Deceptive Vows-Domestic Violence Short Film

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  • @kiranonymous0020
    @kiranonymous0020 4 роки тому +135

    No wonder he’s been married 2 times. It’s always the caring and sweet women men go for.

    • @lilhusky8756
      @lilhusky8756 4 роки тому +10

      When you hear they were married before don’t fall for them

    • @MobileFilmmaking
      @MobileFilmmaking 4 роки тому +8

      @@lilhusky8756 doesn't have to be the man's fault that a marriage doesn't work. 🙄

    • @lilhusky8756
      @lilhusky8756 4 роки тому +2

      Mobile Filmmaking I never said anything about if it’s a guy or girl

    • @indie.horror72
      @indie.horror72 3 роки тому +1

      Right

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 3 роки тому +11

      He was married twice because its most likely that he abused his last two spouses

  • @PaperLove25
    @PaperLove25 5 років тому +29

    Her dad knew something not right about him. He can sense something evil about him.

  • @kaybreonnafletcher3152
    @kaybreonnafletcher3152 5 років тому +33

    She was being a sweetheart to him and he treated her like that

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @mildredleslie4483
    @mildredleslie4483 4 роки тому +34

    I WAS IN A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RELATIONSHIP FOR A LONG TIME. I GOT A DIVORCE

  • @calyoffhaus5282
    @calyoffhaus5282 5 років тому +34

    So many comments about race ... Y'all missed the whole point ... Domestic violence needs to stop!!! The best apology is to let them go... Let them know they deserve better and go work on yourself. That's the best apology.

  • @金カトゥラ
    @金カトゥラ 5 років тому +74

    Many of you are saying, “I’d hit him back.” And “I’d beat his ass.” YALL don’t know shit when it comes to an abusive relationship. Yer abusive partner manipulates you into thinking you need them they degrade you and lower yer confidence into thinking they are the only thing that YOU need. They make you feel weak. Even if you fight back or stood up for yourself you get beatin and hurt more it’s like a loop
    They hurt you > they apologize > they degrade you > they hurt you again

    • @MyaShanor
      @MyaShanor 5 років тому +5

      I know ive been in that type of relatonship

    • @thatoneblackiddd7571
      @thatoneblackiddd7571 5 років тому +3

      But why stay with him tho

    • @金カトゥラ
      @金カトゥラ 5 років тому +4

      subliminal princess aesthetic like I said in the comment they manipulate into thinking you need them, you can leave but they’ll ask question like, “where you gonna go?” Or “you don’t have anywhere to go! But here.” They make you stay you just have to have the will power and support to leave

    • @kanautikascott6882
      @kanautikascott6882 5 років тому +2

      Damm that's hella deep 😔😊and u are right 🖐️🤗

    • @ninavictoria6805
      @ninavictoria6805 5 років тому +6

      FUÇKING LOVE ME For some reason women tend to think they're better or "smarter" than women in abusive relationships. Always talking about what they would not take. Abuse comes in many different forms. Maybe they don't put up with the physical but they're putting up with something.
      Never look down on another female based on her circumstance.

  • @angelalong6619
    @angelalong6619 4 роки тому +31

    If they hit you once. They will be sorry until they kill you.

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 5 років тому +15

    FIRST TIME THAT HE RAISED HIS VOICE AT A CONTROLLING ATTITUDE , HE WOULD HAVE BEEN GONE

  • @mufasatrt1851
    @mufasatrt1851 5 років тому +51

    A real black woman would have sent her brothers uncles or dad at him

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +19

      Perhaps they would, and sometimes I'm sure it does happen. So, you don't believe a woman of a different race could do the same? Why has this video become a black and white issue? Let's keep our focus on the overall meaning...

    • @itslifeletsliveit3749
      @itslifeletsliveit3749 5 років тому +2

      Mufassa Trt U ARE SO DAMN RACIST TO BLACk WOMEN

    • @maiatinsley6466
      @maiatinsley6466 5 років тому +3

      ItsLifeLetsLiveIt girl I’m black and I would’ve got my brothers to beat his ass.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +3

      @@maiatinsley6466 Even if you did, that doesn't mean your beatings and or abuse would stop.

    • @maiatinsley6466
      @maiatinsley6466 5 років тому

      Gary Tavares Why would I stay with a man like that after he abused me and after I’ve gotten my siblings ? After that I would’ve left.

  • @jernicemoffett2361
    @jernicemoffett2361 5 років тому +25

    I went through this with my ex boyfriend was controlling jealous possessive sometimes we have to be careful on who we are dating ladies😞😞😞💯

  • @gokaren420
    @gokaren420 2 місяці тому +12

    1st marriage lasted 16 days. He hit me. Dad and uncles came and I filed for a divorce.

