Dude.. every time I watch a video. I keep messing up, but I keep learning. I'm getting better and better, but I've killed it with some beauties already. kinda suxs.
Whenever I wait 7 days, sometimes I’ll realize that the girl I was previously bananas over, I don’t really care about if she’s with me or not. It’s so liberating. Follow the once a week rule! It will settle your emotional attachments and it’s easier to think rationally
If im taking 16 school units. A part time job. AND play in a rock band. Yet still managed to read coreys book a 5th time, you guys are bullshitting yourselves if you say " i dont have the time. " if it really matters to you, you WILL make time.
You are a genius. I've always had trouble after the first date and I know why now. It's because I keep texting her and all of a sudden I make a stupid joke. Every time. This advice is too spot on
Most of what Corey is saying is actually very true. I'm an attractive person and I hooked up with a lot of chicks when I was single, but I made those mistakes of texting too much and pursuing the chicks that I was really into. Big mistake, no matter what is your look and personality, being needy is never a good idea with any woman. Today, I've met a 'marriage material' girl with who I'm totally happy, and I could bet my house that she is too, but I'm still trying to conduct myself as manly as possible and not fall into the many traps that are unfold down the road. Like Corey said, everyting is a test everyday, and since I really like that girl I'm with, I don't want that attention level to go down because I'm being too 'feminine' (texting, chatting too much especially). Be the man, live your life, have fun, hook up, keeping it simple.
My man really said “I just wanna hang out, have fun, and hook up” lmao That’s the last thing you should tell a woman is that you just wanna “hook up” with her... you act that way, you don’t say it!
Hey corey just wanted to give u a big THANK YOU, had I never came across ur videos I would've totally blown it w my current chick, and possibly ALL future girls, ur advice is gold, I caught myself doing all these mistakes u always mention, I've corrected my past behaviors and am seeing better results, still working on perfecting the 3% man role, thanks again man and have an awesome day(:
I think this is one of the most practical videos Corey has ever done. Spot on and very clear in how men and women are different in dating and relationships and how to respond for maximum positive effect.
Im on the 7th read. I am telling anyone who he is doubting him, Ive gone to the next level, and its spilled into my work life too (Im a teacher). I have alot more compassion and patience when I work on being centered and like that...but yes, like Corey says, read the goddamn book 10 times or more. Its free!
Teach the young padowans. Look what girls did to anakin. Teach them the ways of the force. This knowledge is more valuable than my high school diploma.
Johnny Anakin was the victim of his own demise. I can’t think of somebody who embodies “Nice Guy” more than Anakin Skywalker. First thing he does is vomit his feelings on Padme, and then pursues and pursues until she eventually gives in. That’s exactly the BS Coach has said teaches guys bad behaviors
Listening to this helped me make sense of some things. I went on a first date a few years ago, and initially I liked her and thought I'd like to get to know her more. But strangely, she was the one who started acting like it was a relationship, moving herself completely into my personal space. This was unnerving for me, and by the end of the date I was trying to find an excuse to never call her. When we parted, I agreed to a second date, but later texted her and said I really wasn't feeling it. All the time I actually thought there was something wrong with me, but I think in retrospect she was moving too fast for me. She might have been a little insecure, and I may have dodged a bullet. I also realize that I've always had this fear that a first date makes you a couple, and I've always dreaded this. I've never really realized I have a choice in this. So it may have been something in me, pulling away from her more subtle physical advances, and her reaction to me pulling away was to move closer.
we all think our situations are special and then stuff like this really helps. Bought your audiobook! What's worse is when you do it all right in the beginning and think you dont have to play the game anymore but ...nonono!
I have to testify coach. I've read the book 16 times and STILL haven't gotten second nature. I left a donation for you last month. Thanks for the mirror :)
I made every mistakes possible in this video, RIP me haha. I'm sure she will come back in a bit, let's just wait. Well, you learn from your mistakes and girls are your best schools for this sorta thing.
