Life Update Q&A | Regrets on being a Mother, Balance, Herbal Journey.

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  • Опубліковано 25 лип 2024
  • I asked you guys to ask me some questions and y'all did not disappoint! Here's a life update with me answering all your questions.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 103

  • @kreativemelanin
    @kreativemelanin 11 місяців тому +14

    Great to have you back spiritual sister - always a breathe of fresh air.

  • @mariono244
    @mariono244 10 місяців тому +5

    ‘Whenever I make myself better, better is attracted to me’ Love love Queen. You’ have been a source of inspiration in my sacred feminine journey. Love 💕

  • @sanim4954
    @sanim4954 11 місяців тому +4

    you’re so inspiring to me💗hope all is well with you & your beautiful family!!

  • @NR-fd9bv
    @NR-fd9bv 11 місяців тому +1

    Missed you and welcome back!🧡🌞glad to have you back with your energy

  • @ItsShayWhite
    @ItsShayWhite 11 місяців тому +3

    I've been loving the recent content! Glad to have you back weekly. I've been loving the BTS that you've shared of your life and look forward to getting into this Q&A. Keep doing what you're doing Queen. I hope in the future, you can host a community event or retreat where your community can connect with you in person.

  • @jevoyniles6006
    @jevoyniles6006 11 місяців тому +1

    Love Always!! I recently got introduced to Birth Chart I felt so lost and purposeless, hearing you finding your purpose just gave me the push to dig deeper. You are awesome ☺

  • @XoCourtneyXo
    @XoCourtneyXo 11 місяців тому +6

    Ahhhh, so happy that you’re in this space and back!!!! Thank you for being so authentic and such a ray of light and love. Love your tips about anxiety. Many blessings to you the kids, and Kai ❤️

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +1

      Woooo! It was a journey balancing my hormones, vitamins/nutrients. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @Amberlinnnaaa
    @Amberlinnnaaa 11 місяців тому

    I’m so happy you’re back! You look beautiful and I love how open you were about how you choose to raise your kids. I’m currently in the same boat but mine are just maybe a year older than yours. And we have the Leo Virgo combo and it all makes sense now why I resonate with you so much no matter where you are in your journey. You’ve definitely helped me in mine so much with your audible compilation and interview videos. I still to this day watch them and use audible lol 😂💜
    As far as what type of content, for me personally I’d like to learn more about your holistic diet and also we can spin the block on the compilation videos and the ones where you talk over them too. “This message is for you” is my fav.

  • @SergeantsForChrist
    @SergeantsForChrist 11 місяців тому +38

    You should definitely do a mom retreat. I have 2 kids who are less than a year apart…. I would love to be surrounded around women who share similar experiences.

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +7

      What city/state are you located?

    • @vickys4431
      @vickys4431 11 місяців тому

      Ooo that would be cool but I can’t leave my husband lmao I’d def do a meet and greet tho! Like some kinda gathering. I’m in a little ass city tho up in northern cali.

    • @dionaelise
      @dionaelise 11 місяців тому

      @@TheFindGuruAtlanta, Ga ❤

    • @eshonagoins8732
      @eshonagoins8732 10 місяців тому +1

      I live in ny and would love to do this with my kids

    • @maiwitcher
      @maiwitcher Місяць тому

      This would be dope! I also have 2 daughters - but they’re 15 months apart (age 2 & 1). I’d love to be around other mommies who experienced 2 under 2 🤗

  • @Nibblesno0osh
    @Nibblesno0osh 11 місяців тому

    I feel like most of what you’ve said is exactly as my journey has been. You truly feel like a soul sister ❤

  • @angelathomas3514
    @angelathomas3514 11 місяців тому +4

    I had my pen to paper the whole time just taking notes. Thank you to all who asked questions they were helpful so that I can do my own research. This is the type of content that I love! Thank you for coming back and being purposeful.

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for supporting! I appreciate you!

