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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2022
  • Caris purchased Abbey Dore Court for $14,000, 40 years ago. A passionate horticulturist, 81 year old Caris, turned surrounding fields into beautiful gardens which attract people up and down the county. However, with maintenance being too much, Caris has had to move out of Abbey Dore. Her niece Claire feels so passionate about the property that she wants to quit her job and deviate from her time on the property. Can Ruth Watson help them save the home? Find out on Country house Rescue!
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  • @happydays1336
    @happydays1336 Рік тому +138

    Claire went from animated and confident to beaten down and depressed. It's very sad to see.

    • @WilldoAldone
      @WilldoAldone Рік тому +23

      I think the enormous task and money to restore it took its toll on her plans. Plus, now there were four involved in decisions of how it was to be run and divided up. I think it was finally sold for about a million pounds. So they all came out with a good profit, but will never own an estate like that again.

    • @user-bo1rj2xu2s
      @user-bo1rj2xu2s Рік тому +13

      Yup. Thanks to Grandma and the other grandkids who didn't know how to stand up her. A HUGE missed opportunity. Now, another family owns it.

    • @ROSEMARY1925
      @ROSEMARY1925 Рік тому +5

      @@WilldoAldone just seen these show, these old women really did not want any of those grandchildren of her having any part of the house… as you recall, the old lady said “she never expected any of the grandchildren to come back”
      That tells you everything… just a cold nasty old evil creature.

  • @aliceputt3133
    @aliceputt3133 Рік тому +44

    The Grandma lived alone in a huge home while her family lived in the servants quarters. Then she just closes the house for 10 years letting it rot while she gardens, but she allowed her grandkids to return to the servant quarters and a cottage. Then she blocks her granddaughters from fixing the house. That's one old mean selfish woman.

  • @annskaggs4475
    @annskaggs4475 Рік тому +85

    House sold to a private family in 2019. They did rent it out for a bit. I imagine The heirs (not grandkids) wanted their inheritance while the market was hot. Super sad. I love these shows wish they had a follow-up show. I live in America and this program is not on anywhere but UA-cam.

    • @camilaaravena5206
      @camilaaravena5206 Рік тому +7

      Thanks for the update.

    • @XenaBe25
      @XenaBe25 Рік тому +6

      Aaw. Tragic. Don'tcha hate it when your squabbling siblings all have conflicting ideas about how things should be done? My sister and I still fight about that stuff. I mean literally punch each other sometimes lol Then I say "I told you so" when the opportunity comes up (because it almost always does.) I think they should have used their money from their regular jobs, plus the farmer's market, but expanded to make it an all weekend every weekend kinda thing. And why did she give that 500 pounds (sorry finding the British money symbol on my kb seems like more aggravation than it's worth :P) to charity? People don't usually give their money away when they're truly interested in using it to fix the roof. And she could have. Some of her own money from a hospital admin's salary (over here they make upwards of $150k, btw) plus that 500 could have fixed the leak in one or 2 of the worst rooms.We could assume 4000 or more every month based on that. Then they could get a horse or 2 and offer riding lessons at the same time, and keep the tea room running. After about 6 months they would have had a nice little chunk of money saved up for reno. And what about historical home salvation grants from the government? They could have got some of those.
      But I get the impression that the missing generation (the heirs) were just waiting for the old lady to die so they could get their money fast and retire. I mean who makes 500 pounds and then just gives it to charity? Not somebody who thinks that making enough money to fix a house is actually possible, or worth it. That's for durn sure. I'm glad the grandchildren at least had good jobs.

    • @bojack40
      @bojack40 Рік тому

      So write a will

    • @paulette6087
      @paulette6087 11 місяців тому

      I agree 100%

    • @paulette6087
      @paulette6087 11 місяців тому

      Who inherited the house

  • @5DNRG
    @5DNRG Рік тому +56

    This dear old lady is very set in her ways.... she is a perfect example of the destruction caused by negative thinking.

  • @WilldoAldone
    @WilldoAldone Рік тому +76

    Wonderful house and gardens. Whoever ends up owning it are very fortunate. To think Carris paid 12,000 pounds for the house,cottages and 140 acres only 40 years ago it mind boggling.

    • @ianwatson3315
      @ianwatson3315 Рік тому +14

      It does ..when only 4 years later I paid £33,000 for a two bed cottage !

    • @jimbo1637
      @jimbo1637 Рік тому +10

      That's exactly what I was thinking. She got an incredible deal!

  • @Beautiful_Sacred_Land
    @Beautiful_Sacred_Land Рік тому +53

    The negative and controlling Grandmother is a great example of how one person can destroy and undermine your life. She is selfish, self serving and all to make herself look good. Claire does not need that. Hats off to Claire for attempting to push on through, even with all the undermining opposition that only served to prop up Caris's ego. Claire was saddened by this lack of support.

