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1-Keep Feet well groomed 2-Keep hands well groomed 3-Take care of your teeth 4-Take Care of your Hair 5-Remove Unwanted Hair 6-Make Sure you Smell Good 7-Take Care of your Clothes and Bag
To anyone reading this, I consider myself as a high maintenance, beauty obsessed, confident and elegant young lady. My nails(toes and hands both) are done, my hair is healthy, my skin is smooth and everything. I always go out with a polished look, quality fabrics, ironed clothes without the tiniest stain existing. Yet I'm here to say: I've never removed the hair on my arms and I never will, even though I'm visiually a hairy woman. I also shave my body hair, except my arms. There isn't a spesific reason for that, I just don't see a problem with some part of my body being hairy, looks fine to me. So if you're suspecting that you should also wax or shave or laser particular areas on your body just because there are women does so, be unbothered if you have no problem with it. Elegance is beyond these shallow preferences.
I love the feeling of a soft arm. My hairs are golden on my arms and I'm actually quite fond of them. I know if I ever cut or shave them they will grow back thicker and spikey which I really don't want.
I’m with you. I decided to keep the hair on my arms, for it was a huge insecurity of mine growing up. I do, however, understand that some people are genuinely out of my the appearance of arm hair at formal dinner parties. Which is why I’ll wear a blouse or cardigan while present at the table ❤
@@apprenticeofsilence as I said, it is a preference. For the lady in this video, it might be something unpleasent, for me it's normal, even beautiful. Arms don't sweat, it has nothing to do with hygeine. Don't feel forced to hide yourself❤
As a dentist after drinking soda you have to wait at least 30 minutes before brushing teeth because this can cause erosions … you can gargle with water to neutralize the ph but other than that it’s better to wait
After seven minutes, I paused this video, and booked an appointment with my foot therapist, which I am embarrassed to say, I haven't seen for "quite a while". I'm looking very much forward to that appointment! Thank you for another helpful video 🙂
Honey….seeing a podiatrist was a game changer for me. I had no idea my reoccurring heel dryness, cracking, and calluses were a fungus. She prescribed a topical cream I applied nightly and this reduced the issue by 80% within two weeks. I still use it weekly for maintenance, but whoa! I also found out I have Planter Faciatis (sp?) and very low arches from a history of poor shoe choices. I’m now in the process of switching out my shoes for more comfort based shoe brands. Good luck.
i agree with and practice all but have one point. while body hair maintenance is a personal choice, it's illogical to call it unclean or unhygienic. if one bathes regularly there's no way their body hair is "unclean". because by that logic even head hair, eyebrow hair, eyelashes would be unhygienic. also i want to ask, whether the same standard is kept for men? do we call those unhygienic for having body hair + beards? i still believe removing body hair is a personal choice (which i make too). can even accept that some may find that more appealing to the eye. but lets not call those who don't "unclean" because it doesn't make sense.
Women cannot win when it comes to body hair. We shave to get rid of it, only for the hair to come back darker, thicker and faster. I do sympathise with this because body hair maintenance is insane when you think about it.
Dear Jamila, please consider making a video on staying elegant and organised amongst the chaos of having children! I'm a new mum and suddenly I feel as if I have the most important person in the world to make a good impression on (my child) who watches my every move and yet I find it so hard to do all the little things while I care for him including staying organised and taking care of myself let alone him. I would love some tips from one mother to another, especially one who understands the desire to be elegant and present well even at home (or one could say especially at home).
Don’t be too hard on yourself 😿❤️ I think you must be doing very well. Do you have friends, family who could help so that you can also take time for yourself? Does your partner help or could he participate too? ❤️ You’re doing well, don’t worry too much about appearances, but you do deserve time to rest and for yourself too. Love is most important, no need to make everything super perfect!
@Fierie333 Thank you lovely, I do have family and a husband who help out so I'm lucky in that regard. I remember Jamila saying in one of her other videos "coffee and naps" haha so I'm trying that out with some success! It's just so hard to get the baby down for a nap as he's currently going through a sleep regression.
Take a shower or bath WITH your child. Age-appropriate of course. You can accomplish a lot while kid plays with bubbles, boats, etc. Wear a bathing suit, and you can still do hair, legs, toes, etc. Child gets clean too 😉
About taking care of clothes and accessories…!! I love this topic, could you make a video for this? Like for example cleaning and polishing leather goods, how to clean and store clothes, cleaning coats, what to use (for example brushes and such) storing clothes, how often & how to wash! (I love laundry detergents haha) I love this topic and not many people know how to lengthen their shoes or clothes life cycle ! I think it would be amazing :)
@@dreag5717 Hi ! drink lots of water, avoid junk food cola, soda etc. apply cream every morning and night on your Clean heels, feet . Hydration and moisturising will protect your heels from cracking and coarse skin
@@dreag5717Hello! Drinking lots of water and avoiding junk food and drinks , keeping my heels clean and moisturised. Hydration and moisturise will protect your heels from cracking and coarse skin
Thanks Jamila for doing this video! I know that not everyone will agree with what is being said, but there's a lot that we can take from it. For example, I can't do strong, sweet fragrances or candles, but I like aromatherapy candles and lightly fragrance items. I also have a rose water drink which makes my breath smell of roses! (At least for an hour...)
