This is on point. My last attempt at going back in contact. I set boundries, made them very clear to my mother. First off she did the same thing she has always done. Just looked at me. Didn't take long before the envelop was being pushed. I reminded her, again dead stair. It's very effective. It kept me in confused. It's only recently that I've learned about the narcissist term. It's all starting to make sense. The FOG is starting to lift.
I said there needed to be boundaries regarding his ex girlfriend or our relationship was not going to work....his response included anger and contempt that I would expect such an unreasonable thing. Made my decision to end the relationship very clear. Was one year ago this week I drove away permanently.
My mother is a wicked covert narc. I hate visiting her. I do it out of obligation. She hates that fact that I have boundaries and would ghost me if she didn't need. My sister completely cut me off after I implemented boundaries. She's a shallow a-hole that looks at herself in the mirror all day. I am not at all missing that!! My family is full of narcs. I basically live a life of solitude and peace, far away from all of them Merry Christmas. 🎄
David Slocum - well said. I had a similar situation and I went no contact a few years ago and I decided to live in solitude and life is so peaceful. I will never look back. Thanks for sharing your story. All the best to you and continue to be strong.
One toxic friend ghosted me when I dared to say no. Another went into a combination of word salad, self pity and projection. She still is not admitting that what she does is wrong. I was low contact with her, but recently went no contact.
I am dealing with a narcissistic friend right now that I am in very low contact with. We do go to church together so it is very difficult to go no contact but there has been silent treatment and then hoovering and then silent treatment and then hoovering and then silent treatment…
Thank you. This video was excellent. It made me think of a Bible scripture that I think really applies here. At 1 Corinthians 15:33 it says, " Do not be misled. Bad associations spoil useful habits." So stay strong survivors.
Here are some different Bible versions of the same verse: "Don't let anyone deceive you. Associating with bad people will ruin decent people." "Do not be deceived; evil companionship corrupts good behavior." "Be not deceived: Evil companionships corrupt good morals. " "Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character."
It is even more than they “hate” boundaries. They will use more than words against you. Because, now they know EXACTLY what your deepest feelings are and will use every tactic against you. Grown step son uses my boundaries to try to cause marital problems. No win situation.
Great message, Jill!🌺 I will always remember what you told me which is the best advice. “Be very careful who you allow into your life.” I’ve never forgotten that. Thanks!💕🌸🌼🌻
My boundary is now no contact...period!...that is their punishment for treating me like garbage..yep the silent treatmemt forever but in my case protection from these creatures . Thank you lovely Jill..and PS you look fantastic...💜
True,whenever,my soon to ex and his mother accuse me of being a narcissist,they try to say I'm giving them the silent treatment,I'm just like,ok well you called the police a dozen times,over the course of 15 years telling them ,I was harassing you,and your afraid of me,then you turn around and tell me to get over it,that I'm too sensitive and jealous .
My ex mother in law is a grandmother once a year, Christmas, and she just dropped off some gifts, I spoke mostly to my children as they were playing outside, it wasn't about her, and they left very fast!!
Sanchez, mine is the opposite. I've tested her more than once. First time it was while my husband and I were working full-time and my daughter was young. I waited 2 weeks. When I called her, she didn't even say hello. She said, " I thought I was going to have to call the lawyer". For those that get it. She was saying, I was going to cut you out of the will. She held that over my head for a long time. I have never been motivated by money. Other than what I could do to earn more. The last time I let her know, I could care less about that carrot.
@I Sanchez I get that too. My dad has been gone over 37 years. They divorced 5/6 years before his. Death, she hated him. Had my brother and I convinced, dad was the cause of all our trauma. He was a WWII vet. He used his GI bill to earn 2 degrees. He was a self taught artist. He did live nudes, in university, on huge sketch book. They have been in her bedroom closet since they were completed. I asked for them. Nope. My dad is in my heart. Screw her and her selfishness.
@I Sanchez This is what Jesus will say to them and their kind at the Judgment: "Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. Not every one that saith unto Me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of My Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from Me, ye workers of iniquity." Matthew 7:20-23
Holding everything that you post with extream gratitude and reverence. So much appreciated. Empath married to a covert narcissist in complete denial! In other words a nightmare. Merry Christmas and divine light dear ❤️.