    • @silvialogan9226
      @silvialogan9226 2 місяці тому +3

      Were you the girl in this film who was being abused by your fiance?

  • @septembersapphire347
    @septembersapphire347 5 років тому +31

    When its a kill or be killed domestic situation, self defense should always be granted.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      I agree. This is just a short film version of a full 2-hour movie. You can wait for the 2-hour movie to come out or you can buy the book version on Amazon.

    • @septembersapphire347
      @septembersapphire347 5 років тому

      @@garytavares2470 what's the name of the book?

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      @Miss Bee Here's the direct Amazon link:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Gene-Tavares/dp/0615400736/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1573271664&sr=1-1

    • @alesha5997
      @alesha5997 5 років тому

      tbh I'd be killed because i dont want to commit the sin of murder but you should'nt even have a boyfriend extremely old then you or have a boyfriend

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 2 роки тому +15

    Okay, so here’s some free advice for anyone who finds themselves in this situation. Trying to argue, reason with, or seek answers from an abuser is like trying to hold a serious conversation with someone who’s under the influence of drugs or alcohol. An abuser doesn’t care how you feel or what you want, they’re only interested in what’s going on for them. She made the mistake of telling him she doesn’t deserve to be treated badly but not taking action to prevent herself from being treated badly. He has zero reasoning adjust his behaviour based on how she feels because he’s already chosen to be abusive based on what he gets from it. Save your breath and your energy and walk away. You can’t win through being reasonable with an unreasonable person.

  • @AmberU
    @AmberU 6 років тому +19

    32 and married twice already red flag ! That defensive reply when asked his age red flag ! The way he snatched his hand away from the father disrespectful red flag! And the fact that anyone has an intuitive bad feeling ( the father ) red flag !!! Well done psa for dv. Side bar the male actor is fine. They did a good job in my opinion presenting this topic.

    • @robinmurray5266
      @robinmurray5266 6 років тому +1

      I had 2 husbands by the time I was 26. First one cheated on me constantly and second (after I had many times black eyes and a broken wrist) got in damn drugs more than me and his daughters. He just abandoned us. I am not ashamed. I just made bad choices. I learned the hard way.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  6 років тому

      Diana Chin, the original script was written for a black man, but we decided later that having a Caucasian man would make this more controversial. Obviously, we have definitely accomplished that....

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @charneaharrisrobinson2916
    @charneaharrisrobinson2916 4 роки тому +41

    Domestic violence isn't no joke!

    • @chrisprewitt3105
      @chrisprewitt3105 3 роки тому

      Yall deserve to be treated like shit

    • @TooxBlessedToBeStressed
      @TooxBlessedToBeStressed 3 роки тому

      It really isn't nor is emotional abuse.

    • @HollyFayHolverson777
      @HollyFayHolverson777 2 роки тому

      @Chris Prewitt
      Yeah and so do you. I take pity on ppl like you! With such a limited mentality, I'd say 'Fun with Dick & Jane really challenged your level of comprehension. "See Jane run. Run Jane run." Lol

    • @Fwkatiee4
      @Fwkatiee4 2 роки тому

      @@chrisprewitt3105 what the hell

  • @brandonseepersaud5180
    @brandonseepersaud5180 4 роки тому +17

    That's exactly why he's not ready for commitment

  • @Queen-pb1ho
    @Queen-pb1ho 4 роки тому +22

    In my opinion a man has no reason to want to hit a woman especially in a relationship..once it does happen that's where the lines should be drawn

    • @khanyikhanyez306
      @khanyikhanyez306 4 роки тому +4

      and vice versa

    • @normiedorian6873
      @normiedorian6873 4 роки тому +1

      I disagree theres plenty of reasons to want to, obviously it should never happen

  • @kyleleigh3215
    @kyleleigh3215 5 років тому +26

    Why do women always leave when the guy gets home. Why not when they gone.

  • @Vernetv
    @Vernetv 5 років тому +32

    the way the dad and the bf shook hands was weird

    • @michaeljohnson2515
      @michaeljohnson2515 5 років тому +1

      Thats because he knew something was up.😐

    • @mistiqueentourage7182
      @mistiqueentourage7182 5 років тому +1

      @@michaeljohnson2515 exactly. Him being divorced 2 times is a big red flag. Also him shrugging the divorces off with the excuse of not being ready for committment red flag number 2

    • @mistiqueentourage7182
      @mistiqueentourage7182 5 років тому

      @@dianachin4849 exactly. And thats why it's one of the biggest red flags.

