Should You Tell Him You Wear WIGS?! A Guy's Perspective...

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  • @WigsWithSteph
    @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому +7

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  • @SuperAlphaKirby
    @SuperAlphaKirby 5 місяців тому +18

    As a man myself, i can ASSURE U that men wouldnt care if u wore a wig. We are visual creatures, and as long as u look good we wouldn't care whether its real or fake!

  • @kaligrischow4731
    @kaligrischow4731 8 місяців тому +5

    Literally the sweetest video!! I always struggled with this when I was dating! I’ve been in a 3 year relationship with a wonderful man like yours, and the right one, really doesn’t care on those things!💕

  • @venusmiranda9898
    @venusmiranda9898 Рік тому +18

    I didn't start wearing wigs until a few years after my husband and I started dating and living together. In that time I got more and more sick with autoimmune and neurological problems and my hair loss sped up. I just bought some wigs one day and announcend I will be wearing them so get used to them. He just said "ok."
    He literally did not care. I did ask him specifically one day what he really thought about it and he said that he sees how much more confident and better I feel when I wear them and that if I'm happy he's happy. He loves the long hair on me. He's very supportive. He loves me not my hair. He told me I could shave it off and he would still be turned on by my bald head...😂... he's one of the good guys. 😊 My son who is 18 also loves my wigs. He said they made me look younger and he comments on which one's he likes the best. So from another male perspective of my son he thinks they are fun to see me in. My son is a good, kind kid. Most kind, good men won't care. If you find one that acts stupid I agree you dodged a douche.

  • @bikerglammom
    @bikerglammom Рік тому +9

    Ive been with my husband 23 years and like you we were much
    younger too..3 years ago I started wearing wigs and he and I have had a lot of laughs..My hair had gotten terribly thin and I just couldnt stand what I saw in the mirror..he has supported me and loved me without conditions for almost half my life and he loves how I change from long to short from brown to red to blond..he said he knew life with me would never be boring!! Congrats on the baby..your marriage and finding real love!

  • @sleeksalmon
    @sleeksalmon Рік тому +31

    Yep, he's a keeper, what a nice fella
    .... Happy for you both!

  • @karenparrish2436
    @karenparrish2436 Рік тому +8

    I had three pairs of eyelashes on and creamy black nail polish. My husband is a cross between a yuppie and a country boy. In 1975 he LOVED It.
    He still loves it. His favotite wig was the one he called my Tina Turner , it was longiish and a little wild. I wore the heck out of that wig. That was in the 80's

  • @John-hh8lq
    @John-hh8lq Рік тому +9

    I mean yeah, your husband is a great guy but wow he is so LUCKY to have you, you are so pretty and any guy would be fortunate to have someone as beautiful as you on their arm!

  • @sonofhibbs4425
    @sonofhibbs4425 10 місяців тому +5

    The both of you look very perfect for each other. Like you’re a true match.
    Thank you for putting this topic out there. It’s difficult to know when to tell people. It shouldn’t matter, but it is a thing.

  • @etneditor9948
    @etneditor9948 Рік тому +19

    You two are so darned sweet and open and supportive of one another. That is one lucky baby to come into your family! 💕

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому +3

      Aww thank you so much, Ida 💕🥹 that is very sweet of you to say!! XO

  • @paddypaddy2834
    @paddypaddy2834 Рік тому +7

    I also love that you aren’t afraid to have that boundary of not wanting your hair touched - and your husband being ok with it. I HATE having my hair touched because of the fear my extensions will be felt and also Because it takes SO much work to get my hair in place. One wrong move or a slight breeze ruins my baby fine thin hair. Every guy I’ve been with keeps asking me not to put so much product in it so they run their fingers through it. Makes me feel terrible. :(

  • @twignicholson6524
    @twignicholson6524 Рік тому +47

    Your boyfriend is the best. Good choice.