  • @lilimiriam3782
    @lilimiriam3782 11 місяців тому

    This was so nice! Love the vibes ❤ and I would love to see more hair videos! ✨🤍😍

  • @taracaldwell1800
    @taracaldwell1800 11 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for sharing! Oh and heyyyyy Casey! ❤️

  • @inesnewgate3796
    @inesnewgate3796 11 місяців тому

    Love to see you back (often) grew up with you in my UA-cam page so happy to see you in UA-cam in my twenties ❤❤❤

  • @mycalabaker
    @mycalabaker 11 місяців тому +1

    I love love love your channel so much! You have inspired me so much over the years and it's been empowering to see your growth. Looking forward to watching more of your journey ❤

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much!!🙏🏾

  • @rollingwithri
    @rollingwithri 11 місяців тому

    Exuding Goddess energy as always. The colours, your outfit, the music - magical 🤎

  • @brooklynnn777
    @brooklynnn777 11 місяців тому +7

    So good to see and feel your presence back on here 💜

  • @lalmanza86
    @lalmanza86 11 місяців тому

    You are doing a great job Marlene! May you and your family be blessed with abundant health and happiness!❤❤

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому

      Received ✨ thank you!

  • @LScott-hq7mm
    @LScott-hq7mm 11 місяців тому

    How did I miss this video posted 5 days ago❤️. Love your energy and personality

  • @ShenayUnique
    @ShenayUnique 11 місяців тому

    Also, the homeschool question is something I’d love to hear more about. I feel the exact same way but not sure how I’ll be able to do it with working as well.

  • @Ary2Divine
    @Ary2Divine 11 місяців тому

    Would love to see more content on ceremonies or connecting with your ancestors or meditation like how you meditate or connect please Im excited to grow with you again!

  • @kaylinakay
    @kaylinakay 3 місяці тому

    Always love watching your content.
    I feel like you came and dropped amazing videos on us and then disappeared again for some months now. Looking forward to seeing more from you hopefully soon

  • @gr82bdanyelle
    @gr82bdanyelle 11 місяців тому +1

    Not ur first Q&A, but it’s been few years! We got a sit down vid! I’m glad ur getting real & honest with us. I’m not a mom, but I love hearing ur real perspective on ur journey esp watching u before ur maternal transition.

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому

      Thank you! I remember seeing your comments! Thank you fo always showing up for me! I appreciate you. ✨

  • @Lucy8Lulu
    @Lucy8Lulu 11 місяців тому +2

    Yay!!! Glad you loved Dallas! 🤗

  • @bethsands9341
    @bethsands9341 10 місяців тому

    Hey, love the video and love that you are back! Can you fo a haircare video please? Your hair has gotten so long!

  • @insatiablelioness
    @insatiablelioness 11 місяців тому +2

    I love your content❤❤ thank you

  • @CMULAN27
    @CMULAN27 11 місяців тому +1

    So crazy how I’ve followed your journey for so long. I had 2 boys back to back in Nov 2018 & Oct 2019. At the age of 20 🫶🏽 Blessings to you. Good luck you got this beautiful 💕💕

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +1

      WOOO! What advise would you give your younger self when you were trying to figure it out in 2019? Thank you so much!

    • @CMULAN27
      @CMULAN27 11 місяців тому

      @@TheFindGuru Wow great question. I’ve never thought about it! I think I would tell myself to not be so hard on myself. To accept the flaws & everything not being perfect and just work to getting where I want to be. Stop comparing myself to other moms/women and be happy in my own skin. I would also tell myself postpartum depression doesn’t last forever even if it feels like it will! Your body is beautiful the way it is, you had 2 back to back you look great! Also take some time for yourself & career as much as you can. Sometimes you lose your craft/spark for creating when you’re in mommy mode, it’s okay to have a balance! Don’t lose who you are, just grow into the better version you want to be. Lastly I would tell myself “yes it was worth it, yes you made it through, you’re doing amazing” 🥹 definitely things I needed to hear thanks for asking!

