Right! It felt like... How dare you! I am the only one who can have trauma! She is unwell, really. If she rolls her eyes at her partner because he has past hurts AND! is ENRAGED regarding ANOTHER woman's man, it may be time for her to leave to begin her healing process! Her emotions are all over the place, and she has no emotional control, it is painful to watch!!!!
Exactly, how rude was that. It's like she felt he was taken away from her moment or not being sympathetic to her trauma. I had high hope for them in the beginning, but her outbursts and highs and lows, she's not the one for him, and I think he knows it.
She's disappointed me. If anything, Gregg sharing his pain should make her feel safe - which she says is her priority. I think Millie may need more self work that she even thinks, before considering a relationship with anyone.
Sharing that you have been sexually violated is NOT the same thing as having therapy and working through your pain. It seems like several guests shared abuse but haven’t committed to healing. You can also clearly observe unhinged behavior as a result.
This is such a good point. Is sharing their trauma a step in the right direction? Yes of course. But it’s only the start of the work that needs to be done to mend
I want to know Jodie’s sexologist credentials 🧐 like did she take an online class for 2hrs and is claiming this? She doesn’t seem very well versed in anything related to it imo.
Nobody is perfect but Aaron and Dyamond are examples of why some people don’t do religion and church. They lead off with being wholesome but they are the main gossipers and altercation starters.
EXACTLY, Queen E! Jody (even though her trauma is fully justified) has ZERO attraction to little Aaron. This is an important notion because we don't want anyone to conflate trauma response with the sheer fact that Jody has no attraction to little Aaron (she does, however, seem to be smitten by little Aaron's dad's salsa skills). It was an amazing dance from Daddy!
The older Aaron gives me narcissist vibes. Maybe not a full on one, but certainly thinking highly enough of himself to time and time again insert himself into the other couple’s business. Telling the younger Aaron’s father that he is a “father figure” to him is absolutely NUTS and you could see the younger Aaron’s father clocking him.
In my opinion, it's extremely selfish of Shay and Josh to take over the boom boom room and not allow the other couples time in the room. All of the couples need to talk with the therapist.
I didn't like the way Millie spoke to Chris. As much as he and his face upsets me. He spoke to Millie on level 5, Millie went straight to 1000, and to make matters worse, she called him out his name. Misplaced anger maybe???
Millie seems to only see and want to hear her perspective, and that hers is the only one that should have a voice. I'm not sure if she's the last born, but she fails to take anyone else's perspective when she is wronged and/or hurting. Gregg was only trying to show he can relate to her hurt.
Like I understand that when you're like on Paradise Island and it's super beautiful they got them in a subpar mansion and they cooking their own food and doing their own laundry
Damn I really feel my heart breaking for Millie. Hearing her say she should have known better than be out at 10 pm, I actually started crying. I really wish I could give her a hug and reassure her, bc I’ve been in that exact mindset of “it would have never happened had I done xyz”, when really, it was NEVER my fault, and it was NEVER Millie’s either.
Millie needs to take accountability (in general) & realize she is NOT the only one afflicted. Greg supports her & she can’t see it. Her behavior was disgusting not being there for him dismissing his trauma. The therapist ASKED him a question. He was there for her earlier in the episode as well-Girl like wtf is wrong w/u??? 1st she thought he was all about the physical aspect & then when he is serious, she can’t take it & acts childish/selfish. She thinks just because she is pretty that the world owes her & everything revolves around her only. Superficial. I’m sorry but she’s a bad person & He’s too good for her! 🚩
Did you know that around 60% of black women have reported experiences of sexual assault or harassment before the age of 18. So it’s not surprising that almost every woman in the show has some sort of sexual trauma
I can kinda understand why Millie said you could never handle a woman like me without her meaning she was checking for him. It seems like Chris intentionally seeks out meek, quiet woman to control to bulldoze. So I think she meant he can't handle strong women.
That's exactly what she meant and his short ass knows that but he's a supreme narcissist, so he also wants to turn it into something that strokes his ego
She’s “strong” where? Being a loud mouthed B isn’t strength. Being verbally combative and abusive isn’t strength either. It’s not that men can’t handle her it’s that men don’t want to deal with her outside of sex. That’s why she’s 30+ in a cyber “relationship” with a man she doesn’t even like or respect. If her dude had common sense and self esteem, he’d realize he could do much better.
