@ the whole alpha thing is retarded... A truely superior man might not even be a gym obsessed be very committed to a monogamous relationship... Who cares or knows.
@@zexnynex777 yeah exactly. It's the INFJ personality which gave me hope that there are women out there who are genuinely loving, caring and loyal. But only about 1% of all women have this personality and they are super hard to find unfortunately.
I got to this channel because of Lana, I never though so many men felt so interested in finding someone with brains. I had this idea that men were only looking for Kardashians and that's why we as women feel so concerned and insecure about. Very good talk. I like to see that not everything is lost in society. And you guys will find your woman, just be patient. 💕
I appreciate you commenting this Miry! There are lots of us guys who are attracted to intelligence! Superficial women are a big turn-off for me. Wishing you all the best.
Thank you very much. I think changing the way we perceive people is actually the beginning of true revolution and evolution. 💕 Your content is great! Keep up with the good work!
Actually i think majority of men prefer natural looking, no or little make up women if it comes to serious relationships. For some reason, women seem to think otherwise possibly cause of insta and social media.
@@koma7778 yes, I agree with you. Social media somehow has made us believe that we need to look a certain way to be liked. I mean, there's nothing wrong with looking pretty (good), but I guess feeding the brain is actually more rewarding than looking perfect. 😊
@@mirysick i just think that what is necessary is someone who takes care of themselves and respects themself. Thats all. But if you think about it, is it good for a good partner/mother/wife to attract excess male attention on purpose? No, that is bad because it is kind of "cheating" on your family. If a mom/partner spends time trying to attract extra male attention and spend her time thinking about that when she already has a partner or family shows her priorities. That is assuming the woman is at least average in her looks and has relative success in dating ofc. Im not talking about those who havent had any success at all which is a different story.
When you choose chasity is even harder...It requires getting to know the person,trying to grow together,fail together,have meaningful conversations,and wait for something sexual for a long time,that you're not sure it's going to happen because you're not sure you'll get married to that person... But these values are so important for me that i'll take it even if i die and never had a relationship...
Women have it easier to get laid, sure, but finding a good man? Nowhere near easy. We're not flattered by the amount of men that want us only for our bodies, and men should stop putting so much value in getting laid.
@@pistolen87 Its called validation. You're getting something that's special, not for everyone. And especially because men are rejected so often so its a challenge. And you feel validated. Not just because of the girl but because your friends make you feel validated too.
Agreed but i dont know why men do that, but not only men but also woman does this all the time. I can only sleep with a woman after i connect with her emotionally.
I dated a gorgeous Latin woman named Maria and all she did was talk about how beautiful she was and how she can get any guy she wanted. She was very conceded. Then her cellphone kept ringing constantly from people calling her when we were having dinner. I didn’t believe her that she was single and she kept telling me that she was. When I took it slow and just treated her like a friend, she asked me to go out with her again. I refused. That was 15 years ago. When it comes to relationships, there is so much to learn about the person your dating besides there looks, you have to know who there families are and there friends are in order to know how dysfunctional they are.
That men have a harder time getting their foot in the door is a pretty self evident fact. Most girls can find a man to sleep with in a few hours of searching. That a quality man is hard to find is very debatable. For a start, it's really subjective. If a quality man is Mr Perfect, what women are constantly told they deserve, then yes, it's hard to find but that's really the woman's fault, not guys.
@@BlunderCity, yes---studies show that women have unrealistic expectations, i.e. 6 feet tall, figure income, etc. 80% of women are only interested in 20% of the available men. quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
What she said from 6:24 and a couple mins after.. she literally amazes me. I thought I was the only person who perceived the dating world the same way.. so refreshing
They are out there dear. Just think how often you have shown awkwardness whenever you have encounters with a shy, intimidating, opinionated girl. Those girls are like lana and even more good. But you just didn't try to interact with them because you thought it would take a bit of an effort .
Great video to you both! I hope you guys played soccer with that girl in the background afterwards and let her score a few times. Her dad had no mercy...ha!!!
bruh the park is really great. The squirrel in the background was cute. We have this park just behind our house and it's really great ambience for work or study.
I realized few months ago that people who desire connection first are called demisexuals, it baffelled me because I thought that was the norm for everyone but it's not. A lot have sexual desires towards people they don't connect with, which a good example of are people who would actually be ok with a one night stand. While demisexuals crave connection and a friendship first.
