopting this new way of belief , and change my life...
Thank you and I'm reading on your courses . Because we can have it all.
This is a hard lesson I learned in my previous relationship. It was not easy to change at all.
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Shelly, what to do. I am in a relationship and he's completing ghosting me. Told me that he struggles with family stuff, has nothing to do with us, texted me two weeks ago that i am his absolute number one, always have been. But since then nothing. How to handle? React let him know that i am hurt and better than this or ignore and let him come to me?
Hi Shelly, you bring up a new school of thought for me to explore as a Christian. If I create how another person is showing up, where does free will come into play? Or does your school of thought imply there is no free will? Thank you!
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How can a man not ask his woman how her day was? That's so basic.
Because that's what he created......
I keep repeating to myself that my SP loves me alot...after separation..but I haven't heard from her for a long time..how do I maintain this affirmation?
@Peace love and light thank you😊
Don't dwell in the past. Believe your love.❤️
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So I’ve watched a lot of your videos and find them very interesting and helpful in understanding how manifestations work. However when looking at the comments and replies ( especially on this one ) I’m afraid I still need to ask a question. The things you are changing in the video and comments are smaller minor behaviors, what about changing sever anger issues and defiance that has been there and demonstrated for 40 years or more? Can deep down ingrained behaviors that are decades old ( long before my time ) be changed be me now? It’s not what I brought to the table, it’s what was always there. I may have attracted it, but I didn’t put it there. Can that situation be corrected? And how long, what process will it take?
The more deeply ingrained you feel/believe/experience the behavior is, the harder it is to change, for sure.
Do you have any advice on how I should proceed with trying to make changes? If I just feel/believe that she is not doing it anymore will that work ( obviously over time ) to change the behavior?
@@jefferycriger2710 You have to conceptualize/believe she is a different way.
Thanks. I appreciate your help.
I'm not new to LOA but am new to you're channel and I feel like you have been the missing peice in how you explain living in the end I needed to manifest for the last 15 years. I had stopped trying to manifest as I could only do it sometimes w small things, I could never quite get there. So THANK YOU because I've restarted my manifesting journey with you as my guide and I'm SOOOOO confident about my abilities to manifest now and that things will start to happen because I've been practicing and focusing on living in the end 😁🌈. My question, Does it matter if I said " My man is GOING to drop everything when I get home and is going to ask me how my day was." ( Seems that is always in the future) Or if I say " I love it that my man drops everything when I get home and asks me how my day is. I can't wait to get home tonight. " Just wondering. I want to live in end result like you say correctly. Like it's already done and a fact in my life. Right? Or either ok? I know I'm supposed to feel it and do the Imaginal act as if I can feel it and experience it already.
Beautiful! I'm so happy you're here and that you found my channel. This one >> " I love it that my man drops everything when I get home and asks me how my day is. I can't wait to get home tonight. "
@@ShellyBullard Thanks for answering so quickly! 😁. Awesome! Just making sure I'm doing it right! 💜☺️.
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Can you please make a video on how to understand a relationship with a narcissistic / highly sadistic, is that also our own reality? If so, can we change the situation
*narcissistic
It’s you’re creation, yes. Personally I don’t really view people through diagnosis/labels such as NPD however, if you’re creating this in your life, it’s likely you have history with someone with similar traits. That history creates the EXPECTATION of how you’ll be treated in relationship... which is what you have to change. You also could start seeing the good/better qualities in this person to ease away the challenging characteristics. Keep watching my videos & you’ll understand more.
@@ShellyBullard For example, if a very small kid is facing sexual abuse from a sadistic person then does it mean that the kid had this experience in previous birth then?
Krishna Kishore no, that’s not what it means
No. They are seriously sick people and CAN'T change.
And how do I speak to him in the meantime when he doesn't behave the "right way"? This is my biggest trap, I always get triggered by his behavior and feel hurt all over again before I manage to take control of the situation I find myself asking him "what's wrong? Why are you being this way" and then I am in the shits cause he is then pissed with me cause he says there is nothing wrong and why I keep asking that 🙄
Then the atmosphere is strange and I have such a hard time ignoring that cause my "old wounds" start bleeding again..... And I get fear of abandonment.... Help shelly help 🤪
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What I learned previously is that if my man doesn’t ask me how my day was, we don’t have to assign a meaning to it. Everything is neutral until we think, “he is being rude, hurtful, uncaring”etc. Maybe he just didn’t think to ask..
What is your take on this?
Suzanne Mayo very true
So true!!!