I feel like Jody usually probably goes for a more “masculine” man ie:Chris and so when she met Aaron for the first time and saw his mannerisms she was completely turned off and doesn’t know how to express that without coming off offensive
I think the producers were trying to show the public that people with unchecked trauma can find love after they work with professionals to help them heal. I think they are missing the mark because the show has been heavy on segs and not on therapy / personal insight.
I'm over Jody I get but you have sexual trauma but girl you don't like that man. You won't even let him kiss you on the forehead. And I get it. He should have talked to you about the beds but let him actually Dare I say test a boundary. That man has not even done that. You don't want to spend any time with him, romantic or otherwise . You are more open to his dad and dancing with his that man. Give you a forehead kiss. I think also he feels peer pressure because he's like everything I've been doing is not working. So maybe I'll try another approach and you're shooting him down for that too. Your walls are so high that you let everybody else in the man who supposedly your support
I agree with you and the friend and dad are delusional. Elder Aaron was right when he said to watch how she interacts with his son. She was a stone and they’re talking about “ people don’t understand unconventional relationships.” but here comes Daddy wanting to salsa dance her around and she just comes alive IN ALL THE CONVENTIONAL WAYS!
Jody is lying about the reasons she is slow to intimacy because she clearly told us she is a man eater. It's plain as day she is trying to use her trauma to her favor to stay on the show.
Millie is Wrong, Wrong, Wrong!!! Why is she so deep in his relationship??? Why? And why is she so passionate about him? This seems to be misplaced ANGER!!!
@TheQueenE Right! She kept repeating that he could never have a woman like her. Um, where did that come from?? Was she ever an option? Did his dismissiveness trigger her, or did he reject her previously? I felt like I was missing a few scenes!
@@itsasia_nothing she said was “facts”. Her personal opinions of dude are just that. In fact, she straight up lied. He never tried to silence her. He went around the room asking who had been talking about Jody behind her back and when he got to Millie, she used that question as an opportunity to go on her unprovoked rant against him. He then dismissed her which was the right move.
am i the only one that thinks aaron is gay ?? that man is gay and she knows that .. she doesn't want to be intimate with him. She is not open to him at all.
I truly feel like they edited that scene with Millie and she was probably saying how she viewed it that way at one point that she should not have been there etc. I don’t know why, but I really feel that way. I think they edited it to make us feel she was blaming herself and Greg didn’t reassure her it wasn’t her fault. I hope I’m wrong because if not… shame on Own. 🤦🏾♀️
no you not lying about the SA i was just watching an interview about that viral couple on tik tok with the older white lady and the young black man and he shared that He was SA's by a man and met her while he was healing
Imagine your man says he has trauma and you roll your eyes. Throw the whole relationship away.
Right! It felt like... How dare you! I am the only one who can have trauma! She is unwell, really. If she rolls her eyes at her partner because he has past hurts AND! is ENRAGED regarding ANOTHER woman's man, it may be time for her to leave to begin her healing process! Her emotions are all over the place, and she has no emotional control, it is painful to watch!!!!
Exactly, how rude was that. It's like she felt he was taken away from her moment or not being sympathetic to her trauma. I had high hope for them in the beginning, but her outbursts and highs and lows, she's not the one for him, and I think he knows it.
She's disappointed me. If anything, Gregg sharing his pain should make her feel safe - which she says is her priority. I think Millie may need more self work that she even thinks, before considering a relationship with anyone.
"Never Should Have Met" took me out! 🤣🤣🤣
Because why are these people together 😭 I’m struggling to understand what attracted them in the first place
How do you live in the United States and never make plans to meet a potential luv interest? 🙃
Sharing that you have been sexually violated is NOT the same thing as having therapy and working through your pain. It seems like several guests shared abuse but haven’t committed to healing. You can also clearly observe unhinged behavior as a result.
This is such a good point. Is sharing their trauma a step in the right direction? Yes of course. But it’s only the start of the work that needs to be done to mend
I want to know Jodie’s sexologist credentials 🧐 like did she take an online class for 2hrs and is claiming this? She doesn’t seem very well versed in anything related to it imo.
That part 🔥
Nobody is perfect but Aaron and Dyamond are examples of why some people don’t do religion and church.
They lead off with being wholesome but they are the main gossipers and altercation starters.
😮💨 as a church kid… felt.
Yes!!
They need to go! Aaron/Joanna there’s no need to be here
Agree!!!!!
EXACTLY, Queen E! Jody (even though her trauma is fully justified) has ZERO attraction to little Aaron. This is an important notion because we don't want anyone to conflate trauma response with the sheer fact that Jody has no attraction to little Aaron (she does, however, seem to be smitten by little Aaron's dad's salsa skills). It was an amazing dance from Daddy!