@@adasanchez5042 The rosewater is Pure Rose, the candles are Marks & Spencer Aromatherapy. Note, the rose water isn't a mouthwash, I just noticed that it did when I added it to my AM chia seed mix (chia seeds + aloe vera drink + rose water).
@@claudym4640 I believe it ships from Canada or the US but the website is drink pure rose. PLEASE note that there is no guarantee of rose scented breath, it's just what happened to me after I had a chia seed + rose water drink. Also note there are cheaper options around for rose water but make sure it's edible and not just for perfumes!
What puts me off are dirty shoes. Especially nowadays everyone wears sneakers that can be washed in a washing machine with zero effort. Yet I see so many people with dirty shoes. It ruins the whole appearance for me.
I agree completely about shoes. It takes two minutes when I get home to clean my shoes before I put them away. And I know a great shoe repair shop that has kept my shoes in great condition over the years. It keeps my shoes lasting longer and does boost overall appearance.
💯 agree. Whether they’re real leather or not, you can keep them clean and looking as new. There are products that can revive the colour and keep them looking good. With suede there are special shoe brushes to keep it looking new.
Seems like it triggered you. You can wash with your hands or use wet wipes there are so many people walking with dirty shoes that could be easily cleaned with wipes
A lot of people are a mess because of mental health issues like depression or even worse things . These people have a hard time taking care of themselves . That was the case with me for 10 years . People are depressed and mentally ill because of their bad relationships with ....other people that abuse them / don't try to understand them.
@JamilaMusayeva Only if you are in a safe space . In which I was not. So I could not do anything other than dissociating and isolating . Once you move physically away from an abusive household maybe you can put these ideas in practice. It seems like you are telling me "had you practice these things you'd be mentally fine"....unbelievable how you seem to make me responsible for the depression I suffered due to an abusive mother and an uncaring father . I tried to avoid coinciding with them as much as possible and in there house it was HARD to not bump into them in order to use the bathroom . Don't make me responsible for the abuser's behaviour and the paralyzing depression caused by abusive family. Unbelievable how you just said "take care of yourself and you'll be mentally okay". Tell that to prison inmates. Tell that to people locked up in psychiatric institutions who suffer abuse and are powerless to their family's narrative and their doctors , Tell that to hostages of kidnappers. There are certain boundaries in which these rules can be applied and outside of those boundaries you re really powerless and can not apply any self care unfortunately.
@@JamilaMusayeva you can't handle not even a bit of criticism right? Had to erase my comment in which I as saying that in some situations it is impossible to do any form of self care and that sometimes people can only do the bare minimum because of external factors such as violence and entrapment. Do you get offended by truth like this always ?
@@JamilaMusayeva If you say that poor mental health is caused by lack of washing your skin and brushing your hair you have not much knowledge about how mental illness works. Mental illness is caused (mostly ) by an abusive relationship which ruins your self esteem which results in no interest of taking care of yourself and actual physical paralysis . So no it is not always the individual 's fault if they are a mess. If you find someone whose bag is a mes , hair oily and so on the helpful thing to do is to ask them if they are in an abusive relationship and help them escape . Then they may reach a point of being able to take care of themselves . It seems you never experienced an abusive relationship but others have and they can testify how extremely hard it is to have any self-love in those cases. I had none. And it was NOT my fault.
Why do you feel “attacked” for her comment? I have been depressed (hospitalized), I have been abused, sexually, emotionally, physically, financially but I didn’t took her comment as negative because it has been proven than having a good hygiene and no house clutter can help with your mental health. My doctor advised me to at least do one thing for me on the days i was bedridden because of depression, even if it was brushing my teeth and go back to bed it will make a difference Girls, we went through horrible times but we don’t have to lash on others because of that. I pray god can help you heal and understand that hostility towards others will do more harm to you than to them Love you, sisters
That’s so true Jamila! That’s what I’ve been telling people for years that there’s women who have very thin skin that causes them to get bruises easily! I have the same problem and it’s hard for me to get shoes, and even if it’s leather it’s not easy, it has to be that soft buttery kid leather otherwise I can’t compromise my feet!
I am always watching your videos until the end, it's such a pleasure! You brought me a smile when you said that it's important for you to match the color of the flower 🥰 I am already looking forward to the next video 🤍
Jamila, I have a video suggestion for you. What procedures you have done or do do. For instance you have mentioned laser hair removal and go to a salon for Shellac nails. Have you done any other lasers or tattoo makeup, microneedles, gone under the knife for anything etc.
