My guess is people like this love the attention and everyone do everything for them.. if she can’t get up and walk HOW IS SHE STILL THAT BIG???? If she can’t get it for herself than tell me who is giving her that crap to eat?? HER FAMILY!! Sooo I’d buy NOTHING BUT HEALTHY FOOD PERIOD!!!!!!!
@@Kathleennebel my grandson having to help bathe me would be enough motivation. If you’re bedridden because of cancer it’s different than a food addiction. Shameful for a child to be subjected to that.
Her daughter is set and ready to be in a similar position as her mother. The mother needs someone to motivate her to lose weight and it certainly isn't the daughter. My prayers are with this family.
Yes. They don't seem to care for boundaries. Emotional, physical... Being that big might have been her way of torturing people for her own pleasure. And depression as an excuse.
@@klarawinterain6101 Most of the participants express great shame, just like her. So, they have boundaries. But being immobile puts a dent in pride. That said, I was still shocked to see that kid there. And he's clearly troubled by it - no surprise.
@@cherylholub3100 Psychological problems hit people in different ways. Plus, it's not just that her brother was killed. It's how her mother's reaction emotionally crushed her. She was already a binger. The guilt, shame, grief and pain - of course she'd eat even more to cope.
@@basbleupeaunoire Someone can express shame without meaning it? Yeah, this scene was just sick. Normalizing it and being calm about it doesn't make it any less sick. I couldn't have filmed without intervening...
@@d.rogers5957Yeah but c,mon! She's allowed this to happen to herself. She's now ruining her families life by subjecting them to this ALL DAY EVERYDAY!!! 😡
Rest In Peace Lisa. Lisa ended up getting her surgery, and lost over 200 pounds, but she was sick otherwise (her daughter did mention cancer in this clip, but we don't know the cause of death for sure). Lisa passed away on August 23, 2018, only 6 months into the show. She was only 50 years old. At least she no more in pain, and not bedbound.
Sorry if I sound heartless but like.. come on. The grandson does not deserve that, especially the daughter. I understand things happen, but its no excuse to where the grandson literally has to waste his VALUABLE life on you. The emotional damage on those around her is just sad. Then telling your own daughter you were planning on giving up... wow. Imagine your child hearing that so casually from you.
Yeah it’s rough . My mom told me all the time she was ready to go and she gave up on life.. a week before she died she was like “ I don’t care about my life anymore I’m ready to die “ I was just graduating high school at the time.. it is rough
What a disgraceful human she is. There is no one else to blame but herself. I find her words disgusting about her daughter. And she won't stop freaking eating. She needs to put her children first.
Completely agree. Her choices are also so negatively affecting he daughter as well. Like she didn't even see she's traumatizing them the same way her mom did to her. It's messed up to blame ur problems n daily choices on things other ppl did, n then turn around n do the exact same to ur loved ones. They helped her out of love n she took advantage and messed them up too, n essentially kept doing it cus she loved ;the attention 🤦♀️🤦♀️😔😔
@@taylorbird7176 I do not think you sound heartless and I am a woman of 25 stones. I was 32 stones but I lost 7st and am getting more off because I did not want to be a burden to my family. I started to find it hard to look after myself and be independant and I think it is selfish to wallow in your own unhappiness and affect the lives of others like this lady's daughter and grandson.. I did not want my life to impact on others . I take care of myself and I continue to lose weight. It is not fair to expect others to effectively give up their own lives to care for us. You spoke sense. I agree with you.
My friend that passed earlier this year was 700+ pounds at one point. He lost weight but unfortunately was dealing with other health issues from his weight and passed. He didn't want me to see him cause he didn't want to be a burden on me when we hung out. This gives me perspective on his daily life from his size. I was really saddened by his passing and wished I could've done more to help him.
The saddest part is definitely the daughter. She’s worried about her mum, yet she is morbidly obese herself and well on her way to doing the same to her own kids. Such a vicious cycle they ALL need to break. People need to stop using the excuse of loss to excuse their addiction. I’ve felt loss and I’ll be damned if I’ll let the people that care about me go through loosing me if I can prevent it. Your reaction to ANY situation is a CHOICE. No matter what the situation, YOU and YOU ALONE are responsible for that.
Exactly. I used to be an addict n was in n out of rehabs n jail and the amount of ppl I've met, even non-addicts in jail, always had some story n someone to blame for why they r the way they r, and why they've done the stuff they've done. It's such a victim mindset and honestly infuriates me, I hate ppl like that. And I've met wayyy too many. I was an addict, I had extreme trauma as a child and yes it really messed me up, but once I was old enough to understand what happened to me, basically once I reached my 20s, I recognized that I was responsible for my own actions now. As a kid and a teen it's different, I didn't understand yet, I felt pain and whatnot and wanted to escape the memories, nightmares and constant fear n that's wat basically pushed me to alcohol then drugs. BUT then I grew up, reached an age where I became self aware, even tho I was still doing drugs I was able to recognize that I was the one doing this to myself, and that my actions and those consequences were my fault and no one else's. As an adult, we have full control over our minds, behaviors, and choices. We all experience traumas on all levels, it's tough but it's sadly a part of life. But u choose every day, to either try and get help, try to work thru ur issues so u can get better, or not to. Sitting there n basically saying ur gonna do fkd up shit or hurt urself bcus of stuff someone else did to u, is just insane. It's not an excuse. If that trauma gave u depression, its hard but u go to a psych doctor! Whatever the issue, u find the solution, and that's it. This lady just loves the constant attention n sympathy she gets, I doubt she'll ever lose the weight bcus that wud require eventually becoming independent. N her having all her kids n grandkids living with her shows just how codependent she is. Just sad🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
No matter how hard or traumatic your life may be, subjecting a child to this is shameful. NOBODY gets out of this life without pain. We all feel depressed, we all loose family members but not all of us transfer our pain to our children. It’s selfish, it’s weak, it’s absolutely horrible.