Hi . Thank you for exposing this sick evil behavior. My son is a total narsacist. When I set boundaries w/him he flew into such a rage that I had to call the cops on him& get a order of protection against him.
The "fog" says everything! A lot is said in that 3 letter word. Thank you for all your time and efforts you put in to help others heal. Happy Holidays to you and your family ✌️❣️🌟🙏
Thankyou for sharing your message. Sometimes with setting boundaries it feels worse before it gets better but still worth it. It’s Christmas morning here and I’m spending it alone but I know I am much better off for honouring myself. They threw everyone one of those tactics at me, the flying monkeys said suit yourself and wallow in self pity then , no it’s called self respect. I’m out of the FOG! Wishing you happiness and joy for the holidays 💖✨
My ex-father-in-law, ex-spouse, ex-three girlfriends i learned are narcissists...they all used rage, gaslighting, silent treatment, shaming. I learned to ignore them all and walk away at the right time feeling good inside...the right thing to do without violence...i'm proud of my strong empathy self...i learned a lot from vid's...thank you Jill.
Never ending rage and hate , i enjoyed the silent treatment. , a break from the rage , and the conversation you never had was a favorite , but its was better than word salad
Thank you the Enlightened Target, this video has been a true blessing. I am still trying to rebuild upon my own mental health. I am also awaiting an assessment for mild autism, so you can start to understand how narcissistic bullying took a huge toll on me. But I will never allow the narcissists and bullies to win.
My entire life was a series of self sabotaging choices, circumstances and mistakes that played right into the Narc's fake narrative making it seem "true" to duped onlookers. When the entire time, that wasn't who I really am, it was who the Narc manipulated me into being. ("Saintly" covert Narc mother).
My own grandmother is a narcissist,lives over sea, and is the only one in the family who talks to me, bit I realised her contact with me was a control for her son who abused me and ghosted me, last week I missed 2 calls, the 3rd she sent me a hurtful message about my 10 year old, whom she doesn't know, and I decided to ignore any more calls, she then blew up my phone like nothing before, my phone then got hacked and I had to change my number, I think that's spirit saying keep the no contact via phone.
My Narc use to go silent for 3 days when upset with me. I actually enjoyed the silence, because he did say anything that was vallad. I just ignored because my Mom had done this when I was growing up. But after the 3 days were up, he would come up with some wonderful idea ( he thought) would apease me. A blank stare from me was usually my reaction with the comment " WHATEVER", BASICALLY telling him not interested .He became apauling to me as time went by. I just let him be the Jerk he was. Thanks Jill!
My oldest brother was a narcissist who I had to set boundaries on because he was so hateful to me at family gatherings and in public. I was tired of 30 years of lies, vicious innuendo, and public shaming that he pulled every time I ran into him. As a result of me avoiding him, he started telling anyone who had an association with me that I was a pedophile. I'll just leave that right there because it still pisses me off. Thankfully, no one believed him. When I confronted him about it he acted like it was the best joke ever. He didn't care. Fortunately for the world he committed suicide in 2000 at age 55. His empire of lies and BS was collapsing around him and he couldn't handle it. He is not missed.
'Lo Jill -- I share your posts on Facebook, because they are perfect weapons for my passive/aggressive defense pattern among relatives. This year I suddenly became aware a malignant narcissist played me terribly. Then I recognized some kindred spirited narcissists, and one flying monkey that I know of. A lot of depression set in, then through prayer I got out from under it. I have to examine myself, because I too can be a bit narcissistic. Thankfully I have some compassion and a conscience. I thank you for the information you have shared. You've been a big help. Les Carter has helped too.
Jill, every single thing ON POINTE!! Wishing you Happy Holidays, stay safe and healthy! Keep on doing what you do for the benefit of those of us COMING OUT OF THE FOG, by God’s grace!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
The narcissist doesn't respect my boundaries espiscally when I tell them to not go in my apartment while I'm gone they do then they steal things outta my home .
Yeah, my experience is they rarely do. I'm no expert, still learning myself, but it sounds to me like it's time to enforce them. Perhaps change your locks or get a camera and call the police next time they steal. Or break all contact. All I know is we need to decide how we enforce broken spoken boundary requests, and be prepared to follow through. Best wishes!
@@TheCanyonCritter I have called the police they side with the thieves .My sitemanager is corrupt she loves commiting crimes then pretend like she didn't know homes were being ransacked by the maintence man such bullshit she knew exactly what they were doing .