Hello Jamila,I hope you're doing well! I have a topic suggestion for one of your videos: watches! Specifically, I’d love to see you talk about the dilemma of choosing between classic watches and smartwatches. I’m really into classic watches-they have that timeless charm. But the practicality of smartwatches (step counting, message notifications, etc.) is so tempting. Do you have any tips or insights on how to balance this or choose the right one for different occasions? Thanks for your consideration
The video is very helpful. Though I feel it was quite long , the content is amazing and insightful. I would suggest you to keep it short but this is just a personal opinion. ❤
Hey Jamila, thanks for another video! I just wanted to mention that I recently watched you on Elena Cardone’s channel and got a lot of value from many points you mentioned on different topics! 🤍
Thank you Jamila ❤ your tips helped me a lot. I noticed that my nails were not well groomed and I fixed them while I was listening to you 😅You are an amazing example of the woman I want to be in her effort to look classy and clean. You look amazing A hug from Mexico 🇲🇽
This was a great video! Thank you for the reminders! Something I thought was interesting is that you included arm hair as well as on your legs. Where I’m from arm hair removal seems to be optional but leg hair removal is way more common. I’m actually very curious about this distinction…. Love your videos!
We usually accessorize our arms and I personally like when there is no hair on hands when I have bracelets on my hand. It is a personal preference but I find it to look neater.
I can see how accessorizing your arms would make you want smoother arms. I would see how it would be more of a ‘canvas’ that way. You’ve given me something to think about :) Thank you for answering!
Hey Jamila plz make a video about Laser body hair removal like how many sessions are required and of course some valuable insights from your experience.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
Hi Jamila, very much enjoying your channel, my daughter turned me onto your channel and I have learned a lot. I purchased your online course as well. I know you don't share your perfume but do you have some favorite roll on oils that you could share?
Laser hair removal is the best invention! I was lucky to win an at-home laser hair removal device. After a few sessions, hair stopped growing on my legs and underarms, so I was happy not to worry about the dreadful reappearance of or forgetfulness to remove body hair anymore. I was also ecstatic to say good riddance to the horrible upper lip hair-I had been bullied for having it as a child. What a fantastic feeling to have smooth legs and underarms without the nuisance of shaving or waxing for good!
The brand is Silk’n. I have the older (circa 2012) model, one of the first ones, I suppose. The newer models are even faster and more powerful, but my old one already worked (and still does, even though I keep it just in case) like a charm. Good luck!
Shampooing everyday may not cause hairfall BUT it will cause excessive oil production. If the person is stripping the natural protective oil barrier every single day and not allowing this barrier to recoup, the body will produce excessive amounts of oil to bring that protective moisture back. Then the person is left thinking “oh my scalp skin is so oily” when he/she is the one causing the excess oil production.
Next time, hopefully you can upload a video about how to become a quieter person. In your video about 'How to speak softly and elegantly', you said 'silent is gold', I tried practicing but still not successful.
Please tell me Jamila how can somebody be so kind, positive,beautiful, good communicator …like you? I was so depressed and I felt so lonely and worthless in my whole life? What is your secret?
I don’t have hair on my body and that is genetically from my mother side . I am so grateful for that ❤ but other things Jamila mentioned is really needs to be taken care of
I really like everything you do , how can we know our undertone, color suits us, and body shape. If you have a program or someone good in this please share it
Well sadly, some of us have naturally yellow teeth. When getting them whitened is expensive and can lead to damages, I feel like the most important part is about cleanliness
When you said you never had braces, I was shocked. I would have sworn that your perfect Hollywood smile was a result of years of orthodontics as an adolescent or young adult. Wow.
yes vloths shd be well fitted and not looking like borrowed, certainly not from Men as the fitts and cuts are different DIFFERENT. Always remember LADIES CLOTHING HV BOTTONs on the LEFT😊😊 of the garment and MEN'S ON THE RIGHT. Jamila check yours in this vedio.Did you borrow from your husband or from MEN'S STORE😊
I’m very surprised you left eyebrows out of you list of female grooming habits 😯 In my opinion, that detail is so important. I don’t tint, or laminate or do anything major to my eyebrows, but I do keep them in tip top shape with the tweezers and eyebrow fixing gel. To me having ungroomed eyebrows is just as bad for your appearance as chipped nail polish.