@@hugoumero9723 I could definitely see that Who knows how scarred that poor boy is like I Imagine a huge bed bound butt naked lady screaming at the top of her lungs haunts his thoughts frequently
This makes me angry, her poor daughter and grandson. If she really feels that guilty and a burden on her family then bloody do something about it and stop blaming everyone except herself for her eating. The daughter needs to lose weight too before she ends up like her mother.
Her daughter is not far off from being the same situation. When a person is so morbidly obese to get out of bed much less go to the grocery store, family members and friends should say NO to demands for fattening foods.
it's awful these children are subjected to this, it's a form of child abuse,these children will either end up the same way or have serious emotional issues, terrible
My Mom was sick when I was little. She died when I was 12. I had to bathe her, give her meds,shots. I hosed out her open abdomen surgery from a burst appendix at 7 yrs old twice a day. She would cry as I cleaned her up. It was my honor to care for her before she died. Love will always come thru.❤️🌹
You did the most honorable thing in caring for your mom at such a young age. I know that your mom was grateful and loved you so much. May God help you each and every day to continuously overcome the trauma and pain. You were so brave.🙏
The grandson should not have to see her without clothes on. It’s hard on me watching . If he is going to assist, PLEASE cover her up. Wishing her well. 🙏
It's just ridiculous that they can't get up to walk but somehow get food. The family is obviously bringing her bad food. Bring her healthy food. If she gets mad so what it's not like she can move so she has no choice but to eat it.
I think the problem with that lies in the fact that that family doesn’t even know what healthy food is. They could definitely not give her as much though
They can bring whatever food they want, just keep it under 2000 calories a day. I work at Maccies and eat their shit a few days a week (student job while in Sixth Form) yet manage to stay thinner than most because I stick to this rule. I don't even really excercise either
Notice how these caregivers are always big too. The burden of caring for a super morbidly obese person causes many of their caregivers to neglect themselves or to just eat the same foods they’re feeding the person; or just eat to self-soothe. A vicious cycle
Say what you will but Lisa was hilarious and she was nowhere near as crazy as TLC made her out to be. Lisa did actually lose weight and end up having the surgery. She died of an infection post surgery. Keep your comments kind, Lisa and her family have been through enough
This woman was thee most miserable defiant obese patient her attitude was disgusting I did not feel sorry for her and none of the other complicated rebellious patients.
Well, Dr Now gave her an opportunity to lose weight and change her life. All she did was lie and play mind games with him. Then she died in 2018. She had it coming...🤷🏽♂
It's heartbreaking what Lisa had to go through, having to rely on her daughter and grandkids to help when she's unable to do anything herself made me cry. I pray that she'll get better
Its heartbreaking that her family went thru all this pain but she didnt HAVE to suffer like that, she CHOSE to keep eating until she was immobile then kept CHOOSING food over getting better
Her daughter is dangerously getting too big Wow One would think she would learn from her mama The grandson should not be allowed around her when she's being washed, come on
I can’t imagine choosing to be a burden on my family in this way. And your relationship with food impacts the next generation’s relationship with food, as we can easily see in this video. This is generations of trauma here. This woman is traumatized by her life and she is passing on a different type of trauma to her kids and grandkids
She is not evil, copying mechanism due to trauma are a thing that need to be treated by a specialist, she is taking the first step here. @@klarawinterain6101
This is a horrible, yet very sad scene at the same time. The fact that she stayed in bed and was in pain a lot of the time just to move, I cringed at that. I can understand why Dr. Now was mad that she didn't stay on his diet plan, yet I can understand to some degree why that was. I do sympathize with her in the loss of her brother, but letting the circumstances get to you and overwhelm you is an even sadder thing. Although this is all that I've seen, I've done a little research and sadly, Lisa was dismissed from the show in her sixth month and now, she is no longer with us as she passed away at the age of 50. From what I understand, it was due to various illnesses she had prior to her appearance on My 600 Lb. Life. Although this was around 2018 or so, I sincerely hope that her family can get their lives on track so that they don't endure what she went through, it was horrible. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
My Prayer is that Lisa is finally spiritually, mentally & physically at peace and anyone who has the opportunity to hear story will learn from Her. If anyone needs Mental Health Treatment specifically PTSD, Addiction Treatment and Therapeutic Exercise please understand there is Help so Lisa’s Life won’t be in vain. 🌹
The grandson should not have to be there for the bathing. I get him helping in other ways but this is causing a different kind of drama for him. How is he going to be treated in school when the aholes that are youths as a whole get a look at this. He won't live it down and that will be more added trauma.
I'm sorry..but I'm a Grandmother and I could never do that to my Grand children!! For Pete's sake stop with the food!! And I too have a good addiction I had to learn to take control and say NO!!!! I am down to 5 lbs overweight from 65 lbs..so please stop!!!!!
Why is that poor boy having to stand there with a grown woman naked ?? This is disgusting. She acts like she enjoys every minute of it. No longer here or still here, it’s wrong.
My grandparents on both my parents side would never allow themselves to get big and obese. They stayed taking care of themselves. Poor grandchild having to care for his grandmother 👵 like that.
@@jaew.3974 ppl cope with horrendous trauma all the time and still won’t relate to this, it doesn’t mean they lack sympathy. Condescending comments won’t help them understand anything. If you really want to help anyone understand you should talk to them, not at them from a place of superiority.
@@Chefgrlangel the original comment demonstrated a severe lack of sympathy. “No matter how much trauma they’ve had in their life” Sandra said, as if trauma doesn’t affect a person’s mental health and perspective. How about YOU talk to them instead of trying to “preach” to me about my reaction. Sympathy is what these people need, not negativity or judgment. Original commenter should’ve just kept their ignorance to themselves if they didn’t want a response. Have a nice day.
The saddest part is that her family enabled this situation (disease).And the fact that those grandchildren were subjected to this,disgraceful!! And her daughter is on her way to being in the same condition. This woman was selfish and manipulative!