  • @kimieann1975
    @kimieann1975 Рік тому +17

    What amazes me about this show is all the folks who have what others could only dream of having or inheriting just take it for granted. How could they possibly live in such huge estates and not realize the amount of work and money they require? Just blows my mind. In most episodes family members are working outside of the estate and seam to treat the estate like it's a regular 3bdrm residential home. It's so weird how disconnected many of them are from what they have.

  • @LisaNH934
    @LisaNH934 Рік тому +119

    This episode was sad. This grandmother had absolutely no confidence in her granddaughter and was a selfish, uninformed property owner.

    • @gracenjuguna7292
      @gracenjuguna7292 Рік тому +7

      I agree.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 Рік тому +20

      She just seemed to magically expect the house will fix itself or that it needs no maintenance

    • @twistoffate4791
      @twistoffate4791 Рік тому +16

      @Lisa, Well-stated. Claire became a different person. The light that glowed from her insides out burned out because her grandmother poured cold water all over her. At the end, Claire's sadness even made her look like a different person. Heartbreaking. Very sad episode.

    • @deb7518
      @deb7518 Рік тому +6

      I'm seeing a pattern in all these shows....elderly folks who think (as this lady came out and SAID in the beginning)..."Oh, something will turn up...."

  • @gwendolyn7462
    @gwendolyn7462 Рік тому +56

    Never seen a granny treat her grandkids with such disdain----LIVING IN THE SERVANTS QUARTERS; NOT ALLOWED IN THE MAIN HOUSE?????????

  • @northerngirl4666
    @northerngirl4666 Рік тому +34

    The cottage where Claire lives is ghastly! With all that water damage, I just can’t imagine how much mold is lurking in the walls and ceiling and how unhealthy that is.

  • @steveaustin286
    @steveaustin286 Рік тому +42

    Apparently permanently closed. Claire seemed totally lost once her dream was ripped from her. Social superiority for some is clearly more important than practical business skill.

    • @atodaso1668
      @atodaso1668 Рік тому +7

      You don't look good socially if you cant afford the house you live in.

  • @kimberlyflanigan
    @kimberlyflanigan Рік тому +26

    sadly... another property that is now permanently closed. I had hoped to find the gardens and a B&B ...small weddings... i hope it is in loving hands

    • @nikkidarkangelpnope8400
      @nikkidarkangelpnope8400 Рік тому +15

      If it makes you feel better the entire house was restored and run as a business it was put for sale in 2018 for just over a million pounds and will likely stand for another century.

    • @kimberlyearly8918
      @kimberlyearly8918 Рік тому +15

      @@nikkidarkangelpnope8400 Thanks for the info. I always love knowing what's happened to homes like this.

  • @gman1003
    @gman1003 Рік тому +6

    "we can't set up in opposition to those in the village who have B&B's". Grandma was such a negative Nellie. She was so concerned about impinging on the success of those in the village and didn't really appear to care at all about the success of her own family.

  • @219043204
    @219043204 Рік тому +42

    Why must people who want to maintain their property act snobbish when it comes to solutions. After all this property is empty use it

    • @Valerie-bb5hi
      @Valerie-bb5hi Рік тому +23

      Yes her snobbishness ruined it for all the rest of her family it wasn't even like it was in her family for generations she had bought it a few years back and now her hopeless helpless negative attitude lost the home

  • @Whoiskevinjones
    @Whoiskevinjones Рік тому +12

    Ruth failed to address the most consequential question, "Who will inherit Abbey Dore Court?" Where were the parents? Will Clare get the full estate because she is doing the work? Or will the other two get an equal share without doing the work? If I were Clare, I would get this in writing pronto!!

  • @virginiamoss7045
    @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +14

    Nothing, NOTHING, will kill a house quicker and more absolutely than water, no matter its source or its amount, no matter how tiny.

    • @basstrammel1322
      @basstrammel1322 5 місяців тому

      And it always end up finding a way in, surprisingly fast after you lock the door and leave it be.

  • @purpurina5663
    @purpurina5663 Рік тому +60

    There is something about the grandmother, a certain pettiness, that rubs me the wrong way and seems to go beyond what we see here.

    • @brocktoon8
      @brocktoon8 Рік тому +26

      She strikes one as a malicious narcissist.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie Рік тому +26

      Yes, a narcissist. They figure out what matters to you and then do their best to thwart it.... they will say what they think you want to hear while not meaning it and the narrative changes depending on the person they are trying to manipulate. What a mess.

    • @twistoffate4791
      @twistoffate4791 Рік тому +23

      Grandma doesn't care about anyone else's future because she herself no longer has a future. And grandma isn't loving enough to care about her family's desire to make their dream work.

    • @Kiwiwanderer
      @Kiwiwanderer Рік тому +26

      💯 agree. The fact she lived alone in the main home and let her family live in the tiny servants quarters tells me all I need to know about her. Mean spirited.