@@craig3714that sucks. I am sorry. It sounds like your only option is to move. Easier said than done I am sure. Hopefully you can start making a plan to relocate. Baby steps, 1 day at a time. You can get there.
Merry Christmas 🎄 everyone, I established boundaries by walking away and going no contact, I gave myself the gift that keeps giving, beware of these holiday hoover vacuum 🤣 .
I have never been able to establish boundaries with my narcissistic husband because he would rage punish and guilt trip me!! I am finished with him now as I can see clearly for the first time what he is! I am hoping he will discard me as I quietly move on with my life invisibly
I've seen so many of these videos that describe narcissistic behavior. Seems like that's the easy part. But where are the ones that give us help in dealing with a narc? It's easy to identify the problem, but how to deal is rarely addressed.
I just wanted to say you have such a pleasing personality and you are so beautiful thank you for all that you do I've not been there were actually affected directly by a narcissist but I've worked with one that controlled are whole work area over. Of 7 years I left that job and I suppose you still going strong, so again thank you for all that you do and happy New Year
I have a question that I'm hoping somebody can answer, my mother is extremely narcissistic and has done some horrendous things to me I've asked over and over for her to stay out of my personal life with she absolutely refuses to do and what's even worse than that she's pulling my daughter into it. Just now I got the thought that maybe the reason she's not backing off is because she knows she's hurting me by continuing on this path and she knows that my daughter is going to come back and tell me. Do you think I'm off base thinking like this? And what do I do about the situation because the pain and hurt I feel inside is just getting to be a bit much for me to cope with right now.
our human grew up in dysfunction junction and has dealt with a narc sibling all her life. now a little older and wiser, boundary setting sorts them all out. narcs and any other folk that don't have your best interests at heart. keep the big black texta handy meow
Your last video on boundaries was a CLASSIC! I must have watched it at least 30 times! Celebrating a narc-free Christmas here in London... cheers to freedom and happiness everyone! *
@@theenlightenedtarget Guilty with no boundaries. Set up boundaries now very much listenning to "crickets" Not lonely yet just lots of me time. 2 decades dealing with someones abused daughter that was abused by her mom. Two years of constant reflection. I get it the defense system that is narcissism seems to be resistant to any change unless a plot to gain more control.
I am struggling with the "Silent Treatment" vs. "No Contact". I have implemented the later, and I plant to not break it. However, if narcissists use the silent treatment as a tactic to regain a sense of control over others, does "No Contact" serve the same purpose as the "Silent Treatment"?
Just tell them: “I don’t feel guilty, shame, etc. I’m not going to nullify myself to please you!”
DO NOT engage with them AT ALL. No matter what you say they do N O T listen.
Definitely, boundaries are the basic tool we need to learn and apply to keep us safe!
The narcissist I am with gave me the silent treatment more than 4 months ago and I am fine with it. It is a relief.
This is on point. My last attempt at going back in contact. I set boundries, made them very clear to my mother. First off she did the same thing she has always done. Just looked at me. Didn't take long before the envelop was being pushed. I reminded her, again dead stair. It's very effective. It kept me in confused. It's only recently that I've learned about the narcissist term. It's all starting to make sense. The FOG is starting to lift.
Stay strong!
In my enmeshed family, I was never allowed to have boundaries. So, think you know the kinds of people that I attracted.
I said there needed to be boundaries regarding his ex girlfriend or our relationship was not going to work....his response included anger and contempt that I would expect such an unreasonable thing. Made my decision to end the relationship very clear. Was one year ago this week I drove away permanently.
My mother is a wicked covert narc. I hate visiting her. I do it out of obligation. She hates that fact that I have boundaries and would ghost me if she didn't need. My sister completely cut me off after I implemented boundaries. She's a shallow a-hole that looks at herself in the mirror all day. I am not at all missing that!! My family is full of narcs. I basically live a life of solitude and peace, far away from all of them Merry Christmas. 🎄
David Slocum - well said. I had a similar situation and I went no contact a few years ago and I decided to live in solitude and life is so peaceful. I will never look back. Thanks for sharing your story. All the best to you and continue to be strong.
One toxic friend ghosted me when I dared to say no. Another went into a combination of word salad, self pity and projection. She still is not admitting that what she does is wrong. I was low contact with her, but recently went no contact.