  • @spitfirestake54
    @spitfirestake54 5 років тому +33

    Wasn’t murder. It was self defense. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Bochanable
    @Bochanable 5 років тому +11

    There's a lot of truth to the old adage, "if they hit you once, they will hit you again". I lived through this for nearly 10 years as my self-confidence dissipated. I look back and I don't know the person I was. I certainly wasn't perfect but I came from a home where my parents NEVER, EVER fought in front of me. In fact, I never saw any animosity between them.
    He came from a home where screaming at each other from the break of dawn to bedtime was status quo though they were seemingly a tight family.
    We usually when something is not right and not meant to be. I knew from almost day one but I was afraid of being alone. How silly I feel now because the day it was finally over, my life instantly did a 180. And on his final days, he had the audacity to say that I was the best thing that ever happened to him.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your testimony.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      TO ORDER OR VIEW MY VERY POWERFUL BOOK VERSION OF THIS AWARD-WINNING SHORT FILM CLICK ON THIS LINK: tavaresentertainment.net/book-store?olsPage=products%2Fdeceptive-vows

  • @chinablue1280
    @chinablue1280 5 років тому +14

    The male actors were convincing, loved the loving concerned father. Definitely is a very good short with showing the possible sad consequences of remaining within an abusive relationship. Excellent work on how all points were covered within just 5mins!

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +3

      Thanks, China! By the way, I played the abused woman's father at the beginning of the short film.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      China, I think you would love the novel version even better: www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Gene-Tavares/dp/0615400736/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1573271664&sr=1-1

    • @chinablue1280
      @chinablue1280 5 років тому +2

      @@garytavares2470 I didn't know...thank you for letting me know that you played the father! And I will be checking out the novel☺. I'm so glad one of UA-cam's many strange recommendations lead me to this well done short film.

  • @bridgetmccarthy5718
    @bridgetmccarthy5718 4 роки тому +17

    I love when they say now look what you made me do. She made her hand leave your side and smack her face.

  • @faraboverubies98
    @faraboverubies98 4 роки тому +15

    Abusers try the first abusive thing to test the waters. When you give them a 2nd chance it keeps escalating until they are comfortable with doing any and everything to the person they are abusing. Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to give them a 2nd chance to do it all over again. Abusive people are very calculating because chances are they have done many times before. Look for signs of disrespect, belittling comments, insecurity, jealousy, hatefulness, saying harsh comments and then say they are just playing, making you feel like YOU'RE overreacting and not respecting your boundaries. This can be a male or a female. Men are NOT the only ones who can be abusive.

  • @buttercup5920
    @buttercup5920 4 роки тому +30

    My first time seein a interrcial skit.. Good job👌

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +3

      Thank you. I'm glad you liked it.

    • @buttercup5920
      @buttercup5920 4 роки тому +1

      @@garytavares2470 ur welcome

    • @kittyk.klandasions7008
      @kittyk.klandasions7008 3 роки тому

      @@garytavares2470 yeah i Loved the fact it was interracial aswel. ✌👍

    • @businesslady7840
      @businesslady7840 3 роки тому +1

      @@garytavares2470 I thought you said he is black in another comment.

    • @bretube9294
      @bretube9294 Рік тому

      @@businesslady7840right 😂

  • @jasiyaanderson9360
    @jasiyaanderson9360 5 років тому +21

    "Look what you made me do"
    "I'm sorry I didn't mean it"
    "It won't happen again"
    "I love you"

    • @jamiab.7685
      @jamiab.7685 5 років тому +2

      It's a pattern... they say the same stuff over and over😔

    • @jasiyaanderson9360
      @jasiyaanderson9360 5 років тому +1

      @@jamiab.7685 I went through this

    • @bridgetmccarthy5718
      @bridgetmccarthy5718 4 роки тому

      Love how they say look what YOU made me do then apologize. Last time I checked if you made me do it then y are they apologizing. Woman beaters are all the same. Narcissistic worthless pieces of shit.

    • @giavonni9286
      @giavonni9286 5 місяців тому

      "I want those trifling a** b****es out of my house Now"

  • @michaelvescio7934
    @michaelvescio7934 4 роки тому +20

    If you loved someone you would never hit them.

  • @anissalanning5731
    @anissalanning5731 5 років тому +25

    Red flags age 32 married 2s can't make eye contact

    • @Haterzarefans
      @Haterzarefans 5 років тому

      mine hated to make eye contact.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597
    @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 5 років тому +30

    Ummm it’s called self-defense... how she locked up?

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      You need to wait for the full feature film to get produced and/or read the published book version, which is on Amazon. Either way, you would find out what happens in this powerful story.

    • @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597
      @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 5 років тому +1

      Gary Tavares what the name of the book?

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      @@thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 "Deceptive Vows." HERE IS THE LINK: tavaresentertainment.net/book-store?olsPage=products%2Fdeceptive-vows

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      @@thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL

    • @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597
      @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 5 років тому +1

      Gary Tavares Thanks

  • @petricedobson7836
    @petricedobson7836 4 роки тому +30

    Who the fuck is he talking too like that!