I always find it sad that the family who are helping, don't even notice they are extremely heavy too. And this lady, Lisa, is one of the most dishonest ones that Dr. Nowzardan has ever dealt with. and it seems to me she has no plans to stop eating.
nope, that's the definition of a sick family passing down sickness to future generations. Can't build healthy relationships and wealth if you're not healthy.
This is what my mother wants me to come home and do for her and she wants her grandson to help take care of her. I refuse to do it. My mother is very nice to other people or when she thinks people are watching but is vicious and cruel and physically violent she don't get what she wants. I live far away there was a reason why I moved far away he told me when I was a child that I was there to take care of her when she gets older. My mom is a narcissist who has borderline personality disorder you can't believe anything she says she has to be the center of attention all these engine has to be for her she screams that she's in pain when people try to put on her shoes or her socks she won't get out of bed but she'll find a way to have to sneak food she eats $500 in food a week by herself. HIT entertainment for the day is fighting and arguing with others she expects people to do everything for her. Then she tells me how horrible I am no she was a horrible parent growing up still a horrible parent highly manipulative and conniving and she has a vicious vocabulary and she will try to make you feel guilty or ashamed and makes up her own false sense of reality and past. I won't even visit because it's going to be a argument or she's going to have something planned to any something to confront other family members on her behalf. She can't even hold the phone up to her ear because it hurts.
Please continue to protect your peace and your son. Your mother is responsible for her OWN LIFE! It is narcissistic and cruel to not help oneself but demand the help of others. Please enjoy the blessings of your life and focus on doing the best for you and your son. It’s not fair that your mom is killing herself but demanding you to save her … your mom has to do the work.
We all have been through something don't let life beat you up. GET YOUR A$$ UP AND FIGHT BACK !! ALL THE SCREAMING YOU DOING SCREAM AT YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES AND PUNCH BACK!!
I’ve heard the saying take care of your kids so when they grow up they will take care of you but I never want my kids or grandkids to have to go through this. We all go through something in life and everyone has a different way of grieving. But at some point you have to learn how to deal with the pain and take care of yourself.
I felt so guilty for not being physically fit to do things with my kid. But I eventually did something about it instead of continuing making excuses. Every time I walk now I'm reminded of how painful it once was and how I'm not going back to it and that I'm grateful to walk without being in pain and go places with my kid. I wrote a list of my excuses why I couldn't do something and a solution to fix. Failed many times but got back up each time because I didn't want to accept a lesser version of myself that would cause my kid to have to take care of me earlier in life.
What I don’t understand about a lot of these, why don’t their families just NOT bring them so much food because like Doctor Now said, they aren’t getting up to the kitchen and eating themselves
A boyfriend cheated and she gain 400 pound so she cared more about man then herself, she's to emotional messed up with a damn attitude. I feel sorry for the Grandson not her.
Classic professional victim. I got an employee that has had his father code 12 times in the last 4 days and in the last two weeks was also kicked out of his house because his landlord refused to pay the mortgage...he is still at work doing what needs to be done to improve his situation. As for myself I have a mother struggling with dementia and a father in end stage renal failure. My point being we all face challenges...we get to choose whether we face them or let them kill us.
What I want to know is how can these people afford the large amount of food they consume! The young man I know has to feel some kind of way seeing his grandmother naked front and back! And the daughter not covering her up to give mom a little dignity!
What a waste of a life... nothing but excuses that pretty much everyone in life will have to deal with (losing a parent, family dying, a bad relationship, etc.) and on top of that, she’s nothing but condescending to the medical staff who are working every moment to keep her alive. It was clear from the beginning she was never going to change.
Keep those children away from her before they follow in her footsteps! Ignorance is no excuse! Her daughter needs to leave and get on with her own life!
I know how they felt,it's incredibly difficult looking after a loved one with weight problems. Least not forget sometimes it's not just eating/drinking that causes problems like this lady had. May God look after this lady and her family gain at least some solace in knowing she's not in pain anymore. Rest in peace
This is so sad when u get to the point where u can't do for yourself its time to stop My highest weight was 402 one day i had trouble tying my shoes i stopped Im down to 257 no Surgery
MAGGOTS IN HER SKIN FOLDS? 🤢🤮This woman was something else! She had an excuse for every pound she gained from the time she was a child until she was well into her adulthood, and it was always "because" of someone else! I couldn't believe all the screaming and yelling she did while her daughter and grandson cleaned her, the attitude she had as she was talking to Dr. Now on the video chat, hollering for a bowl of Froot Loops when the paramedics are already there ready to transport her, yelling and acting ugly with the paramedics from the moment they tried helping her, and the attitude she had with Dr. Now when he confronted her on NOT following the diet and gaining weight! She had such a disgusting selfish attitude! She didn't care how much she inconvenienced others and she lied every time her lips were moving! Hearing her say; "Ever since Dr. Now yelled at me about my diet, I have no motivation". What a manipulator!
Yea.. and literally I remember she was being so disrespectful to her daughter when Dr Now told her to do her diet that she said to her daughter “I’m drinking my coke, Bye 🙄” and even yelled at her to open the cap she even said “my diet hasn’t even started yet it’s only night time” and got fed up with her. She literally does not understand her own daughter is giving this opportunity for her to lose weight and to end up doing good
I want TLC to stop forcing these people to expose their naked bodies on camera for shock value. Help people if you want to help. This is just unnecessary and exploitative. People will still watch the show if this was taken out.
This is probably the saddest patient on this show. Looking at her own circumstances, she wasn't even given a chance. Losing a parent is traumatic, losing a brother especially so, but the fact that you're blamed for your brother's death due to circumstances that aren't under your control, that just tells me the home you lived in was straight up abusive. It wouldn't surprise me if her home life was terrible before her dad died, but unfortunately the only real evidence for that is how evil her mother is. Considering the bad home life, the lack of access to healthy food, the lack of mental health resources, the traumatic experiences, and everything else, it would take an act of God to turn someone around from all of that. As frustrating as it is to see the amount of drama she brings into literally everything, I can't help but think she didn't have a single chance to do better.