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Yes my reaction is expressing over reaction lol 😂
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All these things about transforming, aka, changing. I'll be honest - they are a bit perplexing to me. I don't want to change him. If we do get together, I want to *know* him exactly as he is. Yes, as a spiritual being, but also on the earth plane with all his strengths and weaknesses, his stories, his experiences. And despite this idea of "everyone is you pushed out," I believe this to be possible. This is a gift. Life on earth is a gift. A gift of encompassing all that is, all emotions all experiences. [At least that's how I feel about it right now at this moment... 🤔]
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I'm used to visualizing in 3rd person does that affect my manifestations. i heard a lot of mixed opinions was wondering yours! thank you!!
NEVER visualize in 3rd person. Always in 1st person pov
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Shelly how abt selfish partners or Narcissistic...am very loving but suddenly he turned out to be self-centered... And am trying hard praying and manifesting. God is helping us. Amen Amen ThankYou Lord
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How do you create a new thought pattern of your soulmate when they are in conflict in their own minds about how they were treated by their current ex which was really bad so she tells me. How do I change her minds focus by me manifesting her not being confused right now to actually being loved as a person should be loved in a relationship, she wants to take things slowly even tho she tells me she knows I’m the one she’s waited for her whole life...
can i start off small? like i’ve created that we don’t really talk or text anymore (mind you we’re broken up which i know i created) so instead of starting so big and jumping to we’re dating again can i start with we talk everyday and all the time? and once i get comfortable doing that then can i go onto the relationship part? or should i just jump to the end? lol sorry i’m somewhat new at this
sure!
Shelly Bullard thank you!!
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I sometimes wonder how your partner n your relationship is coz u are into manifestation and he surely does shows up the way u want even a smal things in daily life.
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If I put a boundary the person does not respect it
Ash A same problem! And I really believed he was going to respect my boundary. What if I'm blaming myself for his behavior.
Imagine that person treating you within the boundary rather than talking about it. Meaning, see (within yourself) that that person respects your boundaries already. Once you see that person that way, they will manifest into that. But you have to do the work inside. It's not about talking about it outside.
Shelly Bullard thanks! I’ve been doing this flipping back and forth
Have you seen results!!!?
@@AshQ12 Yes. :) I wouldn't teach it if I hadn't seen results. :)
Shelly Bullard I knew u were gona say that! But I still wanted to ask!!!!! 💓
How long do u do this for before u see results because i have visioned this & no results, but i must say its difficult when u know what they r like & what they do, like knowing/feeling that he is lying, detatched, shutdown, how have I created this, i have seen these behaviours for 6 months & i have had enough & told him no more unless he is straight up with me & he walked, how can i manifest him to be honest & open?
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Ok I get triggered that this person does not ask or consult me just expects so I tell them or put a boundary they get triggered and pissed off and go on long
This confuses me. Because your partner makes their own choices also? They choose their own reactions or actions too? That’s on them. I can’t make someone do something or not do something? If my partner chooses to lie... then he lied? And if he’s abusive, then that’s on him? How could you create someone who is also God and a creator?
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I dont like how my partner ghosts me for weeks on end lol
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Before bed fight. Lol. But I don’t want to repair this one so I’m ok with it.
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Bottle it up?
I get the general premise but where a partner is perpetrating domestic violence I don’t think the victims should be held responsible
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Isn't it so tiring to keep recreating until we get the ideal version of that man? Can't he just show up the way I want him already? So it's basically what I want is not necessarily my belief of what he is showing up.
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My question is - if they are a reflection of me then aren't I a reflection of them? Am I not showing up the way my boyfriend is expecting me to show up.
It's do with parallel realities. You are living ur own reality and thats what you are creating. He has his own reality but that doesn't concern you.
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So u are saying to tolerate their bad manners please please reply no loa coach replies this question.
... I m a man is it not like telling a woman that I m too nice and thus weak not to speak for myself and tolerate any bad manner !
I'm not really saying to "tolerate" it. The message is much deeper than that. I'm describing how to recreate the manifestation.
@@ShellyBullard yes I understand but sometimes I faced this issue of manners like saying something casually and not acting on it ... so this piss me off really...rest else is fine but this one things is ruining our relationship and i almost decided to move on because for me manners and respect, trust are very important factors in life .. so i asked ...
@@shivamiltiwari9541 If someone is being rude to you, you created that. If you don't understand that and take full responsibility for how people are treating you, you're never going to change the pattern. You're not a victim. You're a Creator.
So we let men treat us like shit by blaming ourselves??
So I created my husband’s addiction to porn which I suspect he had before we married?
You created your reality to be with someone addicted to porn (or addicted to other things).
What you suspected or believed is what you created.
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