  • @rosamondmaylor5558
    @rosamondmaylor5558 4 роки тому +24

    Majority of men will test a women to see what they will get away with. If u dont stop the bullshit right away. God help u. It will continue. Once a man raise his voice to u and hand on you. Lock that shit down right away. If you are not afraid of your father. Women dont be afraid of no man. Take him out right away. Don't give him a 2nd chance. Then your ass is grass. Much luv to all my sister. Luv yourself first before any man

    • @letitiabetton4784
      @letitiabetton4784 4 роки тому

      ' she should have never gotten with that abusive jerk in the 1st place I would have checked out his past and once I found out about his past I would have found some1 else who is not abusive and live happily ever after always and 4 ever

  • @alexandriaDMR
    @alexandriaDMR 6 років тому +22

    I am stuck in this too. Planning my escape

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  6 років тому +7

      Alexandria Rona, we are all praying for your safe exit of your bad relationship. If you need any help, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

    • @caramelhoney29
      @caramelhoney29 5 років тому +1

      I'm sorry. I wish you the best.

    • @bernicerogers2383
      @bernicerogers2383 5 років тому +1

      I hope you got away OK x

    • @tanyarobinson4788
      @tanyarobinson4788 5 років тому

      Did u ever get away I'm 🙏 that u did

  • @quintoriajohnson6612
    @quintoriajohnson6612 5 років тому +28

    Idk what's going on but she look strong so I pretty sure she can beat him up😢

    • @sarahheizer6713
      @sarahheizer6713 5 років тому +3

      Race doesn’t have anything to do with being strong not everyone is strong though

  • @arianalogan4271
    @arianalogan4271 5 років тому +40

    Raising ur voice like that at me you would have gotten slapped

  • @brooklynnskyy3354
    @brooklynnskyy3354 5 років тому +20

    Domestic violence doesn’t involve a particular color these comments 🤦🏽‍♀️ Nd a male could also be going through domestic violence as well...ppls brains can not be this shallow on topics like this!!

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +2

      @Brooklynn Skyy I totally agree!

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @deyoncelovely2161
    @deyoncelovely2161 6 років тому +15

    No females should ever go through this or any man either 🤦🏾‍♀️💯...

    • @meganhicks6700
      @meganhicks6700 5 років тому +1

      That's why I'm scared to date again

  • @561cake2
    @561cake2 5 років тому +17

    I hate when a man gets like this to his women

  • @dashapulkova581
    @dashapulkova581 3 роки тому +11

    Once abuse happened, the relationship is over. Period.

  • @justinsharp843
    @justinsharp843 5 років тому +18

    Like all abusers starts out good but ends badly.

    • @meganhicks6700
      @meganhicks6700 5 років тому

      Ikr

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @amanigraham8085
    @amanigraham8085 5 років тому +9

    This was great sooo many women struggle with this and I’m sure men too!! People need to stop being abusive and treat eachother with respect ✊🏾 Great message

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @Lemon-ch1ch
    @Lemon-ch1ch 4 роки тому +20

    These poor beautiful girls,these girls are not punching bags or trash, there humans aswell.

  • @rhyaweeks
    @rhyaweeks 5 років тому +14

    Why are most of these comments talking about race? Any and every race can be abusive or victims to abuse.

  •  5 років тому +19

    The father did not like him. Now I know why. I have a daughter.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @constancejenkins3867
    @constancejenkins3867 5 років тому +33

    This is Pure BS whhyyyyyyy do women have to go to Jail for trying to Protect themselves.????!!!!!

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      This is just the short film version. You need to wait for us to shoot the full film or buy the book version from Amazon. There's a lot more to this story.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      I'm glad it is getting all these responses. People are definitely talking about it. My mission has been accomplished.......

    • @childofthemosthigh1167
      @childofthemosthigh1167 5 років тому

      Spoiler alert.. Thanks😒

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Gene-Tavares/dp/0615400736/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1569373873&sr=8-1

    • @starwoodanime1532
      @starwoodanime1532 5 років тому +1

      @@garytavares2470 do you read unsolicited screenplays?

  • @drewphilips75
    @drewphilips75 5 років тому +11

    I've watched a lot of these videos and I just have to say I can't even fathom speaking to my significant other like that or expecting or demanding that I be waited on. I just I cannot even comprehend the ignorance

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @septiawoman2911
    @septiawoman2911 4 роки тому +23

    ONE time would do it for me. He'd be a DEAD man. I DO NOT play that ish. I DO have a temper too. Period.