I'm trying hard to empathize with this woman, but she seems to love her "Victim" role. If she truly felt humiliated and ashamed, she would stop eating, give her children and grandchildren back their life and stop whining. That poor, sweet young man shouldn't be subjected to his Grandmother's nakedness and laziness.
It’s extremely sad that the grandson has to be subjected to this. This is just generational trauma developing before our eyes
I know his mom is not far off at all she should get the surgery as well
Yes and he may have a life of it with his mother one day. Very sad 😢
Beyond selfish !!! I understand addiction and I know how hard it can be but you CHOOSE NOT TO TAKE BACK YOUR CONTROL!!! that is on YOU!! My
My guess is people like this love the attention and everyone do everything for them.. if she can’t get up and walk HOW IS SHE STILL THAT BIG???? If she can’t get it for herself than tell me who is giving her that crap to eat?? HER FAMILY!! Sooo I’d buy NOTHING BUT HEALTHY FOOD PERIOD!!!!!!!
@@Kathleennebel my grandson having to help bathe me would be enough motivation. If you’re bedridden because of cancer it’s different than a food addiction. Shameful for a child to be subjected to that.
What’s sad is the daughter not looking and learning she’s getting big as well 😢😢
I hope that some good counseling is available and encouraged for the family.
The daughter need help to. Do it together!!
That's what I'm saying
Omg I said the same about the daughter
@@zoraidapadilla3515 right!!!
Her daughter is set and ready to be in a similar position as her mother. The mother needs someone to motivate her to lose weight and it certainly isn't the daughter. My prayers are with this family.
Unfortunately Lisa died in 2018. She was 50 years old
@@ladymallowyt Did she really?
@@asunahusama Yep. Look up Lisa Flemming my 600 pound life
@@ladymallowyt bruh
@@ladymallowyt awwww poor thing never got to lose her weight
As much as I have empathy for Lisa, it's rather inappropriate for her grandchild to see her naked and have to help bathe her.
Yes. They don't seem to care for boundaries. Emotional, physical... Being that big might have been her way of torturing people for her own pleasure. And depression as an excuse.
@@klarawinterain6101 I feel like you. Many people have had someone murdered and don't turn out like this. The children should go elsewhere.
@@klarawinterain6101 Most of the participants express great shame, just like her. So, they have boundaries. But being immobile puts a dent in pride. That said, I was still shocked to see that kid there. And he's clearly troubled by it - no surprise.
@@cherylholub3100 Psychological problems hit people in different ways. Plus, it's not just that her brother was killed. It's how her mother's reaction emotionally crushed her. She was already a binger. The guilt, shame, grief and pain - of course she'd eat even more to cope.
@@basbleupeaunoire Someone can express shame without meaning it? Yeah, this scene was just sick. Normalizing it and being calm about it doesn't make it any less sick. I couldn't have filmed without intervening...
When I watched this the first time my heart went out to the grandson. That poor kid shouldn't have seen all of that.
I'm grateful that I've never seen my grandma naked.
@@d.rogers5957Yeah but c,mon! She's allowed this to happen to herself. She's now ruining her families life by subjecting them to this ALL DAY EVERYDAY!!! 😡
Yes I agree; I know the feelings, I had to care for my mom and Sister, they both passed in 2020 and 2021, It is rough just praying for the family
At least he got free from caring for her six months later. R.I.P. Lisa 😢
Her grandson SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN subjected to that sight. Damn
Rest In Peace Lisa.
Lisa ended up getting her surgery, and lost over 200 pounds, but she was sick otherwise (her daughter did mention cancer in this clip, but we don't know the cause of death for sure).
Lisa passed away on August 23, 2018, only 6 months into the show.
She was only 50 years old.
At least she no more in pain, and not bedbound.
May she rest in peace 🕊️🤲🏻
The daughter is probably next
thank you for the update. rip, I believe she could do it..
R.I.P. Thank you for the update, I always wonder what happens after "My 600 Pound Life" ends.
Awwwe rest in peace Lisa just sad on so many levels 💔😢😔
Sorry if I sound heartless but like.. come on. The grandson does not deserve that, especially the daughter. I understand things happen, but its no excuse to where the grandson literally has to waste his VALUABLE life on you. The emotional damage on those around her is just sad. Then telling your own daughter you were planning on giving up... wow. Imagine your child hearing that so casually from you.
Yeah it’s rough . My mom told me all the time she was ready to go and she gave up on life.. a week before she died she was like “ I don’t care about my life anymore I’m ready to die “ I was just graduating high school at the time.. it is rough
What a disgraceful human she is. There is no one else to blame but herself. I find her words disgusting about her daughter. And she won't stop freaking eating. She needs to put her children first.
Completely agree. Her choices are also so negatively affecting he daughter as well. Like she didn't even see she's traumatizing them the same way her mom did to her. It's messed up to blame ur problems n daily choices on things other ppl did, n then turn around n do the exact same to ur loved ones. They helped her out of love n she took advantage and messed them up too, n essentially kept doing it cus she loved ;the attention 🤦♀️🤦♀️😔😔
@@taylorbird7176 I do not think you sound heartless and I am a woman of 25 stones. I was 32 stones but I lost 7st and am getting more off because I did not want to be a burden to my family. I started to find it hard to look after myself and be independant and I think it is selfish to wallow in your own unhappiness and affect the lives of others like this lady's daughter and grandson.. I did not want my life to impact on others . I take care of myself and I continue to lose weight. It is not fair to expect others to effectively give up their own lives to care for us. You spoke sense. I agree with you.
We’ll worry not, she dead and gone na
My friend that passed earlier this year was 700+ pounds at one point. He lost weight but unfortunately was dealing with other health issues from his weight and passed. He didn't want me to see him cause he didn't want to be a burden on me when we hung out. This gives me perspective on his
daily life from his size. I was really saddened by his passing and wished I could've done more to help him.
