There’s Nothing To Do But Trust Yourself - Dr Gabor Maté On Inner Peace

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  • Gabor Maté offers a profound and insightful concept on our gut feeling. This is a must watch!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 125

  • @Jes1FromFL
    @Jes1FromFL Рік тому +48

    Rejecting yourself, your truth, your feelings causes uneasiness, dis-ease.

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +56

    The Creator is within

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +62

    I believe stress is the root of all dis-ease and diseases

    • @ravii8
      @ravii8 Рік тому +1

      Going little deep desire is the root cause

    • @jakea3950
      @jakea3950 Рік тому

      ​@ravii8 desire is just a symptom. Its not the cause of anything.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 Рік тому

      It’s old hat

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +25

    Breath is joy❤ When we inhale & exhale, we participate in natural laws of the universe ❤

  • @ta3970
    @ta3970 Рік тому +44

    It's mind blowing how people survived trauma years ago,before we knew what trauma was.

    • @gabykappscomposermariagabr749
      @gabykappscomposermariagabr749 Рік тому +2

      A question I have always asked myself.

    • @LIBOFFENDER44
      @LIBOFFENDER44 Рік тому +7

      Because people weren't as weak as we are today

    • @gabykappscomposermariagabr749
      @gabykappscomposermariagabr749 Рік тому +12

      ​@@LIBOFFENDER44very simplistic answer. We don't KNOW what our ancestors bore, went through, had to resist. We have no idea.

    • @jakea3950
      @jakea3950 Рік тому +5

      Many of them used drugs and alcohol. Still do, but many of us don't so education is essential.
      Its good people are seeking education these days unlike the past.

    • @jakea3950
      @jakea3950 Рік тому +5

      ​@@LIBOFFENDER44because people had a simple life. Less to think about = easy life.
      Pushing the wheelbarrow is easy, thinking about it is hard.
      Might want to reflect and realise how wrong you are.

  • @alexanderfardella8709
    @alexanderfardella8709 Рік тому +17

    This was such a refreshing video. We know these basic principles of listening to your body but we force ourselves to unlearn them over time. And it's only reinforced by the common crowd, especially in the West

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +163

    Sit for 20 minutes meditation every day, unless you are too busy, then sit for an hour 😊

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 6 місяців тому

      @@zovalentine7305 makes a lot of sense 😂

    • @jayjay19xx65
      @jayjay19xx65 5 місяців тому +2

      Old Zen quote

    • @Thigrandil
      @Thigrandil 5 місяців тому

      Bitch i sit for 16 hours every day!

    • @Chaos1976
      @Chaos1976 5 місяців тому +2

      I love this quote.

    • @daniedupreez6678
      @daniedupreez6678 5 місяців тому +1

      Since I have started doing simple meditation four years ago (Part of 'Crappy Childhood Fairy's' 'Daily Practice') I have realized how true this statement of yours is 🙂

  • @educationalramblings6826
    @educationalramblings6826 Рік тому +6

    Excellent talk. I like how he emphasized that paying attention to breathing, and not necessarily sitting meditation is very useful. I use to sit and meditate. Id feel relaxed....until i went out in the world. It was then thwt i realized that i wanted to be able to centered EVERYWHERE i went

  • @Rodrigo_Espejo_B
    @Rodrigo_Espejo_B Рік тому +42

    Be aware, breathe with care

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 місяців тому +4

      @@Rodrigo_Espejo_B yes, one thing he never mentioned is tapping, which I find tremendously soothing...aka emotional freedom technique. It calms me down when upset. Look it up!

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 3 місяці тому +2

    Please don't give up.
    Everyone of us is responsible for what we say think behave emotional imbalances etc.

  • @dmackenzie3528
    @dmackenzie3528 Рік тому +21

    “Not all addictions are rooted in abuse or trauma, but I do believe they can all be traced to painful experience. A hurt is at the centre of all addictive behaviours. It is present in the gambler, the Internet addict, the compulsive shopper and the workaholic. The wound may not be as deep and the ache not as excruciating, and it may even be entirely hidden-but it’s there. As we’ll see, the effects of early stress or adverse experiences directly shape both the psychology and the neurobiology of addiction in the brain.”
    ― Gabor Mate

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 4 місяці тому

      Some people got addicted to the drugs period. I agree.

