“fingers, toes and tails inside?” Lou this warmed my heart, you both have so much love to give, she’s going to have the best life a dog could ever ask for 🐶
Oh Dana. It IS a big deal. Please don't ever think you need to minimize it. It is never ok for a person to demand anything of our bodies. Neither stranger nor friend. Nor even partner/spouse. And Lou, I could hear in your narration that you carry guilt over being away and you have no need to do that either. Is Dana lucky as hell to have you? Yes. I can tell you'd do anything at all to protect her, as it should be, but we can't tether ourselves to our partner's side and stop finding the beauty in the world on our own. And you can't stop finding your own adventures from time to time.
Samantha, thank you for this leaving this note. So true on all those points. Thank you for sharing your kind words and insight especially on this topic 💕 sending you our love
Yeah Dana, people who expose themselves like that are likely to take things further, often to tragic ends for people ( RIP Sarah Everard) sorry that happened to you x noone should go through that.
Please do not forget to teach Freya how to stay alone without being stressed. This best starts very early by encouraging her to not follow you around in the house if you tell her to stay so that she learns to stay relaxed when you are out of sight for a minute or two. I know you read all the books, but especially with a puppy I feel like I want to be around it all the freaking time so I tend to forget/delay teaching staying alone
That is such great advice, thanks, V! We are definitely doing our best with that as well. Thank you for watching out for both us and for Freja with this helpful comment! It really is such an important part. Sending our love!
I can attest to the fact that GSDs do not like to be left alone (my poor neighbors would tell me about the mournful howling) having had 2 of these beautiful loyal smart dogs in my lifetime. I wish we had done more alone time training.
At first I was very confused by the fact you were picking up a dog from a breeder but hearing your story and your goals for Freya make total sense, I hope your able to grow your pack with rescues in the future if that fits your lifestyle when the time comes
I'm so sorry and angry about what happened in Croatia. I wish we wouldn't have to worry about people doing disgusting things to us every time we go out alone. I hope you and Freyia go on a lot of fun and worry-less walks!
I am so happy that you got this new member of the team. She is adorable. Dana I am sorry for what you have been through in Croatia. Can't even imagine how it felt. I would like to tell you how sorry I am as a Croatian woman that this happend to you at all, but especially in my country.
Thank you 💕 Croatia itself was otherwise beautiful, I don't have any ill will toward the country or the people. We would love to visit again one day and make more happy memories :)
Omg Dana, I’ve been watching you all for a long time and thought I’d seen every video,but I did not know about what happened in Croatia. I’m so sorry! You had me in tears. I’m so glad you will be safe now, with your new fur baby!
Thank you, Laura... we hadn't actually shared this in a video before, we decided we didn't want to include it back then. Partially because it takes a while to emotionally process, and because we like our videos being more of a positive creative output and don't always share everything... But since it was an important part of the decision to get a German shepherd as our first dog, and since time has past, I was ok with sharing it now. Thanks for your kind words, they mean a lot! Sending our love
I posted the below before finishing the whole video-sweet Dana; I am so sorry for the trauma you endured. The world can be a dark place, but there is more light than shadow. I love you and ache that you went through what you did. Freja will be a beacon. I’m so proud of you and your bravery. There are very few joys as intense and pure as welcoming a new puppy into your life. I am incredibly excited for you and can’t wait to see your three progress together!
Wise words from Lou regarding rescue dogs. We got 10-year-old mini schnauzer Beasley from a shelter. She’s the sweetest thing ever and SO easy to take into the family, despite 1 grumpy cat and 1 grumpy dog. Beasley the Love Sponge conquered all our hearts in no time. Freja is lovely. She’ll do you proud, I know.
So much love. I think it is a big deal. When we minimize these serious things it creates a narrative in society that it is ok. It is not ok. You know it. You are too important for it to be ok. Everyone is. I think that having grit also applies to dealing with the hard things in the right way. That takes grit too. I am excited to watch this pup grow. She is so freaking cute. Those ears!
Freya is beautiful. I'm grateful to hear, though, that you are aware of the priceless value of adopting dogs and puppies from local shelters and rescues. I've been in dog rescue for years and years, and sadly our local shelter is filled to overflowing now, with soooo many dogs and puppies in need of loving homes. Rescue dogs come from all walks of life, and often find themselves at shelters due to absolutely no fault of their own, and often they are better behaved than my own dogs. And, pure bred dogs find themselves at shelters all the time too, often as breeder surrenders, in fact there are breed specific rescues in most states and for most breeds of dogs that can work with people one on one to find a good match. Though you decided to buy Freya from a breeder, I thank you for you comments on adoption, and for spreading the word about the importance of adoption/rescue. It will be a joy to see a rescue dog or puppy in your family one day as a wonderful brother or sister to Freya.
I love this comment. I was so hoping that Freya was a rescue dog. Dog adoption is so important. I adopted a 9 month old GSD sized street dog from Spain who was thrown into a pool to drown and went to the pound. He is such a wonderful boy. He brings joy and happiness to the family and has taught my children so much. It has been so rewarding to adopt and give him a second chance at life. It makes my heart swell everyday. Puppies are of course v cute but I hate the idea of breeding being promoted when so many animals who've been let down are in need of homes. Thank you so much for your work with rescue animals. 🙏
@@HPB1776 Your story is so touching. I'm so sorry your GSD went through such suffering before you found him, but I'm so grateful for people like you who save dogs in desperate need of tender loving care. There is no doubt you dog knows you rescued him, and I'm sure he is devoted to you and your family with all his heart and soul. Thank you for your kind words, but without adopters like you rescuers wouldn't be able to continue to rescue more and more dogs. It takes a village, and you are the village. Namaste.
You guys have been such an inspiration to me for years and to hear what happened in Croatia brought tears to my eyes. Nobody should go through that and it truly broke my heart to hear. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. No matter how strong people are, these kinds of things can still effect a person deeply. Please know that what happened is neither of your fault but is instead only the fault of the horrible man that did it. I'm so happy that you have each other and now have possibly the cutest puppy in the world who will always keep you safe
You have to be one of the kindest couple in the world. When I see you both I see so much love it's a little Sun shine in my life thank you. Congrats on your new family member
You guys are such amazing dog parents already. I love that you know the difference between shelter dogs and puppies, thank you for sharing and for being decent humans. Good luck and congrats.
Thank you guys so much for sharing! She is such a sweet puppy and its so fun to see your family grow! Dana, my heart goes out to you. As a fellow survivor of sexual assault, these things are so horrific to go through. My heart is with you as you heal.