    • @user-bo1rj2xu2s
      @user-bo1rj2xu2s Рік тому +8

      Totally agree. Grandma is gone now and I hope the three grandchildren learned how to stand up for themselves in other areas of their lives.

  • @gabe-po9yi
    @gabe-po9yi Рік тому +19

    I think it was Claire’s siblings who failed her. Her grandmother is the way she is and there was no changing her. It was her property and she could do what she wanted with it. I assume the siblings were living there for free and didn’t express any affection for the house at all. The brother made the excuse that he and the other sister worked full-time, but you still have evenings and weekends to help out. If the three had gotten together and wanted to do the B&B, I think they could’ve swayed grandmother, but they obviously didn’t want to.

    • @Vontharau47
      @Vontharau47 Рік тому +5

      Well ive got the same situation around the corner in my family - distant cousin sisters live in their mothers grand house for free and do absolutely nothing despite being almost 50. They just wait for their mother to die so they can sell the amazing old house with english garden and stop working their low paying jobs. They dont want to work, they cant appreciate the house or the garden. They want their TV and vacations. An absolute disgrace to the family. Their old mother would never kick them out though because they are still her babys... :(

  • @cremebrulee4759
    @cremebrulee4759 Рік тому +7

    Such an absolutely beautiful house! The grandmother was horrible. She didn't take care of the house then deserted it and somehow thought that it was going to be repaired with no concrete idea of with what money or by whom. If it's been left up to her, the house would have just fallen completely to ruin. She put so much effort into the garden and no effort into the house. Pathetic.

  • @brocktoon8
    @brocktoon8 Рік тому +49

    What a dreadful grandmother. Shame on her for squashing her granddaughter's dream.

    • @ROSEMARY1925
      @ROSEMARY1925 Рік тому +2

      That old lady was evil all her life… these was not the first time around for her… evil never changes.

  • @cathyshinkoskey125
    @cathyshinkoskey125 Рік тому +13

    " I didn't abandon it"- touchy - something would have turned up.

  • @DanielCampbell-fc8xf
    @DanielCampbell-fc8xf Рік тому +3

    It amazes me how the house is falling down around her yet her garden is important

  • @Lisette777
    @Lisette777 Рік тому +30

    I'm just not sure how an obstructionist attitude can bring it forward. I hope it succeeded! The grandmother seemed bound and determined to nix any kind of change, or improvement. Poor grandkids!

    • @seanmcgcostumes
      @seanmcgcostumes Рік тому +10

      The family sold the house back in 2018, and it's apparently completely private now.

    • @melize7035
      @melize7035 Рік тому +18

      @@seanmcgcostumes wow I really feel bad for Claire. She looked completely defeated, she was on the verge of tears.

  • @Celtic_Amy
    @Celtic_Amy Рік тому +9

    This is my favorite estate on this show so far and would have loved to visit. I just looked it up and it was refurbished in 2010 and ran as a holiday home until 2018. It was however listed for sale in August of 2018 for £1,095,000

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Рік тому +16

    I'm really rooting for this family. What a beautiful estate ! Wow ❤️🙏

  • @resnonverba137
    @resnonverba137 Рік тому +24

    Nice speech from Ruth to the family at the end. Overall, I found this quite a depressing episode. The family had so many opportunities yet rapidly lost any motivation to advance. Caris I liked but could not understand her lack of desire to protect the family home/business/investment.

    • @purpurina5663
      @purpurina5663 Рік тому +9

      Caris made herself to appear likeable but I think she's a negative person. Her wake is of destruction is palpable.

  • @pauljames9393
    @pauljames9393 Рік тому +9

    Sold off in 2019 this property. I guess the grand kids had to wait for their grand mother to pass away before selling on to a family who could financially support it. (37minutes into this video is quite interesting where Ruth nails the problem ! )

    • @davidlynch9049
      @davidlynch9049 Рік тому +3

      Granny lived until 2019? Shows you how much spite can take you.

  • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
    @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +20

    Stunning landscape, artists, art students and photographers could have been a good market for them if the guest house proved to much. I think the grandmother was rather calculative and probably made up her mind to sell but had not yet divulged this decision to the grandchildren. Ruth was excellent. I was hoping she would offer to inject cash flow and probably be repaid, this is exactly how she made millions. The family was not very truthful with Ruth. Claire looked defeated and dilapidated from the get go.

  • @gracenjuguna7292
    @gracenjuguna7292 Рік тому +13

    Poor Clare...dream quashed

  • @milliebanks7209
    @milliebanks7209 Рік тому +13

    What an old bitty! She should just get out of the way.

  • @rozieofpetitprince
    @rozieofpetitprince Рік тому +2

    Such nice grandchildren, they all want to place their grandma… this is love ❤️ hopefully all will work out as their hearts are in the right place 🙏🏻

  • @kelly5198
    @kelly5198 Рік тому +5

    Now this is a home of my dreams..absolutely beautiful..how fortunate to have experienced such surroundings

  • @northerngirl4666
    @northerngirl4666 Рік тому +17

    At the end of the video, the family stated quite clearly they are not interested in running a B&B: two of them have full-time jobs and not an iota of interest. This is a weird video: there was no interest and suddenly there is money to renovate. Or was the reno done to get it ready for sale? Caris is a fox: she doesn’t know the cost of things? Right.