Those are basics. Nevetheless, it is so important that you speak of those things 👍 People are so messy and untidy nowadays. Some women had bever put any thought into how they should take care of themselves to look like a woman 🙄
I always had natural very white teeth, unfortunately, due to the tablets I have to take, they have become a horrible colour and nothing I can do about it. It has had an impact on how I smile now🙁
Estoy de acuerdo con respecto a usar siempre los zapatos limpios,cada vez que uso un par de zapatos los limpio y dejo respirar por al menos un día antes de ubicarlos dentro de su espacio de guardado. Pero no me gusta esta marca de zapatos que presentas al comienzo del video pues al final del día un par de zapatos de tela nunca van a favorecer un look sofisticado,con excepción de los espandriles en verano que para mi son un básico.Por lo demás muy de acuerdo con todo,la higiene es fundamental para cuidar la apariencia y la salud.😊
I'd like to point out, since it wasn't mentioned in the video, that laser is not suitable for everyone (best is fair skintone and dark hair) and that it's not permanent, no matter what they say. You'll have to go back, some people after 6 years, some after 15, it depends. It's also pricy and you'll need quite some sessions. The other thing is the risk of skin infection.
I think that's more so optional to cater to another person. She's just giving general etiquette. My great grandmother was the classiest cat in town, yet was fine with wearing night gowns or two piece night sets to bed. Lingerie is optional.
Ladies chipped nail polish isa big no no ..i dont ever have chipped polish and cabt stand anyone who does..either be regular or have nude polish that doesnt stand out if chipped and yes not everyone is doing gel or acrylics
@@StarLight-g6u I always wear pale pink or nude because chips are inconspicuous and I am too shy to wear red or other bold colors. I recently discovered nail wraps, and they lasted me almost four weeks until I took them off when the roots were showing considerably. Look ma! No chips! I didn’t have to worry about touch-ups throughout my trip (and packing a bottle in my 3-1-1 bag, which I always pack to the max).
Women had hair in their hands way before shaving came to fashion. And they were elegant. No need to shame people for not wanting to get rid of hair on their hands.
And hair wash - wrong or harsh shampoo causes also damage to hair . Wrong for example: If you have oily scalp, you buy NOT hydrating shampoo -> instead you busy sth with lemon/mint etc detox shampoo
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1-Keep Feet well groomed
2-Keep hands well groomed
3-Take care of your teeth
4-Take Care of your Hair
5-Remove Unwanted Hair
6-Make Sure you Smell Good
7-Take Care of your Clothes and Bag
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To anyone reading this, I consider myself as a high maintenance, beauty obsessed, confident and elegant young lady. My nails(toes and hands both) are done, my hair is healthy, my skin is smooth and everything. I always go out with a polished look, quality fabrics, ironed clothes without the tiniest stain existing. Yet I'm here to say: I've never removed the hair on my arms and I never will, even though I'm visiually a hairy woman. I also shave my body hair, except my arms. There isn't a spesific reason for that, I just don't see a problem with some part of my body being hairy, looks fine to me. So if you're suspecting that you should also wax or shave or laser particular areas on your body just because there are women does so, be unbothered if you have no problem with it. Elegance is beyond these shallow preferences.
Exactly. These elegance channels can be incredibly toxic.
I support this ❤
I love the feeling of a soft arm. My hairs are golden on my arms and I'm actually quite fond of them. I know if I ever cut or shave them they will grow back thicker and spikey which I really don't want.
I’m with you. I decided to keep the hair on my arms, for it was a huge insecurity of mine growing up. I do, however, understand that some people are genuinely out of my the appearance of arm hair at formal dinner parties. Which is why I’ll wear a blouse or cardigan while present at the table ❤
@@apprenticeofsilence as I said, it is a preference. For the lady in this video, it might be something unpleasent, for me it's normal, even beautiful. Arms don't sweat, it has nothing to do with hygeine. Don't feel forced to hide yourself❤
As a dentist after drinking soda you have to wait at least 30 minutes before brushing teeth because this can cause erosions … you can gargle with water to neutralize the ph but other than that it’s better to wait
That is what I do gargle with water. Thank you for sharing this.
@ my pleasure 😇
After seven minutes, I paused this video, and booked an appointment with my foot therapist, which I am embarrassed to say, I haven't seen for "quite a while". I'm looking very much forward to that appointment! Thank you for another helpful video 🙂
Wonderful!
Honey….seeing a podiatrist was a game changer for me. I had no idea my reoccurring heel dryness, cracking, and calluses were a fungus. She prescribed a topical cream I applied nightly and this reduced the issue by 80% within two weeks. I still use it weekly for maintenance, but whoa! I also found out I have Planter Faciatis (sp?) and very low arches from a history of poor shoe choices. I’m now in the process of switching out my shoes for more comfort based shoe brands. Good luck.
i agree with and practice all but have one point. while body hair maintenance is a personal choice, it's illogical to call it unclean or unhygienic. if one bathes regularly there's no way their body hair is "unclean". because by that logic even head hair, eyebrow hair, eyelashes would be unhygienic. also i want to ask, whether the same standard is kept for men? do we call those unhygienic for having body hair + beards?
i still believe removing body hair is a personal choice (which i make too). can even accept that some may find that more appealing to the eye. but lets not call those who don't "unclean" because it doesn't make sense.
amen
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Totally agree, her words were disrespectful and disgusting. I haven’t known before she supports toxic beauty standards.