This is Excellent!!! I was becoming fearful that Human Beings (coming of age in the era of social media) with such strong Values had become all but extinct. Quite refreshing!!! And the part on the importance of Communication: Spot On!!! It's HUGE!!! Thank You so much for addressing that. Great Stuff!!! Really. Please keep up the good work. Humanity needs to hear this ... every day.
I think people will reach to their graves till their discussion on about getting the "right one"reaches to a genuine conclusion. Understanding ourselves is a lifelong process. Just get along with someone and try to remain with them by taking care of each other, showing respect and be disciplined.
Dating was much simpler in the 1980s when I was in my twenties. Then we met somebody you liked and dating just happened, jolly good fun. Today things are different for young people, I don't know why but I do feel sorry for young people.
Loved the whole conversation, we should all start talking to friends and our close ones like this. We should even talk to anyone who come across in our day to day life. It will make their and our life much smoother and confusion less.
KINGxTERRY yeah sure. I’ve heard this before and it’s very true. Just be careful of permanent liabilities lol. Like don’t jump off a bridge for the thrill of it unless you have safety measures but ask every girl out that you like etc.
@@KeepRolling1000 Exactly, when the long term happiness > short term pain, you at least have a reason to delay short happiness. In my head the equation can be like this. We have a strong reason to do something IF long term happiness > short term pain > short term happiness.
@@yustinushalim1146 I couldn't say any better than you have said. Cigarettes After Sex - Sweet. Just waiting for someone to dance with while that song is playing.
@ageofbogyo yeah you are right, but I cannot agree on high status or rich men, I know a lot of rich guys but their wives treat them like shit. So the real alpha is the one who don't let any female control or rule over him. Just don't do what what you don't wanna do. So many cool guys are being kept on leash of thots.
@ageofbogyo yep that's right, females, they just don't care about us(men) unless they need something. The girls themselves tell me that they're not humans and hate each other despite fake smiles and laughs. I see a lot of guys who spent their money and time chasing them. I'm glad that you've realized all this stuff. Btw how old r u bro?
I watched this a couple of weeks ago but not until now did I realize that she is the girl from one of Yes theory's videos. Such a small world. Really good content this
Commitment really has little to do with the man and more to do with everything else like kids, a home, his income etc. This is why the guy is often confused about this demand and how she doesnt wana be casual, he doesnt see whats at the heart of commitment. Divorce rates initiated by women is a strong reflection of this. Once the children and home are snapped up the man is an after thought for so many women.
I had a similar conversation with a woman about this yesterday. A man who has success with women will be able to relate to women in that once a man experiences success and 'sows his wild oats' he typically gets bored with superficial sex and desires a real connection with a woman he loves to be around.
My first thought on seeing this video - they're sitting too close together. My second thought - it's incredible how everything has changed in a few short months.
Buffetts are a usually a cheap way to fill your appetite, and maybe pick up some germs along the way, but personally I would be more satisfied dining at a high end restaurant even though I know it will cost more. I'll take the high quality girl over the bar fly every time. And yes it will cost me maybe more time, I may have to drive further, but totally worth it.
posted on my birthday love the squeral and the person talking to the woman in the back ground and you have great advice and the dad is playing with the kid socker kind of cool when you scooted closer to him you like him kinda cool your body language between you two was amazing
I don’t think any guy actually is disputing what she said. It’s not at all easy for anyone to find love and your “soul mate”. What IS easier for women however, is having “access” to dates. The dating scene is like a house. Men are struggling to get through the front door, meanwhile women are already inside the house complaining about the decor. Men are fighting to get a date or a chance to court a woman, while women have a few guys to choose from and are choosing the best one. Now in our more modern society, it is becoming more normal for women to approach the guy they like, but women naturally don’t want to do that. Men have to be the ones that approach women, there’s no other way we can do this. Equality DOES NOT mean that women should act like men. Women don’t want to approach men because it doesn’t feel natural to them. Even on the bumble dating app where women make the first move. Half of my matches either don’t say anything at all and expire or the just say “hey”, which then forces me to be the REAL person that makes the first move. That’s just the way it is. By pointing out how humans interact naturally is not implying that women have privilege. This is just the way it is. Men and women are DIFFERENT. Different does not mean better or worse, it’s a shame I have to say that because too many people conflate the two. If a man complains and says that women have privilege because of this, that shows weakness on the part of the man. A strong man does not waste his time and energy on natural human behavior that won’t change, and instead will focus on themselves and do everything in their power to be desirable to women so that they will be more open to him approaching her. Women already do everything in their power to be approached by men. They dress well, stay thin, put makeup on and do all these things so they can be approached by men. Men in return must focus on ourselves and do what it takes in order to earn that first date, because the woman has already done what is necessary to earn our attention in the first place.