I am dealing with a narcissistic friend right now that I am in very low contact with. We do go to church together so it is very difficult to go no contact but there has been silent treatment and then hoovering and then silent treatment and then hoovering and then silent treatment…
Thank you. This video was excellent. It made me think of a Bible scripture that I think really applies here. At 1 Corinthians 15:33 it says, " Do not be misled. Bad associations spoil useful habits." So stay strong survivors.
Here are some different Bible versions of the same verse:
"Don't let anyone deceive you. Associating with bad people will ruin decent people."
"Do not be deceived; evil companionship corrupts good behavior."
"Be not deceived: Evil companionships corrupt good morals.
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"Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character."
Yes. That verse is very clear in every translation.
It is even more than they “hate” boundaries. They will use more than words against you. Because, now they know EXACTLY what your deepest feelings are and will use every tactic against you. Grown step son uses my boundaries to try to cause marital problems. No win situation.
Great message, Jill!🌺 I will always remember what you told me which is the best advice. “Be very careful who you allow into your life.” I’ve never forgotten that. Thanks!💕🌸🌼🌻
My boundary is now no contact...period!...that is their punishment for treating me like garbage..yep the silent treatmemt forever but in my case protection from these creatures . Thank you lovely Jill..and PS you look fantastic...💜
True,whenever,my soon to ex and his mother accuse me of being a narcissist,they try to say I'm giving them the silent treatment,I'm just like,ok well you called the police a dozen times,over the course of 15 years telling them ,I was harassing you,and your afraid of me,then you turn around and tell me to get over it,that I'm too sensitive and jealous .
I'm over it,and they are met with silence/low contact.😊Merry Christmas!
My ex mother in law is a grandmother once a year, Christmas, and she just dropped off some gifts, I spoke mostly to my children as they were playing outside, it wasn't about her, and they left very fast!!
May they bring on the silent treatment EVERY TIME !!! Its not a punishment, its a blessing 😂 Peace 😁
Nice way to see it! (From our end anyway!)
Sanchez, mine is the opposite. I've tested her more than once. First time it was while my husband and I were working full-time and my daughter was young. I waited 2 weeks. When I called her, she didn't even say hello. She said, " I thought I was going to have to call the lawyer". For those that get it. She was saying, I was going to cut you out of the will. She held that over my head for a long time. I have never been motivated by money. Other than what I could do to earn more. The last time I let her know, I could care less about that carrot.
@I Sanchez I get that too. My dad has been gone over 37 years. They divorced 5/6 years before his. Death, she hated him. Had my brother and I convinced, dad was the cause of all our trauma. He was a WWII vet. He used his GI bill to earn 2 degrees. He was a self taught artist. He did live nudes, in university, on huge sketch book. They have been in her bedroom closet since they were completed. I asked for them. Nope. My dad is in my heart. Screw her and her selfishness.
@I Sanchez They have no clue about the "love of Jesus"....they follow another jesus who is really satan in disguise.
@I Sanchez This is what Jesus will say to them and their kind at the Judgment:
"Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.
Not every one that saith unto Me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of My Father which is in heaven.
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from Me, ye workers of iniquity." Matthew 7:20-23
Merry Christmas thank you for your videos praying for you in the name of Jesus Christ
Holding everything that you post with extream gratitude and reverence.
So much appreciated.
Empath married to a covert narcissist in complete denial!
In other words a nightmare.
Merry Christmas and divine light dear ❤️.
Hi . Thank you for exposing this sick evil behavior. My son is a total narsacist. When I set boundaries w/him he flew into such a rage that I had to call the cops on him& get a order of protection against him.
The "fog" says everything! A lot is said in that 3 letter word. Thank you for all your time and efforts you put in to help others heal. Happy Holidays to you and your family ✌️❣️🌟🙏
Thankyou for sharing your message. Sometimes with setting boundaries it feels worse before it gets better but still worth it. It’s Christmas morning here and I’m spending it alone but I know I am much better off for honouring myself. They threw everyone one of those tactics at me, the flying monkeys said suit yourself and wallow in self pity then , no it’s called self respect. I’m out of the FOG! Wishing you happiness and joy for the holidays 💖✨
♥️
My ex-father-in-law, ex-spouse, ex-three girlfriends i learned are narcissists...they all used rage, gaslighting, silent treatment, shaming. I learned to ignore them all and walk away at the right time feeling good inside...the right thing to do without violence...i'm proud of my strong empathy self...i learned a lot from vid's...thank you Jill.