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +2

      I agree with your view. However, although a fox in some peoples eyes, Cari was clearly from an upper/upper middle class background. Although I grew up in the 90's-00's I had a similar upbringing and I can relate to her values, thus I understand those traits in her personality. In such an upbringing with traditional values of those kinds, one thing is for certain: you do not talk about money and making capitalistic decisions and talking about them with outsiders is not something you do. It's very frowned upon. Talking about politics and money in social situations is seen as very uncivilized. Two of the most hush-hush topics, if any.

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Рік тому +15

    Why not board horses and have a horse vet in the tack room ??? Volunteers would help with the horses and srudents could come apprenice under the Vet, or horticulture students pay to come stay there and learn from the Gramma.

  • @Sup1719
    @Sup1719 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful place for wedding venues! Plenty of parking. The scenery for pictures, amazing! Then the bride and groom could honeymoon there.

  • @aprilblossoms4
    @aprilblossoms4 Рік тому +3

    I wonder how all these families living on these big estates are all the same especially the ones which are failing. They all want to stick their heads in the sand other than one person. They neither want to do anything nor help/support the one who does want to do something. The house is so beautiful and they would rather allow it to wither away.

  • @broganmckoko
    @broganmckoko Рік тому +13

    I watch this program to see the beautiful Estates. But the people are frequently bereft of character. Which probably explains why the houses are in such Jeopardy. As an American, I would love to pass on the grandparents family home to one of the grandchildren one day. It's not an estate, but has decent sized country land, it's in a great location and it's got a good build. This grandmother not choosing to pass it on down to her granddaughter is just the height of selfishness and foolishness. A decision I'm sure she regrets in the afterlife

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +1

      I just want to remind you of reality: inheritance tax, inheritance laws, it was an estate (a property). Seems like we don't live in the same reality where inheritance, in the form of capital or investments, that has more than one recipient will almost always be divided up, if everything is as it should within the family. To pick one to enherit ~2 million dollars out of 5-10 people, there's going to be horrible consequences within the family, the peace will be at jeopardy, to say the very least.

  • @wisdomseekertv
    @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +4

    Lovely family and a fantastic house. Although I had a bad feeling in my gut after 5-10 minutes into the episode. It didn't feel like Ruth and the family had very good personal chemistry and ideals. A depressing situation if any, under the circumstances. I loved Ruth's monologue at the end. I think production had lots to do with that because they knew they couldn't air the episode without weighing up for all the depressing interactions they'd filmed up to the day of the 9-month revisit. I felt bad for the family. They just didn't get off on the right foot with Ruth. Glad to see production convinced, or at the very least helped, Ruth to make amends.
    Update on the House: I think I saw an article about the house being up for sale, don't know if it sold. Renovations seemed to have been completed and very well done, looked brilliant. If you know what happened, if they released the whole estate or just sold the main house, or whatever, I'd love to know more.

  • @sheelfjohnson
    @sheelfjohnson Рік тому +4

    The music on this episode was like a mashup of Edward Scissorhands, Harry Potter, and Tetris. Caris seemed to be using magical thinking, so I guess the first two would apply.

  • @brianscotpatterson2101
    @brianscotpatterson2101 Рік тому +2

    Just looked up current state. The home was fully renovated and opened as an Inn up to 2018 in which it was sold and is now a private residence.

  • @Kinugo1
    @Kinugo1 4 місяці тому

    This house touched me so much. I wished Claire had more support with someone who wants to built a future together.
    Siblings in this age go different ways in life. Grandma has a chracter but maybe she feels that Claire alone is not able to do all the demands.

  • @NYCHeartandSoul
    @NYCHeartandSoul Рік тому +39

    If they had followed Ruth‘s advice perhaps they would still own the house. Truly an amazing property.

    • @ROSEMARY1925
      @ROSEMARY1925 Рік тому +1

      Ruth had great ideas as a successful businesswoman herself… it was the old lady who never was going to let the young people take over the house the old woman called her home…. No it was never ever going to happen. And it did not instead it was sold off in 2019.

    • @laylaeriksen4593
      @laylaeriksen4593 Рік тому +1

      Wait, what? Did they lose the property? I hope not! Claire and her siblings deserve to make a go of it!

  • @pollypocket2282
    @pollypocket2282 Рік тому +23

    Most frustrating family I’ve ever seen… hope and suppose doesn’t get things done. The matriarch has done ZERO to help her family or the property survive.