Rescue dogs absolutely have an infinite capacity for compassion and love. Even after the most brutal treatment, they can sense kindness and support and safety. Appreciate you discussing the potential life of a breed like Freja or a rescue, such a crucial distinction and both are equally special and magnificent types of dog.
Hi guys, I'm from Croatia and I was so excited to see that your van-life journey brought you to my beautiful country - but I'm so sorry to hear that you had this experience... and I think its so brave of you Dana that you're speaking up about it and its important to share this experience with everyone who wants to listen. Anyway, love your stories and I hope you'd be back one day...love your energy!
I'm so sorry that happened to you, Dana. That is terrifying and I'm happy that you've worked through it, but that stuff can be haunting. Your puppy is the best puppy!Congrats! !
She is wonderful and will bring much joy to your lives. I had 2 beautiful German Shepherds while my children were growing up and they kept us safe, brought us joy - our home always felt wonderful with these 2 special beings. Yes, training is the key but it looks like you have that covered.
Oh Dana, I’m so sorry you went through that horrible experience. I hope you (and Lou) have been able to get some professional insight on healing your souls from the trauma that event caused you both. Therapy/counseling is so important for all of our mental health, but that is serious. It’s too easy for us to use the “it could’ve been worse” minimizing, when we have lived through trauma. We second guess and question our own minds. I hope you continue to heal and I’m so proud of you two for sharing this story and pursuing joy and strength since then. Love to you both from Chicago!
Thank you for sharing this story Dana. And I am sorry this happened to you. I had a similar experience where a man was lingering around me and filming me while I was lying in my favorite spot on the lake. It makes me so angry that this spot is now not the same anymore. It has always felt special to me before. That we can’t just feel save being in the world makes me so sad and angry. Especially nature should feel save for us. It is a big deal and your feelings are so valid. I’m happy you have a friend by your side now to go on adventures with and feel save and protected. ♥️
That is such a nice sentiment about someone out there feeling less alone, thank you for sharing that (and for your other kind words, too!) It means a lot :) Sending you our love!
And then there were three! I'm so happy for your little family! @@WildWeRoam I think that a lot of people will feel less alone. I know I do. And I hope reading the comments lets you know that you are not alone. Thank you for sharing your experience, both of you.
So exciting. Congratulations on the new member of the fam. Dana I am truly sorry that you had such a horrific experience like the one you mentioned in this video but I think you are incredibly brave and strong. Indeed you are a overcomer.
Omg Freya is so cute! I have a female German Shepard who is 9 months and my partner works away a lot. She makes it easier to be alone and feel so much more secure. It’s a lot of work to have these dogs but it’s the most amazing journey and I hope you enjoy it! Having an animal can be also such a great way to heal from traumatic experiences like you went through. I’m so sorry you went through that and you should never feel like you have to minimize an experience like that. I hope you continue to be able to heal and find peace from that experience.
Congratulations on your adorable fur baby!!! I'm so happy for you all! Freya is a blessed girl to be with you two, and you two are blessed to have her! ❤❤❤
First of all Dana I am so very sorry that, that worse than bad experience, happened to you in Croatia- that portion of your post brought tears to my eyes. I’m sure Freya will become a wonderful support dog and reaffirm your confidence in being. I have taken a lovely pic of our dog Gus trying to greet Freya via the tV screen 😂. For all the sometimes inconvenience dogs bring they give back a hundred fold in entertainment. Just count the number of times she makes you smile in a day. I’m sure she will become a star. 🌟
I actually cried happy tairs for you in the car to get Freja! I remembered the feeling when I bought my first dog over ten years ago. I was also that girl in the library haha! Im SO happy for you!! I havent even seen the whole video yet I just wanted to write this and also I want to thank you for trigger warning as I often watch with my little dougther and things like this can mean alot, not every one on youtube are so thoughtful as you two!
omg y'all got me crying over Alfie!! I literally thought of him when I saw Freja and to see how his impact played a major part into their decision making process was so sweet...imagine if they went and bought Alfie and got him to train Freja askdjfalsdjf :"))
This video made me both so happy and so sorry. What happened in Croatia was awful Dana, I wish it hadn't happened because it is a big deal and you did not deserve that. But I trust in your strength and resilience to rise above it. And I am so so happy for the arrival of Freja, she's such a beautiful addition to your family! Can't wait for more videos with her. Love you guys.
The way you explain being an informed dog owner speaks to how genuine and compassionate you both are 💕 I’m so glad you found a dog that will love and protect you-and for you to do the same for her. Being a dog parent is such a rewarding experience. Cheers!
This exact scenario happened to my sister and I. We were at a local pier swimming with a male friend of ours (thank God he was with us). No one believed us. I'm so so so sorry that happened to you. It's hard to have moments taken from you and feel so vulnerable. Prayers to you my dear. Congratulations on your adorable little protector ❤ She's the perfect!
omg you did not need to throw me back like that i loved alfie so much!! i miss him! so happy for you guys and especially you dana having a dog is so much fun! literally will be your best friend much love to you guys ❤️ soon you’ll be throwing something new for the freja and remember tossing those acorns for alfie
I don’t know what it was, but this video got me soo emotional, by the first second I was already starting to tear up. Mainly because I do still remember the video where you said good bye the Alfie and how much I cried with you. Witch is so weird because I never met you or Alfie. But your beautiful skill of storytelling and your bravery to show raw emotions catches me every single time. I cried so many happy tears and sad tears with you, was so often full of excitement and joy for you. I just wanna say thank you for letting us experience snippets of your story, told so beautifully. Thank you 💛🌻🌞
My best dog advice... Play with Freya’s ears and paws frequently so that she becomes accustomed to the feel. From the very beginning, handle her food with your hands first to let her know that just because you handle her food that she does not need to become defensive about it. No table scraps, so she never learns to beg at the table. You eat first. Happy dog life!
Excellent advice. We did this with our three GSDs and it was so helpful with others minding them or grooming visits. Also be the leader, you walk through every gate and door first.