  • @mz_rainbow_dash9250
    @mz_rainbow_dash9250 5 років тому +21

    Married twice before? 🚩🚩🚩 I'll keep watching tho

    • @ozzieshawhite5169
      @ozzieshawhite5169 5 років тому

      Lol several baby momma's two mz_rainbow lol that's a red flag as well ,boyyyy I tell you these men something else

  • @YaneishaEarl
    @YaneishaEarl 4 місяці тому +8

    Her voice is so soft and pretty, n she's so beautiful❤😊

  • @robinmurray5266
    @robinmurray5266 6 років тому +8

    Believe me when I tell you that even a man that's 52 and never been even engaged is not worth your time. I broke it off because he was verbally, physically and psychologically abusive. I see now why no woman will stick with those type. He will die a lonely old man.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @shastinalynn3497
    @shastinalynn3497 4 роки тому +13

    She Defended Herself And Her Friends/Family Shouldn't Be Locked Up For That

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому

      This is just a short film version. Somewhat a teaser to the full film, which is written by me and ready to be shot. You can order the novel version from Amazon, or wait for the full film to come out.

    • @rollercoasteraddicted.882
      @rollercoasteraddicted.882 3 роки тому

      Gary Tavares when does it come out?

    • @jackiebennett6304
      @jackiebennett6304 3 роки тому

      He’s a white man that’s why she went in

  • @rvibe9843
    @rvibe9843 Рік тому +8

    First red flag with that guy, 'I'm 32...why?'....immediately on the defense that would have made me concerned right away.

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 Рік тому +2

      The father knows that there's something wrong with Andre. I don't blame him

    • @JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls
      @JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls Рік тому

      Yes, and replying to "you plan on marrying my daughter" with "yes" - why not "yes, if she wants to" - of course he would not care if she wants to.

  • @themovieraider1028
    @themovieraider1028 5 років тому +12

    If hes divorced twice and fuckin 32 then he god damn deserves the shit he went through!

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @jolisawilson92613
    @jolisawilson92613 4 роки тому +14

    Shes probably going to jail for murder because she never reported him hitting her. Sometimes they require you to report it.

  • @Peypocalypse
    @Peypocalypse 5 років тому +20

    I feel like this film is missing like 10 scenes in between all the ones that are shown. needed to be more like 20 minutes with proper build up

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +2

      The purpose of it being short is to make you want to see more. This short film is only a small segment of the whole 2-hour film. It's a TEASER to get the full film shot. If you want to know the whole story you can wait for it to come out on the big screen or you can order my book version: tavaresentertainment.net/book-store?olsPage=products%2Fdeceptive-vows

    • @Peypocalypse
      @Peypocalypse 5 років тому +1

      @@garytavares2470 This was not explained in the title, description or anywhere. it is labeled short film not teaser.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      @@Peypocalypse That's what many short films are. They are to get the attention of a Producer, Production company, or investor. I would say by the numbers I am receiving on this short film I am moving in the right direction.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      @@Peypocalypse Wait for the full-length film, which is in the works, or buy the book version.

  • @shakinafrink1089
    @shakinafrink1089 4 роки тому +13

    When she said what happened to us I felt that 😔😞the ending tho that not fair 💔

  • @allisonsellinger9308
    @allisonsellinger9308 5 років тому +8

    this was very well made video of How demanding. and annoyed abusers really are of the one they "love" and how fast and quick they are to act out towards anyone who is a threat.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @cherryberry1669
    @cherryberry1669 6 років тому +14

    Even tho this is a story and a short film let’s just hope our children don’t bring home no losers like this

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @thomariadockett9254
    @thomariadockett9254 4 роки тому +18

    That is not how to treat a woman and she is not a you or a thing you hit on 😠😡

  • @PhoenixRising483
    @PhoenixRising483 5 років тому +6

    Wow...not sure how I stumbled upon this but it gave me chills. Very talented writer and actors

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @philly2009ify
    @philly2009ify 4 роки тому +11

    It's sad it had to resort to her going to jail over spousal abuse

  • @ticokirkpatrick8772
    @ticokirkpatrick8772 5 років тому +21

    The kitchen part is like me and mom when we fight😂

    • @noname-mz3pe
      @noname-mz3pe 5 років тому

      Thats not funny ive seen it and its not funny

    • @sarahheizer6713
      @sarahheizer6713 5 років тому

      It is funny seeing a black person getting beaten up by a white person

  • @alexandercrush
    @alexandercrush 4 роки тому +21

    Kind of disrespectful to touch your gf while sitting across the gf father.