What could you have done? We all have to help ourselves.
So very sorry for your loss.
That is not your damn fault. You can’t blame yourself for someone’s mistake.
@@Angel_1983 my friend passed shortly before his 31st birthday. I was depressed for weeks.
@@Angel_1983 thank you
The saddest part is definitely the daughter. She’s worried about her mum, yet she is morbidly obese herself and well on her way to doing the same to her own kids. Such a vicious cycle they ALL need to break.
People need to stop using the excuse of loss to excuse their addiction. I’ve felt loss and I’ll be damned if I’ll let the people that care about me go through loosing me if I can prevent it. Your reaction to ANY situation is a CHOICE. No matter what the situation, YOU and YOU ALONE are responsible for that.
Poor grandson has to help as well. So sad, I hope the daughter gets herself together!
People deal with grief differently. Some get depressed, some get angry, get revenge, are happy, use drugs, alcohol etc. Deal with it!
Exactly. I used to be an addict n was in n out of rehabs n jail and the amount of ppl I've met, even non-addicts in jail, always had some story n someone to blame for why they r the way they r, and why they've done the stuff they've done. It's such a victim mindset and honestly infuriates me, I hate ppl like that. And I've met wayyy too many. I was an addict, I had extreme trauma as a child and yes it really messed me up, but once I was old enough to understand what happened to me, basically once I reached my 20s, I recognized that I was responsible for my own actions now. As a kid and a teen it's different, I didn't understand yet, I felt pain and whatnot and wanted to escape the memories, nightmares and constant fear n that's wat basically pushed me to alcohol then drugs. BUT then I grew up, reached an age where I became self aware, even tho I was still doing drugs I was able to recognize that I was the one doing this to myself, and that my actions and those consequences were my fault and no one else's. As an adult, we have full control over our minds, behaviors, and choices. We all experience traumas on all levels, it's tough but it's sadly a part of life. But u choose every day, to either try and get help, try to work thru ur issues so u can get better, or not to. Sitting there n basically saying ur gonna do fkd up shit or hurt urself bcus of stuff someone else did to u, is just insane. It's not an excuse. If that trauma gave u depression, its hard but u go to a psych doctor! Whatever the issue, u find the solution, and that's it. This lady just loves the constant attention n sympathy she gets, I doubt she'll ever lose the weight bcus that wud require eventually becoming independent. N her having all her kids n grandkids living with her shows just how codependent she is. Just sad🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Exactly! They ALL have the same excuses!
Amen
Her daughter looks like she's on her way to being in the same position.
I feel bad for her Grandson! The image of seeing his Grandmother naked is going traumatized him for the rest of his life!!
You think so? I hadn’t thought about that. Probably just normal life for him.
Planty of people see their perants and grandperants nude. I dare say not seeing them naked is wierd.
😂. I don’t recommend it.
They had no business letting him seeing her nakedness without a sheet or something
@@Musik-cs5nd it is weird asf tf you mean. He’s under age.
No matter how hard or traumatic your life may be, subjecting a child to this is shameful. NOBODY gets out of this life without pain. We all feel depressed, we all loose family members but not all of us transfer our pain to our children. It’s selfish, it’s weak, it’s absolutely horrible.
It's easy saying it's selfish it's weak when everyone has different mentalities some people handle trauma completely different
It's selfish to have children.
AMEN FOR DUCH PROFOUND TRUTHFULNESS!!!
😂I just said exactly that!😬🎭
I agree...to let it get this far
She definitely LOVES all the drama and attention. Her pulling those faces while Dr Now is talking, says everything. How selfish she is. Sad.
The grandson does not need to be present for his grandma’s bed bath 🤢
I was wonder if he grow resent from his grandmother health and became anorexic
@@hugoumero9723 I could definitely see that
Who knows how scarred that poor boy is like I Imagine a huge bed bound butt naked lady screaming at the top of her lungs haunts his thoughts frequently
How she fit bath 🛁
Extra large
Swim pool
I feel so sorry for that grandson that has to be there to see this this is unbelievable
Sad that Lisa witnessed her brother being murdered yet alone losing her mother and father. Then she passed away years later. So sad for her family
She died!!?
Wait she died recently too..?
She died??
@@kknnie Yes. in 2018
@@Kathleennebel yes, in 2018
Sadly Lisa passed away shortly after this episode aired. She managed to lose 200 lbs, but succumb to her overwhelming lymphedema.
This makes me angry, her poor daughter and grandson. If she really feels that guilty and a burden on her family then bloody do something about it and stop blaming everyone except herself for her eating. The daughter needs to lose weight too before she ends up like her mother.
5:27 it's extremely sad because look how huge the daughter is getting and the grandson can't even go outside because of this BS. I hope they get well😔
I can realate
Lisa passed away not too long ago
Why were fat people so rare in the 1800s in America (video)
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PLUS they let HIM SEE the grandmother like that getting a bath in the bed. Disgusting.
@@lollipop1316she did?!?!
Watching this lady suffer with pain makes me hurt as well. Can you imagine the pain of that much weight crushing you?
James K
Tammy 1000lb Sisters
I think she’s faking it
Her own fault.
Why hasn’t any doctor come to her rescue? So sad she hurts in the body and mind…
Her daughter is not far off from being the same situation. When a person is so morbidly obese to get out of bed much less go to the grocery store, family members and friends should say NO to demands for fattening foods.
Where is the dignity? Why is she exposed? I feel sorry for the grandson the most.
People need to see reality
Dignity ?? That’s the last thing one is focused on when they’re in that much pain & need to just get it done
I think its because when people get that fat & are limited to a bed its hard to find clothes that fit/navigate
It's awful that they have to do soo much. Watching the grandkids is very hard. Sad 😓
it's awful these children are subjected to this, it's a form of child abuse,these children will either end up the same way or have serious emotional issues, terrible
Sincere condolences to Lisa and her family. She didn't know she was going to heaven at 50. All that trauma she let us in on, I felt that.
