Omg Shelly, my sp was feeding me crumbs. I watched this video earlier today and made some changes within myself and repeated those statements that you mentioned in this video. I'm super shocked right now that my sp asked me to go boating with him and meet his family. Wow, I was not expecting this to work so fast.
I've experienced it, but it was my own fault. I think it gave me too much hope and then I got lazy. Or assumed the rest was on the way. Either way, I should stop believing in it too.
Don't allow BETTER THAN NOTHING contact-- and boom, there's the ton of bricks. Shelly, you are absolutely on point with this video. Obviously we are creating our reality, but when we get a little bit of contact and run with it (because maybe this is all he's going to give me, so I'll take it), the result is disappointment. We have to do a lot of SELF LOVE practice as well in order to get the total package that we ordered from the universe. And that sucks for some, because they think it sets them back-- maybe it will, depending on your self awareness. But you can do self love practices and manifest an SP at the same time. You'll do it a lot easier after you have done that deep soul searching and recognize your own worth, but whatever works for each person. Thanks for this!!
My father always gave me crumbs and never held his word when he promised to be there for me. 30 years later EVERY MALE HAS GIVEN ME CRUMBS. IT IS ENOUGH. I'm valuable, I deserve to be chosen and I will only accept 100%!
I know your response is from a year ago but I had to comment because this resonated with me. In fact I had a conversation with my father a year ago telling him because of the way he showed up in my life are reasons I’ve accepted men who showed up as such. At that moment I had to change what I was accepting.
If you become a person who's not available for crumbs, you are gonna start responding to differently to them, and they're gonna start responding to you differently!💖love this!
I'm shaking my head as I listen to this because YES -- this is so true and I have definitely done this in the past. "Take your attention off their pattern and construct a new imaginal reality of who they are and how they're being with you." Brilliant! I especially appreciate the practical suggestions in this video.
I’ve not only been accepting crumbs, but have been grateful for them too. This has got to change, and I’d like to do that in a quiet non dramatic way so that ties aren’t cut. Thank you Shelley for your ongoing work, I view a lot of your video’s and can take something useful from all of them.🙏
Yes, non-dramatic... that's exactly how this should be handled. Just work on it from the inside and let the other party come to you. I agree that stirring a pot and telling them you're demanding more out of them probably isn't the best way to go about it.
How to go about it when they text once in a day but not showing up fully as I want I have told him to talk to me when he wants me fully or not text me at all he still texts once in a day
How would you do that? For me it's either I continue answering him or not at all! How to make him feel I don't accept breadcrumbs if I am still replying him?
This is very important info, especially those who are fond of manifesting text messages from their SP. Crumbs you want, so crumbs you're gonna get. I don't want just text messages from my SP. I want us to be together in the 3D reality. It's all or nothing. And so I saturate myself in the inner experience of us already in a relationship :)
arvj123 absolutely- same for me. I don’t want texts and I don’t want an apology. I want us together and that’s what I shall have. He knew from the beginning that I do don’t crumbs so the contact is very sporadic but never ‘crumby’
If i want to manifest our marriage, but i don't want to get married till 3years. But i am now friends with my sp. So what should i do, shall i manifest relationship also? Or it will happen eventually? Please tell me
Yes!! I have decided that I am only receiving daily conversations and seeing eachother daily.. we are building an commitment, passionate, faithful and fun relationship only! Thank you hun
This is so true... I only had success in my love life when I was fully confident in what I was bringing to the table and I wouldn't settle for less than I truly wanted. Once I lost than, I lost the relationship too... I really need to get back on track!
Shelly, I watched this video this morning because I was frustrated with my SP. I wanted to confront him but I kept telling myself that everyone is me pushed out. Tonight I liked how we talked. We have so much connection and I know that he is starting to realize that I am special and irreplaceable.
I wish I had a love icon for loving this video, this is the actual ultimate thing I needed, to start slow and live in the end of that they're coming towards us and if they don't meet up to your standards, then it's nothing. All or nothing! Period! Love you Shelly ❤️❤️🌹🌹🙈🙈💞💞🤞🏻🤞🏻
this is exactly the missing link I was looking for. for a long time now I couldn't understand how to focus on both the manifesting process (mostly with imaginal acts and feeling the experience inside me, my favourite methods) and the "3d approach" of intentionally behaving a certain way, that I still value and I think might be the "path of least resistance" sometimes, for example asserting my boundaries and be respected and valued as a natural consequence of it. thanks to your video I've just realized that making the effort to not accept crumbs means that I show myself what kind of woman I am, and makes creating my new self-concept much easier. I mean, I have just showed the world, and myself, that I'm rare and valuable! it also means that I simply refuse the realities that I don't want, for example a reality where he never calls me, a reality where he's half friend/half boyfriend, etc, and allowing only THE reality that I want. this is a huge breakthrough for me Shelly, thank you so much. You keep changing my life and I'm forever grateful.