  • @thejasosei
    @thejasosei 3 роки тому +10

    I know this video isn’t a joke but the way the dad handshaked him 😭😭 man was sus from the start

  • @scottg4441
    @scottg4441 4 роки тому +16

    When he said get these trifling bitches I died🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴

  • @moreblessinganashemwazha1704
    @moreblessinganashemwazha1704 5 років тому +28

    Hes been married 2 times

    • @user-fy7gq1kv2x
      @user-fy7gq1kv2x 5 років тому +2

      I bet His two Ex-wives divorced him Because he was being abusive to them.

  • @davidhill8565
    @davidhill8565 4 роки тому +7

    She responded to domestic violence with blood. “With blood” refers to killing someone as an answer to a bad situation. Hence, she took justice in her own hands.

  • @Jonsweets
    @Jonsweets 5 років тому +15

    But she shot him in self defense

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      @Argie Kalas If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

    • @EgyptianGirlzCurlz
      @EgyptianGirlzCurlz 5 років тому +1

      Prove it. Its not what you know in the court of law, its what you can prove.

  • @dearia7959
    @dearia7959 6 років тому +15

    It won’t happen again that’s what they always say

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
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  • @ieshacoles4741
    @ieshacoles4741 5 років тому +19

    Word of advice any body smack me in my kitchen with my knife drawer is a dead person.

    • @5ab_5ab
      @5ab_5ab 5 років тому +3

      Scary 😱😱😱

    • @AwaisKhan-gr3vf
      @AwaisKhan-gr3vf 5 років тому +1

      Next ting yenno is that your in jail 😱😨

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @erastusthompson1195
    @erastusthompson1195 6 років тому +3

    That was powerful man. Well written and the directing was amazing. I look forward to more of your films

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @MobileFilmmaking
    @MobileFilmmaking 4 роки тому +17

    Just saw your post on the Facebook group. Men only do that punk ass shit to women who don't have any males in their family that are ready to put it down on their asses. I just subbed you btw.

  • @chloemarsh612
    @chloemarsh612 5 років тому +14

    Wtf she shouldn't of gone to Jail, She just snapped as she couldn't take being smacked around anymore. A person can only take so much

    • @mariehicks8472
      @mariehicks8472 5 років тому +1

      She Killed Him so yes she does have a right to be in jail you don't just walk away free when you kill someone

    • @chloemarsh612
      @chloemarsh612 5 років тому +2

      @@mariehicks8472 But he smacked her around though. It was self defence

    • @mariehicks8472
      @mariehicks8472 5 років тому +1

      @@chloemarsh612 it doesn't matter if you kill you still go to jail

    • @chloemarsh612
      @chloemarsh612 5 років тому +1

      @@mariehicks8472 true

  • @ethanchristian2065
    @ethanchristian2065 5 років тому +22

    Now how in the hell is she doing time for murder and she killed him in self defense I bet. That guy was beating her ass first. This is bullshit. Hopefully she won't have to do a lot of time though

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +2

      @Ethan Christian, this is just the short film version of a full, two-hour film. I am working on getting the full film shot as we speak. You need to wait for the full-length film or you can buy the novel on Amazon:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Gene-Tavares/dp/0615400736/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1551148387&sr=8-1-fkmrnull

    • @djtfilmz6787
      @djtfilmz6787 5 років тому +1

      It bothers me 2

    • @ethanchristian2065
      @ethanchristian2065 5 років тому +1

      Gary Tavares Oh. Allright then

    • @CollaborativeFilms
      @CollaborativeFilms 5 років тому +2

      That's the sad truth! @@saharasamazinglittleworld7308

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @denisecharles5622
    @denisecharles5622 6 років тому +4

    Gary so proud of you. This looks scary but needed today. Excellent job!

  • @shamekastrickland8828
    @shamekastrickland8828 5 років тому +21

    Will not be watching this self defense is not murder she did not deserve to go to jail

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      Shameka Strickland, that's fine, but obviously, you have not been reading the other comments. This short film is just a small segment of the whole film. Sort of a teaser. It does not tell the whole story. I deliberately ended it this way to make it controversial and it worked. There is a whole lot more to this story. You can order the book version from AMAZON, read the movie script (screenplay) version from my website, or you can wait until we shoot the full film, which hopefully will happen soon.

  • @achaudhari101
    @achaudhari101 4 роки тому +15

    I wonder if she finds out exactly why the two marriages ended in divorce. Probably because of his cruelty.

  • @estellekendall7616
    @estellekendall7616 4 роки тому +9

    The first abusive thing my ex done to me was throw an Indian takeaway over me. I was so shocked and hurt at his behaviour. I forgave him but I was so confused and didn’t realise I was pregnant at the time so I was very emotional. Anyway I should of left his ass then but I didn’t and the abuse only got worse and worse until it was unbearable and I had to leave. I hope anyone out there that’s in an abusive relationship will get out now!! Please. It never gets better. You deserve to be happy. 💕💜❤️

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +2

      Ms. Katus, I am glad you were able to get out of your abusive relationship. Thanks for sharing your personal experience with us. Perhaps it will help another domestic violence victim.