Omg man this video was def for me!!!! I have no problem with attracting women. The usual prob for me is getting bored or not having anything in common with women I date. This last date I went on was with a beautiful model who I kind of already had placed on a pedestal because I thought how great of a trophy chick shed be. Anyhow the date went great and there were even 3 make outs. It ended with the chick thanking me for taking her out. The nect few days of convo went great too until suddenly one night I noticed her barely replying. I stopped and gave her a few days space only to have to initiate again only to get a weak excuse as to be busy. I should have ended it right there but me thinking with my penis accepted it only to ask her on a date to get a maybe response. The last few days have been sporadic convos and all of them because of my initaion. Time to accept it and move on, plenty of fish in the sea.
Your videos are great & they've helped me at a low point in life after years of health problems, lack of employment, and being without friends & in a very negative family environment. You helped me get back a decent amount of positivity I had before all my problems hit like a chain reaction. I'm hoping to one day own a business too, but that's a long way from a reality at this point. My only question regarding the dating advice: if you only use the phone to set up dates, won't it make you look cold if you only call a girl to make dates & don't call her like once in the middle of the week to find out how her week has been? Or would the call to set up a date include questions like how her week has been? It surprised me with how little success I've had over the years that a lot of things I do right (I don't kiss ass, don't overpursue) but unlike what you say most of the time, I also have a zero tolerance of being treated like a backup plan or an inconvenience where I'll stop contacting them and will ignore them if they bother contacting me again after pulling off shit like that. I have way too much self respect to give a 2nd chance after that. It probably killed lots of opportunities but I'm fine with that. I know what I'm worth and what's not worth my time. Anyway thanks for the videos coach. I'd love to buy your books once I have some spending money available. I'm hoping to buy your Mastering Yourself book first as I'm thinking that one may help us out on job interviews and becoming attractive candidates.
Remember in dating, it's not your turn. You may be #3 or #4 in her rotation of guys in her dating circle. (You will never know your #) dont ask. He is right, just back off. She will decide
I dated a woman recently, we clicked right off the bat. I made the mistake of casually mentioning that I had looked for job's closer to where she lived. Big mistake ( I thought) she gave me the obligatory "I'm uncomfortable" talk which I totally understood...then a week later she want's to define us as a couple which was great. Two weeks after that she let's something arbitrary that I had done bother her and use that as the reason to break up. It's exasperating BUT I went NC immediatley.
So true, a woman can lose her attraction for a guy overnight. How do I know? Because I am a woman. And I recently dated; really liked him. Two nice dates. It went downhill fast after that. Watching these videos to understand why. For sure his 'you are already like my girlfriend' texting messed things up. Dating is only dating. Don't make a girl regret dating you ...
Yeah that's one of the common mistakes that guys make - trying to extract a relationship and "lock you down". It's like fear of losing the woman that they like.
There’s other women out there !! Yes I’ve been where this guy has been, but that’s one of my biggest take aways. Why be fixated on one woman until she wants to?
What if she tries stalking to you about how the past went wrong ? My instincts tell me to tell her something like "let's not talk about that and just enjoy the here now" something in that way, just brush it off lightly and keep hanging out
I'm at the 3 week stage. Although we've only been on 2 dates, since our schedules didn't line up for one week. She reached out to them other day sending me a video of her singing (really well, I might add) one of my favourite songs. I set up a date then.
14:20 Treat *ALL* women the same (treat the women you are really into the same as the ones you aren't that into) 18:30 “Women are naturally designed to test your strength.” 24:30 Women are emotional beings. Car crank analogy, takes some time to get women wound up.
I have been able to naturally get woman since a child. A lot of women. I’m here because I was in a bad marriage for 6 years and needed a refresher. THIS MAN IS A GENIUS!! He absolutely knows what he is talking about. I would recommend this.
Hooking on the first date, while not ideal for some women and some men if you're not emotionally in a place for that, causes you to to more more easily not do so much of the needy behavior that Corey talks about since you've already got the prize. It's just like losing your virginity makes it easier to interac/physically with girls. You would be basically coming from a place of abundance (of experience) and not scarcity, desparacity.