there are no coincidences, this video came up at the perfect time lol. I've been doing really well yet didn't even realize I was still assuming I'd get such long waited for scattered responses till you said all that. Going to work on it! thanks for this
OMG! I saw you on one of Matthew Coast’s videos. And I truly believe that I was divinely guided to you. You have blessed me with this video! I look forward to diving deeper into your work. Thank you for this loving guidance. We are beautiful beings, and we can manifest anything that we desire! When we believe in and love ourselves first! I’m learning! Thank you. 💖🥰💖
I can't believe I've only just found you! You have helped me realize and actually see what I've been doing wrong and you make everything so clear and calm. (I just binge watched on all of your vídeos ...where have you been all my life)!!😊😇🙏
I agree. She popped up in my suggested and I needed it. I have leaned back with the love of my life and working on me and doing all of her suggestions.
My SP came back but the same pattern happened. He showed up, then he is gone. He messaged me, then he left it hanging. But then he actively messaging other people at night, while leaving my messages hanging. I always wonder why the same pattern happened. Now I understand the reason. My imaginal experience and self concept. I must work on my self concept. That really needs consistent work.
Hi! I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel!! I’ve been going through old videos and I came across this one last night. I tried this and I eventually fell asleep. Well, an incoming good night text from my SP woke me up! So this morning as I was getting ready for work, my SP called me… he said I sent you a text 5 minutes ago but you didn’t respond. Lol. 🤦🏾♀️ So this absolutely works. We are also supposed to meet up for lunch today! I’m going to continue to focus on myself and going within. Thank you.
Love it!!! ✨ You are queen Shelly👑 each time I watch your video I always learn something new. I'm already living my dream life. Thank you for choosing me as winner 😉❤
I appreciate this video. I believe you may be the only person who has addressed getting "some" attention but not sufficient attention. Thanks for not assuming that it is all or nothing with an SP.
This is perfect, I was starting to think about how to be at this stage, so we need to keep positive, continue with self love, continue imagining how we want them to be with us, imagining that our meetings with them are successful ( imagining our time spent with them to end successfully, and in relation to Living in the end) . Thank you Shelly Bullard, excellent advice as always. 💕💕💕👌🙂
Thank you so much sister 🖤 for always reminding me that my life is in my control and settling for anything less than I want is not a option in my life.
Hey Shelly! It’s funny how recently all your videos are about things I have been wondering about and this video just made it clear. Eg to change my subconscious mind/limiting beliefs I’d wonder do I need to say things like “i know he wants me” or “he wants me” or “I am the woman he wants”, “I know he wants to go back into a relationship”, “he wants a relationship again” “I am the only woman he wants” 🤯. I think a lot of times many of us “allow” or sp’s to breadcrumb us because we are worried if we say/act out that we won’t accept crumbs then we’ll lose them completely even if it’s just crumbs we’d be losing. Without fully recognizing that the crumbs we’re not happy with yet clinging onto are created by us in the first place! And we can change that! Thanks again, Shelly. ❤️
I love this video it came at a perfect time! I have a person I'm interested in and we are talking but latetly i only get a text back at a certain time every day. This was starting to piss me off, because conversations like these are frustrating. Anyway I have been thinking about this a lot these days and decided that I wasn't going to take that. Either you talk to me and engage or you don't but I'm not going to sit all day and wait for answers. I know that I was accepting these crubs because I would get excited to recieved that one text. But I'm done I'm worth so much more than that. I'm aware of the assumptions that I created so I'm just going to work on that. I know this stuff works. Plus I know he likes me just it's just me needing to work on the my self beliefs Thank you Shelly, your words confirmed what has been going on in my head!!!👍❤😊
I do this actually very strongly from the first phone call or date.. don’t have patients for nothing less. Thanks for this beautiful video!! Great as always😋😋
I have been listening to your videos for a about a month then on one you said don't accept crumbs .I thought deeply about that realizing that what I have been doing .So then I was like Im just going to be open to anyone ,not just my specific person . Then I got the self love course ,which is phenomenal . It really helped me . About 2 days after that I met someone online and they are all the things that I was wanting from my specific person . Exactly like I wrote down and thought about .Including their age and body type . .Its so Amazing . !!! Thank you !