Rolls her eyes when she gets told she’ll be on a 1200 calorie diet 😂 don’t feel sorry for her at all. Feeling sorry for the poor grandson. Ridiculous.
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This is old she has passed away. She never helped herself. may she Rest In Peace
She didn’t stick 2 the diet?
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Where'd you get that info?
She died in 2018
@@SmileG333 It was in the media
My Mom was sick when I was little. She died when I was 12. I had to bathe her, give her meds,shots. I hosed out her open abdomen surgery from a burst appendix at 7 yrs old twice a day. She would cry as I cleaned her up. It was my honor to care for her before she died. Love will always come thru.❤️🌹
You did the most honorable thing in caring for your mom at such a young age. I know that your mom was grateful and loved you so much. May God help you each and every day to continuously overcome the trauma and pain. You were so brave.🙏
The trauma
Wow
Proud of you
So sorry for ur loss, U will blessed for caring for ur mother at such a young age, & u b were very brave, may she rest in peace
The grandson should not have to see her without clothes on. It’s hard on me watching . If he is going to assist, PLEASE cover her up. Wishing her well. 🙏
agree 🙏🏽💔
I agree.
@@potatowaffle4573 feel very sad for her.
Actually she passed away 4 years ago
She’s dead lol
She died. People like this don’t care enough the seriousness of situation.
Shame on that family, that Grandson shouldn't be exposed to that type of situation.
It's just ridiculous that they can't get up to walk but somehow get food. The family is obviously bringing her bad food. Bring her healthy food. If she gets mad so what it's not like she can move so she has no choice but to eat it.
I think the problem with that lies in the fact that that family doesn’t even know what healthy food is. They could definitely not give her as much though
They can bring whatever food they want, just keep it under 2000 calories a day. I work at Maccies and eat their shit a few days a week (student job while in Sixth Form) yet manage to stay thinner than most because I stick to this rule. I don't even really excercise either
Notice how these caregivers are always big too. The burden of caring for a super morbidly obese person causes many of their caregivers to neglect themselves or to just eat the same foods they’re feeding the person; or just eat to self-soothe. A vicious cycle
Say what you will but Lisa was hilarious and she was nowhere near as crazy as TLC made her out to be. Lisa did actually lose weight and end up having the surgery. She died of an infection post surgery. Keep your comments kind, Lisa and her family have been through enough
Rest in peace. Her last years were misery.
She died? That's sad to hear.
Yes @@starb0rn
That daughter is so mature and warm hearted.
Does the daughter not realize she is heading down the same path as her mother?
That poor boy being subjected to this. I feel sorry for her but it’s not healthy for the grandson. I really hope she gets back on track
This woman was thee most miserable defiant obese patient her attitude was disgusting I did not feel sorry for her and none of the other complicated rebellious patients.
Sad when after losing a brother she commits slow suicide as well. Is that what her brother would have wanted? The poor mum.
Well, Dr Now gave her an opportunity to lose weight and change her life. All she did was lie and play mind games with him. Then she died in 2018. She had it coming...🤷🏽♂
That’s not how trauma works, generally, however. ❤️
I get that but she still lazy
@@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar So many people have lost loved ones but don't end up like this lady. I think she uses it as an excuse.
@@dingo1666 Everyone copes with trauma in different ways.
I bet the grandson and the daughter have such a difficult time watching this woman suffer and just be through so much pain. God bless this women
How is this not considered child abuse
It's heartbreaking what Lisa had to go through, having to rely on her daughter and grandkids to help when she's unable to do anything herself made me cry. I pray that she'll get better
Unfortunately she passed away a few years ago.
@@Shiva-eb3tj That's awful. May she rest in peace
This is the only heart felt and general caring come t I have read
@@mieshajohnson304 It really is heartbreaking
Its heartbreaking that her family went thru all this pain but she didnt HAVE to suffer like that, she CHOSE to keep eating until she was immobile then kept CHOOSING food over getting better
Her daughter is dangerously getting too big
Wow
One would think she would learn from her mama
The grandson should not be allowed around her when she's being washed, come on
Wow I never realized the daughter is this big I see she is not learning.she have her mother right Infront of her .
It's sad that the grandson has to see all of this😢💔
I can’t imagine choosing to be a burden on my family in this way. And your relationship with food impacts the next generation’s relationship with food, as we can easily see in this video. This is generations of trauma here. This woman is traumatized by her life and she is passing on a different type of trauma to her kids and grandkids
I think she's evil and choosing to control and torture them like this. Fresh trauma from her right onto the next generations.
She is not evil, copying mechanism due to trauma are a thing that need to be treated by a specialist, she is taking the first step here. @@klarawinterain6101
This is a horrible, yet very sad scene at the same time. The fact that she stayed in bed and was in pain a lot of the time just to move, I cringed at that. I can understand why Dr. Now was mad that she didn't stay on his diet plan, yet I can understand to some degree why that was. I do sympathize with her in the loss of her brother, but letting the circumstances get to you and overwhelm you is an even sadder thing.
Although this is all that I've seen, I've done a little research and sadly, Lisa was dismissed from the show in her sixth month and now, she is no longer with us as she passed away at the age of 50. From what I understand, it was due to various illnesses she had prior to her appearance on My 600 Lb. Life. Although this was around 2018 or so, I sincerely hope that her family can get their lives on track so that they don't endure what she went through, it was horrible. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
Hope the daughter gets the surgery to get a better life.
@@mariamacias4435 I'm with you in that
Counseling
My Prayer is that Lisa is finally spiritually, mentally & physically at peace and anyone who has the opportunity to hear story will learn from Her. If anyone needs Mental Health Treatment specifically PTSD, Addiction Treatment and Therapeutic Exercise please understand there is Help so Lisa’s Life won’t be in vain. 🌹
Danielle broke my skin, you trying to kill me, dont drop me, I just wanna get cleaned up. She doesn't sound thankful at all.