Its good to have those people. Hes just helping people get to the point of having confidence enough to go out and talk to the one who interests you. Its about stepping out of your shell. Understanding who you are. Hes spoken and wrote about great women in his life too so..i like clingy women too
Maybe you should put out an audio/mp3 version of your book. A lot of times people won't read something several times but they will listen to something several times. I looking at your comment threads, that is what people are doing with the videos that you make.
This is interesting because the quote you mention at the beginning I would have thought would be what a woman is thinking when dating and the guy is thinking 'lets see what happens'.
Is taking a woman out for an evening dinner with wine also "girlfriend" treatment, since it's "romantic"? (3rd date) It's for sure not as "fun-filled" as going and doing something more energetic where we can laugh (we did that on 2nd date) Thanks Coach for sharing the gold - read your book once, still another 14 to go! :D
It's hard to be flip flopping like this depending on how the girl is acting. A man usually has his mind either set to ignore the woman, or to have a relationship with a woman, and that mind is firmly set. If I've adjusted my mind to not care about the woman, then when she reaches out to me again, I just talk to her like a friend and do nothing, because I've already made plans to live without her.
Yes! Everyone should have the freedom to be who they are, and everyone should have equal opportunities to succeed. As the book states, people are on a spectrum of male-female energy, and allowing people to choose who and what they are allows for more of those dynamics to exist. Some men are naturally more feminine, and some women are more masculine- and that’s a good example of polarity.
Wish the past guys I dated watched your videos. Oh my god this one guy immediately wanted to jump into a relationship after the first date. That completely turned me off, and I said I need time to get to know you more. He blew up my phone to hang out and then got mad I didnt want to be in a relationship after the first date. He did some other weird stuff and I stopped talking to him. A year or so later he still constantly messages me on facebook and I have not replied since smh
I have seen he wants to go to things he can drag his friend along.. .a movie, concert, bar, ....we went out to eat (drink). It seems not to be a serious relationship and more like a hang out.
2:45 "trying to treat them like they are already their girlfriend, they often start acting dopey, submissive, and like a teenager in love for the first time" me being a teenager knowing i did all that but also just had my first love: "well im here for a reason" XD
gawwdd damn i do not know what you went through coach,, but whatever you did to be as spot on as you are thank you sir, helping a young man out like me.. sometimes I try and skip steps or say no I can do it this way but I end up fucking up and going back to your book which I've already read 14 times thinking fuck! I even highlight Why do I not listen lol 😂 anyways you're like a pops thanks so much for real 💯
If I have a great date and the guy fails to get in touch with me I'm never writing again. I want to see investment. As long as the guy keeps his interests and life going and doesn't ask me about important life decisions too early on he can be as kind as he possibly can be for this is what makes me consider a relationship- him treating me as if he'd already be my boyfriend in suttle, progressing ways.
@ 33:15. The situation might be more complex coach. I think in that situation she may just be bored and talkative. If hes always asks her out when ever she makes contact, I would think she would limit the communication. Situational.
A hooker is pursuing me 80-90% of the time coach, how should i handle this situation? Do i wait until she starts to bring the "being exclusive" talk to strapped her down? I know she's the "one" lol.
I like Corey and I have read the book..... it was painful. He's writes like a woman long winded stories that don't get to the point quick enough. When you write for men you got to get to the point quickly and reconfirm your point.
I had a girl in currently dating do the maybe. But the difference with my situation is, dhe said her sister was going to be taking her to the beach but she still asked me what i had in mind. Then literally yhr next text about an hour later she told me it was nothing concrete and she's happy to go out with me. Didn't leave me hanging,nor did i have to even tell her to let me know.