  • @Realitysua_
    @Realitysua_ 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for answering so many questions!! I would love to attend a meet up with you one day so hopefully you really do something like that!

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому

      What city/state are you in?

  • @adonnicagenon3025
    @adonnicagenon3025 10 місяців тому +2

    I love this, I would love to see a video on your BC experience. Or if you could even tell me in response to this…I have the ParaGuard BC…for maybe 3 months now and I think I need to take it out. Something tells me I need too…longer cycles and more emotional during that time 😣 . I think it may have been affecting me in lots of ways that I think back. Definitely want to take it out soon . ❤️‍🔥 what’s ur take on birth control?

  • @TashabyNature
    @TashabyNature 11 місяців тому +19

    For the person who asked “how did you find out what your purpose is? Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +2

      🙏🏾

    • @wendy8617
      @wendy8617 Місяць тому

      Yes 🙌🏽 I needed to hear this too ❤

  • @ShenayUnique
    @ShenayUnique 11 місяців тому

    My son does the same thing when I’m breastfeeding and trying to multitask lol. But, thank you for this. I have one child but I relate to your sentiments about trying to be the top of all of my roles. Sometimes I feel all over the place.

  • @nikkhalia
    @nikkhalia 11 місяців тому +2

    the answer to the Divine Partner question was so good!!! ❤ i’m seeking the same

    • @nikkhalia
      @nikkhalia 11 місяців тому +1

      Our thinking is so aligned. I love watching your videos to hear my ideas spoken out loud! I don’t have folks around me that think the same.

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +1

      Sheeeesh! It isnt easy but the bloosming of what can be is so much beautiful on the other side!

  • @Jfkdabombk
    @Jfkdabombk 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @goddess2859
    @goddess2859 11 місяців тому +2

    Also as far as your spiritual journey, what happened in your life or triggered/brought you to the consciousness of your being on a journey?

  • @MA-gp4oz
    @MA-gp4oz 11 місяців тому

    When will you realease your hair food?!? Your hair has grown so much please share your hair growth journey

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 11 місяців тому +7

    30:32 You are so gorgeous ✨ Your hair is too stunning ✨

  • @ravanjanae
    @ravanjanae 8 місяців тому

    Ne Neeeee girl I missed you 😂 I even know your nickname because I’ve been watching you for years

  • @Goldeexo
    @Goldeexo 11 місяців тому +2

    We missed you pretty girl ❤

  • @natashaxhuggins
    @natashaxhuggins 11 місяців тому

    Team 2011!! Im literally soooo glad you’re back on UA-cam. I’m sooo inspired by your journey 🥹💗

  • @daniellanewman5439
    @daniellanewman5439 11 місяців тому

    Can you do a video on how you replenished your body health wise during back to back pregnancies :)?

  • @vickys4431
    @vickys4431 11 місяців тому +2

    Im a mama of 3 and I most def need more health videos, especially surrounding little ones and women’s health. Nothing is more important to me than keeping my family healthy! Do you have any book recommendations about holistic health? Also, what in the lords name do you do for your skin? cuz you are ALWAYS glowing! you’re so beautiful 😊 Lots of blessings to you and your family! So happy you’re back on UA-cam ❤ i missed ya!

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for this feedback! It helps me soooo much becauseI have a lot that I have learned over the last year! My skin is detoxingggg. it went through a lot! I can share that too!

    • @redd9009
      @redd9009 11 місяців тому

      ​@@TheFindGuruplease share

  • @teetee-hz3wd
    @teetee-hz3wd 11 місяців тому +2

    oo girl you said a WORD for that divine partner question: “how you writing all these things you want in a partner but you do everything on your own” 😮‍💨
    i feel you though😂 very much miss independent, fixed asf, fire/air dominant and a leo stellium

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому

      🙇🏽‍♀️ accountability in being contradicting goes a long way 🙏🏾

  • @tarathilton
    @tarathilton 11 місяців тому +1

    Cannot wait for the birth video with your midwife for life 🤍

  • @TheFlowerGardenZa
    @TheFlowerGardenZa 11 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful video. I’ve loved the breastfeeding interlude ❤

  • @lesbridges3040
    @lesbridges3040 5 днів тому

    I like both

  • @gr82bdanyelle
    @gr82bdanyelle 10 місяців тому

    Wait, I gotta a notification of a new Q & A vid with the team, where’d it go? 😩

  • @som1
    @som1 10 місяців тому

    Just wondering if you have heard of a herb called Indian costus root?

