Detach first, and the rest will follow.

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024

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  • @Lingovert
    @Lingovert Місяць тому +31

    I want to be okay, with anything that is in front of me, whether it is what I wish for or not, to find peace, regardless of what is happening outside, and stop wanting to change it to feel better, to trust myself more than other people, to trust myself to be able to handle situations in a better way, to not be afraid of my emotions, and allow myself to feel it, knowing that things always are working on my favor even if I can’t see it now. To enjoy life even if it's not ''perfect'', to be present and enjoy what I have now so I don't wake up one day, wishing I was this age and have what I have now.

  • @La-Donna
    @La-Donna Місяць тому +23

    “Once you let go you feel so much more in control”. Love that, thank you

  • @andrci
    @andrci Місяць тому +6

    love how every single person who gets to watch this video is taking their own step towards a sexier life!

  • @mickusvoice
    @mickusvoice Місяць тому +2

    I found this video by searching the word "detachment." I answered you out loud when you asked, "Why do you want to detach?" I said, "For my own sanity!" I have subcribed and look forward to catching up on past videos as well new one to come. 👍🙂

  • @INFP-Insights
    @INFP-Insights Місяць тому +2

    Joy, your reminders to go with the flow and let it be easy are well taken. As I like to say, "let go, let be, let flow" - and at the heart of soul, it's ultimately about feeling worthy and deserving of choice, in each and every moment, in a liminal space somewhere between attachment and detachment - neither too hot nor too cold 🙏😊💚

  • @BrasilientSelfEmpowerment
    @BrasilientSelfEmpowerment Місяць тому +2

    Once you let go, you feel so much more in control....❤❤❤❤

  • @eagleC911
    @eagleC911 14 днів тому

    Clicked the thumbnail for the pretty eyes. Stayed for the insights on self sabotaging behaviors that have unconsciously controlled my life

  • @FarzanehKahak-ox1ou
    @FarzanehKahak-ox1ou Місяць тому +1

    I clicked on this video because I've missed u❤
    I've learned valuable points from you✨️😊

  • @NananaKakaka-hs4lm
    @NananaKakaka-hs4lm 15 днів тому

    U radiate such peaceful aura. 💫

  • @sophi________wg
    @sophi________wg Місяць тому

    I’m so glad you posted I was scared you stopped

  • @fromtheotherlane369
    @fromtheotherlane369 Місяць тому

    This came at the right time. Even though i knew what detachment is but i still get lost in the negative whirlwind. This is a much needed reminder 🎉

  • @davestriph
    @davestriph Місяць тому

    Thank you Joy. I needed this especially at this time of my life when I am at my lowest

  • @FunkyRefreshment
    @FunkyRefreshment Місяць тому +1

    The mind is in itself its own universe governed by the consciousness of the artist who wields dominion over everything etched on its canvas whether it derives from fear, amusement or torment, the artist holds the ability to recreate something haunting into something otherworldly potent.

  • @warwickwestonwrigful
    @warwickwestonwrigful Місяць тому +6

    I think Joy is wonderful. I love her videos. Wise way beyond her years.

  • @michaelchan4946
    @michaelchan4946 Місяць тому +1

    Welcome back Joy. Hope you have been well and great insights as usual. Lovely flowers indeed.

    • @Dreamwithjoy
      @Dreamwithjoy  Місяць тому +2

      Hehe thank you ☺️ Hope you’ve been well too

  • @2MN_IN
    @2MN_IN Місяць тому

    This video has helped me recognize the areas in my life where I need to practice detachment. Thank you for the gentle nudge and guidance - I'm looking forward to embracing this new perspective❤

  • @wsupwitit
    @wsupwitit Місяць тому

    backdrop is fire. loved the content, thank you

  • @honorehabigaelle
    @honorehabigaelle Місяць тому

    Happy to see you again ❤

  • @kilkenny2000
    @kilkenny2000 Місяць тому

    Nice to see you back Joy! Love the message and the new background❤

    • @Dreamwithjoy
      @Dreamwithjoy  Місяць тому +1

      Hehe thanks! I love the background too

  • @Inhalingbeauty777
    @Inhalingbeauty777 Місяць тому

    I missed your videos ❤ words of divine wisdom and genuine self development

  • @JuliaNgai
    @JuliaNgai Місяць тому

    Thank you Joy. Love the message here and love how you are so articulate. I also love the backdrop.

    • @Dreamwithjoy
      @Dreamwithjoy  Місяць тому

      Thank you for the love Julia :) 💜

  • @diyasharma5186
    @diyasharma5186 23 дні тому

    I love you videos. Thank you so much for this one. I will work on this and try to be better. Can you please do a video on how to get out of survival mode? Not feel everything is do or die? You asked we should relax but how to relax…

  • @danceillusion13
    @danceillusion13 Місяць тому

    Such a great video! It was much needed.
    Thank you, Joy!

  • @LaytonObserves
    @LaytonObserves Місяць тому

    I need this today, thank you

  • @GeoffGaul
    @GeoffGaul Місяць тому

    Great advice. I love it. I feel that meditation really helps with this.