Dinner dates as a first date will normally automatically put you into the "make him wait" category as you are treating her like a girlfriend. Avoid as best you can.
thanx coach.. wow its like taking a class from the vicomte de valmont himself, the character john malkovich played in the 1988 film dangerous liaisons :D
anybody else cringe when they hear a mistake they made once upon a time? lol
Dude.. every time I watch a video. I keep messing up, but I keep learning. I'm getting better and better, but I've killed it with some beauties already. kinda suxs.
lols its the only way we learn
Yes. It makes me realize how many times I got to the goal line and then fumbled. Of course that was back when I was a rookie............HA HA
codemiesterbeats ALL of us do brosef
I'll start yelling just to get that embarrassing moment out of my head
Whenever I wait 7 days, sometimes I’ll realize that the girl I was previously bananas over, I don’t really care about if she’s with me or not. It’s so liberating. Follow the once a week rule! It will settle your emotional attachments and it’s easier to think rationally
This is so true! Good observation.
Tommy Salerno Absolutely this.👆🏽 Can confirm.
So true !
Epic comment. Thank you
Solid introspection.
Read the book 15 times, or buy 15 copies, and read each one, once.
Then you can give them out to all your friends and family! 😋
Smrt. That way it's new each time.
I read the book over 20 times I'm to the point now I just look in the mirror in the morning the first thing I think is Bond James Bond
I do the same thing in the morning..."Bond...James Bond." All it seems they hear is ..." Powers...Austin Powers Baaby"!
Exactly the power u feel every day is 10x if transfers to other areas of my life im winning in everything in my life !
damn, you're GF look bad too. Nice work!
👏👏👏👏
Lol😂
If im taking 16 school units. A part time job. AND play in a rock band. Yet still managed to read coreys book a 5th time, you guys are bullshitting yourselves if you say " i dont have the time. " if it really matters to you, you WILL make time.
Xavier Corena dude you're in a fucking band! thats the ultimate panty dropper, well if you play drums maybe not soo much ha.
Amen, bruh!!!
lol
It's called the bible
what's 16 school units
if only i had stumbled on this account back in 1983...
if we start with all the "if onlies" the list will never end, life's like that, by the way I was born in 1983 hahah
@Deplorable_Brian u mean Phillip Emeagwali
1983.... that’s not a real date
George Orwell was short 1 year
@Deplorable_Brian al gore didn't invent any internet mate
Man, this sounds like such an extremely delicate sport. Even when you win, it's only momentary. Let focus on other persuits
You are a genius. I've always had trouble after the first date and I know why now. It's because I keep texting her and all of a sudden I make a stupid joke. Every time. This advice is too spot on
It's complete bs, when someone says, " I don't have time to read." What, you don't have 15 minutes to read 10 pages a day and invest in yourself?
Most people, sadly, are in love with mediocrity.
Most of what Corey is saying is actually very true. I'm an attractive person and I hooked up with a lot of chicks when I was single, but I made those mistakes of texting too much and pursuing the chicks that I was really into. Big mistake, no matter what is your look and personality, being needy is never a good idea with any woman. Today, I've met a 'marriage material' girl with who I'm totally happy, and I could bet my house that she is too, but I'm still trying to conduct myself as manly as possible and not fall into the many traps that are unfold down the road. Like Corey said, everyting is a test everyday, and since I really like that girl I'm with, I don't want that attention level to go down because I'm being too 'feminine' (texting, chatting too much especially). Be the man, live your life, have fun, hook up, keeping it simple.
what if two people actually feel a strong need for each other?
First Last carry on playin the game
Well said
First Last just keep watching the vids til you get it
How are you doing now?
My man really said “I just wanna hang out, have fun, and hook up” lmao That’s the last thing you should tell a woman is that you just wanna “hook up” with her... you act that way, you don’t say it!
@F4 Phantom see what pops up ;)
That part killed me too
what a fucking moron
You obviously have not read the book or studied the information or you would know that's not what he's telling you to tell her
@@gabriellebernstein13 guys like you or what make it so easy for guys like me
"c'mon man"
lmao
Why this look like a post nba game press conference?
lollllll
Lmao?
😂😂😂
I don't understand why everything has to be complicated.
+Beautiful Music 4 All That is your opinion.