Omg thank you so much for this video! Now I really know what to work on, I need to believe I deserve full attention and commitment and a great partner, not just breadcrumbs! I've already prepared some affirmations to repeat, I wasn't even aware that I accepted much less than I deserve! Working on my beliefs from now on, no contact with SP, I want to have him fully or not at all 🥳🥰
Once he started giving me breadcrumbs, I tried to see if it could be solved first, and once I understood there was nothing I could do, (since that isn’t what I want), I let this relationship go and went away.. I’m so proud of myself for not accepting it and not holding on to something that wasn’t making me happy anymore ❤️
Well I just manifested this video 😊 I was looking for it yesterday, I couldn’t find it. Put out an intention I will find it when I have to see it. I opened up my UA-cam and here you are! 😊🌈
I've been frustrated with this recently, so I feel like I manifested this video into my reality. 😆 Listened a few times already. I love your channel, thanks so much!
Oh Shelly...thank you for this video.... This video nailed it ... I have been very frustrated these last days. We had no contact for almost two months. He blocked me... then he decided to contact me and we have been talking every single day on the phone. We are very close to each other BUT he says he wants me only as a FRIEND. This is painful! As you've well said, I accepted that but made me unhappy. I definitely want him as my partner for the rest of my life. To be his friend is not really an option for me. I have been imagining, scripting, trying my best to pick the right thoughts....but the situation is not changing. I feel frustrated and tired. I would like to give up because I don't see what to do! After watching your video, decided to call him and did it! I told him this time I will be the one who wants to decide what to do I informed him that I will block him for a while to gain some clarity. I also said that do not want a "half-backed "relationship. I want a full commitment in a relationship and don't want to be friends with him. Everything or nothing! He replied: ok! What made me even more crazy. I feel he has all the power....so I need to see how to change my beliefs... And understand that I am the one who is in charge of what's happening in my reality. It seems to be difficult though to revert this.... I have a strong belief that he is the one who decides ... And he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with me. What can I do?!!! Thank you!!
Thank you so much shelly,this is it(the video).i stopped texting my sp(whom i attracted to be my husband) 3 weeks ago because i was the only who text first and i some how believed i should stop and let him make the move now.and this video gave me courage.Thank you again and i believe that he is missing me and will contact me very soon❤
Thank you for this video ❤️❤️ I pulled away my energy completely and will only accept the changed version of him in the 3D😊 and after watching this video I'll starting believing a new pattern 😊😊🌼
Woah. I think this video set off a major epiphany for me! Haha so funny I clicked on this video, cuz it has nothing to do with my situation 😂 Thanks, Shelly - you are a rockstar!!😘😘😘
I am going on a binge of all your videos , You are my new favorite !!! This video is EXACTLY what I needed to watch . Thank you for the video darlin !!!
Thank you for posting this video. This gave me more clarity and deeper sense as to why I should stop receiving crumbs from my SP or anyone. This just heightened my self esteem and will definitely do this. I’m only available for someone who’s showing up fully to me. 😘😘😘
I'm really glad you made a video on this subject, I remember asking you about this. It just confirms that I'm on a right path because that's the same mindset I had. I've refused to accept crumbs.
Learning so much everyday from you... Self concept is everything.... For ppl who haven't a clue about manifestation they manifest effortlessly due to their respective awesome self-concepts....!!
This subject I’ve had in my mind since yesterday 😁 even though I’m still struggling with a lot of anger and even hate because of this behavior 😁❤️ thanks a lot Shelly
Yessss ! Thank you for always giving us real advice in such a way that every one can grasp the concept. And your examples really help and very important .
Thanks Shelly. Such a nice video. I was thinking on same line. I just woke up and saw this, definitely I have manifested this video. Thanks for shifting my focus.. looking forward for more videos
Hi Shelly! This really does work I started manifesting someone to text me when he was only giving me crumbs by pretending he loves texting to to only get more and more attention :)
Oh, it is awesome😍😱. I just thought about my sp and this video popped up on my screen. I think I manifest your video lol.😝 Thank you so much shelly for sharing this valuable knowledge with us. Good luck. Xxoo. Lots of love from Sri Lanka💖💖💕💕
So True from what you said shelly. And its also important to stand close with your innerself. Knowing who you are on this earth. It happend to me that i lost myself. And it took time to find myself in that peace and love agian...self love. Thanks to you shelly i learn to and got back to stand close to my innerself. And been 1 with myself agian. That is not all the time about the other person who is bread crumming me. Automatic things and my sp Will Come to me by time. It start with the inner self and energy what you show into this world. 🥰🌈
11:11 I think i am sort of decoding this thing by myself.. i am someone who's been receiving crumbs since lockdown.. and i was happy until now.. however.. I have now made a book for affirmations and visualisations (i can imagine better when writing and paint a picture that way) and in this book i myself wrote some sequences where we are talking/ chatting constantly, receiving more attention and priority. And today i see this.. so I feel im on the right track..