  • @paddypaddy2834
    @paddypaddy2834 Рік тому +15

    I really appreciate this video. I’m a 45 yo divorced woman looking to get out in the dating world again but am scared regarding my hair loss. I currently am able to just wear extensions, but am headed down the path of wigs eventually. Dating is hard enough. 😢

    • @Neonrain08
      @Neonrain08 11 місяців тому +4

      Honestly i find as long as it looks good men don’t care if its a wig. They honestly can’t even tell what id a wig or not

  • @charisse234
    @charisse234 5 місяців тому +3

    Your lovely guy gets it because he loves you girl! I wish you both positivity peace and love ♥️

  • @DeniceTaylor-t1j
    @DeniceTaylor-t1j Рік тому +19

    Love this! Your husband is great!

  • @AureliasMyth1
    @AureliasMyth1 Рік тому +11

    Fantastic video. You're lucky and he's a doll. My husband loves the wigs and all the different looks!

  • @DannyJane.
    @DannyJane. Рік тому +5

    I'm a wig-wearer of many, many years. What does my husband think? He has almost as much fun as I do. He doesn't dictate what I wear, but sometimes I'll ask him if there's a color he prefers (usually it's RED!) or a length he'd like to see. Sometimes has a preference, sometimes not. I own 34 wigs He' says my personality shifts according to which one I'm wearing that day.

  • @bdouth
    @bdouth Рік тому +3

    Great video! You are both in a great space thanks for sharing. I have a boyfriend experienced hair loss after we started dating so transitioning to wig life was a little different for me. I being confident about it, and men knowing that it makes you happy is key. My tendency was to apologize for wanting wigs which was the wrong route. Also him being used to touch my hair and transitioning to intimate moments was a transition. Now we are all good!!

  • @donnavilhauer9014
    @donnavilhauer9014 Рік тому +10

    Congratulations on your baby! I think you two are ADORABLE!! He seems like a great catch. Thanks for this fun video! ❤💚💜❤️

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому

      Awww thanks for your comment, Donna!!!! 💕

  • @elizabethchaykowski823
    @elizabethchaykowski823 6 місяців тому +2

    Wow!!! You have no idea how helpful this was! Totally affirming and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank-you so much!!!🤗❤

  • @pamelasauls2414
    @pamelasauls2414 Рік тому +3

    He’s awesome! But so are you! Happy life together! Congrats!! What wig are you wearing now? Thanks

  • @melissaaasharon
    @melissaaasharon Рік тому +3

    You guys are so stinkin cute!! I love this video and it's so clear that he doesn't care at all that you wear wigs and actually supports your passion behind it with all his heart

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому

      Yes!!! He really does!!! Such an amazing man, and best friend 🥹❤️

  • @kimberlyeichelberger4505
    @kimberlyeichelberger4505 Рік тому +3

    I love this❤. And, btw, if your husband has an older brother that's just like him, I'm available in the St. Louis area😂 You guys are awesome - thank you for having him on.

  • @Sandyshore21
    @Sandyshore21 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful wig (and looks like you found a GREAT match for a husband too)! LOVE it❤🌻♥

  • @claudemitchell3738
    @claudemitchell3738 Рік тому +4

    Well done, you too! Great insight. I'm so happy for you getting married soon. See you in a couple of weeks, can't wait. You're so in love, awesome. ❤

  • @onthehill3381
    @onthehill3381 Рік тому +3

    What a cool guy! All the best!

  • @Clara-wo1hg
    @Clara-wo1hg Рік тому +5

    Great video Steph I appreciate you both but what if you wear wigs because you have hair loss like badly down to the scalp! 💖

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому +2

      I used to have even worse hair loss than where my hair is at now and I’d say the same as I did in this video!! ❤️🥹💕 I truly believe that the person you’re dating should be someone who accepts you for you, and that’s for any stage of hair loss, even TOTAL hair loss 💁🏼‍♀️ I know my Dan would agree too. He’s been around for my whole Graves’ disease. Even my mental ups and downs because of the disease. It goes beyond just hair. It comes down to who you are as a person and you, Clara are fantastic! Just be YOU! Beautiful, You!! 💕🥹

  • @rebelliousraven
    @rebelliousraven Рік тому +2

    Congrats to both of you! Hang on to eachother....you're both a great catch. Glad you found eachother. Your baby will have great parents!