+Beautiful Music 4 All ok
Cos women are very complicated and they make everything complicated. Only wastes the limited time and energy that you have in life.
M because woman have way more options than they did in the past.
Wilson Tenney especially with online dating being as popular as it is. It's unfair as shit for men lol.
I've read the book 16x and still make mistakes.lol. I'm rereading it,now. As my inner work gets better,so do I. Thanks for the mirror,coach
Hey corey just wanted to give u a big THANK YOU, had I never came across ur videos I would've totally blown it w my current chick, and possibly ALL future girls, ur advice is gold, I caught myself doing all these mistakes u always mention, I've corrected my past behaviors and am seeing better results, still working on perfecting the 3% man role, thanks again man and have an awesome day(:
I think this is one of the most practical videos Corey has ever done. Spot on and very clear in how men and women are different in dating and relationships and how to respond for maximum positive effect.
Im on the 7th read. I am telling anyone who he is doubting him, Ive gone to the next level, and its spilled into my work life too (Im a teacher). I have alot more compassion and patience when I work on being centered and like that...but yes, like Corey says, read the goddamn book 10 times or more. Its free!
Joey Levenson I thought you said you are in the 7th grade lol whoops
Joey Levenson i
Start teachin the kids!
Teach the young padowans. Look what girls did to anakin. Teach them the ways of the force. This knowledge is more valuable than my high school diploma.
Johnny Anakin was the victim of his own demise. I can’t think of somebody who embodies “Nice Guy” more than Anakin Skywalker. First thing he does is vomit his feelings on Padme, and then pursues and pursues until she eventually gives in.
That’s exactly the BS Coach has said teaches guys bad behaviors
I'm dating a 9 right now. In the past I would have fucked it up, but not now. Thanks bro.
Derek Hershey how’s it going?
@Derek Hershey
How are things going with her?
@@MistahUnknown they are married and live in the Caribbean on a house boat
Listening to this helped me make sense of some things. I went on a first date a few years ago, and initially I liked her and thought I'd like to get to know her more. But strangely, she was the one who started acting like it was a relationship, moving herself completely into my personal space. This was unnerving for me, and by the end of the date I was trying to find an excuse to never call her. When we parted, I agreed to a second date, but later texted her and said I really wasn't feeling it. All the time I actually thought there was something wrong with me, but I think in retrospect she was moving too fast for me. She might have been a little insecure, and I may have dodged a bullet. I also realize that I've always had this fear that a first date makes you a couple, and I've always dreaded this. I've never really realized I have a choice in this. So it may have been something in me, pulling away from her more subtle physical advances, and her reaction to me pulling away was to move closer.
I can't believe how many times I have done this.
This is one of your best videos. Thanks Coach Corey.
I’ve read the book 150 times and am unstoppable!
@apollobarkley
Okay Pinocchio
@alex cole Go fuck yourself
Bro I appreciate how much this dude cares.💪🏾
Coach Wayne is the man 🤘
we all think our situations are special and then stuff like this really helps. Bought your audiobook! What's worse is when you do it all right in the beginning and think you dont have to play the game anymore but ...nonono!
I made these mistakes with a girl who was really special to me. Granted, she’s a bit of a lunatic, but I just had to learn from it and move on.
I have to testify coach. I've read the book 16 times and STILL haven't gotten second nature. I left a donation for you last month. Thanks for the mirror :)
I made every mistakes possible in this video, RIP me haha. I'm sure she will come back in a bit, let's just wait. Well, you learn from your mistakes and girls are your best schools for this sorta thing.
Omg man this video was def for me!!!! I have no problem with attracting women. The usual prob for me is getting bored or not having anything in common with women I date. This last date I went on was with a beautiful model who I kind of already had placed on a pedestal because I thought how great of a trophy chick shed be. Anyhow the date went great and there were even 3 make outs. It ended with the chick thanking me for taking her out. The nect few days of convo went great too until suddenly one night I noticed her barely replying. I stopped and gave her a few days space only to have to initiate again only to get a weak excuse as to be busy. I should have ended it right there but me thinking with my penis accepted it only to ask her on a date to get a maybe response. The last few days have been sporadic convos and all of them because of my initaion. Time to accept it and move on, plenty of fish in the sea.