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +1

      I'd say the grandmother was the frustration point of it all but she definitely helped. She bought the house and owned the estate, I'd say she was crucial. She's a matriarch, and a bit of pessimist, sure. The grandchildren seemed to carry an initially great point of view but the matriarch put a quiet stop to the dreams - because she probably didn't want the house to be lived in by other people than her own family. She helped, there's no doubt about that, but she didn't share the same views or goals as Ruth or the grandchildren.

  • @natalievisser4169
    @natalievisser4169 Рік тому +4

    This grandmother is in denial and it’s like she doesn’t want the family to keep the house and doesn’t want to succeed.

  • @janicedelp2775
    @janicedelp2775 Рік тому +1

    I am looking forward to future updates on this project! So much potential and very interesting! Many blessings and we'll wishes for this family. Janice from Arkansas USA

  • @SoCalFreelance
    @SoCalFreelance Рік тому +2

    Plenty of info on the Abbey Dore Court estate since this was filmed including its own Wikipedia page. A 2018 property listing shows all the renovated rooms which look great. However, it appears they sold the home to a private owner in 2018.

  • @bodyloverz30
    @bodyloverz30 Рік тому +11

    They were never allowed to live in the main house, they were regulated to the servant's quarters. This is not nice, by an American standard.

    • @bodyloverz30
      @bodyloverz30 Рік тому +13

      What type of Grandmother does this, living alone in the Mansion, yet her family lives where the "help" used to? I said the same above, but can't get my mind around this; as it has had a real effect on her grand daughter, being made 2nd class, in her own direct family.

    • @resnonverba137
      @resnonverba137 Рік тому +11

      I think you mean, 'relegated', not regulated.

    • @sonaterese799
      @sonaterese799 Рік тому +2

      Its not nice by anyone's standard

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess Рік тому +24

    That old woman is a very irresponsible homeowner.

  • @Timeisirrelevant
    @Timeisirrelevant Рік тому +5

    In the end, it was grannies house. She didn't have to do a thing. She didn't have to give it to her grandkids or let them live there. Is that what most of us would do? Probably not. Is she within her rights? Absolutely. She could have told everyone to take a hike, shut ups the house, and putter in the gardens until she passed and then the will would have taken settled the issue of the house. After all, it is just a house.

    • @davidlynch9049
      @davidlynch9049 Рік тому +2

      The kids were trying to save it from the batty old granny. Letting a house with that history deteriorate is a crime. I would have forced her into a home and saved it.

  • @carinwiseman4309
    @carinwiseman4309 Рік тому +5

    Start with the roof and chimneys!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
    @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei Рік тому +2

    Perfect place for commercial venture of many sorts. I deeply understand and relate to Claire 🥰 I hope the generations can keep it going.

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +2

      It was brilliantly renovated, finished in 2010. Ran as a let house for 8-9 years before being sold to a private family in 2019, whom has since kept it as a private family home. A bit of a depressing of an episode for my taste but it can't all be perfect, personalities differ and views seem to differ a lot in this episode.

    • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
      @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei Рік тому +2

      @@wisdomseekertv thx for the update 👍

  • @Luna.3.3.3
    @Luna.3.3.3 Рік тому +6

    Claire was the bright, red helium balloon and the grandmother just kept sticking needles in her. It was almost unbearable to see the defeat on her face. I just hope she's happy now. It's ambiguous to me whether the place is trading or not. It's on a booking site, but the last review was 2018 - - and that was renting the house - not B&B

  • @jules2565
    @jules2565 Рік тому +8

    I can't help but wonder why they sold it; the grand kids seemed interested to stay there forever

    • @KNYD
      @KNYD Рік тому +14

      Because otherwise only one could inherit it. To save money the house would have had to skip a generation and be given to one of the grandchildren and it would have had to have been given immediately. UK has inheritance laws that allow smaller inheritance taxation if the inheritance is given something like 8 years before passing. Caris was 80, she should have already transferred the house to one of her children or grandchildren.
      It was clear that Claire wasn't going to inherit the house. All her plans were pushed aside, she herself was pushed aside. That is why she was so defeated, she had planned on taking over the house. She was the only one interested in taking responsibility for the property, but when it became clear she would not inherit it, she gave up and let her grandmother dictate the future for them.
      Caris would have had to step up, take charge and give one person the majority of her funds and risk upsetting others by not choosing them. The way she just chose to be oblivious about the state of the house, the costs, the competition etc. she clearly did not want to actually make that decision. She also didn't want to "upset" the neighbours by opening a B&B, how was she going to choose one to inherit?
      The family would have lost the house anyway. After Caris' passing, they wouldn't have been able to afford to pay the inheritance tax and the property would have been divided among many people. No way at that point any of them would have just chose to give their share away and help pay for the renovations to keep the house in the family.

  • @cathyshinkoskey125
    @cathyshinkoskey125 Рік тому +8

    MOLD- u don't have to be allergic to it for it to be toxic 48 hours and penicillin mold is toxic.