Oh my gosh Dana 🥺 I’ve been following you guys for years and it brought me to tears hearing what happened. I am so incredibly sorry for what took place. As a kid we raised German shepherds and they are the BEST dogs! The protected us kids so well & were the best companions. Just keep her busy. I am glad you guys know what to expect with this breed. You both will make the best dog parents 💗
I had a similar experience to you when I was traveling alone in Vietnam and the guy friend I’d been traveling with had just flown out days before. It really messed with my independence and my perception of what I could and couldn’t do as well. You’re not alone. 💗
I work in vet med and I’ll tell you - Freja or Freya is a really common German Shepherd name😂 Also I’m sure you’ve done your research on their hips (hence the ramp) but please don’t get all of your information from the internet. Make an appointment with a vet and ask your questions (for a large breed please don’t feed grain free food-look up FDA statement about grain free foods and dilated cardiomyopathy and have a convo with a vet). Also spaying dogs before their first heat cycle (at around 6 months old) DECREASES their risk of mammary cancer (and other hormone related cancers) by roughly 90%. However, large breed dogs sterilized later in life (12-16 months old) decreases their risk of rupturing their cruciate ligament (ACL in people.) German Shepherds already have a shorter lifespan due to their size so please ask your vet what they recommend to keep her healthy, not just the internet/trainer/pet food stores. Congrats on the new pup!
Ok last thing - tired dogs learn better so having her play and get energy out before you start working with her will help with training. Also you can use her normal food as training rewards (like measure it out in the morning before feeding her and take from her daily allowance) so you’re not giving her too many calories. When she’s this small it’s less important but after she’s grown keeping her lean will be the best thing for her hips.
@@aymeetheginger Wow!! These are some incredibly helpful tips, thank you so much for taking the time to share your expertise with us and Freja! We really appreciate you watching out for us :) sending big big hugs!
Also a small animal vet here. Can confirm all above facts, including the commonality of the name Freja for a GSD! One more thing: PLEASE start messing with her toes, nails and ears while using positive reinforcement to get her used to nail trims and ear cleanings. This will make keeping her healthy A LOT easier in the future! And will make your vet's job easier as well :)
I can attest to the easy tearing of the ACL on GSDs. My sweet Lizzy tore hers chasing a squirrel. Luckily we live near enough to UC Davis that has an excellent (and way less expensive) veterinary teaching hospital. They fixed her ACL perfectly and she had many more good years. Unfortunately they warned us that it would be easier for her to tear the ACL on her other leg. This did happen a few years later and then her hips began to fail. Giving her prescribed meds helped. I still miss my Lizzy girl so much💕🐾🐕🦺🌈
Congratulations on the puppy! I know how long you have been waiting for this. I haven’t had a puppy since I was young, it is such a sweet experience. I have adopted mine as adults and that is one thing that makes me sad and curious what they looked like. Good luck with the potty training!
you guys radiate happiness in ur new home, was so sad the sailing didn't work out, and a little miffed, I was here to live vicariously through it haha, although was also nervous for you both, anyway, not I wait for ur videos each week, which just shows how much more authentic this journey is for u, big love xo
I wrote this just a few minutes in, now at minute 8, Dayna I am so sorry that happened to you and he stole your experience of freedom and safety! To all the women and people who have to constantly think of our safety when we are alone, we are exhausted! Your going to be great dog parents and she will be an amazing companion xx
I'm sitting here in tears of joy and sorrow for what happened to you in Croatia. It's a wonder you guys got a poppy and planing to rescue others I have 4 rescue dogs it's a full job but I would not want it any other way.
Dana and Lou! I'm so happy for you. I know this has been a long time coming. Thank you Dana especially for being so vulnerable and sharing your story with the world. You are amazing. Love love love you.
Also I know you already don't but don't listen to trolls on the internet criticizing your choices y'all are some of the most well thought out decision makers in the world
My Step Dad taught his German shepherd to bark ("speak") and be quiet ("quiet") on command. It helped with stopping him being too noisy for neighbours, but also helpful if you are in an intimidating situation to be able to get him to bark. But he was already quite vocal, if Freja is quiet it might be harder to teach her haha.
OMG I love your puppy! I was going to say the same thing as Ashley Bautista: I really like the way you prepare for everything reading books and looking for information. And Dana, it was a really big deal - it has to be shouted not minimized. Love from Brazil 🇧🇷
18:38 #1: NEVER get a dog because you want him to look "intimidating" for "protection". #2: NEVER buy from a breeder. Its so disappointing they bought from a breeder. Always adopt. There are puppies in shelters, too. Pure-breds as well. I've fostered dogs and puppies and it breaks my hearts to think people still pad the pockets of breeders rather than save a life. ALL dogs deserve good homes, whether they are in a shelters or being pumped out by breeders. However, why add to the problem? Why not adopt? So unfortunate for all the puppies being killed today in shelters because people want to buy the "perfect" dog from a breeder 😪
One of my first thoughts was 'we all need a German shepherd' and that's extremely sad to me. What happened should have come as a surprise but like myself too many women watching this will have known how the story unfolded before you even explained what had happened. This is making me really really sad. Thank you for explaining the reasoning as to why you have decided for the kind of dog you have adopted into your family. 💛
As an owner of a GSD myself all I can say is these are the most loyal and trustful furry friend. Props to getting a female GSD, they're much more protective of their humans than of their space unlike males. All I can say is do the front end work! Set up a system that works for you and your pup to learn, and stick to it!. Once you teach them how to learn from you, your pup will be set for life to learn anything new you want them to. Happy dog life!
and thank you Lou for the reminder to all that not all dogs are family dogs! Some breeds of dog take A LOT of work and patience to train and condition them to be "good" dogs. It hurts my heart to see dogs turned over after 8-16months from owners who didn't realize the work they are, got frustrated and surrendered the dog. And often these dropped dogs are "bad" dogs and reinforce their stereotypes of being vicious when really they were given up on. I wish you all the puppy kisses!
I'm so sorry Dana, the world can be a terrible place sometimes, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully you will get stronger after this and keep enjoying life with no one bothering you. You guys are so lucky to have each other, sometimes we need a shoulder to rest on and regain strength. I'm sure you will now be very happy with Freja.
I have had the same thing happen to me, in broad daylight when I was a hostess at a restaurant. I was 15. I was alone with a man, walking him to a nice table when the interaction changed in a minute. I now have a 100lb black lab that is my shadow. I have never felt safer. I am so sorry that happened, but bless your new puppy. I hope she is happy and makes you as safe as you can possibly be.
Congratulations on your new family member sho cute and adorable 🥰 it was great to see how you both interact with Freja training her and playing with her and showing her all that love that even we can feel awww we love you Freja 🐕 also so proud of you Dana for being a fighter and gettn thru what happened to you…it just sucks that these things happen no matter where you are thx for sharing…be blessed and wishing you all the best ❤️ 🐾
Congratulations, Freya is a very lucky girl with beautiful and wonderful parents, I have no doubt that you have done lots of research and it’s okay if you make mistakes along the way 🥰❤️
I’m still reeling from the news you sold your boat. That was the fastest turn around I’ve seen. Was it as bad as it seemed? I’m glad you found your calling and Hawaii is so beautiful. All the best of luck. 😊❤️
Thank you so much for the trigger warning! I’m watching this with my daughter and I’ll have to watch that section later. I really appreciate you looking out for us!