Joehenny the phone is for setting dates
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@F Collins that is the common mistake I used to make, phone conversations are only when one is in a committed Relationship.
“You were in a flat spin, you crashed and burned bro” I love you Corey 😂
Blue balls the size of Texas hahaha
agree....hilarious! We have all been there
cmon men, read the damm book 15 times for christ sake
read it? buy it 15 times brah
I’ve read it 3 times really struggling with the 4th I think maybe the 35th time will be easier
Your videos are great & they've helped me at a low point in life after years of health problems, lack of employment, and being without friends & in a very negative family environment. You helped me get back a decent amount of positivity I had before all my problems hit like a chain reaction. I'm hoping to one day own a business too, but that's a long way from a reality at this point.
My only question regarding the dating advice: if you only use the phone to set up dates, won't it make you look cold if you only call a girl to make dates & don't call her like once in the middle of the week to find out how her week has been? Or would the call to set up a date include questions like how her week has been? It surprised me with how little success I've had over the years that a lot of things I do right (I don't kiss ass, don't overpursue) but unlike what you say most of the time, I also have a zero tolerance of being treated like a backup plan or an inconvenience where I'll stop contacting them and will ignore them if they bother contacting me again after pulling off shit like that. I have way too much self respect to give a 2nd chance after that. It probably killed lots of opportunities but I'm fine with that. I know what I'm worth and what's not worth my time.
Anyway thanks for the videos coach. I'd love to buy your books once I have some spending money available. I'm hoping to buy your Mastering Yourself book first as I'm thinking that one may help us out on job interviews and becoming attractive candidates.
I read your book 6 times so far this month and I am sick of reading the same thing
@Fit Life
Did you ever get to 10?
🤣🤣
Corey is the man! But the book can get hard to read. He needs the cliff notes version.
Aaaaarrgh! I did all the needy stuff you described. Damn! I really liked this girl and blew it... Listening to your book now... 10 to 15 times
Remember in dating, it's not your turn. You may be #3 or #4 in her rotation of guys in her dating circle. (You will never know your #) dont ask. He is right, just back off. She will decide
if i only stumbled on this account two month earlier..
U stumbled at the right time....learn from your mistakes.
Coach! What you're saying in this video is 100% true
this is some of the best advise I have heard in your videos... this is definitely a big one for a lot of guys. I think everybody does that once...
I dated a woman recently, we clicked right off the bat. I made the mistake of casually mentioning that I had looked for job's closer to where she lived. Big mistake ( I thought) she gave me the obligatory "I'm uncomfortable" talk which I totally understood...then a week later she want's to define us as a couple which was great. Two weeks after that she let's something arbitrary that I had done bother her and use that as the reason to break up. It's exasperating BUT I went NC immediatley.
“Repitition is the mother of skills” 👊🏻
I've done that so many times. Have a girl completely feeling me and send 1 wrong text and gone.
What guy doesn’t go into a date with an open mind, just to have fun and relax. See what happens
So true, a woman can lose her attraction for a guy overnight. How do I know? Because I am a woman. And I recently dated; really liked him. Two nice dates. It went downhill fast after that. Watching these videos to understand why. For sure his 'you are already like my girlfriend' texting messed things up. Dating is only dating. Don't make a girl regret dating you ...
Yeah that's one of the common mistakes that guys make - trying to extract a relationship and "lock you down". It's like fear of losing the woman that they like.
Love the way you walk through these scenarios pointing out what goes well and what's a fuck up. 🤘
Time is something you make, not something you find.
Corey you are a life saver
Word
"Are you cheating on me!?"
"Dude we've been on 2 coffee dates, who cares?"
😭those 2 coffee dates felt magical im sorry
😂
14:50. She’s treating you like a red headed step child 😂
I fucking love this guy! Come on Man, "Hang out, have fun and hook up" I just think it not say it.