    • @estellekendall7616
      @estellekendall7616 4 роки тому +1

      I really hope so. I would be interested in reading your book. I thought I had healed from my past relationship but watching videos on domestic violence recently has made me very emotional

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +2

      @@estellekendall7616 Here is the direct AMAZON link for the paperback and Ebook versions of my novel: www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Gene-Tavares/dp/0615400736/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1589034426&sr=8-6

    • @newpeople7757
      @newpeople7757 3 роки тому +1

      @@garytavares2470 how to end abuseve relationships. I cannot stop 6 years

  • @carolinemarchand4743
    @carolinemarchand4743 6 років тому +9

    Whenever I watch something like that, I wish more parents would send their daughter to martial art classes from a young age. Teach them that girls aren't fragile little things who can't defend themselves in front of a man... Yes men will always have more muscles, but body conditioning, flexibility, technique, discipline and self-confidence taught with martial art would compensate for this little disadvantage...

  • @brittaniistarzz8354
    @brittaniistarzz8354 4 роки тому +11

    Why would she be charged with murder if he was attacking her???

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +3

      This is not the whole story, it's more like a teaser. You need to get the book version from Amazon or wait for us to shoot the feature film.

    • @javielalvarez5459
      @javielalvarez5459 4 роки тому

      Those cops are son of a bitches! Grow up you fucking pigs & stop arresting abused victims!

  • @Lonerstoner0550
    @Lonerstoner0550 5 років тому +16

    Yeeeeah sorry I’m not down talking any female who’s been through this BUUUUUUT I’m too savage for this bullshit

  • @tanyarobinson4788
    @tanyarobinson4788 5 років тому +20

    It was self-defense all day!!

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +2

      You're absolutely right! To see the full story you can buy the novel or wait for us to put it on the big screen or television.

    • @tanyarobinson4788
      @tanyarobinson4788 5 років тому +2

      I would rather read the novel then see the 🎥

    • @sarahheizer6713
      @sarahheizer6713 5 років тому +1

      Yeah it is self defense but in a criminally way

  • @angelcharms7297
    @angelcharms7297 4 роки тому +15

    Why murder and not self defense?

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +1

      Angel, you need to wait for the full feature film to come out or get the novel version from Amazon. This is just the short film version, which is somewhat like a teaser or long trailer.

  • @aydenhicks9533
    @aydenhicks9533 3 роки тому +9

    Would never talk to or treat a woman like that

  • @lisaprince5767
    @lisaprince5767 6 років тому +15

    HE didnt change. THIS is who he really is.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @kionaprater4418
    @kionaprater4418 6 років тому +9

    l don't care if he is having a bad day it is not ok for him to put his hands on her she deserves better.💯💯

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
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  • @rhianjones1319
    @rhianjones1319 2 роки тому +12

    I couldn’t agree more with the woman father in this when he said there is something funny about this guy

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  2 роки тому +8

      By the way, I played the father… LOL!

    • @icecreamcake1457
      @icecreamcake1457 2 роки тому +2

      @@garytavares2470 I had to watch the hand shake, hand jerk scene, twice. 😂

    • @JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls
      @JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls Рік тому

      Yes, did you notice how he pulled his hand away at the handshake? Worth a re-watch. Also I wish Dad had a few more lines.

    • @JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls
      @JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls Рік тому

      @@icecreamcake1457 yes, like he was touching something creepy and he was.

    • @rhianjones1319
      @rhianjones1319 Рік тому

      @@JessicaMcGowan-bu4lsYes, I did notice how rude Andre was towards his girlfriend’s father when pulled his hand away at the handshake. There is no doubt in my mind he is a creepy guy and I really don’t know what his girlfriend sees in him to be honest with you.

  • @6laves565
    @6laves565 5 років тому +17

    Actually how did she go to jail she was just tryna protect her self

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому +1

      Mahogany, this is just a short film. It's not the whole movie or story. If you want to see the whole story you can read my book version, wait for us to shoot the full-feature film, or read my movie script(screenplay) version.

    • @thenoirgirlskpop7701
      @thenoirgirlskpop7701 5 років тому

      Gary Tavares how to read the screenplay?