  • @LorenzoBarichello
    @LorenzoBarichello 5 місяців тому +16

    Sometimes our body just knows…
    In my last relationship, I fought for months with a terrible feeling of anxiety. Deep know I knew breaking up was the right thing to do, but this was a very dear and important person to me. It took me everything I had to finally accept I had to let go. Supressing those feelings of doubt was making me sick, and I knew it.
    I thank myself for having listened. It was the right thing to do.

    • @healthexcellenceconsulting
      @healthexcellenceconsulting 5 місяців тому +2

      Exactly the same. Thank you for sharing. Thought it would be better when I let him go, and in some sense it is. But I am so freaking miserable. Like I can not any longer relate to my sense of self. 😭

    • @rossren9691
      @rossren9691 5 місяців тому +1

      Exact same here, if you could see the girl I was was dating you would say how could you walk away from a 10/10 beautiful girl who was kind and caring.....and I'll answer......something inside of me seen sometimes my eyes or ears didn't pick up on.
      My gut was telling me to get out of it, after a few weeks I actually felt myself becoming sick and my mind was in overdrive trying to figure out why, I ended that relationship after two months of seeing this girl and now I have peace, I miss her and wish I could have made it work but something inside of me knew something I'll never know.....maybe I saved myself from a massive disaster I'll never knew I just have to be st peace that I listen to my gut and I can only hope good things will come to me for doing so.
      She has moved on, and I'm happy for her, she got the best possible out come.

    • @LorenzoBarichello
      @LorenzoBarichello 5 місяців тому

      @@healthexcellenceconsulting I feel you. Hope you are better now. Troubling times really make us forget who we are, altough I still miss her, I have found a renewed sense of appreiation for myself I didnt have before. When in doubt, focus on yourself and things will fall into place.

    • @LorenzoBarichello
      @LorenzoBarichello 5 місяців тому

      @@rossren9691 very brave of you man. Hope you are all right!

  • @77YouLoveMe77
    @77YouLoveMe77 5 місяців тому +5

    Superb. Gabor Maté is a superb human being. This is all SO right!!! I know it all. Everything he says. He's fantastic. He understands the truth so well. Thank you for this.

  • @Melchizedek11
    @Melchizedek11 Рік тому +11

    Gut feeling = instinct = intuition = connected with your trueself = follow your heart 😢😮😢😮

  • @jamesmcfarlin8739
    @jamesmcfarlin8739 Рік тому +2

    This is so true.

  • @Zar2244
    @Zar2244 5 місяців тому +1

    Wise wise man, thanks for sharing. Could listen to him everyday.

  • @MM-yi9zn
    @MM-yi9zn 5 місяців тому +2

    Gabor reveals the truth of our lives with such compassion & sensitivity. I truly enjoy his amazing insights.

  • @erikstyers4005
    @erikstyers4005 5 місяців тому +2

    This video came at the right time for me

  • @610MARYAM
    @610MARYAM 5 місяців тому +2

    say no to what?
    iv got authority over the whole globe
    and u lot all know it
    im excited and happy
    fresh start

  • @melanie.l6282
    @melanie.l6282 5 місяців тому

    This man is a GEM❤

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +29

    Meditation means to listen. Listen is an anagram for silent.

  • @tatyanakuipery9591
    @tatyanakuipery9591 5 місяців тому +7

    Yes, as a means to self-preserve I was very, very nice to my father. At sixteen I had my first manic episode and at twenty I was diagnosed as bi polar. Bi polar is largely repressed rage, unexpressed emotions that have been contained. The subconscious mind can only take so much before it fragments into the conscious mind resulting in psychosis. Psychosis is a cry for help, it is the bodies means by which to potentially heal. If we can become conscious of our painful memories, access them we can heal. Unfortunately Western medicine teaches us that the body is not wise, that it is not resilient. That it needs medication, which, can ultimately kill you, in order to sustain itself. I became deeply curious about my psychotic episodes, piecing together the fragments of delusion and despair, sadness and rage that wanted to make itself known. Aside from witnessing I used other means by which to heal including EMDR. Now, at 41 I am off of all my medication.

  • @andrearenee7845
    @andrearenee7845 Рік тому +3

    😇Beautiful soul...