  • @FaithVictoria.
    @FaithVictoria. 11 місяців тому

    What about Discord? Youre about to connect with your audience & determine where everyone is from as well 😊💖🦋✨

  • @user-sc3nh2ud9z
    @user-sc3nh2ud9z 6 місяців тому

    I could cry she left us again

  • @lesbridges3040
    @lesbridges3040 5 днів тому

    Right

  • @beastyt4177
    @beastyt4177 11 місяців тому

    What do you eat for breakfast

  • @Allbynicole
    @Allbynicole 11 місяців тому +1

    First

  • @tarathilton
    @tarathilton 10 місяців тому

    Hi babe. Would you be up for making a video on your breastfeeding journey with baby no.1 and 2?

  • @goddess2859
    @goddess2859 11 місяців тому +1

    Can we get tea on your Sun, Moon, and Rising though 😭😭

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому

      👀👀👀

    • @goddess2859
      @goddess2859 11 місяців тому

      I’m guessing gemini rising 😂😂

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 11 місяців тому

    How often do you exercise

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому

      Not consistently at all 😩

  • @laurainlondon
    @laurainlondon 11 місяців тому +3

    I love u plz turn off the music

  • @zenavenuejewelry7899
    @zenavenuejewelry7899 11 місяців тому

    Hello💗

  • @sharon6981
    @sharon6981 11 місяців тому +3

    Having kids can be challenging at times, but God has graced us women with the ability to do so. When we stick to God’s design, things flow much better. As a woman, we should be submitted to God first and foremost, our roles as wives is second, and then third comes our children.
    Having a husband and 4 children, I’ll tell you I tried to “balance” everything, but we aren’t meant to do it all. Our purpose is to build our home and nurture the people inside of it.

    • @haahmayan9637
      @haahmayan9637 11 місяців тому +1

      This is exactly what I was just thinking and I read this exactly after M said it so thanks for writing this it’s so true and I agree our role is to submit and reverence our husbands as women first

  • @opalvibration
    @opalvibration 11 місяців тому

    More wombwellness content pls

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 11 місяців тому

    Do you

  • @MisRedBonz
    @MisRedBonz 11 місяців тому +8

    The music in the background is so distracting trying to effectively listen to you 😩

    • @insatiablelioness
      @insatiablelioness 11 місяців тому +6

      I love the music

    • @xoxoroxlo
      @xoxoroxlo 11 місяців тому +6

      It’s soothing similar to my meditation music, I appreciate it.

    • @lcyyy7924
      @lcyyy7924 11 місяців тому +2

      I thought the volume was good actually and I can hear both fine

    • @gr82bdanyelle
      @gr82bdanyelle 11 місяців тому +1

      I love it tho lol. It was relaxing to me

    • @haahmayan9637
      @haahmayan9637 11 місяців тому

      It was a lot with the water and the music it’s nice but sometimes we just wanna hear M first lol

  • @jhaila
    @jhaila 11 місяців тому +2

    Everything you said about the season you are in is exactly what I’m going through except I am going through this with my first child. This video makes me feel so seen. It’s crazy how I resonated with everything you said. 🩷🩷

    • @TheFindGuru
      @TheFindGuru  11 місяців тому +1

      Sending love and grace you way Sis! You got this!

  • @lesbridges3040
    @lesbridges3040 5 днів тому

    Right

  • @lesbridges3040
    @lesbridges3040 5 днів тому

    Right