Freya is stunning guys. Yes having a puppy is mega hard work unless you have time to sit and spend time training, giving them exercise. Yes, a GSD will protect you to the hilt if she needs to and since she had her since being little will love you for ever. The trainer seems to have done an amazing job with the crate as well for you, having a crate makes it so much easier. I know a lot of people don't like crates but a great safe place for Freya when she wants to chill(Which will be never until maybe 1)
She's so cute! I love her ears! Thank you for sharing your story, Dana. It IS a big deal. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Lou, I like how you explained your reasoning for getting a working line dog. I didn't realize there was such a thing as working line dogs so thank you for the education! I guess I thought those kinds of dogs (airport and military K9s) came from GS rescues. I appreciate all the information you guys provide! Have I mentioned her ears? I did? My bad. They are so cute! I love her! Congratulations you two!!
Congratulations on your new slice of heaven! Beautiful puppy and beautiful parents! The most impactful video of yours I’ve ever watched and that left a deep print in my heart is the one with Alphie. It was so heartwarming to see you get a tattoo of a pine cone in Alphie’s memory. That is the second time I cried watching your videos. I can’t help thinking about Alphie; how much he must have missed you when you were no longer there and how there was no way to explain to him where you had gone. Is there any way at all you might be able to bring him “home”? You are such huge hearted people. I believe Alphie recognized that in you both. He would be in such good and well deserved care. Unexpectedly, I am shedding a few tears as I write this. I too am a dog lover and have some wonderful stories. Watching Alphie interact and bond with you both and especially with Dana was deeply touching. I haven’t stopped wondering about him.
I am so sorry that you had such a horrible experience in Croatia. I have to compliment you on the fact that your outlook on life never became sad or unhappy. Dana, you are such a strong woman to have not let this take away your happiness in your life or Lou's. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Congratulations to the new addition to your family. Freya is going to give you two such joy!!
Adopt not shop! As a volunteer for years in animal sanctuaries, I have seen so many dogs that die alone there because no one gave them attention. I am sorry Lou, you didn't persuade me about your reasons. Apart from the fact that almost everything you said (apart from s&r) can be accomplished by many medium to big-sized dogs, you are also trying to justify that your reasons are valid to shop a dog. In my opinion, this was a black day on your journey. Never shop a dog. Being vegan and buying from someone that uses animals to make money is kinda weird. There are so many sanctuaries that would send you for free a rescued dog even if it was overseas. I am disappointed. A dog would protect their 'owner' no matter if they are shepherds, bulldogs, Great Danes, or Labradors. PS: As a European white guy I am really sorry about what happened to you Dena. These are kinds of stuff that makes us hate our sex.
Oh my love, you are not alone. It was not ok. It is a big deal, and you did nothing wrong. There are many of us out there. I was 8. 8 years old. It takes courage to talk about it. And it can take a lifetime to process (I'm 60 and still processing having my power taken away at such a young age, and I still, even now, have to work on reclaiming my personal space and power at every fork in the road. Sending massive hugs for being brave to share this. Love, Christina
I had a German Shepherd and she really protected me few times by just reading situations and coming between me and someone who might have harrassed me. Men would literally turn around and walk away. She was amazing. Hope Freja will do the same for you two! 😍
Thank You for sharing your fur baby journey Excited for all 3 of you and Croatia unpleasant happening. You don't have to share anything but I'm greatful you all do!!!
Guys I paused and cried. Every woman I know, myself included, has at least one if not many stories like this and it makes me unbelievably angry & sad. I’m so sorry that you experienced that Dana, I’m so sorry someone did that to you. I wish you strength and peace 💕 Super excited to see all of your adventures with Freya 🐾😘
I am so so sorry this horrible assault happened to you Dana nobody deserves something like that to happen to them. Keep strong!! I am super happy for you guys! Congratulations with your beautiful puppy!! Having a German Shepherd is the most special en loving bond you can have. Greetings from Pax🐾 and myself.
I trained with my GSD for 3 years and it has created the most incredible bond between us. He has brought me so much confidence and I always feel save with him. I honestly think I learn more from him than he could ever learn from me. I suffer from sever anxiety and he absolutely made my life 100 times more bearable. Enjoy this amazing journey with Freja and always keep her close!
“fingers, toes and tails inside?” Lou this warmed my heart, you both have so much love to give, she’s going to have the best life a dog could ever ask for 🐶
The ability they have to share their stories is immaculate
Thank you so much, Carson, that means so much to read :)
Oh Dana. It IS a big deal. Please don't ever think you need to minimize it. It is never ok for a person to demand anything of our bodies. Neither stranger nor friend. Nor even partner/spouse. And Lou, I could hear in your narration that you carry guilt over being away and you have no need to do that either. Is Dana lucky as hell to have you? Yes. I can tell you'd do anything at all to protect her, as it should be, but we can't tether ourselves to our partner's side and stop finding the beauty in the world on our own. And you can't stop finding your own adventures from time to time.
Samantha, thank you for this leaving this note. So true on all those points. Thank you for sharing your kind words and insight especially on this topic 💕 sending you our love
Yeah Dana, people who expose themselves like that are likely to take things further, often to tragic ends for people ( RIP Sarah Everard) sorry that happened to you x noone should go through that.
Please do not forget to teach Freya how to stay alone without being stressed. This best starts very early by encouraging her to not follow you around in the house if you tell her to stay so that she learns to stay relaxed when you are out of sight for a minute or two. I know you read all the books, but especially with a puppy I feel like I want to be around it all the freaking time so I tend to forget/delay teaching staying alone
That is such great advice, thanks, V! We are definitely doing our best with that as well. Thank you for watching out for both us and for Freja with this helpful comment! It really is such an important part. Sending our love!
Agreed! My bfs dog can’t go anywhere without him. He even follows him into the bathroom... 😐
I can attest to the fact that GSDs do not like to be left alone (my poor neighbors would tell me about the mournful howling) having had 2 of these beautiful loyal smart dogs in my lifetime. I wish we had done more alone time training.
couldn't agree with this more!
Great advice! My 16 yr old shepherd mix has had me under constant observation for 13 years. Separation anxiety is no joke.
At first I was very confused by the fact you were picking up a dog from a breeder but hearing your story and your goals for Freya make total sense, I hope your able to grow your pack with rescues in the future if that fits your lifestyle when the time comes
I have never forgotten sweet Alfie. 💜
Really love how you guys prepare for everything whether it’s a puppy or sailing and you guys do it TOGETHER ❤️
I'm so sorry and angry about what happened in Croatia. I wish we wouldn't have to worry about people doing disgusting things to us every time we go out alone. I hope you and Freyia go on a lot of fun and worry-less walks!