Her daughter made some empowered assertions to her mom. I hope she and the family are living happy and healthy lives now despite the family tragedy.
Talkertives
The grandson should not have to be there for the bathing. I get him helping in other ways but this is causing a different kind of drama for him. How is he going to be treated in school when the aholes that are youths as a whole get a look at this. He won't live it down and that will be more added trauma.
The daughter needs to diet before she gets like the mom .....🙏
Bless her body, her soul, bless her family
Amen
it's sad that she died in 2018
I'm sorry..but I'm a Grandmother and I could never do that to my Grand children!! For Pete's sake stop with the food!! And I too have a good addiction I had to learn to take control and say NO!!!! I am down to 5 lbs overweight from 65 lbs..so please stop!!!!!
"it's so humiliating for my daughter to have to bathe me" But she's fine with the grandson standing there watching?
Condolences to the family. Lisa had such a pretty face and a beautiful smile.
Why is that poor boy having to stand there with a grown woman naked ?? This is disgusting. She acts like she enjoys every minute of it. No longer here or still here, it’s wrong.
My grandparents on both my parents side would never allow themselves to get big and obese. They stayed taking care of themselves. Poor grandchild having to care for his grandmother 👵 like that.
Daughter heading same way...
I can't understand anybody letting their selves get like this no matter how much trauma they've had in their life
You wouldn’t be able to unless you’ve experienced and had to cope with terrible trauma. Listen and learn, maybe then you’ll understand sympathy.
@@jaew.3974 ppl cope with horrendous trauma all the time and still won’t relate to this, it doesn’t mean they lack sympathy. Condescending comments won’t help them understand anything. If you really want to help anyone understand you should talk to them, not at them from a place of superiority.
@@Chefgrlangel the original comment demonstrated a severe lack of sympathy. “No matter how much trauma they’ve had in their life” Sandra said, as if trauma doesn’t affect a person’s mental health and perspective. How about YOU talk to them instead of trying to “preach” to me about my reaction. Sympathy is what these people need, not negativity or judgment. Original commenter should’ve just kept their ignorance to themselves if they didn’t want a response. Have a nice day.
@@jaew.3974 Nahhh ... There's no excusing letting yourself become what this lady let herself become
@@Thebigdogg123 Be careful, when it’s you I bet you’ll be saying something different.
The saddest thing is that the daughter will be in same situation soon ,if she won't be serious with her health .
The saddest part is that her family enabled this situation (disease).And the fact that those grandchildren were subjected to this,disgraceful!! And her daughter is on her way to being in the same condition. This woman was selfish and manipulative!
She's still so beautiful, it hurts my heart that she is at this point, and in such pain, physically and emotionally.
lol yeah so beautiful....
Not anymore, since she is sadly deceased.
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@@zythr9999 why’s it sad? You’ve posted that more than twice thus far
@@hoosierbaddy3052 You don't know why it's sad that someone who suffered so much also died an early death?
Praying for your family & you. I've been there & RNY saved me. Dr. Now was my motivation. Keep praying & you will win TOO. Thank you Doc & Staff.
Her life has been filled with so much trauma from deaths.. it's heat breaking
I always find it sad that the family who are helping, don't even notice they are extremely heavy too. And this lady, Lisa, is one of the most dishonest ones that Dr. Nowzardan has ever dealt with. and it seems to me she has no plans to stop eating.
This is the definition of a strong family.God bless them!
Generational trauma leaves you no CHOICE!!!
nope, that's the definition of a sick family passing down sickness to future generations. Can't build healthy relationships and wealth if you're not healthy.
I love watching people lose weight and change their lives. But this show has to chill with showing them naked.
There is no reason at all to have the grandson there staring at her. What's the purpose of that? No shame. Disgusting.
This is what my mother wants me to come home and do for her and she wants her grandson to help take care of her. I refuse to do it. My mother is very nice to other people or when she thinks people are watching but is vicious and cruel and physically violent she don't get what she wants. I live far away there was a reason why I moved far away he told me when I was a child that I was there to take care of her when she gets older. My mom is a narcissist who has borderline personality disorder you can't believe anything she says she has to be the center of attention all these engine has to be for her she screams that she's in pain when people try to put on her shoes or her socks she won't get out of bed but she'll find a way to have to sneak food she eats $500 in food a week by herself. HIT entertainment for the day is fighting and arguing with others she expects people to do everything for her. Then she tells me how horrible I am no she was a horrible parent growing up still a horrible parent highly manipulative and conniving and she has a vicious vocabulary and she will try to make you feel guilty or ashamed and makes up her own false sense of reality and past. I won't even visit because it's going to be a argument or she's going to have something planned to any something to confront other family members on her behalf. She can't even hold the phone up to her ear because it hurts.
I'm sorry you had to deal with such a creature. Hope you get some peace to heal from it.
Please continue to protect your peace and your son. Your mother is responsible for her OWN LIFE! It is narcissistic and cruel to not help oneself but demand the help of others. Please enjoy the blessings of your life and focus on doing the best for you and your son. It’s not fair that your mom is killing herself but demanding you to save her … your mom has to do the work.
Don’t do it.
Your doing the right thing, you need to walk away and never go back. Take good care of yourself 💙
Sounds like my mother too but she only cares about money
I would have left. If not for myself, then for the children. No child should be growing up looking at THAT.
We all have been through something don't let life beat you up. GET YOUR A$$ UP AND FIGHT BACK !! ALL THE SCREAMING YOU DOING SCREAM AT YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES AND PUNCH BACK!!
I’ve heard the saying take care of your kids so when they grow up they will take care of you but I never want my kids or grandkids to have to go through this. We all go through something in life and everyone has a different way of grieving. But at some point you have to learn how to deal with the pain and take care of yourself.
Why is that child in the room with his naked grandma
Yea disgusting
I felt so guilty for not being physically fit to do things with my kid. But I eventually did something about it instead of continuing making excuses. Every time I walk now I'm reminded of how painful it once was and how I'm not going back to it and that I'm grateful to walk without being in pain and go places with my kid.