Women cannot win when it comes to body hair. We shave to get rid of it, only for the hair to come back darker, thicker and faster. I do sympathise with this because body hair maintenance is insane when you think about it.
@@Nancy21345agreed, unfortunately 🙂
The bag tip is so true !! I’ve seen so many women with absolutely messy bags in airports and it’s completely in contrast to their outfit !
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Dear Jamila, please consider making a video on staying elegant and organised amongst the chaos of having children! I'm a new mum and suddenly I feel as if I have the most important person in the world to make a good impression on (my child) who watches my every move and yet I find it so hard to do all the little things while I care for him including staying organised and taking care of myself let alone him. I would love some tips from one mother to another, especially one who understands the desire to be elegant and present well even at home (or one could say especially at home).
Don’t be too hard on yourself 😿❤️ I think you must be doing very well. Do you have friends, family who could help so that you can also take time for yourself? Does your partner help or could he participate too? ❤️ You’re doing well, don’t worry too much about appearances, but you do deserve time to rest and for yourself too. Love is most important, no need to make everything super perfect!
@Fierie333 Thank you lovely, I do have family and a husband who help out so I'm lucky in that regard. I remember Jamila saying in one of her other videos "coffee and naps" haha so I'm trying that out with some success! It's just so hard to get the baby down for a nap as he's currently going through a sleep regression.
Take a shower or bath WITH your child. Age-appropriate of course.
You can accomplish a lot while kid plays with bubbles, boats, etc.
Wear a bathing suit, and you can still do hair, legs, toes, etc. Child gets clean too 😉
@@DeborahThird-og1uo Thanks for the suggestion!
About taking care of clothes and accessories…!! I love this topic, could you make a video for this? Like for example cleaning and polishing leather goods, how to clean and store clothes, cleaning coats, what to use (for example brushes and such) storing clothes, how often & how to wash! (I love laundry detergents haha) I love this topic and not many people know how to lengthen their shoes or clothes life cycle ! I think it would be amazing :)
Great suggestion!
I would also love to see this ❤
I just realized how much your channel has progressed, congratulations
Thank you! I’m so glad you’ve noticed the growth. ☺️
I m taking care of my heels a lot every day and they look like a child’s heels very clean and soft😊
Hi, what’s your regimen
@@dreag5717 Hi ! drink lots of water, avoid junk food cola, soda etc. apply cream every morning and night on your Clean heels, feet . Hydration and moisturising will protect your heels from cracking and coarse skin
@@dreag5717Hello! Drinking lots of water and avoiding junk food and drinks , keeping my heels clean and moisturised. Hydration and moisturise will protect your heels from cracking and coarse skin
Thanks Jamila for doing this video! I know that not everyone will agree with what is being said, but there's a lot that we can take from it. For example, I can't do strong, sweet fragrances or candles, but I like aromatherapy candles and lightly fragrance items. I also have a rose water drink which makes my breath smell of roses! (At least for an hour...)
Fancy. Whats the brand?
@@adasanchez5042
The rosewater is Pure Rose, the candles are Marks & Spencer Aromatherapy.
Note, the rose water isn't a mouthwash, I just noticed that it did when I added it to my AM chia seed mix (chia seeds + aloe vera drink + rose water).
Where do you get the rose water drink from? Amazon? I’m also in the UK. I googled Pure Rose but it only brought up results for facial rose water
@@claudym4640 I believe it ships from Canada or the US but the website is drink pure rose.
PLEASE note that there is no guarantee of rose scented breath, it's just what happened to me after I had a chia seed + rose water drink.
Also note there are cheaper options around for rose water but make sure it's edible and not just for perfumes!
What puts me off are dirty shoes. Especially nowadays everyone wears sneakers that can be washed in a washing machine with zero effort. Yet I see so many people with dirty shoes. It ruins the whole appearance for me.
Bruh
Lot of shoes are not washable, and very hard to keep them spotless, Andi!
I agree completely about shoes. It takes two minutes when I get home to clean my shoes before I put them away. And I know a great shoe repair shop that has kept my shoes in great condition over the years. It keeps my shoes lasting longer and does boost overall appearance.
💯 agree. Whether they’re real leather or not, you can keep them clean and looking as new. There are products that can revive the colour and keep them looking good. With suede there are special shoe brushes to keep it looking new.
Seems like it triggered you. You can wash with your hands or use wet wipes there are so many people walking with dirty shoes that could be easily cleaned with wipes
A lot of people are a mess because of mental health issues like depression or even worse things . These people have a hard time taking care of themselves .
That was the case with me for 10 years .
People are depressed and mentally ill because of their bad relationships with ....other people that abuse them / don't try to understand them.
This kind of habits also are important in staying mentally healthy. Self care comes in all forms and shapes.