Thank you so much, Amanda, completely agree. Hope you are having a nice Sunday, and thanks for watching and leaving this message :)
I am so happy that you got this new member of the team. She is adorable.
Dana I am sorry for what you have been through in Croatia. Can't even imagine how it felt. I would like to tell you how sorry I am as a Croatian woman that this happend to you at all, but especially in my country.
Thank you 💕 Croatia itself was otherwise beautiful, I don't have any ill will toward the country or the people. We would love to visit again one day and make more happy memories :)
She is so cute! Nice shoutout to senior rescue dogs, I live on a sailboat with my 15yr old senior rescue pup and he is the best decision I’ve made!
Omg Dana, I’ve been watching you all for a long time and thought I’d seen every video,but I did not know about what happened in Croatia. I’m so sorry! You had me in tears. I’m so glad you will be safe now, with your new fur baby!
Thank you, Laura... we hadn't actually shared this in a video before, we decided we didn't want to include it back then. Partially because it takes a while to emotionally process, and because we like our videos being more of a positive creative output and don't always share everything... But since it was an important part of the decision to get a German shepherd as our first dog, and since time has past, I was ok with sharing it now. Thanks for your kind words, they mean a lot! Sending our love
@@WildWeRoam sending love back to you three, all the way from Oregon. ❤️❤️❤️
I posted the below before finishing the whole video-sweet Dana; I am so sorry for the trauma you endured. The world can be a dark place, but there is more light than shadow. I love you and ache that you went through what you did. Freja will be a beacon. I’m so proud of you and your bravery.
There are very few joys as intense and pure as welcoming a new puppy into your life. I am incredibly excited for you and can’t wait to see your three progress together!
I love how prepared and conscious you are of this decision. That’s beautiful!
Wise words from Lou regarding rescue dogs. We got 10-year-old mini schnauzer Beasley from a shelter. She’s the sweetest thing ever and SO easy to take into the family, despite 1 grumpy cat and 1 grumpy dog. Beasley the Love Sponge conquered all our hearts in no time. Freja is lovely. She’ll do you proud, I know.
Beasley the Love Sponge!! Ha what an amazingly adorable nickname, sooo cute!! Sending you, dear Beasley and the whole gang our love :)
So much love. I think it is a big deal. When we minimize these serious things it creates a narrative in society that it is ok. It is not ok. You know it. You are too important for it to be ok. Everyone is.
I think that having grit also applies to dealing with the hard things in the right way. That takes grit too.
I am excited to watch this pup grow. She is so freaking cute. Those ears!
Dana finally got her own Alfie :’) so happy for you!
Thank you so much, Kelsey!! To say we are excited is an understatement, she is so precious!! :)
Freya is beautiful. I'm grateful to hear, though, that you are aware of the priceless value of adopting dogs and puppies from local shelters and rescues. I've been in dog rescue for years and years, and sadly our local shelter is filled to overflowing now, with soooo many dogs and puppies in need of loving homes. Rescue dogs come from all walks of life, and often find themselves at shelters due to absolutely no fault of their own, and often they are better behaved than my own dogs. And, pure bred dogs find themselves at shelters all the time too, often as breeder surrenders, in fact there are breed specific rescues in most states and for most breeds of dogs that can work with people one on one to find a good match. Though you decided to buy Freya from a breeder, I thank you for you comments on adoption, and for spreading the word about the importance of adoption/rescue. It will be a joy to see a rescue dog or puppy in your family one day as a wonderful brother or sister to Freya.
I love this comment. I was so hoping that Freya was a rescue dog. Dog adoption is so important. I adopted a 9 month old GSD sized street dog from Spain who was thrown into a pool to drown and went to the pound. He is such a wonderful boy. He brings joy and happiness to the family and has taught my children so much. It has been so rewarding to adopt and give him a second chance at life. It makes my heart swell everyday. Puppies are of course v cute but I hate the idea of breeding being promoted when so many animals who've been let down are in need of homes. Thank you so much for your work with rescue animals. 🙏
@@HPB1776 Your story is so touching. I'm so sorry your GSD went through such suffering before you found him, but I'm so grateful for people like you who save dogs in desperate need of tender loving care. There is no doubt you dog knows you rescued him, and I'm sure he is devoted to you and your family with all his heart and soul. Thank you for your kind words, but without adopters like you rescuers wouldn't be able to continue to rescue more and more dogs. It takes a village, and you are the village. Namaste.
You guys have been such an inspiration to me for years and to hear what happened in Croatia brought tears to my eyes. Nobody should go through that and it truly broke my heart to hear. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. No matter how strong people are, these kinds of things can still effect a person deeply. Please know that what happened is neither of your fault but is instead only the fault of the horrible man that did it. I'm so happy that you have each other and now have possibly the cutest puppy in the world who will always keep you safe
You have to be one of the kindest couple in the world. When I see you both I see so much love it's a little Sun shine in my life thank you. Congrats on your new family member
wind in the trees, a good book and a snoozing pup, living the dream!
Congratulations !! Dogs are the best friends!!!!
Yay!! Been watching since the Odie days and knew it was just a matter of time for when you two were ready. Happy life journey!!💕
Thank you both for sharing your vulnerability through wonderful storytelling. And Freya is absolutely perfect!
You guys are such amazing dog parents already. I love that you know the difference between shelter dogs and puppies, thank you for sharing and for being decent humans. Good luck and congrats.
Thank you guys so much for sharing! She is such a sweet puppy and its so fun to see your family grow!
Dana, my heart goes out to you. As a fellow survivor of sexual assault, these things are so horrific to go through. My heart is with you as you heal.
Rescue dogs absolutely have an infinite capacity for compassion and love. Even after the most brutal treatment, they can sense kindness and support and safety.
Appreciate you discussing the potential life of a breed like Freja or a rescue, such a crucial distinction and both are equally special and magnificent types of dog.
I have no words! I just feel like being your friend and sharing life with you guys. Beautiful believes, behaviors, and love. A big hug to you both!
Hi guys, I'm from Croatia and I was so excited to see that your van-life journey brought you to my beautiful country - but I'm so sorry to hear that you had this experience... and I think its so brave of you Dana that you're speaking up about it and its important to share this experience with everyone who wants to listen. Anyway, love your stories and I hope you'd be back one day...love your energy!