Something beautiful about christian perspective of sex is that:You're doing the best thing there is to do(i've heard of,never done),and it is not for you!!You're doing it compelitely to the other person,so that she/he feels pleasure... That's essence of love for christians,all you do is not for you!!!
She talks about connection. Sad reality is very few men and women really relate and this is evidenced in the post-honeymoon-pre-breakup phase. We keep trying to fit the triangle into the square when it comes to relating but it's just a lot of carry on. This is why the vast majority of relationships/marriages fail in the end, both just got real with each other. The issue is modern life has given us the false idea that we are similar as we are both human, similar lived experiences etc. So expecting there to be some profound connection is just erroneous.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Michael. Based of what you say, you may be interested in learning about karezza: reuniting.info/content/lovers-ultimate-sex-hack-karezza
When love is real it will totally possess you and control you and leave you with no choice...you just have to hope that the feelings are mutual and with somebody who is mentally healthy lol...
yessss!! One night stands are easy to attain, but who wants a million different partners? Everyone wants someone to call their own. Yup, women do not have it 'easy' or 'lucky'
and looks don't matter. looks don't guarantee an approach or a commitment. "ohh you're so pretty, guys should flock to you". The ones that do are flocking for sex, rarely a relationship.
great video and great people. i see a lot of comments regarding her appearance and relationship status. coming from a girl, it is quite offensive to assume and only regard and acknowledge a woman for these attributes, she is very wise and i would love to see if you all reacted the same if she didnt look as gorgeous as she does. we all have to realise that we cannot choose who our parents are and what genetics we are given. we can definitely work on our wisdom. and. respect. but i would love to see the same energy in society for 'ugly' people or people who dont look like societys definiton of beautiful, will you only listen when this advice is coming from a conventionally attractive person? are you conventionally attractive? is this why you're single and trying so hard? because you have impossible to meet standards? is that why its so hard for women to find quality men? ill leave that for u to answer.
It was great meeting you Luke. Keep inspiring people and making change happen!
You guys should date.
I enjoyed watching ya'll chip chat about life.
Alpha Logic you’re crying about getting easy, no string attached sex and you have the audacity to have “alpha” in your name?? 😂😂
@ the whole alpha thing is retarded... A truely superior man might not even be a gym obsessed be very committed to a monogamous relationship... Who cares or knows.
Ill be your boyfriend Lana. Im single, you're single, lets make it happen.
She's very eloquent. A rare kind of beauty.
Thank you for introducing her to us Luke.
she looks like a kardashian but with the mannerisms of jackie kennedy. its kinda impressive n gives me hope in women/humanity/etc.
@@zexnynex777 yeah exactly. It's the INFJ personality which gave me hope that there are women out there who are genuinely loving, caring and loyal.
But only about 1% of all women have this personality and they are super hard to find unfortunately.
I got to this channel because of Lana, I never though so many men felt so interested in finding someone with brains. I had this idea that men were only looking for Kardashians and that's why we as women feel so concerned and insecure about. Very good talk. I like to see that not everything is lost in society. And you guys will find your woman, just be patient. 💕
I appreciate you commenting this Miry! There are lots of us guys who are attracted to intelligence! Superficial women are a big turn-off for me. Wishing you all the best.
Thank you very much. I think changing the way we perceive people is actually the beginning of true revolution and evolution. 💕 Your content is great! Keep up with the good work!
Actually i think majority of men prefer natural looking, no or little make up women if it comes to serious relationships. For some reason, women seem to think otherwise possibly cause of insta and social media.