@JamilaMusayeva Only if you are in a safe space . In which I was not. So I could not do anything other than dissociating and isolating . Once you move physically away from an abusive household maybe you can put these ideas in practice. It seems like you are telling me "had you practice these things you'd be mentally fine"....unbelievable how you seem to make me responsible for the depression I suffered due to an abusive mother and an uncaring father . I tried to avoid coinciding with them as much as possible and in there house it was HARD to not bump into them in order to use the bathroom . Don't make me responsible for the abuser's behaviour and the paralyzing depression caused by abusive family. Unbelievable how you just said "take care of yourself and you'll be mentally okay".
Tell that to prison inmates.
Tell that to people locked up in psychiatric institutions who suffer abuse and are powerless to their family's narrative and their doctors ,
Tell that to hostages of kidnappers.
There are certain boundaries in which these rules can be applied and outside of those boundaries you re really powerless and can not apply any self care unfortunately.
@@JamilaMusayeva you can't handle not even a bit of criticism right? Had to erase my comment in which I as saying that in some situations it is impossible to do any form of self care and that sometimes people can only do the bare minimum because of external factors such as violence and entrapment. Do you get offended by truth like this always ?
@@JamilaMusayeva If you say that poor mental health is caused by lack of washing your skin and brushing your hair you have not much knowledge about how mental illness works. Mental illness is caused (mostly ) by an abusive relationship which ruins your self esteem which results in no interest of taking care of yourself and actual physical paralysis . So no it is not always the individual 's fault if they are a mess. If you find someone whose bag is a mes , hair oily and so on the helpful thing to do is to ask them if they are in an abusive relationship and help them escape . Then they may reach a point of being able to take care of themselves .
It seems you never experienced an abusive relationship but others have and they can testify how extremely hard it is to have any self-love in those cases. I had none. And it was NOT my fault.
Why do you feel “attacked” for her comment? I have been depressed (hospitalized), I have been abused, sexually, emotionally, physically, financially but I didn’t took her comment as negative because it has been proven than having a good hygiene and no house clutter can help with your mental health. My doctor advised me to at least do one thing for me on the days i was bedridden because of depression, even if it was brushing my teeth and go back to bed it will make a difference
Girls, we went through horrible times but we don’t have to lash on others because of that. I pray god can help you heal and understand that hostility towards others will do more harm to you than to them
Love you, sisters
That’s so true Jamila! That’s what I’ve been telling people for years that there’s women who have very thin skin that causes them to get bruises easily! I have the same problem and it’s hard for me to get shoes, and even if it’s leather it’s not easy, it has to be that soft buttery kid leather otherwise I can’t compromise my feet!
I am always watching your videos until the end, it's such a pleasure! You brought me a smile when you said that it's important for you to match the color of the flower 🥰 I am already looking forward to the next video 🤍
10% Urea cream + aquaphor/vaseline (on top of the cream) makes wonders to cracked heels
This is so true.
So glad I ran into your video! It's all true and so valuable! ❤🙌🏼 A lot of things fell into place for me. Subscribed.
Thank you for such wonderful content! You certainly deserve 1.06M subscribers!
Jamila, I have a video suggestion for you. What procedures you have done or do do. For instance you have mentioned laser hair removal and go to a salon for Shellac nails. Have you done any other lasers or tattoo makeup, microneedles, gone under the knife for anything etc.
Hello Jamila,I hope you're doing well! I have a topic suggestion for one of your videos: watches! Specifically, I’d love to see you talk about the dilemma of choosing between classic watches and smartwatches. I’m really into classic watches-they have that timeless charm. But the practicality of smartwatches (step counting, message notifications, etc.) is so tempting. Do you have any tips or insights on how to balance this or choose the right one for different occasions? Thanks for your consideration
I vote for a Classic watch.
Very helpful video! Another interesting idea would be the skincare during pregnancy, there are not a lot of videos about this topic.
Noted!
The video is very helpful. Though I feel it was quite long , the content is amazing and insightful. I would suggest you to keep it short but this is just a personal opinion. ❤
Hey Jamila, thanks for another video! I just wanted to mention that I recently watched you on Elena Cardone’s channel and got a lot of value from many points you mentioned on different topics! 🤍
Thank you Jamila ❤ your tips helped me a lot. I noticed that my nails were not well groomed and I fixed them while I was listening to you 😅You are an amazing example of the woman I want to be in her effort to look classy and clean. You look amazing
A hug from Mexico 🇲🇽
Thank you so much! I'm glad my tips were helpful! 😊 Hugs from Baku
I like how she has to give an explanation for people not to be offended for each tip😂.. we live in such a sensitive world 🤦🏻♀️
I love your channel and I adore you. Thank you for sharing. You motivate me to be a better woman.
I'm so glad you find it inspiring!
Hello, I love your style so much. What are the good brands for bags? Thank you
This was a great video! Thank you for the reminders! Something I thought was interesting is that you included arm hair as well as on your legs. Where I’m from arm hair removal seems to be optional but leg hair removal is way more common. I’m actually very curious about this distinction….