  • @dermlover1
    @dermlover1 10 місяців тому +9

    He is so sweet. So many good men out there. Thanks for sharing.

  • @s.a.kenyon2767
    @s.a.kenyon2767 Рік тому +3

    What a sweet guy! Your baby will have beautiful eyes 😗👀👀. I am very happy for you both.❤

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому +2

      Awww thank you SO MUCH! ❤ We are getting so excited to meet our baby 🥹

  • @RaeKing-d9k
    @RaeKing-d9k 4 місяці тому

    I really loved this and feel so much more confident wearing my wigs out thank you! ❤

  • @mariaroqueta3135
    @mariaroqueta3135 Рік тому +1

    BEST VIDEO EVER!!!👏👏👏🌹

  • @sophi1964
    @sophi1964 Рік тому +1

    He’s a keeper! ❤

  • @gigifreefreed501
    @gigifreefreed501 6 місяців тому

    This is so great!!!! Love you both.

  • @danieladobrecevic8970
    @danieladobrecevic8970 Рік тому +3

    My problem is taking the wig off.. since I have 47% of my hair..

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому +3

      My hair is very thin underneath too, and used to have patches at the back. This happened while I was with him, and he has never changed the way he looks at me :) When you find a good one, the right one for you, it doesn't matter your hair quality =) XO
      So much love to you!!!

    • @danieladobrecevic8970
      @danieladobrecevic8970 Рік тому +2

      @@WigsWithSteph yes,WHEN I FIND..I have 47% bald patches on my head.. almost ready to shave..thank you very much :)

    • @melinakoufalis281
      @melinakoufalis281 11 місяців тому

      😮

  • @melinakoufalis281
    @melinakoufalis281 9 місяців тому +2

    Not my experience
    Most men are put off with the wigs i am wearing
    So i am buying new ones to see if i can find better looking wigs

    • @Gldengrl27
      @Gldengrl27 Місяць тому

      Try looking up how black women melt lace! :) we’re wig experts. It’ll look like scalp

  • @AJCCopywritingEditing
    @AJCCopywritingEditing 2 місяці тому

    AWWW he's so sweet (and honest and funny). "D-Bag you dodged" He's right. ;)

  • @kristidumonceaux2772
    @kristidumonceaux2772 6 місяців тому +1

    But how do you deal with it if it's not for fun. I haven't been losing hair for years so it is just super thin and ugly. I'm wearing toppers and wigs because i have to but i feel very insecure.

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  6 місяців тому +1

      The same way- I also wear wigs because I have to, because I have graves disease and my hair is super thin. This is still how I explain it the first time to someone, and then you can go into "I have hair loss, and until I found wigs, it was super difficult for me to feel like myself, and NOW I have so much fun with this and they bring me so much confidence"
      🥰 This is what I've always said and it always seems to bring the receiving person closer to me, and the understanding is always there because it's coming from a place of truth, but also of happiness for having a solution. I hope this helps ☺💜

  • @Perfectgirl-un8mo
    @Perfectgirl-un8mo 17 днів тому

    This is so insane that we as women have to still ask ourselves “oh is it embarrassing? “ No!!! Non of us choose to have alopecia this is out of our hands we still deserve to look good!

  • @SantaBarbaraSideKickWigs
    @SantaBarbaraSideKickWigs Рік тому

    Love the perspective.

  • @martacrespo5358
    @martacrespo5358 Рік тому +1

    Love!! both of you!!