  • @mjkay8660
    @mjkay8660 Рік тому +1

    im certain those decorators will have that vintage mansion looking like the brady house in no time at all. show a decorator an antique & they think its junk.

  • @PopGoesTheology
    @PopGoesTheology Рік тому +1

    The tea room in the garden was the best idea.

  • @maximhollandnederlandthene7640

    First the Roof and pipes, then the Windows and then the Walls.
    So the exterior of the house first.
    And the foundations must be good. 🤗

  • @dohnutz8452
    @dohnutz8452 Рік тому +1

    Contact local film studios and rent it out as a film location! They’ll take care of all maintenance and have insurance for liability and any damages. Plus you get PAID.

  • @KNYD
    @KNYD Рік тому +10

    The house was never going to stay in the family.
    To save money the house would have had to skip a generation and be given to one of the grandchildren and it would have had to have been given immediately. UK has inheritance laws that allow smaller inheritance taxation if the inheritance is given something like 8 years before passing. Caris was 80, she should have already transferred the house to one of her children or grandchildren.
    It was clear that Claire wasn't going to inherit the house. All her plans were pushed aside, she was pushed aside. That is why she was so defeated, she had planned on taking over the house. She was the only one interested in taking responsibility for the property, but when it became clear she would not inherit it, she gave up and let her grandmother dictate the future for them.
    Caris would have had to step up, take charge and give one person the majority of her funds and risk upsetting others by not choosing them. The way she just chose to be oblivious about the state of the house, the costs, the competition etc. she clearly did not want to actually make that decision. She also didn't want to "upset" the neighbours by opening a B&B, how was she going to choose one to inherit?
    The family would have lost the house anyway. After Caris' passing, they wouldn't have been able to afford to pay the inheritance tax and the property would have been divided among many people. No way at that point any of them would have just chose to give their share away and help pay for the renovations to keep the house in the family.

  • @dianemoorhouse6802
    @dianemoorhouse6802 Рік тому +2

    What a beautiful old home.

  • @cathyreardon8979
    @cathyreardon8979 Рік тому +1

    This grandmother loved this house or she wouldn't have bought it. Very sad outcome.☹ Love this show and you Ruth. 🥰 This is my 3rd show and look forward to more.😀

  • @MissX905
    @MissX905 Рік тому +1

    Looks like it did ok for awhile. The property was sold in 2018 and is now privately owned. Owners of Abbey Dore Court ...It's permanently closed it says. Gone private

  • @kefaad
    @kefaad Рік тому +6

    Twelve thousands pounds for this stunning property, the mansion, gardens, cottage and surrounding buildings even back in the 90s??? At first l thought that l missed something or overhead. What a bargain! I inherited a 60s apartment 85 square metres on the fifth floor of an apartment building downtown Athens and it costs one hundred and fifty thousands euros at present, real estate is crazy here. Recently l sold a 22 square metres ground floor studio at the same building for twenty one thousands euros. These people are so lucky and they don't even realize it. Old lady doesn't care about the mansion at all, she looks so indifferent about its future. She would probably be dead by now and property sold cause she didn't provide solutions for the heavy taxation duties for her grandchildren, do we have an update?

    • @northerngirl4666
      @northerngirl4666 Рік тому +2

      The things, the grandmother is in her 80s … her future is limited and she knows it. If as other commenters are saying, it was sold for a million pounds, she showed foresight. I doubt very much the mansion could be restored for only 150 pounds … probably, much, much more. And it takes more that’s just wishing and hoping to run a hospitality facility. Claire may have passion but you really need experience to run a well-functioning B&B or guesthouse.

    • @07laines07
      @07laines07 Рік тому +3

      150,000 pounds for repair in 2009.
      That’s like 210,000 in 2022.

    • @alexsilva-vn7jc
      @alexsilva-vn7jc Рік тому +5

      She bought it at that price in 1974. Still cheap though! Price in 2022 would probably be between 1.2 to 1.5 million depending on the state. The family sold it in 2019. I dont blame them, because the old lady sucked the joy out of all their plans. Its a shame...but its in private hands now and hopefully well looked after.

  • @danielt.3152
    @danielt.3152 Рік тому +2

    You see this a lot, people of all types of home ownership have no Idea of maintenance, and maintenance schedules etc. weather it is a big manor home or some $35K home in a small town. For that matter people don’t take care of their cars either.
    The thing is this, if one thing goes wrong you need to fix it straight up regardless, of you don’t you soon fall behind instead of one thing to fi. Then you have 10 things etc, and after a while it’s almost depressing how many things need attention

  • @truthbetold444
    @truthbetold444 Рік тому +10

    This episode has the weirdest old lady of the whole series. She seems to take a positive delight in relentlessly frustrating everyone around her as much as she possibly can.

  • @ezwriter101
    @ezwriter101 6 місяців тому

    The house was sold in 2018, and this was filmed in 2011. I guess they did make improvements, but projects like this take more than 7 or years to truly turn around.