  • @WaheedaHiller
    @WaheedaHiller 5 місяців тому +3

    This is the bodys wisdom. Isn’t
    it grand

  • @elisabethannwexler4728
    @elisabethannwexler4728 3 місяці тому

    A very thoughtful interview. Thank you so much.

  • @vivianeprudentiabuelens9142
    @vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 7 місяців тому +2

    HE IS GOOD ‼️ 0:39

  • @DonPayne-vt9rq
    @DonPayne-vt9rq Місяць тому +1

    I am later in life, I have been living alone well over 10 years 🎉
    I can safely say I am happily divorced🎉
    Only after I removed all of the stressful situations from my life, was I able to hear the voices from within 😶 I got to say, I live with so much less anxiety than I once did. I guess you can say I'm unburdened by what has been🎉😂

  • @bravosierra2447
    @bravosierra2447 5 місяців тому +1

    11:33: “the awareness of breathe is the most important portal into reality (sic)”

  • @david_oliveira71
    @david_oliveira71 Рік тому +2

    Very wise and thoughtful.
    Shanti (Bengali) - Thanks a lot

  • @LittleWing3
    @LittleWing3 Рік тому +9

    ❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @NaturalEarthTones
    @NaturalEarthTones Рік тому +1

    Thank you doc

  • @jane_7193
    @jane_7193 5 місяців тому

    Such a great video, thank you! Personally, I prefer listening to a talk without background music.

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +7

    Gabor Mate MD PhD ❤

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 Рік тому +1

      Just MD..he has no psychology degree.

  • @gutstomp1146
    @gutstomp1146 Рік тому +25

    It must be noted, the way the narrator describes meditation as controlling the breath is incorrect. Do not do that, there could be some fairly serious consequences to "controlling your breath". The way Gabor Mate describes it as observing your breath and being aware are correct. Huge difference between controlling and observing

    • @Yoyosforever
      @Yoyosforever 5 місяців тому +3

      Breathing is a natural thing, force nothing.

  • @duanekaaz3159
    @duanekaaz3159 Рік тому +17

    I Have ADHD and I'm too nice to people.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 Рік тому +2

      That’s odd..it usually is connected to behaving badly, like kicking walls, or something.

    • @Lala33-3
      @Lala33-3 5 місяців тому +3

      @@robynhope219and comments like these have to do with narcissistic and psychopathy 😮

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 місяців тому

      @@duanekaaz3159 😂never heard of it

    • @healthexcellenceconsulting
      @healthexcellenceconsulting 5 місяців тому

      You do not know ADHD. Show some humbleness. ​@@robynhope219

  • @vivianeprudentiabuelens9142
    @vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 7 місяців тому

    Good advice follow your ❤️‼️ 6:35

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +4

    Rebirthing is a breath technique

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 Рік тому

      I used to be into rebirthing in early 80s.

  • @rhubarbyoghurt
    @rhubarbyoghurt Рік тому +9

    Always love what Gabor says….. BUT please drop the schmaltzy music let the words do the work as they do

    • @zovalentine7305
      @zovalentine7305 Рік тому +5

      Also stop flashing suggestion to watch another video (not by Gabor!)

    • @malcolmnicoll1165
      @malcolmnicoll1165 10 місяців тому +5

      Agree..The maudlin drama music distracts and trivializes the entire message.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 місяців тому +1

      @@malcolmnicoll1165 one of the reasons I never listen..only read transcript.

    • @donwalker117
      @donwalker117 5 місяців тому

      I agree

  • @pdelaprimm
    @pdelaprimm 5 місяців тому

    Many, via early experiences, are “cut off” from their instincts, intuition and “gut” feelings.

  • @stephensangalli
    @stephensangalli 10 місяців тому +1

    All illnesses start,in the gut. 😮

  • @chadhumes1684
    @chadhumes1684 4 місяці тому

    People never talk about big toe feelings. Like when you wake up in the middle of the night kick your bedframe. Your big toe tells you immediately not a good idea.

  • @debg70525
    @debg70525 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @haydenb123
    @haydenb123 Рік тому +2

    See Primal Trust with Dr. Kathleen King, DPT if you are struggling with chronic disease and this lecture interested you.