@@koma7778 yes, I agree with you. Social media somehow has made us believe that we need to look a certain way to be liked. I mean, there's nothing wrong with looking pretty (good), but I guess feeding the brain is actually more rewarding than looking perfect. 😊
@@mirysick i just think that what is necessary is someone who takes care of themselves and respects themself. Thats all. But if you think about it, is it good for a good partner/mother/wife to attract excess male attention on purpose? No, that is bad because it is kind of "cheating" on your family. If a mom/partner spends time trying to attract extra male attention and spend her time thinking about that when she already has a partner or family shows her priorities. That is assuming the woman is at least average in her looks and has relative success in dating ofc. Im not talking about those who havent had any success at all which is a different story.
Women and men have difficulty in different ways. Understanding the difference will help you find someone.
Great comment!
That was the most apt comment that I read!
When you choose chasity is even harder...It requires getting to know the person,trying to grow together,fail together,have meaningful conversations,and wait for something sexual for a long time,that you're not sure it's going to happen because you're not sure you'll get married to that person...
But these values are so important for me that i'll take it even if i die and never had a relationship...
Thanks for sharing Ana! Stay true to your values! 🙌
Anyone notice the dad in the background playing with his daughter? That is an example of a quality man.
It made me smile, thank you 🥰
Women have it easier to get laid, sure, but finding a good man? Nowhere near easy. We're not flattered by the amount of men that want us only for our bodies, and men should stop putting so much value in getting laid.
I appreciate you sharing. 👍All the best to you.
So, why do men put so much value on getting laid?
@@pistolen87 Its called validation. You're getting something that's special, not for everyone. And especially because men are rejected so often so its a challenge. And you feel validated. Not just because of the girl but because your friends make you feel validated too.
@@pistolen87 because its harder for men so people think its a sort of achievement.
Agreed but i dont know why men do that, but not only men but also woman does this all the time. I can only sleep with a woman after i connect with her emotionally.
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find yourself a man that looks at you the way luke looks at his guests
he looks highAF
Raymond Flores Agreed !!!
That laugh he does is the same high laugh we experience
He does look high 😂
Lol It’s her cousin
I dated a gorgeous Latin woman named Maria and all she did was talk about how beautiful she was and how she can get any guy she wanted. She was very conceded. Then her cellphone kept ringing constantly from people calling her when we were having dinner. I didn’t believe her that she was single and she kept telling me that she was. When I took it slow and just treated her like a friend, she asked me to go out with her again. I refused. That was 15 years ago. When it comes to relationships, there is so much to learn about the person your dating besides there looks, you have to know who there families are and there friends are in order to know how dysfunctional they are.
I can really relate about something she said about the "special connection" to someone and the importance of communication.
👍
This talk actually really blew my mind. Like it opened up my mind tremendously. Anyone else here feel the same?
Men have a harder time getting their foot in the door, women have a hard time fiding a quality man.
That men have a harder time getting their foot in the door is a pretty self evident fact. Most girls can find a man to sleep with in a few hours of searching. That a quality man is hard to find is very debatable. For a start, it's really subjective. If a quality man is Mr Perfect, what women are constantly told they deserve, then yes, it's hard to find but that's really the woman's fault, not guys.
That's 100% it.
Quality women are hard to find too these days. Lots of picking though the trash to find gold.
@@BlunderCity you sound like an incel
@@BlunderCity, yes---studies show that women have unrealistic expectations, i.e. 6 feet tall, figure income, etc. 80% of women are only interested in 20% of the available men. quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
Lana: "I'm single..."
Everyone: 🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️
We need more Lana's in our world!
What she said from 6:24 and a couple mins after.. she literally amazes me. I thought I was the only person who perceived the dating world the same way.. so refreshing
I really like both of your channels. I did not expect this crossover!
They are out there dear. Just think how often you have shown awkwardness whenever you have encounters with a shy, intimidating, opinionated girl. Those girls are like lana and even more good. But you just didn't try to interact with them because you thought it would take a bit of an effort .
Realest channel out here!!! Im so happy to find people who comunicate this awesome info
Appreciate the comment Eduardo! :)
I'm very happy to listen to both of you. This topic needs to be discussed more deeply.
Great video to you both! I hope you guys played soccer with that girl in the background afterwards and let her score a few times. Her dad had no mercy...ha!!!
😂
bruh the park is really great. The squirrel in the background was cute. We have this park just behind our house and it's really great ambience for work or study.