  • @missmustache4207
    @missmustache4207 Рік тому +1

    I was so surprised she was so easy on the grandmother

  • @lauragreen4899
    @lauragreen4899 Рік тому

    During the discussion at 38:00 Claire's face says it all.....

  • @chrisdeoni1697
    @chrisdeoni1697 Рік тому +3

    IF Shakespeare were alive, he would have written a screen play called "CARISS", and would have MAGGIE SMITH star.

  • @ladytino5715
    @ladytino5715 Рік тому +3

    Why am I so disturbed at 20:10 when Ruth enters the room but doesn't close the door. 😂
    My first response was "close the door behind you betch"

    • @ajds7597
      @ajds7597 6 місяців тому

      This is not the only episode where she has done exactly, I am just as stubbed as you and am glad that I am not the only one who even noticed that LOL

  • @Novaheart1998
    @Novaheart1998 Рік тому +2

    This house was once nice but lets face it, its a dump now. The estate has potential though but Grandma is part of the problem I think. The family isn't listining to the experts and the family think they know what do but I don't have confidence in them yet.

  • @tamararutland-mills9530
    @tamararutland-mills9530 Рік тому +1

    That grandmother craps on everything the grandchildren want to do. She’s no doubt fearful and sooooooo negative.

  • @gwendolyn7462
    @gwendolyn7462 Рік тому +3

    39:18 OMG--I wish I had that view DAILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @jacquelyncorbin8116
    @jacquelyncorbin8116 Рік тому +1

    haven't seen any of them pick up a paintbrush.

  • @JakeRichardsong
    @JakeRichardsong Рік тому +2

    Carris said she doesn't know the cost of the roofing project. How is that possible?

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +1

      Upbringing and traditional upper-class-related values. You do not talk about money or politics in social situations. She is clearly all there in the brains department, ofcourse she knows what the renovations cost. She doesn't want to disclose it. And she does try to deflect the conversation by saying "I don't know", several times, which is exactly what you should do. Ruth didn't want to have anything to do with this, so she kept on pushing, the grandma stayed fixed. It's nothing out of the ordinary, I agree with the grandmother on that subject. Although I'd wish for her to be a bit more optimistic, I think she faired quite well.

  • @rikkibiermann465
    @rikkibiermann465 Рік тому +2

    Agreed, it seems doomed to failure, by the lack of unanimity, overruled by the stubborn, shortsighted matriarch!

  • @cancandoit
    @cancandoit Рік тому +1

    What year was this filmed? Surely covid has taken that mean old grandma out by now. Hope Claire gets the chance to live out her dreams.

  • @Valerie-bb5hi
    @Valerie-bb5hi Рік тому +17

    This family is only going to proceed once Charis goes off to her eternal rest. I've sort of stopped watching these just because of people like Paris it's horrible I don't know how Ruth deals with them. Then this woman cuts it off from every direction and has destroyed the family's chances of having this house because of her negative attitude

    • @resnonverba137
      @resnonverba137 Рік тому +1

      It's Caris!

    • @Valerie-bb5hi
      @Valerie-bb5hi Рік тому +2

      @@resnonverba137 okay you're one of these people just looking to argue and attack others and criticize evidently Auto text does not know how to spell it so it comes out however autotext spells it

    • @resnonverba137
      @resnonverba137 Рік тому +1

      @@Valerie-bb5hi It would appear it doesn't know how to punctuate either.

    • @Valerie-bb5hi
      @Valerie-bb5hi Рік тому +2

      @@resnonverba137 no it doesn't know how to punctuate because this is a comment board it's not a literary writing for some odd reason it takes the stance that people will know what you mean

    • @jeanetteshawredden5643
      @jeanetteshawredden5643 Рік тому

      No it sold in 2018 or 2019.

  • @ToriHalfon
    @ToriHalfon Рік тому +2

    Seems in many of the shows people are not concerned with living with mold and rot. I worry for their health.

  • @skontheroad
    @skontheroad Рік тому

    I was so surprised that the Old Vicarage was only charging £100 per night! I checked their website and they are now only charging £80 per night! Atleast they survived Covid, but they didn't seem to care about keeping track of costs when they restored their B n B. I doubt they have calculated what they are bringing in now vs 2018. I can't imagine they can survive off the revenue from only 3 rooms a year. Especially when one includes breakfast. And a full English at that!

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому

      Well you and I could do the calculations together, if you'd really like to know about the profit margin? I'll start. A full english breakfast for three people and rooms for the night, before said breakfast, for three people: 80 GBP x 3 = 240 GBP. Total cost to provide three full english breakfasts: (your turn)

    • @malzimus
      @malzimus Рік тому

      I saw on another episode that the room charges are usually per person per night not just per room.