Oh gosh ... I’ve been receiving crumbs and was thinking it was a sign of partial manifestation. I know I am deserving of better and that is all I will accept - thank you Shelley - love it ! 💓
Shelly, your videos come to me at the right time each time. I just started talking to someone new for over a month and so far we only hung out with other people our friends, never really alone. I am trying to manifest more because thats just “crumbs”. I want a relationship with them and to see him alone! I hope i get this soon. Im trying my best!
Great video! I realize my mental diet is good but I'm not creating new visions or having a new story running in my head as how I'd like them to be. Now, I know what to work on. Thanks!!
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Omg Shelly, my sp was feeding me crumbs. I watched this video earlier today and made some changes within myself and repeated those statements that you mentioned in this video. I'm super shocked right now that my sp asked me to go boating with him and meet his family. Wow, I was not expecting this to work so fast.
Loooove this!
Can you just share the statements you used?
Hi dear can you share that statements you used
Congratulations sis🤗🤗❤❤🙋♀️
Awesome!!
Crumbs don’t satisfy me, I am manifesting the 5 course meal! 🥰
Ha! Love this!
Same here!!!
I love this
Yesssss
Whoa!!!
Yessssss.... I AM NOT AVAILABLE FOR CRUMBS! I only accept the whole damn loaf! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥
Wendy❤😘
Yess!
Yaara Haim Hi!!! ♥️🥰
It does work
I only accept someone fully for comment me too I do not accept crumbs
I don't believe in "partial manifestation" anymore. The universe always knows what you want delivers even better than you imagined
it just shows how aligned you are
I've experienced it, but it was my own fault. I think it gave me too much hope and then I got lazy. Or assumed the rest was on the way. Either way, I should stop believing in it too.
You go 👍
Nice
Great video. Very helpful
Don't allow BETTER THAN NOTHING contact-- and boom, there's the ton of bricks. Shelly, you are absolutely on point with this video. Obviously we are creating our reality, but when we get a little bit of contact and run with it (because maybe this is all he's going to give me, so I'll take it), the result is disappointment. We have to do a lot of SELF LOVE practice as well in order to get the total package that we ordered from the universe. And that sucks for some, because they think it sets them back-- maybe it will, depending on your self awareness. But you can do self love practices and manifest an SP at the same time. You'll do it a lot easier after you have done that deep soul searching and recognize your own worth, but whatever works for each person. Thanks for this!!
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My father always gave me crumbs and never held his word when he promised to be there for me. 30 years later EVERY MALE HAS GIVEN ME CRUMBS. IT IS ENOUGH. I'm valuable, I deserve to be chosen and I will only accept 100%!
I know your response is from a year ago but I had to comment because this resonated with me. In fact I had a conversation with my father a year ago telling him because of the way he showed up in my life are reasons I’ve accepted men who showed up as such. At that moment I had to change what I was accepting.
@@Capeverdeprc omg same girl. Im so sick of this. Im gonna choose me everyday and forever.
@@hersheykisseys yes choose YOU every single day!! We got this!!
@@Capeverdeprc omg same!! It’s so wrong that we are like this, but it starts NOW! We are loved and worthy of great love 💗
@@BrooklynBaby100 yes, we deserve the very best and nothing less! No more crumbs 🙌🏽💛
If you become a person who's not available for crumbs, you are gonna start responding to differently to them, and they're gonna start responding to you differently!💖love this!
Yes!
@@ShellyBullard thank you Shelly♥️
But, will he not mistake my not responding to crumbs as being arrogant or being not available?😅
I'm shaking my head as I listen to this because YES -- this is so true and I have definitely done this in the past. "Take your attention off their pattern and construct a new imaginal reality of who they are and how they're being with you." Brilliant! I especially appreciate the practical suggestions in this video.
So glad you liked it!
I am absolutely blown away by the simplicity of what she's sharing. We create from the inside out. Our feelings tip the scale in our favor!
I’ve not only been accepting crumbs, but have been grateful for them too. This has got to change, and I’d like to do that in a quiet non dramatic way so that ties aren’t cut. Thank you Shelley for your ongoing work, I view a lot of your video’s and can take something useful from all of them.🙏
So glad you like them❤️
Yes, non-dramatic... that's exactly how this should be handled. Just work on it from the inside and let the other party come to you. I agree that stirring a pot and telling them you're demanding more out of them probably isn't the best way to go about it.