I remember sweet Alfie well, thanks for bringing back the memories for us as well! So happy for you and for this full circle :)
I'm so sorry that happened to you, Dana. That is terrifying and I'm happy that you've worked through it, but that stuff can be haunting.
Your puppy is the best puppy!Congrats! !
Aww Dana. I wish you the biggest hug. Im sorry that happened to you. Im glad nothing more happened. Your a strong person. Much love brave woman.
She is wonderful and will bring much joy to your lives. I had 2 beautiful German Shepherds while my children were growing up and they kept us safe, brought us joy - our home always felt wonderful with these 2 special beings. Yes, training is the key but it looks like you have that covered.
i loveeee how you guys always do your research before doing something that’s more permanent in your life! The puppy will definitely be a happy one!
Oh Dana, I’m so sorry you went through that horrible experience. I hope you (and Lou) have been able to get some professional insight on healing your souls from the trauma that event caused you both. Therapy/counseling is so important for all of our mental health, but that is serious. It’s too easy for us to use the “it could’ve been worse” minimizing, when we have lived through trauma. We second guess and question our own minds. I hope you continue to heal and I’m so proud of you two for sharing this story and pursuing joy and strength since then. Love to you both from Chicago!
Congratulations on your new puppy!
Thank you for sharing this story Dana. And I am sorry this happened to you.
I had a similar experience where a man was lingering around me and filming me while I was lying in my favorite spot on the lake. It makes me so angry that this spot is now not the same anymore. It has always felt special to me before. That we can’t just feel save being in the world makes me so sad and angry. Especially nature should feel save for us. It is a big deal and your feelings are so valid.
I’m happy you have a friend by your side now to go on adventures with and feel save and protected. ♥️
Thank you for sharing your stories with us ❤️
The cutest moment of the video for me was Lou saying ‘hands, toes and tails inside’ 😍
Thank you for explaining why you got your dog from a breeder and your plans to adopt in the future. I’m a rescue dog kind of lady!
I love your excitement going to get Freya
That is such a nice sentiment about someone out there feeling less alone, thank you for sharing that (and for your other kind words, too!) It means a lot :) Sending you our love!
And then there were three! I'm so happy for your little family! @@WildWeRoam I think that a lot of people will feel less alone. I know I do. And I hope reading the comments lets you know that you are not alone. Thank you for sharing your experience, both of you.
Sorry this happened to you Dana. Stay strong, hugs from Croatia
So exciting. Congratulations on the new member of the fam. Dana I am truly sorry that you had such a horrific experience like the one you mentioned in this video but I think you are incredibly brave and strong. Indeed you are a overcomer.
Omg Freya is so cute! I have a female German Shepard who is 9 months and my partner works away a lot. She makes it easier to be alone and feel so much more secure. It’s a lot of work to have these dogs but it’s the most amazing journey and I hope you enjoy it! Having an animal can be also such a great way to heal from traumatic experiences like you went through. I’m so sorry you went through that and you should never feel like you have to minimize an experience like that. I hope you continue to be able to heal and find peace from that experience.
Congratulations on your adorable fur baby!!! I'm so happy for you all! Freya is a blessed girl to be with you two, and you two are blessed to have her! ❤❤❤
First of all Dana I am so very sorry that, that worse than bad experience, happened to you in Croatia- that portion of your post brought tears to my eyes. I’m sure Freya will become a wonderful support dog and reaffirm your confidence in being. I have taken a lovely pic of our dog Gus trying to greet Freya via the tV screen 😂. For all the sometimes inconvenience dogs bring they give back a hundred fold in entertainment. Just count the number of times she makes you smile in a day. I’m sure she will become a star. 🌟
I actually cried happy tairs for you in the car to get Freja! I remembered the feeling when I bought my first dog over ten years ago. I was also that girl in the library haha! Im SO happy for you!! I havent even seen the whole video yet I just wanted to write this and also I want to thank you for trigger warning as I often watch with my little dougther and things like this can mean alot, not every one on youtube are so thoughtful as you two!
omg y'all got me crying over Alfie!! I literally thought of him when I saw Freja and to see how his impact played a major part into their decision making process was so sweet...imagine if they went and bought Alfie and got him to train Freja askdjfalsdjf :"))
This video made me both so happy and so sorry. What happened in Croatia was awful Dana, I wish it hadn't happened because it is a big deal and you did not deserve that. But I trust in your strength and resilience to rise above it. And I am so so happy for the arrival of Freja, she's such a beautiful addition to your family! Can't wait for more videos with her. Love you guys.
The way you explain being an informed dog owner speaks to how genuine and compassionate you both are 💕 I’m so glad you found a dog that will love and protect you-and for you to do the same for her. Being a dog parent is such a rewarding experience. Cheers!
This exact scenario happened to my sister and I. We were at a local pier swimming with a male friend of ours (thank God he was with us). No one believed us. I'm so so so sorry that happened to you. It's hard to have moments taken from you and feel so vulnerable. Prayers to you my dear.
Congratulations on your adorable little protector ❤ She's the perfect!
She is the cutest puppy. They are a lot of work, but love you unconditionally.
omg you did not need to throw me back like that i loved alfie so much!! i miss him! so happy for you guys and especially you dana having a dog is so much fun! literally will be your best friend much love to you guys ❤️ soon you’ll be throwing something new for the freja and remember tossing those acorns for alfie
I don’t know what it was, but this video got me soo emotional, by the first second I was already starting to tear up.
Mainly because I do still remember the video where you said good bye the Alfie and how much I cried with you. Witch is so weird because I never met you or Alfie. But your beautiful skill of storytelling and your bravery to show raw emotions catches me every single time.
I cried so many happy tears and sad tears with you, was so often full of excitement and joy for you. I just wanna say thank you for letting us experience snippets of your story, told so beautifully. Thank you 💛🌻🌞
Lou and the dad pose at 21:12 haha! You guys and Freja will be a beautiful family 🥰 very happy for you
I'm sorry that happened to you Dana. Freya is beautiful and lucky to have y'all for parents! Congrats!
What a beautiful match. Congratulations to all three of you - what a lucky pupper.
My best dog advice...
Play with Freya’s ears and paws frequently so that she becomes accustomed to the feel.
From the very beginning, handle her food with your hands first to let her know that just because you handle her food that she does not need to become defensive about it.
No table scraps, so she never learns to beg at the table.
You eat first.
Happy dog life!
Excellent advice. We did this with our three GSDs and it was so helpful with others minding them or grooming visits. Also be the leader, you walk through every gate and door first.
Freja is SO adorable! Congratulations!