LMAO!! 29:55 He told her ad verbatim "I just want to hang out, have fun and hook up."
read the book 10 to 15 times even more...trust me you will be better
There’s other women out there !! Yes I’ve been where this guy has been, but that’s one of my biggest take aways. Why be fixated on one woman until she wants to?
What if she tries stalking to you about how the past went wrong ? My instincts tell me to tell her something like "let's not talk about that and just enjoy the here now" something in that way, just brush it off lightly and keep hanging out
I'm at the 3 week stage. Although we've only been on 2 dates, since our schedules didn't line up for one week.
She reached out to them other day sending me a video of her singing (really well, I might add) one of my favourite songs. I set up a date then.
How is it going now?
@@Jankz23 got married by now
I have the kindle version , I'm going to start reading it tonight
14:20 Treat *ALL* women the same (treat the women you are really into the same as the ones you aren't that into)
18:30 “Women are naturally designed to test your strength.”
24:30 Women are emotional beings. Car crank analogy, takes some time to get women wound up.
I have been able to naturally get woman since a child. A lot of women.
I’m here because I was in a bad marriage for 6 years and needed a refresher.
THIS MAN IS A GENIUS!!
He absolutely knows what he is talking about.
I would recommend this.
U really deserve more credit you are truly wise and you have helped me so much
ughh this happened to me half a year ago.. now i am in a much better place in my mind to these kind of situations
Hooking on the first date, while not ideal for some women and some men if you're not emotionally in a place for that, causes you to to more more easily not do so much of the needy behavior that Corey talks about since you've already got the prize. It's just like losing your virginity makes it easier to interac/physically with girls. You would be basically coming from a place of abundance (of experience) and not scarcity, desparacity.
Coach, How do you handle Valentines Day if you only been on three dates? Avoid it all together, text her something?
Only if she reaches out, you could arrange something IF she's someone you've been seeing for awhile... avoid it if you just started dating her.
Your Thomas Mackie. I mean that in a good way.
Awesome content Dude.
Great work.👍
Thomas Mackie fucks! CES Gang. Global takeover.
Name type of dates with girlfriends and dates for potential girlfriends? What is the difference?
ability to say no and nice can go together
Great Advice thanks Corey
This video is so spot on!
FINE. I’ll read the dam book 🤦🏾♂️
@Christopher B
Did you read it 10 to 15 times?
It largely depends on the person! I personally love clingy appreciative people!
Its good to have those people. Hes just helping people get to the point of having confidence enough to go out and talk to the one who interests you. Its about stepping out of your shell. Understanding who you are. Hes spoken and wrote about great women in his life too so..i like clingy women too
+Luke Stephens (lukegaming86) that was her way of dealing with her being clingy.
I would hate it if my boyfriend thought phones were only for setting up dates.
I wanna hangout and hook up,have some common sense! 😂😂😂😂
Maybe you should put out an audio/mp3 version of your book. A lot of times people won't read something several times but they will listen to something several times. I looking at your comment threads, that is what people are doing with the videos that you make.
+TheMick2639 I'm the opposite, but then I'm hearing impaired. I need it in print. Sometimes I can lip read. But audio, nope.
Audiobook exists now fyi
This is interesting because the quote you mention at the beginning I would have thought would be what a woman is thinking when dating and the guy is thinking 'lets see what happens'.
Rachel Murdock both men and women go thru these things at times :p
GabeR6 I guess they do :)
The book we are talking about is The 3% Man right?
Is taking a woman out for an evening dinner with wine also "girlfriend" treatment, since it's "romantic"? (3rd date)
It's for sure not as "fun-filled" as going and doing something more energetic where we can laugh (we did that on 2nd date)
Thanks Coach for sharing the gold - read your book once, still another 14 to go! :D
How many times have you read it so far?