I wrote a list of my excuses why I couldn't do something and a solution to fix. Failed many times but got back up each time because I didn't want to accept a lesser version of myself that would cause my kid to have to take care of me earlier in life.
I'm so so proud of you
it’s crazy to me how much weight the human skeleton can uphold
It amazes me too
Well that’s the thing, clearly it couldn’t uphold her weight
What I don’t understand about a lot of these, why don’t their families just NOT bring them so much food because like Doctor Now said, they aren’t getting up to the kitchen and eating themselves
Then they wouldn’t need this show
A boyfriend cheated and she gain 400 pound so she cared more about man then herself, she's to emotional messed up with a damn attitude. I feel sorry for the Grandson not her.
Ikr
Classic professional victim. I got an employee that has had his father code 12 times in the last 4 days and in the last two weeks was also kicked out of his house because his landlord refused to pay the mortgage...he is still at work doing what needs to be done to improve his situation. As for myself I have a mother struggling with dementia and a father in end stage renal failure. My point being we all face challenges...we get to choose whether we face them or let them kill us.
Did you watch the full video. There was more tragedy and loss in her life besides a breakup with her boyfriend.
I made less noise in labor with my 1st. 27 hours, 10 pounds, 2 weeks overdue and no pain killers. She made more of a fuss in 5 minutes disgusting
That poor boy having to watch and help move her like that. Prayers for him and family.
my heart definitely goes out to the family.....
What I want to know is how can these people afford the large amount of food they consume! The young man I know has to feel some kind of way seeing his grandmother naked front and back! And the daughter not covering her up to give mom a little dignity!
This is the saddest my 600 pound life story i've ever seen . I really hope she get the help she need so she can lose weight & get healthier . ♥️
She passed away sadly
@@gupries_ no ! How you know ?
@veniagivenchy1532 She did pass away in 2018. After the episode there was a text saying in loving memory of Lisa Flemming.
What a waste of a life... nothing but excuses that pretty much everyone in life will have to deal with (losing a parent, family dying, a bad relationship, etc.) and on top of that, she’s nothing but condescending to the medical staff who are working every moment to keep her alive. It was clear from the beginning she was never going to change.
Keep those children away from her before they follow in her footsteps! Ignorance is no excuse!
Her daughter needs to leave and get on with her own life!
I know how they felt,it's incredibly difficult looking after a loved one with weight problems. Least not forget sometimes it's not just eating/drinking that causes problems like this lady had. May God look after this lady and her family gain at least some solace in knowing she's not in pain anymore. Rest in peace
Common thread with all these people: victims. Quit being victims and start being survivors and overcomers.
This is so sad when u get to the point where u can't do for yourself its time to stop My highest weight was 402 one day i had trouble tying my shoes i stopped Im down to 257 no Surgery
MAGGOTS IN HER SKIN FOLDS? 🤢🤮This woman was something else! She had an excuse for every pound she gained from the time she was a child until she was well into her adulthood, and it was always "because" of someone else! I couldn't believe all the screaming and yelling she did while her daughter and grandson cleaned her, the attitude she had as she was talking to Dr. Now on the video chat, hollering for a bowl of Froot Loops when the paramedics are already there ready to transport her, yelling and acting ugly with the paramedics from the moment they tried helping her, and the attitude she had with Dr. Now when he confronted her on NOT following the diet and gaining weight! She had such a disgusting selfish attitude! She didn't care how much she inconvenienced others and she lied every time her lips were moving! Hearing her say; "Ever since Dr. Now yelled at me about my diet, I have no motivation". What a manipulator!
Maggots???
@Jermya Griffin Yes! Dr. Now said her hygiene was so bad there were maggots in her infected skin fold!
Yea.. and literally I remember she was being so disrespectful to her daughter when Dr Now told her to do her diet that she said to her daughter “I’m drinking my coke, Bye 🙄” and even yelled at her to open the cap she even said “my diet hasn’t even started yet it’s only night time” and got fed up with her. She literally does not understand her own daughter is giving this opportunity for her to lose weight and to end up doing good
Yeah this is so disgusting
She lost the weight but passed away in 2018 they mentioned she had cancer
I want TLC to stop forcing these people to expose their naked bodies on camera for shock value. Help people if you want to help. This is just unnecessary and exploitative. People will still watch the show if this was taken out.
I hope they all consented to this if not I feel bad.-)
@@skylarthompson299 they have to sign a consent form.
@@jesussaves7849 Phew?…
I think thats just how they sit around in their homes, whether a camera is there or not.
I’m so sad for her family that she passed away but goodness she was sooo terrible!
this motivates me for my weight loss journey
Has it?
This is probably the saddest patient on this show. Looking at her own circumstances, she wasn't even given a chance. Losing a parent is traumatic, losing a brother especially so, but the fact that you're blamed for your brother's death due to circumstances that aren't under your control, that just tells me the home you lived in was straight up abusive. It wouldn't surprise me if her home life was terrible before her dad died, but unfortunately the only real evidence for that is how evil her mother is.
Considering the bad home life, the lack of access to healthy food, the lack of mental health resources, the traumatic experiences, and everything else, it would take an act of God to turn someone around from all of that. As frustrating as it is to see the amount of drama she brings into literally everything, I can't help but think she didn't have a single chance to do better.
God Bless her grandson!
The moment they start complaining about a diet I would drop them as a client because that proves they won’t care
Why would they let her just lay there, all exposed in front of the world!?
She was probably okay with it herself and it's censored so yeah
They're not exposed. The fat covers the private parts.
I can't sympathize her cries for pain because the remedy for her pain has always been completely in her control.
I'm trying hard to empathize with this woman, but she seems to love her "Victim" role. If she truly felt humiliated and ashamed, she would stop eating, give her children and grandchildren back their life and stop whining. That poor, sweet young man shouldn't be subjected to his Grandmother's nakedness and laziness.