  • @bekhal9827
    @bekhal9827 4 місяці тому

    The answer was seeking spirituality to gain inner peace.
    The sad part for me is that People are guided to Buddhism instead of Islam which offers the true answer to a balanced life.

  • @mkh2799
    @mkh2799 4 місяці тому

    🙏

  • @MercyShaver
    @MercyShaver 5 місяців тому

    🙏❤

  • @fondrees
    @fondrees 5 місяців тому +1

    Dr. Gabor, all about describing the cuse of addiction in his opinion. Never describing any workable protocal or solution. Yes, gabor has a solution that "almost works". He seems to be fiine with his ,"almost solution". His "celebrity" seems to be enough to give him ineer peace

  • @chrissietom123
    @chrissietom123 Рік тому

    Do you have a link to the original talk?

  • @spexi513
    @spexi513 6 місяців тому

    💚

  • @graylotusflower
    @graylotusflower 9 місяців тому +1

    For it manifested as Functional neurological disorder

  • @fondrees
    @fondrees 5 місяців тому +1

    M.S. has recently been shown to be viral, ALS as well. The virus or bacteria that causes this has been eliminated with the drug disulfuram (antabuse).the research is promising

    • @marquessa100
      @marquessa100 5 місяців тому

      That's great. . .every bit of science and research helps. However, you still have to ask yourself the question, if it is a virus or bacteria why are not more people that are exposed to it end up with the disease. Kinda like the cold. Not everybody who is exposed to the cold virus, ends up with a cold. Some people can fight it off. Maybe stress and negative emotions affect the immune system. Maybe there is an emotional component to the disease that hasn't been addressed properly.

  • @jennihj
    @jennihj Рік тому +2

    How do you stop being nice?

    • @personne3837
      @personne3837 4 місяці тому

      You have to work on yourself, if you are not able to say no when you want to, it's because you are a people pleaser/codependent.
      You have to be aware of your traumas and be ready to dive in yourself.
      It's a long road but i swear to you, peace is waiting for you at the end ❤️

  • @magicbird9917
    @magicbird9917 5 місяців тому

    💛💙💜

  • @lil1671
    @lil1671 5 місяців тому +1

    What if you don’t want to listen to our bodies?

  • @eve3056
    @eve3056 5 місяців тому +1

    The Music distracts ☹️

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 Рік тому +3

    It is getting increasingly clear to me that this man is a very good salesman...don’t forget that: he is SELLING, you’re BUYING.

    • @dts7824
      @dts7824 6 місяців тому

      Please explain

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 6 місяців тому

      @@dts7824 I think I'm being abundantly clear...u either believe what I said, or u don't.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 6 місяців тому

      @@dts7824 u want me to explain the all too obvious???😂

    • @dts7824
      @dts7824 6 місяців тому +4

      @@robynhope219 if you mean the fact that the things he says resonates and has helped a lot of people and has therefore made money from it, then it's clear you are just being cynical.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 6 місяців тому

      @@dts7824 I don't deny I'm cynical, but trouble believing he has helped a lot of ppl..it's what they need to believe.

  • @shuckslbj
    @shuckslbj 5 місяців тому

    I gotta tell you, I did not want to hear that too-closely-miked voice summing shit up for 2½ minutes, I came here to hear Gabor Maté. Apologies to the narrator if he reads, but it was an instant irritation.

  • @salamshurfi1287
    @salamshurfi1287 4 місяці тому

    The music is too loud,unnecessary and distracting.

  • @TheRhNegative
    @TheRhNegative 5 місяців тому

    How absurd. Being too nice results in multiple sclerosis. What rubbish. Such garbage

  • @vildeviktoriamadsen5107
    @vildeviktoriamadsen5107 5 місяців тому

    Please cut the crappy music

  • @richardlynch1094
    @richardlynch1094 5 місяців тому

    Nice people get sick from being nice? He must have a ton of scientific research to share with the class. Or it's bs.

  • @caterinatretter923
    @caterinatretter923 3 місяці тому

    This is so interesting! "niceness" that is genuine and healthy - which is not the result of early childhood trauma - always come with having healthy boundaries and the capacity to say no🫶 Niceness that comes from self-repression is very likely to lead to some kind of physical illness. If you don't say no, your body will!