14:44 😂 you get treated like a red headed step child. I’m dying lolol
“Be willing to take an L.” -Patrice O’Neal
It's hard to be flip flopping like this depending on how the girl is acting. A man usually has his mind either set to ignore the woman, or to have a relationship with a woman, and that mind is firmly set. If I've adjusted my mind to not care about the woman, then when she reaches out to me again, I just talk to her like a friend and do nothing, because I've already made plans to live without her.
Men have become women and women have become the man...Equal rights...was it a good thing?
Yes! Everyone should have the freedom to be who they are, and everyone should have equal opportunities to succeed.
As the book states, people are on a spectrum of male-female energy, and allowing people to choose who and what they are allows for more of those dynamics to exist. Some men are naturally more feminine, and some women are more masculine- and that’s a good example of polarity.
Women want to be equal.. & entitled.
Wish the past guys I dated watched your videos. Oh my god this one guy immediately wanted to jump into a relationship after the first date. That completely turned me off, and I said I need time to get to know you more. He blew up my phone to hang out and then got mad I didnt want to be in a relationship after the first date. He did some other weird stuff and I stopped talking to him. A year or so later he still constantly messages me on facebook and I have not replied since smh
Kay Nicole 🤦♂️
Very good video thanks. I been failing here. Did men in the past naturally behave this way?
Corey Wayne, u're amazing ! :D
I have seen he wants to go to things he can drag his friend along.. .a movie, concert, bar, ....we went out to eat (drink). It seems not to be a serious relationship and more like a hang out.
2:45 "trying to treat them like they are already their girlfriend, they often start acting dopey, submissive, and like a teenager in love for the first time"
me being a teenager knowing i did all that but also just had my first love: "well im here for a reason" XD
Damn I wish I watched this last week. Saving to my playlist.
It’s never too late
gawwdd damn i do not know what you went through coach,, but whatever you did to be as spot on as you are thank you sir, helping a young man out like me.. sometimes I try and skip steps or say no I can do it this way but I end up fucking up and going back to your book which I've already read 14 times thinking fuck! I even highlight Why do I not listen lol 😂 anyways you're like a pops thanks so much for real 💯
good job dude. it's a process.
29:37 hahah it's like after burying a treasure in some place you put a panel on it saying "the treasure is not here"
i watch this video 2 times a day. 3rd day now. going to do this until it sinks in my soul.
If I have a great date and the guy fails to get in touch with me I'm never writing again. I want to see investment. As long as the guy keeps his interests and life going and doesn't ask me about important life decisions too early on he can be as kind as he possibly can be for this is what makes me consider a relationship- him treating me as if he'd already be my boyfriend in suttle, progressing ways.
damn i needed to hear this.!
@ 33:15. The situation might be more complex coach. I think in that situation she may just be bored and talkative. If hes always asks her out when ever she makes contact, I would think she would limit the communication.
Situational.
A hooker is pursuing me 80-90% of the time coach, how should i handle this situation?
Do i wait until she starts to bring the "being exclusive" talk to strapped her down?
I know she's the "one" lol.
I like Corey and I have read the book..... it was painful. He's writes like a woman long winded stories that don't get to the point quick enough. When you write for men you got to get to the point quickly and reconfirm your point.
I had a girl in currently dating do the maybe. But the difference with my situation is, dhe said her sister was going to be taking her to the beach but she still asked me what i had in mind.
Then literally yhr next text about an hour later she told me it was nothing concrete and she's happy to go out with me. Didn't leave me hanging,nor did i have to even tell her to let me know.
Dinner dates as a first date will normally automatically put you into the "make him wait" category as you are treating her like a girlfriend. Avoid as best you can.
True never do dinner on a first date...at most i would do is a coffee, milkshake or an ice cream date shouldn't cost more than 10 bucks!
All I've learned is I'm surprised at how much success I had, and how much more I could've had
Does this guy not age?
Corey wayne bathes in baby blood. He is forever. Read the book 10-15 times bro
He exercises and eats right
my mistake, :/ oh well
thanx coach.. wow its like taking a class from the vicomte de valmont himself, the character john malkovich played in the 1988 film dangerous liaisons :D
How many times should I read the book?