Never ending rage and hate , i enjoyed the silent treatment. , a break from the rage , and the conversation you never had was a favorite , but its was better than word salad
I have BPD... I’m subject to narcissists too, as I struggle with boundaries. But I’ve gotten a lot better. My meltdowns far reduced too. I’m in DBT.
Thank you the Enlightened Target, this video has been a true blessing. I am still trying to rebuild upon my own mental health. I am also awaiting an assessment for mild autism, so you can start to understand how narcissistic bullying took a huge toll on me. But I will never allow the narcissists and bullies to win.
My entire life was a series of self sabotaging choices, circumstances and mistakes that played right into the Narc's fake narrative making it seem "true" to duped onlookers. When the entire time, that wasn't who I really am, it was who the Narc manipulated me into being. ("Saintly" covert Narc mother).
My own grandmother is a narcissist,lives over sea, and is the only one in the family who talks to me, bit I realised her contact with me was a control for her son who abused me and ghosted me, last week I missed 2 calls, the 3rd she sent me a hurtful message about my 10 year old, whom she doesn't know, and I decided to ignore any more calls, she then blew up my phone like nothing before, my phone then got hacked and I had to change my number, I think that's spirit saying keep the no contact via phone.
Merry Christmas Jill sending good vibes your way
Boundaries = discard.
Yes indeed!
My Narc use to go silent for 3 days when upset with me. I actually enjoyed the silence, because he did say anything that was vallad. I just ignored because my Mom had done this when I was growing up. But after the 3 days were up, he would come up with some wonderful idea ( he thought) would apease me. A blank stare from me was usually my reaction with the comment " WHATEVER", BASICALLY telling him not interested .He became apauling to me as time went by. I just let him be the Jerk he was. Thanks Jill!
It's sad you've described my husband to a T. You're very well versed and understanding of that kind of personality.
I learned it setting boundaries the last couple of years.
It feels great.
My oldest brother was a narcissist who I had to set boundaries on because he was so hateful to me at family gatherings and in public. I was tired of 30 years of lies, vicious innuendo, and public shaming that he pulled every time I ran into him. As a result of me avoiding him, he started telling anyone who had an association with me that I was a pedophile.
I'll just leave that right there because it still pisses me off. Thankfully, no one believed him. When I confronted him about it he acted like it was the best joke ever. He didn't care.
Fortunately for the world he committed suicide in 2000 at age 55. His empire of lies and BS was collapsing around him and he couldn't handle it. He is not missed.
'Lo Jill -- I share your posts on Facebook, because they are perfect weapons for my passive/aggressive defense pattern among relatives. This year I suddenly became aware a malignant narcissist played me terribly. Then I recognized some kindred spirited narcissists, and one flying monkey that I know of. A lot of depression set in, then through prayer I got out from under it.
I have to examine myself, because I too can be a bit narcissistic. Thankfully I have some compassion and a conscience.
I thank you for the information you have shared. You've been a big help. Les Carter has helped too.
Whenever the narc used silent treatment, i do the same thing to him and i grey rock him. Be like a robot and dont engage in a conversation with him.
Look forward to your videos Jill😊🌻❤ Thank you.Happy holidays.
Jill, every single thing ON POINTE!! Wishing you Happy Holidays, stay safe and healthy! Keep on doing what you do for the benefit of those of us COMING OUT OF THE FOG, by God’s grace!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
The narcissist doesn't respect my boundaries espiscally when I tell them to not go in my apartment while I'm gone they do then they steal things outta my home .
Yeah, my experience is they rarely do. I'm no expert, still learning myself, but it sounds to me like it's time to enforce them. Perhaps change your locks or get a camera and call the police next time they steal. Or break all contact. All I know is we need to decide how we enforce broken spoken boundary requests, and be prepared to follow through. Best wishes!
@@TheCanyonCritter I have called the police they side with the thieves .My sitemanager is corrupt she loves commiting crimes then pretend like she didn't know homes were being ransacked by the maintence man such bullshit she knew exactly what they were doing .