  • @Guardia.168
    @Guardia.168 Місяць тому

    Amazingly well said ! thank you so much. ❤

  • @thomasforeman2162
    @thomasforeman2162 Місяць тому +1

    Brilliant

  • @tintedqualia
    @tintedqualia Місяць тому +1

    I do get the point of investing into my own self, but it feels.. boring. I know this concept isn't right, but giving other people the "power" over me also brings the unpredictability. The unpredictable lows and also the highs. If I depend on myself, life feels.. stagnant

    • @Dreamwithjoy
      @Dreamwithjoy  Місяць тому +1

      Mm it sounds like stability and peace is not something you're used to in your life. It's worth reflecting on what you truly value and want for yourself in life- if that thrill of unpredictability is something you genuinely want and value, or, if its just something you thought you valued because you found familiarity and comfort in it

  • @GD-fy3sm
    @GD-fy3sm Місяць тому

    I love u and your flowers so much ❤

  • @TristanCuartz
    @TristanCuartz Місяць тому

    Wow ~ that was really sweet. Very insightful too. Thank you !

  • @happysoul7665
    @happysoul7665 Місяць тому

    Iam suffering so badly with overthinking n past trauma… one day im ok other day im utterly fedup reacting n no peace r happiness in life 😢

  • @saga8648
    @saga8648 Місяць тому

    water simply flows around blocks; water never flows upward but downward.

  • @lightandlove111
    @lightandlove111 Місяць тому

    Welcome back 😊

  • @Illumination321
    @Illumination321 Місяць тому

    I'm thankful for you.🌌

  • @BrotherNatural
    @BrotherNatural Місяць тому +1

    Welcome back, Joy! We missed your content ❤

  • @Rosebuckter
    @Rosebuckter Місяць тому +1

    2:55 3:35 4:11 6:12

  • @Stavo888
    @Stavo888 Місяць тому +1

    When we talk about detaching and/or letting go, does that also include discontinuing the inner work that went into something? Like stop visualizing and affirming about the particular thing you're detaching from? Or do you keep on keeping on but just let go of the outcome? Thanks in advance, Joy. 😊

    • @Dreamwithjoy
      @Dreamwithjoy  Місяць тому +1

      After detaching, you might find that you stop visualising and affirming because you now have so much trust within that it will happen and don't feel the need to do those things anymore. But if you actually enjoy doing techniques because they make you feel good or consistent, I don't see why you should stop :)

    • @Stavo888
      @Stavo888 Місяць тому

      @@Dreamwithjoy Thanks so much 🙏🏼 makes sense. Meditation is just part of life, twice a day regardless. But I've visualized so much that I almost feel like I'm living a double life lol some of the stuff has materialized three-dimensionally for me. I guess it might be time to take my foot off the gas and sit in pure consciousness, let the universe unfold some of the bigger stuff on its own. 💫 I really appreciate the response and just your channel in general. 🫡

  • @eternalobserver33
    @eternalobserver33 Місяць тому

    So beautiful, thank you . hug

  • @SabrinaRizandya-ek6vs
    @SabrinaRizandya-ek6vs Місяць тому

    hi, thank you for this comforting video, Joy. What do you think I should do when someone is doing the things that I don't like, I confroted them ,and they didn't do anything about it? Like this one time, a friend of mkne posted a picture of me and our other friends that I din't want post on social media, I told him to delete it but he ignored my request. Should I keep telling him to delete it until he did (which brings me security and comfort) or should I ngelect my needs of privacy, let go of it, and go on with my day?

  • @ChromaticTempest
    @ChromaticTempest Місяць тому

    The stoics were in love with virtue. I don't think that enough to achieve happiness and bliss, tho. Trusting to divine reason, to fate, and good fortune to provide a happiness is ridiculous. Basically the dictates of the philosophy were not far off from materialism. Cars, sex, luxury, this is not the route to happiness but to disappointment.
    Now, if we twist their virtue a touch from defined as being governed outside the self to inside the self, well, then we are talking. Introspection, release of old emotion, acceptance of love and bliss within, this is virtue. A pure soul releases beauty. To become pure a soul lets go of attachment to others, things, even the self. That is detachment. Letting go of all that is fake identity and realizing what we really are. We are God. God revels in the different edifices erected by his creation, and it is singular. We are the creation. This separateness is illusory.
    Emotion is meant to be enjoyed. The serenity, the anger, the sadness, all enjoyed. It's a variety of experience meant to be sampled as entrees from Zanzibar. God is the child kept in a playroom left to entertain themselves. We are the imagined friends or villains.

  • @zoomrud999
    @zoomrud999 Місяць тому

    Hey i was talking with guy we wanted to try something and we was talking almost 6 days and after two days he said i dont want long term relationship and long distance relationship and we stopped talk. Is this possible to manifest someone who knows u 6days??

  • @Sophiatrenzas673
    @Sophiatrenzas673 Місяць тому

    Que cosas cambiaria en el mundo

  • @yoji8130
    @yoji8130 Місяць тому

    kinda cute i would like to attach

  • @warwickwestonwrigful
    @warwickwestonwrigful Місяць тому

    developersfound.com/TheWorldAccordingToWarwick.pdf
    Fear of loss and attachment go hand in hand as does fear of never having’
    Detachment isn't relinquising your possessions it relinquising the fear of losing your attachments. Also things that you do not have but desire are also attachments. So sometimes you need to relinquish fear of never having.