This is a great discussion to be having...I hope we as a generation can take the dialogue in a more healthy direction like this...thank you guys 😊
Appreciate the comment Alan! Yes I believe our generation will. Lots of work and healing needs to be done!
These contents saved me during my coming of age being young adult. Thank you very much!
Love from the Philippines
I absolutely love these talks. It’s super great for growing intellectually & the spirit
I realized few months ago that people who desire connection first are called demisexuals, it baffelled me because I thought that was the norm for everyone but it's not. A lot have sexual desires towards people they don't connect with, which a good example of are people who would actually be ok with a one night stand. While demisexuals crave connection and a friendship first.
This is Excellent!!! I was becoming fearful that Human Beings (coming of age in the era of social media) with such strong Values had become all but extinct.
Quite refreshing!!!
And the part on the importance of Communication: Spot On!!! It's HUGE!!! Thank You so much for addressing that.
Great Stuff!!! Really. Please keep up the good work. Humanity needs to hear this ... every day.
Thank you for the kind words 🙏
@@GoldJacketLuke Oh, no. Thank YOU!!! Really. You're doing excellent work here. Society needs your voice(s).
... Best, TD
Boston, MA
It's a good thing you guys made a video about this topic. :) Keep on doing great things!
Appreciate the support!
Both of you are on point making these videos..their is a calling for the youth to do some soul searching, good job. God bless.
Thank you for the great comments and kind words! God bless you too.
I think people will reach to their graves till their discussion on about getting the "right one"reaches to a genuine conclusion. Understanding ourselves is a lifelong process. Just get along with someone and try to remain with them by taking care of each other, showing respect and be disciplined.
Dear, it's still heard to just find someone. There are a lot u need to understand
I must say, she is stunning. Very interesting insight and conversation as well. Great chemistry.
Dating was much simpler in the 1980s when I was in my twenties. Then we met somebody you liked and dating just happened, jolly good fun. Today things are different for young people, I don't know why but I do feel sorry for young people.
Man, am I jealous! It's so convoluted for young people.
Loved the whole conversation, we should all start talking to friends and our close ones like this.
We should even talk to anyone who come across in our day to day life. It will make their and our life much smoother and confusion less.
So Luke, did you ask her out?
I hope so😂. He made beautiful eye contact with her.
They already have eleven children
If you worried all the time about making mistakes you will never take chances and you will have deep sorrowful regrets.
@@waynelast1685 Bruh hope you don't mind but I'm gonna speak abouy this on a video tomorrow thanks for the idea I can shout you out if you want
KINGxTERRY yeah sure. I’ve heard this before and it’s very true. Just be careful of permanent liabilities lol. Like don’t jump off a bridge for the thrill of it unless you have safety measures but ask every girl out that you like etc.
Love is so great when it really WORKS and it can be so effortless...never give up searching.
I rather go on one quality date then 1000+ dates, where I end up regretting why I went for it.
You'll get laid at least 500 of them.
@@ezscootrr
Short term pleasure < long term happiness.
@@KeepRolling1000 Exactly, when the long term happiness > short term pain, you at least have a reason to delay short happiness. In my head the equation can be like this. We have a strong reason to do something IF long term happiness > short term pain > short term happiness.
@@yustinushalim1146 I couldn't say any better than you have said.
Cigarettes After Sex - Sweet. Just waiting for someone to dance with while that song is playing.
This girl is a rarity in today's culture.
Stop watching mainstream media, connect to God and traditional values, and you will be the same my friend
@@matinazadeh6870 Break away from mainstream media, and unfortunately you will be viewed as boring and out of touch by everyone else.
I know! I don’t know how she’s single
@@zackbeguelin4300
_You are all not worthy!_ lol
She is a woman, not a girl.
She's a top girl and he's a top guy
Do u ship them
Hahaha 😂
Wow Lana is such great conversationalist. She has intellect.
its pure pleasure just to see her talk
Both of you are awesome. Really good topics on these two videos. You got a new subscriber.
Appreciate the comment R.K.! Glad you subbed! :)
am I the only one here who thinks they look like a good couple?
wwfokc you’re a moron
So basically someone totally opposite from you. Stop being a pussy and try to approach
@@hames7497 He wrote a solid response to your comment and you told him to stop being a pussy. Fuck you
@ageofbogyo yeah you are right, but I cannot agree on high status or rich men, I know a lot of rich guys but their wives treat them like shit. So the real alpha is the one who don't let any female control or rule over him. Just don't do what what you don't wanna do. So many cool guys are being kept on leash of thots.