Love your videos!
We usually accessorize our arms and I personally like when there is no hair on hands when I have bracelets on my hand. It is a personal preference but I find it to look neater.
I can see how accessorizing your arms would make you want smoother arms. I would see how it would be more of a ‘canvas’ that way. You’ve given me something to think about :)
Thank you for answering!
I love the outfit 💙 it fits you so good and looks gorgeous 🤍
Hi Jamila! Could you do a video where you show us how you scent your home/environment, your favorite scents and where you place them? thank you!
We r so lucky to have you as a mentor ❤❤❤
Sadly, taking care of one's feet is forgotten quite often. Good to remind it.
Hey Jamila plz make a video about Laser body hair removal like how many sessions are required and of course some valuable insights from your experience.
I'm so into perfume, I also put it when I'm going outside but my sister influenced me spray even I'm just inside our house 🙊🥰
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
Glass foot file and then urea based foot cream are part of my nightly routine ❤
I will check out those.
Hi Jamila, very much enjoying your channel, my daughter turned me onto your channel and I have learned a lot. I purchased your online course as well. I know you don't share your perfume but do you have some favorite roll on oils that you could share?
Very informative video thanks so much.
I like the shoes part a lot .
Laser hair removal is the best invention! I was lucky to win an at-home laser hair removal device. After a few sessions, hair stopped growing on my legs and underarms, so I was happy not to worry about the dreadful reappearance of or forgetfulness to remove body hair anymore. I was also ecstatic to say good riddance to the horrible upper lip hair-I had been bullied for having it as a child. What a fantastic feeling to have smooth legs and underarms without the nuisance of shaving or waxing for good!
could you mention the brand name of the device please?
What brand was it?
The brand is Silk’n. I have the older (circa 2012) model, one of the first ones, I suppose. The newer models are even faster and more powerful, but my old one already worked (and still does, even though I keep it just in case) like a charm. Good luck!
Definitely something that saves time and from ingrown hair ☺️
Thank you @Jamila Musayeva I appreciate your UA-cam channel 🙏
Thank you!
Jamila you are so so so kind hearted and you never ever disappoint me with your Videos and I will always always be your biggest supportive✨💗🥹
Shampooing everyday may not cause hairfall BUT it will cause excessive oil production. If the person is stripping the natural protective oil barrier every single day and not allowing this barrier to recoup, the body will produce excessive amounts of oil to bring that protective moisture back. Then the person is left thinking “oh my scalp skin is so oily” when he/she is the one causing the excess oil production.
Oil scalp production depends on your hormone levels, not on the shampooing as much.
@@JamilaMusayevadepends by the person. If i shampoo everyday my hair gets greasy
You are a very thoughtful person. I love that about you.❤😊🎉
Thank you 💕looking forward for your videos ❤️
Какой у вас чистый русский акцент ! Начала смотреть ваши видео для практики английского, но оказалось и сами видео очень интересные и полезные)
Next time, hopefully you can upload a video about how to become a quieter person. In your video about 'How to speak softly and elegantly', you said 'silent is gold', I tried practicing but still not successful.
Thank you for the suggestion!
Please tell me Jamila how can somebody be so kind, positive,beautiful, good communicator …like you? I was so depressed and I felt so lonely and worthless in my whole life? What is your secret?
Thank you for your kind words. I would say good upbringing and faith in God with the believe in goodness prevailing always.
Hi Jamila - thanks for your tone - I enjoy your soothing voice -
what is your skin routine what would you recommend
I have done a few videos on that. Check my playlist on beauty ☺️
For the hair, it depends on the texture, I have 3b texture and I only wash my hair once a week, otherwise my hair would get to dry
Great video! Any recommendation on good roller oils?
Thank you for this wonderful tips ❤
You are welcome
Where do you get the pouches you showed to organize items in purse please?
The ones in my bag are from Hermes from various accessories I bought in their stores.
Any reason you left out facial skin? And makeup
Love this video so much so inspiring Jamila Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us 💗✨☕️
I don’t have hair on my body and that is genetically from my mother side . I am so grateful for that ❤ but other things Jamila mentioned is really needs to be taken care of
I really like everything you do , how can we know our undertone, color suits us, and body shape. If you have a program or someone good in this please share it
Well sadly, some of us have naturally yellow teeth. When getting them whitened is expensive and can lead to damages, I feel like the most important part is about cleanliness
life principles for a beautiful life, so good.
I'm glad you find them helpful!
I've always loved your style.... More clothing please xo from Toronto
I'm so glad you like it! I'll add more clothing content in the future! ☺️
When you said you never had braces, I was shocked. I would have sworn that your perfect Hollywood smile was a result of years of orthodontics as an adolescent or young adult. Wow.