Oh my gosh Dana 🥺 I’ve been following you guys for years and it brought me to tears hearing what happened. I am so incredibly sorry for what took place. As a kid we raised German shepherds and they are the BEST dogs! The protected us kids so well & were the best companions. Just keep her busy. I am glad you guys know what to expect with this breed. You both will make the best dog parents 💗
I had a similar experience to you when I was traveling alone in Vietnam and the guy friend I’d been traveling with had just flown out days before. It really messed with my independence and my perception of what I could and couldn’t do as well. You’re not alone. 💗
Those headlamps from the boat are really coming in handy!
So thrilled for you guys. I’ve been here since Alfie days and this is a dream come true. I’m so sorry Dana about what happened. ❤️❤️
I work in vet med and I’ll tell you - Freja or Freya is a really common German Shepherd name😂 Also I’m sure you’ve done your research on their hips (hence the ramp) but please don’t get all of your information from the internet. Make an appointment with a vet and ask your questions (for a large breed please don’t feed grain free food-look up FDA statement about grain free foods and dilated cardiomyopathy and have a convo with a vet). Also spaying dogs before their first heat cycle (at around 6 months old) DECREASES their risk of mammary cancer (and other hormone related cancers) by roughly 90%. However, large breed dogs sterilized later in life (12-16 months old) decreases their risk of rupturing their cruciate ligament (ACL in people.) German Shepherds already have a shorter lifespan due to their size so please ask your vet what they recommend to keep her healthy, not just the internet/trainer/pet food stores. Congrats on the new pup!
Also I would absolutely recommend getting pet insurance while she’s young and has no preexisting conditions (like hip dysplasia).
Ok last thing - tired dogs learn better so having her play and get energy out before you start working with her will help with training. Also you can use her normal food as training rewards (like measure it out in the morning before feeding her and take from her daily allowance) so you’re not giving her too many calories. When she’s this small it’s less important but after she’s grown keeping her lean will be the best thing for her hips.
@@aymeetheginger Wow!! These are some incredibly helpful tips, thank you so much for taking the time to share your expertise with us and Freja! We really appreciate you watching out for us :) sending big big hugs!
Also a small animal vet here. Can confirm all above facts, including the commonality of the name Freja for a GSD! One more thing: PLEASE start messing with her toes, nails and ears while using positive reinforcement to get her used to nail trims and ear cleanings. This will make keeping her healthy A LOT easier in the future! And will make your vet's job easier as well :)
I can attest to the easy tearing of the ACL on GSDs. My sweet Lizzy tore hers chasing a squirrel. Luckily we live near enough to UC Davis that has an excellent (and way less expensive) veterinary teaching hospital. They fixed her ACL perfectly and she had many more good years. Unfortunately they warned us that it would be easier for her to tear the ACL on her other leg. This did happen a few years later and then her hips began to fail. Giving her prescribed meds helped. I still miss my Lizzy girl so much💕🐾🐕🦺🌈
Congratulations on the puppy! I know how long you have been waiting for this. I haven’t had a puppy since I was young, it is such a sweet experience. I have adopted mine as adults and that is one thing that makes me sad and curious what they looked like. Good luck with the potty training!
you guys radiate happiness in ur new home, was so sad the sailing didn't work out, and a little miffed, I was here to live vicariously through it haha, although was also nervous for you both, anyway, not I wait for ur videos each week, which just shows how much more authentic this journey is for u, big love xo
I wrote this just a few minutes in, now at minute 8, Dayna I am so sorry that happened to you and he stole your experience of freedom and safety! To all the women and people who have to constantly think of our safety when we are alone, we are exhausted! Your going to be great dog parents and she will be an amazing companion xx
I'm sitting here in tears of joy and sorrow for what happened to you in Croatia. It's a wonder you guys got a poppy and planing to rescue others I have 4 rescue dogs it's a full job but I would not want it any other way.
Dana and Lou! I'm so happy for you. I know this has been a long time coming. Thank you Dana especially for being so vulnerable and sharing your story with the world. You are amazing. Love love love you.
Also I know you already don't but don't listen to trolls on the internet criticizing your choices y'all are some of the most well thought out decision makers in the world
My Step Dad taught his German shepherd to bark ("speak") and be quiet ("quiet") on command. It helped with stopping him being too noisy for neighbours, but also helpful if you are in an intimidating situation to be able to get him to bark. But he was already quite vocal, if Freja is quiet it might be harder to teach her haha.
OMG I love your puppy! I was going to say the same thing as Ashley Bautista: I really like the way you prepare for everything reading books and looking for information. And Dana, it was a really big deal - it has to be shouted not minimized. Love from Brazil 🇧🇷
Oh, and I like the editing on this video: so serene.
Thank you for sharing this story,. ❤️
Thank you for sharing, it is a big deal, we so often feel that these things aren't big. But they are. Enjoy your next season x
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#1: NEVER get a dog because you want him to look "intimidating" for "protection".
#2: NEVER buy from a breeder. Its so disappointing they bought from a breeder. Always adopt. There are puppies in shelters, too. Pure-breds as well. I've fostered dogs and puppies and it breaks my hearts to think people still pad the pockets of breeders rather than save a life. ALL dogs deserve good homes, whether they are in a shelters or being pumped out by breeders. However, why add to the problem? Why not adopt? So unfortunate for all the puppies being killed today in shelters because people want to buy the "perfect" dog from a breeder 😪
One of my first thoughts was 'we all need a German shepherd' and that's extremely sad to me. What happened should have come as a surprise but like myself too many women watching this will have known how the story unfolded before you even explained what had happened. This is making me really really sad. Thank you for explaining the reasoning as to why you have decided for the kind of dog you have adopted into your family. 💛
As an owner of a GSD myself all I can say is these are the most loyal and trustful furry friend. Props to getting a female GSD, they're much more protective of their humans than of their space unlike males. All I can say is do the front end work! Set up a system that works for you and your pup to learn, and stick to it!. Once you teach them how to learn from you, your pup will be set for life to learn anything new you want them to. Happy dog life!
and thank you Lou for the reminder to all that not all dogs are family dogs! Some breeds of dog take A LOT of work and patience to train and condition them to be "good" dogs. It hurts my heart to see dogs turned over after 8-16months from owners who didn't realize the work they are, got frustrated and surrendered the dog. And often these dropped dogs are "bad" dogs and reinforce their stereotypes of being vicious when really they were given up on. I wish you all the puppy kisses!
You guys are still my most favorite UA-camrs! I look so forward to your videos every week and this one was extra special !! She's sooo adorable!! XOXO
Freya is so sweet! and you are both such amazing parents! great video, guys!