How to go about it when they text once in a day but not showing up fully as I want I have told him to talk to me when he wants me fully or not text me at all he still texts once in a day
How would you do that? For me it's either I continue answering him or not at all! How to make him feel I don't accept breadcrumbs if I am still replying him?
And if I don’t reply he gets so mad like we need to know how to reply to this the Shelley way lol
This is very important info, especially those who are fond of manifesting text messages from their SP. Crumbs you want, so crumbs you're gonna get.
I don't want just text messages from my SP. I want us to be together in the 3D reality. It's all or nothing. And so I saturate myself in the inner experience of us already in a relationship :)
arvj123 absolutely- same for me. I don’t want texts and I don’t want an apology. I want us together and that’s what I shall have. He knew from the beginning that I do don’t crumbs so the contact is very sporadic but never ‘crumby’
Love it!
Yes me too 😭 sometimes i feel like its best for me to stop responding to text messages so they worry about me and wants to ask to see me in the 3D
If i want to manifest our marriage, but i don't want to get married till 3years. But i am now friends with my sp. So what should i do, shall i manifest relationship also? Or it will happen eventually? Please tell me
Wow dear & how do you do that?
LOVE THIS VIDEO! My SP has been initiating contact all week after implementing some of these practices.
John DeOca hi will you share some of your practices? I love to hear what others do
Amazing!!
Same! Would love to hear more
Wow, did I manifest this topic? I genuinely was thinking on this as it’s my situation lol. Thank you Shelly
Same!! ha!
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Sme
Yes!! I have decided that I am only receiving daily conversations and seeing eachother daily.. we are building an commitment, passionate, faithful and fun relationship only! Thank you hun
Love it✨
This is so true... I only had success in my love life when I was fully confident in what I was bringing to the table and I wouldn't settle for less than I truly wanted. Once I lost than, I lost the relationship too... I really need to get back on track!
Yes
I think it’s important to realize that manifestation is mainly about yourself. We give our own power to others. Thank you for this video.
You’re welcome!
Shelly, I watched this video this morning because I was frustrated with my SP. I wanted to confront him but I kept telling myself that everyone is me pushed out. Tonight I liked how we talked. We have so much connection and I know that he is starting to realize that I am special and irreplaceable.
Wonderful!
I love those powerful declarations! “I only accept someone is fully shows up for me!” ❤️👍🏻
Yes!❤️
I agree totally !
I wish I had a love icon for loving this video, this is the actual ultimate thing I needed, to start slow and live in the end of that they're coming towards us and if they don't meet up to your standards, then it's nothing. All or nothing! Period! Love you Shelly ❤️❤️🌹🌹🙈🙈💞💞🤞🏻🤞🏻
Wonderful! Glad you liked it ❤️❤️
this is exactly the missing link I was looking for. for a long time now I couldn't understand how to focus on both the manifesting process (mostly with imaginal acts and feeling the experience inside me, my favourite methods) and the "3d approach" of intentionally behaving a certain way, that I still value and I think might be the "path of least resistance" sometimes, for example asserting my boundaries and be respected and valued as a natural consequence of it. thanks to your video I've just realized that making the effort to not accept crumbs means that I show myself what kind of woman I am, and makes creating my new self-concept much easier. I mean, I have just showed the world, and myself, that I'm rare and valuable! it also means that I simply refuse the realities that I don't want, for example a reality where he never calls me, a reality where he's half friend/half boyfriend, etc, and allowing only THE reality that I want.
this is a huge breakthrough for me Shelly, thank you so much. You keep changing my life and I'm forever grateful.
Beautiful! So glad you’re here❤️❤️
I got a text from SP today. It's been months since we broke up.We are talking respectfully and friendly to each other right now.
If it’s okay, are you willing to share an update?
Yes yes yes... and with each passing day I am feeling like the wish fulfilled already...easy breezy..💞💞💞💞💞
there are no coincidences, this video came up at the perfect time lol. I've been doing really well yet didn't even realize I was still assuming I'd get such long waited for scattered responses till you said all that. Going to work on it! thanks for this
So glad you liked it ❤️
OMG! I saw you on one of Matthew Coast’s videos. And I truly believe that I was divinely guided to you. You have blessed me with this video! I look forward to diving deeper into your work. Thank you for this loving guidance. We are beautiful beings, and we can manifest anything that we desire! When we believe in and love ourselves first! I’m learning! Thank you.
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I’m so happy you’re here
Yes... He only shows up Fully for me.❤❤🔥 Thank you!🥰
You’re welcome!
I actually love this video. It was very helpful. I am going to revisit the claimed and cherished exercise
Beautiful.