@ageofbogyo yep that's right, females, they just don't care about us(men) unless they need something. The girls themselves tell me that they're not humans and hate each other despite fake smiles and laughs. I see a lot of guys who spent their money and time chasing them. I'm glad that you've realized all this stuff. Btw how old r u bro?
I watched this a couple of weeks ago but not until now did I realize that she is the girl from one of Yes theory's videos. Such a small world. Really good content this
Woah, which video? Didn't make that connection.
@@Crambull ua-cam.com/video/oYe-QM8ZimI/v-deo.html
Wonderful! Terrific information, insight and perspective!
Commitment really has little to do with the man and more to do with everything else like kids, a home, his income etc. This is why the guy is often confused about this demand and how she doesnt wana be casual, he doesnt see whats at the heart of commitment. Divorce rates initiated by women is a strong reflection of this. Once the children and home are snapped up the man is an after thought for so many women.
Genuine candid words by you two , thanks for sharing !
Appreciate you commenting!
Glad you visited my country, Dominican Republic. As always, great video. Keep it up!
Thanks! I love the Dominican Republic! My mom actually lived there for several years when she was young.
@@GoldJacketLuke That's pretty awesome brother!
I love this girl for no reason, just her personality......
69 K subs
Almost 70k
Congrats !
Thanks!! Been working hard on this channel for 6 years!
she seems a good quality woman inside out
You’re always inspiring me bro..! Good work u and Lana..!! 👋🏻👋🏻
Appreciate the love! All the best to you Danyal!
GoldJacketLuke cheers bro✌🏻✌🏻 all the best to u too..! Thank u for ur videos 👏🏻
Thanks for the video. It helped expand my mind's understanding a bit more about these things.
Damn... U guys looked sweet together
Very good topic u chose to talk abt.
That's one pretty lady
thank you, rare footage nowadays.
I had a similar conversation with a woman about this yesterday. A man who has success with women will be able to relate to women in that once a man experiences success and 'sows his wild oats' he typically gets bored with superficial sex and desires a real connection with a woman he loves to be around.
My first thought on seeing this video - they're sitting too close together. My second thought - it's incredible how everything has changed in a few short months.
Thanks for doing this
This kind of girl is Gold, very hard to find.
Lana your videos are amazing. Everything you spoke of resonates with me❤️. Keep it up
Cool talk. Appreciate the content and substance
Buffetts are a usually a cheap way to fill your appetite, and maybe pick up some germs along the way, but personally I would be more satisfied dining at a high end restaurant even though I know it will cost more. I'll take the high quality girl over the bar fly every time. And yes it will cost me maybe more time, I may have to drive further, but totally worth it.
Quite a good very easy interview of
Lana Blakely
fun in a subtle way
Awesome conversation friends ❤️🧡💛
Appreciate the comment Buck! 💙
posted on my birthday love the squeral and the person talking to the woman in the back ground and you have great advice and the dad is playing with the kid socker kind of cool when you scooted closer to him you like him kinda cool your body language between you two was amazing
luke you guys should go on a date! You guys seem to be on the same wavelength
Maxwell Sampson III but he's not chad tho..girls only date chad these days..
I hope you're joking @@religionofviolence2487
shes clean cut hes filthy
its called having a real conversation
@@religionofviolence2487 wtf are you talking about? If he's not Chad then he's Chad lite at the very least.
i can’t be the only one who was watching the soccer match behind them while listening to them talk lmao
I agree with you on this part, most women tend to carry their emotions everywhere, and sometimes for a longer period.
Great video. The biggest issue is that these days nobody wants to "seem" needy!
Your concerns and feeling are the same as any generation…each is just human…human issues have been present as long as mankind has existed.
You two are like perfect together!! ☺️
I don’t think any guy actually is disputing what she said. It’s not at all easy for anyone to find love and your “soul mate”. What IS easier for women however, is having “access” to dates.