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      @@thenoirgirlskpop7701 tavaresentertainment.net/screenplays

  • @IDontKnow-pf6en
    @IDontKnow-pf6en 5 років тому +11

    self defense, not murder, but sadly many get charged for it anyways

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      Erin Maria, this is just a short film version. It's like a teaser for the full-length movie. You would understand more if you read the novel version or wait for the full film to be released. The novel is available on Amazon or preferably from me: tavaresentertainment.net/book-store?olsPage=products%2Fdeceptive-vows

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning short film, soon to become a full-length film, click on this AMAZON LINK:
      www.amazon.com/Deceptive-Vows-Gary-Tavares-ebook/dp/B004I6DO6E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525782311&sr=8-1&keywords=Deceptive+Vows

  • @stephnewhitfield7954
    @stephnewhitfield7954 4 роки тому +14

    I can't do it. Hell and jail are not worth it. Gotta go

  • @feeltheburnsalissaaj681
    @feeltheburnsalissaaj681 5 років тому +11

    He’s a good actor

  • @salvadordiezcansecojr.2600
    @salvadordiezcansecojr.2600 5 років тому +10

    Why he talking like that to his fiance!? She need to run! She don't need that abuse...

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

      If you want to order or view the powerful book or eBook version of this award-winning story, click on this AMAZON LINK:
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    • @Ok-bk7qk
      @Ok-bk7qk 5 років тому

      Salvador Diezcanseco notttt thattttt eaeaeaeasssyy

  • @garytavares2470
    @garytavares2470  5 років тому +3

    TO ORDER OR VIEW MY VERY POWERFUL BOOK VERSION OF THIS AWARD-WINNING SHORT FILM CLICK ON THIS LINK:
    www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0615400736/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1586215423&sr=8-2

  • @eishaslifetime4873
    @eishaslifetime4873 5 років тому +10

    Oh hecks nawh he would have had me fucked up from when he had that whole attitude and smart comment!

  • @gigihappiness3537
    @gigihappiness3537 4 роки тому +10

    I've been here. Stayed for 13 years...trying and trying. First I stayed because I was naive. Then I stayed thinking I could change him. By then I had become accustomed to it. Next thing I knew, I was pregnant. Thought that having a daughter would change him. Nope. First picture of my daughter was nursing her but all I see is the huge scar on my breast next to her little face from where he had gouged a chunk of me during a fight. Finally left when he tried to hit me when I was holding my baby. That wasnt the end though. I tried and tried some more. Even to the point that I started to drink just to be able to handle the constant verbal assaults. Finally, God gave me strength to stop trying. My beautiful daughter is now 15. Im in a healthy relationship with a wonderful man who loves us both! No fussing, cussing or ducking! Im 43 now and even though its been years, I still have the physic as l reminders but the worst is the mental aspect. I work on this part and Im not sure it will ever resolve but, all thats over now.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your story. I am sure we are all are pulling for your continued success.

    • @yapahbanathyasharahla9451
      @yapahbanathyasharahla9451 4 роки тому +2

      I pray to be strong like you one day.

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +3

      @@yapahbanathyasharahla9451 You are probably stronger than you think.

    • @yapahbanathyasharahla9451
      @yapahbanathyasharahla9451 4 роки тому

      @@garytavares2470 I doubt it,I'm dealing with trauma bonding,been married for 9 years,have two great kids and seven months pregnant. Also 9 hours away from family with no money so I don't have a way out

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  4 роки тому +4

      @@yapahbanathyasharahla9451 Can you please contact me or the domestic violence hotline? I know your situation may seem hopeless, but just remember that many women were in your same position and were able to get out and or get help.

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 5 років тому +12

    AND HE WOULDN'T HAVE HAD THE CHANCE TO HIT ME OR TAKE HIS FRUSTRATION OUT ON ME

    • @vikingqueenjada4143
      @vikingqueenjada4143 5 років тому +2

      Same! If he did that my sisters and parents would have beat the crap out of him😒

  • @taeaubrey4309
    @taeaubrey4309 5 років тому +9

    Andre would have gotten a good ole pot up side the head. Great film !

  • @ChicagoMike97
    @ChicagoMike97 8 місяців тому +5

    As soon as he walked into her parents’ home, he looked like a scumbag. And the fact that he was engaged to her before meeting her parents was a bad sign.

  • @businesslady7840
    @businesslady7840 5 років тому +11

    I had a ex tell me have his dinner ready when he come home . well when he got home there was a box of cereal with a jug of milk on the table and I told him to get his own God damn spoon and enjoy your dinner...He broke up with me 😞😊

    • @garytavares2470
      @garytavares2470  5 років тому

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    • @nettaterrestrial86
      @nettaterrestrial86 5 років тому

      🤣🤣🗣💯💯

  • @maryspeidel5258
    @maryspeidel5258 4 роки тому +13

    I can’t believe any women puts up with this.

  • @sandraogechi3013
    @sandraogechi3013 5 років тому +7

    I'm 32 why? Seriously??
    My parent: i think you are rude,take your shoulders down