I can't believe I've only just found you! You have helped me realize and actually see what I've been doing wrong and you make everything so clear and calm.
(I just binge watched on all of your vídeos ...where have you been all my life)!!😊😇🙏
So glad you’re here 🤍✨🙏
I agree. She popped up in my suggested and I needed it. I have leaned back with the love of my life and working on me and doing all of her suggestions.
Going to try that right away, I intend to update with positive results soon
My SP came back but the same pattern happened. He showed up, then he is gone. He messaged me, then he left it hanging. But then he actively messaging other people at night, while leaving my messages hanging. I always wonder why the same pattern happened. Now I understand the reason. My imaginal experience and self concept. I must work on my self concept. That really needs consistent work.
Your explanation regarding the acceptance of crumbs really makes us identify the level of value and self worth we have even further. Thank you x
You’re welcome! Glad you liked it ✨
Hi! I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel!! I’ve been going through old videos and I came across this one last night. I tried this and I eventually fell asleep. Well, an incoming good night text from my SP woke me up! So this morning as I was getting ready for work, my SP called me… he said I sent you a text 5 minutes ago but you didn’t respond. Lol. 🤦🏾♀️ So this absolutely works. We are also supposed to meet up for lunch today! I’m going to continue to focus on myself and going within. Thank you.
Self love, self esteem...the keys for everything. Thank you so much Shelly. Take care💜
You’re welcome ❤️
Love it!!! ✨ You are queen Shelly👑
each time I watch your video I always learn something new.
I'm already living my dream life.
Thank you for choosing me as winner 😉❤
You’re welcome! So glad you’re here❤️
Thank you universe, perfect timing for this reminder 🤗
This is simply good relationship advice - whether it’s metaphysics or not. 👍🏻
I like the concept 💡 of "training" them how to show up. Somehow that clicked.
Practicing the imaginal concept is fun and takes the focus off what u don't want. Love it!
I appreciate this video. I believe you may be the only person who has addressed getting "some" attention but not sufficient attention. Thanks for not assuming that it is all or nothing with an SP.
Hi Shelly. Its Samantha from Cape Town. I love your videos and find it really helpfull. Thank you
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This is perfect, I was starting to think about how to be at this stage, so we need to keep positive, continue with self love, continue imagining how we want them to be with us, imagining that our meetings with them are successful ( imagining our time spent with them to end successfully, and in relation to Living in the end) .
Thank you Shelly Bullard, excellent advice as always.
💕💕💕👌🙂
Amazing! So glad you’re here ❤️
Thank you so much sister 🖤 for always reminding me that my life is in my control and settling for anything less than I want is not a option in my life.
Yes!!❤️
Hey Shelly! It’s funny how recently all your videos are about things I have been wondering about and this video just made it clear. Eg to change my subconscious mind/limiting beliefs I’d wonder do I need to say things like “i know he wants me” or “he wants me” or “I am the woman he wants”, “I know he wants to go back into a relationship”, “he wants a relationship again” “I am the only woman he wants” 🤯. I think a lot of times many of us “allow” or sp’s to breadcrumb us because we are worried if we say/act out that we won’t accept crumbs then we’ll lose them completely even if it’s just crumbs we’d be losing. Without fully recognizing that the crumbs we’re not happy with yet clinging onto are created by us in the first place! And we can change that! Thanks again, Shelly. ❤️
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So glad I found you! This was extremely helpful!
Actually very crucial explanation for those who are suffering from depression. Lot of Thanks for encouragement and how to be happy with ourselves. 😊
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At one time this WAS the case...not anymore I changed my mindset and accept nothing less than what I give..
I love this video it came at a perfect time! I have a person I'm interested in and we are talking but latetly i only get a text back at a certain time every day. This was starting to piss me off, because conversations like these are frustrating. Anyway I have been thinking about this a lot these days and decided that I wasn't going to take that. Either you talk to me and engage or you don't but I'm not going to sit all day and wait for answers. I know that I was accepting these crubs because I would get excited to recieved that one text. But I'm done I'm worth so much more than that. I'm aware of the assumptions that I created so I'm just going to work on that. I know this stuff works. Plus I know he likes me just it's just me needing to work on the my self beliefs Thank you Shelly, your words confirmed what has been going on in my head!!!👍❤😊
So glad you loved it✨
I do this actually very strongly from the first phone call or date.. don’t have patients for nothing less.
Thanks for this beautiful video!!
Great as always😋😋
Glad you liked it!