  • @CM-yo9jk
    @CM-yo9jk Рік тому +2

    Lovely. Great man, great wigs.xx

  • @sallyk7363
    @sallyk7363 Рік тому

    I'd love to know what that tinted lip balm you're wearing is if you would be so kind as to share the information I would be pleased as punch

  • @coockiekat
    @coockiekat Рік тому +6

    I told the guy that I wear wigs in a funny way, and he called off the date and never spoke to me again. It really got me. To the point that I have enough and don't even want to date anyone...

  • @noopy24
    @noopy24 6 місяців тому

    Congratulations. what a beautiful couple... Best of luck with the baby..

  • @2024myyear
    @2024myyear 9 місяців тому +1

    Yep most guys don't care.

  • @DanteVelasquez
    @DanteVelasquez Рік тому +1

    Well said 🙂

  • @candaceflores1528
    @candaceflores1528 11 місяців тому

    What is the first wig you had on. I love it

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  11 місяців тому

      The first wig I was wearing is called Upstage =)
      Here is the link to where I purchased it: bit.ly/3PHco71
      Here is the link to the review I did on this wig: ua-cam.com/video/p7ivKrVzVQc/v-deo.html

  • @tracef195
    @tracef195 7 місяців тому

    I told my husband on our first date. I was like you know if he likes me it will not matter, and if it does, I do not want to date him. We have been married 27 years. Wigs are my life. I have worn a wig since I was 4 years old. My husband also has never seen me without a wig on. Ha ha. I know that sounds crazy.

  • @hope4autism475
    @hope4autism475 8 місяців тому

    Is it wrong to want to wear wigs because you’re tired of dyeing your hair? I’m not ready for gray hair yet.

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  8 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely NOT wrong at all!!! =) That's part of the reason I love wigs is because I don't have to die my hair anymore

  • @wendylane6636
    @wendylane6636 Рік тому

    Ggo honest video. All the best 🇬🇧

  • @debjurgens6447
    @debjurgens6447 Рік тому

    what wig are you wearing?

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Рік тому

      💕 Hi Deb! In the first part of the video, I am wearing this wig: ua-cam.com/video/p7ivKrVzVQc/v-deo.html
      And in the second part of the video, (the wig with the waves), it is this wig: ua-cam.com/video/r4GrQaLeu-E/v-deo.html

  • @danieladobrecevic8970
    @danieladobrecevic8970 Рік тому +1

    Does he have a brother😂?

  • @vikkiberry1500
    @vikkiberry1500 Рік тому +1

    You can't clean a bathroom at 25 weeks pregnant. Really!!!!!

    • @kourtneyw8442
      @kourtneyw8442 8 місяців тому +1

      Give her a break. It’s her first. When I was six weeks pregnant with my first I was afraid to walk because I was afraid I would shake the baby loose. I was very young but that’s beside the point. Don’t judge unless you know. And even then mind your business!!!!

  • @nikolajnielsen1466
    @nikolajnielsen1466 11 місяців тому

    Let him buy a wig he choose and if you wear it his allowed to touch it..

  • @clarifyingquestions
    @clarifyingquestions Рік тому +1

    I d like to know just for genetics. One do you tell someone your teeth are false or blind without contacts etc none or deal breakers except for dishonesty.

  • @Kragum24
    @Kragum24 8 місяців тому

    You're talking about your thinning hair, and your husband is sitting next to you wearing a baseball cap? Is he, you know, (cough), bald?

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  8 місяців тому +2

      Because he is wearing a baseball cap? Lol, no.
      Also, there’s nothing wrong with bald! My dad is bald because he had cancer ❤️ and my husband is very supportive of me and my hair. Even if he lost his hair, I would also be supportive of him. 😊

    • @yeseniavega2400
      @yeseniavega2400 Місяць тому

      I've been dating a man for 9 months. I was single for 15 years. I am happy with him. I haven't told him I wear a wig. I have lupus and lost about 90% of my hair. What is left is very thin. He has tried to touch it on several occasions but I say no. I just don't find the courage to tell him. I feel he would reject me.

  • @apacur
    @apacur Рік тому +2

    Why engaged for so Loooonngg?