I'm so sorry Dana, the world can be a terrible place sometimes, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully you will get stronger after this and keep enjoying life with no one bothering you. You guys are so lucky to have each other, sometimes we need a shoulder to rest on and regain strength. I'm sure you will now be very happy with Freja.
I have had the same thing happen to me, in broad daylight when I was a hostess at a restaurant. I was 15. I was alone with a man, walking him to a nice table when the interaction changed in a minute. I now have a 100lb black lab that is my shadow. I have never felt safer. I am so sorry that happened, but bless your new puppy. I hope she is happy and makes you as safe as you can possibly be.
So angry that that happened to you Dana! Grrr! So sorry too. Congratulations on your new best friend & protector though, she's absolutely gorgeous! 🥰
This video really made me smile. Seeing you both where you are now in life is a beautiful vibe to be part of with you. Huge hugs 🤗 x
Congratulations on your new family member sho cute and adorable 🥰 it was great to see how you both interact with Freja training her and playing with her and showing her all that love that even we can feel awww we love you Freja 🐕 also so proud of you Dana for being a fighter and gettn thru what happened to you…it just sucks that these things happen no matter where you are thx for sharing…be blessed and wishing you all the best ❤️ 🐾
Congratulations, Freya is a very lucky girl with beautiful and wonderful parents, I have no doubt that you have done lots of research and it’s okay if you make mistakes along the way 🥰❤️
I’m still reeling from the news you sold your boat. That was the fastest turn around I’ve seen. Was it as bad as it seemed? I’m glad you found your calling and Hawaii is so beautiful. All the best of luck. 😊❤️
Join the patreon. Lots of info about the boat adventure in there!!! Sooo worth the few bucks a month 💗
Congratulations on finding your forever friend! ✌️❤️🌞
Thank you so much for the trigger warning! I’m watching this with my daughter and I’ll have to watch that section later. I really appreciate you looking out for us!
Freya is stunning guys. Yes having a puppy is mega hard work unless you have time to sit and spend time training, giving them exercise. Yes, a GSD will protect you to the hilt if she needs to and since she had her since being little will love you for ever. The trainer seems to have done an amazing job with the crate as well for you, having a crate makes it so much easier. I know a lot of people don't like crates but a great safe place for Freya when she wants to chill(Which will be never until maybe 1)
She's so cute! I love her ears! Thank you for sharing your story, Dana. It IS a big deal. I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Lou, I like how you explained your reasoning for getting a working line dog. I didn't realize there was such a thing as working line dogs so thank you for the education! I guess I thought those kinds of dogs (airport and military K9s) came from GS rescues. I appreciate all the information you guys provide!
Have I mentioned her ears? I did? My bad. They are so cute! I love her! Congratulations you two!!
Congratulations on your new slice of heaven! Beautiful puppy and beautiful parents!
The most impactful video of yours I’ve ever watched and that left a deep print in my heart is the one with Alphie. It was so heartwarming to see you get a tattoo of a pine cone in Alphie’s memory. That is the second time I cried watching your videos. I can’t help thinking about Alphie; how much he must have missed you when you were no longer there and how there was no way to explain to him where you had gone. Is there any way at all you might be able to bring him “home”? You are such huge hearted people. I believe Alphie recognized that in you both. He would be in such good and well deserved care. Unexpectedly, I am shedding a few tears as I write this. I too am a dog lover and have some wonderful stories. Watching Alphie interact and bond with you both and especially with Dana was deeply touching. I haven’t stopped wondering about him.
So loved this! I love my little critters!
I am so sorry that happened, Dana. I am glad you got out as quickly as you did. It doesn’t change it at all. I am so so so so sorry. Stay strong.
I am so sorry that you had such a horrible experience in Croatia. I have to compliment you on the fact that your outlook on life never became sad or unhappy. Dana, you are such a strong woman to have not let this take away your happiness in your life or Lou's. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Congratulations to the new addition to your family. Freya is going to give you two such joy!!
Adopt not shop! As a volunteer for years in animal sanctuaries, I have seen so many dogs that die alone there because no one gave them attention. I am sorry Lou, you didn't persuade me about your reasons. Apart from the fact that almost everything you said (apart from s&r) can be accomplished by many medium to big-sized dogs, you are also trying to justify that your reasons are valid to shop a dog. In my opinion, this was a black day on your journey. Never shop a dog. Being vegan and buying from someone that uses animals to make money is kinda weird. There are so many sanctuaries that would send you for free a rescued dog even if it was overseas. I am disappointed. A dog would protect their 'owner' no matter if they are shepherds, bulldogs, Great Danes, or Labradors. PS: As a European white guy I am really sorry about what happened to you Dena. These are kinds of stuff that makes us hate our sex.
Well said
I thought the same thing :( it was strange seeing that from Lou and Dana.
I love her!!!!! so, so excited for you
Oh my love, you are not alone. It was not ok. It is a big deal, and you did nothing wrong.
There are many of us out there. I was 8.
8 years old.
It takes courage to talk about it.
And it can take a lifetime to process (I'm 60 and still processing having my power taken away at such a young age,
and I still, even now, have to work on reclaiming my personal space and power at every fork in the road.
Sending massive hugs for being brave to share this. Love, Christina
This was just so beautiful in every single way
I had a German Shepherd and she really protected me few times by just reading situations and coming between me and someone who might have harrassed me. Men would literally turn around and walk away. She was amazing. Hope Freja will do the same for you two! 😍
Thank You for sharing your fur baby journey Excited for all 3 of you and Croatia unpleasant happening. You don't have to share anything but I'm greatful you all do!!!
Guys I paused and cried. Every woman I know, myself included, has at least one if not many stories like this and it makes me unbelievably angry & sad. I’m so sorry that you experienced that Dana, I’m so sorry someone did that to you. I wish you strength and peace 💕 Super excited to see all of your adventures with Freya 🐾😘
I am so so sorry this horrible assault happened to you Dana nobody deserves something like that to happen to them. Keep strong!!
I am super happy for you guys! Congratulations with your beautiful puppy!! Having a German Shepherd is the most special en loving bond you can have. Greetings from Pax🐾 and myself.
I trained with my GSD for 3 years and it has created the most incredible bond between us. He has brought me so much confidence and I always feel save with him. I honestly think I learn more from him than he could ever learn from me. I suffer from sever anxiety and he absolutely made my life 100 times more bearable. Enjoy this amazing journey with Freja and always keep her close!
Sorry, that happened to you Dana, ITS A BIG DEAL! Thank you for sharing this story that's a hard thing to do.
Ummmmm......anyone else see the possum?! (6:08) CONGRATS on the puppy!!