I am also receiving crumbs right now...universe is showing me the way...thank you Shelly ❤️
You’re welcome 💙
Amazing video Shelly ( i typed this before watching plus this is the 111th comment, that's a great sign lol)
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I have been listening to your videos for a about a month then on one you said don't accept crumbs .I thought deeply about that realizing that what I have been doing .So then I was like Im just going to be open to anyone ,not just my specific person . Then I got the self love course ,which is phenomenal . It really helped me . About 2 days after that I met someone online and they are all the things that I was wanting from my specific person . Exactly like I wrote down and thought about .Including their age and body type . .Its so Amazing . !!! Thank you !
Wonderful!✨
Can u plzz help with what is there in the free self love course
You are so insightful. You have quickly become my favorite guidance for Loa
Very important it really isn't about the other person it's about us and loving ourselves ❤️
You're awesome,💛💚💜
Thank you❤️
Thanks for being here to teach us
❤️Shelly!❤️ No crumbs from you!👍
You’re welcome!
Your videos relax me. You are so wise and graceful, sending me beautiful vibes. Sending you love and positivity! Xo
Aww thank you! Glad you enjoy them❤️
Omg thank you so much for this video! Now I really know what to work on, I need to believe I deserve full attention and commitment and a great partner, not just breadcrumbs! I've already prepared some affirmations to repeat, I wasn't even aware that I accepted much less than I deserve! Working on my beliefs from now on, no contact with SP, I want to have him fully or not at all 🥳🥰
Thanks!
You're welcome!
Once he started giving me breadcrumbs, I tried to see if it could be solved first, and once I understood there was nothing I could do, (since that isn’t what I want), I let this relationship go and went away.. I’m so proud of myself for not accepting it and not holding on to something that wasn’t making me happy anymore ❤️
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Hello it's work I can't believe
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Can’t wait to watch this!
Awesome!
Well I just manifested this video 😊 I was looking for it yesterday, I couldn’t find it. Put out an intention I will find it when I have to see it. I opened up my UA-cam and here you are! 😊🌈
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I definitely needed this video..
I only receive all the attention.
Thank you Shelly for creating one
You’re welcome! Glad you liked it ✨
I've been frustrated with this recently, so I feel like I manifested this video into my reality. 😆 Listened a few times already. I love your channel, thanks so much!
Amazing! Glad you liked it✨
You have taught me so many tools for self growth in the last few weeks I discovered you! Thanks Shelly 💕
Oh Shelly...thank you for this video.... This video nailed it ... I have been very frustrated these last days. We had no contact for almost two months. He blocked me... then he decided to contact me and we have been talking every single day on the phone. We are very close to each other BUT he says he wants me only as a FRIEND. This is painful! As you've well said, I accepted that but made me unhappy. I definitely want him as my partner for the rest of my life.
To be his friend is not really an option for me.
I have been imagining, scripting, trying my best to pick the right thoughts....but the situation is not changing.
I feel frustrated and tired. I would like to give up because I don't see what to do!
After watching your video, decided to call him and did it!
I told him this time I will be the one who wants to decide what to do I informed him that I will block him for a while to gain some clarity. I also said that do not want a "half-backed "relationship. I want a full commitment in a relationship and don't want to be friends with him. Everything or nothing!
He replied: ok!
What made me even more crazy.
I feel he has all the power....so I need to see how to change my beliefs... And understand that I am the one who is in charge of what's happening in my reality. It seems to be difficult though to revert this.... I have a strong belief that he is the one who decides ... And he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with me.
What can I do?!!!
Thank you!!
He said very clear, only FRIENDS, you can't force someone to love you.
Thank you so much shelly,this is it(the video).i stopped texting my sp(whom i attracted to be my husband) 3 weeks ago because i was the only who text first and i some how believed i should stop and let him make the move now.and this video gave me courage.Thank you again and i believe that he is missing me and will contact me very soon❤
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Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
I pulled away my energy completely and will only accept the changed version of him in the 3D😊 and after watching this video I'll starting believing a new pattern 😊😊🌼
Yes!! I love it❤️
uuuh great topic Shelly!
Thank you!
I think I manifested this video since I was thinking about this very topic only a few hours ago! Thank you so much Shelly, for all your guidance. x
So glad you liked it✨❤️
Woah. I think this video set off a major epiphany for me! Haha so funny I clicked on this video, cuz it has nothing to do with my situation 😂 Thanks, Shelly - you are a rockstar!!😘😘😘
Glad you liked it!
I am going on a binge of all your videos , You are my new favorite !!! This video is EXACTLY what I needed to watch . Thank you for the video darlin !!!
So glad you’re here!❤️
This is so important! Definitely applies to friendships as well!