No, I have never worn them. They are not as perfect from close up as they look on camera.
Thank you very much Jamila, for such an interesting video!💐❤️🌅
Totalmente de acuerdo! Me encantó. ❤❤❤
I agree with everything. And I actually think those things are also important for our own confort!
Definitely ☺️
yes vloths shd be well fitted and not looking like borrowed, certainly not from Men as the fitts and cuts are different DIFFERENT. Always remember LADIES CLOTHING HV BOTTONs on the LEFT😊😊 of the garment and MEN'S ON THE RIGHT.
Jamila check yours in this vedio.Did you borrow from your husband or from MEN'S STORE😊
You are so right! If their car is messy, they are messy!
I love those jeans ❤
Wow llegué temprano 🥰 saludos 👋🏽
😍great video! I love your outfit
I’m very surprised you left eyebrows out of you list of female grooming habits 😯 In my opinion, that detail is so important. I don’t tint, or laminate or do anything major to my eyebrows, but I do keep them in tip top shape with the tweezers and eyebrow fixing gel. To me having ungroomed eyebrows is just as bad for your appearance as chipped nail polish.
I think that is very personal. I have seen women with various eyebrows and there is no one way of handling them to look good.
I like natural bushy brows
Her mono tone makes me struggle to finish the video
I watched in 2x Speed 😅
Love this video great tips thank you
Omg first here 🎉
Flossing and brushing my teeth is something I cannot sleep at night without doing them. If I sleep without doing these two tasks, I wake up depressed
Same. It is a habit developed since childhood.
Those are basics. Nevetheless, it is so important that you speak of those things 👍
People are so messy and untidy nowadays.
Some women had bever put any thought into how they should take care of themselves to look like a woman 🙄
All the great knowledge is simple.
I'm exposed to unintentional ASMR just listening to your voice.
Aw thank you!
Awesome as usual God bless you forever 🙏❤️🥰💐😇💋💕😊😊
Thank you! I appreciate your kind words.
New subbie. Loved this- I’m inspired
Do you ship to India? the shoes that you mentioned
Please make a video on how to walk confidently and elegantly.
Great video ❤
Informative, thank you very much 🙏🌹
I always had natural very white teeth, unfortunately, due to the tablets I have to take, they have become a horrible colour and nothing I can do about it. It has had an impact on how I smile now🙁
Estoy de acuerdo con respecto a usar siempre los zapatos limpios,cada vez que uso un par de zapatos los limpio y dejo respirar por al menos un día antes de ubicarlos dentro de su espacio de guardado.
Pero no me gusta esta marca de zapatos que presentas al comienzo del video pues al final del día un par de zapatos de tela nunca van a favorecer un look sofisticado,con excepción de los espandriles en verano que para mi son un básico.Por lo demás muy de acuerdo con todo,la higiene es fundamental para cuidar la apariencia y la salud.😊
I'd like to point out, since it wasn't mentioned in the video, that laser is not suitable for everyone (best is fair skintone and dark hair) and that it's not permanent, no matter what they say. You'll have to go back, some people after 6 years, some after 15, it depends. It's also pricy and you'll need quite some sessions.
The other thing is the risk of skin infection.
love you so much ❤❤
U forgot lingerie...I think good comfortable expensive lingerie is very important for ladies but thanku .. ❤
I think that's more so optional to cater to another person. She's just giving general etiquette. My great grandmother was the classiest cat in town, yet was fine with wearing night gowns or two piece night sets to bed. Lingerie is optional.
Hello from Germany 💚
Hello there!
Lovely video
Thanks 🤗
When she says arm har is it armpits or arm as a whole?
Arm hair
I mean arm pits and arms ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva thank you for the clarification.
Living in Thailand where a pedicure can be as cheap as $6.00 there is no excuse not to have beautiful feet and toes. I wash my feet before bed too.
It was a great video
Ladies chipped nail polish isa big no no ..i dont ever have chipped polish and cabt stand anyone who does..either be regular or have nude polish that doesnt stand out if chipped and yes not everyone is doing gel or acrylics
@@StarLight-g6u I always wear pale pink or nude because chips are inconspicuous and I am too shy to wear red or other bold colors. I recently discovered nail wraps, and they lasted me almost four weeks until I took them off when the roots were showing considerably. Look ma! No chips! I didn’t have to worry about touch-ups throughout my trip (and packing a bottle in my 3-1-1 bag, which I always pack to the max).
Women had hair in their hands way before shaving came to fashion.
And they were elegant. No need to shame people for not wanting to get rid of hair on their hands.
And hair wash - wrong or harsh shampoo causes also damage to hair . Wrong for example: If you have oily scalp, you buy NOT hydrating shampoo -> instead you busy sth with lemon/mint etc detox shampoo
If you drink daily Cafe or smoke or even both, that also cause color change of your theeth health even when you brush twice a day ;-)
Yeah laser ❤
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