The older Aaron gives me narcissist vibes. Maybe not a full on one, but certainly thinking highly enough of himself to time and time again insert himself into the other couple’s business. Telling the younger Aaron’s father that he is a “father figure” to him is absolutely NUTS and you could see the younger Aaron’s father clocking him.
Millie seems unhinged.
She definitely needs to mature emotionally but I can understand why she is emotionally immature.
In my opinion, it's extremely selfish of Shay and Josh to take over the boom boom room and not allow the other couples time in the room. All of the couples need to talk with the therapist.
I didn't like the way Millie spoke to Chris. As much as he and his face upsets me. He spoke to Millie on level 5, Millie went straight to 1000, and to make matters worse, she called him out his name. Misplaced anger maybe???
Millie seems to only see and want to hear her perspective, and that hers is the only one that should have a voice. I'm not sure if she's the last born, but she fails to take anyone else's perspective when she is wronged and/or hurting. Gregg was only trying to show he can relate to her hurt.
She’s a bad person. I was rooting for them too! He’s a good man & she comes off as a poor individual smh
Not the Ms. New York "eggs cracked & name dropped" reference! 😅😅😅
😂 girl im happy i found your review I felt like I was the only one watching this train wreck
I don’t even know why I’m still watching honestly 🤣
Jody will do ANYTHING to stay on the show😂😂😂
That part cause girl, forget the physical, you don’t even talk to this man
Like I understand that when you're like on Paradise Island and it's super beautiful they got them in a subpar mansion and they cooking their own food and doing their own laundry
😂She not attracted to that guy at all, why they still on the show!
I don't want this to sound bad but I feel like Aaron is in his feminine energy and that's not attractive to her 😬
Johanna don’t like this mannnnn though….. she isn’t trying
Somebody said "Control your woman" to my dad about my mom Ive never seen my dad go ballistic till that day.
I’m saying!! That phrase will not have the desired outcome in my household either.
Damn I really feel my heart breaking for Millie. Hearing her say she should have known better than be out at 10 pm, I actually started crying. I really wish I could give her a hug and reassure her, bc I’ve been in that exact mindset of “it would have never happened had I done xyz”, when really, it was NEVER my fault, and it was NEVER Millie’s either.
Everyone needs to go home single.
I really dislike elder Aaron.
Aaron H you mean right? I hope itd not the dad that danced with Jo 😅
@@marshajulessa2995whoever is with Dymond. He thinks he’s an expert on everything smh
Millie needs to take accountability (in general) & realize she is NOT the only one afflicted. Greg supports her & she can’t see it. Her behavior was disgusting not being there for him dismissing his trauma. The therapist ASKED him a question. He was there for her earlier in the episode as well-Girl like wtf is wrong w/u??? 1st she thought he was all about the physical aspect & then when he is serious, she can’t take it & acts childish/selfish. She thinks just because she is pretty that the world owes her & everything revolves around her only. Superficial. I’m sorry but she’s a bad person & He’s too good for her! 🚩
@Ashley-mv3cx Pretty WHERE??? I don’t think she is pretty at all!!!! Her face looks like this emoji🥴
Dymond’s friend= Aunt Esther!!!😂😂😂❤️
😂😂😂😂😂
So happy for your review. Just found there is a British version. So dodgy. People so free airing their dirty laundry 🙈
Is it called the same name?
It's called The Never Mets. Originally airing on their Channel 4
@@Suzitra Oh I found it. They are meeting across international boarders 👏🏾
@@techtiffany6494 Let me know what you think of it!
@@Suzitra Saw the first episode definitely peeked my interest ☺️
Did you know that around 60% of black women have reported experiences of sexual assault or harassment before the age of 18. So it’s not surprising that almost every woman in the show has some sort of sexual trauma
Never should have met. Yesssssssss you are right ❤
Dymonds friend is giving Tiffany Hadish in Girls trip 😂😂
When Millie said “you can’t handle a woman like me”, I feel she was referring to how he runs over Sandia.
I can kinda understand why Millie said you could never handle a woman like me without her meaning she was checking for him. It seems like Chris intentionally seeks out meek, quiet woman to control to bulldoze. So I think she meant he can't handle strong women.
That's exactly what she meant and his short ass knows that but he's a supreme narcissist, so he also wants to turn it into something that strokes his ego
He does and it’s so obvious how insecure he is
She’s “strong” where? Being a loud mouthed B isn’t strength. Being verbally combative and abusive isn’t strength either.