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Thank you for posting this video. This gave me more clarity and deeper sense as to why I should stop receiving crumbs from my SP or anyone. This just heightened my self esteem and will definitely do this. I’m only available for someone who’s showing up fully to me. 😘😘😘
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No more crumbs! 🍞 Not this lady. Lol 😂
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Omg Shelly this is my life right now 🤩 thanks for this video
I don’t accept crumbs! I only accept someone fully showing up for me fully coming in and fully ready for commitment nothing less 😊
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I'm really glad you made a video on this subject, I remember asking you about this. It just confirms that I'm on a right path because that's the same mindset I had. I've refused to accept crumbs.
Amazing!
Learning so much everyday from you... Self concept is everything.... For ppl who haven't a clue about manifestation they manifest effortlessly due to their respective awesome self-concepts....!!
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Hello it's work I can't believe
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Ooooo, so excited for this one! Amazing, thank you for everything you do!
Lauren Michelle 🙏🏼♥️
Shelly you have some of the cutest earrings!
Thank you!
This subject I’ve had in my mind since yesterday 😁 even though I’m still struggling with a lot of anger and even hate because of this behavior 😁❤️ thanks a lot Shelly
You’re welcome!
Your voice is so cheerful! Thanks for the video 😙
Thank you!
Yessss ! Thank you for always giving us real advice in such a way that every one can grasp the concept. And your examples really help and very important .
Glad you like it✨
Learned something new today! 😳 Thank you! 🥰
So glad you liked it!🥰
I want to thank you for all your videos . I should of sought out this type of advice a long time ago.
You’re welcome 🙏
Thanks Shelly. Such a nice video. I was thinking on same line. I just woke up and saw this, definitely I have manifested this video. Thanks for shifting my focus.. looking forward for more videos
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hi Shelly! This really does work I started manifesting someone to text me when he was only giving me crumbs by pretending he loves texting to to only get more and more attention :)
Amazing!
Oh, it is awesome😍😱. I just thought about my sp and this video popped up on my screen. I think I manifest your video lol.😝
Thank you so much shelly for sharing this valuable knowledge with us. Good luck. Xxoo. Lots of love from Sri Lanka💖💖💕💕
Amazing! So glad you liked it✨❤️
So True from what you said shelly. And its also important to stand close with your innerself. Knowing who you are on this earth. It happend to me that i lost myself. And it took time to find myself in that peace and love agian...self love. Thanks to you shelly i learn to and got back to stand close to my innerself. And been 1 with myself agian. That is not all the time about the other person who is bread crumming me. Automatic things and my sp Will Come to me by time. It start with the inner self and energy what you show into this world. 🥰🌈
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
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Hello it's work I can't believe
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Girl I am just gobbling up your videos. This shit is gooooold.
thank you soo much Shelly means a lot..................much love Keerthna
Im glad you liked it ❤️
i love you and your work..you are so gentle but thorough.. you make so much sense.. thank you thank you thank you Shari
So glad you like it✨
Thanks Shelly, as always very helpful. This is what's happening at the moment. But at least it's headed in the right direction.
So glad you liked it✨
11:11 I think i am sort of decoding this thing by myself.. i am someone who's been receiving crumbs since lockdown.. and i was happy until now.. however.. I have now made a book for affirmations and visualisations (i can imagine better when writing and paint a picture that way) and in this book i myself wrote some sequences where we are talking/ chatting constantly, receiving more attention and priority.
And today i see this.. so I feel im on the right track..
Oh gosh ... I’ve been receiving crumbs and was thinking it was a sign of partial manifestation. I know I am deserving of better and that is all I will accept - thank you Shelley - love it ! 💓
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Shelly, your videos come to me at the right time each time. I just started talking to someone new for over a month and so far we only hung out with other people our friends, never really alone. I am trying to manifest more because thats just “crumbs”. I want a relationship with them and to see him alone! I hope i get this soon. Im trying my best!
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Wow, I was blown away for this amaizing explanation.
The way you resonate with me is really impressive.
Thank you so much Shelly
You’re welcome! So glad it resonated with you✨
Wow. After watching the video I realised I needed to know this. Thanks Shelly 💕
Glad you liked it❤️
This is perfect timing for me! Thank you 🤍
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Another great video! ❤️
Want the whole cookie. No crumbs!
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Hi Shelly,Thank You So Much for sharing this Video 🌹💕⚘🧸
You’re welcome❤️✨
Great video! I realize my mental diet is good but I'm not creating new visions or having a new story running in my head as how I'd like them to be. Now, I know what to work on. Thanks!!
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@@ShellyBullard There's so much to remember and think about!!
You are amazing!! Thanks for all what you giving us!!! Love you)))