  • @carolinawren3594
    @carolinawren3594 Рік тому

    both of the large formal sitting rooms would make beautiful formal dining rooms wouldn't they? A commercial kitchen wouldn't be cheap but would contribute income and time toward eventual development of suitable bedroom suites and further development of the property as a whole. In the meantime establishing an exceptional if not unique venue for the area. If the owners aren't keen on placing their property in the same market as local single family home b&b's perhaps they have a point?

  • @missmustache4207
    @missmustache4207 Рік тому +2

    The grandmother is awful to her grand daughter. She had a passionate person to help and lead

  • @janeingram7331
    @janeingram7331 Рік тому +2

    That was a sad episode. The grandmother obviously has no confidence in the grandchildren and is holding them back. She wont be around for long but they will and she should be thinking in term of their future, which she is not.

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +1

      A very sad ambiance indeed. On the grandchildren and the matriarchal figure: She is indeed thinking of what she will leave behind after she passes, how she leaves it and to whom. She has atleast five recipients of her inheritance, there are taxes on capital/investment inheritance, heavy ones. She really had no choice but to try and help push for renovations, nothing more or less than that. She knew well enough this property would most likely be sold and divided up between the people i her will once she had passed on. That's why she pushed back on the bnb-plans. She didn't want to spend her last days living with other people than her family on the estate and she knew that Abbey Dore Court would be divided up and most likely would have to be sold.

  • @clementinemonroe717
    @clementinemonroe717 Рік тому +1

    The grandmother is careless

  • @gwendolyn7462
    @gwendolyn7462 Рік тому +2

    it sold in 2018; the old lady must have croacked

  • @childearth4039
    @childearth4039 11 місяців тому

    Grandmother should have been the one encouraging and energising them .

  • @fayee8986
    @fayee8986 Рік тому

    I add. We don't know! The history between grandmother and grandchildren. Maybe with good reason she didn't have any confidenceI in Claire. And perhaps the other two as well that didn't have very much to say. Hope that it works out for the family they can save this beautiful home and all three children make a living off of it and for their children as well.

  • @dorisbrinkerhoff8124
    @dorisbrinkerhoff8124 Рік тому +2

    horse back riding lessons, gardening lessons, flowers for sale

  • @califdad4
    @califdad4 Рік тому +2

    Old houses left alone don't end up well. She basically abandoned the house and expected it to stay the same and not fall apart

  • @coronajewelry
    @coronajewelry Рік тому

    someone defeated ruth 😂😂😂

  • @jacquelyncorbin8116
    @jacquelyncorbin8116 Рік тому +1

    Grants? Heritage sights?

  • @TheAtl0001
    @TheAtl0001 5 місяців тому

    Is it worth it? In order to remain lord of the manor you need to become a "servant", hospitality business, restaurant, farmer's market, mmm... just sell it and enjoy the money.
    Update: just looked it up, it was sold.

  • @leahfromcrimia8424
    @leahfromcrimia8424 Рік тому +4

    Grandma not too smart. Many women of her generation were uneducated and low functioning. Really was rooting for the grandkids but the property was sold in 2018 and is now permanently closed. What went wrong.

    • @wisdomseekertv
      @wisdomseekertv Рік тому +3

      On the contrary: she's a real fox, she knew the inheritance laws and the tax burden that would befall the recipients of her last will and testament. If her children or grandchildren would have been capital rich, there would be no problem in leaving the house to one of all her children/grandchildren. But she knew the property would most likely have to be sold off because none of them had the means to pay out all the other recipients and take over the house. She didn't want to spend her last days with outsiders (as in strangers living on her property) and therefore she pushed back, effectively, on any plans of a bnb. It was, after all, her own estate and her own life. May she rest in peace.

  • @Kiwiwanderer
    @Kiwiwanderer Рік тому

    The bath could have been used in the garden

  • @NYMusic89563
    @NYMusic89563 Рік тому +1

    Why in the world wasn’t the grandmother brought along to these other homes that have made a business of themselves?

  • @tomsparks6099
    @tomsparks6099 Рік тому +1

    They lied about the money.

  • @giuliasangerione2110
    @giuliasangerione2110 Рік тому +1

    Oh

  • @bigboy77dk
    @bigboy77dk Рік тому +6

    Sad... What did Granny think was going to be the future of the place? She just locked it up and let it rot away, while she only cared for the beautiful gardens... Well, if the house is a wreck, what does the gardens matter? If i is just being sold of to strangers, who don't really care, then what? I've read several stories about the english inheritance tax, and it seems to have been set in place, specifically to ruin the families, that own these places? 😕

    • @alisonjones7747
      @alisonjones7747 Рік тому

      It was set in place to do that - Labor Government - petty leftist spite.

  • @Francis-kw9ui
    @Francis-kw9ui Рік тому +2

    No leader. Floundering. Rug pulled out from under Claire. granny wants to control it till the end treating her kin as servants. Claire can’t exercise her industry- just undermined

  • @maximhollandnederlandthene7640

    1,4 million?
    The total is worth 3 to 5 million 🤗