It’s not that men can’t handle her it’s that men don’t want to deal with her outside of sex. That’s why she’s 30+ in a cyber “relationship” with a man she doesn’t even like or respect. If her dude had common sense and self esteem, he’d realize he could do much better.
That’s exactly what she meant . She sees the manipulation and ain’t having it
I feel like Jody usually probably goes for a more “masculine” man ie:Chris and so when she met Aaron for the first time and saw his mannerisms she was completely turned off and doesn’t know how to express that without coming off offensive
when we are out of tune with our infinitely intuitive mind, we will find ourselves in out if tune situations
I love your perspectives, love how you articulate exactly what I be thinking watching these shows lol appreciate you girl ❤
Millie came off really mature and sweet in the beginning but then turned out to be similar to ole girl that kept yelling at Brandan
Jodie had more chemistry with
Aaron father. I believe she's just towing the line to stay on the show
Millie not ready for a relationship..Gregg needs to not think he can be her hero ..
Chris and Millie were DEFINITELY banging on the low
"Never shoulda met "😂😂😂
Thanks for giving nice reviews. U funny and eloquent.
How do you get Jody out of Joanna?🤔 that’s all I wanna know lol
I’m not sure. Maybe it’s like Bob and Robert?
@@TheQueenE makes sense; another one that never stuck for me 🤣
Maybe she wanted to Add a little razzle dazzle to Jo.
I hope you’re feeling better from being sick!! 💖
Hey good review this show is toxic and took a huge left turn
I think the producers were trying to show the public that people with unchecked trauma can find love after they work with professionals to help them heal. I think they are missing the mark because the show has been heavy on segs and not on therapy / personal insight.
1 min in and QUEEN E has me ROLLINGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm over Jody I get but you have sexual trauma but girl you don't like that man. You won't even let him kiss you on the forehead. And I get it. He should have talked to you about the beds but let him actually Dare I say test a boundary. That man has not even done that. You don't want to spend any time with him, romantic or otherwise . You are more open to his dad and dancing with his that man. Give you a forehead kiss. I think also he feels peer pressure because he's like everything I've been doing is not working. So maybe I'll try another approach and you're shooting him down for that too. Your walls are so high that you let everybody else in the man who supposedly your support
I agree with you and the friend and dad are delusional. Elder Aaron was right when he said to watch how she interacts with his son. She was a stone and they’re talking about “ people don’t understand unconventional relationships.” but here comes Daddy wanting to salsa dance her around and she just comes alive IN ALL THE CONVENTIONAL WAYS!
Jody is lying about the reasons she is slow to intimacy because she clearly told us she is a man eater. It's plain as day she is trying to use her trauma to her favor to stay on the show.
Millie is Wrong, Wrong, Wrong!!! Why is she so deep in his relationship??? Why? And why is she so passionate about him? This seems to be misplaced ANGER!!!
Definitely misplaced anger. I’m convinced there’s something that happened between her and Chris that was cut out because somethings off
@TheQueenE Right! She kept repeating that he could never have a woman like her. Um, where did that come from?? Was she ever an option? Did his dismissiveness trigger her, or did he reject her previously? I felt like I was missing a few scenes!
She was quiet for a long time...her feelings and points were valid but definitely over expressed but everything she said was facts.
@@itsasia_nothing she said was “facts”. Her personal opinions of dude are just that. In fact, she straight up lied. He never tried to silence her. He went around the room asking who had been talking about Jody behind her back and when he got to Millie, she used that question as an opportunity to go on her unprovoked rant against him. He then dismissed her which was the right move.
Sassy man apocalypse!
the way she was dancing with that man's father..even gave him a hug i never seen her hug her partner since the show started!!!!! ridiculous
am i the only one that thinks aaron is gay ?? that man is gay and she knows that .. she doesn't want to be intimate with him. She is not open to him at all.
I truly feel like they edited that scene with Millie and she was probably saying how she viewed it that way at one point that she should not have been there etc. I don’t know why, but I really feel that way. I think they edited it to make us feel she was blaming herself and Greg didn’t reassure her it wasn’t her fault. I hope I’m wrong because if not… shame on Own. 🤦🏾♀️
Does anyone have an idea where I can stream the full episodes
no you not lying about the SA i was just watching an interview about that viral couple on tik tok with the older white lady and the young black man and he shared that He was SA's by a man and met her while he was healing
Lol gurlllll