@@craig3714that sucks. I am sorry. It sounds like your only option is to move. Easier said than done I am sure. Hopefully you can start making a plan to relocate. Baby steps, 1 day at a time. You can get there.
Hurts the silent treatment
But when they gave on carry its a blessing boundrys oooh dont they hate those they loose control
Right on target as usual this morning. Merry almost-christmas Jill. Personal experience just yesterday.
Merry Christmas
Have a safe and peaceful Christmas holiday Jill, and thank you for your wonderful videos.
Merry Christmas 🎄 everyone, I established boundaries by walking away and going no contact, I gave myself the gift that keeps giving, beware of these holiday hoover vacuum 🤣 .
Merry Christmas too..How to handle if its own mother is a narc? Kindly advice..
I like that. Give yourself the gift that keeps on giving. Go no contact.
@@donnalehman1832 😂 I'm glad you liked it, but it's true
Yes indeed! It is absolutely true! We should never forget how true that is.
I have never been able to establish boundaries with my narcissistic husband because he would rage punish and guilt trip me!! I am finished with him now as I can see clearly for the first time what he is! I am hoping he will discard me as I quietly move on with my life invisibly
Excellent video as always Jill, you are amazing. So insightful & informative😁Have a blessed Christmas 🎄
I have learned so much from this channel.
Thank You Jill for being such a life saver🙏🏼A super gorgeous one at that.
Thank you Jill for all your wisdom!
Really appreciate the reminder, thank you, Jill!🌞
Great job & big lessons!
I've seen so many of these videos that describe narcissistic behavior. Seems like that's the easy part. But where are the ones that give us help in dealing with a narc? It's easy to identify the problem, but how to deal is rarely addressed.
I didn't learn anything about establishing bounderies in this video either. :(
She has another amazing video on boundaries - look it up on her channel. Basically, boundaries are whatever YOU need. Just say NO.
She has another amazing video on boundaries - look it up on her channel. Basically, boundaries are whatever YOU need. Just say NO.
I just wanted to say you have such a pleasing personality and you are so beautiful thank you for all that you do I've not been there were actually affected directly by a narcissist but I've worked with one that controlled are whole work area over. Of 7 years I left that job and I suppose you still going strong, so again thank you for all that you do and happy New Year
Merry Christmas. Greetings from The Netherlands. Love your episodes 😍🙏⭐
Thanks.
Woow, you nailed it!
I have a question that I'm hoping somebody can answer, my mother is extremely narcissistic and has done some horrendous things to me I've asked over and over for her to stay out of my personal life with she absolutely refuses to do and what's even worse than that she's pulling my daughter into it. Just now I got the thought that maybe the reason she's not backing off is because she knows she's hurting me by continuing on this path and she knows that my daughter is going to come back and tell me. Do you think I'm off base thinking like this? And what do I do about the situation because the pain and hurt I feel inside is just getting to be a bit much for me to cope with right now.
Hi Jill, please make a video on covert narcissistic wife. Thanks
our human grew up in dysfunction junction and has dealt with a narc sibling all her life. now a little older and wiser, boundary setting sorts them all out. narcs and any other folk that don't have your best interests at heart. keep the big black texta handy meow
Your haircut is adorable!
Your last video on boundaries was a CLASSIC! I must have watched it at least 30 times!
Celebrating a narc-free Christmas here in London... cheers to freedom and happiness everyone! *
Can you do a video on Cerebral Narcissist. I have a harder time finding info that elaborates more into details on this type. Thank You.
brilliant!!
Thank u
When Marilyn Munroe sat in on last video you got 30 000 views. WOW. She popular!
😂😂😂
@@theenlightenedtarget Guilty with no boundaries. Set up boundaries now very much listenning to "crickets" Not lonely yet just lots of me time.
2 decades dealing with someones abused daughter that was abused by her mom.
Two years of constant reflection. I get it the defense system that is narcissism seems to be resistant to any change unless a plot to gain more control.
I am struggling with the "Silent Treatment" vs. "No Contact". I have implemented the later, and I plant to not break it. However, if narcissists use the silent treatment as a tactic to regain a sense of control over others, does "No Contact" serve the same purpose as the "Silent Treatment"?
irony defined - when a toxic tells you it's not all about you...
Fear Obligation Guilt
Can you help me?
Were you in the room? You were in the movie, the Book, which is made up in their head as REALITY