The dating scene is like a house. Men are struggling to get through the front door, meanwhile women are already inside the house complaining about the decor. Men are fighting to get a date or a chance to court a woman, while women have a few guys to choose from and are choosing the best one. Now in our more modern society, it is becoming more normal for women to approach the guy they like, but women naturally don’t want to do that. Men have to be the ones that approach women, there’s no other way we can do this. Equality DOES NOT mean that women should act like men. Women don’t want to approach men because it doesn’t feel natural to them. Even on the bumble dating app where women make the first move. Half of my matches either don’t say anything at all and expire or the just say “hey”, which then forces me to be the REAL person that makes the first move. That’s just the way it is.
By pointing out how humans interact naturally is not implying that women have privilege. This is just the way it is. Men and women are DIFFERENT. Different does not mean better or worse, it’s a shame I have to say that because too many people conflate the two. If a man complains and says that women have privilege because of this, that shows weakness on the part of the man. A strong man does not waste his time and energy on natural human behavior that won’t change, and instead will focus on themselves and do everything in their power to be desirable to women so that they will be more open to him approaching her. Women already do everything in their power to be approached by men. They dress well, stay thin, put makeup on and do all these things so they can be approached by men. Men in return must focus on ourselves and do what it takes in order to earn that first date, because the woman has already done what is necessary to earn our attention in the first place.
Damn I've never really thought about it like that, good shit dude
Such a superficial comment for a deep leveled high quality video but wow both of them got nice brows😍
Find someone who looks at you the way luke looks at Lana❤️
You know he wanted her
0:30 the squirrel in the background what a sweetheart
You look good together ;-)
Yeah!!
Something beautiful about christian perspective of sex is that:You're doing the best thing there is to do(i've heard of,never done),and it is not for you!!You're doing it compelitely to the other person,so that she/he feels pleasure...
That's essence of love for christians,all you do is not for you!!!
No, everything christians do is for god/jesus and the afterlife.
Nice video bro 👍👍 , much love 💓💓🇮🇳
Appreciate your comment Pratyaksh! Much love.
@@GoldJacketLuke Bro you are my inspiration , i started nofap by seeing your videos , respect 🙏🙏
I want to meet someone like her and just talk to that person for days
it takes two to open up to find that deeper connection. Cannot be only one
Thanks both
She talks about connection. Sad reality is very few men and women really relate and this is evidenced in the post-honeymoon-pre-breakup phase. We keep trying to fit the triangle into the square when it comes to relating but it's just a lot of carry on. This is why the vast majority of relationships/marriages fail in the end, both just got real with each other. The issue is modern life has given us the false idea that we are similar as we are both human, similar lived experiences etc. So expecting there to be some profound connection is just erroneous.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Michael. Based of what you say, you may be interested in learning about karezza: reuniting.info/content/lovers-ultimate-sex-hack-karezza
So are you guys going to do the cupid's broken arrow thing
When love is real it will totally possess you and control you and leave you with no choice...you just have to hope that the feelings are mutual and with somebody who is mentally healthy lol...
Its a fucking disaster. And if it doesn't play out. You are so fucked. its absolutely devastating. No words.
Greatest crossover in history 😂
OMG you guys look so cute together!!!❤️
This guy is balling on his daughter in the background tho.
2:52 : pheromones activated.
Luke, your nods remind me of Al Pacino
Great meeting with her
I like how you can hear the children playing in the background in Lana's video 😂
You need to date this girl dude!
she’s so fascinating
Love is so rare in this world & finding it
2:52 MY HEART
My dream girl
lol not just you bro
yessss!! One night stands are easy to attain, but who wants a million different partners? Everyone wants someone to call their own. Yup, women do not have it 'easy' or 'lucky'
U two Would be a great Couple probably
and looks don't matter. looks don't guarantee an approach or a commitment. "ohh you're so pretty, guys should flock to you". The ones that do are flocking for sex, rarely a relationship.
great video and great people. i see a lot of comments regarding her appearance and relationship status. coming from a girl, it is quite offensive to assume and only regard and acknowledge a woman for these attributes, she is very wise and i would love to see if you all reacted the same if she didnt look as gorgeous as she does. we all have to realise that we cannot choose who our parents are and what genetics we are given. we can definitely work on our wisdom. and. respect. but i would love to see the same energy in society for 'ugly' people or people who dont look like societys definiton of beautiful, will you only listen when this advice is coming from a conventionally attractive person? are you conventionally attractive? is this why you're single and trying so hard? because you have impossible to meet standards? is that why its so hard for women to find quality men? ill leave that for u to answer.